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  • Cheaters at the top of santa's naughty list - REACTION
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    🎅💔 Naughty List Chronicles: Cheaters Exposed at the Top! 💔🎁
    Hey, my festive fam! 🌟 Charlotte Dobre here, and guess what? We're diving into the North Pole gossip and spilling the tea on those cheaters who've skyrocketed straight to the top of Santa's Naughty List! 📜👀
    In this scandal-packed video, we're unmasking the sneakiest, most deceitful individuals who thought they could outsmart the big guy in red. From questionable antics to downright naughty behavior, we're exposing it all, and trust me, Santa's making a list and checking it twice! 📝🎅
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  • @cherylcorbett5829
    @cherylcorbett5829 Před 4 měsíci +873

    “We used protection” seems like a lot of people don’t realize you can still catch stuff whether you use protection or not

    • @HalfNHalf.
      @HalfNHalf. Před 4 měsíci +117

      That and in the cheater's mind, it's like they think using protection means you're not really touching the person they're cheating with or something lol like there's a barrier so it doesn't count. So weird and such dumb logic😂

    • @Cantetinza17
      @Cantetinza17 Před 4 měsíci +26

      Yeah I got HPV even though I used protection.

    • @dcarter455
      @dcarter455 Před 4 měsíci +21

      Yeah like hands🙄

    • @kateoc8
      @kateoc8 Před 4 měsíci +6

      ​@@dcarter455damn straight. I'm British/Irish and we'd say "catch a slap" or "a bunch of fives🤛"...

    • @BeccaHetrick
      @BeccaHetrick Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@dcarter455Or just the parts that aren't covered by the condom that still make contact.... Balls n' whatnot....

  • @aakkh
    @aakkh Před 4 měsíci +835

    Seeing cheating as “not that serious” when you literally had intercourse with someone else is grounds to be single for life. You have commitment issues, stay single.

    • @chrisbuttonshaw2088
      @chrisbuttonshaw2088 Před 4 měsíci +53

      "but it wasn't even that long!"

    • @sierrahlynn3642
      @sierrahlynn3642 Před 4 měsíci +43

      ⁠​⁠@@chrisbuttonshaw2088that part…I’d just be like “sooo I’m a bit confused, am I supposed to feel better about this or something bc dude didn’t last that long?” 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @seameology
      @seameology Před 4 měsíci +25

      Right? The fact that you would sleep with random people you care nothing for is supposed to make me feel BETTER about you?

    • @tantank490
      @tantank490 Před 4 měsíci +18

      It wasn't even that long
      You didn't answer your phone
      Crazy excuses 😂

    • @NickZephyr
      @NickZephyr Před 4 měsíci +23

      “you’re overreacting!!” sorry, I’M overreacting when YOU’RE the one who’s crying about YOU cheating? yeah the math ain’t mathing…

  • @siphokazimathaba2429
    @siphokazimathaba2429 Před 4 měsíci +612

    People be so annoying when they say "but it wasnt even that serious" after doing THE most vile and disgusting things 🙄

    • @bottomofastairwell
      @bottomofastairwell Před 4 měsíci +49

      Wasn't that serious? Well, I'm not that serious about you anymore either. Bye

    • @redeye1016
      @redeye1016 Před 4 měsíci +12

      Literally lol

    • @justines1919
      @justines1919 Před 4 měsíci +14

      Yeah like obviously you’re a sociopath if you don’t think that’s serious

    • @niamphdollieofficial
      @niamphdollieofficial Před 25 dny

      Men you mean

    • @GrainneSheridan
      @GrainneSheridan Před 24 dny

      @@niamphdollieofficial​​⁠​⁠​​⁠​​⁠​​⁠ but nine days ago you said in another comment“There's always a hidden Alternative hidden beneath the surface.” In reference to women and “female friendships mean NOTHING” so if you think so lowly about women, why would you assume women can’t be manipulative like that?

  • @jenniferp3939
    @jenniferp3939 Před 4 měsíci +795

    I love the era that these women are in. Supporting each other, being girls girls. Love this so much. Women looking out for each other. It's awesome.

    • @lotstodo
      @lotstodo Před 4 měsíci +31

      Yes, this is how it should be!

    • @AgentFulgoreBasedDepartment
      @AgentFulgoreBasedDepartment Před 4 měsíci +24

      this is the way.

    • @camanou1430
      @camanou1430 Před 4 měsíci +10

      Yeah, as long as she is ready to hear it. Some just deny it, despite having seen the evidence 🤷‍♂️🤦 And making the messenger the ahole. 😳

    • @honks9484
      @honks9484 Před 4 měsíci +5

      Yeah.. it’s all fun and games until they compete with you over a guy😂

    • @wardiya3arbiya
      @wardiya3arbiya Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@honks9484that won't happen to you if you stop being a pickmisha and make men believe they are the prize. Stop chasing men

  • @PeanutsMommy
    @PeanutsMommy Před 4 měsíci +1086

    The guy with the CHEATING girlfriend who was saying, "It wasn't even that serious, and we used protection." Should have said, "Okay, well, I have been sleeping with women all over town, but none of them were "that serious," and we "used protection." You're perfectly fine with that, right?"

    • @KrystyneY
      @KrystyneY Před 4 měsíci +16

      I'm sure the guy that was created on was also a cheater

    • @stischer47
      @stischer47 Před 4 měsíci +88

      @@KrystyneY Projecting are you? How many times have you cheated? None? Right.

    • @zahraa4149
      @zahraa4149 Před 4 měsíci +47

      ​@@KrystyneYwhy are you sure?

