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🎥💔 WEDDING TikTok DRAMA: Secrets, Scandals, and Unexpected TWISTS! 💔🎥
Hey, TikTok fam! Get ready to dive into the jaw-dropping world of wedding drama that's been brewing on the app! It's your girl, Charlotte Dobre, and I'm here to spill all the tea on the most scandalous moments that have taken the wedding TikTok community by storm. Buckle up, because this is going to be a wild ride!
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I went to a wedding where the bride said since it's about love, she wanted that the already married women wore their old wedding dresses. And it was beautiful !
It sounds grand !
I think since white was an option AND the groom was "dressed Like THAT" then the bride should have worn Peach & everyone in white was automatically ok!
Gorgeous ❤
Sounds like a lovely idea. Brides never get to wear their dress again after the big day 😊
That was my idea as well for if I ever get married. It's so sad that it only gets to be worn once.
If I accidentally ruined a wedding by getting it shut down I think the guilt would compel me to get a second job to pay back the bride, how are those teens and their parents not embarrassed!!!
I am so sad for the bride. The parents should pay her and have the teens work to pay them back.
Yeah they could mow her lawn for a year or something those parents are teaching the wrong lessons
Oh my gosh, if my kids were responsible for ruining anything at a wedding I would be falling all over myself to pay for it and apologize.
...then those kids would be doing chores for me and paying me back for as many years as it takes. They have to know that when they screw up, they are the ones who pay for it.
I agree. Also, I think the kids’ futures would only be mildly hurt, and only if their parents didn’t pony up for what was clearly their fault, and made it go to court. Otherwise, the kids will be fine
That’s because you’re a decent person. Unfortunately, that’s a rare thing in 2023. Especially when it comes to parents who have been coddling their brats since day 1.
I went to a wedding last year where the girlfriend of the brides ex (baby daddy) wore a white sundress. The bride didn't care a single bit BUT everybody was giving side eye the entire time. Whispers of "is she crazy?""what's wrong with her?" and "oh no she did not" were everywhere. If you wear white to wedding you WILL be judged. Regardless of how the bride feels about it.
....Why was the ex at the wedding?
@@vidgealzshe had a child with the groom, so I'd imagine she was there with their kid.
Like you can't really invite young kids without at least one parent and the groom would not have been in the position to take care of the kid, as the wedding couple has a lot of other responsibilities.
Yeah because people are annoying
I wore white to a wedding when I was 13 because I didn’t know better. I found out and apologized to my cousin for it and she said she didn’t care cuz I looked country cute. Thank god it was my cousin who understood I was young and didn’t understand at the time. BLESS THAT WOMAN AND LESSON LEARNED ON MY BEHALF.
can i ask why your parents didn’t say anything?
@@iwishiknewyourmom69because she was literally 13, who cares??! Is she a child bride?? Anyone who has a problem with that is the problem
@@a1ntcry1noveru sure, ok. i was asking a simple question. no need to be rude.
@@iwishiknewyourmom69to be honest I felt it a bit loaded too.
@@katalintimeaborsos5806 i don’t understand how me politely asking a question because i was curious is “loaded” but ok.
I liked the story on Reddit I read where the bride heard her MIL and SIL were going to wear wedding dresses to her wedding . So she contacted everyone else on her wedding list and told them to wear their wedding dresses as well. MIL and SIL showed up and were upset they were not the only guests to be wearing white.
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I saw that and I thought it was hilarious
Charlotte did a show with them in it.
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You know what's insane? I got a save the date and then no invite came... so I messaged the bride a little over a week before the wedding confirming that I was indeed invited because head counts, food amounts matter, and weddings are expensive!! And I was not offended if I wasn't, but I wanted to be there so I reached out. Turns out my invite had gotten lost and I was absolutely invited!! Communication and love people 💕
EXACTLY THIS. This is why I find it suspicious that the message to mikayla started out so hostile. Especially when the save the date had enough details to doxx the event. (I would assume that meant it was the final notice...but I don't know wedding procedures)
Does anybody know who this person is? I'm so curious but have no idea about "influencers''
I'd call Charlotte a Content Creator, I feel like there's a huge difference😄
Yes! IDK why that supposed friend acted so crazy about the invite. Went from maybe not having an invite to not having a friend period
Exactly! Communication is so easy in those situations, by the power of texting. Yes, it would hurt if you weren’t actually invited. That sucks. But even if left on read, that doesn’t at all justify doxing her location! How does “you said you would invite me, but then you didn’t invite me.” Make people thinks it’s okay to put someone in potential danger. If the wrong person saw that address, who knows what could have happened.
Some people really need therapy.
It’s totally possible the invite could have just gotten lost. The people excusing that “friend’s” behavior are basically saying that if you feel hurt by someone it’s okay to send a horrible message like that to the bride and go trash talk them on social media the day before their wedding.
my daughters wedding theme was black and white for the guests. Everyone looked awesome, except my son in laws boss-- he looked like he'd come straight from a farm,tending cattle, choosing to wear jeans and a blue checked shirt. There's always one.
I didn’t realize the bride could dictate the guest’s wardrobe.
I have seen one wedding where white dresses were part of the theme. They had a black and white wedding, with everyone wearing black, white or both, while the bride and groom were in silver. It was really cute. I think the bride decided to do it, just because she knew someone would show up in a white dress.
Charlotte: Mikayla has been in a lot of drama this year and..”
Me: “ Who the hell is Mikayla?”.😂
Same
Exactly
Same😂
Same 😂 I was like “who?” Lol
Same. I don't go on social media.
Wearing white to a wedding is the most “look at me,” behavior.
My half sister 😂 I didn’t know her growing up but tried to form a relationship now that we’re all adults but she showed up in white to my wedding it was short but still and didn’t even bother going to my other sister’s wedding because it required buying a plane ticket.
I honestly didn't know it was that big of a deal.
My mother had a very expensive white dress with beautiful flowers on it. It cost five times more than my wedding dress. But she wore that same dress to all her granddaughters weddings. My mother could dress. It was lovely and subtle. I have kept that dress to wear to my granddaughters weddings.
Fairy themed with four colors to choose from (including white) though …
@@moniqueengleman873well “mother of the bride” and “mother of the groom” often do wear white or champagne colored dresses. they’re not a regular guest. although some would argue it’s still inappropriate for MOB/MOG to wear a literal wedding dress. it’s not their wedding, let the bride have her moment.
Or she's not over the groom and their relationship is secret from the bride
That lady at 18:00 her accent is like hot butter on a biscuit. I love it.
In my culture, the bride wears red/maroon/pink and literally more than half of the girls show up in these colours too. I didn't even know till now that wearing the same colour dress as the bride is a big deal in some cultures.
Yeah I think Charlotte is going a bit overboard with not wearing white at all. The point is to not show up in a wedding dress.
It gives brides something else to be dramatic about.
My husband's cousin was wearing a white dress at my wedding. (Yes whole wedding gown ) . One of the waitresses “accidentally” throws an entire bottle of hot sauce on her. I didn’t ask her that, but she did it, and I gave her a huge tip and my most thankful note ever. Also, talk to the manager, and I told him I asked her. She was an angel.
Every time I go to that restaurant I tip big!
Hahaha she’s a real one for that 💯
I think evrry wedding invite should come with an obligatory "if you wear white, you risk the possibility of accidental wine spillage. Be warned." And then have a designated wine spiller for anyone who decides to act out
@@elliondecoteau5985 don’t waste the wine, I think the hot sauce is a cheaper option lol
Is English your second language
@@katiemaryrose6341 Why does it matter? Stick to the content hun.
I don’t know who Michaela is so maybe I’m able to be impartial - it’s tacky to send a save the date and then no invitation, if you want to uninvite someone you need to tell them to their face.
