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Pick me Girls™ just need to go find a Nice Guy™ and get stuck in an endless loop of arguing and confusion
That's the formula for a Karen storm.
"nice guys" and the "i am not like others girls" girls should date each other negative+negative=positive after all
And do it somewhere FAR AWAY!
No no we need them to die out. can’t let them reproduce, especially with each other. Imagine the combination of a pick me girl and a nice guy…
Yes. This. They deserve each other!
Can we PLEASE call Andrew Tate Pick Me Girls "Tater Thots"
Yes 😂😂😂
That’s what I said too! Lol 😂
Tater thots!!!!
vouch
omg that's hilariousss
As a plus size girl, I get mistreated by people at random and have been told by a guy that I'll never get married because Im plus sized. *Jokes on him, Im married to another woman.* 🎉
I want to be you so bad. But I'm scared. Wishing you the best♥️
Yikes it’s just 🤢 was it that kinda wedding where you had to be lifted in by a crane
@@ogkendrick6392damn you're bitter
@@ogkendrick6392 so petty and for what 💀💀
@@ogkendrick6392found the dweeb they were talking about
I, an ACTUAL GIRL GAMER, had a coworker say she loved playing games too, and when I asked what games she played she said “Candy Crush”… And I said thats awesome! I was just enchanted with the fact she found it fun and was trying to relate to me. I appreciated her, and she never judged me for my 30 minute diatribe about Mass Effect.
Same but with Plants vs Zombies. I appreciate that they tried to relate and let me talk about Elden Ring.
As a gamer as well I would be lying if I said i hadn't done 400 levels of bubble witch 3 lol mobile games are so addictive
I’ve become a big ttrpg nerd in my 30s. I work with middle and high schoolers and I have students of all genders who love coming and telling me about their games and dnd sessions. I love it! As a pen and paper gamer girl, I salute you
Ugh, how disgusting. Not judging people because they don't do the same things that you do and being nice and friendly with them instead if being harsh and judgemental. How dare you call yourself a gamer and refuse to suck the fun and enjoyment of others from their lives. You can't call yourself a true gamer™ until you stomp upon the joys and enthusiasm of another!
(Kidding aside, that's really sweet)
Absolutely ADORED Mass Effect.
I do agree with the "don't bother with girls who put you in the friendzone". If you can't imagine having a girl as a friend, then please do go away.
100%!
Say it louder for those in the back!! 👏
Yep.
So true! A few of these posts aren't very wrong, they're just put in a weird context or worded in a way that makes them sound like a pick-me.
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How to know you're a gamer girl
1. Be a girl*
2. Enjoy playing games
Not the shit some of these people think
* If necessary, trans-ing of your gender may be required
that footnote absolutely sent me.
I’m sending this to my sister because of the footnote
I can confirm that the footnote is accurate
As a male specimen who has put 1,6k hours into a glorified competitive dress up game, I agree
All footnotes may or may not be related to personal experience
I believe the point tampon vs pad girl was making is that girls who say they prefer pads are lying, which is why they are untrustworthy. As someone who only uses pads because every other option is uncomfortable, I assure you we are not lying because why would we lie about that?
yeah... its not my fault i cant use a tampon. i promise im not lying? like what do you want from me.
Sharon, I'm uncomfortable. Sharon, I have trauma, let me buy my fucking pads.
I mean i use pads because tampons are scary imo but everyone says that tampons are also comfy and not scary at all? You just have to use it correctly.
Depends on your vagina. Tampons were always uncomfortable for me and I got yeast infections every time I used them. Pads got so much better once I switched to pure cotton pads. I get allergic reactions to latex found in some pads. Can't use latex anything! Makes it hard to have sex unplanned because I have to make sure the condoms are latex free. I avoid hookups for that reason as well as the other major reasons to abstain.
I use adult diapers tbh. I havent had a leak since. I also use flex discs from time to time.
I always thought I wasn’t like other girls. Turned out I had autism
Same here. But I'm still not like most women
@@louiseadanahow so?
@@HyperLYF3 apparently I'm weird? Idk, I think some people perceive me as a bit masculine, it might be the autism. I've rarely felt that I fit into how women are supposed to be or how we're portrayed and it seems to irritate some people, mostly other women who sometimes seems to think that I'm trying to impress men, I guess? Idk, it seems like they have a pretty narrow view on how women are supposed to be, and that's honestly just sad
oh okay. could it be that you just don't fit in with the *stereotypical* women?
Because quite a large amount of women have what's considered Male interest's.@@louiseadana
Definitely, that was sort of my point; how a woman is "supposed" to be is such a narrow idea that a lot of people seem to think that everyone who doesn't fit their mold is a typical NLOG.
My life choices, personality or interests are just as valid as anyone else's and as long as someone isn't hurting others they should be able to do whatever they want with their own lives. If someone wants to go for a weekend shopping trip, just go; as long as I don't have to participate I have no reason to care.
Writting womens rights and Andrew Tate in the same sentence is the definition of being high as a kite.
Anything who puts andrew tate and women's rights in the same sentence snorted Redstone dust.
