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  • čas přidán 9. 07. 2024
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    0:00 Intro
    0:09 Fake break up
    2:43 Funny comment
    3:24 Won him back
    6:42 Cheater
    9:41 The ick
    11:56 Tragedy
    15:01 Ex killer
    "Sneaky Snitch" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) License: CC By Attribution 3.0
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Komentáře • 956

  • @Fred_Die
    @Fred_Die Před 3 měsíci +1235

    "the gay one could do it" had me burst out laughing for no reason

  • @TechmarineChris
    @TechmarineChris Před 3 měsíci +1338

    Greek guy here. "Dacryphilia" stems from the greek word "δάκρυ" (pronounced THA-kree) which just means "tear" so it literally means "love of tears." Just wanted to throw that out there for anyone curious about the etymology.

    • @dovahkiin6488
      @dovahkiin6488 Před 3 měsíci +60

      The more you know 🌠

    • @Tajarim88
      @Tajarim88 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Americans don't need your lofty explanations. Everything is easily understood with a few American words.

    • @errantwinds-up8uu
      @errantwinds-up8uu Před 3 měsíci +43

      I love knowing the origin of words, thank you!

    • @BrooklyKnight
      @BrooklyKnight Před 3 měsíci +73

      @@Tajarim88 literally most of English is derived from other languages and language families... but you probably can't hear me all the way up on your high horse

    • @Tajarim88
      @Tajarim88 Před 3 měsíci +18

      @@BrooklyKnight real Americans ride on EAGLES!

  • @Gravelark
    @Gravelark Před 3 měsíci +485

    This episode was lighthearted in the beginning and became darker and darker as it went on. I hope everyone in these stories were able to heal from their trauma.

    • @XnathOW
      @XnathOW Před 3 měsíci +4

      Probably not yet, these are pretty recent.

    • @bigjalapeno7061
      @bigjalapeno7061 Před 3 měsíci

      Yep

    • @cherokeeirishman9612
      @cherokeeirishman9612 Před 3 měsíci +10

      The first story was dark as hell!!!

    • @MrDoverfield
      @MrDoverfield Před 3 měsíci +7

      @@cherokeeirishman9612 yeah, the OP waiting to sleep with her crush on the off chance she breaks up with her boyfriend (reminds me of the incel best friend) and the crush and her boyfriend pulling the reverse uno card and using the OP. That was a dark story.

    • @kranberry3318
      @kranberry3318 Před 3 měsíci +7

      How is the first story lighthearted???

  • @92bagder
    @92bagder Před 3 měsíci +950

    The ex in story 5 is straight up evil. Boneing your best friend for years, killing the daughter, having kids with best friend and giving the dead daughter's name to the affair kid.

    • @Shimonotoki
      @Shimonotoki Před 3 měsíci +41

      She should try again.

    • @bigjalapeno7061
      @bigjalapeno7061 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Yea that's horrible

    • @kaykay8855
      @kaykay8855 Před 3 měsíci +42

      My only question is did the ex’s family knew because everyone on her side, except her dad, cut contact. I mean her mom obviously knew so did the ex’s mom lied to her family or did they know the truth?

    • @remylarrivee2047
      @remylarrivee2047 Před 3 měsíci

      I hope OP sues her to kingdom come for child support!! She's an evil b***h that does have a responsibility to the kids!!

    • @rinowichan
      @rinowichan Před 3 měsíci

      she is more than 5/5 assholes, she is pure malice, my god

  • @Justin_Bailey_NES
    @Justin_Bailey_NES Před 3 měsíci +458

    9:30 Rslash, part of the reason some pictures of Australia look like a nuclear bomb went off is because Britain did test nuclear bombs there for nearly a decade, starting in the early 1950s. The extent of the testing only came to light in 1993.

    • @thebladeofchaos
      @thebladeofchaos Před 3 měsíci +53

      and we still are trying to fight the veterans exposed to raditation to avoid paying them

    • @yi-hira
      @yi-hira Před 3 měsíci +17

      They fuckin wot in my country????

    • @Richard_Nickerson
      @Richard_Nickerson Před 3 měsíci +13

      Dude's acting as if pictures of the desert in Nevada or Arizona accurately portray all of America.

    • @The1stImmortal
      @The1stImmortal Před 3 měsíci +2

      They did, but frankly the lasting damage from that is mostly not easily visible these days (nor would it be likely the pictures he has seen often)

    • @Justin_Bailey_NES
      @Justin_Bailey_NES Před 3 měsíci +7

      @The1stImmortal I'd bet He's probably seen a bunch of pictures of Alice and/or Western Oz, and has unknowingly also seen the test sites. His description just prompted me to share that sad piece of history that a lot of people outside of Australia don't really know about

  • @dracko158
    @dracko158 Před 3 měsíci +486

    Story 4: Run, now. That is a massive red flag. He doesn't love you, he wants to force you into having a baby, and possibly baby-trapping you. RUN, NOW.

    • @princessmarthajandio
      @princessmarthajandio Před 3 měsíci +48

      That man is disgusting. He doesn't deserve any good woman since he can't respect her anymore than he seems to respect himself.

    • @kaylawoodbury2308
      @kaylawoodbury2308 Před 3 měsíci

      Dude had been hiding behind a mask this whole time yet so eagerly threw it off the moment op started acting "agreeable". He must have went to Red Pilled Incels Anonymous.

    • @bigjalapeno7061
      @bigjalapeno7061 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Yep

    • @erauprcwa
      @erauprcwa Před 3 měsíci

      It's not even about "baby trapping" it's a kink. He sees her as a hole to be knocked up... He doesn't care about the responsibility of the baby. It's the thrill of making one and leaving her to pick up the pieces...

  • @assassintwinat8
    @assassintwinat8 Před 3 měsíci +194

    if anyone is curious, I believe the couple in the last story were Jesse Baird and Luke Davies, 26 and 29. Jesse was a former news reporter

    • @skunkrat01
      @skunkrat01 Před 3 měsíci +18

      Yeah i recognised the story pretty quickly

    • @rosie_roo23
      @rosie_roo23 Před 3 měsíci +10

      I clocked it as soon as it began. Terrible story :(

    • @AnUmbreonNamedRaire
      @AnUmbreonNamedRaire Před 3 měsíci +16

      oh god that's in this ep? i've been seeing that in the news for weeks, really shook me up as a queer person in Australia

    • @alphaareus
      @alphaareus Před 3 měsíci +5

      Oh yeah, I recognised it immediately. It was all over the news. Gosh. It’s so horrific and tragic.

