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When will mango be permanent
Thank god- my sister has been wanting one for a very long time 🙂🖐
It is absolutely wild to me that the not-like-other-girls trend has changed from "tomboy who doesn't realize pretty girls also have hobbies" to "actually I wish women never got rights"
At first I thought you wish women never got rights, but i understood now... I wish i didn't
Insecurity, one is just teenage insecurity but they grow out of it, while the other is women with a teenage mindset while in adulthood.
Lmao yeah it's wild. I think the reason why this subreddit always has so much content is because young women and girls want to feel individualized rather than stereotyped with all the typical feminine stuff like dresses and makeup, but they all pick the same things and have thus created a whole new stereotype. So in order to escape the "emo/goth tomboy gamer girl" stereotype that has been created by edgy teenage girls trying to be different they've decided to go towards 50s housewife instead. My sister and I had drastically different personalities, she was more feminine and liked to do her nails meanwhile I was a tomboy who liked to play videogames and mostly wore my brother's old clothes that were too small for him, but I never saw a reason to hate on her for that difference lmao. I hated skirts and dresses as a kid but I enjoy wearing them occasionally as an adult just because I'm in the mood to be a bit more feminine
These girls fr just don't understand that you can be different without making your entire personality revolve around being different, and you'd think that after enough memes like these they'd realize that they, in fact, _are_ like other girls lmao
Yeah, it seems much more extreme than back in my day in the mid 2000s
I have the suspicion that some of these posts people from men.
I’m not like other girls
I’m a menace to society
while drinking juice in the hood, I bet
*sisfist (Like a brofist, only clean)
Star Wars: The Girlboss Menace
Girl same
So you *are* like most girls 🤨
Some weirdo on the internet: “lol I’m not a feminist cause I’m a stay at home mom!”
Feminists: “That was always allowed”
Its funny because my mom is Stay at Home and most definitely a believer and defender of woman's rights.
It was just her personal choice because she would rather spend time with us. She's still incredibly strong and most definitely not a ''traditional submissive wife''.
Our dad often cooks the meals when he comes back from work early enough 😜
And she (and I) are always the ones constructing new furniture in the house, because we're way more patient and better with it than him.
Its just a very healthy house where everyone deals with what they do best and can live their lives like they want.
I live in Alberta. All the "Farm Girls" I know are badass. They wear blue jeans and steeltoe boots, drive transport trucks and megamachinery. These woman are savvy business people who negotiate internationally to sell their crops and run multimillion dollar farms. During harvest, all the kids in the neighborhood are on a rotating baby-sitting schedule because all the men and women are in the fields. Whenever I see these posts about wearing cottagecore dresses and playing farm princess, it just is hilarious delusional
Oh absolutely, they want a hobby farm at the very most 😂🇨🇦
Exactly,farm women or country women are majorly tough ,fearless,very strong phisically and mentally.They handle strong animals,usually know how to use guns. The list could go on and on.
They still are feminine and beautiful inside and outside.
But this trad wife youtubers do not show it like it is.
Farm women have always been badass, generations ago they may have not driven trucks but they were still tough no nonsense work horses. Honestly, a 9 to 5 office job is leisure life compared to that.
It’s like how Marie Antoinette having a farm to roleplay being a peasant
@@astra6137 omg don't bring marie into this, she still is better than the ridiculous women in this video 😞
"I don't want a job I just want to live on a farm in dresses and milk cows"
as if farming isn't on of the most exhausting jobs out there. your dress will be ruined day one. you will have to wake up at 5am every day. this dream is stupid. put some respect on the real hard work people who live your non existent "dream life" do ffs
Not if its a gentleman's farm that your husband owns. Then you hire people to do the dirty work and get to live that cottegecore lifestyle
@Estarile that sounds awful and fake just like the pick me's.
I would love to take this kind of women to work on an actual farm. They have some romanticized image of farm work, like you prance around in a dress petting cows in a sunny field and give them a hand full of hay every now and then. Wonder how long they would actually last in a real farm. "Here is a shovel, Betty, and there is a pile of manure. Off you go!
@@SusirajantakaaLOL or put her to work "assisting" cows giving birth
@@D_McGeezacks Oh hell yeah! Covered in pee, poo, blood, goo and slime 😁Not to mention how physically hard work it can be.
Fun fact: being a stay-at-home housewife who doesn't work and just takes care of the home is a very "rich, white American" thing. Lower-class women, including women of color, always had to work.
As far as feminism is concerned with work (because feminism is not just about work), the point wasn't to get women to work - it was to get them paid for their work the same as men, as well as allow them into jobs that were historically men's domain.
Today, used the be the obly option, no onw would have paid a woman. Changed during the great depression, wich was waaaay easier to live through then the current depression meaning even then, work was a choice for women
Well, it was a lot more feasible back in the 50's. Maybe not _everyone_ could pull it off, but _more_ people could.
If only minimum wage went up with the rate of production, then we might not have as shit of an economy around here...
EDIT: I feel like I might need to pre-emptively clarify that I don't really care much for the "traditional housewife" shtick. Just pointing out economy stuff, really. If you wanna be a stay-at-home housewife, more power to ya, but if you don't, that's also perfectly acceptable!
Why do you think it's called a "Tradwife"?
Yeah it sounds nice to stay at home to take care of children, too Bad i'm poor
My mom didn't get a job cuz she is an empowered feminist, she got it so we can pay for stuff, cuz her and my dad's pay together is hardly enough, imagine if only one of them worked.
This antifeminists in america really piss me off cuz women getting jobs is rather a normal thing in 90% of the world and isn't done by "girl boss" feminists, rather.... everyone.... people just need jobs ffs, if u hate getting a job, that's cuz capitalism is fucked and no one like working in this environment, not cuz "women shouldn't work"
5:30 Girl, you are describing what a Domestic Abuser does to his victims. That level of control, the tracking of your every movement, the social isolation - all of that are things that men who _abuse_ their spouses do.
Anyone reading this: This chick is in an abusive relationship. If your partner starts making similar demands of you, _run!_
Her face actually looks like she wants to cry, imo. If someone told me her husband took those pictures of her and posted them with those quotes, I would believe it.
She looks and writes like she came straight out of Stepford. It's so creepy and concerning.
I don’t usually judge but it almost sounds like a submission kink… so okay glad it works for you but that’s a hard pass for me😅
@@rosettegb7999 Aye... I guess, if it's not a demand but actually something you've both agreed to and both enjoy or are fully comfy with and either one of you could nope out at any time without judgment or retaliation, fine-but otherwise, naahhhh.
@@rosettegb7999 the way she presents herself on her channel is also giving me kink vibes. Fishing for views from a certain demographic
I love it when traditionalists explain men. Men are strong, stable, unshakeable rocks, but at the same time you should excuse their infidelity because they are simple creatures who have to follow their desires.
Best of both worlds. They get to do anything without any accountability while somehow also deserving respect.
@@emjakos3548describes red pill fanatics for sure! Don't forget women are to blame for every social ill
Its wild to me that Not Like Other Girls somehow went from "Make up and dresses is bad, being a tomboy is special and unique" to "Lets remove women's rights"
Yeah! What is happening? Everything is flipped to its head. Nuts.
(apologies in advance for my english, my sentence might be poorly worded) I think whenever there's a new trend, or more like something that's generally common that becomes popular among girls/women of specific age, they get stereotyped based on that trend and girls who don't want to be put in the same box as the rest in order to avoid getting stereotyped by men, they present themselves as the opposite. A couple years ago, let's say in 2016-18, super bold, bronze makeup with thick brows was the trend, watching makeup artists on youtube was quite popular, a lot of girls would bleach their hair and use fake tan (and they ate that up fr) so those who wanted to be different from the rest and would portray themselves as the black sheep, nobody understands them etc would say stuff like "i'm not like other girls, i don't wear makeup and i listen to heavy metal" idk just an example. But going from 2020 and forward there was a big rise in women who would open up an OF account as an opportunity to make more money (that was during covid when a lot of people lost their jobs so taking on an online side hustle was a great way to make money fast) and then there was the rise of Andrew Tate who would preach about being a sigma male werewolf who rides into the sunset on his badass motorcycle or wtv and he would preach about trad gender roles, shit on western women which influenced a surprising amount of guys, especially those lonely guys who have no friends no father no mother no bitches no job no hobbies and NOW women who want to appeal to those men and put other women down in order to win brownie points from the boys like to portray themselves as God loving trad wives who think modern feminism is a mistake and women should only appeal to men. Even though the entire point of modern feminism is to be able to make the choice for yourself- like nobody's stopping you for living a traditional lifestyle if that's what speaks to you. Anyway sorry for the extra long comment
Everything is a reactionary grift these days.