Andrew Tate hates woman's rights
I'm not sure if it's the abundance lead or something more worrying in the drinking water because no one in their right mind would say that
Tator tots come after you just for saying something that's common sense, they worship the guy
insulting people who get high smh smh
I follow the grandma who mocked her highschool bullies for passing away!! She's absolutely delightful. She tells us about her dates, shows us her outfits, and constantly cracks dark jokes about being old. She's an absolute gem.
What's her @?
@@rben3620 grandma_droniak
*Could it be? **_A new...RIVAL?!_*
Shes the slay every day lady right?
@@papus615 yes!!
Idea: build a community of Andrew Tate follower types and slowly brainwash them into being decent human beings
Even better idea: Build a community of Andrew Tate follower types, host a massive meet and greet, and then hire several undercover agents to go around telling various people that someone else said that Andrew Tate’s muscles are actually Not That Big. Watch chaos ensure as they roar like Apes and tear each other apart
Another idea: Grab a mannequin that doesn't have its head attached to it. Buy a slightly oversized mr potato head and put some fake sunglasses on it and paint it with the color of a raw potato and shove a cigarette in its mouth. Grab an extra device, preferably a phone, download a voice-based AI chatbot that responds to people speaking to it and answers back with some rather horrid advice and the most confusingly obscure bullcrap, preferably in the tone of how Andrew Tate speaks. Gather a ton of no life socially rejected hardcore Andrew Tate stans and tell them that they have been selected to personally meet Andrew Tate in person because they have done well on their progress to escape the big bad matrix and become super alpha-full-release omega-giganomogaogiga chads.
When they come, make them all go into an undersized white room themed after the stereotypical mental asylum rooms you see in mental hospitals. Set the mannequin in an old rusty chair and then make them all go in, and LOCK!
Let the AI chaos begin. Watch as they go "wait a minute this isnt my lovely idol im meeting, where the hell am i?!" and start realizing they've been ultimately trolled as the AI laced mannequin starts throwing the most vile and confusingly obscure stuff possible at them in the classic Andrew Tate tone, making those unlucky stans go absolutely mentally insane.
Also, be sure to keep them in there for a while. Keep them in there until they start going absolutely mentally insane and start lashing out in violence at each-other as the mannequin gets more and more vile with what it's saying.
Only then do you release them back out once someone gets knocked out cold from the ensuing violent rage that has engulfed that blinding white room of eternal suffrage.
Here's the catch.. you're taking them out onto an airplane which will fly all the way from that location to.. North Korea! You quickly eject them all out into the middle of Pyonyang with only a parachute and their confused fit of insanity and rage remaining as you quickly speed away out of North Korean airspace without getting shot down.
You then fly back and pat yourself on the back, you've done quite a lot.
Oh yeah.. don't forget those people are probably dead now as they have probably attempted to use their knowledge of Andrew Tate's BS to try to coerce the North Korean guards into letting them out which only results in them getting thrown into a hard labor camp and probably dying.
You've.. done a bit too much trollage now, nice job.
😎👍
@@dylanisntvibing Now come on... no one's gonna believe that's Andrew Tate: Mr. Potato Head has a MUCH stronger jawline than Andrew Tate.
I mean Andrew Tate stans are pretty stupid anyways so it might pass 💀
Can't be done. They lack the capacity.
I think the "pick me" girl is really a reaction to our society's hatred towards teenage girls, or really girls in general. Teenage girls are characterized as emotional, frivolous, and vapid. The things they like are deemed inherently less worthy, artistic, serious, or meritus (see pop music, boy bands, makeup, hanging out at the mall, pumpkin spice lattes). On some level it's not these pick me's fault that they feel the need to set themselves apart from the image that has been fed to them of the typical teenage girl because that image is treated with such disdain. I'm glad this term didn't exist when I was in high school because I definitely was a little like this. I probably would have been worse if the internet in it's current form existed.
Completely agree, they're always so proud of enjoying traditionally "boy" hobbies (games, superheroes, cars, etc).
It’s not very often you’ll see an insightful comment on CZcams. Well said.
yeah, teenage girls are seen as stupid annoyances. pick me girls are so desperate to be seen as people, and I'm sad that that's... even a thing they feel like they need to work for.
I don’t necessarily think that’s the case. Wouldn’t most girls be like that then? I think it’s just the individual feeling a need to stand out. Insecurities can make people do weird shit 🤷🏼♀️
I could never imagine behaving like a pick-me girl
@@astridmaack4516you just did x
This girl walked up to me once and started with the line "im not like other girls" and I cut her off with "Im not like other guys. I like dudes." THE LOOK ON HER FACE WAS PRICELESS
😂😂😂
Do you really like dudes though?
@@sophieirsa1306 You realize how rude of a question that is, right?
@@cameronbertrand9720 for some people it is, for some people it's not. If the comment writer finds it rude, he just won't answer, that's it
Oh I'd love to see that
I was a "Not like other girls" girl
Then I realized it was internalized misogyny and worked to figure out why I disliked the feminine things I did and came to realize I like a lot of them and I like being feminine
Fr it started with those vampire teenager stuff god awful era everyone became a vampire at my school 😂😂 my friend literally thought she was a reincarnation of some witch or sth sadly they ruined barbie because of this 😢 and now its the Wednesday series gosh darn
I was a "Not like other girls" girl, to the point where I thought I might actually be a robot or something. Turns out I'm an autistic trans man!