    • @ms_jj2591
      @ms_jj2591 Před 3 měsíci

      Yeah it sounds like it. Such a terrible story

  • @teaoclock9080
    @teaoclock9080 Před 3 měsíci +161

    I feel so sorry for OP in the first story. The whole thing of a male-female couple trying to bring in a gay/bi woman as a third with weird rules and generally way less rights than the original pair is way too common, to the point it has a name - unicorn hunting. It's more commonly the woman in the couple going on dating apps and listing herself as single, then down the line being like "oh by the way, I have a boyfriend/husband and he wants to date/sleep with you as well", rather that this level of deception, but it's gross either way.

  • @alexanderhenby1362
    @alexanderhenby1362 Před 3 měsíci +256

    Man, each story just got worse and worse until legit murder. Good morning to you, too Rslash

  • @Bigburton3
    @Bigburton3 Před 3 měsíci +140

    The transition from the goofy “bro my friend tricked me into slithering her clam” to the “my wife killed my daughter” stories was wild 😭

  • @ajjamsen694
    @ajjamsen694 Před 3 měsíci +153

    Tragedy story ; wow, OP's ex is the worst person. She wasn't getting 'better by leaps and bounds' cause when you're healthy mentally, you don't cheat for over 4 years, don't treat your spouse the way she treated OP, don't abandon your children or flake on your own daughter funeral, the daughter SHE killed and use that kids name on her redo baby. The 'progress' she made was a facade and doesn't deserve to be happy while OP tries to pick up the pieces ON TOP OF TAKING CARE OF HER KIDS! I really hope OP finds peace one day and understands that his kid is dead because of *her* , not him. He's a good person, she is human trash and that's an insult to human trash.

  • @krumnut
    @krumnut Před 3 měsíci +46

    That last one has had so much media coverage in Australia that I immediately knew it was about Jesse and Luke. He also murdered them just before Mardi Gras which then sparked an argument about even letting the police officers march at pride considering the murderer was a police officer, despite the marching officers being part of the LGBT community themselves. The whole incident was so tragic and I hope the perpetrator rots.

    • @skunkrat01
      @skunkrat01 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Yep, same

    • @planeoldsimp272
      @planeoldsimp272 Před 2 měsíci

      Qantas named their aircraft in the name of the murdered flight attentant for Mardi Gras. Honestly I truly believe that cops need a monthly mental health check by force

  • @d.phantomfan1216
    @d.phantomfan1216 Před 3 měsíci +409

    Story 2: who the hell told you you needed to feel guilty for not being sexy while recovering from childbirth and postpartum while taking care of a newborn? I get people have left and desires but f*** that guy, his wife recovering from having a baby is not an excuse to cheat no matter what, and it's not your fault you were in the state to be at his beck and booty call.
    If you want to be Petty and make him miss you when you leave his ass that's fine with me. At the end of the day this is 100% his fault.

    • @Simipourfangirl
      @Simipourfangirl Před 3 měsíci +1

      Umm are we sure we listened to the same first story?

    • @SweetLala25
      @SweetLala25 Před 3 měsíci +32

      @@Simipourfangirl I think they meant story 2.

    • @Nerobyrne
      @Nerobyrne Před 3 měsíci +25

      Yeah there are so many ways they could have solved this that didn't involve cheating

    • @d.phantomfan1216
      @d.phantomfan1216 Před 3 měsíci +9

      ​@@SweetLala25 I was just fixed it.

    • @zephyrshadow7816
      @zephyrshadow7816 Před 3 měsíci +33

      yeah was surprised she thought anyone would blame her she just proved how shallow he was part of having a life partner is riding the ups and the downs which also means not riding his up when she isn't down. will never understand how people get their lusts and loves mixed up.

  • @cricketwastaken
    @cricketwastaken Před 3 měsíci +1246

    daylights saving is really getting rslash rn

    • @fnvfan0145
      @fnvfan0145 Před 3 měsíci +107

      Daylight Savings Time be kicking the arselash 😂

    • @skatardrummer1
      @skatardrummer1 Před 3 měsíci +19

      Not every state observes DST. I don't know if he's in one of those states

    • @meganfenton4189
      @meganfenton4189 Před 3 měsíci +19

      Funny thing, the podcast was posted at the normal time!

    • @MadameMeowth
      @MadameMeowth Před 3 měsíci +39

      I don't know if China observes Daylight Savings time, so he probably just posts when he thinks it is his normal post time.

    • @errantwinds-up8uu
      @errantwinds-up8uu Před 3 měsíci +22

      He's probably just messed up the time because he's in China, I think.

  • @tenshinewman1468
    @tenshinewman1468 Před 3 měsíci +233

    that first story is insane. everyone is insane.. it doesn’t even feel real 😭😭 oh my GOD

    • @seabass819
      @seabass819 Před 3 měsíci +8

      it probably isn't.

    • @Nerobyrne
      @Nerobyrne Před 3 měsíci +41

      Hey don't cry OPs ex might be in the comments 😂

    • @srose1088
      @srose1088 Před 3 měsíci

      I remember years ago I was dating this guy who got a boner when I cried sometimes, and it creeped me out. I was so blissfully ignorant back then.

    • @TK--cv1uz
      @TK--cv1uz Před 3 měsíci +1

      On what do you base that? ​@seabass819

    • @seabass819
      @seabass819 Před 3 měsíci +4

      @@TK--cv1uz the fact that it's a reddit story. I never completely believe the stories told there. I'm sure there's at least a little truth to it, but I'm also sure it's greatly exaggerated.

  • @mitchverr9330
    @mitchverr9330 Před 3 měsíci +289

    story 1: In some countries, that can potentially fall under sexual assault, lying to get consent is considered to not be informed consent and thus, arguably, sexual assault. that is exactly what OPs friend did to her. Laughing really isnt appropriate in this case tbh.

    • @e.vasileva5891
      @e.vasileva5891 Před 3 měsíci +4

      In which country would this be sexual assault?

    • @etcetera1995
      @etcetera1995 Před 3 měsíci +23

      @@e.vasileva5891 I'm pretty sure the US?

