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  • mashing up a messy tiktok potato salad - REACTION
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  • @christina7557
    @christina7557 Před 7 měsíci +1034

    So, lemme get this straight. He screws up their relationship, his side piece rats him out and Ashley's being blamed for his screw ups? Ummm, no.

    • @giggle_snort
      @giggle_snort Před 7 měsíci

      Fortunately, it's only him and the side bitch thinking that way. The rest of us can see right through his bullshit.

    • @happychaosofthenorth
      @happychaosofthenorth Před 7 měsíci +62

      Honestly though, it works out for Ashley. He just keeps digging and digging and she's coming out looking better and better. He's only making it worse for himself.

    • @kristenkillen
      @kristenkillen Před 7 měsíci +28

      Honestly, I feel like it all boils down to the fact that the side piece doesn't have as much money he can extort out of all of this. I'm going to just call it now and say he sues his wife for half of all the money she makes from youtube and her hair gel business.

    • @laynnb
      @laynnb Před měsícem +1

      Actually that girl shaela has been getting bullied on TikTok every single day like okay she made a mistake but she doesn’t deserve to get dragged for a whole year

    • @jenniferfuller2254
      @jenniferfuller2254 Před měsícem +4

      ​​@laynnb 19:35 I agree with the bullying, but to me it's just karma. She put it all out there, used it for drama and clout on social media and it backfired. She definitely made a mistake by doing all that she did. The problem I have, is that she didn't just do this once. She continued messing with a married man and then projected and acted like every post made, was all about her. Like I said, karma.

  • @RoxxyKaosGG
    @RoxxyKaosGG Před 7 měsíci +4314

    I want to point out that Ashley is active military. Her husband could have gotten FREE therapy. Even off-base. He chose to cheat, not get help. He could see a marriage counselor FOR FREE once a week if he had actually cared about his relationship.

    • @pleasestopscreaming
      @pleasestopscreaming Před 7 měsíci +425

      Yep, let's blame cheaters for being cheaters.

    • @loryndabenson2118
      @loryndabenson2118 Před 7 měsíci +97

      Her husband is not active anymore or in the reserves right? Cuz that could be even worse for him if he is still affiliated with the military outside of just being a spouse.

    • @thirstaefortae5057
      @thirstaefortae5057 Před 7 měsíci +254

      The fact that he went on OF and paid for “therapy” shows his intentions. He never wanted to fix the marriage but wanted to paint his wife as inadequate or the problem.
      Idk if he started a physical relationship with that OF person but it seems to me that was the intention behind it otherwise why not go to a real therapist.
      He’s garbage.

    • @AM-ed1cg
      @AM-ed1cg Před 7 měsíci +56

      If he is active I hope he gets dealt with for his infidelity

    • @aphelion4616
      @aphelion4616 Před 7 měsíci +48

      @@thirstaefortae5057 Well, if that is him in the pictures, then he did see her in person. So it progressed beyond OF.

  • @LightHousesRule27
    @LightHousesRule27 Před 7 měsíci +595

    I actually think all cheaters deserve to be publicly outed and shamed. Too often people keep quiet. Don't do shitty things if you don't want consequences. 🤷‍♀️

    • @dharmagirl5889
      @dharmagirl5889 Před 6 měsíci +6

      Unfortunately, publicly outing and shaming people for betraying their long term romantic partners is, by definition, going to drag all the innocent victims into the muck along with the cheater. If the spouse wants to expose and shame, though, more power to them!

    • @Tinyt1ts
      @Tinyt1ts Před 6 měsíci +5

      Girl i filmed catching my ex cheating and TikTok took it down 😪 but i still got some people too see it😅

    • @darkstraylily1477
      @darkstraylily1477 Před 6 měsíci +5

      AMEN to that, same. Expose them drag them out. Waaaay too many keep quiet about it.

    • @Fueled.by.freshness
      @Fueled.by.freshness Před 3 měsíci +4

      Agreed. We need to bring back public shame, with specific things, and honestly, cheating is one of them.

    • @chloereed2434
      @chloereed2434 Před měsícem

      When I've done this I got called a bunny boiler by the woman's friends he cheated with and bullied by them.

  • @101Tanyah
    @101Tanyah Před 7 měsíci +540

    The mistress wants the drama. She isnt even apologetic over hurting a marriage. Her response after finding out who the man was, was about her!! She said "I have an open relationship!!"
    Well the married man was NOT in an open relationship!! ❤❤❤❤

    • @helvete983
      @helvete983 Před 6 měsíci +20

      She sells herself to I assume predominantly men as a career. (the oldest profession) I think she has some kind of disconnect when it comes to commitment and relationships and the fact her clients are most likely married men doesn't matter, so therefore she doesn't realise that even in her real relationships marital status should matter.

    • @changingmind3248
      @changingmind3248 Před 5 měsíci +9

      To be fair, it's not her responsibility - she needs to worry about her own relationship and he about his.

    • @reikilady4216
      @reikilady4216 Před 5 měsíci

      The masked college lady was beautiful! Holy shit! Were all doomed!!!😂

    • @hashtagmate
      @hashtagmate Před 5 měsíci +12

      I mean she was hired to do a job, it's not her responsibility to make sure her clients aren't cheating. They're clients, it's business

    • @Makeup4ever5
      @Makeup4ever5 Před 3 měsíci +6

      @@changingmind3248this excuse literally is the dumbest excuse in the world

  • @stoneyJutsu
    @stoneyJutsu Před 7 měsíci +7133

    I feel so bad for Ashley having to deal with this. The audacity of him to blame her for all this tho when his side therapist is the one who ratted him out completely.

    • @shannonrobertson7527
      @shannonrobertson7527 Před 7 měsíci +322

      Man had his whole ass out with that audacity.

    • @Mama_Bear524
      @Mama_Bear524 Před 7 měsíci +205

      It’s ok. He’ll regret it later and it’ll be too late. He’ll get his karma

    • @Rae777
      @Rae777 Před 7 měsíci +161

      Side therapist is wild

    • @katlove5481
      @katlove5481 Před 7 měsíci +41

      I agree. what a horrible person

    • @Shelby5683
      @Shelby5683 Před 7 měsíci +50

      We all love Ashley ❤❤

  • @cbg4ev
    @cbg4ev Před 7 měsíci +3342

    The guilt must be massive for the mistress to assume everything is about her.

    • @jazznpercy
      @jazznpercy Před 7 měsíci +331

      Or she's just a narcissist.

    • @TigerLily12345
      @TigerLily12345 Před 7 měsíci +80

      @cbg4ev PROJECTION!!!!

    • @venusbleu5764
      @venusbleu5764 Před 7 měsíci +6

      Nah she desperately wants this to be about her because it's the most validating thing to ever happen in her sad ass life lol you see how homely she is? This is such an ego boost on tip of how a hit dog hollering.

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před 7 měsíci

      @@user-seahorse1 Her baby is beautiful, and my heart hurts that the baby's mom is a self-centered ho. I hope that sweet child has plenty of aunties and uncles who love her/him and spend time while mom is being a selfish skank!

    • @t.l.c7481
      @t.l.c7481 Před 7 měsíci +94

      She’s looking to make some bag from Ashley. That’s why she’s ratting him out and harassing Ashley.

  • @yosoyroman875
    @yosoyroman875 Před 7 měsíci +376

    I can’t have anything but respect from Ashley. She’s a damn trooper. And now I want to support her and buy her gel.

    • @Natasha___.
      @Natasha___. Před 7 měsíci +11

      Same! This has really made me see her for what she is. I could only hope to operate with as much grace while my family is being torn apart.

    • @houseofschenck6230
      @houseofschenck6230 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Same. I have no use for her gel but I want to support her.

    • @izzyt1626
      @izzyt1626 Před měsícem +1

      Same and I don't even use hair gel. Don't know how too with makin my hair look greesy

  • @jbrittney33
    @jbrittney33 Před 6 měsíci +205

    The fact that Ashley never said a name simply proves that the side chick took pride in her hoe shenanigans 😂

  • @shewolfinubaka
    @shewolfinubaka Před 7 měsíci +2097

    The pick-me energy from the mistresses is INSANE like she just keeps thinking that everything that everyone says is about HER

    • @levitatingelephant4099
      @levitatingelephant4099 Před 7 měsíci +66

      Right? 😂 I was like um those are very common themed posts not necessarily Abt you sweetheart .. even if you wanted them to be.