@@liam6396 turns out you were not like other girls because you are not a girl!
@@liam6396 This is my favorite character arc
Same. I tried to be so "unique" I said my favourite colour is brown
Turns out I actually really love brown but also pink and purple
Click's reaction to the "Country Girl & Corn" picture had me CACKLING like a complete & total idiot: "COOORN!"🤣😂 That was fucking awesome.
I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS!! THE COOOORN INTO A SCREAM HAD ME CACKLING
I went through a "not like other girls" phase when I was a kid. I had no friends due to my poor social skills, so it only made sense to compensate by attaching some meaning to it. then I met a lot of girls in online fandom communities and a few years later my social skills finally developed to a satisfying level, so that nowadays I can proudly say that I am exactly like other girls
Shouldnt we say we are like other PEOPLE???
What does that even mean, you're like other girls?
We. Are. Different.
I hate that most people cant see that other most people ARE different.
I always associated deeply with being a tomboy (just being ME really) and never stopped.
I'm 37.
Why is it so hard for so many to get their heads out of their behinds: and finally accept that stereotypes are called stereotypes for a F reason!?
The best person I know have so-called "feminine" AND "masculine" traits in them!
Now transitioning is erasing this: putting people back into molds again.
(And we were barely out of them already, we're regressing instead of evolving....)
-badass Jill
I had something similar. I didn't have the same interests (princesses, pink, etc...). I remember getting so angry when I was playing Legend of Zelda (playground RPG?) and I couldn't be Link. Lol.
When I got older, I met women who do play games, like books, etc... and when you find someone who shares as much enthusiasm as you do over a thing, it's awesome.
Gender is irrelevant.
Click is the prettiest and the quirkiest girl ever
He's not like other girls.
Ikr he's ✨️gorgeous✨️
Absolutely he’s ✨perfect✨
No homo 🤑
Slay Cliqueen 💅 👑
Aight, I'mma say it
Other girls:
- Have a variety of appearances (all beautiful)
- Have a variety of viewpoints and preferences
- Are all unique individuals
I:
- am not a girl
Other girls:
-beautiful
-valid
-unique
-worthy as human beings
Me:
-turns out not a girl but still all of those things!
Me - Not a girls + dont care about them anymore + all of them have inflated ego+ hate those assholes
Other girls:
Amazing
Have style
Are all different
Me
Male
Me: I’m lesbian, I like other women XD
Other girls:
- Usually pretty chill
- People
- gorgeous
Me:
- a guy
- actually the boogy man
- still gorgeous
Oh my god the scream when reading "Corn" made me lose it
16:27
Lose*
@@Saranda4787 thank you, I never thought I'd be on the receiving end of a grammar check but here we are
coooOOoOOOOORN
Same I've been replaying that scream, poor click 💀
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21:21 what really gets me is she is wearing makeup.... she has eye liner on, it's less noticeable makeup but she still has makeup on 😂
This thread in a shellnut: "I'm not like _other girls,_ I'm *extremely* insecure and have an uncontrollable need to put down others to feel validated myself!"
With an extremely tiny minority of wholesome posts calling out the BS in the others.
Honestly tho-
Pick me: _I'm better than other girls_ because I don't leave the man that treats me terrible and I say whatever he wants to hear.
Ppl who say "sims isn't a real game" can't crate half as complex lives for their sims or storielines that are emotionally invested. Keep making insane life stories yall
Quite right, the Sims _is_ a real game. The ultimate sandbox, you can do whatever you want, from building a sprawling shanty-town hillbilly farm, to trapping as many ghosts on your property as possible, to playing out an epic inter-family feud over multiple generations! Muhahahahaha!
@@dmgroberts5471 Not really, there's plenty of things you can't do. For example, you can't make a cult of people who eat children. Still better than sport games, tho.
@@_extrathicc That's where the mods come in :)
Or their GrayStillPlays
@@_extrathicc Yeah, I suspected "Ultimate Sandbox" would get some push-back. You can create lots of other cults, though! Mostly if you have Supernatural, or the non-Sims-3 equivalent.
You can create a loving couple, have one of them cheat, then force all three and the children of both relationships to live together in an underground bunker...not that I have, or anything...(shifty-eyes)
I theorise that a lot of "Not like other girls" phases comes one (or more) of 4 things:
1.) How feminine stuff can often be looked down upon and not taken all that seriously, so in order to try and be taken seriously, girls gravitate towards masculine things.
2.) They are struggling with their own identity and insecure about it, and the only way they can reconcile that fact is to try and find some way to be superior, ie, put other women down.
3.) They're desperate to get laid and think this is what men want (chronically online women taking advice from chronically online men, I think)
4.) They're actually a trans guy.