    • @nationalinstituteofcheese3012
      @nationalinstituteofcheese3012 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@e.vasileva5891They lied to get her to preform sexual activity. Would OP have done it if she knew they didn’t break up?

    • @mitchverr9330
      @mitchverr9330 Před 3 měsíci

      @@e.vasileva5891 The UK? Its not clear cut as its mostly case law, which is why I said potentially fall under it, other common law nations likely have similar grey areas on this subject.
      EG lying about using a condom is clear as rape for example, or lying about gender (mostly this 1 covers women pretending to be men to hook up with straight women).
      Would OP have had sexual relations with her friend knowing she was still in a relationship? No, thus...
      (edit: In the uk at least its being considered to make it a crime to lie to get sex, as it is a grey area currently even)

    • @Milk-ck1wv
      @Milk-ck1wv Před 3 měsíci +28

      That makes sense honestly just like a hesitant yes isn't a consensual yes especially if peer pressured

  • @Ahrpigi
    @Ahrpigi Před 3 měsíci +24

    9:05 "Australia has snow?" Most people also associate Arizona with deserts, but places there also get snow! The wonders of altitude.

    • @Wendy_O._Koopa
      @Wendy_O._Koopa Před 3 měsíci +1

      Also, Arizona has no ocean nearby to keep the temperature stable. When I was over there, we'd literally chip ice off our windshields in the morning before driving to work; and it'd be like a hundred degrees (38°C) by noon.

    • @FluorescentPhnix1
      @FluorescentPhnix1 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@Wendy_O._Koopa lol yeah, we like to joke that when you move here you get thinner blood to adapt to the temperature moods swings.

  • @kaimagnus5760
    @kaimagnus5760 Před 3 měsíci +41

    Australia has every possible biome on earth on one content. Which is part of the reason why it has such a unique collection animal and plant life.

    • @Starfloofle
      @Starfloofle Před 3 měsíci +1

      I wonder if it's nice down there in the cold places. Sounds like it would avert a bunch of the nastiness I hear about australia. Besides, you know, the government, of course.

    • @JamesDavy2009
      @JamesDavy2009 Před 3 měsíci

      @@Starfloofle The Great Dividing Range in the southern half of New South Wales and into Victoria gets snow during the winter.

  • @d.phantomfan1216
    @d.phantomfan1216 Před 3 měsíci +83

    Story 4: yeah why is she still with him? This guy basically just wants a sex doll that can clean his house and make him feel like the big man whenever a woman out of his League rejection him. He has zero respect or even decency for you, you even admitted you don't love him anymore what's keeping you with him?

  • @hmspretender
    @hmspretender Před 3 měsíci +22

    That final story, as soon as OP mentioned that her friend had a boyfriend I immediately thought of that case. Phillip DeFranco covered that story, tragic, my heart goes out to their families and friends.

  • @KellyDVance
    @KellyDVance Před 3 měsíci +58

    2nd Story: OP should feel zero guilt. HE chose to cheat. HE chose to not communicate. HE chose to brake his vows.
    I just hope OP kept at the evidence.
    Edit: He was upset she wasn't screwing his brains out multiple times a week? When they had a new born? Holy carp Fishman! OP was exhausted and physically recovering. Depending on if the delivery was vaginal or C-section, she may not have been cleared for sex for a while. I wasn't for 6 months after my C-section.
    OP's husband is trash with the self-control nature gave an alley cat.

    • @thelingguy
      @thelingguy Před 3 měsíci +1

      OP never specified whether he communicated his unhappiness or not, not to mention, saying to your partner. "hey, we're not fucking enough." isn't exactly a thing most women are receptive to hearing/discussing.
      "What I neglected was sex, 4-5 times a week and being sexy and sensual around him" I read that as "I neglected sex. What I did to win him back was sex 4-5 times a week and being sexy."
      In response to it being a question specifically of what she did to win him back.
      It's not a stretch at all to say they were at 0 times a week for months. (And being medically cleared for sex or not. physical intimacy is an important part of a marriage or relationship, not JUST sex.)
      Also worth noting that OP was more than willing to do everything her husband was wanting to get revenge.
      But not willing to do all of that to keep her husband happy/keep their marriage. Honestly the more I think about the story the more I think OP blew up the relationship.
      But I hate dying on this hill, because cheating still isn't the answer.

    • @Dragonemperess
      @Dragonemperess Před 3 měsíci +2

      Hey! Don't make alley cats look bad! 😂

    • @KellyDVance
      @KellyDVance Před 3 měsíci +19

      @@thelingguy since she had to find out by snooping what was wrong with the relationship, I'd say he failed to communicate. If he wasn't happy in the marriage, he should have initiated a divorce. Or, you know, talk to OP. He was wrong, 100%.

    • @KellyDVance
      @KellyDVance Před 3 měsíci +4

      @@Dragonemperess only in the matter of self-control. I've adopted several alley cats. Sweet little menaces they were too.

    • @SinnerHyuuga19
      @SinnerHyuuga19 Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@KellyDVancenah, what it tells me is that snooping around made her realize how important it was for him, it seems she knew full well how to keep him she just did not care until it was made out of maliciousness, both are AH dont get me wrong but people have to stop siding with neglecful manipulative people just cause they a woman

  • @femkefeenstra7754
    @femkefeenstra7754 Před 3 měsíci +50

    Story 4: I was really REALLY hoping OP had a plan to trick her partner when she decided to get along with everything he threw at her. Because it would most likely mean she would have a safe way out of this relationship. Now it doesn't seem like she has, and I feel like she has gotten in way too deep now. She can leave, which she should, but he will come after her. This is the kind of guy that is likely to commit femic**e because his wife breathed the wrong way. Make sure you're safe girl, this is very VERY dangerous!

    • @Artretha
      @Artretha Před 3 měsíci

      That was definitely the vibe I got from this. That guy is likely abusive, since all he wants is a submissive maid and baby-making factory. I hope she is able to make an exit strategy.