Not to mention James Charles was there who was in drama with her (the bride) a couple months ago. He was calling her out on TikTok
It's probably all made up in the end by all of the parties involved just to get them more views. Influencer drama is pretty fake.
EXACTLY
I think it depends.....what if that save the date was sent like a year or more ago and after that they had a falling out over something. The friendship may have been over before the invitations were sent out. We honestly don't know the details.
Right?! It’s tacky to be upset but not tacky to send a “save the date” and get no invite or follow up😂
The save the date one happened to me with a cousin. And it just so happened my husband had a cousin marrying the same day. We resolved the competing weddings by deciding to go to my cousins because we went to his the last time. Well... except we never got an invite. We had to reach out to find out they limited their list and invited several members of their church instead of us. Cool Cool. Glad to know we were so unimportant you couldn't even call or email to let us know.
Exactly. If I get a save the date and plan on being at your event, I will be turning down other invitations because you asked me to save that date for you.
Yep, that’s why the move was so tacky. It’s meant to be for the core people who are absolutely invited (time off work, hotels, flights) since invites should be sent out more than a month in advance which is enough time for satellite folks to make a decision.
Mikayla wedding was honestly a brand trip 😂 that was sponsored 😂 like wtf. She has enough money but to have your wedding sponsored and it turned into a brand trip is something else. 😂😂
Didn’t her launch some makeup in collab with elf for her wedding? That is a brand trip
That first bride has too much patience. If you, as a guest, "rock up" to a wedding in white. You're liable to getting "rocked"
Yes. I would've kicked them out....
Rock on ! 🤘
She did go back and change before the ceremony though. That's when the wedding starts right? Not snarky, really am asking. I'm dumb on this stuff.
@@NotJamy Lol it's fine, weddings confuse us all. The aunty offered to change before the reception (which happens after the ceremony). That means the bride would've been walking down the aisle, while the aunty was wearing white.
@@NotJamythat was the first, the second didn't attend the wedding and was late to the reception.
My heart breaks for the girl who's underage cousins got her wedding shut down. As someone who worked at age 16, my parents would have paid for what cost she lost out on, and would have garnished my paychecks till they were paid back in full, not only would my parents have opened a can of whoops ass on me, I would be required to give my said cousin a proper apology. It's sad how some parents raise there kids these days. Doubt those kids are gonna go far in life, or have ever faced any actual consequences for there behavior prior to this.
Being a teenager and raising a teenager, I know for a fact you cannot control these little fucker's actions. I understand the liability aspect...I dunno how this could have been handled properly. I guess no one under 21 period the end. I grew up in a different era.
The two teenagers parents should have paid for whatever the costs were! I can’t even imagine how embarrassing this would have been 30 minutes into the reception! Why didn’t the parents each make it known of the required no hard liquor ! If they did this then pay the costs to bride and groom and make your sorry kids pay you back! Parents always have a different view of their kids stupid actions when they have to pay out money for it !! Those parents are idiots and B & G should take them to court if they don’t want to pay!
like, those kids need summer jobs and butt whoopins, lol
@@user-mama_thomas Hell, I'm 54 and get a wild hair. Still, I would be mortified if i Fd someones wedding. The little asshat kids, and I can call them that because I've been an asshat myself, should compensate this bride and groom. My parents didn't let me get away with shit.
@@andreabradley5837it’s not about what the did per say, that ship sailed, it’s about how you make things right when you wrong someone. These parents are showing these kids that if you give a half baked verbal “apology” then all is right with the world.
My kid is quite young and he even knows (a little from me but mainly Daniel Tiger if I’m being totally honest) that saying “I’m sorry” is the first step, the “how can I help?” The parents are teaching them to skip that crucial second step.
My stepmom wore a wedding dress to my wedding. I was embarrassed for her but people's reactions in the wedding video are hilarious lol
My Sister was living with 4 girls one of whom had just moved into the property, my sister then got proposed too. When this "new roommate" found out my sister was engaged she started demanding and harassing her to make her a bridesmaid. It eventually got to the point where my sister had to move out. Some people just be delulu, especially when weddings are involved.
For the Save the Date drama... separating who this was about from the scenario, there is a reason a Save the Date is sent out. It is so people can make necessary arrangements to attend, such as taking off work if needed, if it's out of town booking hotels and even flights. If I received a Save the date, made all those arrangements and then learned I wasn't invited yeah I'd be pissed cause I'd be out all that money. Obviously this particular situation has many layers to it so we can't judge based on the little info we have. But in general, sending a Save the Date and then not inviting is wrong on many levels.
ikr i mean theres layers to this of course, bullying someone is not right, but like if u see it from the surface like this....BAD MOVE on the bride's part.
Yea, then the guest should’ve reached out when she didn’t get the actual invite…..like months before so they could talk about it and she’d have plenty of time to cancel. It sounds like the “friend” didn’t reach out until the day before, which to me, is childish.
@jillianzouski9410 Even if there was plenty of time to cancel, unless you pay extra or for insurance, you lose the flight costs. Agreed communication is important. But everyone was saying really it's not a big deal if you get a Save the Date and not an invitation. I still maintain it is a big deal. But yes, communication is key, always.
The only bad move Makayla made was sending the save the date to these people who turned it into this huge shit fest. That was it. This so called friend of hers immediately decided to tear Makayla down instead of talking to Makayla directly and asking her what's going on. Yes I can understand being upset by being sent the Save the Date part and not getting an invitation but I don't think this friend shoulda got it in the first place. For all we know, Makayla had every intention on inviting her but things may have happened that made Makayla rethink and not send her said invite. And from what the lady who attended said wedding said, there was probably a damn good reason for that.
@jadeshadowwolf717 I'm not disputing that. Like I said though, take the fact this person is a celeb out of the mix. Let's talk about a regular person like you or me. If I receive a Save the Date, make all the preparations, spend all that money, and the realize I was not actually invited, I'm going to be pissed cause I'm out money. That's what everyone seems to be forgetting about. Even Charlotte treated it like it wasn't a big deal, but I know deep down she wouldn't appreciate losing that money and being treated that way by a friend. Just my thoughts...
Weddings need a designated drama person, one person who has free rein to just straight up say to people youre wearing something inappropriate and have colourful scarfs to cover up any white
Omg this! Yes absolutely
That's a great idea, having colorful scarves to hand out to people who need to cover up their white dresses.
My best friend and me will be each others MOH and we made the plan to buy a super ugly wrap dress and bring it to the weddings and if anyone has the audacity to wear white they have to wear that thing. 🥰 and since I have seen a shocking amount of off-white dress jackets at weddings this season no worries we don’t discriminate men can also rock the wrap dress.
Isn't that the job of the brides maids/groomsmen? Y'all supposed to be there for your besties that day, so be THERE for them when people pull BS.
This is my job any where I go! And I am self employed! I just can’t NOT say anything when I see people doing fuck shit!
15:21 LMAO y’all did that TikTok girl dirty leaving her frozen for over 1 minute making that face. 😂
My husband and I are goofballs. During wedding planning I chose a lot of movie theme music. Yes, movie music. Star wars, Pirates, fiddler on the roof, Beverly hills cop, Ghostbusters, and I chose the Harry Potter theme for walking down the aisle. My husband threatened to grow out a Hagrid beard and wear the costume. He giggled every time he mentioned it. I got a lot of compliments on the music and the dj loved the fact that I was doing something different from the usual wedding music. Husband was wearing the outfit we had purchased and had gone for a professional shave that morning.
Forgetting all the drama at 12:15, I don’t even know who this is (or any influencers for that matter and I’d rather not know anything about any of them), but I always thought that the “save the date” card sent out for a wedding WAS THE ACTUAL invitation. I mean, why would you ask people to save the date just to end up not inviting them, that is just rude in my opinion. If you need to cut down your guest list do it BEFORE sending out anything like that, otherwise your just being rude saying “I wanted you at my wedding but not THAT badly because we aren’t that close, still hope we can be friends though.” Talk about a metaphorical slap to face.