    • @Cantetinza17
      @Cantetinza17 Před 4 měsíci +91

      She asked "What Gym is open that late" 24 hour Fitness ma'am. 😅

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před 4 měsíci

      @@Cantetinza17 I was yelling, "Duh, ever hear of 24 Hr. Fitness?
      "It wasn't even that long!" and "It was only one time!" 🤨
      She had to go get nekkid with another guy because her man didn't pick up or text? Describing her encounter as brief and not worth repeating is a lousy excuse. It just shows how she's for the streets!🐀

  • @ramachandra776
    @ramachandra776 Před 4 měsíci +1349

    The last OP is an example of "Hell hath no fury than a woman cheated upon" . She repaid the cheater with interest . Moving in the shadows and striking like a barracuda or shark indeed . 😂

    • @ascensiongirl1111
      @ascensiongirl1111 Před 4 měsíci +37

      birthday mama is a stellar story teller 🏆 sorry that happened to you but you are a Q U E E N baby 💃you deserve soo much better babe

    • @annt7384
      @annt7384 Před 4 měsíci +22

      She is a whole movie 🍿 I would pay real money to watch in a theater with my girlfriends. In the movie he is out of the picture by act 3 with not much screen time; just a conflict in the story arc.

    • @alicenthightower9161
      @alicenthightower9161 Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​@@solene2014 the commenter isnt charlotte 💀

    • @auntyvenom133
      @auntyvenom133 Před 4 měsíci +3

      “Heaven hath no rage like love to hatred turned, nor hell a fury like a woman scorned.”

    • @KawaiiKermit
      @KawaiiKermit Před 4 měsíci +1

      Nah, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned because just now, a guy who I was about to get serious with, treated me awfully and didn’t have the dignity or balls to apologise properly AND ghosted me/actively ignored me after saying he valued communication and didn’t like it when people ignored him for no reason. So what did I do? I signed his phone number up to a load of things and found his Instagram and the Instagram of his side business and made sure to let people know to stay away from him and not trust him because of the psychotic and manipulative behaviours he displayed towards me and that he was a habitual liar once I started putting pieces together. Hope karma gets people like this ✨

  • @trilbynhiss
    @trilbynhiss Před 4 měsíci +316

    The mother's response in the second story made me a little weepy, it was so kind and warm and lovely.

    • @3dmaster-749
      @3dmaster-749 Před 4 měsíci +32

      the mother of my ex husband is still thinking that I am guilty for our divorce but she knew before me that he was cheating on me .. that old B 😂

    • @faithwdeng
      @faithwdeng Před 4 měsíci

      My ex bf’s step mom was the same with me. She loved me and ended up divorcing his dad right after. Idk if it was because she noticed similarities in their behavior and started looking, or came across it another way (I heard rumors that his dad was cheating too)… but she’s very happily married now. His bio mom AND his dad helped him gaslight me though saying I was too codependent and that I was being crazy. And I was a late teen and dumb af. My parents basically have a fairy tale backstory and I was a big reader, so I wasn’t weary to start with and didn’t overthink anything. Met my now husband a year after breaking up with him (for putting his hands on me when I caught him cheating with someone his mother insisted was just his childhood friend), and he’s been stalking me ever since on social media. If I block him he makes a new page. His current gf popped up in my recommended recently and I said a quick prayer for the girl cause if he’s still watching me he hasn’t changed a bit. I don’t wanna involve myself or start drama by warning her (she probably wouldn’t listen anyway), but I wish her luck cause she’s gonna need it.

  • @shawnycoffman
    @shawnycoffman Před 4 měsíci +401

    If cheaters put as much energy and effort into doing good that they do to support their bad behavior, they would change the world! Working so hard to do good as you do at doing bad this world would be an absolute Utopia.

    • @justines1919
      @justines1919 Před 4 měsíci +11

      Cheaters don’t care about anything but themselves clearly

  • @meowiestwo
    @meowiestwo Před 4 měsíci +1978

    The finished makeup look on the first woman (Taomie) is INCREDIBLE, stunning!!! Separately, when they make you apologize for "not trusting them" when actually they are CHEATING 🙄 - to the garbage bin indeed!
    Edit: so why did me mentioning her makeup trigger so many people? 😭

    • @j.h.3777
      @j.h.3777 Před 4 měsíci +43

      I was noticing just how much crap people are putting on their faces in these videos. Let your skin breathe!

    • @RosiePosey5150
      @RosiePosey5150 Před 4 měsíci +64

      She's one of those girls that are hot without but stunning with. I could never handle all the makeup these woman wear.

    • @nekk-ra7080
      @nekk-ra7080 Před 4 měsíci +24

      Except for definition for her eyebrows, she didn't need a drop of that make-up, let alone several passes over the same area.

    • @CurzonEve
      @CurzonEve Před 4 měsíci

      I thought the first woman had so much makeup on that she looked like plastic.

    • @clovermccombs8597
      @clovermccombs8597 Před 4 měsíci +30

      She looked beautiful before it got done.

  • @kaityr9693
    @kaityr9693 Před 4 měsíci +178

    I super love that the cheater's mom in the last story was so lovely to the girlfriend and was all about getting after her son for his awful behavior. And the girl telling the story was super understanding throughout it. How could you cheat on someone so lovely and hurt your lovely mom like that??

  • @theabsoluteworst1882
    @theabsoluteworst1882 Před 4 měsíci +294

    People who are condemning the first girl for not just leaving him don’t realize how emotional abuse or manipulation can make you feel like you’re the one who is crazy. The good times are really good because the manipulative partner feels guilty, and that can cause a lot of confusion. They make you feel like you’re the crazy one, and that they are doing a favor for staying with you through subliminal messaging from their actions. It’s easier to see all the red flags in hind sight, when you list all the proof together. It is harder to see when you’re in the thick of it. I only realized how emotionally manipulative my guy was when I got some distance from him. I knew that something he was doing felt wrong, but it was hard to put a finger on what, and I had fully thought that I was the problem because I’m big on self-reflection/improvement and had low self-esteem (which he made low throughout the relationship). When you’re only hearing the full story with all the proof laid out after they figured it out through extensive reflection, it’s easier to see why she should have left earlier. Poor girl.