    • @xolitaire
      @xolitaire Před 7 měsíci +23

      Well if you are harassed by the fans of the very same woman, that is not really far fetched. The way the wife paints herself as totally innocent of every single thing is just as sus.

    • @levitatingelephant4099
      @levitatingelephant4099 Před 7 měsíci +59

      @@xolitaire yeah but the wife made most of those posts, the black hair, the one Abt her daughter etc before she knew he was cheating 🤷 so for mistress to think they're abt her is a lil delusional.. and hopeful. And even if wifey threw a lil shade it's forgiveable. Imo.
      I once got tricked into being the other girl . By the time I figured it out I had feelings and it was messy. I ran into the real gf and she threw some nonsense insults at me abt my looks age etc.. and I let her. Without clapping back. Bc she was wronged and even if unknowingly, I was a part of that. And I def didn't try to defend myself.
      And I'm pretty sure since mistress was following wifey for 2 years she knew she was doing wrong from the get go.
      I'm on wifey side

    • @UserError-gp8sl
      @UserError-gp8sl Před 7 měsíci +34

      ​@@xolitaireunless I'm completely wrong, I thought the mistress posted about everything first? She was definitely the one who made the video of them in bed, if that was leaked how else then by her. As far as I was aware Ashley was trying to keep everything vague until the mistress spoke up.

    • @peekaboots01
      @peekaboots01 Před 7 měsíci +4

      The mask was helpful when I didn't feel like plucking chin hairs. 😂 I miss it sometimes.

  • @infin8ee
    @infin8ee Před 7 měsíci +2463

    Gel lady has carried herself with dignity throughout this entire drama. The other one has brought whatever she suffers to her own door and should go about her OWN business and stay out of other people's lives. All of these people have children FFS!
    Props to gel lady for staying classy 💕

    • @gansz_lol
      @gansz_lol Před 7 měsíci +83

      You should see the men in comments being like "women divorce men for dumb reasons".....yeah but isn't adultery sinful? Apparently not for those man-children. Ashley makes good money with the gel and the guy over here talking about using him for content....bro has no hair💀💀🤮

    • @90charmedndangerous
      @90charmedndangerous Před 7 měsíci +41

      ​@@gansz_lolexactly,but if the woman are the one to cheat they would be like "shes for the streets"

    • @shaunah.1165
      @shaunah.1165 Před 7 měsíci +15

      I feel bad for all the children of these low rate porn stars on only fans. It's disgusting and it's gonna come with consequences. Lotta kids will follow in thei gross parents foot steps and a lot of others will go the opposite way because they never want to deal with people like their gross parents again. FACTS 🤷‍♀️
      Edit- because at least old school porn stars kept their work and home lives separated... this pos has no shame show casing her child online and being proud of what she does. That's wrong to involve your kids in you poor life choices 💯👌

    • @izzyt1626
      @izzyt1626 Před 7 měsíci +5

      Yes yes yes Ashley is the Queen we should all aspire to be 🙏🙏🙏

    • @tanithschneider3051
      @tanithschneider3051 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Omg-that woman is gorgeous!

  • @jasoncarpenter4116
    @jasoncarpenter4116 Před 6 měsíci +90

    I feel so bad for Ashley, and it's funny that her husband despised social media yet never had issues with the money from it!

  • @fal54
    @fal54 Před 7 měsíci +112

    The second you realise a person’s married you say NO. YOU’RE as bad. GUARANTEE it’s a cash grab from the mistress, Ashley’s been totally respectful.

    • @trea9852
      @trea9852 Před 6 měsíci +3

      She was working....as a swer. Not a mistress. And not planning on 'stealing someone's partner.' If a married man purchases a SW service...it's 1) not relevant nor required to check a client's marital status 2) not cheating. It's purchasing a service. If you have different expectations for your partner; then that's a conversation btw partners...but literally has nothing to do with a swer simply working. SW stigma is pretty wild in this chat unfortunately it seems.

    • @fal54
      @fal54 Před 4 měsíci

      @@trea9852 firstly you’re wrong, you can try to put a moral spin on it, but if anything all she done is add to the narrative ex workers, it’s a choice whether she chooses to fulfil his need, there are many in the industry who don’t engage with married men, maybe accidentally, but not intentionally because they have a moral code, the main duty/obligations of a monogamous relationship is monogamy. Your view is purely to excuse cheating or to make her not look at guilty. She is period they both are responsible. PS yes she is providing a service but it’s not the same as providing Amazon Prime music. You know your job has an implication where you are intentionally affecting families whilst engaging with married men I don’t come at me about addiction, because because I was a heroin addict for 7 years, I know. It’s cheating both parties involved, edit that the only way it wouldn’t be cheating is if he discussed it with his partner. As for the service aspect, some companies test on animals some don’t you can still have morals in a business

    • @smoxthybweh
      @smoxthybweh Před 2 měsíci

      ​@trea9852 This is a dog shit argument.

    • @lgc_official_1323
      @lgc_official_1323 Před měsícem

      to be honest, i don't think that it's a SWer's fault if a married client wants their service. it's the married person's fault, not the SWer's. i assume part of their job is confidentiality: they're not going to do in-depth research about all of their clients because that's not their job. to them, their clients are just their clients, and they probably only know their names, not their marriage status. like, if a married man went to a strip club, it's not the strip club workers' faults; that's the man's issue, not theirs. however, i do think that if the SWer somehow finds out that their client is married and not in an open relationship, they should discontinue the service because in my opinion that's the ethical thing to do.

  • @havanafayre
    @havanafayre Před 7 měsíci +459

    TO BE CLEAR, Ashley never named her, the people commenting never named her. They called her "the mistress" or "the other woman"...so when she says she was threatened or ppl were speaking badly about her, no one knew who she was! She outed herself to cash in on the drama. Girl needs to take several seats and stop inserting herself in a messy situation she already inserted herself into.

    • @carmenmendez3919
      @carmenmendez3919 Před 7 měsíci +12

      🪑 this is for her cuz she CLEARLY needs to have a seat 😂

    • @Genevie_G30
      @Genevie_G30 Před 7 měsíci +1

      So the pic was already uploaded, some people DID figure out who she was and threatened her. There’s proof go on her page. Also why are you blaming her for doing her literal job when he’s the problem?

    • @Genevie_G30
      @Genevie_G30 Před 7 měsíci

      @@meanjustine8266 she CHOSE a good paying job. Her job is to bang people married people should no better its not her fault he was unfaithful

    • @akilahcopeland559
      @akilahcopeland559 Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@meanjustine8266 He also did not have to solicit her services. Not everybody is willing to not take a client and mess with gettin that bag, potentially losing their job that they might just really enjoy having, just cause some of those clients are out of pocket in their own personal relationship(s). If he's using solicitation and trying to disguise it as "marriage counseling," he should 1000% be taking accountability for the role he has willingly played in this whole debacle, and held accountable from everyone on the outside looking in. There is no excuse for the womren in this mess being dragged under and hes just coasting along blameless. Esp cause he clearly shows blatant disregard, and not a single fuck given for either one of them.

  • @wren_light
    @wren_light Před 7 měsíci +1240

    Newsflash. He’s upset with his WIFE because he was respectfully denied a continued slice of that $20k/month pie.

    • @kathiehoss3926
      @kathiehoss3926 Před 7 měsíci +39

      most likely

    • @charleelavery5918
      @charleelavery5918 Před 7 měsíci +5

      Where did you find that information? I wanna watch it for myself

    • @wren_light
      @wren_light Před 7 měsíci +13

      @@charleelavery5918Charlotte said it in her video.

    • @charleelavery5918
      @charleelavery5918 Před 7 měsíci +3

      @@wren_light I watched her full video she never said he wasn’t getting a slice of the pie

    • @wren_light
      @wren_light Před 7 měsíci +98

      @@charleelavery5918she said that the husband “volunteered” to keep doing the videos with her and she politely declined his generous offer. No more participation = no rights to any royalties.

  • @LoveIsVitalEverlasting
    @LoveIsVitalEverlasting Před 7 měsíci +158

    Ashley is so strong and bad ass. I hope she can just get some space from this, so she can focus on her family and not all this stupid drama. She deserves and can do so much better, and her resiliance and kindness through it all is very powerful. I hope she can find a way to get away and find peace from all of this.

    • @206Scorpio75
      @206Scorpio75 Před 7 měsíci

      Well even nice comments like this are not giving her the space she needs.