I also thought the same that a save the date was an invite.....glad I haven't gotten married yet or else I would have offended everyone. Lol. Especially since didn't they say it also included all of the details on the event too, with that much info i would assume that was the final notice. What if that person just misunderstood and didn't show.
Another possibility is that they had a falling out and the friendship ended, and if that did happen why would you bother uninviting (cuz that could be taken as trying to stir up drama) if you aren't friends anymore. We honestly don't know the details.
It's really rude to send a save the date and not follow up with an invite without an explanation. And the explanation should be a valid one, not "oops, we invited too many, sorry".
Exactly. I don't condone doxing but I would be freaking mad as well. Also you said you don't know this influencer but she got in trouble for doing paid promotional tick tocks without disclosing... That is why everyone is annoyed that her wedding seems so promotional.
@@ellenkarlsson9490 with how much info was on that save the date though...they had to be notified that they weren't invited, otherwise odds are they would show up.
@@sophiel5249 it's that doxxing bit that has me questioning things actually....because if a save the date has that much detailed information, you would have to notify those people that you didn't send a separate invite to, to tell them not to show up since they were already sent all the information. 🤔
Nah, I’m with the girl who texted Mikayla. She didn’t even let her know “hey sorry, we won’t be able to invite you.” She just straight up didn’t send an invite and ghosted her. Disrespectful. They could’ve been friends for a long ass time. We don’t know they’re story. Just because it’s harsh language and some people aren’t used to that doesn’t mean that she’s a shitty friend.
Exactly but Charlotte is in same business so definitely she's supporting mikalya
It’s crazy that no one seems to have the opinion that blasting a friend on social media for not inviting you to their wedding after sending a save the date is also extremely classless and shows that they also rely strongly on the validation of strangers to feel better just like the bride does. If the bride is so shit then the friend should be pleased that she now knows where she stands and can cut her off with no drama but instead wants to blow up the whole situation and immortalise it on social media 🤷♀️ Also, no one “deserves” an invite to anything. It’s an honour to be invited to someone’s wedding no matter how long you’ve known them. There is so much to the story we don’t know about but I guarantee you that a “classy” person would not be making a big deal about their friend break up on social media. Im not saying the bride wasn’t in the wrong because it was deffo a massive dickhead move for her to do that but this friend is totally just using the brides name to try and create some clout for themselves and it’s insanely hypocritical.
Tbh they both seem pretty shitty, though honestly I dont think the text she sent was too bad, it’s putting it on social media that’s the issue.
On the last one, first of all I had to look up who Makayla was. 2nd, I'm with the friend on this one, not Makayla. Ghosting your own friend and uninviting her to the wedding without an explanation is shitty behavior. We don't know what went on in their friendship but she is right. Looking back at her wedding pictures, she is going to wish she would have invited people she is close with, not influencers who she doesn't even know. The friend doxxing her is wrong too imo, but she's right about everything else.
I know this is 5 months in, but I completely agree with you. The thing that got me was the influencer comment that this friend who is calling her out in a text didn't go and post a video in support of Makayla, which is highly egotistical. Not everyone in the world posts videos at the drop of a hat or whenever a friend cries a tear. It's possible that friend tried to be there for whatever "drama" Makayla was going through, just not posting videos about it. I think, like all of these stories, there's more to the story than what even Ms. Dobre knows. I could be wrong, but that's how it seems to me. #JustMyOpinion
But, how do we know if she was really an old friend and not some random person from the internet? Or if any of the is true?
@@oaktreedialogues6318 I would assume that someone would have come out with proof that it was all a lie. Even the guests, who are supposedly her "nearest and dearest", don't try to refute that the girl was Makayla's friend. Someone would have been shouting from the rooftops in Makayla's defense if it weren't rooted in truth. Also, Makayla's answer to anything she doesn't like is to just ghost the situation. She can't really be upset when that blows up in her face all the time.
What do you mean "why is it important for you to be invited"? How is it not important if your friend sends you save the date and not the actual invite JUST to invite a bunch of strangers? And then leaves you on read? Mikayla deserved every word her friend said to her.
Just to play devil's advocate on the Save the Date thing. I could see why the person would be upset to receive a Save the Date but not an invite as it can give off "just buy me a gift...you're not invited" vibes. The bride and groom are entitled to invite anyone they want and should always have the final say, but I wouldn't send a Save the Date to someone you have no intention of inviting. That's hurtful.
I think it’s worse that she invited James Charles who called her out a couple months ago on social media (I believe Tik Tok). And not the friend of ten years
@@audreymarsman5477 Ehh she's allowed to invite who she wants. I think the friend of 10 years showed her true colors with her reaction, which was not reasonable. Being hurt that she received a Save the Date but not the invite and then reaching out to her directly, not blasting her on social media, is reasonable. She's still within her rights to deny the invite....it's just tacky.
I agree it’s tacky to send a “save the date,” then not follow up with a reason for not sending an invite. However, it’s still doesn’t justify a “friend” whining about it to the internet, while also doxxing the location with screenshots. These “harms” are not the same.
She could have invited 100 random strangers off the street over this person and it would still not warrant this reaction. She’s obviously dodged a bullet by cutting this person out.
2 things about this....1, with that much info included on the save the date, I would assume that was the final notice and not expect anything else. (So...unless something went sour between them prior to the wedding, they could have misunderstood and didn't show up even though they were expected) 2, what if the save the date was sent over a year prior and they had a falling out and the friendship ended ....then you would 1+1=2 figure that since the friendship ended no need to notify that they are no longer invited, because that would look like trying to stir up drama.
@@csmith19788i agree that her reaction was not okay, but i think she wanted to get mikayla's attention & didn't know how else to do that. if your friend of 10 years did that to you & was ignoring all your direct messages & they had gone from a normal person to an influencer in that time, i can see the logic behind "if i make a video about her bad behaviour, it will get back to her & she will have to reach out to me".
again, don't think she was right at all, nor do i condone it. but i do understand. if i had a friend who treated me like that & was posting her big influencer life everywhere whilst blatantly cutting me out i would feel hurt too. & influencers do often respond to call out posts.
(also idk if there was a trigger to mikayla ghosting her, like if they had a conflict or something idk. the only stuff i know about mikayla has been things charlotte has said in her videos 😅 so maybe if there was some argument or conflict between them prior to this then i would understand mikayla's actions more, but still think it's rude as hell).
*I’ll tell you why Mikayla’s friend sent that nasty message!! A “save the date” tells you to CLEAR YOUR SCHEDULE for the day/days of the wedding. The fact that there were hotels listed means it was a DESTINATION WEDDING. In which case, this person probably took time off work, scheduled travel and accommodations in anticipation of attending the wedding! I’d be PISSED if this happened. It’s expensive to go to a wedding like this and it’s a big commitment. Particularly, if you have kids and need to arrange child care, buy a gift fly to the destination and shop for clothes for the wedding, depending on the location/weather/etc. It also could have been difficult to get the time off, as it usually is in the US.
Not to mention, you DON’T DO THIS TO FRIENDS. So, no. It’s not “just a wedding” when you’re talking about a wedding like this.
Mikayla got married in Newport. You can't get a hotel room in Newport for under $500. And this is the height of tourist season in Newport so the hotels are even more expensive.
my first thought was, why send the save the date in the first place if she wasn't going to invite her to the wedding. a 10 yr friendship, the destination wedding stuff just adds to it
Exactly I’d be bitter if my friend of 10 years didn’t invite me after a save the date. Like did the 10years mean nothing to Mikayla.