Or on the autism spectrum… I would know
I think those sum it up lol
so yeah either those or neurodivergent or a mix of a few
100% trans stems from misogyny. Its just another channel of "this is what I think a woman should be"
Cicikus-px2by wish that was true but unfortunately I've seen many lesbians who are pick-mes but in a different font and still just as awful (you aren't in the wrong for feeling upset over being told to stop being masc tho lmao i mean men not liking you is a) the point b) being masc wouldn't stop?? guys?? from liking a girl??? I know so many dudes who think tomboys are the shit?? So they're both wrong and rude to say that to you)
@@autodisaster6374 wow this feminine and masculine stuffs make me mad see why cant we see as a people than being gendered things i am a woman but i dont like barbie or skirts or anything that doesn't mean i am masculine lol
At 6:37 when that girl was talking about how all of those games weren’t “real games” and then said to “stop playing those baby GAMES” I literally burst out laughing in confusion😂
Seeing this video right after seeing multiple people, mostly women, mocking a K-pop idol for how she eats a strawberry of all things is certainly fitting
That's why I stay far away from k-pop, or rather the fan base.
Almost more toxicity in all directions than in incel/nice guy terretory (of which I try to stay clear too).
I just don't have the nerve for all that bs.
People hate on Wonyoung for everything. It's terrible and it really sucks that the loud ones have to ruin kpop for everyone.
@@tsunderemonarch4703 It's so sad
@@TarisLuna I stay away from the majority of fanbases, because so many people always have something they argue about in popular fandoms. There's a whole debate in every fandom about what characters you're allowed to like and which ones you aren't, and as someone who likes any person from a story as long as they're funny, I'm too tired to talk about how my favorite characters are 100% going to hell
@@TarisLuna Just don't do fanbase at all. None of them are worth it
I spent years feeling called out by "Not like other girls" memes, but really felt I was different. Then I came out as a trans guy. I *wasn't* like the other girls! Validation.
When you’re so not like other girls, that you actually turn out to be a guy
Oof. I just feel called out cause turns out my friends are shit, but the gender shayte might also be something that’s affecting me... :P Damn, making me think, how dare you.
“I’m not like those other girls. I’m not even a girl to begin with.”
Oh, you like bad girls? Well, I'm so bad at being a girl because I'm a boy.
Well that proves you're not like other girls because you never was one.
i actually knew a girl in one of my lessons at school who didn’t believe that women deserved rights. i honestly have no words.
So she wants her rights taken. Good luck for her. She'll regret being a slave.
20:17 as someone who did competitive archery, this is honestly just true. not in the “lol i’m better” just “bro it’s expensive” way
i’m also a musician and… oh boy don’t even get me started
doesn’t make anyone better or worse just means those things are expensive
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"I'm not like the other girls." I mean, that wouldn't be an objectionable thing to say if it wasn't supposed to be demeaning towards "other girls."
Be different. Be yourself. Enjoy things that aren't "feminine." That's all fine as long as you don't talk down to other girls and treat them like they're lesser than you.
I mean the whole sentence makes no sense. Because who are these other girls? Women make like half of the world's population. That is a TON of people. There is not one type of girl, but instead millions of types. No one is truly unique. And plenty of us have multiple interests. Some of them more masculine and some more feminine. "Not like other girls" is on it's own stupid because it groups women into one big group where we are all the same. It's just not even possible. We are complex beings, ya know
@@Garsnoos To be fair, it's a common feeling among autistic girls and women just because there's a whole complex mess of social interactions and unspoken shit that develops - especially during the teens - among girls. It's often super hard for autistic girls to figure it all out, and they end up feeling like... some kind of alien dropped off on the planet and trying to figure out why they don't fit in. Sometimes, being around guys can be easier, because they can sometimes be a bit more straightforward. The difference is, it's not about diminishing "the other girls" it's about trying to figure out why it seems impossible to fit in, why you're always the butt of jokes, always the one on the outside, and so on.
@@JustAnotherBuckyLoverOh man, I remember being undiagnosed back when labeling people as “Not like other girls” was all the rage and I always told myself “Your not actually weird! You’re just over-emphasizing your minute differences for attention! Come on, be better then the cringe people on the internet!” 😵💫 Thank god that time in my life is over.
@@Garsnoos well every person is different from the other, no humans is the same as another human... i feel like the one who invented that whole concept of "pick me girl" is someone that just wanted to stirr drama among females and take away each female uniqness...since imo, everyone is unique in their own way. we need to turn that "im not like others" into a positive thing since its the truth that one is not like the other & theres no need to look down on another (unless they did something very bad or evil)
@@JustAnotherBuckyLover
I was diagnosed very early in life so that could be why I personally didn’t go through the “not like other girls”.
I did spend allot on learning about different subcultures to find a community to enjoy. So many different people in this world.
"Aren't you worried he's talking to other girls?" I hope so, that's called having friends and family 🤯
Always related to the “not like other girls” memes when I was younger. Turns out I just felt like I stood out because I’m autistic. 💀💀💀
I kinda do to, but it never motivated me to put the other girls down or side with the boys instead . . .mybe because I am also aroace so there was no motivation to be liked by them . . . .
I plain did not participate in anything that was not my taste and did my own thing instead . . .