    • @LoveIsVitalEverlasting
      @LoveIsVitalEverlasting Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@206Scorpio75 that's true, so are the views to this video I suppose. Unfortunately that's why social media kinda sucks and we are all part of it. The cool thing is that we can at least hear her side, because at this point a lot of people have seen it whether we intedended to or not and at the very least try to be kind.

  • @Shinukuro
    @Shinukuro Před 7 měsíci +74

    Having been cheated on by my ex, I wish I had ratted him out to everybody. I tried to be nice and not say anything, and he tried to paint me as the crazy ex-girlfriend, even though he was the one who cheated and lied. The whole being the bigger person thing sets me off big-time now. I don’t think being the bigger person means that you should be the one who’s getting hurt even more.

  • @NatureLover-62
    @NatureLover-62 Před 7 měsíci +819

    Damn! Why are men always blaming women for their OWN indiscretion’s???? And yet they STILL play the victim when they get caught….….. It’s time for these cheating and lying men to GROW up and take responsibility for their own actions!! Poor Ashley, and I do hope that she is able to come out on the other side as pain free as possible.

    • @rra7490
      @rra7490 Před 7 měsíci +55

      Guys be cheating and saying you made me cheat. 😑

    • @nopetfout5426
      @nopetfout5426 Před 7 měsíci +26

      Don't put this solely on men. Women do the same thing, a cheater is a cheater. There shouldn't be a difference, but there is in this world.

    • @alicenthightower9161
      @alicenthightower9161 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@nopetfout5426nobody said women don't do it. this video is mainly about a MAN doing this. gives off major "FEMALES DO TOO LOL EVEN IF MEN R@PE MORE LOAL". ffs.

    • @shaunah.1165
      @shaunah.1165 Před 7 měsíci +15

      It's true of either sex, women do the same. Once caught they just wanna blame the other person when they can't accept the fact that they're nasty and broken on the inside. Nobody deserves to be cheated on or have it blasted publicly like this 🤦‍♀️

    • @teedubz1342
      @teedubz1342 Před 7 měsíci

      A lot of replies on this comment which is funny cause if women cheat just as much as men I just think it's funny we don't ever see it 😊

  • @rosejurkowski8715
    @rosejurkowski8715 Před 7 měsíci +778

    It's terrible how the cheater always blames the person they cheated on.

    • @kericaswell6084
      @kericaswell6084 Před 7 měsíci +19

      He seems like a total narcissist!

    • @VenomGamingCenter
      @VenomGamingCenter Před 7 měsíci

      Well when you think about it if a woman cheats, the man usually gets blamed anyway. Soooo.
      Double standard. If he's cheating, it's her fault.

    • @promisealexander3952
      @promisealexander3952 Před 7 měsíci +22

      @@VenomGamingCentergibberish

    • @alligarrett7397
      @alligarrett7397 Před 6 měsíci +15

      @@VenomGamingCenterHence why they said “cheater” in general, why are you making this about genders 😂😭 wtf

    • @Frosti12
      @Frosti12 Před 6 měsíci +6

      ​@@VenomGamingCenterLIES! 😂😂 the biggest so far today.

  • @angisaurousrex8037
    @angisaurousrex8037 Před 7 měsíci +59

    Ashley has been taking this in great stride. I personally love that the top banner on her combat gel website says "it may be stronger than your relationship." Lulz That woman is classy & strong 💪

  • @kimberlyjackson1711
    @kimberlyjackson1711 Před 5 měsíci +16

    I can’t believe that happened to the college girl. I so felt the pain in your face for her! She is so pretty and deserves someone with much more class!

  • @DusaToxisk
    @DusaToxisk Před 7 měsíci +1818

    Ashley has done things perfectly. I do not understand why her husband blames her for us all knowing the tea. You'd think a spicy worker would keep her mouth shut about her clients.

    • @ashleybuechler860
      @ashleybuechler860 Před 7 měsíci +43

      ​@@ndawn90But, it sounds like she wasn't a legitimate therapist. She was just treated as one because bro vented and sound boarded off of her. She did not need to follow the confidentiality agreement because she wasn't a licensed therapist.

    • @heroawesome8495
      @heroawesome8495 Před 7 měsíci +97

      ​@@ashleybuechler860true but as a sex worker I'm sure she is going to lose a lot of her OF clients because she can't keep her mouth shut. She didn't have a legal obligation, but in an industry where people don't want their partners, families, and jobs to find about their usage of OF, I'm sure it would be a turn off for many. I think that's what they meant.

    • @Maya-iz9fx
      @Maya-iz9fx Před 7 měsíci +58

      He blames his ex as every cheater believes their spouse is forcing them to cheat
      He is also mad his ex wife Isn't just taking him back
      In his mind he is the ultimate victim

    • @vikkilooper4075
      @vikkilooper4075 Před 7 měsíci +33

      ​@@ashleybuechler860while she doesn't have to follow the privacy rules, it's pretty stupid for a SW to run her mouth. Now dudes won't give her business because she flaps her gums too much.

    • @louisejohnson6057
      @louisejohnson6057 Před 7 měsíci +32

      ​@@ashleybuechler860 I think it was more about how her clients should probably be concerned that their partner will discover that they've been having an emotional and/or physical relationship with a sex worker. A sex worker who has shown that she has absolutely no problem blowing her clients lives up in a very public way. What else might she be capable of? She doesn't seem to have any code of personal or professional conduct, so yah, her clients may very well decide that she's too much of a risk and bail.

  • @NLH-B
    @NLH-B Před 7 měsíci +1013

    That girl felt guilty for her actions. There is NO WAY she followed Ashlee for YEARS and didn’t know who they were. Nope. I don’t believe it.

    • @ariannadshae
      @ariannadshae Před 7 měsíci +77

      i picked up on that too! you were a fan essentially yet had never seen her husband? she’s a liar 😭

    • @emilymata2218
      @emilymata2218 Před 7 měsíci +33

      EXACTLY 😂😂 Her goofy ass said that on camera too lmao

    • @carmenmendez3919
      @carmenmendez3919 Před 7 měsíci +7

      That’s exactly what I said like HOW BRO?!

    • @Genevie_G30
      @Genevie_G30 Před 7 měsíci +10

      I have followed Ashley for three years and had no idea who her husband was. It actually can happen so you can not believe it but it probably did happen. I literally just found out who her husband was because of the drama. She was doing her literal job that she gets paid to do and feed her family with the problem is the ex-husband not either of the girls?

    • @NLH-B
      @NLH-B Před 7 měsíci +11

      He was literally in her videos. They were creating content together. Not sure how you managed to miss the man she was dumping gel on. But okay.

  • @Gloaming252
    @Gloaming252 Před 7 měsíci +30

    Ashley originally said she took the videos down of her husband because he didn’t want to be on social media anymore and I feel that was the reason they both came up with because they knew her followers would start asking where he is. His dirty little side hustle was the one who spilt the beans! Nobody will have known if it wasn’t for her naming and shaming. She was the one who told the world about the affair and she is loving the attention and infamy it’s bringing her. Ashley hasn’t bad mouthed her husband on social media that we know of and she sure as hell didn’t “use” her husband for views. His entire stoic act in her videos was purely for the comedy factor so for him to come out and say he was used is absolute BS, he’s literally just using this “I never liked social media” thing as an excuse for his actions. He wasn’t complaining when TikTok was bringing them in thousands a month. Now he’s got this other woman putting him on social media too - as the saying goes, you made your bed, now lie in it.

  • @TheRealdal
    @TheRealdal Před 7 měsíci +47

    I must say, Charlottes hair is just beautiful. It’s glossy and the color is so vibrant. Very healthy looking.

  • @anjie5651
    @anjie5651 Před 7 měsíci +672

    Isn't it interesting how the spicy side therapist didn't have any proof of Ashley's 'angry texts' but was so quick to pull up screenshots of Ashley's posts to make them all about her?

    • @helvete983
      @helvete983 Před 6 měsíci +26

      I found it interesting that she probably obtained the screenshots from the husband. They both seem to be trying to smear Ashley's reputation.

  • @pinkanimositygaming
    @pinkanimositygaming Před 7 měsíci +284

    One thing no one brings up. They are a military family. Her product is called “Combat Gel”. She posts in uniform sometimes. Her husband is in the military as well. The US military has a historically dim view on infidelity and he could face professional repercussions for cheating on her.

    • @houseofschenck6230
      @houseofschenck6230 Před 6 měsíci +41

      I hope he does face those repercussions.