I think the friend did not just start being a bad friend when she posted that post. There probably was a reason she wasn't invited, you know
I agree with you, but I don't get this 2 step invitation thing, first save the date then an actual invitation. In Europe you just get an invitation with all the details (you get it way in advance so you can easily free your schedule for the wedding) and that's it. Basically save the date and an invitation all in one, so there's no way something like this would ever happen. What's the point of sending so many announcements about the date and then again sending all the invitations after that? Such a pointless "rule".
Ngl I learned about wearing white at someone else’s wedding being taboo through this channel about a year ago and I’m in my late 20’s. Luckily, when thinking back on the few weddings I’ve attended, I never happened to wear white so I’m glad I didn’t accidentally offend anyone lol. But it genuinely isn’t something I’d ever heard before. It comes up with such universal outrage in these videos and the comments, so I’m surprised I’d never heard about it before 😅
14:20 something tells me that the save the date was the invitation…
I would’ve NEVER thrown a wedding where there were chances that the venue owner could shut the wedding down because of hard liquor or underage drinking… you CANT CONTROL other people’s actions. Someone’s alwayssss going to do something without thinking twice thinking it’s not a big deal…and then just like that it’s ruined
Definitely not a smart venue choice. Unless all of the guests explicitly knew this rule then I find it a reach for blaming the teens for ruining someone's wedding.
I completely agree. It would be too stressful to have those conditions. The fact that hard liquor wasn’t allowed too makes it sound like the venue owner was also a bit strict. I understand that she didn’t want to be held accountable for underage drinking but I feel like she should’ve sent the teenagers and their parents home instead of shutting down the wedding.
well in some country underage drinking and even just finding a bottle of liquor type they don't sell and inspector or police drops in will cause of loss of liquor license and fines.
so you better look into local law of venue before book.
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU 100% I just feel the audacity of those people that were sitting there looking for issues to happen on their property so they could shut the venue down. That seems like they were money grabbers anyways, I would never trust to do that, they probably had cameras on their property and we’re watching! 🤬 I had this happen at my Airbnb for my wedding, and they were constantly watching the cameras and constantly calling me on my wedding day as to shit that they saw, Beside myself, and I made sure to let them know, and gave a very very negative review!! Who sits there all day watching cameras so they can ruin somebody’s special day, these people!!!!!
I also thought that was a bit much. It's a party, someone is going to bring the hard stuff and couple can't control that
A friends wedding I went to had a gold and silver color palette. So I ended up renting a gold sequin, high neck, low back gown. Little did I know my friend the bride had decided to go an untraditional route with a stunning gold sequin, high neck, low back gown. This was 9 years ago and I’m still mortified. She was thankfully not at all mad. But still I’m haunted…
Not your fault sister. And I'm sure you both looked beautiful 😊
They should just remove the color that the bride/groom will use if they have guests choose a color palette to wear, it's safer that way. Anyway, not your fault, and it's nice that the bride is fine with it.
Dude, that was me! Hi, what's UP??
@@l6318 lol wait, seriously or you just joshing me?
you wore a non-traditional style and color, yet you still felt awkward (a healthy respect towards the bride/norms). The white "dress" people definitely should have your sense of decorum. I bet everyone looked amazing regardless.
Id be petty if i saved the date, took off work, and paid for travel only to not be told i was no longer invited.
I accidentally wore a dress that was nearly *identical* to the bridesmaids dresses at my husband's cousin's wedding. I was legit so embarrassed, I could not *IMAGINE* wearing white and competing with the actual bride.
LMAO, my sister in law accidentally did that three times. The first time she was young and didn't think to check what the colours were (you can usually tell by the invite). The second time, she did check and the bride said "don't worry about it, you always look good and it's not formal" and my SIL wore ... pretty much the same dress and the third time, she asked the groom (should've asked the bride but she didn't know her) and he said it was "pink" - so she wore peach but a really rich peach colour...yep, the wedding colours weren't "pink" at all! She has worn black to every wedding since.
@@cijmo My husband was the one who got the invite and lost it, aka put it somewhere "safe", before I saw it. I asked him what color her wedding theme was so I could avoid that color and he just shrugged and said "I don't know, like green? I know she likes green." The wedding was an outdoor wedding and I thought green made sense so I wore purple, and so did her bridesmaids.
@@lilykepohhh noo lol
Lol, I've done this so many times! I call it the Wedding Color Curse, and I have fully given up trying to fight it 😅 if it's not white, I'm fine!
Oh my god I would die, you poor thing 😂 I’m sure they laugh about it today though!
Sending rude messages to the bride before her wedding is inappropriate. However, if you have asked people to save a date on your wedding but cut them out in the end, you should properly apologise and explain to them, because they might have really changed their plans to make themselves available on your special day.
Exactly. The bride literally ignored the friend when they wanted answers. The friend has a right to be hurt. But she also took it too far after they were ignored when they deserved to know why. Communication would have saved a lot of drama, probably.
If she was upset she should have contacted the bride privately and not leave a public message on the internet. Nobody else needed to see that message apart from the guest and the bride.
@@stephenbanks5952 she tried to - it's in the story.
@@stephenbanks5952like she did originally before then private messaging the rude message after she was left on read then afterwards posted everything. Doesn't make it right but she did try privately.
tip for guest attires: put it in the invitation (color and type of clothes: casual/formal) and say that if not in the dress code they cannot enter the venue
also: we had our ceremony only attended by our entourage while their plus ones and other guests waited at the reception..felt more romantic that way
I wore a white jumpsuit to my brother’s wedding. Didn’t know about the rule bc it was my first wedding as an adult. I had a speech during the ceremony and everything and my outfit choice haunts me every time I watch one of these videos 🙃I sent the bride a pic before buying it and she approved but on the wedding day she gave me a shawl scarf and now I feel it was to tone down my ignorance…
I don’t know who this mikayla person is, but if a good friend of mine sent me a save the date and then didn’t invite me to invite to make room for influencers and people they aren’t close to instead, I’d be pissed off too. Especially if there was no conversation or anything, and just no invite after the save the date. That’s not cool. Also, save the date implies you’re invited, you don’t send save the dates to people you aren’t going to invite.
Which is why I think they are misleading the internet. That save the date had time, location, etc, enough information that they used it to doxx the event. With that much info on that card, I wouldn't assume there would be a 2nd notice (but I love trees, so I may be weird in not sending repeat information twice) ..... so if they had actually been ghosted they might have shown up anyways since they already had all the info....so that makes me think they weren't ghosted because they had to be told they shouldn't show up.
Then the message that they showed started out super hostile and aggressive, they didn't ask if it was lost in the mail or of it was going to be just one card instead of 2 notices.... which means either they are always in attack more and angry (then who would want that energy at the wedding) or they hadn't been ghosted and there were prior messages between them that also had that angry energy in them. Lots of red flags
Honestly I would be mad if i was the family to both sides finding out they couldn’t go to their son and future daughter-in-law wedding imagine how the father felt I mean I still hope he walked her down the aisle as any father should but if he didn’t I would be pissed I don’t care who’s wedding it is the family should be invited the fact she only invited influencers instead of people who’s been with her her whole life and raised her is disrespectful and a slap in the face if I was that friend I would be mad too but imagine how the groom felt knowing his wasn’t invited
When one of my good friends was getting married, I figured out at her bridal shower that I hadn’t gotten an invitation. So when I got a chance, I discretely asked her “Just checking. I am invited to the wedding, right?” Her response was definitely! Ends up my invitation had gotten lost in the mail. She sent me a second one that I got without issue. A month later, the original invite showed up super beat up. 😂 I sent her a photo of it, and we both got a chuckle out of it.