I spat my drink out laughing at the traumatised yelling of "coooOOOORNN" at 16:29 so thanks for that 😂
The genuine scream sold it 💀
@@Asphodelic_Ellipse what was censored in teh city girls part? Been trying to find that image on reddit and image search
@@Ainoko65 I think it says "Vibrators"
@@Ainoko65 I immediately assumed dildo lmao
Same. I was like…well, that was quite the reaction.
"Pokémon is not a real game" on behalf of gamers everywhere, "thems fighting words!"
They had me up in arms when they bashed stardew valley
That rant reeks of child whose not even gone through puberty yet, let alone had to buy such gear with their own money.
21:20 "because I'm not hideous like you" proceed to put a picture of girl with makeup but just a more "natural" type of makeup...
I've had to explain to my husband why I have no positives about his incel friends. He still doesn't understand why many are dangerous to women.
I went through that phase as a teenaged girl and I think it comes from the very human feelings of not fitting in and it manifests as hatred of "other girls" that appear to better fit easier. The problem is not the gender expression but the gender expectancy.
I thought it was because I was autstic
expectations u mean
Yess man I lowkey feel like most girls go through this because internally we're dying for something to set us apart and make us special and unique when most of the time even at a young age we're just objectified and our worth is determined based off of things not under our direct control.
Definitely pick me
Ya think everyone goes threw that phase sweety. Until you come to the realization of "why am I comparing myself to other girls?" Or to anyone just do you as long as you're not a hateful bitch you're beautiful. To any girls out there please stop comparing yourself to other girl just be yourself, and break shit.
Ugh the black coffee one grates my soul. I hate the idea that liking flavors is somehow "lesser" or "feminine." Especially when I have a guy friend want me to order their drink so they don't have to be embarrassed over (checks notes) enjoying their beverege. Did J.D on Scrubs not give you the strength you need? Enjoy an appletini! Eat a cookie!
Plus lets be real, one shot of your "masculine" drink had less alcohol than my fruity sweet drink that tasted amazing.
@@foxinabox5103 True. Those drinks are pretty because of all the alcohol in it, and tasty to hide it.
Since when did cookies become feminine...
Worst thing is people who try to claim superiority for enjoying tasteless stuff.
The one about coffee sent me, because the nlog is just feeling superior about drinking coffee that had its taste watered down with sugar
The Starbucks thing is also truly stupid...so you pay like 2-3$ at Starbucks for something that would cost you cents at home and feel SUPERIOR?
I’ve made this joke before but I feel obligated to do it again.
I spent a lot of years of my life in the Not-Like-Other-Girls phase. Turns out I was right! I’m *not* like other girls.
I was a dude all along!
The best "not like other girls"
Hello brother
Same
Just like 3/4 of other comments on here....
Nothing original.
@@FocusedFighter777 Okay? I didn't say it was intended to be original, so I don't know why you even bothered to leave a snarky passive aggressive comment other than to try to get me upset or something.
No one cares. I'm allowed to make a commonly made joke if I want.
@@FocusedFighter777 who hurt you
8:36 is "I'm not raising an iPad kid. I AM the iPad kid,"
I have the suspicion that a lot of them conventionally hot pickme-s / Tate 'fans' are just fishing for new onlyfans clients. Where else, than among misogynists, would you find this many men with a transactional mindset (spending money on woman = relationship) and 'alpha' mentality (woman = object needed for 'status'), and too low self-esteem to look for rl relationships. And what easier bait is there for these types, than being conventionally hot _and_ a pickme. Like shootin fish in a barrel.
ooh, interesting angle! I hadn't thought about it like that. That would actually be a genius move for an onlyfans account.
That’s actually a really good point.
So it’s a “a genius or an idiot” situation
smarty party! I love it!
'Real girls like Andrew Tate' i.e. real girls like to be treated as property by a dude that thinks he's the manliest guy on Earth because he consumes 'manosphere' content. Seems legit
That woman is either lying, or has some manner of masochistic fantasy. Either way, she may get off on the idea of being abused, but fantasy and reality aren't the same thing. No women are near Andrew Tate 'cause they want to be.
"You have a looser mindset if you don´t like him."
Gorge, Andy´s idea of succes is buying overpriced crap you don´t actually like to flex on people you you care about at all ant put so much fallic shaped objects in your mouth while yelling how straight you are. That´s level of pathetic that shouldn´t be even possible.
Also he looks like the egg from dreamworks puss in the boots
@@alzbetal1499 I can never unsee it now
@@alzbetal1499 What did Humpty Dumpty do to you?
12:17 *cant even wear pads these days* 💀
LİKE LET ME WEAR WHAT İ WANT WTF 😭💀🤧
6:49 - me thinking this was gonna be a pure one where they bond over shared interest because how u look doesn’t define everything about you but OH WELL
I've struggled a lot with the "Pick Me" phase, because my birth-giver is an absolute monster. So any way I could not be or end up like her was good. I also grew up with 2 younger brothers and 3 younger male cousins, so there wasn't much space for "being a girl", especially with my dad teaching us that "boys are better".
Because of both of these, I became sexist towards my own gender, which mostly hurt myself. I would feel "dirty" when getting my period etc. It's poopie and really destructive. Would not recommend to anyone. Luckily I've gotten better and I really LOVE being cute. Sometimes it still makes me feel strange, but I hope one day it will improve some more.