  • @silverflight01
    @silverflight01 Před 3 měsíci +46

    Story 6: This is the worst possible outcome of a break-up. One of the two remains obsessed, stalks the other, and it culminates in murder of both the other person and who they are dating.
    Worse still, this particular murderer doesn't even want the bodies recovered, he literally showed the most dangerous example of "If I can't have [Person or item], then nobody can." I hope he never touches a single atom outside of prison

    • @artcasual99
      @artcasual99 Před 3 měsíci +5

      I'm pretty sure I know what the story is, I can't remember what country it's from, but the best friend was apparently some famous news reporter or something, and a huge gay rights activist, and the cop who killed him and his boyfriend wasn't really confirmed to have been in a relationship with the victim, just having an "emotional connection" with him, meaning either he was an ex boyfriend, or was just some random dude who was obsessed with him.
      So either OP is lying about knowing the victim, or he's telling the truth and he's confirming that the killer was an ex boyfriend. OR STILL, what happened to OP's friend is a separate murder case and it's a huge coincidence that it's so similar to what happened to that famous dude.

    • @myopinion69420
      @myopinion69420 Před 3 měsíci

      @@artcasual99 I'm pretty sure it was the recent murder of Jesse Baird and Luke Davies in Australia. the bodies have since been been found (the murderer ended up cooperating with police).
      the story is wild. I have no idea how he ever thought he would get away with it, particularly being a cop. he left SO MANY trails behind him. he tried to clean the apartment, but left so much. he threw bloody clothing and stuff in the apartment buildings dumpster where anybody could find it, he hired a van to dispose of the bodies, he TOOK SOMEONE WITH HIM to do it (they did not know there were bodies in the van) he went back and moved the bodies, he washed the van at a friends house after getting back, its like at every opportunity he had, he wanted to make sure he got someone else involved.

    • @buzz2547
      @buzz2547 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@artcasual99 it happened in Sydney Australia in February I think cuz it was a few weeks before mardi gras

    • @artcasual99
      @artcasual99 Před 3 měsíci

      @@buzz2547 Thank you. I was trying to remember what country it was in, but I couldn't remember.

  • @TheDarwinProject1
    @TheDarwinProject1 Před 3 měsíci +114

    In "The Ick", OP needs to run from that "manosphere" plagued garbage of a "man"!!

    • @condorboss3339
      @condorboss3339 Před 3 měsíci +13

      I suspect she intends to dump him spectaculary with huge side order or humiliation.

    • @LeoArctica
      @LeoArctica Před 3 měsíci

      I don’t think this “thing” could be considered a man. He’s a sleezeball

  • @BennyLlama
    @BennyLlama Před 3 měsíci +39

    RSlash losing it over snow in Australia is hilarious 😂

  • @chasgordon4872
    @chasgordon4872 Před 3 měsíci +23

    For reference everyone the Australian alpine region gets more snowfall per year than the Swiss Alps but Australia also has year round tropical zones, desert and yes places where it’s so hot they live underground it’s Coober Pedy and is colloquially known as the Opal capital of the world

    • @Tustin2121
      @Tustin2121 Před 3 měsíci +1

      This makes it sound like a Pokémon region than any real life place, lol.

    • @Starfloofle
      @Starfloofle Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@Tustin2121 Australia is too powerful for modern pokemon to handle.

  • @skunkrat01
    @skunkrat01 Před 3 měsíci +10

    That last story was instantly recognisable to me, and most other Aussies I'd wager.
    Silver lining is that the bodies have now been recovered. It's not much, but it is the best possible outcome, given the circumstances. Rip Luke and Jesse

  • @itsybitsybosmer
    @itsybitsybosmer Před 3 měsíci +40

    Regarding Australia and snow: Australia has mountains which get a fair amount of snow in the winter, which I didn't know until a show I liked did a "Christmas in July" episode.

    • @leonardofusaro6029
      @leonardofusaro6029 Před 3 měsíci +1

      bluey !?

    • @asmith8692
      @asmith8692 Před 3 měsíci

      My grandfather was born in the Snowy River region.

    • @itsybitsybosmer
      @itsybitsybosmer Před 3 měsíci +5

      @@leonardofusaro6029 Miss Fisher

    • @alexn5743
      @alexn5743 Před 3 měsíci

      ​​@@itsybitsybosmer I was about to ask if it was Ms Fisher.
      Side note, I work in mining, so for me that episode was incredibly messed up.

  • @kingcrash5360
    @kingcrash5360 Před 3 měsíci +44

    When I hear about Australia, it's either because of the bulletproof birds or because the whole place is on fire.

    • @chaosstripe9446
      @chaosstripe9446 Před 3 měsíci +6

      Don't forget your pet dinner plate sized spiders

    • @LeleiTheTigress
      @LeleiTheTigress Před 3 měsíci +4

      ​@@chaosstripe9446 Or that they lost a war to oversized turkeys

    • @HexisVonSpade
      @HexisVonSpade Před 3 měsíci +3

      that is indeed the bulletproof birds 🤣@@LeleiTheTigress australia has some of the best stories when it comes to wars against wildlife

  • @EfrenDNa
    @EfrenDNa Před 3 měsíci +16

    Story 1: The whole thing is ridiculously sad. I hope she finds peace and happiness away from those horrible people.
    Story 2: To the husband: dude, have you met your hands? Also, there is something called patience. You could have used it.
    Story 3: Unknowingly being the other woman is so sad. I'm torn with the mum. L Husband and for waiting to tell her L mum.
    Story 4: L Husband. Get out.
    Story 5: That father needs to be protected. That monster needs to rot in jail. My condolences for his loss❤.
    Story 6: I am speechless...my condolences op

  • @TiffWaffles
    @TiffWaffles Před 3 měsíci +11

    My heart bleeds for OP in the second to last story. I can't even begin to imagine how he feels with the loss of his little girl. OP's ex had a lot of opportunity to talk to him about the issues that led to her suicide attempt but she didn't. She also missed the funeral of her daughter and completely ghosted OP and their children. I feel terrible for the children she has with her new husband/former affair partner. She's a terrible human being and unless she got help with her mental health and took responsibility for what she did, she's going to continue being a terrible mother.
    Then the last story came and... OP's words just shattered me. I can't imagine the overwhelming heartache they are experiencing with the murder of somebody so dear to them and I sincerely hope that the friend and his boyfriend's bodies are recovered so that they are given the dignity of a funeral. OP and those around them that knew these two people best deserve to have closure.
    Stalker cases are the worst because law enforcement often doesn't take it seriously, but I can imagine that this would have been worse since the person doing the stalking was a member of law enforcement as well.

