r/Trueoffmychest HELP! My Girlfriend's a PSYCHOPATH
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- čas přidán 9. 07. 2024
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0:00 Intro
0:09 Gift
5:34 Disturbing
8:39 Prank bro
12:13 Death in the family
"Sneaky Snitch" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) License: CC By Attribution 3.0 - Komedie
honestly rslash's explanation makes sense, but the thought of some random dude having a psychic girlfriend is so funny
But how can you explain how the gf 'had a feeling' before op had a family member suddenly pass!?
@@notrom5731 true...
Hold up, I’m making an anime about it.
I don't understand why OP is complaining or creeped out. I would love to have a girlfriend that just knew what was happening in my life, what was going to happen, and preemptively supported me.
as someone dating a wiccan… having a psychic gf is absolutely funny. She won’t know things like what i’m getting her for Christmas, but she once dreamt of what she’d look like in the future and one of the things was a lip ring. she didn’t go out of her way to get a lip ring and had completely forgotten about the dream until she got snake bites, one got infected and had to be taken out, and it left the other one, which was on the same side as in the dream.
she gets excited when something comes true because “holy crap. i predicted this 10 years ago!” and its super cute
The whiplash of going from 'so empathetic to the point of psychic powers' to 'so lacking in empathy that she'd laugh at you in the hospital' is enough to erase someone's spine , good God.
Yeah that was quite the tonal shift
Based on the title, I was expecting a dark twist like her engineering accidents lmao. Didn't even occur to me that the next story would be the fucked up one
Can confirm, used a “volunteer”, and the test subject’s spine is so twisted it makes The Smiler rollercoaster look like a straight road
@@mellow3995ghgggggg😂ghhhhhhhhhh
For real. It'd be one thing if it was nervous giggling or the like, that stopped at some point. I often do it while watching horror movies when it's just obvious something is about to happen. Like focusing on a character walking and not showing the surroundings, then they 'feel' something looking a them and they turn to nothing, just to turn around to something in front of them. But nah, hysterical cry laughter is not a normal 'nervous laughter' thing outside of being in an actual life or death situation where your brain is on overdrive.
The last story had an update:
They're divorcing. Op wrote a letter to wife and she just got up and left the house, basically telling him that he's insensitive about her feelings. Wife went to stay with a co-workers house were they apparently "just talked" and cuddled". OP found text on the ipad they share, which confirmed that wife was cheating on him.
Wow, that's rough. Do you, by chance, have a link to that update?
Just taking this at face value is a huge wowza. So the wife was essentially emotionally checked out of the entire relationship, including the kids, while grieving AND cheating? Or was the grieving a front for the cheating?
I don't think anyone saw that ending that way. She's too emotional during holidays. However, she can have an affair while grieving? Doesn't make sense.
@@damitafrost4228 Well, if she keeps up the grief nonsense, the op is better off without her.
@@ColdThresher You're better off just searching the username in the video since the Tubes Of You are being buttholes about posting external links (F you very much, spam advertisers🙄).
Wow. I was thinking that something was off but...how the hell did she had time to cheat on OP while incapacitated with grief? Or maybe if OP went out with the kids on the holidays.......
The surprise party story has an update: the boyfriend had recently gotten into contact with his old college friends and invited them to the surprise party he was planning for OP. After hearing that OP was a horror movie fan the college friends suggested they pretend the boyfriend was being stabbed by a masked murderer when he walked in (which still sounds like a horrible prank). The girl was one of three college friends and volunteered to be the masked murderer. However when the time came the girl wasn’t in costume and she just…got on top of the boyfriend. The boyfriend was really confused and in shock so it wasn’t until Op walked in that he finally snapped back and pushed the girl off. After OP left the boyfriend asked to be alone but the girl followed him and at first comforted him, but then asked “so does this mean you’re single now?”turns out The girl has had a crush on the boyfriend since college and wanted to break him and OP up so that’s why she did it. The boyfriend immediately kicked the girl out and cut off contact with all his college friends. Their mutual friends all confirmed this is what happened and OP believes them. He and OP talked and decided to work on their relationship
Another comment claims there’s a further update - nope, he was cheating with her, and they broke up
@@Tbm998 I didn’t know about that update, that’s really sad to hear
@@Tbm998 I have heard this story before and the first update. But things did not make sense in my heard about the "prank" they were supposed to pull. LIke not one person said "You know, a serial killer prank is a terrible idea". A lot of little things just didn't add up to me.
@@Tbm998from what I read it wasn't cheating but rather the boyfriend failed to mention that they used to date in the past, the girl wasn't over him and decided to pull this little stunt, obviously upset at not being told this information, they broke up
Also OP said that he thought the serial killer prank would have been fun
Hey rslash, i wanted to to make a note that in the first story you read "BPD" as bi-polar disorder, when BPD stands for borderline personality disorder. It doesnt effect the story but i figured to comment anyway
Omg yall are so annoying. It's reasonable he messed it uo because people refer to BOTH as BPD. 🙄
@@jessicaparker2011 It's not like theyre sitting here cussing him out, it's literally just a polite correction.
@@jessicaparker2011They are just being nice
@@jessicaparker2011I've never in my life heard someone refer to bipolar disorder as BPD, it wouldn't make sense as bipolar isn't called "bipolar personality disorder" because it's just "bipolar disorder"
You mean affect xD
Dabney, you're doing a disservice by not going into the follow up updates. That last story was a roller coaster of sadness and betrayal. OP's wife was so bad that her kids completely stopped giving a shit about her and all of OP's attempts to get her to pick herself up ended with her cheating on him with a coworker who lied and manipulated her to get in her pants, and she didn't even care once the divorce was finally served or that she was likely going to lose her kids over it
He reads the posts way before he uploads so it's possible that he reads them before the updates come out. He could add the updates in other episodes but the comments usually handle it.
@@silly-kitty3272That's what I figure too, I saw this in BORU before I ever knew it was in this subreddit.
@@silly-kitty3272 yeah, this one was pretty recent. The Duncan update came 9 days ago.
He reads them when they're recent for him and that's about 30 days/a month before he posts about it. At least that's what I've seen when I go looking for updates
@@silly-kitty3272 I have a habit of looking up the AITA posts he covers to read the comments. They are almost always around a month old.