Right-wingers get bilked at every turn by anyone who has an in and no principles.
It's this weird rightoid economy system that gets fed from the top by billionaires who want to not be taxed and hate minorities. So they employ any group that professes those ideas and you get a race to the fringe with ever more extreme statements to stand out from the sea of grifters.
With the open collaboration of Christian institutions, conservative politicians and fascist demagogues, you see an increasingly solid front of right-wing counter-culture that dictates every aspect of your life on the right.
And you go down the food chain of political advocation, you end up with trad wife influencers who hawk the delusion that a stay-at-home life in luxury is achievable or easy, and not isolating and fostering abuse.
Because there is a stupid loser guy who wants to be pandered to, no matter what platform you're on.
Trad wife influencers did not just happen. They are produced by a concerted effort on the right to take over the nation and turn it into a Christo-Fascist dictatorship.
@@stinqx No, that makes some sense. And I like that it can be boiled down to "Blame Andrew Tate". Cuz really, the dude is awful. Any opportunity I get to make fun of him, I will take gladly.
Anything to be different! 😂
All the pick me's in this video seem to ignore that the majority of the suffrage movement was probably full of women that were struggling from not being able to have a job, whether a single parent or just being denied financial freedom by their husbands. My grandma was born in the 40's and she still struggled to get a job. Which she needed, because of a slew of abusive husbands and raising 3 kids. She was the kind of woman who not only wanted a job because everyone deserves choice, but NEEDED a job.
Also y'all underestimate what it actually takes to live on a homestead
@@detected_chaos735 I dunno I played stardew valley and it seems pretty easy \s
The history of the women's suffrage movement in the USA and England is fascinating and deeply enmeshed in class-- most of the leaders and most visible members of the movement were middle-class women who had the leisure time to devote to the cause. Working class women definitely were willing to fight for the vote but their efforts were often rejected by middle class activists because they thought it was bad optics. In the US that went double for black women. It is really interesting, messy history
Women's rights in America was a big struggle up until the 80s and although it's petered out a lot America still has some cultural sexism and misogyny still persists. I think people forget that America is not at full equality yet.
For sure. The only time I've ever felt the need to "un-alive myself" was when I was a stay at home mom.
24:55 y'all aren't fed up with feminism. You're fed up with capitalism. GET A GRIP
Women aren't meant to work soulless corporate jobs 40 hours a week. Men aren't meant to work soulless corporate jobs 40 hours a week. Nobody is meant to work soulless corporate jobs 40 hours a week, because seriously, wtf is this?!?
What’s that gotta do with capitalism
@@willdaisey7406 She said she's sick of a 40 hour desk job. She just wants to be a housewife, but the way the economy and stuff here is (speaking as an American) most couples have to both work to support themselves better yet children.
American cunning capitalism🤡
Socialism is cooler than capitalism tbh, but people are too easily-corrupt when in power so I'd say social democracy works the best, in my opinion. That's what Scandinavian countries have, they're social democracies. It's still capitalism, but if capitalism had a face-full of makeup and a nice little bow on its head so it looks less ugly and rigged. It's capitalism with a massive welfare state, so more free stuff, less homelessness and affordable necessities. All the things america needs, tbh.
So, all of these "tradwives" want to return to the "traditional family" of the 1950s… TV shows.
Because that's the lifestyle they're describing: what was portrayed in 1950s TV shows.
But it's worse than, "They wanna live in a TV-show."
You see, all of those 1950s TV shows like "Father Knows Best," "The Donna Reed Show," "Leave It to Beaver," and so on, weren't even shows, they were _commercials._ They were full of product-placement for appliances, cars, and other products associated wtih life in the suburbs. In fact, those 1950s shows were _actually_ half-hour long advertisements for life in the suburbs.
So what these people want to "return to" not only never existed, but was actually a 30-minute commercial in episode-form. _They want to live a lifestyle based on 1950s TV commercials._ How perverse is that?
somehow this is worse than weebs wanting to go to Japan expecting life would be like a Slice of Life anime
Jesus Christ, what's wrong with these people?
@@crypticlol They're trying to live a lifestyle based on TV-commercials? Which if you think about it, is absolutely _unhinged._
I can tell you, from stories that my parents and aunts tell of growing up in the 1950s, that life _WAS NEVER LIKE_ what these "tRaDiTiOnAl FaMiLy" people think it was - _or_ anything like the 1950s TV shows, for that matter. That whole, "It takes a village," thing? Yeah, _that_ is how people lived: In _communities._ Even in the cities or the suburbs, you had _neighborhoods_ that acted socially in the same way that small villages did. Also, Capitalism hadn't torn apart extended families yet, so people still had aunts, uncles, great-aunts&uncles, grandparents, etc. still living relatively nearby.
Nuclear families _aren't healthy._ Not for the kids. Not for the parents. It puts too much pressure on too few people. The _only_ time in history and across cultures when a "father+mother+kids"-family works is *_in the aristocracy_* … when that "family" also was independently wealthy and had an entire staff supporting them [if not actually doing most of the work of raising the kids].
These people have no clue what they are talking about and obviously never spent much time around women who actually lived through their supposed glory days. The crap they are going on about never was reality.
You can't explain that to them though, their brains can't handle it 😂
THIS!!!!!!
“Women are not meant to work a 40 hour desk job” love I don’t think anyone is “meant” to work a 40 hour desk job
Especially if you check how long do desks even exist.
So true 😌and sad 😞
Absolutely not. Sciatica, much.
I actually wanted to do the whole “pick me” to “trad wife” “boy mom” pipeline for my thesis in my upcoming masters program😭
I'd read that thesis!
Oh please do!!
I support that so much
I'd read that paper
Wish you luck writing the thesis!!!
It’s crazy there are women (and men) that can’t let their partners hang out with the opposite sex w/o them. If ur worried ur SO is going to cheat on u the second they get away from u…then that’s a serious problem with the relationship.
tbh, there's a lot of assholes that simply doesn't give a fuck with relationship
I met a guy who breakup with people 5 times, all because of cheating
But yeah, I agree this is too much tho
How about remaining friends with exes once married with children?
Yeah. Imagine having a relationship based on TRUST instead of control
@@mammadingo9165i think it’s fine if they don’t like eachother romantically
@@lavacoil that needs to be discussed openly with all involved. No secret best friends.
When will they realize that being able to raise a family on a single income is not possible for the majority of households and never was??
I hate the birth control slander. I have very painful cycles due to PCOS to the point where I would become anemic and can barely walk. Birth control is health care.
Same, I used to faint in high school and had to take a whole week of every month. It only got better when I started taking BC a few years ago.
Same same, I feel like I can actually survive the cycle instead of curled up in a ball in my room crying due to pain. Plus I really hate these people who are like "No birth control!!" "Okay so if I get pregnant and don't want a child rn, I'll get it terminated" "OH MY GOD YOU MURDERER!!!!" like, bish I was TRYING not to get here but you said no to birth control, tf???
Ima burnin the Lgbt flag in my profile.
@@mactepok31want a cookie ?
@yoplaitonasme1454 can I get a rainbow cookie 🥺
I want a sweet one
“All I want it to live on a farm and take care of the children! And wear pretty dresses and pick fruit from our garden, instead of working myself to death for a 9-5 job 😢”
You can tell none of these people never lived on a farm
You don't have time to do frolicking on a farm, even when you're actively going through the marshy muddy fields looking for that one dang sheep.
23:45 I'm not sure she knows what the term "pillow princess" means.
@@aidennevada243 Well I just learned a new term today 0.0.
Farming is a damn near 24 hour job.
