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Hey, my fabulous internet fam! Charlotte Dobre here, and get ready to clutch your pearls and squirm in your seat, because we're diving headfirst into the world of messy wedding FAILS that had me blushing harder than a tomato! Can you say secondhand embarrassment galore?
💍🙈 In this uproariously hilarious video, we're spilling the tea on those unforgettable wedding moments that made even the most confident souls cringe. From unexpected wardrobe malfunctions to epic dance floor wipeouts, these fails will have you covering your face with secondhand embarrassment sympathy!
😱 Brace yourselves, because we're about to unveil the most unforgettable "I do" disasters that could rival any sitcom plot. Think wedding cake mishaps that left the bride and groom covered head to toe in frosting and ring bearers who decided the aisle was their personal racetrack!
🕺💃 But wait, there's more! We'll break down the mortifying moments when the dance floor turned into a comedy stage, complete with the clumsiest moves you've ever seen. Trust me, you won't be able to unsee these oh-so-awkward twirls and spins!
🙊 Join me in the comment section confessional as we share our own cringeworthy wedding experiences and offer virtual hugs to those poor souls who ended up as the stars of these epic fail stories. Have you ever witnessed a wedding mishap that made you want to teleport out of the room? Tell me all about it!
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🔍 So there you have it, my lovely viewers - prepare for a whirlwind of giggles and cringes, because we're about to dive deep into the world of wedding fails that gave me enough secondhand embarrassment to last a lifetime! Tune in, get ready to laugh-cringe, and remember, it's all in good fun! 🙈🤣🎉
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My mom told me she actually went to a wedding years ago where this 4yo boy was growling the entire way as he walked down the aisle with the rings, even occasionally pausing and snarling at a few guests. When asked after the ceremony what that was all about he answered, “Well….they told me I was the ring bear.” 😂
Omg that’s so cute! 😆
That is too cute!
I love it!
It's not a real wedding unless a child or a drunk uncle does something goofy. 🤣
Oh that's funny. 😅
He sure took his job seriously! 😂
The word for the first bride isn't audacity, it's cruelty!
Selfish, narcissistic, evil - there are lots of words for her!! 😂
The other word is narcissist! Classic narcissistic behaviour…
The fact that the dear and precious soul who graciously stepped down and generously offered to let the bride keep every last dime on top of it, her selflessness is humbling and the way the bride treated her is heartbreaking………
I think the word your all thinking about is actually ‘c*nt 😅 made me so angry listening to that story what a shitty person the bride is I hope her marriage ends in divorce and she gets left with nothing 😂🙏🏻
I really hope people find out who she is and Dox her. I hope her fiancé finds out what she did, and decides not to marry her because she is a monster. If you can’t be a friend through sickness and health, then you certainly can’t be your wife through sickness and health.
That "maid of honors are allowed to throw red wine on women wearing white" rule should be CEMENTED IN LAW.
What should they throw on red dresses?
@@DYLANJJK94chocolate
@@DYLANJJK94 Bleach
Should make it a modern practice to use a squirt gun for more range and firepower, imagine writing "SHAME" with a squirt gun on an inconsiderate fool wearing white.
I volunteer as tribute, by “accident “
I stepped down as a bridesmaid due to needing to go to the mental hospital for a ****** attempt, the “friend” shut me out completely. Made me feel more isolated than I already was, and then went and told a bunch of people my personal business as to why I stepped down. I never felt so low in my damn life.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. She's cruel. Wishing you all good health and happiness.
That's absolutely vile! I hope that you're doing better now
I am sending a nice big internet hug. You need one. You deserve so much better, and you will find the better people if you haven't already.
Thank you guys for the kind comments. It’s nice to know there are genuine people out there. 💕
Oh, I'm so so sorry 🫂 ❤️
I’m a cancer survivor and that woman thinking of the bride on her day was incredibly courageous and giving. She took time out from the viciousness of cancer to think of the bride. Screw that bride - coming AND going!
yeah, she's vicious
Like who the f!ck reacts to their friend having cancer with well youre not dead yet but you're dead to me
Agreed! I'm a cancer survivor and chemotherapy for 5 months was brutal. (FYI - different chemo therapies can hit different), so if it's what I had - that bride can suck donkey balls.
My own sisters(identical twins) decided to cut ties with me because I was being diagnosed with bone cancer and couldn't do anything and spent most of my time in bed. They said I was faking my illness and my faintings to draw attention and to make them do all the chores. When I confronted them in tears after I overheard them mocking me for 'fake fainting', they rained insults on me, have not spoken to me ever since and behave like I don't exist, especially because my parents are doing everything to comfort me. I cried for days straight and was traumatized and Up till now I fear meeting them because of how they treat me. Ever since that heart breaking betrayal, no behavior from anybody surprises me again.
Nope. I wouldn't want to know those sisters as adults. Unless of coyrse they seek you out and apologize when they're older and realize what theyve done.
Chances are, they suck as adults, too.
That first story broke my heart. That bride was vicious and disgusting. My question is, did that groom marry that woman after realizing how horrible she is?
Good question! I hope not, for his sake - God forbid he ever gets seriously ill!
In sickness and in health will be a problem for her.
It isn't just the bride. She said many of the people in the group agreed with the bride. I just can not.
@@LoliJRockDramaLover1I think they wanted to go after the bride (wording was a bit vague though)
@@Razdasoldier I hope so but I don't have Faith in humanity anymore.
I showed my fiance my "no" dresses and he was brought to tears because I looked so beautiful. I'm so thankful I have a partner who thinks of me the way he does
Where did you meet?
right, sometimes the internet just makes me sad. my partner tells me how beautiful i am in sweats and a hoodie, feeling very lucky.
I actually find that "brown" dress outstandingly pretty.
He wasn't rating her though... he was rating the dresses 🤦🏻♀️
Speaking of holy water, do you know how it is made?
You boil the hell out of it.