The last one has an update that you got to read honestly. Turns out she was emotionally cheating on him for months at that point with the guy whispering poison in her ear and when he confronted her on her grief not knowing about the cheating yet and how it’s consumed both of their lives she went stone faced left the house and then went to sleep with the guy in question. There ending with a messy divorce now
I was sympathetic to her at first but then it was revealed that she was F-[bleep] with someone name John that OP never knew of before
I was like “Your Mom would HATE you for what you done to your family”
Like her kids needed a mom and she was not there for them for 5 years 5 F[bleep] years
Hope the court don’t give her any sympathy
Her feelings do matter but so does her immediate family right now
It wasn’t the grief making her cry at the end. It was the guilt. How horrible!
I found that a bit weird initially... I mean we all go through grief differently. My dad passed away in the summer and even though we've seen it coming for a while it was NOT easy. It still feels very raw and painful to think about it, but for me it was about holding on to the things that made my life normal without forgetting to go through grief. So i was thinking "well, some cope better than others", and maybe the relationship was so strong that this person can't cope, but then the cheating? i'm sorry, i totally understand how the death of a parent can mess you up, falling out of love, having your world change and be all over the place, but that's not an excuse to cheat. Tell your partner so they can move on as well.
Came to comments to say I didnt buy the 'poor me' act and then saw your comment, thank you. Ffs, I get depression and grief but she has 3 kids giving her every reason to at least drag herself out of bed
The last story has an update. In short: Op writes a letter to his wife about how the loss of his MIL and the wife's grief are negatively affecting their family and marriage. After reading the letter, the wife gets really cold to OP and leaves the house for hours.
Of course, OP freaks out because he's worried about her and calls her a lot. Eventually, a man picks up the phone and says, "She doesn't want to talk to you."
Turns out the wife was confiding in a guy at her work, who also lost his mom, about her mom's death. Long story short, he'd been manipulating the wife into thinking that her husband doesn't care and that she'd be better off with "someone who understands her grief."
The night the wife left was the night her emotional affair with her coworker turned physical.
OP ends the post, not knowing where he's going to do from that point.
Man, I'd say take the evidence of cheating as well, and take everything she has. I get that she's depressed over her mom's death, I'm clinically manic bipolar depressed, and even I know she needs to help herself before she can get help elsewhere. And then, as a last fuck you when it's finalized, send her the link to the post and a message that says "Yeah, believe your new fuckboy that I didn't love you."
God, I hate people so fucking much.
Thank you for the update. That so sucks for OP.
Holy fuck! What an absolute bitch😂
My mom died when I was 13 but I didn’t turn into a psychopath! What backwards logic is that
I can't be the only one, who, based on the title, expected some sick twist in the psychic girlfriend story, like that she knew about his family member dying because she killed them, right?
You and me both
same here , lol
yeah i was confused until i heard the 2nd one
Yeah she would be like
Just according to plan hehe
So there's an update to that third story. The basic gist is that one of the friends of OP's boyfriend intentionally tried to sabotage their relationship and after their boyfriend realized what happened, he told her to leave and never come back.
They're back together, and all is well with their friend group.
There's an update to that update where it turned out the boyfriend used to date the girl and reconnected with her a few weeks before the party and slept with her every day up to the party. OP broke up with him and then the bf hurt himself and was in the hospital (that's where it ended)
@@kyokotakaraigod dang omg…
There is a third update though... Turns out back in college, Alecks and Anna were a couple. They started talking again and having sex every day leading up to the prank. OP left again and Alecks self-harmed and ended up in hospital. OP and his aunt packed OPs stuff and he left for good.
Um what???@@kyokotakarai
I knew about the first update but not the second update. rSlash we love updates! Please! I wanna hear your glorious voice read these wonderful updates to me!
Story #1. It is called confirmation bias. It is NOT just reading or watching only those that agree with you, or finding sympathetic views more believable.
We tend to remember the times the phone rings after thinking about a person...and forget about the HUNDREDS OR THOUSANDS of times that we think of them without the phone ringing.
My wife used to be in awe when I would bring her home a treat or gift and ask how I knew that she needed or wanted or was thinking about just that.
But there were dozens of times when I didn't. And even more times when I got her something that she was not thinking of it. But she remembered the times when it was important to her. Most "predictions" work the same way.
Yes, exactly this.
I was hoping someone would mention this. Psychology do be like that.
The only way the first OP could possibly think his caring gf is weird is for him to never have had any sort of relationship prior.
Right? I was just thinking she has a nice combination of situational awareness, empathy, anxiety, and love for op.
either that or not so great relationships beforehand
I mean, there's a couple odd coincidences in there, but not enough to really go beyond confirmation bias compared to the things that are just empathetic
@@Garnetlioness as someone who has had several abusive relationships, if I ended up with someone who was this caring and empathetic, I'd be suspicious for a short while in the beginning of the relationship
then how did she know the family member died? so weird.
My ex is a diagnosed sociopath/anti-social personality disorder, she has no concept of empathy. Even SHE doesn't laugh at torture videos, she stares at them like they're mildly interesting infomercials.
I'm in the goth & fetish subcultures & have friends that I've watched do suspension. I've watched people be (consentually) whipped bloody, and I've had razor scratches down my entire back, butt & legs.
I've mentioned all of this to say that I have seen people who derive peasure from causing or receiving pain. I have never met someone who laughs at real life torture/gore. I would be terrified of that person.
i thought in the same thing. no empathy isn't the same to "i found your pain funny"
that has to be some extreme level of sadism, because even among sadists, there are overboard
interesting comment, and I agree, Story #2 is fucking blood chilling. Eugh! I hope that lady never gets a pet.
I was so scared of the first story being the psychopath girlfriend. I'm an empathetic person as well and I have this.. feeling when something will happen, most of the time I'm right.
My step dad does to, to the point he knows when me or my mom are going to start are 🩸
Story 1: I'm pagan (but Norse pagan), and I'm getting the feeling that OP is "concerned" because of his Baptist upbringing. The fact that she took that long to bring up being a different religion than him kind of makes me think he's subconsciously letting her beliefs get to him.
Another religious freak !
I'm also a Pagan (Hellenic/Hellenistic) and that was my thought too. I do wonder if someone can be empathetic enough to cross the line into "psychic."
So you genuinely wouldn't be weirded even a bit if someone seemed to predict future? Okay.
@@chanterelle483I wouldn't be, I'd be fucking thrilled
Given everything else that happened, I disagree completely
Having someone who is borderline psychic would weird anyone out, doesn’t matter the religion
Especially with that one time she knew OP would need emotional support before the tragedy even struck
The religious difference would explain why she was hesitant to bring it up, but it has nothing to do with OP being weirded out here
The fact that you would feel like that’s a possibility says more about you and your bias than anything
First story. I need the girlfriend's number for a couple of games.