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před 4 měsíci +36

      I agree. They don't start off being jerks on day one. I was with my ex 16 years, married for 15. I was constantly doing mental gymnastics, trying to believe him when it should have been obvious he cheated and lied throughout our marriage.
      Only TODAY did I realize/remember that he never posted pics of us on his Facebook page. The only time he posted a pic of me was to make fun of me when I was at the hospital, very sick. I had pneumonia as a result of being trapped by a wildfire that surrounded our house before we had a chance to evacuate. The smoke inhalation early ended me, but our house was saved.
      I fought the flames myself before the firefighters arrived, as I have my own fire hydrant and fire hose. It's incredibly hard to hang on to a fire hose on full blast, and I broke a rib trying. Seeing two fire engines emerge from that wall of flame, coming to save us, was the most beautiful sight!
      My husband was at work, so he wasn't here during the fire. He posted to Facebook that if the house had burned down, it would have solved ALL his problems. Someone asked, "Wasn't your wife and her son inside the house?" "YES!" he answered, like I said, _ALL_ my problems!"
      For me, our marriage ended at that precise moment. It took another 2 years for him to leave, but it was definitely over!

    • @tyyneviljakainen5108
      @tyyneviljakainen5108 Před 4 měsíci +16

      It's very common that people who don't ever counter natsistic people don't understand how gaslighting tactic nor love bombing works and not even that always protect because even meantal health counselor/ therapist/ psychotherapist can fel into those traps .

    • @b00ksrb3tt3rthanppl
      @b00ksrb3tt3rthanppl Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@LazyIRanch i'm so happy for you that he's gone. wouldn't what they're doing be somewhat trauma bonding?? just curious

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před 4 měsíci

      @@b00ksrb3tt3rthanppl Yes, I think so.

    • @kaitlynbennett4348
      @kaitlynbennett4348 Před 4 měsíci +4

      not just that, dealing with not just emotional and manipulation. Add in financial, mental and verbal with a trauma bond

  • @buddymack9606
    @buddymack9606 Před 4 měsíci +41

    Budding storytellers take note... 8:53-23:53 she has an engaging style of relating a story that moves along at a decent clip and omits extraneous details; this type of storytelling keeps an audience interested. Thank you for featuring that segment Charlotte

  • @loopygrrl8
    @loopygrrl8 Před 4 měsíci +174

    “I only did it cause you didn’t answer the phone.”
    So he didn’t answer for a whole month?
    “What gym is open that late?”
    Ummmm almost all of them????
    Grasping for excuses, but don’t worry, it’s not that serious. 🙄

    • @chynne33
      @chynne33 Před 4 měsíci +14

      Yeah, most gyms now are open 24 hours. My friends and I used to go when we got off work around midnight. This girl must not get out much

    • @Cantetinza17
      @Cantetinza17 Před 4 měsíci +12

      One gym has it in the name. 24 hour fitness.

    • @aneeqaahmad6927
      @aneeqaahmad6927 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Could you understand the very last question the guy asked ? Right before he opened the door and left ? I heard 4 times but could not understand

  • @SultanaKsa
    @SultanaKsa Před 4 měsíci +35

    The first girl Her complexion to begin with was flawless and her look after makeup is amazing she is beautiful

  • @TheBethaiable
    @TheBethaiable Před 4 měsíci +105

    The fact that the girl is blaming her boyfriend and claiming it weren't even that serious is so infuriating. It is NEVER the other persons fault that YOU cheat. You could break up if you don't get what you need from the person you're currently with.. sheesh.

    • @schrdngrskat3847
      @schrdngrskat3847 Před 3 měsíci +2

      I completely agree. If you aren't getting what you need/want out of the relationship, talk to them about it, and if it cant be resolved, break up with them. Dont cheat!

  • @stacym31
    @stacym31 Před 4 měsíci +70

    My ex said the same. No pics of us on social media, because he said: "I'm a private person, no one needs to know my business". There's a difference between private and secretive, sir. He wanted to be seen as single as there were many other women he was entertaining or wanted to entertain. He'd keep his phone facedown on silent. Wouldn't let me touch it, yet wanted to scroll through mine. Glad I'm out of that relationship. Blocked him everywhere and went no contact. He'd still try and "hoover" me by casually "being in the neighborhood" and ringing my doorbell, which I'd never answer if I saw him on my doorbell camera. Luckily, he hasn't tried that in over a year.

    • @jacklow9611
      @jacklow9611 Před 4 měsíci +9

      Not letting you see his phone but insisting in looking through yours is a big red flag right there that should have made you head for the hills away from him the first time he went through that BS. It's a good thing you got away from him. Maybe you need to swear out a PPO on him if he ever tries to "hoover" you some more or shows up on your doorstep again.

    • @chelsiemilstead4069
      @chelsiemilstead4069 Před 4 měsíci +1

      So glad you got out of that !!

    • @TheSneha157
      @TheSneha157 Před 16 dny

      Same and added that "healthy flirting" is necessary

    • @stacym31
      @stacym31 Před 12 dny

      @@TheSneha157 the sh*t they make up...

  • @ellaahjaa
    @ellaahjaa Před 4 měsíci +68

    no can we please acknowledge how charlotte said a couple months ago that she wasn’t going to post as much (understandably so) but yet she has still posted almost every day for us. LOVE HER💖

    • @gabrielle7732
      @gabrielle7732 Před 4 měsíci +2

      She's posting less as of the new year apparently

  • @misoppas
    @misoppas Před 4 měsíci +31

    She was saying they use protection like that automatically makes it not cheating. 😭😂

    • @gracedolan6662
      @gracedolan6662 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Not gay if you got socks on energy

    • @misoppas
      @misoppas Před 4 měsíci +2

      @gracedolan6662 literally! I feel when they give those dumb excuses is because someone in the past actually believe them.

    • @gracedolan6662
      @gracedolan6662 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@misoppas it's SUCH a ridiculous thing to say as a defense lmao

  • @yoyohayli
    @yoyohayli Před 4 měsíci +117

    This is sooooo juicy.
    I got a liiiiiitle bit of retribution against a serial cheater (I stupidly went back to him a couple years later, thibking he had changed. Nope, cheated a few more times and then assaulted me after breakup, trying to 'woo' or 'arouse' me without my consent).
    I got a call from the other woman, who knew about me, but only as a friend (that he had described me as 'a little crazy' to, JUST as she had been described to me!) and she was asking if I knew where her BOYFRIEND was, since she knew we talked. And then I was like, "...wait. He's MY boyfriend, too???" And then she got pissed and physically found him, got him on the phone with me to tear verbally into him while she forced him to apologize to both of us.
    That was therapeutic.