When I got married, my nephew was 5. He of course was my ring bearer. When he went to his fitting, he became so upset because he thought it was going to be a bear suit. He was heartbroken. I told my sister in law that he could 100% rock a bear suit, which I probably shouldn’t have said in front of him, but I thought it was awesome. She put her foot down and said no, so then he asked if he could wear his Batman costume, which again I thought was awesome, but his mom also put her foot down on. I’m still mad at myself for not fighting for him to wear one of his choices that day. However, he looked very handsome in his tux and was happy he got to dress just like his Dad, so it all worked out. Still wish it would’ve been a costume though. I would die on that hill if I had a do over.
I feel like you missed a golden opportunity there to have a real life Ring Bear at your wedding and in your photos 😆
I feel like some sort of teddy bear hat deal would've worked too, or a headband with bear ears XD
Your sister has no joy. I would have told her, "it's not your wedding so you have no say in how I'd like my wedding party to dress. If you'd like to break his heart entirely and remove him over something so petty, by all means, have fun with that I guess. But I love my nieces and nephews enough to let em be cute as fuck at my events.🤷♀️ sorry you suck, sis."
But it was your wedding, why does it matter what she says?
Colossians 4:2 NLT
Devote yourselves to prayer with an alert mind and a thankful heart.
I had to sadly step down from being a bridesmaid in my brother’s wedding last year because I was really struggling with my mental health a lot and my sister in-law was so supportive and understanding. The story about the bridesmaid stepping down because she was sick with cancer and the bride acting so selfishly and just rude and mean is infuriating.
I'm hoping you are doing better than last year's struggles
At this point, I'm just hoping that it's just fake stories. It isn't just rude or mean. You aren't even a human being if you do shit like that to your 'friend'.
Hope you feel better now. If not, it's ok too. Just take one step after another. I'm there too from time to time, so I know.
@@BrianAndresScottI am doing so much better now, thank you 💕
@@carolinew302Thank you. I am doing so much better now 💕
My daughter, getting married in October. She actually wrote on the invitations: ‘And please remember, only I will be wearing white on my wedding day’ She told her wedding planners to politely tell anyone who disregards the no white policy to leave and escort them out. Love it!!
Forget spending hundreds (thousands?) of dollars on flowers. I want a security detail at my wedding (okay vow renewal, we eloped). For that, and to toss out unruly/annoying guests. And guard the cake till it was time to cut it.
@@kayjacoby290 Holy Molly, the cake one is absolutely necessary..!! 😳👌🏽
I really liked the idea of the ugly “shirt of shame” and if they don’t want to wear it, they are free to leave 😂
As it should be!
If she has to tell people not to wear white, that's kind of a red flag to the friends and family.
Red wine “spilled” on a white dress is absolutely a thing! I got married almost a year ago and there was someone I was legit worried about crashing in a white dress. My bridesmaids all knew and were all prepared to make her white dress NOT white anymore. Though I must say, I like the shirt idea better. Wear it over the white dress, go home and change or just go home. Those are fabulous choices *chef’s kiss*
So over dramatic 😂 it’s not a big deal
@gmb2006 it's disrespectful. The women that do it are so self-centered they need everything to be about them and they can't let the bride have one day that's supposed to be about her, they can't cope with the attention not being on them so they need to make things about themselves. It's always in an attempt to upstage the bride
@@gmb2006 Well The one who come to someone else wedding wearing white dress thinks is very BIG deal
My first wedding I ever attended we all were told to wear white with an accessory of blue. So in my second wedding I attended I thought we were supposed to wear white too. I showed my dress to a lot of family before I went and no one told me that it isn't allowed. I was so young and didn't know wedding etiquette. It still haunts me to the day.
If you're young it's usually something you can get away with. My cut off for white dresses being allowed is 18 (for my wedding). If no one told you though that isn't your fault. I'll be asking people polity on the invitation not to wear white so if they then turn up in a white dress they will be getting red wine on them.
The bride who cropped her friend out of all previous photos showed Stalin levels of revisionist history.
I'm choking this is the best comment
Not the Stalin comparison ✋😭
The scream I scrumpt 😂😂😂
you’re a genius for this
Never go full Stalin.
As a person who was raised catholic, the sprinkling of Holy Water on objects being anointed (such as wedding bands) is common practice in that faith. Having said that, the ring bearer was simply collateral damage. He wasn’t the target of the sprinkling but as he was holding them, that little scepter doesn’t make it easy to control the aim of the priest. Simply put, the guy got hit with overspray and was not the target. Although he does look like he could use a good dousing, ngl! 😉😂🤣
Thank you 😂😂😂💦💦🌊💦💦😂😂😂
Collateral damage😂😂😂
Yeppp lol I grew up catholic and on the holy water mass days no one wanted the isle seat because they always get a big splash instead of a sprinkle lol
the baptized him a second time
Agreed! Thanks for wording this far better than me. 👍
I'm battling an incurable blood cancer and while I can do chemo and manage it to an extent, I will always have cancer and it really has changed my life in a way I can't explain. This first story really dug deep, and I feel so sorry for that poor woman. I kinda feel she dogged a bullet when the bride acted the way she did. No one needs people like that in their lives. I hope she is able to get through the cancer and make a good recovery ❤
I hope you get all the best luck in the world
I would like to make a confession here: I wore an ivory cocktail dress to a friends wedding when I was 19. I had been to a lot of weddings - almost all family, but I guess I never got the memo. I felt so beautiful in this dress I didn’t think anything of it. No one really said anything besides one lady who I didn’t realize till much later was pissed at me. I still feel hella guilty to this day. I would just like to have it be known - sometimes it’s an honest mistake. I really was not malicious. But tell your friends - maybe they have no idea and you’ll save them from a faux pas. I’ve made peace with this whoopsie I had, as I actually ended up leaving the wedding early and having my first date with my partner of 10 years.
That couple was divorced in less than a year.
Still feel the guilt tho - tell your friends NO WHITE.