Source: I live next to farmers
I think she went apple picking once and decided that that's what farming is like
Something tradwives don't realize is that because they personally are more built for families (which is great and there's nothing wrong about it), other women are more built for careers or would find children stressful. Because traditional life works for them, it doesn't mean it's meant for all girls. And raising children is not any less stressful than a 9-5 job!! Whether it's more enjoyable depends on the person. Great vid as always!!
I agree
also let's not forget that they're not even trad wives. they're influencers, they work and they earn money, they have a job. they just pretend to be in a 1950s commercial, none of it is real or has ever been real.
To every single pick-me out there:
Grow tf up! It’s okay to want to be a sahm/tradwife/housewife whatever you want to call it; it’s okay to not like makeup; it’s okay to like stuff that are seen as “boy things” like video games or cars; it’s okay to have guy friends; what’s not okay is pushing other people down just to bring yourself up.
I mean come on people, I thought stuff like this was taught in kindergarten.
If simply having a friend of the opposite sex is what "causes" you to have an affair, then you weren't worth marrying in the first place.
💯
Exactly, like, I’m lesbian and have friends of all types of genders and yet I have no interest in them AT ALL other than friendship, not everyone is a cheating pos
Exactly! And they always assume you must be promiscuous, which is irrational because at the same time girls who hang out with guys are stereotyped as tomboyish (and men just want feminine women 🙃). I for example have more guy friends than girl friends as a girl and I'm still a virgin.
im omnisexual, (pansexual but im not fully genderblind basically) and i still have friends of all genders without wanting anything more than a friendship 😭
@@shesupallnightilthesun I also have many more guy friends than I do girl friends, and I feel the same way.
I’m not like other girls,
I’m a pre-transition trans girl
I hope you’ll be able to transition, if that’s what you want to do. I, too, am not like other girls. Because I’m a trans guy
I hope you both are well, and are cared for and loved as who you are. I am a nonbinary chaos bean.
@@maxcrow890 I thought I was CIS all this time, but only because I did not realize "Nonbinary Chaos Bean" was an option. 😂
You can call yourself just a trans girl without surgery or hormone treatment. You don't need those to be trans.
I’m not like other girls
I have a p-
(also a pre-transition trans girl)
Any partner that demands no opposite gender friends SCREAMS Insecurity
One thing I've noticed with all the "farm dream girls" is that they've clearly never done any farm work. You aren't gonna milk that cow in a sundress. That manure ain't gonna move itself. That roof is gonna need fixing. That fence is gonna need replacing. The henhouse is gonna need fox-proofing again. The tractor broke down in the middle of the field again. The cow needs a vet visit. There's weed among the harvest. The voles are feasting on the potatoes. Etc. etc. It's not a _bad_ thing to want a farm life, but it's so obvious they have no idea what thing a farm life might actually entail. Just saying there's a reason farmers use a lot of machines and that they had a lot of people working for them in the old days.
My boyfriend really likes dinosaurs (he’s actually gonna be a paleontologist) so I’m carving him a wooden dinosaur for his birthday next month
Edit:
Also painting his favorite flowers on a tiny canvas if I have enough paint
that's so sweet! i hope it comes out beautifully!
Oooo good luck!!!
That’s so wholesome!
That's really cutee!!! gud luck
Hell yeah! Palaeontology is awesome!
People who use the "wives, submit to your husbands" Bible passage always exclude the second part; "husbands, love your wives." They quote the first part because out of context they skew it to sound like they can control their wife, not a partnership based on mutual love and respect.
Noticed that in the first one!
“husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the Church”
I love this because it adds wayyyyyy more depth to the love in a marriage. Each should be willing to die for eachother, just how Jesus died for the people in His Church.
@@BrennaButcher Not just that, die for her if she hates him. “While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us”. This is a high bar of love, not an excuse to control another person.
Ima burnin the Lgbt flag in my profile.
@@catlover2223
That's an excellent point. I'm going to have to remember that.
how to get girls for the heteros, or guys
1. love them
2. never make them “submit”, this will ruin your relationship fast
3. equal work
41:41 If your girl wears all black, has pale skin, and sleeps upside-down, that's not your girl; that's one of the Silence.
OMg, you're righ- sorry what were you saying, i forgot.
Ice cream.
Christian tradwives will literally talk about a dom/sub relationship with their spouse and then be like "This works for us so it works for everyone else too!"
Edit: I just wanna say yall are absolutely right. True dom/sub relationships have consent and safewords, and unfortunately the tradwife lifestyle doesn't seem to have any.
Christians in a nutshell
Except that they are not even in a true dom/sub relationship but the Christian forced version
Is pegging my husband an acceptable dom/sub relationship ?
Quite literally what it is. I'm personally convinced the whole "Tradwife" thing is a fetish that just became popular in the 50s, and just gets called "Traditional" because a lot of powerful Politicians/Pastors personally find it appealing.
It's really weird how they don't seem to get that different ppl like/want different stuff. Like, there's nothing wrong with being a house wife, ppl just don't like that that was the only option is all. A lot of conservatives seem to think that more options is somehow taking away their options, that more rights for others means less righs for them, almost like they think rights and freedom are a limited resource and if one group wants it, then another will loose them.
I am amazed at the people who are like "I'm going to move to a farm and wear dresses and feed chickens" like no. You wear boots and jeans on a farm and you smell like good healthy poo. You want to wear cute dresses, stay in the city.
Chickens are dinosaurs anyway.
I've never seen someone fantasize about farm life that actually understood how farm life works.
They think they can get up at 9am and basically let the land manage itself. 😂 they always think they'll be working 40 hours a week on the farm at MOST! They dont understand how much farmland it would take to fully provide for a full household, how much work goes into that, how much work would go into selling the excess (even if its just farmer's markets and not a contract with a large food distributor).
They would not survive a DAY on a real farm.
They want the cottagecore aesthetics of a backyard garden they can show on social media, but think farm is the way to do it.
This is straight up TRUTH
Seriously :'D Anyone who says they're going to milk cows in a pretty dress imagines some idealized poster of a pinup milkmaid or something, having like one cow in a cutesy wooden barn. I imagine the reality of it is more like "We have 35 cows in this huge modern barn, it is 5 am and me, my husband and our two workers are starting with guiding the cows to the milking units, we need to get this shit done by 6 so we have time to clean the enclosures". Also I've driven by farmland, and you don't have to be close to the cows to know what the smell is like. I've also been to a barn and it's quite pungent, although you do get used to it pretty fast. I'd say a pretty dress, while it might brighten your mood, will be super impractical, get stuck on things and probably get chewed on by a cow, and be dusty and smeared with feces by the end of the shift :D
Yeah, they want to be Marie Antoinette during her 'royal shepherdess' period or what we call today the cottagecore aesthetics. The reality is that, if you want fresh eggs for breakfast, you have to get up early (ideally before the rooster, cause he'll want to kill you for trying to steal his unborn children), before sunrise. Then you have to walk into the chicken coop and try to get rid of the chickens who laid eggs. Then you have to collect the stil warm and smelly eggs full of poo and try to sneak them into the house without the mother hen noticing and start a riot that will bring in the rooster (who then will try to kill you). Once inside the house you have to clean those eggs and especially your hands, so you won't die from bacteria from the poop. And then you have to make breakfast with those eggs, hoping sincerely that they are fresh, and not some eggs you overlooked like a week ago and where a half developed chicklet fetus will pop out from.
And that's the first 15 minutes of an average farmer morning, if you have the absolutely non cottagecore aesthetically conform luxury of electricity, tab water and gas/heat.
"I want the chill farm life" tf. Farms are stressful. You have to feed your animals, clean them and their stables/ranges, make sure they are healthy, collect eggs/milk, eventually butcher some at some point, maintain equipment. And most people probably have no clue how much work that is. Milking a cow is tedious when you don't know how to do it. People easily complain about smell of farms and often can't actually handle animals. Sorry for the vent but damn
From this video, and my own experiences, I can pretty much confirm that anyone who refers to women as "Females" is either a Nice Guy™ or a Pick Me Girl™
It’s so funny how these women think that birth control is just for “birth control”. It is a pretty misleading name, but it’s used for more than that. I had to go on birth control because my periods were so bad that I’d end up bedridden for a week each month and was missing way too much school. And, as a trans guy, the fact that it stopped my period completely is a huge plus 😉
But seriously, these people need to do research before declaring something as evil or unneeded 😂
Yeah, I'm on it for hormone control because off it, I'm like unable to get out of bed due to how tired I am. Also, as a fellow trans person, Hi!