    • @myliza700
      @myliza700 Před 4 měsíci +8

      Yeah… as of now Ashley has been trying to reconcile.
      But he could be dishonorably discharged. Especially in a double military spouse family? They don’t have the patience for that shit. ( yes infidelity in the military is so common but they aren’t always brought to court for adultery)

    • @BabeSpit
      @BabeSpit Před 3 měsíci +1

      What about her beating him tho??? 🤔🤔 What about her making money in a government uniform. She should technically lose her job too

  • @guilly8887
    @guilly8887 Před 7 měsíci +66

    Being able to not say bad things about someone whom hurt you in a public way speaks volumes for her character!
    I'm glad she knows what he's been doing behind her back. She doesn't need someone like that in her life.

    • @helvete983
      @helvete983 Před 6 měsíci +2

      She's pure class. A true mother. The husband (hopefully soon to be ex husband) doesn't seem to understand that one day his kids will probably see this and his isn't coming out of this smelling of roses.

  • @SpiderLegs666
    @SpiderLegs666 Před 7 měsíci +31

    One thing for certain is that Ms Ashley has got IT! She looks DAMN good and she will come out of this sutuation on top ❤ Ive been watching her since before she brought her musty husband into hercontent and before her gel brand..she was always better off without. She shines all on her own! ✨️

  • @monadarling1996
    @monadarling1996 Před 7 měsíci +1036

    Yet no one blames him?!! The manipulation that happened to made her think that shortcomings from her side is hilarious

    • @thatsthat2612
      @thatsthat2612 Před 7 měsíci +31

      I'm blaming him

    • @missmelis4938
      @missmelis4938 Před 7 měsíci +37

      He trash. Best thing that happened to Ashley is the breakup.

    • @MagicalHira
      @MagicalHira Před 7 měsíci +11

      I lost all respect for him though

    • @kay5910
      @kay5910 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Exactly!!!

    • @Tttt28882
      @Tttt28882 Před 5 měsíci +5

      I’m blaming him.

  • @hopmanlisa
    @hopmanlisa Před 7 měsíci +878

    His reaction purely shows that he lost an easy income and is building a base to maybe sue her for money. He didn't mind the money they made, he didn't mind the 'therapist' spilling his stuff. He only minds that his probably ex will be left with good money and he is going to have to work now.

    • @Mama_Bear524
      @Mama_Bear524 Před 7 měsíci +62

      Bingo

    • @Oh-No-Its-Lizzie-Jo
      @Oh-No-Its-Lizzie-Jo Před 7 měsíci +46

      You hit the nail right on the head 😂

    • @MsBELLE7
      @MsBELLE7 Před 7 měsíci +101

      Yup that's why he was still "willing" to be in videos with her if they split.
      Yeah right buddy! 😂

    • @hopmanlisa
      @hopmanlisa Před 7 měsíci +66

      @@MsBELLE7 exactly. He tried to maintain some of that income, but when she refused, he's taking another route

    • @MsBELLE7
      @MsBELLE7 Před 7 měsíci +58

      @@hopmanlisa he should get money for what he's in. But if he's no longer in the videos he doesn't deserve shit for anything new.
      Typically if someone starts a company during a marriage, that does not mean that the cheating spouse gets half of the company income post divorce due to infidelity. Primarily because they CHEATED, which in most states is considered at fault. I'm fairly certain a judge would rule in Ashlees favor. Especially with a video of him in someone else's bad while still married.
      He seems like a subpar person imo.

  • @sejb95
    @sejb95 Před 7 měsíci +17

    I feel so bad for her because she had a whole family with this guy. But based off of his actions and reactions he has really exposed himself as the problem.

  • @lisagoff2033
    @lisagoff2033 Před 7 měsíci +18

    Just proves Ashley is the bigger person. Sending her so much love.x

  • @karenthompson8038
    @karenthompson8038 Před 7 měsíci +911

    The second girl is a great storyteller, especially the line about being in the sauna alone and feeling like she’s back in the womb and missing her mom! That was funny

    • @rigby.walabee
      @rigby.walabee Před 7 měsíci +5

      Ashlee is amazingly funny

    • @tillytorp2012
      @tillytorp2012 Před 7 měsíci +10

      @@rigby.walabee that was
      @littledrownedrat
      Theresa Rowley

    • @helvete983
      @helvete983 Před 6 měsíci +12

      I'd be interested to know what was so shocking, maybe it's because I'm in Sweden but women often go into a sauna naked, or public baths we wear a towel. (and yes you can fall asleep and the towel slips)
      I'm assuming it wasn't a unisex sauna as well, so I don't see an issue.

    • @evaviktoria90
      @evaviktoria90 Před 6 měsíci +15

      @@helvete983 correct. I mean who tf goes to sauna fully clothed, this is crazy. I would die wearing lulu lemon in the sauna! :D

    • @deeh5126
      @deeh5126 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@helvete983the US tends to be uncomfortable with nudity. While there are some people who are comfortable with using a sauna in the nude, the majority of women aren't likely to go that route.

  • @lilnugget5961
    @lilnugget5961 Před 7 měsíci +844

    Yes, the woman that put out the video about Ashlee is messy, dirty, and nothing but drama!! She hides under the guise of a victim. She's reminds me of a fireman starting a fire then recording himself putting it out and posting it. Then after getting the attention for stopping the fire, they make a touching speech as they gently wipe away tears with a tissue and say " I'm no hero, I did what any other incredibly noble, altruistic, amazing, better than everyone else, kind of person would do." Lol

    • @cynthialinn1120
      @cynthialinn1120 Před 7 měsíci +7

      This thing is so made up for views

    • @mariapaz2789
      @mariapaz2789 Před 7 měsíci +6

      People do anything these days for clout !

    • @elizabethshepherd2953
      @elizabethshepherd2953 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Y’all straight hating 💯

    • @cynthialinn1120
      @cynthialinn1120 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@elizabethshepherd2953 not hating just using our brains and stating the obvious its stupid

    • @vikkilooper4075
      @vikkilooper4075 Před 7 měsíci

      She's a clout goblin who should stay in her crawl space

  • @76tabbycat
    @76tabbycat Před 7 měsíci +14

    I think that Ashley is handling the situation the best she can, and being classy as to not drag his or the mistresses/therapist name through the mud. Also she doesn't seem to be bringing the children into the situation.

  • @stephaniesaslut12616
    @stephaniesaslut12616 Před 7 měsíci +12

    I feel so bad for her. She is such a genuine human being, she doesn't deserve none of this. Sometimes men are stupid and make stupid decisions that ruin other lives. This man now made her become "on high alert" in her next relationships. It's sad.

  • @taylorkey1996
    @taylorkey1996 Před 7 měsíci +153

    She thought Ashley made posts about her because of the guilt she had. Since she admitted to following Ashley for 2 years, she knew who her man was. She came out with the video because she wanted the attention. True fan behavior, and I hope Ashley continues to prosper.

    • @LeetoLydia
      @LeetoLydia Před 6 měsíci

      That girl does not experience guilt.

  • @amandaflippin5368
    @amandaflippin5368 Před 7 měsíci +508

    You know what therapists don't do? Oust their patients. It's illegal. Miss ma'am has no business calling herself "therapist" when we all know what she truly is.

    • @Furrina89
      @Furrina89 Před 7 měsíci +45

      She is no more a therapist than a priest or a bartender is. Just because she listens to married men whining about how inadequate their sex life is doesn't make her a therapist. Actual therapists go to school for it and earn that title.

    • @shaunah.1165
      @shaunah.1165 Před 7 měsíci

      @@Furrina89 and they don't usually fuxk their clients with such ease either lol

    • @Just1Nora
      @Just1Nora Před 7 měsíci +9

      Yeah...therapists earn that title. She earns a living too, just not with a degree. You know what it also doesn't come with? A confidentiality agreement. A spicy worker ain't having you fill out a HIPPA notice. 😂 You wanna whine to one about how you wish your life was different? Okay, but don't expect that info won't somehow get back to the people you're complaining about. And someone else posted that he could have gotten free weekly counseling off base due to her military health insurance. He had good options available, but he chose the bad one.
      Granted she didn't say she was a therapist but that their meeting time was like a therapy session. She let him cry on her shoulder, or her chest, or her lap, while likely wearing lingerie...😂

    • @LordFarquad-_-
      @LordFarquad-_- Před 7 měsíci +11

      And he had access to FREE therapy! This dude really gets on my nerves paying for her claiming it was for therapy

    • @shaunah.1165
      @shaunah.1165 Před 7 měsíci +7

      @@LordFarquad-_- lol right the pictures of him in her bed seem to me that he was getting more then just regular therapy. He was getting the physical therapy too that he needs a nap after

  • @OldJoeBlows
    @OldJoeBlows Před 7 měsíci +16

    Thank you for the Ashlee update. Ride or die with people that have integrity and able to humble themselves.