You know, it's probably your white cocktail dress that caused the marriage to break down 🤔
😉 I'm joking of course 😂 but it DOES seem like you made a good call in the end 😊
@@lexwithbub thanks haha. She’s now happily married to someone else so I think no harm done. I do still think of it 😬😬
Point here is that you were still young and genuinely didn't know. If the bride had asked you to change you would have complied and said a thousand "I'm sorry's" It's good you know now and hope it eases your mind that you've never been a nasty tempered "white walker"
One of my husbands friends girlfriend (pretty young) wore a white dress to my wedding and I’m pretty sure she had no idea. A lot of younger people have no idea!
I bombed in front of a bunch of people. Amazing Grace was decidedly not very amazing that day. Also, I messed up some lyrics in the middle of a concert, while the artist was trying to sing with me. I know your feelings on this but you didn't know and you didn't do it on purpose so I would be your friend and do karate in the garage with you!!!
Definitely get that marriage license! You would make an amazing officiant!!!!
Maybe one day!
@@CharlotteDobre
If you get one after I get married, I’m getting married again.
@@CharlotteDobrei would hire you for fun tbh!
You are very hilarious and seem like you’d be an amazing officiant!
@@CharlotteDobreI have no plans to get married, but I would do it just to have Charlotte officiate it!😂
Wait, that’s what a marriage license is? I thought that’s what the bride and groom get. The officiant gets a certificate or something, right? Not a license? Color me confused. 😉
To be fair, If another woman wears white to a wedding, I'd HOPE the Maid of Honour steps up.
Soy sauce is another thing that could be "accidently" spilled on it, too.
My family used me as a lass to carry out that duty. They nicknamed me “The Enforcer”. Not just on anyone wearing white but the people who were ghastly. They’d give me red punch and point out my mark! 😂😂😂 I was doing it well into my teens. Now I just have a “pleasant” chat with them and the party going swimmingly! I’m 52 now, it’s my favourite part of weddings under the cake!
Same! I've never attended a wedding where someone other than the bride had the audacity to wear white, but if I ever do, I would 100% volunteer to spill wine, or anything really, on that person. And then I would share the story on Reddit and hope that Charlotte finds it😁
I wouldn't spill anything on them I would actually be straight up and tell them how dare they wear white and ask them to leave and then make everyone raise their hands if they find her rude for wearing white too
Gave my 3 year old nephew melting chocolate and told him to go give that auntie a huggie😂😂😂😂 he loves giving huggies... ooops🤭😅
I always loved the idea of the bridesmaids being armed with red wine.
I wore cream to a wedding 10 years ago and still feel bad for it. There's no excuse. I was in the middle of finals and struggled to find anything to wear and I was so relieved when I finally found something. It didn't faze me that it was cream until I was at the wedding. I was so embarrassed I stayed sitting at my table the whole time until the groom (my fiance's best friend) pulled me up to dance with everyone. The bride was very understanding, but I will NEVER do it again.
To be fair, he was rating the dresses. Not her. AND let’s keep in mind that she also passed on these dresses. I think just the fact that she made that video is a pretty good indication that they’re solid and this was in good fun, women in controlling relationships definitely do not go about flaunting it on social media. All in good fun, in my opinion
This is exactly what I thought. He was asked to give his opinion on the dress his future wife will be wearing on one of the most important days of their lives. I would have thought that people would be mad at him for lying and saying he likes them all but for people to be mad that all he did was give his opinion on the dresses is weird to me.
@@bkjay20 Wait a second! The groom is allowed to have an opinion? 😲
@@dotar9586,
Apparently, these were dresses she passed on... so she was asking him for his opinion of dresses she wasn't going to wear, lol.
Some of these dresses were really pretty, and the fact that she asked future hubby to rate her "Say No To The Dresses" was cute.
Neither one of them liked the dresses.
I'm sure he'll be floored by the gorgeous dress she DID choose.
She has a good one. I have one who will see me in a paper bag, burst into tears and tell me I'm the most beautiful woman ever, and tell me we should get married right that second. In the kitchen. I appreciate the energy but that's not coming to the fitting.
I was the Maid of honour for a close friend of mine. She told me the only thing she expected and wanted from me was to show up. She said I should wear whatever made me comfortable and apologized to me for me having to travel 5 hours and staying in a hotel for a night. She is the best and the more I watch this, the more I appreciate this.
Ya no kidding. I don't care what people wear to a wedding or what color it is I just want them to be there to share my day and have a good time. Of course I would respect a request to not wear white to a wedding but just seems kind of strange that people think a color is what makes the bride important on her wedding day.
Love the “shirt of shame” idea!! Can’t wait to see the first implementation of that rule…😂
Just imagine your maid of honor, “accidentally” spilling some wine on people proposing at your wedding, and saying
“ oh, I didn’t see you sorry probably just because you were one knee oops.” Then walking off. I would probably laugh if that was my wedding and my maid of honor to did that.
The first story: how telling that the bride's first response is cropping her friend out of photos. If that's not proof that the bride is INCREDIBLY superficial, then I give up.
I'll bet she didn't "crop out" all the money and gifts her friend gave her, though.
Imagine telling her friends the reason she cropped her out of photos. “Oh yea she got cancer and cant be a bridesmaid, yeah terrible friend.” 🫤
Right? Imagine having cancer is NOT a good enough excuse! Then, what would be??
I hope that it was fake
How is it possible to cop someone out of an already posted Instagram post though
When getting doused with the holy water, I would have cringed and shouted, "IT BURNS, IT BURNS!". 😂😂
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😂😂❤
LOL! I was thinking how funny it'd be if it hit a bridesmaid and her makeup melted, "I'm melting, I'm meltinggg!" like the wicked witch😂
Omg, this is too funny! Truthfully, if hubby's best man would've thought of it, he's the type who'd do that!
And we all would've been laughing!😂😂😂👏👏👏
Yes, I know, we're an odd bunch. 😂😂
Me too😂
I recently bought a cute little summer dress. The salesgirl asked if it was for a wedding. It’s… blinding white.