  • @TheKitsuneOnihane
    @TheKitsuneOnihane Před 3 měsíci +22

    That second story was marvelous. Build him up, break him down. She shouldn't feel bad about how she "neglected the husband." She laid it clear. He chose to do what he did when she was bettering herself.

  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar Před 3 měsíci +105

    Second story: playing doormat and pleaser to make the AP go away before divorce was a genius move. Now he gets none of the two women. Bravo, OP.

    • @Wendy_O._Koopa
      @Wendy_O._Koopa Před 3 měsíci +11

      That woman is the ultimate Chad.

    • @YourXavier
      @YourXavier Před 3 měsíci +4

      It's a pretty baller move.

    • @spydersoup8447
      @spydersoup8447 Před 3 měsíci

      Honestly, that move taught me the real reason why a lot of cheaters exist, it's really because their current partner is not their ideal woman, but instead of ending the relationship and move on to someone else, he decided to cheat on someone more ideal because apparently that's a way better alternative?

  • @potato-rp2bf
    @potato-rp2bf Před 3 měsíci +10

    Story one: I’m not kink shaming, I’m kink asking why

    • @Yurothehotot
      @Yurothehotot Před 3 měsíci

      I mean why does anything arouse anyone? It's not really something you decide it's something you experience. Arousal is not based on logic, though I do supposed you could be aroused BY logic~

  • @maieen2665
    @maieen2665 Před 3 měsíci +15

    *First OP:* What happened to OP was messed up, but her story telling made me (and rSlash, apparently) laugh. Especially the part about her aunt's funeral. To quote a YTer, "I can't say it's funny, but I have to say it's kinda funny." Best of luck to OP in her new city.
    *Second OP:* Shoutout to OP playing the long game. If her stbx wasn't happy about their love life, he could've communicated that to OP. But instead, he cheated, so I have no sympathy for him. Best of luck to OP and her baby.
    *Third OP:* rSlash is asking the important questions. 😛 I didn't know it snowed in Australia, either. As for OP, whether she decides to stay with her husband or leave, I think those two need to have a talk.
    *Fourth OP:* Between the first story and this, it sounds like Deleted is having a hard time in the romance department. /j I think it's safe to assume that OP's husband gave most people the ick. I hope OP divorces him.
    *Fifth OP:* Poor OP. I hope karma gets his ex and his childhood "friend." I hope things work out for OP and his current girlfriend.
    *Sixth OP:* Holy cow. I hope the ex rots in prison (preferrably _under_ the prison).

  • @BradDiBenedetto
    @BradDiBenedetto Před 3 měsíci +263

    Rslash going the wrong direction with the upload times

    • @legenddarkrai
      @legenddarkrai Před 3 měsíci +22

      I was SO confused for a second because of it lol

    • @mothbone_studio
      @mothbone_studio Před 3 měsíci +20

      it got removed because of the topic, he just had to get it reuploaded. the videos been up on spotify this whole time

    • @David-cz9ej
      @David-cz9ej Před 3 měsíci +2

      ​@@mothbone_studio is there something different in the Spotify episode?

    • @73crows
      @73crows Před 3 měsíci +3

      @@David-cz9ejnope, just doesn’t drain battery as much as CZcams

    • @wowgek7
      @wowgek7 Před 3 měsíci +2

      in some regions daylight saving time already staretd in other regions not yet

  • @silverflight01
    @silverflight01 Před 3 měsíci +24

    Forwards another hour, I see.
    Story 3: Man, that's gotta suck for OP. She thought she was dating a good person who cared about his parents, but instead he was cheating with her and just up and ghosted his past life. I wish MIL came forward with this sooner, but at least OP knows now

  • @hollywally9331
    @hollywally9331 Před 3 měsíci +96

    2nd story. Heck yes. Screw that guy. Postpartum? What a jerk.

  • @justicedunham4088
    @justicedunham4088 Před 3 měsíci +5

    The mother intentionally crashed her car, resulting in a child’s death, and isn’t rotting in prison for manslaughter?

    • @cyanideburns2744
      @cyanideburns2744 Před 3 měsíci +2

      The "daughter" was a foetus, not a child yet. It's not (and shouldn't be) a crime to end your own pregnancy.

  • @AtotehZ
    @AtotehZ Před 3 měsíci +19

    "While she started a new life" wtf? Is murder not illegal where she's from? She murdered a kid and tried to kill herself as well. She should be in prison for decades.

    • @mariposa9506
      @mariposa9506 Před 3 měsíci

      I wondered the same.

    • @inesderossi1580
      @inesderossi1580 Před 3 měsíci +6

      She probably wasn't found fit for trial cause of the depression

    • @BirgitProfessional
      @BirgitProfessional Před 3 měsíci +8

      From what the post says, she tried to end herself when she was 4 months pregnant, so I don't think the daughter was born yet.

    • @cyanideburns2744
      @cyanideburns2744 Před 3 měsíci

      Foetus' aren't people yet though? I think the only time killing a foetus is considered a crime is when someone else intentionally ends your pregnancy against your wishes. Unless you live somewhere awful like america where they consider abortion murder, obviously.

  • @XerXens
    @XerXens Před 3 měsíci +10

    5:20
    Story 2: Any loyal partner would stay by your side and not seek another person when you're going through tough times. Op's husband is a pos and he knowingly cheated while op just gave birth, glad she dumped him
    Story 5 and 6 took a waaay darker turn from the previous stories. Jesus christ.

  • @_Fizel_
    @_Fizel_ Před 3 měsíci +5

    Final story has a somewhat happy update: The bodies have been found. He did finally admit it.

  • @HobieInTheBox
    @HobieInTheBox Před 3 měsíci +9

    Story 1: This is actually so disgusting.

  • @JacobWilson-nu5qh
    @JacobWilson-nu5qh Před 3 měsíci +3

    As an Australian, I find Dabney's rant hilarious. Yes Dabney, there is snow in some areas of Australia. During Mebourne's Winter, it gets hella cold sometimes

  • @gengar618
    @gengar618 Před 3 měsíci +36

    I despise the modern decision to not “kink shaming” people. Some kinks SHOULD be shamed for what they’re into!

    • @mariposa9506
      @mariposa9506 Před 3 měsíci +5

      A thousand times yes!