A friend of mine got married when we were sophomores in college. She sent all the college friends their invites via campus mail, which is free, to save postage, but she did it the last week of the year (since the wedding was over the summer) when we were moving out of our dorm rooms and I had forgotten to check my campus mail before moving out. So basically I didn't get the invite. But we had had multiple conversations about the wedding and I was definitely invited. So during the summer the college friends are all scattered to their parents homes and we decided to road trip to her wedding. I get picked up and drive to where the wedding is. We arrived in the city the wedding was in half an hour before the wedding started so we were killing time and one of my friends had the invite and I said "oh let me see it! I never got mine". The looks on my friends faces!! They totally thought I was wedding crashing and they were accomplices! It was hilarious. I assured them the bride knew I was coming , but I could see their relief later when I was greeted enthusiastically by the bride and they realized I really was invited. 😂
Love this story!! 😂
20:39 OMG that last clip of the bride blowing the dust off her vows 🤣🤣🤣 I love her for that! 🩷🤣🤣 Fkn hilarious😂😂
Hey Charlotte, I understand what everyone is saying about Mikayla's wedding noone wants bad vibes or to feel unloved at a wedding. SO..... If Mikayla felt that way about some people than why did she send out the save the date to those people,even if it was months earlier if she had no intentions of inviting them. Then she should have sent a email, a letter, or called those people to let them know WHY! they did not get an invite. The whole schpel about the influencers being at the wedding was just a "Cry me a river" not understanding piece of crap, from her not getting the answers she thought she deserved From Mikayla.
Now hold on just a second....What on Earth does "Mario" have to do with a "Forest Fairy" theme? I think the closest Mario gets to the forest is hitting the mushrooms....
the whole Mikayla drama is just so weird. i can understand that maybe the friend was rude so she didn't invite them but to send a "save the date" but then not even reach out to them about the reason is indeed very tacky. there are always many sides of a story so maybe the friend is leaving out details of why they were left hanging, maybe she actually did ghost her irl friends for the influencers, who knows
I suspect they left out a lot.....because that save the date card had enough info to doxx the event, meaning they had to be told specifically not to show up, or else there would be a chance they might since they already had all the info.
The person ONLY called her out because she was hurt or ignored. Is be hurt after ten years.
That woman is defending her because she was invited.
I saw many influencer posting pictures that said they never met her
Yeah, it is really weird. I have no idea who Mikayla is so I’m unaware of her past drama but the whole situation is hella weird. It’s totally possible that the (I’m guessing former) friend is leaving out key details about why she may have been cut from the guest list but if Mikayla did in fact send this person a save-the-date to someone she didn’t actually intend to invite or cut a long-time friend last minute without talking to them to explain to make room for a more “profitable” guest is pretty rude in my opinion. I’m surprised by Charlotte’s take on this and how many people in the comment section seem to think it’s okay to send a save-the-date to someone without actually inviting them to your wedding. If Mikayla wasn’t an influencer, I’m pretty sure most people would agree that sending someone a save-the-date and then not actually inviting them without an explanation is pretty tacky and rude. When people get a save-the-date, they’ll often start making arrangements to attend the wedding by taking time off work for the wedding and/or booking flights and accommodations. It’s really unfair not to give people a head’s up if they are no longer invited because it may cause someone to be out of some money for non-refundable deposits. It’s extra sketchy if gift registry information is included in the save-the-date.
Of course doxxing Mikayla’s wedding wasn’t cool either but this person seems very hurt. I can’t help but wonder if this drama was set-up to draw attention to Mikayla’s wedding. I guess Mikayla is very popular and well-known but I only know of her existence now because of this story. Maybe I’m wrong, but it wouldn’t surprise me. Supposedly a lot of influencers who had never met Mikayla before were invited and granted, it could be that they had never met in person but knew each other well online, but I don’t know, something seems fishy.
16:50 omg Mama TOT, she is so kind and heartful, I 100% believe her.
On the whole "influencer" wedding, she did say that the friend tried to talk to the girl but was left on read meaning she did try to talk it out privately. On top of that, it was probably that important to the friend because theyve known eachother for 10 years yet gets kicked from the invite list for people who's only connection is the status they both share and how itll look good to have all these influencers show up
Right, it's funny how the comments from some of the people responding to the situation is siding with Mikayla and not the real friend who was clearly hurt. She chose literal influencers over a true friendship. Charlotte's response to it is pretty disappointing.
I love how the lady talking about the Makayla wedding at the very end was like all the influencers were her friends, but if you watched TikTok and all of the influencers getting there and arriving in, they were talking with each other it was a very interesting watch especially when you would hear from a lot of them these exact words “I don’t really watch her content. She seems nice. I’m really excited to meet her though and this weekend should be so much fun!!!!!” so I don’t know where that girl is getting all these friends that are influencers because half of them have never met Michaela!
Links? I’ve heard this but no one can ever provide proof. 🙄
@@jenpogurl I had to read that ten times cause I’m dyslexic and I thought I put it on links on my post and I get the regular post 10 times!! For once I’m the one thing girl what are you talking about?
I'm confused? Wasn't that the "friends" point? That she cut out the people who knew her to send invites to people with large social media followings so that she could get online attention for the wedding? Like- I'm not sure if I'm misunderstanding or what?
That's momma tot that your referring to! And she prob believes what she's saying because she's an amazing woman that has gone thru so much and wouldn't lie just to defend someone! You should really look her up and learn about her story and her son. The more people that no the better because she deserves justice! But, my point is she prob does not no that a lot of the influences invited were strangers.
Well it's funny she brought up that people lie on the Internet like it couldn't possibly apply to her though 😂
"She could've invited 200 more people that venue was huge"
Well she really just had to invite one more person and she wouldn't look like such a b****. I can understand that being friends for ten years does not mean that you were GOOD friends for ten years. Still deserved a conversation though, if the save the date went out and there wasn't an obvious fight that happened in between.
We had a Star Wars themed wedding and my husband wore a full Boba Fett costume, jet pack and all, while I wore a gown and had Leia styled hair. I love that they had fun with their Mario themed wedding. It's about you and what you want to do.
That sounds like a wonderful wedding! I would love to attend one like that.
Exactly.
Epic!!!
I love this I love geeky weddings they are so much fun 😃 I once saw a wedding at a comic con it was amazing everyone was dressed up and it looked like so much fun
That’s so precious I love that!
You don't send a "save the date" notice, if you have no intention of inviting them, you send an ANNOUNCEMENT.
18:50 I love Mama ❤ she’s an absolute blessing to this world.
After all she’s been through, she only EVER spreads love and it’s so inspiring.
Ughhh I can’t say enough good things about her.
So whatever she says… I believe it in a heartbeat.
Regarding the guy that got married in a Mario costume I absolutely love the fact that his fiancé didn't force him to conform to her vision of the wedding and let him be who he is. That's true love!
The Mario thing makes me think the couple didn't really care that much about the rules except for everyone to have a great time.. and I think it is weird for the bride to put white on a list of only 4 colors if she doesn't want anyone to wear white....
I think it is kind of sad that OTHER people are trying to get offended for a bride who clearly couldnt care less.
Also I think the lady who posted the story is downplaying the girl getting bullied because of her tiktok, she could just have deleted the tiktok all together instead of acting fake protective of her... it feels incredibly insincere.
@@d-1381 Did you not see the STYLE of the dress though? I'm sure she doesn't want someone to pull up in a white wedding dress!
@@trishabey11That was a two piece dress, has slits in the skirt, and it’s not that extravagant. I mean I don’t think she should have wore white, but that looks nothing like a wedding dress.
@@adamsmoberly The style is kinda glamorous though... you are correct but it feels so... elegant. Too elegant.
@@adamsmoberly Also, I wasn't exactly referring to her. I was saying to that other commenter that the white dress rule enables someone to come there in a wedding dress.
As a cosplayer I can actually confirm that his Mario outfit probably was not cheap. And Nerds do be out there throwing wedding like this, and those receptions get LIT!
It looked cheap af, like a Halloween costume from a dollar store.