I’ve been sharing my Edit Journey with her. Getting silk flowers and leaves, tulle netting (brown, pink, green)
I’m making a faerie queen dress out of it!
It’s still a freaking cute dress
I went to the bachlorette party of my wife's best friend. Yes, I was invited by the bride. Her groom and I were not friends, but she and I had been friends for years. I ended up the designated sober member of the party, which the ladies said they appreciated because that meant they felt safe to get wild and I managed keeping them just the safe side of the line. Nobody got so crazy that the law was involved, they all had fun, and I kept to the shadows. It would have been very different if I had not been good friends with the bride.
My daughter wants to wear a wedding dress with color. I suggested she request everyone else wear white/light/neutral colors so she would be the only one in color and stand out. I think it would look amazing!
Yes it would. Another bride Charlotte talked about did that with a blush pink wedding dress and had her whole bridal party wear white (because her sieste wanted to ruin the wedding and had planned to wear white - but still). That bride said it was totally gorgeous.
Maybe she doesn’t want to put that much pressure on guests
I finally got married!!! And because I’ve followed you for years, I’m happy to announce: we did it at the courthouse! No bridezilla or toxic family for us. Best decision I’ve ever made.
Stay petty
Congratulations 😍
Congratulations!!! 🍾🎉
Congratulations!!!
Congratulations on your marriage 😊 long and happy years to you
Aww! Thanks that’s so sweet
Another shoutout to Charlotte's editing team! We really appreciate you and think you are very funny! :D
12:59 At the start of her video the bride said these were her NO DRESSES, meaning she rejected these dresses, she’s not being insulted by these comments, she REJECTED them for a reason
I definitely understood stepping down from bridesmaids duties for health reasons. My friend at my wedding about a month beforehand dropped out because she recently started dealing with seizures and didn't want to hinder anything. I definitely understood and even now still love her for taking care of herself first.
You love her because whereas a lot of people feel honored to be a bridesmaid, she would rather step down than chance ruining your day. A sick bridesmaid can not be there for the bride, and she wanted someone who could be there for you to be there. She is a good friend for keeping your special day about you and your groom instead of chanceing an episode and taking the attention away from you. You are a good friend for loving and supporting her through this as well. This is what real friendships are.
I stepped down from being a maid of honour to my best friend and she was beyond supportive and understanding. I'm not in a good place mentally nor financially even, and am still attending the wedding lol. I just can't be the person she deserves on her special day to stand with her.
Imagine if she hadn’t stepped down and felt so ill she shouldn’t get up that day?! I dread to think how the bride would have reacted. I’d have been getting all of my money that I’d put in after her reaction if that was me! What a bitch 😢
That’s because you’re a normal person…. 😁
@@EH23831 lol I try to be as normal as I can. I generally just vibe with whatever is going on. Life is too short.
As a cancer survivor, these stories like the first one piss me off so much! You don't know how hard the battle is for a person. That bride.... hope karma gets her.
It will. Karma doesn't sleep.
I'm excited for her down fall and hope that the bridesmaids is able to beat her cancer and have a fast recovery
I hope her fiancé realizes how selfish and evil she is, and doesn’t marry her at all!
Saw this in action before. Thought it really was an accident. Now I know. My wife kept saying it was not an accident and she enjoyed it. I thought my wife was being a bit mean, but now I know.
That first story… there’s a really respectful, lovely way to deal with that situation. Explain it on your wedding site, shout them out on the day of your wedding, amp them up, support them going through a hard time, and be grateful that it wasn’t a financial loss for you. It’s not hard to be a nice person. You could literally be like “we’re gonna be a bridesmaid short, and this is why.. we wish her all the best and we support her decision.” The reason she opted out was because she didn’t want to let the bride down! It was totally selfless! She clearly tried so hard to be there for her, and finally realized it wasn’t gonna happen. Better to do it on short notice than to do it on the day of! I was a bride last year, and we had a MASSIVE wedding. I can’t imagine being this disgusting about a day that’s supposed to be amazing and perfect and all about LOVE.
I take my husband shopping for clothes because he is brutally honest with what looks good. The rating thing is something he would have done and I appreciate that he is so honest because I have learned from an outside perspective what ACTUALLY looks good on me and what doesn't.
I did this too and he generally has good taste. But I eventually stopped because I like long flowy clothes where he exclusively likes short and tight outfits 😂
@@AmarieCAN29 haha I can absolutely relate! I buy "me" clothes and "him" clothes.
Hi Charlotte😊 Yes.. at Catholic weddings, the priest sprinkles holy water on the RINGS not on the ring BEARER. 😂😂Our priest sprinkled the water, and then let my nephew (our ring bearer) sprinkle the water. It was one of my favorite parts of our wedding. PS- I found you because while planning my wedding in 2021, I searched ‘Bridezilla’ (to make sure I wasn’t one) and I found you! Been a fan ever since. PPS. Some stuff happened at my wedding.. I already know I’m not the asshole. Maybe I’ll share with you someday. It may be healing. Xoxo Rebecca
I look forward to you sharing your wedding tales!
Yeah but sometimes they miss and we all get blessings 😂.
My experience is different. Getting soaked in holy water was my favorite part of mass as a child 😂
Also another Catholic that has been to many Catholic weddings and masses; those hand held sprinklers, they don’t have great aim and it has a wide spray. And you dip this aspergillum (it’s Latin for little sprinkler) and then you throw the holy water.
Sometimes the first few rows are in the splash zone.😂
The fact that you were worried about being a bridezilla means you weren’t one.
After binge watching Charlotte's videos, I've learned a few things. All influencers will crack eventually, but Charlotte seems to be authentically herself. If I've learned anything from watching her videos, I've learned that I want to be one of her friends because she seems like a legitimately solid person. As somebody that was also relentlessly bullied I understand how she has become who she is and for that I hope the people in her life understand the treasure that her friendship truly provides. I feel like to her circle. She is that friend that will be 100% honest while still being gentle with their feelings. She will be honest but she won't be unnecessarily mean.