    • @Wendy_O._Koopa
      @Wendy_O._Koopa Před 3 měsíci +15

      I mean, I'm not shaming her for being "in to" crying... "Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone" and all that. I'm shaming her for being an objectively bad person, and manipulating her own friend like that. Also, I'm pretty sure sex under false pretenses counts as assault, so there's _so_ much to judge her for aside from some antiquated prudishness.

    • @transsnack
      @transsnack Před 3 měsíci

      There are genuinely better things to shame her for, her kinks don't even come close to the... rest of all that. And while there are kinks worth shaming (for example, crushing kinks that involve living creatures), most of them are just blasé, you know? Like... so long as it doesn't (unconsensually) cause harm to another person or being, what does it really matter? She's into crying, which is odd, but it doesn't actually hurt anyone.

    • @gengar618
      @gengar618 Před 3 měsíci

      @@Wendy_O._Koopa Shut up, nerd.

    • @gengar618
      @gengar618 Před 3 měsíci

      @@Wendy_O._Koopa I never said a single thing about sin, nor are my wants “antiquated”. There are things that turn people on that are not normal, and are weird. And you know what? The lack of “kink shaming” has led us into a world where people parade around in BDSM gear and sick freaks bring their children to watch. The word normal means something.

  • @alezot6141
    @alezot6141 Před 3 měsíci +4

    For story #5, OP mention that the ex was 4-months pregnant when she crashed and killer her daughter.
    I know it's morbid, but the child not being yet born when it happened may be the reason she wasn't tried for murder. Edit: If I misunderstood the story, let me know.

  • @Silverx721
    @Silverx721 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Hey rSlash, the last story is something that happened recently and is also in Australia. I recognised it the moment the story mentioned everyone was male, and then you confirmed it with the comments saying the killer was a cop. The victim was a famous TV presenter as well... It's a heartbreaking story, and I hope the friend is able to process their grief in peace...

  • @shadowmewfred09
    @shadowmewfred09 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Fun fact the Australian alps can receive more snow on average then Switzerland so that's why a majority of Australian resorts are located in the alps. Also want a laugh look up lake disappointment (yes it's a real place)

  • @wiaf8937
    @wiaf8937 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Story6 is something else. First it gave me goosebumps, but then at the reveal it makes me need to lay down and process. Holy fucking shit, if op ever reads thios, i wish i could just be an ear to you or w/e is in my ability to help you cope. i can not start to express, goddamn

  • @klocugh12
    @klocugh12 Před 3 měsíci +12

    Story 1: they are probably causing onion shortages all over the place.

  • @Rpcj-151
    @Rpcj-151 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Hey rslash! So, I’m an Aussie and here’s a couple fact about Australia. 1) Australia is big. Bigger than most people realise, and bigger than the continental US! 6th largest country in the world. Cause of that, we have all the land biomes, tropics in the north, snow in the blue mountains and other places, and the ok desert in the middle!
    2) Australia has one of the biggest exports of camels in the world!
    3) yes, we do in fact ride kangaroos to school. Although the cool kids ride emus. Nah yeah!

  • @katejenkins9925
    @katejenkins9925 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Australia is huge so different regions have different climates.
    I'm originally from Tasmania, an island closest to the south pole, where there is snow on the mountains every winter and it is cold most days of the year. I've now moved to Queensland where the climate is very tropical. Storms and constantly hot.

  • @scootwinch
    @scootwinch Před 3 měsíci +14

    Rslash confirmed time traveler?

  • @JLab2841
    @JLab2841 Před 3 měsíci +3

    So for the first story, all I could think was "cry me a river". I'll show myself the door

    • @Dragonemperess
      @Dragonemperess Před 3 měsíci +2

      Her favorite song to use for passionate hugging.

  • @Tradie_Luva
    @Tradie_Luva Před 3 měsíci +2

    The last story was from Sydney the Ex Boyfriend who killed them was a Police Officer and had used his Police issued gun to kill the the couple on the 19/2/2024 the friend OP was talking about was a TV Presenter which is why he moved to Sydney which is when he met his new boyfriend who was a Flight Attendant for Qantas...
    Police Statement:
    The bodies of missing Sydney couple Jesse Baird and Luke Davies have been discovered by police on the 27/2/204 on a property outside Goulburn, two hours south of Sydney. Family members of Baird and Davies arrived at the property just before 7pm and were greeted by plain-clothes police officers.
    It was a totally shocking murder case which shocked all of Australia. Jesse's EX was a Influencer before he became a Police Officer and was a Senior Constable at the time of his arrest.

  • @canisXpolaris
    @canisXpolaris Před 3 měsíci +1

    Been dabbling in other r/ readers.
    You are by far the best. I love the tone of your voice, I love how I can feel the pain, anger, humor, happiness, and love in the stories you read. You are a wonderful human being, please stay you

  • @Jennifer_MB
    @Jennifer_MB Před 3 měsíci +17

    😂 try to put them an hour back and put them an hour ahead? Love you Dabney!

  • @papabear1333
    @papabear1333 Před 3 měsíci +19

    Story 1: the title just woke me up 😳😂🤣😂🤣

  • @Noooooone
    @Noooooone Před 3 měsíci +2

    Man, you can literally hear RSlash choke up reading the title of the tragedy story

  • @bubblepop3063
    @bubblepop3063 Před 3 měsíci +1

    australian here! The country is quite large, everything in the center is fairly dry and desert but the coasts get enough rain and such to be cooler than that. What everyone also seems to forget is that if you trace a map south from Australia, you literally hit Antarctica. New Zealand, our neighbour to the south east, and Tasmania, our most southern state, get quite cold.

  • @astoron8398
    @astoron8398 Před 3 měsíci +3

    went form "thats kinda fucked up" to "holy shit"

  • @Misscouchpotato-
    @Misscouchpotato- Před 3 měsíci +6

    I DID NOT KNOW PEOPLE COULD BE ATTRACTED TO TEARS-

    • @PWR_Jesper88Ros
      @PWR_Jesper88Ros Před 3 měsíci

      People can be attracted to anything😅

    • @Misscouchpotato-
      @Misscouchpotato- Před 3 měsíci

      @@PWR_Jesper88Ros LOL I guess so 😅

    • @transsnack
      @transsnack Před 3 měsíci

      Not even the weirdest kink I've heard of, tbh.