    • @bobmorgan1575
      @bobmorgan1575 Před 4 měsíci +10

      Once a cheater, always a cheater. You can take that to the bank.

    • @yoyohayli
      @yoyohayli Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@bobmorgan1575Yes, that is a lesson I had to learn the hard way. And it sucks because now I will never treat anyone (man or woman) with as much trust as I treated him with at first. It's kept me off the dating market for nearly a decade now.

    • @faycoleman9023
      @faycoleman9023 Před 4 měsíci +6

      I believe people can change that being said, a few months is not enough time to change that.

    • @not_you_i_dont_even_know_you
      @not_you_i_dont_even_know_you Před 4 měsíci +6

      Yes yes yes no one is worth fighting over. If someone doesn't wholeheartedly choose an open and honest relationship with you, drop it and befriend their other victims 🎉

    • @SourPickles8
      @SourPickles8 Před 4 měsíci +1

      That sounds cathartic

  • @tiffanyb.7596
    @tiffanyb.7596 Před 4 měsíci +83

    LOVE how the first lady said she “already knew” what he did. How fun to watch him crumble & spill all the lies. 🥰

  • @sheilaolson5868
    @sheilaolson5868 Před 4 měsíci +59

    I’ve caught 3 different cheaters by lying and pretending I already knew and they admitted it!

    • @bailey7792
      @bailey7792 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Sounds like you need to pick better men lol.

    • @helixxia9320
      @helixxia9320 Před 4 měsíci +21

      @bailey7792 lady this comment stinks. smells like some victim blaming. you do realize most people who cheat/abuse their partners most often seem very nice and real at first and don’t pull out their shit behaviour until way later

    • @highasduck5282
      @highasduck5282 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@bailey7792sounds like you're a 🤡

  • @earthstar7534
    @earthstar7534 Před 4 měsíci +142

    The girl crying it was a one time thing, and they used protection so its no big deal, then it was his fault for not answering the phone and he was overreacting, then it had been going on a month..... that girl is for the streets. For someone saying she has abandonment issues she sure does isolate herself.

    • @phastinemoon
      @phastinemoon Před 4 měsíci +31

      It’s actually pretty common for abandonment issues - because you are terrified that someone will abandon you, so in your mind, it becomes “they WILL abandon me”, so you start getting into the mindset of “well, if they’re gonna, I might as well…” and it turns into a self-fulfilling prophecy.
      I’m not saying it’s GOOD, or OKAY … but it IS very common.

    • @earthstar7534
      @earthstar7534 Před 4 měsíci +18

      @@phastinemoon well, compassion for people's struggles ends where they start taking victims because of their issues and use it to manipulate people.

    • @nellybean69
      @nellybean69 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I guess you can never trust someone with abandonment issues. It that the lesson to be learned here?

    • @earthstar7534
      @earthstar7534 Před 4 měsíci +9

      @nellybean69 I guess if they are using it as an excuse, crutch or manipulation tactic, I guess not.

    • @phastinemoon
      @phastinemoon Před 4 měsíci +13

      @@earthstar7534again - this is not to try and excuse or find sympathy for the behavior. Just to clarify that it’s very common for people who have abandonment issues to isolate themselves by their behavior.
      We humans like to think we’re so smart, but our psychology is DUUUUUMB. We are all of us complete morons.

  • @esckeenyah
    @esckeenyah Před 4 měsíci +39

    I can't understand cheaters. I'm with my husband over 15 years (7 married) and we've been through a lot. Of course our relationship has changed over those years. Sex is still good but not as often as at the beginning (we have a 6 year old daughter and both work so we are constantly tired 😉). But it never crossed my mind to cheat on him. Not even once. I don't know how people can do it. If you're unhappy in your relationship just break up and then look for another partner...

  • @FlagCutie
    @FlagCutie Před 4 měsíci +13

    That girl in the car that "only did it because you never answer your phone" has the same energy as that guy throwing a tantrum in the shower after he got his sidepiece pregnant. 😂 "Don't do this to us!" 😂😂😂😂

  • @caljones
    @caljones Před 4 měsíci +86

    Whenever the person who is getting cheated on befriends the one getting cheated with is always a lovely thing

    • @Cantetinza17
      @Cantetinza17 Před 4 měsíci +5

      My friend is now friends with the woman that had her husband's baby. AND she told my friend that it was her ex-husband's decision to give their daughter the female version of her son's name. The audacity.

  • @skyskynomnom4674
    @skyskynomnom4674 Před 4 měsíci +17

    My fave is when you find another girl’s things in his area and he tries to convince you that they’re YOURS

  • @taylorkey1996
    @taylorkey1996 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Can I just say that I loooove the last girl so much lol. Her personality and energy is everything ❤️

  • @anabrito7534
    @anabrito7534 Před 4 měsíci +10

    That first woman...wow her skin before starting to put makeup on was incredible..her make up was flawless too. How do some people make it look so easy. She's gorgeous! Charlotte, Merry Christmas! You look stunning!!

  • @jelissarivas5105
    @jelissarivas5105 Před 4 měsíci +175

    I told my last boyfriend from the beginning of the relationship that if I felt the slightest sense of suspicion, I would leave him no questions asked. He didn't believe me until I found him "talking" to a mutual girl friend in a coincidentally dark place. I didn't even let them talk, I broke up with him. The fact that they both didn't feel the need to explain anything to me, confirmed that they had something going on. Months later I started dating a really cute guy who turned out to be his cousin.

    • @AmethystEyes
      @AmethystEyes Před 4 měsíci +7

      Are you still together with his cousin?