  • @tarantulagirl_
    @tarantulagirl_ Před 7 měsíci +5

    I feel so bad for Ashley, I love her and her content so much, she deserves better. 🥺 I know she will recover from this though cause she is the definition of a strong independent women ✊💕

  • @sunnie734
    @sunnie734 Před 7 měsíci +866

    Ashley has been calm, grounded, and such a lady during this. I can't believe a homewrecker was complaining about being "bullied", but is fine with destroying families. Man doesn't deserve a wife as wonderful as her anyway. I wish her nothing but the absolute best.

    • @loryndabenson2118
      @loryndabenson2118 Před 7 měsíci +13

      What's that saying, a hit dog will holler

    • @izzie999
      @izzie999 Před 7 měsíci +39

      Sxx workers cant be "homewreckers". It is literally your partner who seeks them out and offers them money for a service. They arent hoping to take your partner for themselves - that's bad for business!!
      If your partner stopped calling/texing/ PAYING sxxworkers then they would no longer be in contact.

    • @Fireprincess161
      @Fireprincess161 Před 7 měsíci +22

      She was just doing her job, it's not on her to vet everyone. If it was then you'd have to say this about everything. Maccas would have to vet for obesity and diabetes, makeup companies would have to vet everyone for allergies, movies would have to get everyones medical history and say 'you can't come in, you have a history of seizures'.
      Sometimes it's on people to vet themselves.

    • @JustAStump
      @JustAStump Před 7 měsíci +32

      ​@izzie999 it's more the fact she made everything public. She's wrecking their lives (home) alot more by doing that. Making her private work public, and airing out personal stuff, ISN'T her job. She's very much in the wrong here. No one ever said the whole man needs to be tossed in the trash... but the mistress was very out of line. So not okay.

    • @KADDIE101
      @KADDIE101 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Throw a stone at the cow and the pig cried instead... Someone said this to me during the summer I never got it till she explained and this is definitely it😂

  • @melindahmkhwanazi
    @melindahmkhwanazi Před 7 měsíci +683

    This is God's protection for Ashley. That man saw her success and couldn't stand it. Her being this classy probably infuriated him because he can't convince anyone she's the villain.

    • @useth3forceforgood
      @useth3forceforgood Před 7 měsíci +10

      💯👏🏼

    • @shennettbassier829
      @shennettbassier829 Před 7 měsíci +6

      Exactly

    • @Natasha___.
      @Natasha___. Před 7 měsíci +23

      She’s better that me. I can’t even believe how well she’s conducted herself throughout this, she seems like such a sweet girl and I hope this doesn’t affect her too much. Praying for a satisfactory resolution for her and her babies.

    • @tequilasunrise3104
      @tequilasunrise3104 Před 2 měsíci

      It never happened. The whole time, “side piece” was lying for clout.

  • @devinebeaut
    @devinebeaut Před 7 měsíci +9

    They don't want it talked about, not because they feel bad, but it's because no matter how much wrong they do, they can't have their image and reputation ruined. They won't let you ruin their persona that they've put so much work into. Being fake is a whole job. Trust me, they could care less about feeling bad and could care less about the other person's feelings. The best way to show that you care and that you'd feel bad is to just not do the things that they do. That's what normal and healthy people do.

  • @aimeereal5122
    @aimeereal5122 Před 7 měsíci +8

    I love Ashley!!!! Kudos to her service and strength! ❤️

  • @lb8141
    @lb8141 Před 7 měsíci +486

    Poor woman. My heart goes out to her. To be betrayed in such a public way is so terrible and ugly. 😢

    • @lauriesantes2961
      @lauriesantes2961 Před 7 měsíci +2

      She is NOT ugly! That's messed up.

    • @karaleetrapp
      @karaleetrapp Před 7 měsíci +11

      ​@lauriesantes2961 the comment is not saying the woman is ugly, but the way she was dragged into this 'therapist's' mess was ugly.

    • @lauriesantes2961
      @lauriesantes2961 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I know. I should have written that differently. What I should have said is I agree! She is not ugly and that's messed up what he did to her. I was referring to the woman the guy rejected after seeing her whole face.

  • @annazhao8042
    @annazhao8042 Před 7 měsíci +735

    As a proper Finnish, I would say that it is normal to be naked/towel covered in sauna. Finnish go public sauna together fully naked and even shower in a same shower room with no shower separating walls and nobody usually don't know each others unless you go with a friend/family. Ofc we separate male and females but still, strangers all the way and nobody cares.
    And heck who goes sauna with full clothes on 🫣🙊😆

    • @LawNerdsUnited
      @LawNerdsUnited Před 7 měsíci +138

      I live in the US and have only been in a sauna once. Everyone there, including me, wore only a towel. Who goes in a sauna fully clothed?!

    • @lisamelroy2855
      @lisamelroy2855 Před 7 měsíci +79

      Yes - what's the point of being fully dressed in a sauna? I usually wear my bathing suit, but I've gone in without. Those ladies must've been trying to lose some weight fast!

    • @mayas883
      @mayas883 Před 7 měsíci +57

      Yeah I'm really surprised anyone goes into the sauna with clothes on, let alone lululemon??? Like sure there are days when people are allowed to wear bathing suits, but never more than that?

    • @kat4428
      @kat4428 Před 7 měsíci +57

      Came here looking for this comment. I'm Finnish too and the idea of going to sauna with your clothes on is ridiculous. I know americans are a bit weird about nudity but if you are so shy that you can't go in wearing a towel, why even bother at all? The sweaty workout clothes must smell (and feel) awful in a hot sauna.

    • @heatherduke7703
      @heatherduke7703 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Right, the fully clothed women were the ones who deserved side eye…

  • @whatchyagonnado
    @whatchyagonnado Před 7 měsíci +5

    I love how Ashley never mentioned the other lady's name. She just happens to be the person that her husband cheated with and makes her otherwise irrelevant.

  • @Alibabablah
    @Alibabablah Před 7 měsíci +5

    I was just like that when my relationship first ended, and for like two years after... "He's family because we have a child" until I realized all the abuse he put me through

  • @yelhsasokolova8561
    @yelhsasokolova8561 Před 7 měsíci +323

    I don't have TikTok or follow Ashley in any way, but I have been following this drama on CZcams since it started. She seems like such an angel, and I feel terrible for everything she's going through. She's been handling it extremely well and I respect the hell outta her for that.

    • @cativamusereacts9926
      @cativamusereacts9926 Před 7 měsíci +36

      She is, she's in the army and she used to mix her own hair gel up because army girls have to have their hair a certain way so she started making her own and started selling it and everyone loves it and she makes cute little family videos and everyone loves her. She's a class act for the way she handled all this and her man STILL FOUND A WAY TO BLAME HER I'm sick about it

    • @stephanieann6622
      @stephanieann6622 Před 7 měsíci +8

      That and the OF girl saying those posts are about her is absolutely pathetic, ash has proven they had nothing to do with her

    • @TheOneWifNoUsername
      @TheOneWifNoUsername Před 7 měsíci +3

      She’s handling it way better than most people. I find it sad she has to deal with all this. Poor woman. I have a similar deal and it’s like. I barely talked about it to my personal friends on social media or was vague. I didnt blast mt ex. I simply stated what happened and how I felt and this binch has the audacity to call me toxic for posting my feelings. It’s like. Whatever. That’s on him and not me tho. We settled it. Kinda. We just dont talk anymore. Less issues for me that way. Lmfao. My ex at least realized he was the issue. Kinda sorta not really. Binch rly said I didnr do my equal share of the relationship bc I’m disabled. Or at that’s how he came across and thats how I took it bc damn. How rude. Never marrying again. I dont trust that shit honestly.

    • @sophiestanza
      @sophiestanza Před 7 měsíci

      I started following her from this drama just because I have so much respect for how she’s handled it

    • @MeadowsMiniFarm
      @MeadowsMiniFarm Před 7 měsíci

      She also had a rough childhood and not the best relationship with her first child’s father. She’s a really good soul. And I feel for her. I pray she can heal and stay focused on her babies ❤❤

  • @rosebud8646
    @rosebud8646 Před 7 měsíci +258

    Pretty lady shouldn't be embarrassed! She should be relieved. Because there's no way a sane man would think that she's ugly.