Lottery numbers _first!_
@@danielbrant6740exactly
@@danielbrant6740 I recently bought about mindfulness and meditation.
Basically, when you do it right, you can "project" yourself in the future and "see" the lottery numbers then come back to the present.
I will let you when i win 😁😁😂😂
P.S The book is called: The Silva Mind Control Method by Jose Silva.
I need the numbers to the jackpot
as someone who had a "bigtiddygothgf" long before that ever became a phrase who also had that same gift... doesnt work like that, its one of those things you can either deal with or it will drive you absolutely nuts
homie has a witch that loves him and he freaks out when she does paranormal shit. Smh.
The last story has multiple updates, she had an affair and is just plain stone cold to the husband even though he did everything right.
I seennyour comment and went to find the update and wow I don't even know what to say lol
There are more updates to the final story. Op wrote a letter to his wife begging her to get help for the sake of their children. After he read the letter, she left their house and said, “I hope when your parents dies no one tells you to get over it.” Op tried calling her but a male voice answered the phone saying she doesn’t want to talk to op. He was a coworker from her job. When she came home and after over an hour of grey walling, op checked her iPad and found John under another name think ‘Stacy’, turns out she was emotionally cheating with John, they were both badmouthing op and John was basically enabling op’s wife to not get help with her grief, and on the night they left they cheated. Op is divorcing her.
Dayyyum! Wow thanks for the update
First story: Even if her intuition is uncanny or she calls it a gift or whatever, or thinks that a Goddess has blessed her, she obviously cares about the dude. If he gets so weirded out that he can't see it, he doesn't deserve her.
Agreed. I believe is because of their different beliefs though. Baptist and pagan? Those religions don't exactly go together. The Bible goes against witchcraft so OP is probably just letting that get to him.
@@Thebelladonnabelle While I agree, I know numerous couples of varying faiths that are able to reconcile their beliefs and their love. Using faith as a shield or excuse for fear and bigotry is an ugly thing.
@@BiancaWeatherlight i agree and get what you're saying. I'm not justifying OP's reactions, just providing a possible explanation.
@@Thebelladonnabelle Fair enough
So sweet to see you defending your fellow borderline. It's HIS job to fix her crown!
Nothing says happy birthday like "let me trigger your known trauma"
Op really needs better friends and a way better S/O. I can't imagine seeing pretending to cheat as a prank, especially not knowing that the person has personal, awful experience with it.
OP dumped him after Aleks revealed that the girl is his ex from college and that he was cheating with her up until his birthday. There is already a BORU post about the story which is effing wild
@@sunshinegirl_ well damn. I thought the guy overreacted, but I guess if you're willing to joke about cheating it means you're probably fine with cheating. Sucks
Oh goodness there was a new update since I heard the last one. The first updates seemed rather hopeful. That is horrific.
Wtf is this comment section?!
Edit: Seems like the 44 duplicate comments vanished.
@@maydaymayday4225 that would be my youtube app crashing! I'll get those! edit: fixed!
Hey, in an latest update of the last story, OP's wife is actually cheated on him with a coworker, and it seems like the other guy uses his own experience of his parent died of cancer to manipulate OP's wife while she's vulnerable and now since she's manipulated enough saying about OP really didn't even care about her (WTF moment) and now she's moving to the other guy's house.
IDK if OP went to file a divorce since he didnt want to do the hassle and he's very much disappointed to her Ex-wife choosing someone who took advantage of her instead of her family.
As someone who is like the girl in the first story (and my mom is too) its just like being hyper aware of certain things and yes it feels like a gift/curse at times
Same. It runs in my family on my mom's side, I'm a 4 gen sensitive (what I call it) as far as I know, but it could go back further. It's definitely something odd. You just live with it, decide which things to listen to and which to ignore.
Story 1: She apparently knows him well enough to predict the death of family member that he didn't know about, a deer going in the road in front of him, that terrible road conditions would be fine, and that something would happen on his commute. If you can explain all of that by 'she knows him better then he knows himself' I would love to hear a detail explanation.
A psychic would know being psychic is ruining the relationship. Someone who cares about someone else and is doing things for them would not know that supporting someone is ruining the relationship. I'm going to go with what other people said and say it's confirmation bias and insecurities about the unknown based on the religious upbringing.
Some people have a gift. The thought of that is disruptive to some peoples' safe and explainable worldview. So they explain it away.
Let's press X to doubt on all that. I'd like proof. That's what the dude says. I wasn't born yesterday.
@@octosquatch. The secret to explaining the unexplainable is that nothing is unexplainable. I'm not saying that psychics don't exist, because that would be an explanation. I'm just saying they're easier ways for a psychic to get her boyfriend to break up with her.
@@ElytraNoble that would be true if she's psychic 100% of the time, and not some of the time or sporadically. I'm not saying that I personally believe that psychic abilities are real (I recognize it as a possibility, I'm just not convinced), but if it WERE really happening, why automatically assume that it happens all of the time or that she is able to control these abilities?
Most of what she was able to "predict," I feel were lucky guesses or just knowing him well like others suggested. But the only thing that does make me wonder was the whole death of the family member thing. Maybe that was a lucky guess too, but that was kinda weird, ngl. I would need more details on that event before making a call.
Story 1: Reminds me of my grandma. She has a similar gift where she just "knows" stuff. Not at the extent of OP's Girlfriend, but it is there. Rather than knowing things could happen, she just knows things are happening without anyone telling her.
Two stories: my uncle died on a car crash, apparently, per my grandpa, on that they they were just chilling and she just suddenly goes "[Uncle] has died." They got the official news a bit later.
A story of our own, we were looking to move houses. This was something private in my family. For context, she lives on a different country and we hadn't told anyone we were doing this. She suddenly calls her daughter (my mom) and goes "Hey, please do not change houses. You are good were you are for now, better than any other places that you could get." We decided to heed her advice, things got better on the house too.
My mom has more stories, but those are the ones I recall on the top of my head.
Story 2;
I have a small personal anecdote about my deceased nephew. He had a history of siezures and it changed him for the worst. One of the last times we hung out with my nephew, he showed my fiancé videos of terrorists decapitating innocent people and laughing maniacally... it really effed with my fiancé and while I didn't witness it myself, it made me actually scared of my nephew.
He ended up passing away at 24 after having a seizure in his sleep where he hit his head and wasn't found in time. As sad as I am that he passed so young, i won't lie; I am relieved because I genuinely worried he'd hurt someone. Besides the videos, he already had been charged for terroristic threats and shown worrying behavior. Those videos were the icing on the cake really.