    • @miririnririn
      @miririnririn Před 4 měsíci +17

      Well that’s toxic, what do you mean they didn’t feel the need to explain when you broke up with him without listening? I’m not saying he didn’t cheat, but nor do we know he did. Trust comes from both sides. You just didn’t trust him from the very beginning.

    • @jelissarivas5105
      @jelissarivas5105 Před 4 měsíci

      When we realized they were family, we decided not to continue beyond the couple of dates we had.@@AmethystEyes

    • @Enriquez2222
      @Enriquez2222 Před 4 měsíci +11

      @@miririnririnif you’re doing suspicious things and don’t feel the need to explain yourself then she doesn’t need to stay…

    • @jelissarivas5105
      @jelissarivas5105 Před 4 měsíci +23

      I didn't want the comment to be so long (I can talk and write for ages), but the day after we broke up, they officially started dating so there goes that.
      If you had your boyfriend coming to you, breaking up with you without explaining why, wouldn't you try to talk to him when you know you haven't done anything to provoke that? That's what I mean when I say they didn't explain anything.
      I trusted them both, but my peace and tranquility is above that. I'm not going to be prolonging a relationship after having found them in a dark place where coincidentally the two of them were in what seemed like a conversation that was too intimate for two people who know each other through another. If I could show you the memory of that moment, you would have ended it for me. @@miririnririn

  • @Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes
    @Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes Před 4 měsíci +76

    Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤
    Merry Christmas / Happy Holidays everyone! 🎄

  • @saraev1119
    @saraev1119 Před 4 měsíci +4

    My cousin did the "acting like she already knew" thing, and now at 23 years old her ex bf is in prison for SA of a 3 children in their sleep when he was 15, looking at 25 years in prison. Crazy stuff

  • @sandrathomas7213
    @sandrathomas7213 Před 4 měsíci +22

    Told my future mother in law about why I wasn't marrying him any longer. She said, "I'm better off without him!"👍🏽😂

  • @sarabouzidi6728
    @sarabouzidi6728 Před 4 měsíci +15

    The storytelling by @itscarlitav was amazing! Sorry she had to deal with a gaslighting serial cheater. But, that storytelling, wisdom and editing was top notch. The words his mother shared with her were amazing! I wish someone had told me that when I was ending a relationship with a cheater. It definitely broke my trust. Here for the women uplifting women, yesss!! ❤️

  • @emilymoncada82
    @emilymoncada82 Před 4 měsíci +19

    I kinda love that she told his momma! Never blamed the other woman… props to her for that.
    I don’t blame the women my ex cheated on me with, he was just a piece of sh*t. Gas lighting me and being controlling, hiding his phone. Freaking out if I saw a text.

  • @megfreeth4377
    @megfreeth4377 Před 4 měsíci +107

    As a parent you need to teach both sons and daughters about how to treat other people when in a relationship. Not just sons cheat

  • @solarqueen2555
    @solarqueen2555 Před 4 měsíci +27

    That second girl had the audacity to say "you abandon me just like everyone else" and that she cheated because he didnt pick up his phone. She for sure has borderline.

    • @neliaferreira9983
      @neliaferreira9983 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Those were excuses to justify her behaviour. She was trying to put the responsability on him.

  • @lizzy_90
    @lizzy_90 Před 4 měsíci +199

    Who else gets excited when Charlotte posts a new video?!

    • @scottc346
      @scottc346 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Not really, I have real things to get excited about.

    • @lizzy_90
      @lizzy_90 Před 4 měsíci +9

      @@scottc346 I didn't ask you personally, did I?

    • @kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066
      @kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Yes!!!
      I really missed her those couple days!
      One was my birthday too! 😂

    • @lizzy_90
      @lizzy_90 Před 4 měsíci

      @@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 I know me too! She's my go to after a bad day, or just any day in general!
      Happy late birthday

    • @scottc346
      @scottc346 Před 4 měsíci +4

      hey Lizzo, are you this rude that everybody who doesn't agree with you? Sounds like you "hit the wall" pretty hard. My sympathies. @@lizzy_90

  • @ramachandra776
    @ramachandra776 Před 4 měsíci +198

    Merry Christmas Charlotte, Mike , and Sharklotte . Charlotte as a Christmas special uploads almost half an hour of exciting drama . 😊

    • @nicolaclark
      @nicolaclark Před 4 měsíci +15

      And Murphy 🐶🐶🐶!! x

    • @ramachandra776
      @ramachandra776 Před 4 měsíci +7

      @@nicolaclark yes and Murphy too. Forgot about him . thanks for reminding . 😀

    • @stev6963
      @stev6963 Před 4 měsíci +7

      Lmao I like how you included Sharklotte like it’s a member of their family. 😂

  • @jamieevans1387
    @jamieevans1387 Před 4 měsíci +9

    Ohh girl, that last story! I was supposed to be cooking but sat down to listen. Who owns the white glasses though?!

  • @iamthequeenofdragons8941
    @iamthequeenofdragons8941 Před 4 měsíci +28

    I hate how cheaters have the audacity to want you not leave them and than play victim. I mean honey you made that choice to see another person behind my back don't expect me to stay. My ex cheated on me with my ex friend when we were together (didn't know at the time but had a feeling they like each other). When he wanted to get back with me, I said no (still not knowing) he told everyone trying to get them to turn on me I cheated. Only my ex friend believe it and they been dating since COVID so trash can be together

  • @djkimii2348
    @djkimii2348 Před 4 měsíci +18

    YES !!! 1.71Million!!!
    Im watching the numbers go up for you girl!!! 2024 is your YEAR!!!
    Love you Charlotte and Editors!💙💙

  • @lenamaldonado6201
    @lenamaldonado6201 Před 4 měsíci +13

    I thought about you last night my family normally opens gifts at midnight but since we had people over opened gifts at about 9 pm. My 14 year old niece got a potato in her stocking because she loves potatoes she got so happy she was holding it like a baby and rubbing it 😂

  • @Ria-xl7kz
    @Ria-xl7kz Před 4 měsíci +4

    Thank you to the first lady, for saying out loud that you were once young, naive & stupid. I thought i was the only one. Everybody around me acting like they were never stupid ever. I feel better. Thanks!! 🤗

  • @imjayhime
    @imjayhime Před 4 měsíci +5

    I was so invested in the last story. She’s amazing. That man’s an idiot for cheating on her. Glad he got what he deserved

  • @jackhayes7282
    @jackhayes7282 Před 4 měsíci +32

    Then there’s people like me who keep their phone locked because an ex went through it to get all my friends phone numbers then proceeded to call and harass them for no reason.