@@Dragonkitty_101 hello! I’m glad we both have positive experiences ^^
My control pill which gives a "fake period" made my "period" regular for the first time in my life. I can function the first day and I'm less anxious about unwanted children. Me and hub are not ready yet but I still have severe anxiety, even when the contraceptive is working I sometimes buy a test to be sure. But it does help with the level of anxiety
They do know and they don't care at all how much pain you are in and they definitely don't want you to use it as gender affirming care. Glad you have access to it for any and every reason you need it 💜
I take birth control as an adhd med, I haven't even seen anyone's naughty parts yet 😂
Feminism is about choices. IDK why people don't get that.
I think it is a way to steer young woman away from feminism. They do understand, and don't like it.
Because they’re against women having choices.
And rights. And basic respect.
Equality. Liberty. "Fraternity".
That is accurate. however there are feminists out there that will give others choosing the trad alot of hate and grief. it isnt cool, and the evil conservatives cant see the overwhelming majority for the couple loud assholes.
I think they see feminism as purely contrarian. Or they want it to look like it is. Like, everything is the polar opposite even if it doesn't need to be
19:55 lamoo what?? Has her life, as a woman, basically never passed the Bechdel test😭😭😭😭😭 She's never had a interesting conversation with any woman?💀
"We're going to anoint the hotel room"
Ma'am, I am a witch, that is witchcraft.
all these women who grew up in suburban neighborhoods saying "all i want is to live on a farm and wear pretty dresses" have it hard coming once they learn that animals are nasty and working on a farm is taking care of the nasty. nothing like scooping hay covered in pee and poo out of barn stalls in my pretty floral sundress🧚♀️✨️
Exactly...how they tell us they've never done a single day of working on a real farm, without telling us.....🙄.
I was wondering that too 😂😂 the amount of dust, gross bugs, spiky little pieces of hay that get everywhere, sticky in sweat and sunblock, washing shit off your rubber boots and constant laundry + showers to get the barn smell off... Not something you would want to do in a summer dress and sandals.
I remember going on a field trip to a farm back in kindergarten and then it got interrupted by a rain storm. It was a lot messier than they think it is.😑
Also, farm women aren't tiny, skinny, or dressed in pristine white dresses and sun hats, they're absolutely ripped and covered in dirt most of the time, and I love it
"I don't want to have to work, I want to live on a farm." Girl, living on a farm is work beyond your comprehension and definitely beyond the hours of a 9 - 5.
I was a tomboy and a somewhat "pick me" in highschool. I couldn't stand popular and beautiful girls and all of them were "bimbos" to me. I am ashamed to say that I actually thought I was better than them simply because I liked skating, rock and videogames. Now that I am an adult, I can say that I appreciate all types of girls and their uniqueness and it's honestly so much better to not be in competition with other women
No need to be ashamed - most of us are raised to care about what other people think, to buy into the idea that being beautiful and popular are top priorities. IDK about you, but I did aspire to be part of the popular kids' cliques until high school, when I realized that I would never fit in with or be accepted into that crowd, stopped trying, and went in the opposite direction. This was the early 90's, so I was all about the grunge - flannels, concert T's, long skirts, combat boots, as much black as possible, absolutely no pink...basically going out of my way to be weird and unattractive vs. making an attempt and risking rejection. Then somewhere along the way, I threw off the shackles of giving a fuck about what anyone else thought & embraced just being myself without regard to what "categories" I belonged to, and life became much more tolerable. Everyone is an individual, and at the end of the day, we're all just people. Competition and judgment are pointless in this context, though I can't say that I don't get judgey and borderline self-righteous at times, nobody's perfect (& some people do genuinely suck)😜
Ima burnin the Lgbt flag in my profile.
I kinda was a pick me, without any Intention of getting picked, since I Had Just as much Feeling of alienation with the Boys AS with the girls. IT was Not the girls stuff I did Not vibe with but the whole Teenage experience and messed Up priorities.
I do Not Like WHO was Back then, but my Independence did me some good AS in never gotten into Alkohol, cigarets or Other drugs or neglecting school . . . .i am pretty immune to Pier pressure AS far AS one can BE, but I regret the disdain. I Just compleatly Lack all understanding forntheir Appeal and Had to learn I do Not have to to Just Accept IT without judgment
Same thing here,watched those teen dramas in early age and thought hating other girls would be cool.
Used to hate pink color,make up,girl dresses (only wore boys clothes),hated anything womanly and many more . Now after all these years I sit in the corner cringing like heck everytime i remember those times 😬
yeah, i was a 'im not like other girls' a few years ago, but uh, tahts bc im a gay, im trans, and uh.... i had body dysphoria with anxiety and celiac and was taught bad things abt girls by disney
i went to an ivy league school - the women were by far more engaged with the material and made better points, but the men would just reword and repeat the same point and get more praise from the other men in the room. men and women are capable of being incredibly intelligent but men have learned they can just take women’s points and get credit. if they weren’t taught that im sure we’d all be making equal points. also, intelligent people tend to congregate with other intelligent people. so if youve never heard a woman say something intelligent…. ive got news for you. there is an exception with some specific intelligent men who know their intellect can get them laid/attention from women, so naturally plenty of women who are not academically intelligent will interact with loads of these men and very few intelligent women
ps. not being academically intelligent is NOT a fault; everyone has a strength and if intelligence is not yours thats ok! our society seems to only value intelligence and beauty though.
There seems to be a confusion that being feminine and being a feminist is mutually exclusive. My take on feminism is to give women the same options, rights, pay, and voice that men get. Its not about taking them out of one prison and sticking them in another. Its all about the freedom of letting people live their own life.
That first woman makes me so upset as a Christian feminist. Feminism is supported by the Bible, he supports equality between both genders and women being able to choose what they want to do with their lives. Several times in the Bible it calls out corrupt people for treating women like property which was the societal norm of that time. If she wants to be a stay-at-home mom and quit working a job good for her! But she can't tell other women that they have to do that too.
Just thought I’d add this (4days later) in case you're curious I'm currently in a Bible college under the Assemblies of God denomination and after I graduate I will be perusing youth ministries. If you want to know what I believe then look up the AG doctrines. And as a side note, I'm not interested in arguing about my religion or why you think it's stupid. If you wouldn't argue with someone Jewish, Muslim, or pagan about why their beliefs are dumb then dont come after mine. The gist of my beliefs is, that God created man and woman equally, women are allowed to take leadership roles if they want to, submission does not mean relinquishing control over one’s life, and women have no right to tell other women what they should and should not do with their lives. That last statement is the one that is most relevant to this video and was the entire reason for me making this comment.
Lmao tell that to the pope
@@ngotemna8875 fair enough. There are a lot of Christian hypocrites and it makes me mad.
I think it's one of those things that can be understood different ways, depending on which passages you focus on.
@@ngotemna8875 What? The current Pope is accepting of women's rights, gays, and trans people. Have you not been paying attention?
There's American Christians who got mad when he basically said that LGBTQ should be accepted and loved like anyone else.
correct. the idea that Jesus didn't support equality between men and women was decades after his death when the fake self-proclaimed "apostle" Paul complained in his letters that women should remain silent.
I am an old school feminist. Work inside or outside the home, marry or stay single, have children or don’t have children, dress modestly or funky or sexily. Just decide what is right for yourself and do it and don’t let anyone tell you that your choice is wrong. Feminism started out as empowering women to live life as they felt comfortable with not how parents, spouses, and society thought they should live their lives.
I'm curious what you mean by old school feminist?
@@rondrajaeev2957 The "Woman should have the same right as men" kind, I assume. Not the "Women need more power and be the better men" type, that a lot of people think about, if feminism is mentioned nowadays, because those "feminists" are the loud ones.
@@Leshantra By definiton they aren't feminists. Feminism is and has always been about equality. This is like a mest ester calling themselves vegetarian and everyone hating on vegetarianism. The hypocrite here is the meat eater, not the entire life style or world view.