I think at this point in her life Charlotte has learned how to filter out the people who don't treasure her. When she talks about bad or difficult to deal with friends it's always in the past tense. I agree, I think she'd make a superb friend.
can’t believe the bridesmaid with cancer story! can personally confirm how disappointing it is to have to exclude yourself from the lives of people you care about. my very close friend and former college roommate asked me to be a bridesmaid before i started struggling severely with a chronic illness. i was *beyond* excited to be in her wedding, but when things got bad i had to tell her that i would try my hardest to make it work but there was a chance i would not be up to being there for her wedding (which was also in a distant state, requiring expensive travel which would be hard on my health). i communicated this with her when it became apparent that my situation was chronic & she was beyond understanding just really wanted me to be at the wedding if i could (bc omg we are so close & she had been in my wedding too!) i ended up having to forgo all of the pre-wedding stuff including the bachelorette weekend which would have been the first i ever got to participate in & my chance to meet the other bridesmaids as well as celebrate my friend. i was so sad to not do all the bridesmaid things but luckily had made enough progress that i got my ass to that wedding & was there for her! it was tough on my health for sure but i’m so glad i could make it.
my situation was luckily not as bad as the girl in the story having cancer but i know for a fact that a real friend would NEVER treat someone like that! just totally lacking empathy for the girl’s situation & being so horribly passive aggressive is insane to me! clearly she was sad that she couldn’t fulfill the bridesmaid role but still cared about the bride. so sad
I had to pause after hearing the first story because I'm just speechless. I'm not a bride, but recently I had a birthday party and one of my best friends was making a cake for me. she was struggling with some seriously awful mental health stuff and medication changes and I reached out to her and told her to please not worry about it if it was going to be too much. it's just a cake, I'd rather her take care of herself and her brain. she's such a beautiful human and she told me creating this cake was bringing her joy and she was still happy to do it (and omg it was the most incredible cake I've ever seen!!). I can't imagine being mad at my close friends for taking care of themselves! THE WOMAN HAS CANCER AND YOU'RE GOING TO CUT HER OUT OF YOUR LIFE???? Un-fricking-believable!
I don’t care if I’m in the wedding party or not, if someone shows up to a wedding in white other than the bride, I’m spilling red wine on them.
Unless it's something that was communivsted/organised, absolutly
A gal wore her actual wedding gown to my wedding.. she had it made into a party dress. It was white, my gown was off white. I actually didn't care, I don't know why.
Premeditated, criminal.
I'd be eager to do that too, unless it's something that the bride agreed on. My cousin when getting married told everyone that they can wear white if they want, because her dress was stark white princess gown. I saw at least one guest in a simple off-white mini dress and a lot of guests wore light colours, as it was in the middle of summer and the day was hot, but no one attempted to steal attention from the bride and groom.
I'd pick the nearest cake covered toddler to go give them hugs and kisses 🍫🤗💋👶
I once went to this super terrible bachelorette party and the groom ended up showing up to the hotel and slept in the bed with the bride and it was so absolutely uncomfortable.
We all ended up leaving the hotel room because they started getting physical and we didn't want to be in the room for it.
A lot of people don't talk to the bride anymore and the last I heard he controls every aspect of her life💔😭
The great thing about the wine-spilling trick is that unless you're incredibly aggressive about it, it's very _difficult_ to prosecute/sue for. All you have to do is pretend to trip, & ban, plausible deniability - just don't put the plan in text to anyone (not even the bride) bc that's easy evidence of malice aforethought.
The groom wasn’t rating his bride, rather he was rating the dress itself. But yes, I wonder if she is going to be worried he won’t like the dress she ultimately chose. Dangerous game to play…
The last wedding I was in there was a bridesmaid going through chemo. It was the last time we all got to see her. Beyond happy for everyone that she was there and in the pics. Can't imagine it any other way 🤷🏻♀️
That puts a whole new spin on the first bridezilla.
@@kimgaudet4054 exactly. She didn't care at all about her friend's diagnosis. Broke my heart
If I had a bridesmaid going through cancer treatment I'd be doing EVERYTHING in my power to make sure she could still be part of the wedding party. The other bridesmaids might have a couple extra responsibilities, but I'd be so focused on making sure she could still be a part of my day in the most comfortable way possible (as in, providing accommodations, like extra seating, scheduled breaks, extra snacks, an additional person on hand of needed, etc etc)
The bride in that story is just an awful person and OP is probably (nay, DEFINITELY) better off without her in her life. I hope others saw what happened and pulled out of the wedding too.
Prayers For Everyone Thank You Lord We Love You Lord Thank You In Jesus Christ Holy Name AMEN
If I was the first bride, I would have done anything in my power to encourage the bridesmaid and make any accommodations for her to stay in the party. My girls (and guy) were so important to my day and I couldn’t have imagined it without them. And if she still didn’t feel she could be a part, there would be lots of hugs and understanding and love. Imagine being that shallow 😤
For the ring bearer thing, I don’t think it’s really a real thing but sometimes when the priest is doing the holy water it sometimes kinda goes in more than one direction, and also sometimes they just bless it all lol
I will totally "accidentally" spill wine on a white dress if someone wears a white dress to a wedding who is not the bride... especially if it is the mother of the groom.
I think I should become a strictly wedding caterer who specializes in Foods That Stain, Served On Toothpicks. The greasier & saucier the better. Even if you get the color out of a stain, the grease/oil leaves a permanent blotch. 😈
@@kayjacoby290 like tandoori or satay.
Well, accidents always happen. At least for me, I admit I'm clumsy. And especially clumsy when someone puts on a white dress for a wedding, without being the bride.
But the rule is that the guests don't dress as flamboyantly as the bride and groom. It's the bride and groom's special day and their day to be center of attension.