RSLASH!! the third story actually had an update. the prank was to surprise OP, who was an avid true crime fan, of a "serial killer" in the house killing the bf, the girl was supposed to play a serial killer and it was her idea, but in reality she just wanted OP's boyfriend and changed the plans to intentionally make OP and his boyfriend break up. in the latest update, the bf cut off his friends (including the girl) and is still together with OP
Oh, well, that’s a relief that it wasn’t the boyfriend’s fault, ostensibly…
i was thinking it was a prank true crime wise as you just said but this twist shocked even me so kudos to ops boyfriend for dropping the woman and his other friends that seem to be in on such a disrespectful prank op marry your man he stepped up after realizing how the bitch was truly and for op thats a bad prank i admit it but sound like to me your boyfriend was in the dark of her true intentions but he shut it down hard so good on him
About that... the bf was sleeping with the girl. OP dumped him and left.
@@jimmyallen1969yeah, he figured out where OP went away and showed up with a lot of flowers in hands crying as an apology. After it was all explained, they're very happy together now. Turns out that group of college friends were people who the boyfriend hadn't seen in a few years and they wanted to "meet his boyfriend" as they stated. That woman changed plans last minute and after OP ran out of the house the boyfriend straight up started yelling at this woman for everything and desperately tried to contact OP.
@@AgnikoFirekingwhere did you see that? Was there an even more recent update than the one where they made up and got together again?
"She knows you she knows your tells" Something about his body must have screamed incoming deer lol
😂😂😂 yeah he just glossed right over the deer
@@QuayHollywoodor her calling after he gets hurt at work to see if he’s ok. What body language tells was he giving from across a city?
@RealCoolstriker64 Right like there's 4 walls blocking both me and you and an entire group of buildings. How the heck did she see him 😂
Realists/science types/logical people are so cute when they try to justify weird crap some of us know is real.
Last Story: I feel for the OP of this story. When I was little my grandmother died young (55) and my mom lost her mind and was in and out of psychiatric hospitals all throughout my childhood. We always had to drop everything to take care of her and make her happy and she was so use to everything revolving around her. Now I'm almost 50 and I still have to take care of her.
Story 3. Emotionally inept people don't always understand what faking a trauma trigger can do i.e. making your partner whose parents never remembered their birthday think everyone forgot their birthday before, "Surprise" later in the afternoon here's a cake and party and I even got other people who usually really forget to call or message you that makes it all good though right. Yeah, I don't know why my wife stuck with me after that, but I've worked really hard to become more emotionally aware and respectful.
Absolutely. This is emotional abuse. OP got a major red flag and I hope ultimately dumped that fool.
If the bf ever reads this (it's possible), I will say this. You should be ashamed of yourself. Same thing with those awful friends. If I was OP, I'd reevaluate who are friends and who isn't. It's not easy to start over but it will be way better for you in the end. I am gay, but this perspective is for all. Don't stay with abusers, and don't feel like that's all you can settle for.
There’s an update to the last story.
Long story short: she’s cheating.
Long story long: OP wrote a letter detailing his feelings and read it to her, she accused him of telling her to just get over it and left to stay at a male coworker’s house for the night. When she got back the next day she said they just talked bc he also lost a parent and knows how to comfort her but OP saw on her iPad that they actually slept together and agreed to tell him that they just talked if he asked.
This B don't have any ideas her own kids will not miss her because she don't want to be a mom now.
That last story gets even worse. OP decides to talk to the wife about it, she gets angry, runs away from home, won't answer his calls (making him think she did something drastic) and ends up cheating on him with a coworker.
Weaponized mental illness at its finest
I will say, I am also a Hellenistic Pagan. I know that must sound weird or coincidental, but I'm specifically a follower of Athena and Aphrodite. and maybe this sounds loaded from someone inside the religion, but sometimes you just...know shit. With Athena, it's mostly things like "I feel like this is the right way to go, and I'm not sure why, even though it's more out of my way," only to realize that something in that path better prepared you for something else. Work wise, education wise, etc. if the gf is a follower of Apollo, prophecy is his thing. People just know shit.
Maybe it's a little of both! She's empathetic and she's just a tiny bit magic too. Nothing wrong with both, right?
Ugggh. I hate athena. Worst goddess of them all. The story of arachne is my main reason for my intense dislike of her.
@@realrealwarpethey, cool man, please don't just randomly insult my goddess on a post talking about a relationship I have with her? It's weird tbh
Exactly! I’m also a Hellenic pagan and an Apollo devotee. 💗 This happens to me too. I just know that something’s going to happen so I warn people. Plus the pains. I usually know that my girlfriend is in pain and how to help her. It’s super helpful most of the time lol 😊
Well met and have a blessed Yule 🎄
@@realrealwarpet okay and? It’s someone’s religion that you’re shit talking. Just be respectful to other people’s beliefs. Gods can’t be judged the way people are, they’re always gray, not white or black.
Can we, as humans, all agree that after high school we should stop 'pranking' each other?
It was supposed to be a horror themed prank and OP loved horror. Problem was the "lady" set it up to try to steal OP's bf, and he was too flummoxed by the lack of slasher costume to push her off. That's why everyone was so confused at the start.
She was pretty clever on how to cause a break up and manipulate everyone to allow her to, but not enough to realize that this would NOT get her in his pants.
I think pranks should be things that make people happy or mildly confused or baffled rather than intentionally going out of ur way to make people feel negative emotions or inconvenience them
Aka pretending you didn't have enough to time to prepare dessert only to reveal you got the persons favorite ice cream or leaving a bunch of tiny dino figurines in someone's desk drawer
Can there be an exception for office pranks? Our business manager was an absolute terror who regularly insulted our female Dean of Graduate Studies. (who was an absolute delight) He left for vacation, so the Graduate Studies' Vice President was contacted and asked, "Wouldn't it be funny if..." He had no objections, except don't involve him, other than signing off for the different departments' approval and payment. When the business manager returned from vacation, his office was gone. The doorframe had been removed, drywalled over and painted to match the walls. His name has been removed from the formal glass doors at the entrance, and his name placard was gone from next to his now nonexistent door to his office. The business manager said hi to some people who pretended not to know him, then he tried to go to his nonexistent office. Only a faintly ringing phone could be heard from behind the wall... It was a good day.
@@Panthera_pardus_ 😯Impressive prank!