    • @Mama_Bear524
      @Mama_Bear524 Před 7 měsíci +38

      Right?! She definitely dodged a bullet there.

    • @ladydragon76
      @ladydragon76 Před 7 měsíci +24

      That woman is so darn pretty! She did dodge a bullet.

    • @GrandmaLoves2Scuba
      @GrandmaLoves2Scuba Před 7 měsíci +8

      She reminds me of a lady in a medieval Renaissance painting. Classically Beautiful!
      I posted this before seeing the clip you meant. I was talking about the first gal, lol. Sorry. And yes, the second gal is stunning.

    • @BeeWhistler
      @BeeWhistler Před 7 měsíci +14

      @@Mama_Bear524Yeah, and it’s not even about her looks. Even if she wasn’t pretty, the whole thing would just show up how shallow he is.

    • @rra7490
      @rra7490 Před 7 měsíci

      That dude must have been hideous, he’s crazy and rude.

  • @shannnonbinford7969
    @shannnonbinford7969 Před 21 dnem +1

    The absolutely stunning girl that had a crush on her classmate, listen.... You are SO BEAUTIFUL and if he can't see that, then it's his loss. You did win the lottery...you are stunning!

  • @sydneymitrecic
    @sydneymitrecic Před 7 měsíci +11

    Can we take a second to appreciate how freaking gorgeous the potato queen is? Love ya Charlotte

  • @AikoFox
    @AikoFox Před 7 měsíci +311

    She didn't even know who that creature was when she made those posts. Guilty people always think that posts and everything are all about them. Ugh. She got her 15 minutes like she's proud of herself 🫣

    • @Mama_Bear524
      @Mama_Bear524 Před 7 měsíci

      Such a trashy person. I feel so bad for Ashley

    • @erikarussell1142
      @erikarussell1142 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Creature is right. She brings shame to women everywhere. It is NOT a flex to steal a man. Well, it’s not the flex you think it is anyways. 🗑️

    • @myyt3824
      @myyt3824 Před 7 měsíci +9

      Yep. If the shoe fits, they’ll wear it.

  • @Cuppacorgi777
    @Cuppacorgi777 Před 7 měsíci +234

    Why is he blaming her ? She dosent seem to be dragging his name or anything but the 2nd lady certainly isn't helping keep his image clean . He made the mistake and now can't seem to own up. I feel bad for Ashley .

    • @Mama_Bear524
      @Mama_Bear524 Před 7 měsíci +26

      Because he’s enamoured with his new side piece for now. He’ll regret it. But it’ll be too late. Ashley won’t take him back

    • @unscmistressgaming1132
      @unscmistressgaming1132 Před 7 měsíci +9

      @@DarlingS.A.Mactually, it’s pretty common for men to hire prostitutes or sugar babies for company and emotional support. Weird I know. Why not just got to therapy.

    • @checkyalater3706
      @checkyalater3706 Před 7 měsíci +8

      Because he wasn’t making all that $$$$ with the side piece, claiming to hate social media but still wanted to be in her videos even if they’ve split up, he’s just realizing how much he really had to lose 🤡

  • @marianaamor6319
    @marianaamor6319 Před 7 měsíci +7

    I just want to say, Ashley put on the black wig because her followers wanted to see her with a different hair color

  • @onenonlyhannahsarkodie
    @onenonlyhannahsarkodie Před 7 měsíci +21

    The amount of effort that the husband is putting into his videos on explaining any part of their situation ....is just proving Ash's point once again.
    And the girl who wanted to yeet herself off the building cause of the guy, SHE IS GORGEOUS 😍 😢

  • @isabellemaria9949
    @isabellemaria9949 Před 7 měsíci +575

    I feel so bad for Ashley, she deserves the world 💕 Sheila had no business butting in and is just looking for attention.
    And he had the audacity to ask her to keep making videos 😤

    • @victoriawilliams2786
      @victoriawilliams2786 Před 7 měsíci +18

      Sheila is a liar about Ashley bullying her. I've seen the same videos as everyone else.
      I didn't know about the baby though. That makes it 10×'s worse.

    • @isabellemaria9949
      @isabellemaria9949 Před 7 měsíci +10

      @@victoriawilliams2786 I might be wrong but I thought it came out that it's not his baby and that it's not actually him in the video or something

    • @victoriawilliams2786
      @victoriawilliams2786 Před 7 měsíci +3

      @@isabellemaria9949 I hope you're right.

    • @stoneyJutsu
      @stoneyJutsu Před 7 měsíci +21

      @@victoriawilliams2786 the babies and man in that video are Sheila's kids and husband. He just happens to look like Ashley's husband. I'm betting she posted it knowing it would cause drama so she could play victim when ppl called her out

    • @RandomSwiftie13
      @RandomSwiftie13 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Sheila is on onlyfans. She just wants followers out of creating unnecessary drama on the internet. She knows exactly what she is doing and she is fully aware that she is in the wrong. She is a leech and so was Ashley's ex husband.

  • @dustercat21
    @dustercat21 Před 7 měsíci +172

    Ashley literally has been the stand up person dealing with this as well as she can without crossing anyone. If there is a legal divorce or something it'll also play well in her favor

  • @8box12israel9
    @8box12israel9 Před 7 měsíci +9

    Ashley seems like a cool, mature chick. You probably wouldn't know by her goofy videos. lol. I'm sorry she's going through this. Stay strong, sis! A lot of us have gone through what you'r going through but we didn't have to do it on social media. 😔

  • @AHuve
    @AHuve Před 7 měsíci +3

    charlotte sounds so natural with that accent, please don’t stop 😂

  • @archivistsethia9594
    @archivistsethia9594 Před 7 měsíci +140

    All I have to say about the gel lady drama is that Cardi B said it best. "Karma, for you, is going to be who you end up with."

    • @melissamartinez3593
      @melissamartinez3593 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Straight up … people r so sick .. no respect or shame at all

    • @user-fp3wb3jy1m
      @user-fp3wb3jy1m Před 7 měsíci +1

      NO SHAME DETECTED in a LOT of people!

    • @LeetoLydia
      @LeetoLydia Před 6 měsíci

      That's not karma...it's cause and effect. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

  • @Ruby-iw5uo
    @Ruby-iw5uo Před 7 měsíci +106

    Can we just acknowledge that the girl who got ghosted by the boy in her class is absolutely STUNNING. His loss, she’s so beautiful.

    • @BeeWhistler
      @BeeWhistler Před 7 měsíci +23

      His loss, he’s so shallow! Man, she learned a hard lesson but I hope she learns it well… if a man only cares about your looks, you can do better.

    • @Ruby-iw5uo
      @Ruby-iw5uo Před 7 měsíci +8

      @@BeeWhistler couldn’t agree more

    • @stephenbanks5952
      @stephenbanks5952 Před 7 měsíci +5

      It is not that he only cares about looks, but if you are going to start something you do at least have to be attracted to that person first. Why start something with someone if you don't fancy them? Luckily people are attracted to all different types so everybody gets a chance. Once you have passed the barrier of whether you are attracted to somebody then you can find out about the personality after that. This is the way it has always worked and apps like Tinder mimic how it works in real life. You literally swipe away the people you don't fancy. You cannot know what their personality is like first. Then you swipe left (I think) on the people who you do fancy. If you match with them you go on a date and only then do you find out about their personality.

    • @rebel1612
      @rebel1612 Před 7 měsíci +5

      She is STUNNING!!

    • @stephenbanks5952
      @stephenbanks5952 Před 7 měsíci +4

      @@rebel1612 He may even think that too but not be attracted to her. Attractiveness is what counts.

  • @VictoriaMarch13
    @VictoriaMarch13 Před 7 měsíci +1

    The "chicken little" reference was PERFECT!! 😂😂

  • @shawniemcgee2058
    @shawniemcgee2058 Před 7 měsíci +2

    What are the youtube awards called? The streamies? They should have an award for the creator who handled thier drama the best. AND THE AWARD GOES TO Ashley. She's a classy queen.

  • @vtupakkokirjautuu
    @vtupakkokirjautuu Před 7 měsíci +281

    I wish I had the class Ashley has when stuff hits the fan...