I'm so sorry that happened to you and I'm glad you're on the way of getting better. Everyone should be able to wear and like what they want.
Yes girlie, let’s be our cute feminine selves we were forced to abandon as kids!🩷✨🩷
I totally relate. My mother was/is very "pick me". When I got older I said "screw it i like girly stuff" and now I buy lots of pink stuff. I don't wear makeup a lot despite liking it (because I have ADHD and can't wake up early for the life of me), but I definitely don't think there's anything wrong with looking nice.
Basically a weird level of sexism for looking down on feminine things, but also judging people who aren't feminine enough. There's no winning, just like what you like.
Glad to see someone else who has struggled with sexism that's so baked in to our every day lives.
I'm glad you were able to recognize it and are now doing what you like!
Good for you! But i still feel dirty on my period.
I had a "not like other girls" phase as a kid... turns out, it was because I was trans and didn't have the language to express it. The more ya know lol
Yes I literally went through the same phase during puberty. Now I'm a transmasc non-binary person. Suddenly being not like the other girls makes way too much sense💀💀💀
Lmao same😂
oh good it’s not just me
same
Oh yeah I had this experience haha.
"My daughter has vaguely masculine traits and wears backward hats shes so quirky" "i like to go hiking im so quirky" my god have these women never heard of a lesbian? Like girl thats just how some of us are . And its kinda annoying that a lot of these women would be people i would really wanna be friends with if they werent so full of internalised misogyny
I like how half of them think their difference is being "feminine" and "virginal" and half of them think they stand out for being the exact stereotypical opposite. Funny world
I feel like the ‘Pick Me’ tag is timeless but it was at some fever pitch back in the early 2010s.
It’s a result of the media showing ultra feminine girls and women as boring, stupid, and mean. You see it a lot in Disney Channel shows. This caused a lot of girls to get a superiority complex over the “popular” ones because they saw themselves as different.
Source: was a pick me girl
I was nOt LiKe tHe oThEr GiRls back then, turns out I'm not a girl at all 😂
@@jackriver8385 I mean, it applies to queer people also.
I think it’s one thing to have a “not like other girls” phase in middle/high school because people’s identities are still very much in flux then, and emotional maturity is of course lower. When it’s full grown adults doing it though? That shits weird as hell.
you can tell who never grew out of that phase, it's actually sad lmao
@@fbidumbbee I know a looooooooooot of people who never outgrew that phase... male OR female, honestly. They're still very much emotionally teenagers... at best.
I went through a “not like other girls” phrase involuntarily because the “other girls” relentlessly bullied me in school, and now I just… cherish the female friends I do have now.
the text on 28:14 is from wattpad. i know that font. -it haunts my nightmares-
There are two types of "not like other girls" girls I've met:
"I'm not like other girls, I love Anime with my entire being and I can't possibly live without it"
"I'm not like other girls, Anime sucks."
I've also met a boy version:
"I'm not like other boys, I like cats over dogs."
I had a pretty big "not like other girls" tomboy phase in late elementary and middle school and most of highschool. I swore I hated dresses and pink and all feminine things. Turns out, I do enjoy some traditionally feminine things, I simply disliked being forced to do them. I was just an angry little kid who hated all the rules that go into being a "girl". Now, no one is making me do them so I can explore soft textures and flowy fabrics and makeup because I and I alone decided I wanted to.
Buuuuut I'm also She they and zoom between hyper femme and androgynously masc soo make of that what you will.
I used to say I hated pink and loved blue. I was lying to myself so hard lmao. My family doesn’t know I actually love pink now 🤦🏾♀️
Oh I had a Tomboy phase, wasn't very good at it but tried. Found put I was trans and decided to be myself.
Wr all go thew Tomboy phases.
Yep. With the added bonus that I absolutely did NOT want anyone to be sexually/romantically attracted to me. Well, and dresses are uncomfortable as heck.
@@wordforger omg same, i thought i was the only one.
same me too, i feel so ashamed but rly all i needed was to find an identity
I admit that I had a very large “not like other girls” stretch of my life but now that I know I’m not a girl it makes a lot more sense.
When you go from "I'm not like other girls" to "I'm not --like other-- girls"
same honestly
Yo same
Fellow trans man?
Same
I internally die laughing whenever I see someone brag "Other people spend $9 at Starbucks for a big fancy fully customized beverage. I spend $8.50 at Starbucks for the same black coffee I could've gotten at any 7/11 or in any workplace break room."
3:50 this was 100% not written by a woman lmao
6:15 "the sims is not a real game." okay you try no cheats three kids, and trying to move to a bigger house so they can live a full happy childhood, while under a mediocre detective, and artist's salary, and the bills are more than your monthly income. the sims is why I fear being a responsible adult.
YOOO SAME 😂
21:16 it’s even funnier because the woman in this picture is in fact, wearing makeup.
you know a not like other girls post is good when you genuinely can't tell if it's written by a woman or an incel
Click, the horrified “cooorrRRRRRN!” 😂😂😂 I literally dropped my work and laughed so hard I choked
It was very justified
I always said I'm not like other girls... Well I was correct, but not in the way I tought 🏳️⚧️😅
All the cool girls love Mango AND the emotional support demon ❤
I think that real women don't need to put other women down and force their interest onto them.