I know people in their 60s going to college. So never
Story 1: These “gifts” are real. OP is lucky that someone so in tune with her gift is looking out for him.
She has probably some kind of mental illness, if someone actually believes in some supernatural shit, they need help.
Thank you for commenting this. I'm Wiccan and am able to read people's energy. I am also a Reiki Practitioner. It's difficult trying to explain things like that to people who don't have open minds towards things like that.
@@blackfirephoenix3839 You are scammer*
@maagi1 Kinda hard to scam when I don't charge anything for sessions lol I learned Reiki solely to use on my loved ones.
@@blackfirephoenix3839 Why you want to hurt your loved ones by lying to them?
Like @MasteringMason said, there's an update. And it gets worse. For an entire year she's been cheating on OP with a coworker who had supposedly lost a parent or both parents as well. Supposedly (according to the wife), not physically until he wrote the letter and 'showed how much he didn't care about her'. Which, of course, was the exact opposite of what was said.
She and the AP grew close over the last year as he kept telling her how much OP didn't care about her, etc. OP found the messages where they were bashing him as well. He had to find them on an iPad that she was still logged into because she changed her phone password after f'ing the AP that night.
I feel bad for OP but even worse for the kids. This is going to be so hard for them in the future 😢
As a pagan witch also with BPD, that first story was freaky to hear for me because yes lol, it is sometimes apart of the practice to have prophetic thoughts. Sometimes tho, you’re just hyper focused on your loved ones feelings and micro expressions and you want to keep them safe. I’ve had some freaky accurate premonitions with my own intuition when it comes to my loved ones. It’s just what happens I guess haha.
As a Hellenistic Pagan myself, we ask the gods and goddesses to keep our loved ones safe and well. The girlfriend in the first story probably asked the gods and goddesses to keep her updated if anything happens to OP in any reason, and they did.
Sure dude. LMAO
I don't see a Baptist and a Pagan working long-term. Sounds like he can't accept her "talents" as the gift from God that they are (whatever name or form you give God.)
There are no gods or godesses so asking some make believe entity to do something will have zero effect.
Same. Once, I saw a picture of my mom's old high school friend and received a wave of certainty that something was wrong. Turns out he had been recently diagnosed with severe COPD and combined with his decades old diagnosis of AIDS, he wouldn't be able to attend their high school reunion and my mom was going to go up and see him.
I don't live with my parents anymore and while I know of my mom's friend, we haven't spoken about him in years. He just happened to be in an old picture of my mom and grandmother that I was looking at.
Sometimes you just get feelings like that.
Last story: OP I'm not judging you because whoever people want to admit it or not everyone has a limit on how much they can handle when it comes to having sympathy for grief, and 6 months out of the year for 5 years probably is longer than any normal person could handle. You did what you were supposed to do, your kid did what they were supposed to do, the only person left is your wife. And you can't help her if she refuses to help herself, I'm not going to judge you for being tired, especially since now the kids don't even expect anything from their mother anymore. Not even maybe it's most definitely time to give out some tough love and tell her she needs to get help, and if she still refuses then maybe it's time to focus more on you and the kids then her. And I don't want to underplay her grief but come on now.
Grief isn't a factor it's just a focus for her mental illness
I hope you have not read the update yet because in all fairness every sympathy for the wife just drops to 0, thinking her grief is more important and her husband is a good for nothing that has barely done anything for herself.
Shes obviously mentally troubled and grieving for 5 years is not a good thing. I know that was her mother but after 5 years she needs to move on, and if its affecting your kids and OP themselves, then they just need to leave and that would probably make her realize she needs help. OP has tried so many things to help their wife but it hasn't done anything.
new update says wife is a cheater
The only thing I want to know is how the gf in story one knew to be there for OP's family passing an hour before it happened? Was he talking about them possible passing any day and she just knew? Is she friends with folks who were watching them? Because that's the only part that would give me goosebumps. The rest, yeah, she just knows OP very well like all good partners should.
But it doesn't explain the car wrecks and things she spoke up before it happened and the deer in the road - though common, it was just really spot on. Not much of these can be chalked up to her knowing op well. Except for things about work but even then it's like she calls and texts at the perfect moment.
It's called coincidence. When you try enough times, you will get it right eventually. Our brains also have bias and tend to pay more attention when it's right and ignore when it's wrong. It's more common than people think
@@QuayHollywood It’s hard to explain, I get things like this all the time I was more in tune with the “ability” when I was younger, but it’s this ominous feeling. It helps me a lot with my job since I’m a trucker.
She might pay ALLOT of attention to details.
@rockerbeast666 Oh I understand the gift my aunt has her own and I've witnessed in the last week just how intense hers is. But I was saying it in a way that matches the very first comment. Being an empath doesn't explain things like deer in the road and knowing about work place accidents or a person dying before /after they happen and not being told about it.
Story 2: Honestly, I wouldn't want to be around someone that laughs and giggles at that sort of stuff. If that isn't a sign of a possible psycho, I don't know what is
story 3- what kind of prank is that?? pranks are meant to be funny, not emotional abuse. cheating isnt funny and pretending to cheat is just disgusting
Nah OP overreacted, the bf got all their friends to come over and surprise OP for their Birthday. The bf did that pranks which made them barely look like they were cheating and when the bf sees that OP didn’t like it, he immediately called the prank off and explained it wasn’t real. rather then OP talking to the bf in private about this and how he doesnt like it (like an adult would) bro just leaves and ghost his bf
@Dr_Pepping An update confirmed the bf was cheating with that girl, sooo.....
Yeah, how is pretending to cheat an idea for a prank? That's ridiculous. And the friends/family that went along with it? Nobody saw how this might backfire?? Idiots. I think he was smart to get space to plan his next move.
@@blurobin3993 Welp, I stand corrected
I would have dumped that bf and called it quits entirely. Good. Bye. And I'm a gay male. Not freaking cool. I was cheated on before. I feel for OP. I'm sorry.
bpd is not bipolar its borderline personality disorder which has different traits
I think this is the second time recently he's read bpd as bi-polar, all it takes is one Google search
This isn’t even his first time saying this when will he learn 😭
@@euclaxee honestly a little reaserch does not hurt shame really
Thats just the new name. Like Asperger's is now collectively thrown into other diagnosis known as Autism
@@buddyburrows It's not.
Last story: OP, yes I was gonna crucify you, but i given you the benefit of waiting until the end. I agree with you OP. Your wife checked out emotionally. Yes losing a loved one is extremely difficult, but 5 years afterwards, and refusal to go back into counseling if she's still grieving the loss. My honest suggestion is tell your wife to either go to counseling for her grieving or get a divorce.