    • @Puppylove82-gv3gm
      @Puppylove82-gv3gm Před 7 měsíci +7

      I have a problem with clapping back. Lol. I've been working on it with my therapist but it's soooo hard coming from a narcissistic mother. It's very hard not to speak my mind which is what they want.

    • @9sheri9
      @9sheri9 Před 7 měsíci +5

      @OP Totally agree, she's the definition of grace under pressure.

    • @9sheri9
      @9sheri9 Před 7 měsíci +3

      ​@@Puppylove82-gv3gmI feel you 100%, it's really hard not to stand up & clap back; this is also something I work on with therapy 💕

  • @esotericfish
    @esotericfish Před 7 měsíci +101

    When 'She's posting about me' Turns out to be another classic case of 'If the boot fits, lace that b*tch up and wear it.' 🤗

  • @sarahlovee1865
    @sarahlovee1865 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Respect to ger for refusing to speak bad about her infront of the kids and allowing any of it to get to them
    So many people dont avt thra way

  • @lilmisschris1979
    @lilmisschris1979 Před 7 měsíci

    I really appreciate your more respectful coverage of this. Nothing that you’ve done here attacks or maligns either of these women and that is the best thing

  • @meghna-fox
    @meghna-fox Před 7 měsíci +127

    the mistress is embarrassing but the husband is straight up disgusting

  • @angelicapixels
    @angelicapixels Před 7 měsíci +34

    Charlotte has a Black Widow vibe going for her today. Her hair looks brighter and the black jacket just brings it all together.

  • @SunhiMoon
    @SunhiMoon Před 5 měsíci +1

    Charlotte, can we please see this sort of look more often?! I LOOOOOOOOOVE IT!!!! ❤ And it really makes your hair pop!

  • @valgee9972
    @valgee9972 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Drama....idk any of these ppl but I'm here for it 😂

  • @roxvid2
    @roxvid2 Před 7 měsíci +61

    the mistress outed herself lol. the gel-lady never named her or made references to her, she outed herself then plays the victim lol. The mistress is blatantly a stalker at this point, to think every single one of gel-lady's posts are about her lol.

    • @hannibalspectre637
      @hannibalspectre637 Před 7 měsíci +10

      ‘She posted about her butt and I have a BBL so she was definitely talking about me’ gurl how self centred do you need to be 😂

    • @AskMiko
      @AskMiko Před 7 měsíci +5

      The fact she follows Ashley on social media and made it seem like everything Ashley posts is about her is awkward

    • @AskMiko
      @AskMiko Před 7 měsíci +1

      The masks helped me see that many people have gorgeous eyes

    • @seewhatisee7427
      @seewhatisee7427 Před 7 měsíci +3

      I’m cunfused because if I can tell that’s not her man in that bed I’m sure she did and the tik assumed so they ran with it

    • @lj0608
      @lj0608 Před 7 měsíci +6

      "I've been following her for two years" "I didn't know who he was at first" she's a walking contradiction

  • @starphoenix56
    @starphoenix56 Před 7 měsíci +152

    I honestly feel so bad for Ashley for having to deal with this online and not personally but the 'mistress' shouldn't of blared out their private business on Tiktok, especially since there's over like 3 billion people on the app

    • @crossanddream2
      @crossanddream2 Před 7 měsíci +3

      That's true but the women was being threatened so she "needed" to come online and act like she was a victim in the situation

    • @RhondaKL
      @RhondaKL Před 7 měsíci +10

      @@crossanddream2nobody knew who she was,so she outed herself. Ashley never even suggested who it might be.

    • @unscmistressgaming1132
      @unscmistressgaming1132 Před 7 měsíci +5

      @@RhondaKL Both women were just trying to clear things up. Yes, the other woman was wrong but I truly feel she felt targeted, even if she wasn’t. I also feel she want to prevent the inevitable, that everyone would blame her for the divorce. As if she wasn’t just doing a job and did this out of malice. Ashlee was also just trying to clear up that she wasn’t targeting this woman and clear her side of things. The person to blame for putting both these women in a stressful situation was Ashlee’s husband. He is to blame. If you don’t want dirty laundry hung up for other to see, then clean it before hanging it up. Don’t want people to know you cheated? Don’t cheat.

    • @tacocat2919
      @tacocat2919 Před 7 měsíci +8

      @@unscmistressgaming1132 ashley only said that there was a situation in there relationship and that it was a private matter. Then the "mistress" came on and said what happened HERSELF

    • @Fireprincess161
      @Fireprincess161 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@tacocat2919 But we all know what large audiences do. They go looking. And they found someone. And it's better she spoke out for a couple of reasons.
      1) they found her.
      2) if they didn't find her they'd attack a random.

  • @heatherbonelli
    @heatherbonelli Před 5 měsíci

    I feel like Charlotte and I would have whole conversations in other accents, just because!! 😆😆 BFF in my head. I appreciate the laughs....

  • @kristenfambrough3698
    @kristenfambrough3698 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Girllll i just want to say your hair on that black leather ‼️‼️SLAYYY QUEEN!! ❤

  • @hollistersurferdude
    @hollistersurferdude Před 7 měsíci +187

    Ashlee is the G.O.A.T. for keeping this so classy and handling this with such decorum.

  • @kimberlyhemminger3822
    @kimberlyhemminger3822 Před 7 měsíci +171

    The gym girl was a great story teller. I used to work with a guy that was hot and I had a big crush on. This was also during mask mandates. Well one day I seen him outside of work and he had absolutely no teeth. I about shit my pants. Thankfully for him he was in the middle of getting new teeth

  • @willa.grace-1
    @willa.grace-1 Před 4 měsíci

    We LOVE Ashley! Nothing but love and respect for this woman❤

  • @Maltafea
    @Maltafea Před 7 měsíci

    Charlotte,your hair is absolutely gorgeous!😍😍😍that colour is to die for!

  • @what_equals_42
    @what_equals_42 Před 7 měsíci +220

    I had no idea what was going on for the first half of the video, but I did get the impression that the only person speaking their truth was Ashley, and that everyone else had something to hide. 🤷
    Also, OMFG. That lady who got ghosted after sending a picture of her face is a goddess. There is no way she is ugly. That guy must be an absolute moron. If she's your definition of ugly, then I'm your definition of a burning bin, insane college dude. 😂

    • @BrianAndresScott
      @BrianAndresScott Před 7 měsíci +22

      Well said and I absolutely agree with you she's beautiful

    • @lisamelroy2855
      @lisamelroy2855 Před 7 měsíci +17

      I agree, too - she's a stunner!

    • @stephenbanks5952
      @stephenbanks5952 Před 7 měsíci +6

      Just because he didn't write back doesn't mean that he thinks she is ugly, it just means he is not into her. We normally know instantly whether we are attracted to someone or not. Not being attracted to somebody doesn't mean that they are ugly.

    • @WhatTheWHAT524
      @WhatTheWHAT524 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Could it also be one of those like oh man that person is WAY out of my league type moments? Maybe?

    • @stephenbanks5952
      @stephenbanks5952 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@WhatTheWHAT524 No. Does that ever happen? So if someone shows an interest in you and you like them would you ever reject them because you thought they were too.good for you? I don't believe so. Nobody does that. He just didn't fancy her. I don't honestly know why she is making a big deal of it. That is life. She probably gets men liking her and rejecrs them because she doesn't fancy them. But because it happened to her she makes a big deal out of it. She should have not used the word 'ugly' but used 'attractive' instead. Then that is just life.

  • @snaileriepimpson
    @snaileriepimpson Před 7 měsíci +39

    I always thought Ashley’s husband was doing a bit, and I stand by I think she thought that too. She seems like a very genuine person and I can see her thinking it was all jokes and not realizing he was upset. She was smart for keeping details off the internet and honestly f*ck that woman for blasting the personal situation online.
    The other woman seems like suuuuuch a pick me and clout chaser. Ashley was absolutely not bullying her; that woman was projecting and inserting herself into the situation. Blech. I hope Ashley and the kids are okay. 😢

  • @Iissllee690
    @Iissllee690 Před 7 měsíci

    You are the most amazing and genuine woman i have seen on this CZcams thing. I love you

  • @akasha5137
    @akasha5137 Před 22 dny

    new sub, i been binge watching your videos for like 4 days, idek how i got here but i love it here ❤

  • @KarinaMcKoy
    @KarinaMcKoy Před 7 měsíci +31

    The girl with the mask story is stunningly pretty.
    And she seems like a beautiful person.
    His loss - but gosh, how can people be so cruel?