She looked happy and he looked happy. People are weird to get mad at other people's wedding choices. Like let people have fun. If it was cheap costume but she still loved it as did he then great. 🤷🏼♀️
me and my husband are massive nerds. we had a nerdy themed wedding. his groomsmen had mario and luigi t-shirts, me and my bridesmaids did a sailor moon pose. everyone said our reception was amazing. we had a gaming set up and we had a first smash bros match as well as a first dance and a pokemon theme song duet. i loved my wedding.
Before seeing my friend's fiance show up half-drunk from the night before and sweating booze on their wedding day, I would've judged tf outta the Mario costume. But now all I see is a guy just excited to get married. Like, at least he wants to be there and seems love struck. That's all that matters.
@@HanyouGoddess Wow! It must have looked great! I'm maybe not the biggest nerd, but instead of having a classic wedding reception (we're both not fans of wedding receptions) we invited our closest family and friends to dinner in a restaurant, but after that we had a party in a boardgame pub until morning. If I had known back then people actually cosplay for wedding reception, we would have also.
Guys... know this. Just because you think of someone dearly as best friend doesn't mean they also see you like that. Neither are they obliged to do that.
Her shirt... I love it so much for its parcsrious placement 😂❤❤❤❤❤ love you Charlotte
So the groom didn’t want anything said to the girl who wore white even though it upset his bride, then he gets mad at the brides friend because the girl who wore white felt offended… so his bride’s feelings didn’t matter on their wedding day but this girl’s feelings matter so much to him?
Good point.
Same question I asked myself.. something’s off 🤷🏾♀️
Wonder if they are still married?!
Sus 😐
@@JoanieBowersI doubt it lol
When I was getting married, my mom told me she needed a dress for the wedding, so she and I went dress shopping together. We looked at one that we both really liked, but she said she didn't want to outshine my mother-in-law. I told her "you're the mother of the bride, the only person you're not allowed to outshine is me!" We got her the dress -- dark blue with a sequined top and a swirly skirt. It's 24 years later, and I saw that she still has it in her closet. :)
You have a wonderful mom!
That's so lovely! ❤
The very last clip was adorable and such a cheerful way to end it. Thank you Charlotte for another good one, Happy Friday girly ! 😊
I went wedding dress guest shopping with my mother in law and sister in law. I didn’t know them that well at this point and the wedding we all were attending was for my husbands best friend and he was the man of honor. I was also pregnant at the time (6 month) and was already feeling down about any clothes shopping because both mil and sil kept taking me to shops that didn’t have bigger sizes to accommodate my growing belly. At the time I wanted to bond with them and went along trying to find a dress and be positive. Well the only dress that I found that could fit me comfortably and was in my price range was a cream/white and black short dress. Everything about this dress I hated but it did fit me. I brought up that it looks more of a white and black and I didn’t think I could wear it to a wedding. I was assured it would not clash and it didn’t look too white and as long as it wasn’t a full on white dress, it was ok. I felt very pressured to buy this dress and wanting to please them for finding me the best dress so I went with it. The day of the wedding and my belly slightly bigger made this already short dress even shorter. My husband was already with the groom that day and I had to drive with his entire family who ALL WORE SHADES OF BLUE. I get there and everyone is wearing greens, blues and teals….I looked at the invite to see if I missed anything and apparently the colors on the card show you what you should wear. I didn’t know this. I stuck out like a sore thumb. I was embarrassed. I sat sipping iced tea in the corner of the tent the entire afternoon and night alone. Then my husband did shots with the bridal party and danced with the maid of honor for hours. I felt even more like poo. I wanted to get up and dance with him. We never had a first dance or any dance with each other. My ankles and feet were swelled, it was a hot august day/night and I prolly looked like a big idiot for wearing a white and black dress. It was my first wedding I ever attended as an adult aside from my own wedding that was an elopement. I didn’t know the social rules around it. I still feel horrible about wearing that dress and my relationship with my in-laws has always been a little rocky. Been married for over a decade with my husband at this point. He has said he wished he would have paid a little bit more attention to me during that day but he had a lot of stuff to help with. I was never mad or upset with him. It was just a bad day and I wished I had some knowledge before that day about girly stuff and black tie events. I was always the tomboy growing up.
I'm so sorry you had to go through that 😢 It honestly seems like they set you up.
I just wish your husband was there for you during this event 💔
Even if that friend was a bad friend and wasn't there for Mikayla, a "Save the Date" without an invitation feels like she's instigating. "Oh, by the way, you're not invited" Frick! That!
I think the idea is that the 'friend' did not just start being a bad friend from that post...
@@thatrayo that does NOT excuse Mikayla's actions nor does it excuse her inviting someone who has ADMITTED to messing around with minors and calling him a close friend....No the friend shouldn't have doxed the wedding, but that pales in comparison to diddling underage boys.
@@NeuroSpicy_Priestess then if you're mad about Mikayla's previous actions, address them in a video related to them. I didn't know who Mikayla was prior to this video so I dunno what you're talking about.
Is the video talking about Mikayla's past? No. So stick to the vid, please
@@thatrayo do you even know what you’re talking about? I AM referring to her actions regarding her wedding😒😒😒 You’re the one who ASSumed I was talking about something else 🤨 SMH. You keep to the video.
@@NeuroSpicy_Priestess you mentioned diddling young boys and the video is talking about Mikayla not inviting a friend 🤨
And honestly, yes, it excuses Mikayla's actions. If someone isn't a true friend to her, it excuses her not inviting that person to her wedding. HER wedding
My cousin showed up in a strapless, full skirted white gown to my wedding years ago. Her husband proudly told me (and everyone else) that she wasn’t wearing panties under her dress. 🙄 It seems every family has their folks who just don’t get it.
You are kidding! Nothing says “I want to be the main character” more than this! Why can’t people just have THEIR ONE DAY! Just be happy for people, happy for love. I just received a save the date (which is funny as all my friends are now divorced!) and I’m already planning on my dress! It’s not till March and I’ve asked the colours already and what she wants guests in. There are so many colours. Just don’t wear white!
This is why I told those closet to me "even if you aren't a part of the wedding party, you have full permission to go bat crazy in my place. Someone breaks the wedding ethics code, KICK THEM OUT. I don't care if it's my sister, my mother, my aunt, grandmother or niece; if they insist they should be present in white or red, remove them. Don't let me see it, because I will bulldoze over anyone for that disrespect; I will especially bulldoze over anyone defending the disrespect. I can and will ruin my own special day with a fight over this kind of BS." I'm thankful 2 of my girls specifically said they'd be happy to be my wedding patrol.
Also, I would not have kids at the wedding. One of the women who agreed to patrol watches this channel with me and is a mother. She understands that I love her girls to death, but I want her and her husband there to celebrate with me while allowing them a break from parenting. I also want to allow alcohol, and I don't feel comfortable allowing anyone under 21 to my wedding for that reason.
Also, when I was 8y/o I accompanied a friend to her families wedding held on her parents property. Alcohol was allowed. The DJ and his gf were smashed before the main events at the reception. DJ picked up and spun around 8y/o me while smelling like a casket of booze. I still remember the scene and smell like it was yesterday, I'm 27y/o. Almost 20 years later, and I still remember how sick and uncomfortable the situation made me feel. So yeah, I stand by if there's booze no children, if there's children no booze.
@@Likeabird1977 I'm 100% not kidding. My cousin sadly is no longer with us but the legend remains. It was a day!
@@spamachuchan8824I want to be a bouncer for weddings, because I'd be so down to remove a rude person from the premises😌
What pigs!