@@Leshantra I hate how the narrative has swapped over the last few years. Lots of posts nowadays that mention feminism are filled with replies that talk about the difference between „old school“ and „new feminism?“. I never got that because of all the hours I spend browsing on the internet I have not seen a shift in how most women demand equal rights. But all of these comments are convinced that there has been a huge shift in feminism, which I genuinely have never seen. Can you link me some of your resources that track a shift in how the broader public conduct themselves in regards of feminism.
Feminism is still about the equality of all genders it’s just that people try to reframe the meaning and claim “FeMiNiSm is RUNING our society 😭😭”
This whole video is one of the best reason of feminism being still needed 😂😂
the only woman alive in my life right now that was the tried-and-true trade wife lost her husband 20 years ago and has been a pile of depression ever since. she's never done anything for herself and just rots away
About the second girl, personally, I wouldn't exactly consider a 30 year old man looking to date a 20 year old woman and refusing to date other people in their 30s a "good boy"
Literally. I'd never wanna date a dude 10 years my senior ew (I'm 18).💀
@@Slayy05asame fr, that’s sickening whoever thinks men looking to date women that much younger than them have issues.
At that age i and girls my age would refer to 30 y.o dudes as old men.The ones who tried to hit on me caused me so much cringe.
@@sunsetanimator4187
To me as long as both are legally adults and there is no grooming or controlling or anything like that is fine. I think it’s ridiculous that people have a problem with 30 year old with a 20 year old. I mean if there is problems going on then yeah, but if relationships is healthy and haven’t met less then 18 then fine by me. Some 18-24 year old women are into men in their late 20s/early 30s.
My only problem is that men lived shorter than women. I do have a problem if the age gap is old enough to be your parent.
There’s nothing wrong with 30s dating 18-24, but when they only want women 18-25/29 then I see it as a problem.
despite being an atheist my whole life, God found me and saved me" makes it sound like God was an atheist.
God be like: Stop believing in me please I just want to have no responsibility anymore 😂
Love how they leave out how they supposedly found God. Sounds like a Christian who don't like OF making up a story.
@@keit99I think he just has bad confidence and doesn't believe in himself
God becomes depressed, and therefore is an atheist because he no longer believes in himself.
@@eleanorcooke7136 exactly that.
I’m convinced that these women have never spoken to another woman in their entire lives
Stepford Wives (1970s) is still the scariest documentary I’ve ever seen
I actually am not like other girls. I am neurodivergent. So I can’t stand when dudes try to say all women are the same and we can’t be individuals with different personalities, thoughts, and opinions. I think it’s a sexist distraction from the “nice guys” who end up murdering women (and men) and are excused because of “loneliness” which btw affects women in equal amounts 🙄
Also, single women live longer because straight women are most likely to be killed by their husbands. Good luck!
I'm a thundering hardcore feminist, atheist, anarchist, and occasional serial killer (of spiders and bugs) I break out in hives watching women betray their own gender. *Raptor screeching into the void
Serial killer and mass murderer are not the same thing.
Especially when they're doing to to push a grift. They're betraying their own interests for money.
There's people like that in every marginalized population and it's pretty disgusting
What?
@@pemanilnoob587 the commenter was joking
Don't screech at the void, the void embraces us all equally. Screech at the bastards in this subreddit, rage at them, let your wrath be known!
My mom told me something that reminds me of those “wanna be a scientist vs raised x scientists” posts:
My mom doesn’t brag to her friends about me or my sisters, she’ll tell people about us when asked but never unprompted. This is because, in her words, our achievements and lives are not hers, they are our own. They’re nothing for her to brag about because we were the ones who did it. Not only are there very important jobs that aren’t “scientist”, living your whole life with the goal of raising multiple kids in difficult/brag-worthy fields puts way too much pressure on those kids if they don’t want that career path. Your kid is not your trophy, people!!
"Your kid is not your trophy, people!!"
Yep, my parents don't understand this. I can be struggling and they'll complain about what that looks like for their image. I can be dealing with a bunch of health issues and they'll just bitch I'm not giving them enough things to brag about.
"Your kid is not your trophy, people!!"
Yep, my parents don't understand this. I can be struggling and they'll complain about what that looks like for their image. I can be dealing with a bunch of health issues and they'll just bitch I'm not giving them enough things to brag about.
Your mother sounds like a very wise woman and a good mother
This is the greenest parenting flag I've ever heard of my God
When my friend saw all of her extended family right after her graduation, her parents got more praise and compliments than her. They also plan their life (studies, marriage, outings)... Raising kids should be selfless and I am glad your mother got that.
As someone who used to work at a hotel... please don't anoint the hotel room. Housekeeping is NOT going to appreciate a random puddle of olive oil on the floor.
That lady at 20:00 be like: "Men don't care about makeup." and at the same time, neckbeards losing theri sh**t over the fact that Lara Croft in the latest Tomb raider game won't have a pretty enough face. Same thing happened to Alloy of Horizon: Zero Dawn.
To add my own take: I think people care to much about how other people look and present themselves.
The romanticising of homesteading as clean and easy is wild. To think you are not working as hard as a ceo when you are cleaning an entire house, cooking for a family, raising children, taking care of cows and chickens. GURL, that is like 7 jobs. It is 24/7 and you don't get a break! Your kids and animals will need you during the night too!
Right, I'm pretty sure that's why homesteaders that are real look like they're 50 when they're 30. ,(That and maybe lack of sunscreen)
Ima burnin the Lgbt flag in my profile...
Farmers probably work harder than quite a lot of CEOs lol
And no payment for all that
Literally they're insane, my dad's grandfather lived in a mud hut in the butt fok middle of nowhere in Saskatchewan and had 11 mouths to feed but apparently that's "glamorous" and "attractive" to them. Bestie stop that's literally what living in poverty was like you're wanting to gentrify and cosplay as the poor and working class get help
The "Making my squad because people my age don't like me" is just becoming codependent on your children for happiness. It's going to raise them to be codependent on you and push their own wants and needs aside because that's what they're used to
Just saying, the moment those kids turn 18, they are leaving, cuz they will get sick of the venting, trauma dumping, overbearing, and their mom constantly wanting to do everything together. Humans are social creatures, and if u limit ur social circle to people who are forced to spend time with u, it will get really bad
aka parentification lmao
like yeah your kids are supposed to be your friends /s
@@aleksabanjevic8316 that is if they get out of it relatively healthy. They could also never have learned to do the basic adult things on their own and now afraid to leave
@@tomlxyz it's sad how true this is as well, deprograming from that can be extremely difficult as well
That broad should look up Ed Gein
*I’m* not like other girls….**tucks hair behind ear** i’m not a girl
The whole "Women aren't interesting" is bullshit. My coworker will randomly start explaining the entirety of Bionicel lore and it's extremely interesting.
“Dress how you want” vs “Dress modestly” implies they’re dressing modestly against their own will.
Wouldn’t dressing modestly fall under ‘dress how you want’?
Exactly. I both believe this dress how you want is a thing that everyone should follow and I do dress how I want it just happens to be that I like wearing maxi dresses. The exception to this is when it's too hot to wear that because wearing something long sleeved to your ankles when it's 100° out is just a great way to get heat stroke
Ima burnin the Lgbt flag in my profile.
All of these people owe their mothers an apology. Look at all the bs, "Being a stay-at-home mom is so easy! We just flit around in pretty dresses without a care in the world" posts. Parenting is difficult messy work, tending the homestead is laborious and time consuming. Anyone who says it isn't is living with their head in the clouds.
"Why would I want to work a 9-5 with prescribed duties and a set schedule when I can spend every waking minute cooking, washing dishes, cleaning up chicken poo, chasing screaming toddlers around the house, meal planning, budgeting, changing dipers, baking bread from scratch, tending the garden, mending clothing, stopping the children from eating glue, giving the cats their medication, doing the shopping, beating the laundry against the rocks, and on and on and on.
For women who find that kind of work fulfilling, I'm sure it's all worth it to see a yard full of laughing children and a table full of homegrown food at the end of the day. But it's loads of labor. Hours and hours of unpaid and underappreciated labor with no sick days and no vacation.
Apologize to your mom for ever saying it was easy.
👏👏👏
Preach
Exactly! Your comment is genius. While some women may find staying at home more enjoyable, it's definitely not less stressful.