  • @LiahariEren
    @LiahariEren Před 3 měsíci +2

    Australian here! Yes we do get snow, but only in the south. States like Tasmania and Victoria have some snowy mountains. They're also the colder states because they're so much closer to Antartica. And yes! People in Alice Springs live I Central Australia and it's a hot af desert so they build underground (near Uluru, big ass rock and famous landmark). And most of the north is tropical because it's close to the equator- north Queensland (pointy bit on the right and the coast the Great Barrier Reef exists on is the more well known tropics. Plenty of rainforests up there.

  • @amazehub3644
    @amazehub3644 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I love how all the Aussies woke up and are watching him now looking at all the new comments

  • @JamilKhan-xu9fo
    @JamilKhan-xu9fo Před 3 měsíci +5

    Australia is like a dessert but it has a lot of snowy mountains. Im Australian btw

    • @skunkrat01
      @skunkrat01 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Psst, bro you misspelled desert as dessert. Fellow Aussie, got your back

  • @Mapache095
    @Mapache095 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Story 1- THE AUDACITY OF YHAT COUPLE! That’s so messed up!

  • @alexpapworth9395
    @alexpapworth9395 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Think of Australia as a self contained multi biome. Mountains, deserts, snow, rainforests, canyons, swamps.

  • @marurei143
    @marurei143 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I'm not 100% sure this is the couple mentioned in the story, but there is a former police officer charged with the murder of his ex and his ex's new partner here in australia.
    "New South Wales police officer Beaumont Lamarre-Condon, 28, was taken into custody Friday morning, according to CNN, and charged with murdering Jesse Baird, 26, and Luke Davies, 29. "
    The man was a very beloved TV host and a lot of people miss him. Please remember his story.

  • @emie7275
    @emie7275 Před 3 měsíci +40

    y'all stop being mean 😭

  • @liacedeno4382
    @liacedeno4382 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Damn posting at 10 am? I miss listening to rlash while sitting drinking my coffee and eating my bagel before class. Can we go back to the 8am upload plz😭

    • @2435Bits
      @2435Bits Před 3 měsíci +5

      It's *possible* his time is thrown off because of him being in China. My best guess.

    • @andiiw3196
      @andiiw3196 Před 3 měsíci

      It was my routine to drop my step daughter off at school, then listen to rslash on the ride home. 🤣🤣 now, I'm home before the video drops

  • @danielblewitt6038
    @danielblewitt6038 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Australian Snow Resorts: 'We technically exist'
    (Speaking as someone who grew up going to Falls Creek in VIC haha)

  • @buggiebugster
    @buggiebugster Před 3 měsíci +1

    RSlash, Australia is huge, if you use the true size map, it is almost the same size as the USA. We have a range of different weather conditions here, including extreme drought, extreme flooding, and we have some of the worst UV rays in the world, no matter the temperature, you will get sun burnt. The further inland you go, the less habitable it is, you’ll find most of those desert like scenes you’ll find are from further inland.
    So basically, since Australia is so big, we have multiple different climate zones, have a look at an Australian climate map!

  • @marvelpovs2412
    @marvelpovs2412 Před 3 měsíci +28

    My dude. It’s 11am. I was a little meh about 10am but you’re going in the wrong direction 😂

    • @silver7knight389
      @silver7knight389 Před 3 měsíci

      4 PM for me, can't complain

    • @jill37
      @jill37 Před 3 měsíci +8

      Yeah I've been feeling a bit like an entitled Karen for being annoyed at free content being "late" but 🤷‍♀️ rslash knows his audience.

    • @rykkihart5966
      @rykkihart5966 Před 3 měsíci +2

      10 AM for me, and I'm not happy since it's throwing me off my podcast schedule lol 😂 I usually catch it 8 AM after I've dropped my kids at school and start cleaning for the day 😅

    • @SiegfriedoExMachina
      @SiegfriedoExMachina Před 3 měsíci +2

      Daylight saving's effect probably

    • @transsnack
      @transsnack Před 3 měsíci +1

      Chill y'all, at least he's producing videos, he could easily just stop.

  • @chibiquil
    @chibiquil Před 3 měsíci +7

    I got worried. Rslash normally uploaded 8am mountain time, suddenly uploading at 9am. 😅 What is the chaos of time now??

    • @HaloEchoe419
      @HaloEchoe419 Před 3 měsíci +6

      He used to upload at 6 am pst right around the time I wake up, it was nice listening to him while preparing for the day 😭

    • @chibiquil
      @chibiquil Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@HaloEchoe419 it was normally 7am for me, 8am after Daylights Savings, so this 9am video was weird. I also listen to him to start my day, it's part of my morning routine and has been for years 😊

    • @JustMakayla865
      @JustMakayla865 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Me too 😂 I remember when I used to listen to him right when I woke up and cuddle my dogs before I start my day

  • @MsJuno
    @MsJuno Před 3 měsíci +1

    RSlash casually forgetting that Australia is a continent, as well as the worlds sixth largest country.

  • @TsukiKageTora
    @TsukiKageTora Před 3 měsíci +1

    Story 1: It’s amazing that the friend didn’t explain to her boyfriend that OP already had feelings for her when he said there were no feelings. Like this girl is using her boyfriend and OP

    • @cyanideburns2744
      @cyanideburns2744 Před 3 měsíci

      She said she "had the hots for her", not necessarily romantic feels.

  • @featherflight8446
    @featherflight8446 Před 3 měsíci +6

    I’ve honestly never heard of a crying fetish, but it’s still not the weirdest or most disgusting one out there. Also, tricking someone into doing a sexual act really isn’t funny.

    • @eurynomegalaxy410
      @eurynomegalaxy410 Před 3 měsíci +3

      He laughed due to surprise and discomfort. It's a habit he had for years now.
      He doesnt mean to be disrespectful meaning he had a genuine reaction for us to hear

  • @Dog_in_tree
    @Dog_in_tree Před 3 měsíci +32

    Uploading at 11 now?

  • @sakilynn
    @sakilynn Před 3 měsíci +2

    No one should ever feel guilty because their partner CHOSE to cheat instead of actually talking about their feelings. One should be making sure their partner feels comfortable and supported after giving birth.