I remember hearing Mikayla’s voice for the first time and thinking it didn’t match her pretty face at all. She sounds like nails on a chalkboard lol
16:30 is this Charlotte foreshadowing what she's doing to her school childhood friends to invite her celebrity friends to her wedding lol. ❤
A friend of mine (friends since 11 yrs old) was getting married. I was asked to be the maid of honor. It was a frugal affair, so I helped with arrangements and dress shopping. Wherever I was needed to help out. The day of I'm told I've been bumped for her step sister. A step sister of a year that she barely knew. I did the ceremony and then left. She let her stepmother (her father's mistress then wife) talk her into letting a stranger be her maid of honor. I never got an apology, and I'm still salty 30 years later.
As you should girl thats some shitty behavior
They REALLY couldn’t find room for one more?!?!
@@Sar-ahG she was bumped from moh
With me it was my sister. I worked my ass off buying all the material and flowers, making her headpiece, the real flower centerpieces for 26 tables, decorating the church and pews…and I got downgraded to ‘rando sitting near the alter’ why? Because with all the shit that had to be done so close to the ceremony, “You won’t have time to go to the rehearsal or dinner or anything, so I gave Diane your dress.” Oh, yeah. Changed how I view her. I see her about twice a year and she only lives 3 miles from my house.
Are you still? Friends??
I mean honestly the fact that Mikayla just never responded to somebody who supposedly a friend of 10 years when they inquired about a wedding invite, even to placate them, says a lot to me.
About her (Mikayla), sure.
Also it's known that mikayla also doesn't go to her tiktok to defend her 'friends'... Anyone remember the hairdresser that was getting hate on her page and mikayla said nada. Don't expect if you can't give
We don't even know if this actually happened.
@@Inkabazot well we do as much as those defending her
Don't forget that the friend doxed her wedding, so, i'd be mad at my friend too. No matter how many years I knew her, she doxed the wedding by showing the back of the save the date. I wouldn't want to invite her after that. So many unwanted people could show up because of that and ruin the wedding completely.
That one bride hit the nail on the head, "Even if the bride says she's okay withbit why do you FEEL THE NEED to wear white..." Exactly. Why would you WANT to?
I wore a cream knee length dress to my Cousin's wedding. I was 18 and didn't think about. I was maybe a size 16 or 18 at the time and the dress selection at Ross to fit my cousin's theme was limited. My Mom called my Aunt to make sure it was okay. My Aunt said it was fine as the bride was wearing red. I still think about now that now. She never said anything and there was not problem. Thank God. ❤️
My step mom pulled the big brain move of having everyone wear white, including herself! We looked like a cult but it was honestly really pretty she knew what she was doing.
Haha I love that. She must have a good sarcastic sense of humor.
A family friend had her 11(!) bridesmaids (and 2 flower girls) all wear white. They picked their own dresses and there was a range of different styles. (I don't recall any guests in white.)
A cult!!! That is too funny. 😂
Your guest list does NOT get continuously as you get closer to the wedding date after you've sent out save the date cards. You send those out to the people you are going to send an invite too, not change your mind about later. That's crap planning. Extenuating circumstances are understandable, but you'd send something formal apologizing for having to cut the list and any inconvenience the 'save' may have caused
I'm sure that there's way more to the story. It could be a total load of crizzap.
Agreed - I think sending a save the date then no invitation or explanation is extremely rude.
Exactly my thoughts. Maybe the manner in which she went about it wasn't right, but she wasn't wrong for being upset.
I agree that sending a save the date and not then an actual invitation, without explanation, is rude. However a friend of 10 years then blasting the whole story on the internet is also rude and attention seeking. Friendships change and the mature way to handle it would have been not to air the whole story in public - just accept that it is what it is, you are no longer invited. Whatever the reason that Mikaela had for not inviting the friend to the actual wedding, in the end the friend’s behaviour also shows that there was not (anymore) any true friendship there.
I love that you show all perspectives from all view points ❤
The Underage Drinkers story: 1. When your minor kids screw up YOU are responsible for the damages. 2. Sorry, but I would have found another venue because I wouldn't want to spend my wedding policing the guests and I don't want the one bad apple to end up shutting down my wedding.
My FIL’s wife actually asked me what I wanted her to wear to my wedding. I was thrilled as she wore a cream lace dress to my BIL’s wedding. I pointed out two lovely dresses for her….and she showed up in that damn cream lace dress. Her excuse was the other dresses were in the cleaners.
@@isaT nope. We had a small wedding-21 people in a BnB in June 1992. Still married BTW!
I don't think cream is as bad as white
@@MsKaz1000agreed, but the disrespect here is that the MIL asked the bride what she wanted her to wear, and then ignored that and went with whatever MIL felt like wearing on the day. why ask if you're just gonna do whatever you want?
Wow, passive aggressive much? Holidays must be awkward!
I have a story time about a save-the-date episode. I was sent a 'save-the-date' notification from the bride. It was 6 months away and I live 2000 miles from the wedding venue. As soon as I could, I booked tickets, and rental-car, hotel - you name it. As the wedding-day got closer, I did not receive an invitation. I reached out to the bride to ask her about it and she said that she didn't think I wanted to come and that her budget was tight and she didn't want me to bring a plus one.! What? I never said I didn't want to come. I bought tickets for me and my +1 to fly out to her wedding months before she sprang that on me.. Never ever again will I go out of my way to attend a wedding.
Oh yeah, she knew I bought the tickets. In fact I told her when I bought the tickets and we woohoo-ed about it. Literally waited until like 2 weeks before the wedding to let me know that I was no longer invited - or as she put it, she didn't know that I wanted to come. We didn't have a fight, no argument, nothing to indicate this was coming. In fact I was in contact with her all along. Crazy thing is, her wedding was in a park. Not like a venue where you have to pay $100 a head.
That’s messed up, wtf?
@@Gladys10298 ikr???
How awful! 💐
This is what I was thinking about when I was watching the video. Why send a “save the date” to anyone who you don’t intend to invite? Saving the date can mean making travel arrangements, requesting time off work and turning down other invitations or opportunities on or around that date. I can’t fault that friend for being upset. Edited to add: I do not condone the punitive actions of this person on social media, especially the doxxing of the date time and place of the wedding.
Ugh. My cousin said no kids allowed. And OK I got a sitter. Now at the ceremony there's all my little kid cousins I was like wtf. My step daughters wanted to see the ceremony too! If I had known they could have attended that they would have... they didn't care about rhe reception. I was mad.
I thought that the save the date invite was the invitation so I would've replied straight away. I've never heard of a pretend invite before the actual invite
My snl doesn't do confrontation,so on her big day, Everytime I say her stressed or she would come to me and grab my arm, I knew. So I would just start yelling, THIS IS HER DAY! SHE GETS WHAT SHE WANTS! And I made sure she did! Her wedding was exactly what she wanted and she thanked me with tears in both our eyes! And I know in my soul, she would do the same for me, even though it would be torture for her ❤
My MIL wore a cream dress to our wedding. Even though my mother and grandmother invited her to go dress shopping to match the bridesmaids (navy blue) which is what I wanted. She apologized for wearing that cream dress... on our 10th anniversary. Everyone that was there started laughing saying that it only took her 10 years to realize and apologize lol. As for the wedding day, I didn't let it bother me. Don't get me wrong, it bothered me but I didn't let it ruin my day.
Ok so for the Mikayla disinvite thing, this happened to me with a relative (cousin) who decided they no longer wanted to invite SOME family members to their wedding (to cut costs). Understandable (for context we have a very large family). My response? If I’m not good enough to be on your guest list, don’t expect to receive a wedding gift just because “we’re family”…and I keep it moving. Simple and just the right amount of petty 🤷🏽♀️😂
No, just when her influencer days are waning and she wants your help, just say she isn't important enough
To me, the lady wearing the big poofy white dress to someone's wedding looked more like a marshmallow than she did a bride. That dress could be a really small hot air balloon. 😁😂🤣🤣🤣
Stay puff marshmallow man.