My mom was only stay at home while I was little. She ended up needing to get a job and worked for most of my childhood/young adulthood.
You actually forgot about breastfeeding 😅
Depending on the baby it can take 10mn or fcking hours
Near 10:00 with the two toddlers.... One thing that kids get at the park that they don't get on a hike is interacting with other children their age. Same with aftercare activities. I really hope they let their children interact with other children because that's how you build your social foundations in development. In fact that's one of the leading causes of developmental delay that was caused by isolation during the pandemic (basically if you were too isolated from zero to six it decreased your social skills dramatically).
"Submit yourselves to your own hustbands as you do to the lord"
Atheists: You have no power here!
lol exactly
To Trad Wives: what happens if your husband gets bored and leaves? What happens if he dies? That first one was definitely a grift. Most Trad Wife pages are. Real trad wives don’t have jobs and they definitely wouldn’t be allowed (by their husbands) to post on social media. It’s just a trend right now.
The thing is these trad wives are indoctrinated Christian women who have been led to believe in what they are saying and that they are actually trad wives even though they are not
The duck? I don't understand the negative attitude, their choice and privilege to be traditional, and is not nice to wish/imply infidelity because "boring" just because you don't see the appeal or you dont agree with a different life style. Even worse, death?
Literally uncalled question/scenario, as the answer would be them finding a job, after GRIEVING
@@ShinyShillaDude.... reading comprehension
@@ShinyShillathe “negative attitude” is cold, hard reality.
What happens when their husband leaves them for a younger and more naive girl? Then the trad ex wife is left with a 10 year gap on her resume (assuming she worked at all), no college, no employable skills, and she has kids she needs to feed so she has to apply for food stamps, that her ex husband voted against while telling her that they aren't aligned with their conservative values because food stamps are "free handouts"
"All I want it to live on a farm and take care of the children!"
Me: Okay that's fine.
" And wear pretty dresses and pick fruit from our garden, instead of working myself to death for a 9-5 job 😢”
Me: .... *looks down at my muddy shoes and pants* ...Yeah, this woman is living in a children's picture book fantasy if she thinks dirt and pretty dresses mix. Even the ladies of the yee ol' olden days didn't wear their pretty dresses, they wore their skirts they didn't mind getting mud on.
You know, I would LOVE to see them pick apples in a pretty dress for 6 hours during harvest. Or even 3... I also would love love love to see them in a pretty dress enter a greenhouse to water the crops in there. Can I watch. Please? It would be like a 90s step mom coming to a horse ranch and seeing that IRL would be the highlight of a lifetime! I do wish meaner things too but... I am actually a nice person and deep down I do want them to learn what clothing is suitable and not actually spook them off forever, just have a little initiation fun. XD
@@AmbiCahiraYeah, I had to go through a similar situation with my shoes when I started gardening seriously. I knew jeans would be the best thing to wear, but it took a while with shoes. I'm sure I looked real funny for a while there and I don't care because it was funny.
"instead of working myself to death for a 9-5 job" do they not realize that farming takes more time than a 9-5????
@@girl1213 At some point I gave up on shoes, but I also grew up on a more produce-centered "farm" than an animal centered one. So mostly weeding and watering than dodging animal shit.
I have no clothes that I would not wear to get in mud
I lived in reigons of China and now Canada, both places with hella mosquitos anytime the weather is even a little bit nice. Whenever I hear posts about "lying in the flower fields" or "In a sundress at the farmers market" or "gardening with a cute dress on" my first response is oh dang I can feel the mosquitos swarming me already
Watching him mispronounce like half of those baby names was an Experience lmao
I'm convinced that all of the "frolicking in the fields" ones have never actually stepped foot on a farm. What do you think happens on them? Early starts, cattle poop, chickens/ducks who think they're bigger then they actually are, sheep who have very hard heads, ect.... it's not a fairy tail. Especially with climate change, crops are being flooded out, frosted over, burnt down and dehydrated. It's really stressful and makes this way funnier
Yeah, pretty Dresses are kinda the wrong attire for a Farm . . . I Love Dresses and historically one would have worn one working on a Farm, but they would have been robust and the apron has to BE changed and washed all the time . . . .No dizzy bows and pretty pastels.
I’m convinced they can’t tell the difference between an actual farm and just a cottage in the woods. “Well it’s all rural so it must be the same right??” Honey, no🤦
Pretty sure people like this just want like. A decent sized house in the woods with a garden- _maybe_ a chicken coop too-within walking distance to a farmer’s market. Like they just want to be the kind of rich people who choose to have mansions in rural parts with lots of surrounding land that they own. Their clear misunderstanding of what hard work is makes that much clear, it reeks of rich people wanting to “slum it with the peasantry”
Frolic in the fields in a dress and come out with twenty ticks
I’m convinced they’ve never been to an actual farm. All you smell is animal 💩 everywhere you go
Because they're rich and privileged and never had to do manual labour once in their lives, if they watched Yellowstone or something they'd see how much less glamorous agricultural and ranching actually is. Women always worked, at least the lower and middle class ones it's only the elites who could afford to not work and be pampered and stay at home with their kids all day.
4:16 The age thing is so disgusting. "A 40 year old man won't want a _used_ 40 year old woman! He'll want an innocent 20 year old good girl!"
Just curious, but what exactly can the average 40 year old woman provide to the relationship? Unlike women men generally don't care whether or not the woman has money, so it can't be that. 40 isn't really a good age to have children either, which is a much bigger deal for women than it is for men. As someone who's with someone roughly my own age I think you're ignoring the practical aspect of this, and instead straw-manning a few rage-baiters on the internet.
@@vikingraven4758so the only thing relevant to a relationship are kids? Not let's say something totally unnecessary as love? 🤨
@@vikingraven4758 This is an incredibly suspect thing to say under a comment about how gross it is that people will date someone half their age *just* for sex. The point is to not objectify women, and what did you do? Objectify women. Romantic partners are more than just vending machines you enter kindness tokens into and hope sex or children or even a paycheck pops out. You’re supposed to actually _like_ the person you’re dating, as in you could just be sitting still next to them doing absolutely nothing but you’re still happy because you’re around someone you really like. For someone who claims to be in a romantic relationship, I’m surprised I have to explain the concept of love to you.
@@lachma26 I think a relationship is an exhausting enterprise, and requires compromise from both parties to work. So unless you’re getting something from it that is more fulfilling than not being in that relationship, then you won’t really feel compelled to enter the relationship to begin with.
Love is nice, but I can love you without sleeping or living with you.
@@vikingraven4758 If you say that, then you haven't found the right person. Being in a relationship is the easiest thing in the world. They're your confidante, your best friend, your lover, your biggest supporter and someone who shares your burdens - all in one. So yeah, a 40 yo woman has a lot to offer.
Seeing all the bad mother in laws who hate their son's wives I want to reiterate to people that most people are normal and don't hate their inlaws. My mother and my dad's mother have always had a good relationship. My grandmother says my mum brought my dad back to her because he used to live in another state during his previous marriage, but when I was born my mum told my father to live closer to his parents so they could take care of them since they were very old and needed constant help. My mum's dad and my dad always had a cordial and lighthearted relationship. I don't personally know anyone who's inlaws hate them or anyone who hates their inlaws.
And I also want to remind everyone that people can act like jerks out of fear and insecurities, not out of malice. Remember that movie where the recently married couple had an issue because the groom's mum was always critical and hostile to the daughter in law, and it turned out that the reason she acted like that was because she thought she'd lose her son. She assured her "The thing is, you didn't lose a son. You gained a daughter." And they repaired their relationship. Give people a chance to explain themselves and try to work with them. Who knows, you might end up gaining a really good relationship.
what is it with tradwives and their obsession with sourdough I genuinely want to know
For real though, what is the obsession with sourdough?