  • @Laylabelle97
    @Laylabelle97 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I'm a lesbian who goes on tinder a lot. So many people say they're looking for a unicorn or they're polyamorous and I always swipe left. I'm monogamous and I don't want to just be a fuck buddy.
    I would be so fucking pissed if someone tricked me like OP in the first story.

  • @yarraidalg
    @yarraidalg Před 3 měsíci +4

    i'm not american and my country doesn't do daylight savings so i was genuinely worried when i didn't see my usual 5pm rslash vid
    whew

  • @asherbones761
    @asherbones761 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Jesus...
    These stories are starting to become too much. Rslash used to focus on the wholesome, silly stories. Now its damn-near a true crime podcast.
    Like- Nothing AGAINST that, but I'm starting to kind of worry about Rslash's mental health here. These kinds of stories can ruin a person.

  • @paigewebster4429
    @paigewebster4429 Před 3 měsíci +1

    The Australian town is 'Coober Pedy' and is located in the middle(ish) of Aus where its super hot. The snowfields are on the east(ish) coast and south. They only get snow in winter (mostly). It's a big country so there's a lot of different climates.

  • @williamdelaporte2341
    @williamdelaporte2341 Před 3 měsíci

    As an Australian, I was also surprised when I learned we had snow here. I was like 6 when my family went on a roadtrip and visited one of the few mountains tall enough to get snow, and that is still the only time I've seen snow here

  • @kattheneeko
    @kattheneeko Před 3 měsíci +3

    19 seconds??? new record (my rslash senses were tingling)

  • @hiroshi7025
    @hiroshi7025 Před 3 měsíci +8

    Forgot about the time change in the US. It's like 4pm here, now. 💀

    • @Bean-kh9cu
      @Bean-kh9cu Před 3 měsíci

      Same💀

    • @carlosdutra8266
      @carlosdutra8266 Před 3 měsíci

      And i tought it was bad for me (it comes out at 12:00 here now).

    • @rapheAltoid77
      @rapheAltoid77 Před 3 měsíci

      So has Rslash, apparently. His typical posting time is 2 hours ago (8am here in CST).

    • @hiroshi7025
      @hiroshi7025 Před 3 měsíci

      @@rapheAltoid77 Not really, it depends on where you are.
      Yesterday, it would have been one hour ago.

    • @rapheAltoid77
      @rapheAltoid77 Před 3 měsíci

      ​​​​​@@hiroshi7025No. It wouldn't. DST started in the US more than a week ago, on March 10. He always posted at 9am EST, which is 8am here in CST. With daylight saving, if he _hadn't_ adjusted, that would have made his posts late by just 1 hour (10am EST/9am CST). Which would be tricky to do because most phone and computer tech updates automatically. But, that's what happened for about a week.
      If he adjusted to daylight saving a week late or later than me (also in the US), the posts would be back to the 9am EST/8am CST. But it's literally 2 hours later than normal today. Which is NOT a daylight saving adjustment.

  • @mikaelafowler252
    @mikaelafowler252 Před 3 měsíci

    Aussie here, people always forget how large Australia is. Yes it’s tropical up north, but Tasmania’s totally different and Perth is hotter and drier than Sydney. We have significant elevation differences across the country, and so many different environments, so yeah, there’s a couple of ski resorts.

  • @pennymcmanus1803
    @pennymcmanus1803 Před 3 měsíci

    As an Australian, our landscape is pretty diverse. Qld is tropical, nt and most of wa is "radioactive desert" with the other part being very coastal, SA is very scrub land, desert and tropical, Vic and Lower nsw is where you find some snow, but it's also typically scrub. Tasmania is where it's mostly snowy

  • @whatbear3804
    @whatbear3804 Před 3 měsíci +4

    CMON RSLASH daylight savings IS OVER

    • @1985toyotacamry
      @1985toyotacamry Před 3 měsíci +1

      To be fair it began in March. It ends in November.

  • @_cosmic_void
    @_cosmic_void Před 3 měsíci +4

    He changed it the wrong way 😭

  • @That1fellaAU
    @That1fellaAU Před 3 měsíci +1

    As an Australian, I have never seen snow in my life, but the blue mountains have them

  • @lostshadows768
    @lostshadows768 Před 3 měsíci +2

    The second story, she shouldn't feel guilty. Yeah she could have done all that. And he could have had an adult conversation with his wife about feeling neglected. Instead, he cheated.

  • @Samantha.K.S.Simpson
    @Samantha.K.S.Simpson Před 3 měsíci +5

    I'm *_never this early!_*

  • @shammersunite3557
    @shammersunite3557 Před 3 měsíci +3

    What is going on

  • @DarkDreamsAndMoonlitNights
    @DarkDreamsAndMoonlitNights Před 3 měsíci

    Hi RSlash, Australian here. The climate is different in places. For instance, Tasmania is colder than the mainland typically. Northern Territory has two seasons-wet and dry. The top of Queensland is tropical.
    Some areas see snow. Some states are humid.
    Our climates are diverse.

  • @CloverRose
    @CloverRose Před 3 měsíci

    Yes, Australia has snow. I lived in Victoria when I was younger and often went to Mount Hotham with my family to go skiing. One time when I was about 8, I decided to try the steep slope which ended badly. I was coming down the slope on my skis and couldn't slow down when I reached the bottom which resulted in me running face first into a tree to avoid hitting someone. My dad saw the whole thing and loved to tell the story after. I was numb from the snow so it didn't hurt, and had a big smile on my face after I pulled myself from the tree. The last time I checked Google maps, that tree is still there.

  • @alexwaddington9808
    @alexwaddington9808 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Story 1, rSlash's greatest weakness: PUNS

  • @AlexRising_
    @AlexRising_ Před 3 měsíci +2

    Story 2 is peak “traumatize them back”

  • @EP05
    @EP05 Před 3 měsíci +1

    14:59 honestly I wish this story was on r/AITA because this ex wife of OPs deserves an INFINITY/5 AH score

  • @bluntart6664
    @bluntart6664 Před 2 měsíci

    The last story is a case here in Australia. The police commissioner a woman called it a crime of passion, here in aus we have a lot of issues with domestic violence and our police force not doing enough so that statment pissed a lot of people off.
    It became such an issue that the cops were excluded from our official pride celebrations for the first time in like 10 years.