    • @lugi_L
      @lugi_L Před 4 měsíci +13

      I think your ex was trying to isolate you.

    • @bottomofastairwell
      @bottomofastairwell Před 4 měsíci +10

      Thank God he's your ex, coz that sounds controlling as hell

    • @Roadent1241
      @Roadent1241 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I keep my stuff locked because I've literally had that thing happen where the cat will touch it with their tail and do stuff your fingers can't do or write and send messages like people used to apparently pretend happened, tail or paws or face XD
      Nevermind kids have always been attracted to screens like moths. They're happy enough to touch my hearing-aid and Gameboys back in the day nevermind when I got a mobile.
      Plus saves the battery. Batteries on mobiles nowadays are crap. My first brick Nokia lasted a week XD

  • @JoCamp696
    @JoCamp696 Před 4 měsíci +17

    It's the "MoOm I'm literally filming" for me 😂 leaving that in was perfect.

  • @ThimbleFox350
    @ThimbleFox350 Před 4 měsíci +8

    She was like what gym is open that late? Aren't there like multiple gym chains that are open 24 hours?

  • @alli6791
    @alli6791 Před 4 měsíci +25

    Yes!! Tell these mamma’s about their son’s terrible behavior lol. Especially if they are violent abusers, but usually then the mother enable that and blame the women

    • @susanfanning9480
      @susanfanning9480 Před 4 měsíci +6

      Yep. True. I ran a battered women's shelter for 25 years and most , not all , but most parents/family members protect and cover the abusers. Whether the abuser is male or female. Lot's of same sex relationships as well.
      It's very sad, however, it's good for any person while they are young to not put up with abuse ever. Their life will be better.

    • @jessramirez5721
      @jessramirez5721 Před 4 měsíci

      I’ve witnessed the complete opposite. There are good moms out there. She still loved her son but she even told the police where he was hiding. 🤣 To this day the grandparents have a good relationship with the children that came out of that relationship but I don’t think the actual father does. Remember.. there is still good people out there. 😍

  • @PlainOlCourtney
    @PlainOlCourtney Před 4 měsíci +63

    Relationship pettiness doesnt fly with me as a parent. As a mom, my job is to teach my sons how to be responsible adults. Unfortunately, parents are not their only influences so i've also taught my sons to leave me out of their relationship problems. Holding them accountable would be to allow them to work out their own problems, not fix it for them. If you know me, you know i taught mine better than to waste time and to treat women how they would have their mother treated. If there was any issue in THEIR relationship, THEY are the only ones that can work it out.

    • @melancholicsunset8930
      @melancholicsunset8930 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Okay, this is purely out of selfishness, lets say that you raise your child well like you said, but then find out to a high degree that theres a part of his life that is not amazing. As a mother, wouldn't you be concerned about them and want to communicate on it? To make sure if they're okay. I'm young, but me personally, from what I've learned and experienced, my biggest fear would be my child getting into trouble and breathing his last breath without truly seeing them grow... . I genuinely feel like most parents feel accountable and responsible for their child. Especially after they've been hurt or hurt others. 🤷

    • @jacklow9611
      @jacklow9611 Před 4 měsíci +4

      I was talking to my sister today, to wish her a Merry Christmas, and she mentioned that her youngest son and his wife were evidently having a big fight. because they weren't going to my sister's for Christmas dinner. She said she wasn't going to get involved in any of their family squabbles because he was a big boy and needed to handle things on his own, and they'd be resolved in one way or another; they'd work it out and move on or split up and finish it, and knowing my nephew, he'll try to do what's best for everyone.

    • @PlainOlCourtney
      @PlainOlCourtney Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@melancholicsunset8930
      ​@melancholicsunset8930 as much as we want to shield our children from all harm, they are their own individuals. Good parents raise their children to be prepared for everything that can come their way. We teach and, when possible, arm our children with all the tools necessary to make good choices. With that being said, they are responsible for their own choices and actions. I am only there to guide and support. If they fall on their butts, we give them cushion. If they succeed, we're their biggest cheerleaders. They know that, and what they do with that knowledge is up to them.

  • @laowaistudieschina7470
    @laowaistudieschina7470 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Ms Carlita V has nerves of steel! I stan the cold revenge.

  • @RandomSubjects
    @RandomSubjects Před 4 měsíci +2

    I made my cheater ex tell his parents in graphic detail about his cheating. Not because they would freak out etc, but because I knew that was the only way he would feel any sense of shame about what he did. He felt no shame about it prior, or at least not to the level I would have expected, but telling his parents and having such absolute disgust and disappointment directed towards him made him absolutely squirm.
    I know we all make mistakes or mess up with things but usually that doesn't involve hurting other people. If your actions hurt someone else and you are too embarrassed for other people to know about them then you shouldn't have done it, otherwise, own it.

  • @emmj_xo
    @emmj_xo Před 3 měsíci +1

    The Charleston girrrrrl is yaaaas queen! “Wrote it down” 🤣 for giggles lmao

  • @clovermccombs8597
    @clovermccombs8597 Před 4 měsíci +9

    I love Charlotte said "Who's Mildred?" All I could imagine is a little old lady with purple hair. Aha

  • @Jmmmmama
    @Jmmmmama Před 4 měsíci +3

    Man, my partner and I always make our passwords the same. Not out of a “ooo you might cheat” vibe but more of a “baaaaaabe can you check what time my meeting is tomorrow on my calendar, I’m sat on the couch and I don’t wanna move!” Energy

  • @amymattaliano7634
    @amymattaliano7634 Před 4 měsíci +17

    I'm a little confused about the girl with the long story. Okay, her boyfriend was a serial cheater. I got that part. The other woman who was supposed to go on a date with him (who was going to cancel), if she thought he was so weird, why was she taking money from him? And, if I somehow got that part wrong, where was the money really going? Ooh, probably to the other-other woman. I feel like we need a whole other video to get into that.