@@daisy9910have something with turmeric in it. 😂
@@kayjacoby290You definitely NEED to use turmeric then, stains wonderfully bright yellow, especially in white.
I got super soaked with holy water at my grandmother's funeral. She was old school Italian. We were raised Lutheran.
Probably I watch too many scary movies. Because when the holy water landed on my arm, I immediately looked at it, expecting to see sizzling flesh and a little BBQ smoke. 😂
My fast reaction caused everyone around me to look at me with questions in their eyes. I could barely conceal my laughter.
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Love it. Maybe she told the priest to do that.
Knowing Gram, I'm sure she was laughing her ass off in Heaven. 😇
when I was a teenager the priest was walking down the isle splashing holy water and my cousin, my friend and I got splashed and we started laughing so loud we had to run out of there. I still think about it all the time😂😂😂😂
I wore red and black so people wore white at my wedding and I was cool with that. I should note I did get married on Halloween 🎃
I was the maid of honour at my best friend's wedding, at her sister had threatened to wear white. I was definitely prepared to spill whatever coloured liquid I could find if she followed through on that threat
the first one reminds me of a bridezilla story you read to us quite a while back. The woman was going through cancer treatments and was losing her hair, and the bride wanted her to wear a wig, or simply not come. The response the patient gave was brilliant. The second one in this video made me think of a rather disturbing reason for why she wanted to bring her boyfriend. I was in an abusive relationship once where the guy I was with didn't want me going anywhere without him. It was so he could keep an eye on me and make sure I wasn't cheating. Even though he was the cheater. Really hope this woman isn't in this situation.
Omg, I remember that story about the bridesmaid with cancer and losing her hair!
Unfortunately, I can't remember what she clapped back with rn.
I also hope that the bridesmaid trying to bring her fiancé isn't in an abusive and controlling relationship. I was for 6 years. Thankfully I was in a bestie's wedding on the opposite coast and was able to put my foot down and go all by myself.
(The fact that my girl had my back and changed my flight to one day earlier and at 3 am was REALLY helpful. Lol! Take THAT, jerk!)
Cheaters are always suspicious.
My first wife was a serial cheater, and she was always controlling like that.
It sounds like this happens more often than we think.
I can’t stop the tears for the cancer patient and her horrible bride. Wasn’t there a bride who fired bmade for having cancer? Ugh. 💔🙏💐
The intermittent "knock knock" edits kept making me giggle more than necessary and idk why
The knocking and the editing of the knocks in this video is so damn funny omggggg 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Anyone else find that Charlotte videos are just not long enough? I always get super excited at the start but as soon as it ends i crash and crave more 😂
If you want to PERFORM weddings you need an officiant license, a marriage license is for YOU to get married 😂 Does she have secret news she's keeping from us? 🤔😁
Exactly, she needs to get ordained! 😉
There have been hints...she and Mike are looking for a place, she stopped using birth control. I pay attention.
I hope she "invites" everyone here for the wedding (live video) ❤🎉
Glad im not the only one who noticed! 😀😅
@@pwmgirl I'd pay to watch her wedding on a live feed or a pay per view showing after the fact.
A marriage license is not to become an officiant but to document by the government that two people are married. I was a bit scared for Mike and her(rushed weddings can be iffy), but im sure thats what she meant
The flamingo behind you, sometimes looks like a flower in your hair. It's just so cute and pretty 💕
13:51 MOH is also allowed to fight people. MOH is basically free security 😂😂
13:15-- I think the groom knew those where the "No, dresses" so he felt he could be harsh. Also he's rating the dresses, not how she looks in the dresses. She asked him to "rate the dresses" so that's what he did.
I think the groom who gave opinions on the rejected wedding dresses was showing support...agreeing with her decision not to choose those. They obviously had a laugh and share a sense of humor...so I bet the buildup to the actual accepted and chosen wedding dress ended with him saying it was perfection!
It's the clip of the goat screaming, captioned "Charlotte reacting to videos" for me. I'm so glad there's no one in my house right now, because I ugly laughed so hard.
If you don’t want someone’s opinion on your dress, don’t ask. He didn’t rate her 2.5/10, he disliked the dress. Fair play to him. No one wants to marry a liar.
Facts. He was judging the dress.
Agree - she was obviously ok with it, or else she wouldn’t have asked…😁
He was also rating under the assumption that she didn't like the dresses, so he probably wanted to keep them on the low side so it was obvious he agreed with her decision.
My bad i replied and didnt see i basically repeated ur post lol😮
I took my now late wife clothes shopping for business wear. My wife was still rockin' that Jersey girl look with flat-heeled suede boots, animal print scarves, oversized tee shirts with kittens and so on and so forth.
Between me and the sales girl at...Kathryn's, I think it was, the woman looked fire!
We did one of those, what do you call them, those capsule wardrobes where you can mix and match articles and accessories. She ended up with enough clothes that we figured she could go for a month and not wear exactly the same outfit twice.
I wasn't judging her. While she was a big girl, I was fine with that. I was judging her abysmal taste in clothing. Said the guy who thinks Dockers and polo shirts are as dressy as anyone needs to be.
It did wonders for her, especially since she was in real estate. Such a boost for her attitude and her confidence - which is sexy, in case nobody told you.
Now there was that one video I saw where it was the bride's idea to have her bestie's boyfriend propose at her wedding. She had all the ladies stand together for the bouquet toss, and pretended to get ready to toss it, then turned around, handed the flowers to her bestie and turned her around. At that point the boyfriend was behind her, on one knee, with ring in hand.
If the bride is in on it and she's okay with it that's fine. But to do it without asking is rude.
Such proposals are okay IF AND ONLY IF the bride and groom are happy for it to happen. When the couple helps carry out the proposal, their approval is evident.
Bride is ok. It’s totally fine.
The casual cruelty of the first bride of removing her bridesmaid from all pictures leaving no traces of OP and their friendship if OP would loose her battle to cancer, while the bridesmaid is still graciously fighting her battle instead of supporting her is mind boggling.