OP said that she didn't want to, because she believed it won't do anything for her, to be honest i think that she is consciously staying in her grife, some people don't want to move forward and decide to get stuck in the pain, i don't know why anyone will want that, but it happens.(maybe they feel like they forgetting about their loved ones, like if they were abandoned the idea of them)
she decided to put herself above her children, just because she doesn't want to stop being sad, it's pretty selfish, even if it sounds bad of me saying it.
Don't worry. There are a couple updates, and they're definitely getting a divorce after she cheated. It turns out a coworker was poisoning her against her and let her trauma dump on him to get in her pants.
There was an update to the last story. The wife was cheating with another man.
Last Story:
Totally on OPs side. Listen, my father passed away a year ago, when I was 22 and my sister was 19.
Do we still think of him every day? Yes. Are holiday and his birthday still sad occasions? Yes.
But are we still lying depressed in bed? No.
Two weeks after his death I went back to school, because my life has to go on. And even tho I'm sad around the holidays or my graduation and my birthday, I still went out with friends and family to make happy memories with the people that are STILL ALIVE. Like the wife is forcing her children to loose their mother, because she lost hers.
It's unfair to her children and OP to stop going to therapy and to stop trying.
Life is moving on and either she moves with it, or she will drown in her own misery and make even more misery in the progress...
And in the update, she turns out to be cheating and got with her affair partner because he's basically been poisoning her mind and letting her trauma dump to him so he can get in her pants.
@@akl2k7 wtf is going on?? I feel so sorry for op...
Well said.
3rd story has 2 updates:
1st update: After OP goes to his aunt's house to stay there, aunt is very kind and helpful. OP checks his phone reluctantly and sees he's gotten hundreds of texts, chat messages, and missed calls. It was filled with frantic questions about where she was, if he was okay, and then turned to apologize for the prank ever happening, and that the prank wasn't supposed to be what he saw. The long short of it is, OP's friends, his ex-bf's college friends and his ex-bf were planning a prank from TikTok, a serial murder one where the ex-bf would be like stabbed and "blood" everywhere. The friends were confused why the girl playing as serial killer wasn't in costume or had a knife, and when OP left, they realized something wrong happened. After OP left, the ex-bf realized he screwed up and tried to chase after OP but couldn't catch up. He went back to apartment crying, the girl weirdly came into the room there the ex-bf was shouting and the girl left crying as well. Afterwards OP's and his friends reconcile and were planning a late birthday celebration minus the ex-bf and his friends. OP agreed, however the next day OP's aunt looks upset telling OP she has a visitor, the visitor is the ex-bf with a bouquet in hand and such. The ex-bf confesses that he reconnected with his college friends, wanted them included to show off OP to them and such, then the planning of the prank which matches what OP's friends said. However the girl, OP calls her Anna said she "forgot" the costume and the fake knife, the ex-bf suggested finding them but Anna was already on top of the ex-bf when OP entered. The ex-bf apologizes again and again about it. OP and the ex-bf go back to the apartment. But....
2nd (Final) Update: OP finds out that the ex-bf didn't confess everything. Anna is the ex-bf's ex-gf from before they met. And yes, the ex-bf cheated on OP with Anna up to the "surprise" prank because it got that way when they reconnected again, indicating that the ex-bf still had lingering feelings for the ex-gf. When OP wants to break up, the ex-bf desperately tries to keep the relationship but despite the ex-bf being very remorseful how it ended up that way, OP couldn't accept continuing the relationship and that he would be moving out of the apartment and such. But the ex-bf was trying to keep OP there crying, begging and such. OP escapes and returns back to his aunt's house. A friend of the ex-bf calls OP saying the ex-bf is in the hospital and unresponsive, the ex-bf tried to self-delete himself and OP is basically the closest thing to family. OP is sad that things ended up this way, doesn't know what is in store later. OP has moved out of the apartment and cleaned it up since there was so much alcohol littered around. OP informed the landlord and is moving on. OP's friends do not know what happened but OP will eventually tell them. Earlier in this update, OP mentions that Anna broke up with the ex-bf before because she didn't want long distance relationship. This caused the ex-bf to become extremely depressive with issues of self-deleting risk. OP was the "light at the end of the tunnel" that brought the ex-bf out of the depression spiral. OP later says that because of what the ex-bf did, it indicated to him that they weren't meant to stay together and why OP broke up with the ex-bf. The ex-bf is still hospitalized and final status is unknown as OP didn't mention anything further.
Its not an uncommon phenomenon for people to subconsciously pick up on things that their conscious brain can't or doesn't, so it sounds like ops gf just has a really good subconscious. Its why people can be freaked out by someone whos done absolutely nothing and then later find out they did something horrible.
For story 1: There are theories that these types of gifts are based around pattern recognition. Which can explain some of the less explainable parts of it. The subconscious picking up on things the conscious doesn't and using pattern recognition to extrapolate. It's a common trait of autism. For example I said in 2021(during a support group) that one thing that scared me about the pandemic was that the lack of medical workers could lead to med shortages. And with how the medical industry prioritizes medicine I was scared of what would happen to psych meds. Anyway do you guys know about the Adderall shortage that started in October 2022? Yeah...
First story:
To some degree, you’re right
But…there are some things that doesn’t explain
Like how she knew to take the day off for him BEFORE THE TRAGEDY EVEN STRUCK
That’s weird, and there are multiple other examples like that
Like some oddly specific warnings (the deer thing?)
This goes beyond just being able to read tells, and I’m weirded out
As a 20 year practicing Druid, yes there are times when people get premonitions about their loved ones. You hear countless stories of parents who knew their kid was hurt before the phone rings, this is the same thing just stronger. Story 1 is completely believable for me.
Same
Samesies
No.
I sometimes get premonitions in dreams, they're usually just about some tame incident and not specified when. Like "mom breaks this specific glass" and then two weeks later she does. I hadn't told her about it, she's usually not clumsy.
Story 1: OP said his girlfriend is a Helenistic Pagan, so I’m guessing that her Patron God (and, given how “gifts of prophecy” usually work regarding Helenism, probable ex-boyfriend) is likely Apollo.
Story 2: She might be a psychopath, but it's much more likely that this is a trauma response. She might have been though some horrible stuff in her childhood that desensitized her and messed up her response to awful things. Either way, she should see a therapist if she doesn't have one.
I wouldn't stay around to find out.