  • @Mewse1203
    @Mewse1203 Před 4 měsíci +9

    "It didn’t last very long. He was done in loke a second" was a legit excuse my ex wife used when cheating on me with someone I thought was one of my best friends

  • @juliepeterson6639
    @juliepeterson6639 Před 4 měsíci +5

    My cat backs up when I growelly say- It’s our Stories (when Charlotte is on) and then he comes back when he hears her lovely voice. Cats love you Charlotte, Happy Holidays.

  • @317Shannon
    @317Shannon Před 4 měsíci +3

    I have two boys and a girl, we have always taught our boys that they need to treat girls how they want myself and their little sister treated BUT people need to also teach their daughters how to treat boys as well.

  • @littlesmith4593
    @littlesmith4593 Před 4 měsíci +2

    That last OP totally rocked on both how she handled the problem and the way she told her tale.

  • @TheSnowdogsShorts
    @TheSnowdogsShorts Před 4 měsíci +3

    My late wife wanted to look at my phone one day, when we had guests over. She asked why my phone was passworded. She knew the password, so she could actually access it, she just didn't understand why I had a password.
    So I said, "it is for times like today, when the guys come over. If I go to the bathroom, and my phone wasn't locked, one of this lot would find it funny to post a joke social media status update in order to try to embarrass me."
    They pretty much in unison nodded their heads and said that they would totally do that. :P
    She then understood.
    Such a happy memory.

  • @yackohoopy
    @yackohoopy Před 4 měsíci +7

    My fiancée and I have free access to each other’s phones. We know each other’s codes to get it. That’s probably one of the reasons that we have a successful relationship.

  • @BreeS-zd5rx
    @BreeS-zd5rx Před 4 měsíci +34

    Merry Christmas, Charlotte! I hope you, Mike, and your families have a wonderful day. ❤️ 🎄

  • @Lunchladydoyle
    @Lunchladydoyle Před 4 měsíci +2

    Never ceases to amaze how fast cheaters turn on the water works and have a MASSIVE pity party as soon as their caught. They’re all adult-babies !!

  • @guineawuv
    @guineawuv Před 4 měsíci +6

    I'm so glad the last guy's mom didn't condone his behavior. She's really great for that.

  • @U.S.A..
    @U.S.A.. Před 4 měsíci +4

    Wow that story was a roller coaster but at least there was a happy ending

  • @robinwoodard1204
    @robinwoodard1204 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I’m so glad the mom held her son accountable and was so sweet in the last story. My grandmother (dads mom) continues to call my mom and I a liar after telling her he was abusing us :/ One time he kicked me into the air when I was 11-12 and after my mom got full custody and he narrowly avoided extensive jail time, My grandmother had the audacity to tell me it was my fault and I deserved it 😂😂 I don’t speak to either anymore

  • @Midorikonokami
    @Midorikonokami Před 4 měsíci +2

    My Christmas is complete. My guests are gone home and I'm having my evening tea and evening Charlotte xxx

  • @jenniferwellman5311
    @jenniferwellman5311 Před 4 měsíci +9

    I was a devoted girlfriend, and then he dumped me not in person but, in a text, and then the next girlfriend he was dating for a years, who was engaged to him. Got sick of his gaslighting turned around and dumped him. I would say that was karma.😂😂😂

  • @yarjona9981
    @yarjona9981 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I just asked my man: can I see your phone? He’s playing online. He opened it and handed it back to me. I swear: not even looking at it I gave it back.
    😘

    • @earthstar7534
      @earthstar7534 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I'm watching this on my husband's phone because our daughter is taking selfies outside with her Christmas presents with mine lol.

  • @meowiestwo
    @meowiestwo Před 4 měsíci +18

    omg, a cheating episode on Christmas! i consider this a gift. Merry Christmas Charlotte and potatoes ❤

  • @mtsemcomfort2255
    @mtsemcomfort2255 Před 4 měsíci +3

    That "ma'am! ma'am!! ma'am!!! we're family now, we need a part3" got me 😂😂😂😂

  • @DeloriansChannel
    @DeloriansChannel Před 4 měsíci

    The lady was very insightful and had some great advice..........I love the moms beautiful message about the situation and how supportive she was towards the ladies feelings and the situation in general.

  • @charlotteemerson5050
    @charlotteemerson5050 Před 4 měsíci +49

    Maybe it's just me but I would be way more hurt if I was told it wasn't that serious. You will risk our relationship and cut me deep over something that is not that serious? Bye

  • @AB-bc9tf
    @AB-bc9tf Před 4 měsíci +3

    12:37 I had a similar situation with an ex. He was taking a shower and charging his iPhone. I had an iPhone as well and so I plugged in my phone and the preview showed up with all of these notifications from Plenty of Fish.

  • @janethall8444
    @janethall8444 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Chef's kiss to the second woman for how she handled the situation. Such maturity and class.I'm glad she got positive responses from who she reached out to.With her classy attitude, she'll go far,and I'm very happy for her.Much better things are going to come her way!😊👍🏻💝💛

  • @mala3isity
    @mala3isity Před 4 měsíci +1

    Charlotte's ultimate threat to her kids, "I brought you into this world, I can take you out."

  • @rachelpanmm9890
    @rachelpanmm9890 Před 4 měsíci +5

    MERRY QUISMOS!!!!🎄🎅🤶🧑‍🎄

  • @The_Tumbler_Witch
    @The_Tumbler_Witch Před 4 měsíci +3

    The first woman is way too beautiful to put up with that from that guy!! Oh my, second guy...dump her!! She doesn't deserve you!!
    Merry Christmas y'all!!