    • @pike666db
      @pike666db Před 7 měsíci

      how can people be so cruel? ask unattractive and average-looking men around the world. women aren't exactly the paragon of kindness when turning down a man they don't find attractive. when it happens to men, this builds their character in most cases. when it happens to women, it's the end of the world because they are told they are princesses and deserve everything they want... the Disney lie. dude's probably a hunk of a man with options.... and standards. she should shoot her shot for her looks equivalent. nothing to see here.

    • @vgamer456
      @vgamer456 Před 7 měsíci

      What happened with that? I couldn't pick up on what caused the girl's embarrassment. I think she had to censor it but I got very confused

    • @pike666db
      @pike666db Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@vgamer456 she was ghosted by the guy she fantasized as being the object of her "happily ever after", after he saw what she looked like without a mask. the connotation that she was not pretty enough for the man of her dreams is what got to her.

    • @vgamer456
      @vgamer456 Před 7 měsíci

      @@pike666db Oh noooooo that sucks!

    • @pike666db
      @pike666db Před 7 měsíci

      @@vgamer456 it's just a trait of dating in this modern era. average-looking and attractive women don't get rejected/ghosted often. to most men, it's just another day. in the age of feminism, equality and 50/50, this incident should be surprising to nobody.
      a former fling of mine got obsessed because I rejected her after she asked me out. me, being by 13 years her senior knew better than to take her seriously.
      that led to some interesting and entertaining horizontal encounters. but the young attractive female is not used to hearing the word "No" when it comes to her whims and fancies.

  • @elizabethbrowne3957
    @elizabethbrowne3957 Před 7 měsíci +50

    I bet he didn't object to all the money they were making

    • @Mama_Bear524
      @Mama_Bear524 Před 7 měsíci +5

      Of course not. He was a willing participant. He’s lashing out because he knows he’s wrong. He’s mad at the side piece but it’s not “safe” to go after her and he’s still enamoured with her somehow so he’s lashing out at the woman it’s safe to do so

    • @Skullkiddawn
      @Skullkiddawn Před 7 měsíci

      I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s the kind of pig who felt emasculated by her bringing all that cash in and felt the need to humiliate her in order to grasp some kind of control. Absolutely vile.

  • @Friendly_Newb
    @Friendly_Newb Před 7 měsíci

    Great Video Charlotte!
    Your commentary was so fair!

  • @aliciavieira7607
    @aliciavieira7607 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I just have to say that your hair looks beautiful! The color, it's shiny & it looks very healthy ❤️

  • @andreafleet
    @andreafleet Před 7 měsíci +68

    Omg I knew something was up with Ashley when she stopped having her husband on her videos...that is awful I feel so badly for her. She is a real women with such a great mature way about her nothing but class. Love her

    • @Lilithd3mon
      @Lilithd3mon Před 4 měsíci +1

      I thought it was weird he was no longer in the videos. Ashley is grade A classy lady because I had no clue about this drama.

  • @victoriatunney6971
    @victoriatunney6971 Před 7 měsíci +42

    I feel so bad for this woman. I don't understand anyone coming for her. Her world just crashed around her. I don't personally like her but man my heart goes out to her. I hope she finds healing soon and can move on stronger.

  • @artbyrahaa
    @artbyrahaa Před 7 měsíci

    i loooove your hair in this video, looks great on you🤌🏻

  • @bearnuggs
    @bearnuggs Před 4 měsíci

    20:24 i would 100% wear that mask, it’s amazing
    also: when i was in 6th grade i was OBSESSED with this boy. my friend said she was gonna tell him i really liked him; he told her to tell me “you’re ugly and i don’t wanna speak to you” i knew it was true because i had history with him. all of a sudden, he began taking the long route to sharpen his pencil. put hella effort into avoiding me.
    don’t EVER let someone else determine your worth. ❤

  • @foivechan
    @foivechan Před 7 měsíci +186

    Well he should direct his anger towards the mistress since she put everything on the internet . The wife handled things well. You only feel attacked about comments or someone post if you know you’re in the wrong(the shoe fits), her name wasn’t even mentioned and she took it personal ?that says a lot .
    Imagine paying for therapy from a spicy website and hearing your personal issues all over the internet 😅

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před 7 měsíci +9

      I have no idea who these people are, but seems to me there would be no drama and conflict if HE had behaved like an honorable man who cherished his wife and didn't cheat on her. He ain't nuthin but a hound dog! (no disrespect to dogs).
      When I was a teenager, I remember watching Tonight Show with Johnny Carson with my parents when the guest was Paul Newman.
      Newman was gorgeous and a sex symbol, Johnny asked him how he handles temptation when he works with so many beautiful actresses who sometimes try to lure him into cheating on his wife, Joanne Woodward.
      I'll never forget his answer:
      "I don't like to discuss my marriage, but I will tell you something which may sound corny but which happens to be true. I have steak at home. Why should I go out for hamburger?"
      I saw my parents smile and look at each other with love in their eyes, saying so much without speaking a word. I think I was surprised to realize that they still were romantic after 20+ years of marriage. Since I was a teen, I was totally grossed out by that realization of course!

    • @syrena911
      @syrena911 Před 7 měsíci +1

      It doesn't even have to be raunchy/sexy. If I had a steak at home (someone smart, that challenged me mentally, that I had a history with, and "our" jokes/lines, AND that knew that blowing softly into my right ear and kissing the base of my neck made me chuckle/happy.) You could send thousands of gorgeous men & women and it wouldn't interest me. There is a lot to be said for a good steak vs, as Newman said, hamburger. 😂 Hamburger, you can get on any street corner. A well seasoned, cooked to your liking steak isn't that readily available.

  • @Jadefrost_10
    @Jadefrost_10 Před 7 měsíci +27

    20k dollars a month and then he offered to keep doing it, she refused, he pissed now,, he lost the gold pot lol

    • @Mama_Bear524
      @Mama_Bear524 Před 7 měsíci +4

      This! I hadn’t thought of that because there’s so much crap going on with that story but you’re right. All of this

  • @talihasalinas7119
    @talihasalinas7119 Před 3 měsíci +1

    20:39 I felt this I met my guy with a mask in the hurricane Harvey time 😂when he finally took his mask off 😅I was like I’m in too deep I’ve fallen in love with his soft hands and his eyes and funny thing I made him take it off for a picture 😂he still has them and you can’t tell I was surprised I was fairly nice

  • @mellissa61390
    @mellissa61390 Před měsícem

    I feel like Ashley is one of the very few influencers who doesn’t use her personal life to get views and likes and I feel like through all of this mess she has remained the one in this mess to keep it classy and be as mature and respectful as possible. As far as apologizing and taking accountability for the backlash the mistress is getting and the mistress still disrespected her and aired all her business shows just how much class Ashley does have and I applaud her for that. You don’t see that from anyone. I have to hand it to Ashley. She’s got so much more patience and respect than a mass majority of people on the internet have. I hope everything gets better for her and that she gets through this a stronger woman than she was going into it. ❤️

  • @81laurenjean
    @81laurenjean Před 7 měsíci +40

    I don’t usually give a single damn about Internet personalities (besides Charlotte, of course) but I’m raging for the gel lady.

  • @dinasilva9263
    @dinasilva9263 Před 7 měsíci +358

    Who else also laughs everyday with Charlotte? Haha, i Love her sense of humour and her accents. Charlotte ALWAYS makes everything funnier. God bless Charlotte😂♥️

    • @taylorshelton6507
      @taylorshelton6507 Před 7 měsíci +7

      🙋🏻‍♀️ me and my bf both lovveee watching her!!

    • @BrianAndresScott
      @BrianAndresScott Před 7 měsíci +2

      💯 agree ❤

    • @Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose
      @Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose Před 7 měsíci +2

      At the very least, I would be wholly and unequivocally grumpy if not for our beloved Queen and her generous gifts of humour. Hail to the Queen! 👑💕

    • @dinasilva9263
      @dinasilva9263 Před 7 měsíci

      @@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose it definitely wouldn't be the same without her.

    • @kaileyenns
      @kaileyenns Před 7 měsíci +1

      Been watching for YEARS! She is my favorite PETTY POTATO QUEEN!!!!

  • @blake_moon111
    @blake_moon111 Před 7 měsíci +2

    The fact she says “I’ve been watching her for two years” and then later saying “I didn’t know who they were” like what the heck homewrecker

  • @kristenhlady4079
    @kristenhlady4079 Před 2 měsíci

    Charlotte your hair is gorgeous as always ! ❤