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Story 1: The first story feels so funny as a Hellenistic pagan. My last boyfriend was very Christian/religious & he saw me going through my pagan journey & was very judgy in kind of a similar way to OP - saying that things are weird & things like that. True, GF May have a stronger connection toward divination, but you’re right that she’s probably just a good girlfriend more than anything & it feels like OP is acting weird towards knowing his gf is a Hellenistic pagan
Using someones trauma as the basis of a prank is gross. I almost drowned as a child when one of my uncles was swimming around with me on his back, he didn't know I couldn't swim and thought it would be funny to flip me off him. He stood there dumbfounded that I wasn't surfacing until my mom noticed and started screaming that I couldn't swim. I threw up so much water, while I know how to swim now I'm still super cautious and careful with water and still can't bring myself to go underwater. If someone who knows this about me decided a great prank would be to pick me up and throw me in water, that relationship is over no matter what kind it is. Thats a level if disrespect that is unforgivable.
This woman literally predicts that op is gonna have a loss in the family or predicts tha theirs a deer in the road on the way home and rslash is just like "yeah she's just really good at reading emotions"
I thought that was funny too lol. Like uh.. Rslash? That's not how being empathetic works... you don't predict fh future lol. She's a pagan though so I kind of believe it all actually happened.
There are some things that you absolutely do not prank about: death and cheating are top of the list
That 1st OP needs to bring his GF some lotto tickets.
I love the bait and switch of your intro about the psychopath to the first story. At the beginning I was certain the "psychic" girl was just stalking her boyfriend all day. Then as the story continued I was like, wait a minute.🤣
to everyone annoyed at the lack of reading updates in some of the recent videos: he records these multiple weeks in advance maybe months, i'm not sure, most of the missing updates are pretty recent so thats probably why they aren't there, they didn't exist when he recorded the video
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I've been a pastor for over 30 years now. Both in the psychology classes I had to take to get my university degrees, and in real life experience, there is a very fine line between laughter and weeping. At several funerals I have presided at, there have been people laughing hysterically (the child, the surviving spouse, the sibling). I've presided at weddings where the couple openly wept or giggled or one very memorable one (I really do not like presiding at weddings) did both and it became infectus to the entire congregation. We were all weeping, laughing, and I was just trying to hold it together to get the words out of my own mouth. This is all very normal.
as someone raised Baptist sometimes your pagan friends are psychic and that’s just their business and you just go okay and give ‘em a little hug. okay but fr in all seriousness it does sound like she’s just hyper-empathetic and aware of patterns. no wonder the poor girl has anxiety, but she seems great!
the second story was weird as hell. RSlash is right, how did OP not get outta there faster???
I wonder if the last OP can have her Pink Slipped. That would be a forced stay in a psych hospital. It may bring answers and help
Let's see how that works after she ran off with her affair partner (in the unread updates).
@@akl2k7 I didn't know there were updates
I will look for it then!
OP IN THE FIRST STORY IS WEIRDED OUT BY HIS POWERFUL GIRLFRIEND??? BRO IF I DATED SOMEONE THAT WOULD BE ABLE TO KEEP ME SAFE AND REMIND ME TO TAKE CARE OF MYSELF *AND* KNOW WHEN MY BODY IS GONNA ACT UP, I WOULD MARRY THEM IMMEDIATELY
First story: Even if she IS some sorceress, KEEP THAT GIRL!!!!!
Dabney: Dude, you're not dating a sorceress or a witch. Me: Dude, you're dating a sorceress AND a witch!!!
rSlash this is not the first time you confuse Bipolar and Borderline !! These are two different things 😭
Is OP dating the main character of life?
So first girlfriend knows him so well that she knows when he's going to cause a deer to appear in the road or a complete stranger to wreck their car? What tell is she picking up from him on that?
Story 4: you know how long it takes to get over a death? You don't get over it. You learn to hide the outward signs you are hurting. You will never get over that loss in your life.
You didn't read the updates to the guy walking in on the surprise birthday. The girl on the boyfriend was trying to break them up. All is fine now.
Story 2: Were the video’s fake? Or she thinking they are fake? What is the girls occupation? In the million to one chance she’s in Audio video, or script writing, or communications. Those people to messed up clips laugh our asses off when we notice all the pin points that a video has been faked
first time i write something under an rSlash video after hearing for years. Last story hit so much home with me, i had a clinicly depressed GF. They are not just selfdrestructing, they can destroy the partner too. She had panic attacks constantly and gave up most of her friends, blaming them. She broke off therapy multiple times, when she was inside a clinic, she convinced doctors to let her go. She had 3-5 panic attacks each day and needed hours to calm down, she didnt work, her mail was unopend and spread over the whole messy flat. Her mood swung from "i dont deserve u" to jealousy over other people in my life in minutes. After years, i was a wreck too, she did cheat on my with a guy from her deression forum, thats whats ended it for me.
First story: That woman sounds like my grandmother. She had a gift. I remember one time we were in the beach, my grandmother wanted to return to the capital the Sunday (It was Friday).
Out of nowhere, she said "kids, we are going NOW to the capital." We asked why, but she only wanted to return ASAP. (3 hours in car)
We arrived at her house at 8PM and we were all tired and a little angry, so we went to sleep. At 3:34 AM, we were trucked by one of the strongest earthquakes of all time (8 in the world ranking and 2nd in the Chilean ranking). Yeah, was the 27F.
Because my grandma felt off, we were in Santiago a few hours before the earthquake, my parents were near and everything was ok (just a big scare).... But she really had a lot of stories about premonitions and those type of things.
Video four of me wondering if Rslash should get an ADHD diagnosis
Wouldn't be suprised. Lots of content creators do.
@@reddiamond6524 Especially reddit creators
That one about the cheating prank has an update, I remember hearing the update on a different podcast
Dabney... how does empathy explain the timing of her calling off from work to comfort OP before it was known that he'd need to be comforted? Or knowing that OP would encounter a situation on the way to work? Or calling to check on OP right after he got a small cut?
ok for the first story, yes that explanation makes sense about a caring girlfriend. but how tf did she know that you'd need company because family died? She knew before OP knew, so something supernatural IS going on, it's an insane coincidence, or she is straight up stalking OP and his family
1st story.. that girl has a gift..kudos to her!
Empaths are real. My great-grandma called it "the touch"
First stories girlfriend is clairvoyant imo.