I always find the "innate nature of women" argument to be so funny because when I was a child I heard that microwaves could make you infertile, so I would always stick my navel up to the microwave when I used it so I wouldn't be able to have kids🤣 Goes without saying I never had a maternal instinct, but shout out to those who do and enjoy that life (who also don't hate on women like me for choosing to be childfree)✌
I don't have a single motherly/maternal bone in my body, I mean I was even annoyed by other kids when I was a kid. For these people to claim that women naturally have motherly instincts is infuriating. Even mothers giving birth (to children that they've always wanted) can experience indifference to their child once they've been born, and I'm not even talking about postpartum depression. A lot of new moms also don't even have natural instincts to know how to actually care for a child. After I was born, my mom couldn't understand why I was crying so much and didn't know what to do and my dad suggested that I was hungry. It took a man to figure out that I needed some boob lol. But yea, not dissing anyone that loves children and wants a ton of them, it just doesn't come natural to some people.
Me too! I never tried to sterilize myself but I knew from a VERY early age I wasn't a "normal girl" (and let's be clear that the "normal girl" propaganda is an absolute load of shite). It locked me out of a lot of fun things because if something was "girly" I ran away from it because I didn't want anyone to take my interest as permission to try to force "womanhood" on me (e.g. babies, housework, and submit to your husband). But that rebellion was never about "girl things," it was about wanting to have control over my own life and my own body.
Microwave doesn't work like that.
When I was like 4 years old my aunt gifted me my first baby doll and I literally tried to throw it in the garbage. 😂
@@swiftsteve8774I'm pretty sure they know lol
American Christanity is weird and toxic. There can be different people and it be okay. No one is stopping anyone from being a tradwife in the US, its just not feasible when jobs are not paying enough for more people to be a single income household. I also think they forget not every woman wants to be a tradwife, and that is also perfectly fine.
The thing is, they blame the fact that so many full time jobs don't pay a living wage any more on women having (had) the audacity to demand equal pay for equal work. They will claim that "when only men were in the work force, jobs paid enough" and that if we were to go "back" to that, everyone would be cared for.
If course, they completely ignore the thing they want "back" never existed, that there have always been women who had no choice but join the work force, and so there have always been people paid shittily. They ignore even more that a lot of the times these women's wages, too, had to feed whole families, even in cases when the women did everything "right" i.e. when they were widowed or their husbands couldn't provide because they fell ill or were injured.
They just want to control women. And right now, one way they try to sell the being controlled lifestyle to young girls is by labelling it as being some sort of rebellious. And so of course their narrative is "THEY don't want you to be trad wives. So show THEM! Rebel by completely surrendering to OUR control."
Those aren't just American Christians, they're Evangelical MAGAts. I'm a Christian Democrat. So is Biden, Obama, Taylor Swift, etc. You just have no idea that we exist because we think rubbing religion in other people's faces is stupid.
I've heard a couple of times that most weird and toxic strains of Christianity got kicked out of Europe and fled to Europe and the reason why freedom of religion exists in the US is merely so that those different toxic Christian groups stop persecuting each other. I'm not sure how true it is but it does look like it
It's not "American Christianity", it's Evangelical MAGA. I'm a Christian Democrat who's cool Atheism, LGBTQ, abortion, and stuff. So is Biden, Obama, Carter, Taylor Swift, etc. You just have no idea that we exist because we think rubbing religion in other people's faces is stupid.
As an American Protestant who hasn't done anything weird nor toxic, I found that quite offensive. Especially since I'm both cool with feminism and already knew all that stuff.😑
"Frolicking in the fields" Okay Theresa May.
Seriously, though, as somebody from the countryside, I would LOVE to see you put any of these Tiktok tradwives in their pretty dresses on a farm.
PSA #1: Do Not Frolic On Uneven Ground!
PSA #2: Do Not Frolic On Growing Crops!
PSA #3: Do Not Frolic On Harvested Fields! (The left-over stalks are really, really sharp.)
I love how all the stay at home wives are claiming they get to just stay home and bake…. Their homes must be disgusting. Do they not mop, clean bathrooms, vacuum, do laundry, clean the kitchen, getting groceries,etc. And that’s without even adding kids into the mix. Being a SAHM is a full time job - and I mean full time, as in you are on call 24/7/365. And what’s with all the women who think they can milk cows and run a farm while wearing sundresses?
Most of them are rich women who have a cleaning service that comes in and cleans and the others are grifters who are either single or married and have no kids
My parents were high energy. Even if mom not in a traditional job she would be at home preparing to sell things for fairs and made me come along haul milk to businesses as a kid. Kids did daily chores, she used financial knowledge for home and business did the emergency deliveries, dad did cooking and meeting because he’s social. Everyone had a cleaning schedule that changed the longer they stayed home. We weren’t scared of being home alone because we could work or do homework until parents got home then family time.
An important caveat here is that men are generally bad at lifting their weight in terms of home tasks, so working women wind up doing a lot of the domestic work anyway. Being a tradwife does involve a lot of work but if you have to do that work either way I can see why it seems easier than working a 9-5 on top
Ima burnin the Lgbt flag in my profile.
@@mactepok31lgnt 💀💀😭
2:05 And doesn't she realize how things like stressful jobs negatively affect men as well? This shouldn't be an argument for "traditional" (actually just 50 years old) gender roles; this should be an argument against 21st century capitalism.
YES YES YES YESSSSS, FINALY SOMEONE SAID IT. "oh I don't wanna work 12 hours for a boss who treats me badly, I don't get payed for enough and is running my physical and mental health and social life..... Well obviously this is cuz of feminism, obviously only women suffer in a work environment" NO U TARD, IT'S CUZ MODERN CAPITALISM IS FUCKED, NO ONE LIKES IT
Like, they are expireacing first hand how terrible capitalism is, and instead of working together to fix it, they avoid it and blame feminine for "forcing" them to work
Men are strong and lack the emotions to get stressed, obviously /s
It's really funny how they feel how awful capitalism is, but rather than blame the bad system, they blame feminism for "forcing them to work
Right?
25:38 I've actually seen London used as a girl's name. Not in real life, though.
In the disney show "Suite Life of Zack and Cody", there was a character called London. She was the rich, airheaded character in the show
I saw a post once saying we need to start treating the tradwife thing like a kink relationship cause it honestly feels like one sometimes lol
And I don't mean this as people who want to be housewives and take care of their children, I mean this as the ones who go on and on about submitting to and serving their husbands.
im thinking this too cause if you’re not getting off to this then what is the point
“I’m so happy I didn’t listen to modern feminists and have a man to take care of me! I don’t need a job! I just have this tiktok/Instagram where I spend hours to set up stages, put on makeup and fix my hair, do retakes, edit, promote, sell classes, push merch, and sponsorships for 8+ hours! So glad I don’t have a job and my husband (who we never see) takes care of me so I can care for my family (also never on camera)!”
Oh no, the family is definitely shown, people like this have no respect for their children's privacy.
@@merulaamethyst2248 yep. Have up put on the appearance they can easily handle it all by themselves.
8:20 girl has _no_ idea how much frickin work cows and chickens are to care for 🤦
Reminds me of the Mitchell and Webb video about farming. "Look at that corn, just grows out of the fuckin' ground, you literally can't lose! "
Ikr?! All the people taking about owning a farm like it's easier than an office job have never done farm work. Same with the ones talking about being a sahm like it's not work too.
@@Ragnarok2kx Thank you, now I can't unimagine David Mitchell in a floral dress frolicking in the fields.
Not that I'm mad...
They also definitely think that chickens are a lot more docile than they actually are, I've seen video, chickens are tiny little demons
@@ursulajoni15Or if you played Zelda.
"Milking the cows and feeding the chicks and raising the kids" is not easier than city life. You can't choose to just stop any of those things. You have to do them when you're tired, when you're sick, when you don't want to move out of bed. You don't get breaks and you don't have the choice or OTHER LIVING BEINGS will suffer.
I never knew that the wives in the old days used to post regularly on tik tok....
These women are probably out there making more money than her husband.
I remember being so confused why people had this separation with hanging out boy vs girl. I was autistic and bisexual everyone was equally confusing lol.
Yeeesss
I was confused at why hanging out with boys alone was an issue. I'm asexual 😂
Yes. This. Everyone is confusing!
They assume if a girl is with a guy then they are dating, but they better watch out for when I'm with another girl... 😏😉
SO TRUE
i wonder if all the tradwife influencers have ask their husbands permission to make tiktoks
assuming those grifters accually have a husband of course
Most of them who are married are grifting with their husbands as well
I feel like half of them aren't actually married and the other half know he has a mistress and are trying to act like they don't care because they are "the wife" and she is "just the mistress". I'm like, either be okay with it or deal with him and leave. Don't make it into a personality type or a morality flex competition.