Love you Charlotte! But seriously lost it when your editor edited a quick burn on the screaming goat clip! It is a laughterous disease from which I may never recover!😂
I was the maid of honor in my sister's wedding and she told me to spill red wine to anyone that was wearing white to the wedding, it was one of my duties that day and i took it very seriously. I let all the bridesmaids and friends of the bride and other guests (even males) to know what would happen if were wearing white. Thankfully no one was that stupid and she was very pleased and had a very nice day, she look gorgeous and the wedding was spectacular. But yes, it is a maid of honors duty.
Yes, and you know that this can be construed as an assault? And if you were sued in civil court, you would probably have to pay up. Not a good look!
@@CharlotteStocktonif people don't want to get wine spilled on them, then when someone tells you you CAN'T dress in white on someone else's wedding or do ANYTHING on purpose to take away attention from the happy couple and want to purposefully ruin the wedding, maybe actually put your ego aside and LISTEN. That way, you won't get "assaulted". Play stupid games, ya get stupid prizes
@@cindypicadomolina7814 Yes, and if you play the stupid games of "spilling" wine on someone then you risk the stupid prize of arrest or liability. It would be much more mature, to get someone to turn these people away from the door.
@@CharlotteStockton unfortunately, these people throw fits if you make them leave, using the excuse that it's "their special day too". For example, family members, jealous friends and ESPECIALLY the mother in laws
@@cindypicadomolina7814 Hire guards at the door, trespass them off the premises, that way THEY are in trouble with the law, not the bridesmaid.
that first story is absolutely insane and i am so mad for her
2:50 "don't worry about it, I got it" I like her. 💚
Wow. I am SO glad I got married in the 90s and not now. there wasn’t such an emphasis on “it’s the brides day“ or having a deluxe wedding with dinners and entertainment and all. I think my budget for my wedding was $2000. My two sisters and best friend were bridesmaids, I gave them a color swatch each and asked them to get a dress that matched it that they could wear again, so they weren’t wasting their money. I wore my mother’s gown that she had made for herself out of ivory slub silk. My oldest sister had worn it before me, but I didn’t see the problem with that; after all, it was a handmade wedding dress that Mom had sewn.
My then fiancé had his two brothers and best friend as his groomsman. My boss took the pictures for me, and they all turned out beautifully. Our wedding music was done by two professional contra dance musicians. They played “haste to the wedding” for the trip up the aisle, and “the bride’s a Bonnie thing” for the recessional. After the ceremony we had cake and contra dancing (a community folk dance done with partners, very fun.) I was so happy just to have my friends and family sharing the day with us, with everybody laughing and talking and having a great time. I don’t even think we had alcohol, except for maybe some champagne. The marriage left something to be desired, but the wedding was perfect.
I'm single, i don't even have a boyfriend now, but i absolutely LOVE these vídeos. I watch all of them... many times, haha. Charlotte makes everything so good and funny. 😂♥️
Always. She’s such a bestie and I adore her for it.
@@erikarussell1142 exactly, i completely agree.
She has no idea that she helped me during the most difficult time in my life, mourning the sudden loss of my sister.
Charlotte’s sense of humor and kindness helped me smile again.
@@AimeeAimee444 she helped me a lot too, during a very difficult time for me.
Charlotte already has a license to makes us laugh...so much everyday. 😂♥️👑
License of laughter
I almost choked on my water when you slid in the screaching goat video. 😅😂😅
My ex-husband’s brother was the best man at our wedding; he asked that we include his girlfriend in the wedding party so she didn’t feel left out during all the wedding activities. Not only did she try to back out and cancel the night before the wedding she showed up to the wedding in a literal wedding gown. At that point I literally just put her at the very end of the line of bridesmaids so she could be cropped out of all photos
I find these bridesmaids stories so wild. I’ve been a bridesmaid in six weddings and never the reasoning behind the choice of bridesmaids in any of those weddings was financial or availability of people to be there 24/7 for the bride.. it was all about having your closest friends around you on such an important day, regardless of the different possibilities of those involved.. imagine erasing someone close enough that you’d ask them to be a bridesmaid from your life when they have cancer, yikes
That first story about the brave woman stepping down because she's battling cancer... it's one thing to hear the bride act this ridiculous and immature... but for other folks who are complete strangers saying "we wish we knew where you live" is just absolutely horrendous. Who raised these people? Their not even people, because anyone with a soul would not respond in such a hideous manner. Quite frightening, actually.
I'm a florist by trade. I have been a floral designer over 40 years now.
When I was working for one lady she constantly would misspeak to make herself sound smarter than us "pee on".
There was one of my work friends that worked directly across from me. We would do our best to not criticize her, and we never corrected her, because she would explode. Not correcting her was our revenge for being a witch most of the time. We just provided her the rope. What she did with it was not our business.😂
But some of the things she would say would be,
"Ring barrier" or mispronounce the name of the flowers. But my absolute favorite one is, " He has a self defecating sense of humor" 😂😂😂😂 I'm dead. 🤣🤣🎉
"The 1 day a woman has to herself" ? I nearly fell off my chair laughing.
Priest decided to catch all the demons in one go by throwing Holy water on the ring bearer as well. 😂
Yes! Weddingzillas! 😂 It boggles my mind that someone could treat their “friend” (obviously not her friend) when she’s dealing with cancer! Girl you should be glad the trash took itself out.
Right, she said some people need to stop being so reactive but maybe it was a good thing because this “friend” showed her true colors. Don’t need friends like that.
Why is it such a fuss if someone wears white to a wedding? No one will outshine a bride no matter what they wear! A simple white dress simply doesn't compare to a bridal gown. No one will have the glow about them that is the brides'. I couldn't care less what anyone wears. I'd just be happy to be getting married. No one in a white dress gets to walk down the aisle, be married at the front of the church, and walk back down the aisle with all eyes on them. They make a grand entrance at the reception, sit at the bridal table, and are the first to dance, with their husband, while everyone is watching. People take the floor and flatter both her husband and the bride, in their speeches. They are the centre of attention the whole day/night. It's a very insecure and needy bride who puts so much attention on what someone wears to their wedding. A lady can look stunningly attractive in any colour dress and draw attention to herself!