Oh that last bride blowing dust off her vows! 😂😅
17:36
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*MOMMA TOT!*
*I absolutely LOVE this lady! She is just SO damn sweet & genuine!*
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*Also... Like my daddy has always told me... You can count your TRUE FRIENDS on one hand! This is FACTS 💯*
*Therefore, if someone has a small, intimate wedding, like Makayla did, this very well could be the reason why she did NOT invite very many "friends"! So, grow TF up and leave her alone!*
If I ever get married there will be a disclaimer on the invites that say something along the lines of “by RSVPing to my wedding you are agreeing that you will not be wearing white and if you do you are 100% aware that the bridesmaids will be pouring an entire bottle of red wine on your dress and there is nothing you can do about it.”
12:08 I'm sure in like a year or two nobody is even going to remember who Mikayla’s even is.
This is the first time I've ever heard of her.
Charlotte your content always makes smile and brings me joy! Thank you for all that you do... you're hilarious I also adore potatoes!!! Glad to be part of the Petty Potato Army!!!
Here in Belgium everyone used to wear white at weddings~
Like everyone used to wear black at funerals
*Many of the guests met her for the first time AT HER WEDDING* Dylan Mulvaney literally said in her get ready with me video that it was her *FIRST TIME* meeting Mykala.
*WHY THE FRIEND* has a right to get mad is *BECAUSE* she sent her a Save The Date that *SAID* Invite To Follow. Now what of this girl went and *BOUGHT A DRESS* .....maybe she had to *BOOK A FLIGHT* ....a *HOTEL* .....bought a *GIFT* Only to *NEVER* receive the invitation. No Mykala was 1000% WRONG
*Charlotte is supporting her as they're in same biz*
People turned to Influencers for honesty which they didn't get in ads. Offcourse it's just lashes, it's JUST LASHES which she made a million deal with LOREAL FOR.
she literally reviews JUST MAKEUP.
stop that defence it's silly.
There's LAWS around disclosure of ads hun because conglomerates like Gesparal and Nestle who own L'Oréal, Maybelline redken, nyx urban decay shu uemura, matrix etc PAY ALOT of money for those and if there's influencing going on to turn in some revenue you have to disclose.
It's not "just lashes" she might be selling you other sub standard products and you wouldn't even know they're paid for todo so. Whilst not supporting any indie brands.
And the invite list were people were also super controversial on their own. We don't know the full story but if I got booted from my 10 years of friendship, friends, wedding for Dylan Mulvany Or James Charles I'd be livid too. Mykala didn't even look happy to pose with these influencers. It seems like the guest list was all for more followers and/or attention.
This! Charlotte wasn’t on point with this one like she usually is.
And what about time and money if she had to take time of work
You realize people can be friends, GREAT friends, for years without ever meeting face to face, right? It’s this nifty new thing called “The Internet“.
5:22 100% recommend a childless wedding. I only had my son there, but I was not going to deal with people not watching their own kids.
6:08 It looka like the girl was dressed like Peach 😭😂😭. She's Peach and he's her Mario 😭😭
The woman speaking at 18:18 sounds like Whitley💕
If James Charles is someone Mikayla is close enough to invite to an “intimate” wedding ceremony I think thats a bigger problem than not inviting a “friend”
Honestly I wouldn’t want to go to any event that James Charles is going to.
I agree with both of you guys.
@@kaybadberg534I mean I wouldn’t mind seeing him on trial.
@@freyaegrey fair enough
He was one of the people that I saw on Instagram stories saying on her Snapchat saying oh my gosh I can’t wait to meet her! 🤭 I have about 10 other influencers said the same thing!!
I was in my cousin’s wedding as a flower girl at 5 yrs old. I pee’d, due to nerves, on the floor during the ceremony but no one knew b/c of my long dress. When the ceremony was finished & the recession started to go back up the aisle, I refused to move. Everyone went ahead without me & finally my Dad came & picked me up. To my horror there was a PERFECT CIRCLE of pee on the floor. I was devastated & so embarrassed. Thankfully my cousins were so very sweet & supportive & that cousin’s sister had me as their flower girl in her wedding as a form of redemption I believe. To this day (I’m now in my 50’s) this is a favorite story anytime this group of cousins get together!!
I was 4 years old and a flower girl at my brothers wedding 13 years ago I have eczema since I was born was diagnosed it would attack my feet and my hands if I stood or walked for too long they would hurt anyways of course I was dancing had a good time but most of the time I was sleeping at our table because my feet was killing me and I slept on the sidewalk when they left but nobody said anything bad they was concerned my brother wasn’t embarrassed or anything which was good but let me tell you my feet was hurting
I usually agree with you 100%. But the whole idea of a Save The Date is for those people that you want to be there, will hold the day and say no to other offers. I would be pissed if I got a save the date to the wedding, and then the invite never came. What if I had another friend getting married that day and told them no because there was another wedding you had already been invited to (or believed to have been invited to). It is so rude to send someone a save the date 'with invitation to follow' then not. Yes...this happened to me. And the present I got for the people who sent the save the date and no invite, I then gave to my other friend that I turned down. We saw each other a few weeks before the weekend of the weddings and she not only invited me to hers, but told me to bring a date as well!
Given the narrow dates of wedding season, it’s actually very likely people in a certain age range will face multiple wedding invitations for the same day. Which is why save the dates are so important! It lets you select the event you want to attend, rather than accept for an event and then back out (or miss your BFFs wedding, or whatever). (Technically, some etiquette experts say you should accept the first invitation you receive, and some are backing that to the first save the date, but eh. Go to the place you want most!)
The mario costume is amazing! It s his wedding too. That show a lot of humour and a strong link between them! I love that.
My mom tried to hijack my wedding dress shopping appointment, I told her flat out that if she was planning on making MY wedding about HER, she wouldn’t be welcome there, the store clerk heard all this and ripped her a new one and almost threw her (mom) out of the store. 😂
Kudos to that clerk!
As an introvert, I’ve never been disappointed about not being invited to a wedding.
Agreed- they are the WORST 😂
think only time i was majorly disappointed about not being invited, was to my own sisters wedding, after years of having helped her financially, emotionally or otherwise.......... shiet made me almost cut contact with both her and my mom (mom was in on the decision of not inviting me).... now i only have contact with either of them IF they write to me first, and even then it's short answers...
If my husband dresses as Mario, I'm dressing as Peaches😂. Also this lovely lady with the blue cap and southern accent is flippin' precious❤
As a mother, I agree to every bride who says no kids allowed at their wedding because kids are disruptive and destructive.
Question, if she received a save the date wouldn’t at that time Mikayla considered her a friend a person who she wanted at her wedding, I would only send save the date if I was intending to invite them to my wedding, and now you have people saying she must not be a friend, looks like people are trying to cover for Mikayla
I honestly never knew this rule about not wearing white to a wedding until a couple years ago. Honestly I don’t remember who wore what to my wedding. All I cared about on my wedding day was getting married to the love of my life.
I was actually thinking the same exact thing. 😆 It was awhile ago and I am divorced now. But I remember just being in love and happy 😊. So if anyone was trying to rock the boat 🤷♀️ it didn't work! 😆 🤣 😂 That's always how I am anyway. ✌
I think it’s just because people now know the rule it’s considered rude. Like if you’re told “don’t do this it’s considered really really disrespectful” and you still do it I can see why it’d be taken as something against the bride/couple
@@cattherat-ss4kv mas de onde veio isso? Não importa se é um vestido branco, as vezes é um vestido como que não chama atenção como um da noiva que é bem maos elaborado
@@crimsonfirelily I got married in 2017
@@cattherat-ss4kv The thing is, when the bride is like Jacquelyn, the only thing that accomplishes is making the other guests upset with you.
Btw Charlotte I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!! I listen to them over and over lol
Note to future self: if I am invited to a wedding, bring a bottle of red wine :)