My PickMe Girl phase as so weird. I veered so hard into being Not Like Other Girls that I saw it as an insult. A guy would say, "You're not like other girls 😏," and I'd be like "WRONG, BUCKO, I am exACTly like other girls!" Except I was a violent tomboy who started wearing heeled boots in third grade when I realized they do more damage than sneakers. I tried sticking with befriending girls only cuz I'd eventually get into fights with the boys, but I was definitely some weird mutation of a PickMe Girl I feel 🤔
Picturing that conversation in my head cracked me up! "WRONG, BUCKO!"
Sounds like Bayonetta Jnr
This is not a request, but a command:
Slay, queen.
So, I'm literally a "normal girl" because I buy cheap stuff, like to wear dresses and skirts, and hate "alpha males"? Okay. Fine with me. Stay qUiRkY, Mckenzie.
So being a girl = being cost efficient and valuing your safety?
And that's supposed to be bad?
Same except it’s dresses and jeans for me.
Same, but I prefer pants. I just prefer them, dresses are good too.
@@SarahAbramova for me I like skirts but I'm forced wear pants lol I don't mind pants at all 😂
16:25 that scream is full of fear
24:27 the fact that that's not even emo, it's scene-
as a great woman once said, “im not like the other girls, i have SNAKE ARMS!”
“I’m married at 21 and have two kids!”
I am so, so sorry. 😢
And that girl that didn't see other women as full people needs to stop going to clubs looking for friends. Cuz that's all she's going to find there
I Felt like that post might have been written by a guy pretending to be a women. "Guys are awesome with personalities and brains! Women are boring gossips who make me carry their stuff"
@@jaimicottrill2831 I had the same thought! The part saying the women were wearing heels to hike? Or something, and switching shoes with them seems to stick out. No matter what gender, no one is willingly going hiking or whatever in heels.
@@LycanKai14 That is not what OP said about that girl tho. The girl going to clubs didn't see other women as "full people", not OP
Actually, she needs to stop judging people who have different interests than her. Liking clubs has nothing to do with anything she mentioned and if you think no one who goes to clubs is a full person then you've either never been to a club or you're just as bad as she is in terms of judging people. Probably both.
18:47 this post made me glad that the employees at my local GameStop are women. They don’t question me or make me uncomfortable when I put a game or anime merch on the counter
Whenever I see “not like other girls comparisons” I just imagine the 2 girls being compared as girlfriends. It’s amazing
I think you will like R/GatekeepYuri
@@DayDreamingWriters There’s a subreddit!?
26:24 girl out here announcing to the world she is a sociopath and doesn't understand empathy.
I remember my “qUiRkY nOt LiKe OtHeR gOrLs” phase, with the whole “pop is gross and so is dressing feminine and following celebrities” thing.
Turns out I was trans and just hardcore rejecting everything I associated with “femininity”
Ya that we tend to do shit like that especially if we have parents not very accepting of it. But glad you discovered yourself welcome to the family Lil sibling
"I'm not like other girls, I am a man"
my “i hate pink” era
@@elixir_tea
YoU wiLL nEvAr bE a ReAl WoMaN
@@elixir_tea i know, isnt it amazing how normalized it has become? i cant believe it either. I never thought id see the day where trangender people were just normal people. But that day is upon us.
I dont know why they couldnt accept that they were female and just liked masculine things. If everyone could just feel okay with the gender they were assigned at birth, we wouldnt have so much depression and anxiety and self loathing. Unfortunately life isnt that easy. But luckily transitioning helps a lot☺️ I dont think any of us expect to be accepted. We hope to be accepted. But theres a lot of horrible people in the world who lack empathy and dont seem to care or dont want to understand what someone who is different might be going through. Thanks to the help of my doctors and surgeons tho, youd probably accept me without even realizing it 😈
13:39 I don't know why this reminded me of the Kardashians 😂😂😂
That diary entry was gold. I remember going through a phase like that when I was in 8th grade.
When I was like 10 I thought of myself as a more toned-down version of a ‘Quirky Girl’ (I never actually said it aloud nor was I arrogant about it). Around 1-2 years later, I discovered that being a girl just really wasn’t for me.. I wouldn’t have found it out if it weren’t for people like you and OneTopic, so thanks a bunch!
It happens to the best of us lol
(Also yeah OT is amazing)
Real
What does being a girl have to do with your personality or your interests? Comments like these reek of internalized misogyny
Is this a recent thing? The "not like other girls?" Because I remember growing up
I only wear black cut school smoke ciggys and get into a lot of fights.
And not once I was ever thinking about.
"Hay am I not like other girls?"
Can someone please explain to me why are you comparing yourself to girls you know nothing about? I bet if you sat and talked to other girls you'll find out no they are like you. Every time I see this pop up.
"Not like other girls" gives list of how they are different and is exactly the same as the other girls...
"I wear black"
Great me too
"I like to read"
Me to.
Get the point?
I'm also an artist and carry a very big knife.
Just be yourself and stop comparing yourself to other's.