There was one or two updates on that story about the bf pranking the bf. Apparently the bf didn’t know the college friend were just gonna change the prank to make it seem like he was cheating
The OP in the Prank story had two updates. They initially got back together after OP's friends explained the whole situation and Aleks explained his side, that his college friends concocted this prank to make the surprise more fun but that Anna went rogue. But then a few days later Aleks confessed that Anna was an ex girlfriend that he wasn't completely over and when they reconnected via his old college friends, they ended up sleeping together every day up until the birthday surprise. It was only when he saw OP's face that he realized he'd messed up. OP broke up with him and fled to her aunt's house only to get a call later that Aleks had self harmed himself (past history of cutting) and was in the hospital. OP went to see him because he had no other family in the area and to get info from the doctors. She has since moved out of the apartment and is trying to get herself right before telling her friends what just happened.
I am genuinely concerned about OP’s wife. She clearly needs help. I know it’s an extreme step to take but he may want to see a lawyer about involuntary long term committal to a psychiatric hospital since she refuses to get help. With the severity of her mental health breakdowns as well as the length that may be the only way. I pray things will be okay with/for their family.
She was having an emotional affair that turned physical when OP told her how much her grief was hurting the rest of the family. She can go to hell imho
@lillylovegood2300 Yeah, Mark Narrations covered the whole story a couple of days ago. Holly crap. And the wife only went to therapy for about a year but clearly needs it.
I bet the affair partner will have enough of her trauma dumping after like a week ,and she'll come crawling back, but the door will be closed.
I mean this in the nicest way possible and to not sound like a jerk. You’ve done this in multiple vids, but BPD isn’t Bipolar Disorder. It’s Borderline Personality Disorder, which is different than Bipolar Disorder. Please differentiate for next time. Thank you
First story: Wow that girlfriends got the Shining or something. That's actually pretty awesome.
Rslash, two of these stories have major updates that are super important to the story.
Dabney how did she know about to take time off work when she didn’t know the family member passing away. I’m a skeptic but this has me going hmm
Story 1: Baby girl is a psychic. She is the real deal. Her abilities focus on the people she is close too. That is the empathetic part. Story 4: ADHD is really relevant. My mother passed 16 years ago. I (41F) go through the same thing every year. I am now getting tested for ADHD because I can have phases of crippling depression during this time of year.
Haven’t quite read the rest of the first story, but honestly it feels a lot like psychosis. Some of us get “visions” that turn out to be true occasionally, or routines. We look after the wellbeing of others close to us (in some cases)
I don't think psychosis is the word you meant to use though, that's something else.
Update for story 3; OP left to stay with their aunt. When he finally spoke to his friends they apologized and thought the prank was going to be different, they apparently thought the girl was going to pretend to be a serial killer murdering the bf (he would have been fine with that he mentions because he likes horror) but the girl didnt put the costume on or hold the fake knife. Apparently once op left the bf realized how it looked and why he reacted that way and they made up with op going back to their place. Then in a second update it got so much worse with the bf fessing up to having dated the girl back in college and they had been having an affair almost every single day for a long time. The bf only realized that he was making a huge mistake when he saw how op reacted. Op understandably broke up with him and the bf loses his shit trying to physically keep him there. (TRIGGER WARNING SELF HARM) the bf was found unresponsive after self harming his arms and he was in the hospital. OP went to see him to give them medical details. thats the end of the updates and I feel terribly Op had to have his traumas rehashed in such an awful way.
I truly hope that the guy with the psycho girlfriend keeps some self defense items on him from now on.
Anybody else waiting for the reveal on story one that the gf has cameras everywhere in OPS life or is causing the danger and accidents somehow?
There was a big update with the surprise party prank story.
After some time, OP turned his phone back on while staying with his aunt. Almost immediately people saw he was online and reached out with their frantic apologies. His BF(I forget if by the end of the update they were officially done) showed up a bit later, having tracked him through an app on his phone. The prank was originally supposed to be the “mistress” was supposed to be dressed as a serial killer and pretending to stab OP’s boyfriend. No one was in on the fake cheating angle, and that’s why the group was so quick to jump to “Oh shit” when they saw OP’s reaction. I think OP’s BF gave his reason for why he went with the fake cheating prank, but I honestly checked out after that. I didn’t care to hear his excuses for why he used what he knew was OP’s biggest fear and trauma for a prank.
"More than likely your girlfriend knows about this post" I NEARLY SPAT OUT MY DRINK LAUGHING LMAO
Am I the only one that thinks the first girlfriend is stalking her boyfriend's and her boyfriend's family on social media and pretending to have psychic powers. Having a "caring girlfriend" won't explain how she knew his relative died before he did.
That plus a healthy dose of confirmation bias was my first guess as well.
Story 1: it's not bipolar, it's bpd. It sounds like one of those movies when someone has a premonition and if they act on it, it becomes true. Is she like, clairvoyant? Ok yeah RSlash explained some of it, but how did she magically know there would be a deer in the middle of the road the next day? That has nothing to do with OP's 'tells'.
Story 2: She was laughing at WHAT? RUN. She's fucking INSANE! Torture videos and gore? HOLY SHIT!
Story 3: I don't get it. What was the prank? And why did OP react so strongly to it?
Story 4: Don't need to listen to the post to make a judgement. Major asshole. That's her MOM! Of course she's grieving! Sex can't be that common that he's angry about no sex for half a year
Ok wait it's been five years. I don't expect her to move on, but she still does have to be a parent.
That's probably honestly what attracted her to paganism/wicca.
most likely because she’s drawn to paganism
@@SteviiLove ok, I'm not religious, so I'm clueless about it, but what does paganism have to do with it? Genuine question
@@yadfud363 greek paganism is very closely connected to predictions and intuition. She could also work with the god Apollo who’s the patron of those things. I’m also a Hellenic pagan like OP’s gf. ❤️
"Story 4: Don't need to listen to the post to make a judgement. Major asshole. That's her MOM! Of course she's grieving!"
5 years non-stop while completely neglecting her own family and refusing any sort of therapy? Nah man. That is NOT normal. Even her kids are growing apathetic towards her as a mother. It's okay to grieve but at the same time you have your current life to live. And your other loved ones who care about you. And if you don't care about them for literal years - that love may drain pretty damn fast.
Story 3 has an update as well, it turns out this was a prank gone wrong. They made up after the boyfriend and friends explained how this old college friend he hasn't seen in a few years tried to change up a "horror film murder prank" into that. The boyfriend brought them a lot of flowers as an apology, cut contact with that group of college friends, and they're happy together now.
I lack empathy bc of multiple disorders, I would never even imagine laughing at videos like that, that is just absolute horrible person behavior.