    • @karmAnonymous
      @karmAnonymous Před 4 měsíci

      That 2nd one SENT ME 😂🤮

    • @karmAnonymous
      @karmAnonymous Před 4 měsíci

      It was the "you're never there for me"/"what gym is open that late⁉️ you're a liar,‼️"/"I just feel like I'm going to be abandoned right now"/"you're going to abandon me just like EVERYBODY ELSE DOES"/"IT'S NOT THAT SERIOUS!! WE USED PROTECTION!!"
      for me 💀

    • @The_Tumbler_Witch
      @The_Tumbler_Witch Před 4 měsíci

      And the third woman is an absolute princess!!❤❤

  • @kristalparsons5473
    @kristalparsons5473 Před 4 měsíci +2

    'He wanted to have his Kate--and Edith, too.' They always do, don't they?

  • @darkstraylily1477
    @darkstraylily1477 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Lil tip. A lot of people get weird about their phones because theyve walked the path of abusive childhood or previous abusive relationship, where moving in the shadows is the ONLY way to survive/stay out of harms way. So before you go on demanding someones phone - make damn sure you have a daaamn good reason (like the girl in the video) to be doing so. Your own insecurities and past relationships do not count as said reason. Actual shady behavior that spills outside just the phone thing, does.

  • @aliciamcbeth
    @aliciamcbeth Před 4 měsíci +21

    Merry Christmas to you and your family Charlotte. I was a little late to comment on your last video but I’m a natural red head. What you and the red head guy were saying about red heads was spot on. Absolutely hilarious!!! 😂❤

    • @phaedrapage4217
      @phaedrapage4217 Před 4 měsíci

      I'm a natural blonde but always wanted red hair and, in fact, dyed my hair red for a few years, starting from about age 12!

  • @user-xo2hb2tw3q
    @user-xo2hb2tw3q Před 4 měsíci +4

    I just got my first pair of petty merch for Christmas from my sister!! Me and my sister love watching you! Thanks! STAY PETTY ;)

  • @toonced
    @toonced Před 11 dny +1

    Hearing the words "that hillbilly" said with an English accent -- FABULOUS!

  • @albin2232
    @albin2232 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Santa is the world's most prolific home invader.

  • @Rose-zf1jw
    @Rose-zf1jw Před 4 měsíci +3

    We used protection & he didn't last long IS NOT AN EXCUSE!😂😂😂😂

  • @MsBlueRyan
    @MsBlueRyan Před 4 měsíci +7

    I enjoyed this a little too much. 😂 I love seeing the good guys win, it restores my faith in humanity. 💙

  • @franciscomartinez514
    @franciscomartinez514 Před 4 měsíci +1

    The first girl telling her story is so beautiful love her accent and Charlotte is so beautiful as well and she’s so funny lol 😂❤

  • @justwonder1404
    @justwonder1404 Před 4 měsíci +2

    The first girl is so pretty, imagine having the nerve to cheat on her. Some people just don't deserve a relationship.

  • @johanna77777
    @johanna77777 Před 4 měsíci +21

    Just watched the previous episode and thought how I wish Charlotte would post a new one, and she did! and my favorite subject 😂😂 Love ya Charlotte! thanks for keeping us laughing after a long day

  • @j-zee-bee
    @j-zee-bee Před 4 měsíci +5

    I tried the whole "tell their mom" thing, and it didn't work. I wasn't cheated on or physically abused, but I've been mentally and emotionally abused for years. He admitted to intentionally be awful to me while arguing before even getting engaged. The man admitted to setting that as his intention for the rest of our lives. He didn't tell me that, obviously. Anyway, his mom supported him, and she's a "therapist" at that. I don't know how delusional you have to be to be to believe stuff she did..

  • @sehlpup1262
    @sehlpup1262 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Ok..before the last part, I was popping cashew pieces in my mouth like popcorn!!! I've got to hear the end!!! I'm married and 65 and sssooo glad I don't go thru that anymore! I feel for you young ones!

  • @anthonygregory6797
    @anthonygregory6797 Před 10 dny

    That 2nd story hit home, as a dude I went through this once and only once, proud of dude for not falling for the tears and knowing his worth, heres the kicker, if she cheated once, she will do it again.

  • @wired_differently_slims_x
    @wired_differently_slims_x Před 4 měsíci +4

    Sat in my petty tracksuit with a rum n coke having just finished our Xmas Dinner in the UK! Merry Christmas xxx

  • @BeautifulKittenOfLove
    @BeautifulKittenOfLove Před 4 měsíci +6

    I'm just too old for drama crap anymore. If someone accused me of cheating (I do not) and "demanded" to see my phone I'd show them my phone and then the door. Trust is a two way street.

  • @alyseceleste
    @alyseceleste Před 4 měsíci +1

    “Move in the shadows” is my new favorite Charlotte theme

  • @MizzDit
    @MizzDit Před 4 měsíci +5

    You’re seriously close to your second million, Charlotte.
    Happy Holidays to all.

  • @StarLime1040
    @StarLime1040 Před 4 měsíci +7

    I’ve been binge watching your videos for a good week now and can’t stop. Love your vids and big compliments to the lady who edits your videos as well. Merry Christmas

  • @prenimystic
    @prenimystic Před 4 měsíci +10

    Good morning fellow petty potatoes
    I hope everyone who celebrates Christmas has a happy holiday! ❤

  • @Carey86
    @Carey86 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Merry Christmas Besties!!🎄🎅🏼✝️😘💋

  • @bmk9844
    @bmk9844 Před 4 měsíci

    My husband and I have been married for 18+ years, and we use one another’s phone for like remotes or music, we leave our phones by one another at times when charging or something, we forget our phones all over the house all the time, and we give off absolute no weird vibes about it.
    We do not snoop, and we do not give of any weird vibes. He never looks through my phone and I never look through his. We even get constant texts from friends and coworkers, but our friends are all appropriate friends. You know?
    This is what you should look for in a good relationship, my friends. Nothing less will do. You deserve it.