Marriage license is for the bride and groom. The Officiant's license is for the person conducting the ceremony.
There it is! I’m reading these comments questioning my own sanity 😉 Thanks for clearing that up!
Picture Charlotte being escorted out by the priest… “But I have a marriage license “ 😂 Charlotte is the best lol
Ok that last guy is giving me life 😂😂😂
Lol the 'ring bear' 😊😊
Hey Charlotte, I wanted to point out something I think you missed with the bridesmaids argument about the boyfriend. There was 1 line in the text that I think tells the whole story. The entitled bridesmaids says “ it doesn’t matter if we have our own room but I just like having him next to me” meaning that she wanted to bring him along even if she had to share the room with another bridesmaid. She was disgustingly entitled and gave no consideration to the comfort of any bridesmaid who had to share the room with her and her boyfriend. I think it’s reasonable to assume that this boyfriend would be a complete stranger to the other bridesmaids and therefore would make sharing the room very uncomfortable. But even if they aren’t strangers, sharing a room with a couple in the bed next to you would also be very uncomfortable. So she really expected the paying bridesmaid to finance their vacation.
A friend of mine went on a trip with another friend. Who promptly picked up a guy in the hotel bar. And they did the nasty with the other girl in the room! No. She will not ever share a hotel room with her again.
I think you misunderstood that sentence.
I think you got that one wrong, as in another sentence she points out she won't bring him along if she doesn't have a room of her own.
I think she was backtracking when she said wouldn't bring him if she doesn't have a room of her own
It was the bride that wanted to bring her fiance, not a bridesmaid.
I love wedding tiktoks,especially if they are messy😂
The ring bearer should have yelled “It burns!! It burns!!” 😂😂
Father just felt some kind of way about it 😂😂😂
My favorite part of the day! Walk my dog. Have some breakfast and watch Charlotte! My best friends daughter said I sounded like you the other day and I was so excited. Haha. ❤
Me too ❤
My best friend has cancer. I asked her to be my maid of honor. I'm a very low key person and she knew I didn't care about extravagant bs. My ceremony was nice casual and the reception was just a BBQ at my other best friends house. I gave my MOH free rein for her dress, makeup and hair. She looked so beautiful and I will be her matron of honor later this year. Same thing for her. Lowkey and just a party. I would NEVER have asked her to do anything that was too strenuous or over the top. She has cancer. I don't understand these shallow people with their ridiculousness expectations
That's so sweet! I do hope that she is able to beat her cancer soon!
And in a few months ( If she dies) I hope not but her death with overshadow your big day and every single year
Year 1 “ Oh I remember maid of honor said or did this”
Year 5 “ MOH would’ve done this that and the other if still alive
Year 10 “ MOH would have had 2 kids a house and other shit”
No one remembers you
Luckily her cancer is very treatable and it's just a matter of containing it then treating it. It's a weird form of leukemia that once contained she takes medication for the rest of her life. And we're both older, own our own homes and are established.
Lol the one where the fiance rated the dresses she didn't pick, she asked for his opinion and she didn't get them so I think it was all in good fun. I have a notorious bad fashion sense (I struggle with matching outfits lol) and my partner has a really good fashion sense because his mom would teach him to coordinate outfits when he was little (based on color, texture, style, etc). So I'll literally go to him for advice like "does this go together?" and he knows he can give his honest feedback because he's not calling me ugly or stupid, he's literally just telling me whether to pieces of clothing go well together or not lol. And some things flatter our shape more than others, doesn't mean we're the problem, it's the clothes.
Yh i agree with you. If i want to look good in my wedding i want honest opinions. He wasn’t calling her a 2 out of 10 he was saying the dresses were
Omg XD Ngl the shadow demon caught me so off guard, my heart dropped for a second.
I fullly condone “accidentally” spilling red wine on a guest who wears white. 1000% yes 👍🏽
Charlotte you’ve done so many of these wedding videos and you didn’t realize that spilling red wine on somebody who’s wearing a white dress was a thing?
I didn’t know that was a thing!!
A passive aggressive thing.
@@alamedadanceparty there are so many Reddit stories about mostly MIL’s showing up in white, or a straight up wedding dress & someone will accidentally spill red wine on their dress.
A really awesome one the MIL & SIL got identical dresses to the bride & she found out. She had all the guests & her bridesmaids wear their own wedding dresses, while the bride wore a purple wedding dress. They were so mad it their plan failed. 🤣🤣🤣
@@lotstodo uh no. Wearing a white dress to a wedding is passive aggressive. Spilling red wine on said dress is petty revenge. 😈
@@nikki9125I think I seen that story in one of Charlotte's videos I think!! Absolutely loved that everyone wore white, and the mil and sil didn't get to feel special 😂😂
Maybe, I'm way too chill; but, my mother wore a white beaded dress that she wore for her own wedding (cocktail length) and a good friend of mine wore a completely white dress suit. They both looked stunning! I couldn't have cared less! It did not even occur to me to be threatened by them wearing white. Who on earth cares?? Everybody knows who the bride is! I would not wear a white dress to a wedding, just because I know it can upset the bride; however, my wedding day was about my family and having those we loved around us, NOT what they chose to wear.
OMG EXACTLY!!!!!
5:31 if I was the ring bearer as soon as the holy water hit me I would have screamed IT BURNS just to see the priest reaction lol
14:17 I love this guy! I'm debating showing this to my Spanish class but I know they're going to want a full translation and that last part is a bit spicy.
We didn't have a wedding and not once in 41 years have I regretted it. The marriage is what is important.
5:44 I wish the ring bearer had started screaming!!😂
The priest was definitely performing a exorcism while blessing the couple 😂