Ima burnin the Lgbt flag in my profile.....
@@mactepok31Quit spamming that comment everywhere because you look like a bot. Do you want to get reported for spamming?
I have a friend named Eloise and her mom is a live laugh love horse girl. Bless Eloise’s heart and hope she lives till she moves out.
24:57 LOL, actually one of the main tasks generally done by women in premodern societies was textile production (Mainly stuff like making cloths). Without modern technology that’s incredibly time consuming and around 90% of the work is consumed by spinning fiber into threads, which means literally turning a wheel for hours each day to wind fiber (from cotton, wool, etc.) into useable threads. So yay, instead of working a nine to five desk job you have to spin a wheel for hours each day. Also don’t expect a bunch of pretty dresses, that much time and labor is *expensive* and all your children still need warm clothes for the winter. Oh, and if you fail to meet your deadlines, instead of you getting fired, the winter takes little Billy.
So, who of you wants to reject modernity and become a *actual* tradwife? Any takers?
My landlord recently decided to remove the garbage disposal bin from my apartment building. When I confronted them they had the audacity to say it doesn't say in the law we have to provide this.
Jokes on them. The law very much says buildings with multiple units must be provided a garbage container.
That's insane, where do they expect you to put your trash, do they expect you to drive it to the dump yourself, if you even have a car at all???
I have no idea what laws landlords are reading these days, but it doesn't matter since, like churches, landlords just get to do whatever they want.
Ima burnin the Lgbt flag in my profile....
Hahaha...the comment about "I want to milk the cows and feed the chicks" as if it's an "easy" life. LOL. Homesteading and farm life are similar but NOT the same and BOTH require a LOT of MANUAL labor outside of making sourdough and feeding the chicks. You literally have to get up when the rooster tells you to get up, gather the eggs from the chickens before they turn into chicks, feed the other chickens, milk the cow AFTER you clean her utters (make sure the bucket is clean), feed the cows and horses, clean out the stalls, lay new hay, then you make breakfast, take the kids down the driveway to get on the bus (if you're not homeschooling), clean the house and other farm chores, cook lunch, cook dinner, and if you're lucky your hubby will thank you for all of the hard work you've put in and maybe pat you on the butt for a job well done. THEN you get to do it all over again. Oh...and your day usually starts about 5AM and ends 10PM or 11PM. Yep. Real "easy" life. Oh...and there are ZERO "sick days" and ZERO "vacation days" until your kids are old enough to handle the farm while you and your hubby get away for a weekend!
It’s so weird how common it is in these videos for these woman to show a lack of understanding towards how hard it is to run a farm. You’d think considering this is the life they want to pursue, they’d atleast do research
Give them one afternoon of mucking horse stalls and they'll never leave their cushy apartment again
Their farm life knowledge limited to Stardew Valley and movies
Not to mention the randomness of being at the mercy of nature. Other things you have to deal with include a lack of rain, pest control (last summer I learned about cabbage moths in my tiny garden), disease showing up in your crops, animals, and family, lack of amenities depending on how far you are from a city, and depending on where you live, large corporations meddling in the area you live (water rights, lawsuits over seed usage, land usage disputes, etc.). Oh, and depending on where you live, good luck finding a plot of land at a price you can actually afford.
I grew up with parents who wanted the 'farm life', but were too lazy to actually do anything beyond buying some chickens and planting a decent sized garden. Sadly, they failed to realise how hard that would be and as such made me tend it all on top of school so yeah... I can't even imagine how hard full on farm or homestead life would be and i can tell ya. None of these people understand either.
So you're right about the dog/bridal dress thing! It was a photoset one girl posted on TikTok, and most people were supportive until the comment about "nothing is uglier than an immodest bride." What didn't help her was that her dress wasn't particularly well constructed, and there are a lot of designers out there who design modest dresses for brides because a lot of women don't want to show off a ton of skin at their wedding. So her claiming that she had no choice but to design a dress herself was false, and acting like she did something revolutionary when there's already existing markets for it wasn't particularly well received. Also with this act came the implication that she thought all other brides were ugly, since she was the only bride doing a modest dress, according to her. So there were reaction videos of people calling her out, showing off designers who made more modest dresses, and making it into a meme. The general consensus was that no one would have said anything about her dress if she'd just shown off the pictures and not tried to act like she was above everyone else and "not like other girls"
alot of these 'trad wives' just sound like theyre in abusive relationships and just dont know it because of how they were raised
8:32 don't know what kind of farm she wants to live on, but on this earth there's no way she'll be able to wear fancy dresses, bake, raise the kids and take care of thousands of chickens and cows by herself.
Yup. She'll totter around in old boots and work clothes, hoping the children are old enough to bake for themselves because she just doesn't have the time or energy to care for them on top of the animals.
She lives in a Harvest Moon game, apparently.
@@AngryReptileKeeper HM characters wear overalls.
Ima burnin the Lgbt flag in my profile.
What's weird to me about these debates is how all the traits are so strongly categorized. Like what if there's a tradwife with bright hair dye? A hardcore feminist who wears sun dresses and likes to cook? People are individuals.
You need uniform to fight in a war
25:54 Gaia (pronounced Guy-ey-ah) is a pagan god for mother earth, so naming your child that is like naming them God-
10:21 "I don't like sand. It's coarse and rough and irritating and it gets everywhere."
Telling your husband where youre going is smart, but asking permission sounds very annoying like "honey can i go to the store to get us groceries?" Like... No shit yea? Why are you asking? Unless you two have plans that day and you want to change it you dont really need to ask permission and ot goes both ways its called respect and trust, if you cant trust your partner to even go somewhere why are you with them
She might not be able to drive (disability of some kind as with me and my dad and I'm well over 18, wish I'd grown out if them as expected by other adults lol) and he can, and there's no buses and actual taxis are expensive to go half an hour away from home. So you kind of need to know he's able to be the taxi so permission is needed.
@@Roadent1241 asking for someone to take you somewhere isn't the same as asking permission to go somewhere,
The closest i can think for asking for permission is asking if there's a reason not to atm, like "do you need help with something before i go?"
@@tomlxyz I could agree to that but I still don't think that's really asking permission, that's more like "I'm about to head out do you need anything before I go?"
@@tomlxyzyeah like me and my husband both usually ask "Do you/ have some plans?" or "Do you need a car this weekend or can I take it" but I don't understand asking partners opinions on my own plans that don't include them and vice versa. When my husband goes to meet his friends to another city and sleeps there, I normally have no clue what plans they have, I don't even know what I would with that info. Of course for safety reasons it's different, but that is different thing.
I'm not like other girls...
I'm a trans guy.
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Nonsense. You made that up. I can clearly see from your profile picture that you are the Loch Ness Monster!
Ima burnin the Lgbt flag in my profile......
5:18 In America, we have a term for this type of mentality. It’s called, “Stepford housewife.” This woman sounds like she’s living in the 1950’s!😂
42:36 NOOOO! THIS ISNT THE ONLY PART OF THIS ART 😭 theres a part where they look at eachother sadly and then they kiss 😭 so sad the post didnt depict it but what did I expect from this thread lmao
AND WE MISSED IT??? ON THE CLICK?
@@lexistcipher9017I KNOWWWWWW 😢
You only get pretty dresses, feeding chicks on the homestead for a few weeks in the year. Its mostly shovelling dirt or shit in Wellies and an old jumper in the rain, or dying in the heat.
A lot of people are gonna be very disappointed
Well, hey, they can still brag about not wearing sun screen, right?
Rude awakening.
Farm Wifery is hard!
@@PB_324 for real. I only have quail and a large garden and its a lot😅
I had to have a hysterectomy at 30 and my reproductive organs were already useless by then. That didn’t make me a bad Christian or a bad wife. And my parents raised me to take care of myself because husbands die, or leave, or lose their health and/or jobs. Also, I was taught that children belong in homes with parents who can actually care for them.
Life tips
-Wear something comfortable and reasonable for the situation
-Have the marriage or family relationship you prefer
-Have good friends you can trust
-Do activitys that you enjoy and are comfortable
-Get off tik tok we don't care about your life