Wanna be "not like other girls?" Fine be president, be a CEO by creating your own Social Midea app.
24:28 that’s not emo either- that’s scene 💀
13:53
as an actual alien [yes real ppl call me that not made up ones] i'm offended that she thinks my kind wants to be associated...
I used to worry I was a bit of a pick-me girl (because I would think about how different I was from other girls and how I was masculine in some of my presentation) until I realized I wasn’t even a girl lol. And of course I wasn’t doing it for other people, which seems to be a theme with pick-me girls.
8:50 she doesn't need to raise any ipad kids. Because SHE'S the ipad kid in this family
The sad thing is that I feel like so many of us go through a pick me phase at some point. I seriously cringe at my younger self sometimes, but I hopefully wasn’t too awful about it. Hopefully. Helped that my pick me stage was before social media so I don’t have to see cringy old posts lol.
I heard someone say once, that the reason why a lot of girls go through the pick me phase, is because society tells us that girls are bland, stupid and basically not people. So we see ourselves as “different” but as we age and get to know other girls/women we are able to see them as whole people with interests and brains
Crappy childhood? Might be overstepping, but I’ve never met people like that who didn’t come from a broken house/didn’t get help with their school bullies.
@@StephanoTheGolden Less about crappy childhoods, more about crappy societal pressure
@@Bobbi._. Absolutely this. We are taught from an early age, implicitly if not explicitly, that the feminine is inferior, and that women are vapid, shallow creatures. So of course when a girl starts to grow up and realizes she is not like that at all, she naturally concludes that she must be different from other girls. I mean personally I ended up thinking there was something wrong with me as a woman because I could never see myself in all the representations of women in media, but it's easy to see how you might also consider yourself better because you're not like those "other inferior women".
Pick me girls are annoying. You can be different but keep it to yourself, not everyone wants to know that you a tomboy.
When I was young (A literal kid) I used to get called out for being too boyish. But actually that wasn't the case. I wasn't boyish. I was just a born extrovert. Most of my cousins are male so whenever they came by I always joined them to play. The adults would always bad mouth me. Saying, why I can't be like my sister. I couldn't be like her because shes an introvert. That's why she never really joined us when we played. Now hows that my fault if a kid just wants to play with other kids like-
2:05 okay this grandma is actually kinda funny-
As someone who works at a coffee shop, I can confirm people take their coffee orders so personally. I don't know why, it's just a drink, but it happens.
I had a woman order a hot chocolate with 2 shots of espresso and she yelled at me cuz i tried to ring her up for a mocha. "I dont want a MOCHA! i want a HOTCHOCOLATE WITH ESPRESSO!" Its literally the same thing and the mocha is cheaper 🤦♀️ i explained that *very* politely, but she was having none of it. So im like okay, one hot chocolate with espresso coming up. When the barista got the order she turned to me and shes like "so do they just want a mocha?" I saw the woman on the other side of the bar just glare at us. So trying to keep a straight face i said "no, they want a hot chocolate with espresso" 😂
"Here's to the girls who grew up playing in the dirt, who ran outside and wasn't afraid to be one of the boys"
Me, who's FTM: Instructions unclear, I was a man all along.
It's amazing how many of them tie their personality profiles to corporate brand names.
I actually felt a bit disconnected from people in general… not just girls, but well yeah now there’s the suspicion that I have autism or ADHD (there will still be more tests) and am gifted to the point my brain just couldn’t keep up with normal conversations with people my age; and I felt so disconnected from my own thoughts that I was unable to vocalize them. Lol.
Yeah, as an autist, the disconect to both is real . . . .i just did my own thing
Not a girl, but felt the need to voice my opinion on the matter. So I'll say it like this: if girls like to stand out from other girls, as far as fashion choices, music tastes, activities and what have you, that's fine. Just don't be arrogant about it and put other girls down for liking different things that you like.
Exactly 👏
This!
I think that just goes for anyone lol don't force opinions
That's kinda the thing, though. They're not standing out. There isn't some large group of girls that all act the same. As a woman who has known many other women, even the girls who seem to fit the stereotype really don't on a base level, and girls who really don't can't claim to be wholly unique and different from all other girls because all of them are in various groups (rock listeners, sporty, masc-dressing, etc) that include plenty of other girls. This behavior very very rarely stems from simply feeling ostracized, and instead tends to come from unhealthy coping mechanisms like feeling wrong or inferior for being feminine or rejecting forced societal norms of femininity due to pathological demand avoidance or simply being trans. Unfortunately, we still live in a society that tries to make very young girls choose between dresses and being taken seriously.
Exactly
Pick me girls be like:
"How DARE you enjoy something I don't like!"
Pick me girls also be like:
"How DARE you be like me and like the things I like, you're just copying me because you don't know how to be original!"
It's basically dammed if you do, dammed if you don't lmao
27:18 is basically when a gacha creator has more common sense than you do
One point for the gacha community.
@@yurimori34 The gacha community isn't really that bad, it's just the toxic people
Every teenage girl goes through that phase, I did, but at some point you're supposed to get over it and some don't 🙃
So I’m a bit older and thankfully went through my “not like other girls” phase before social media.
For me though I felt more like failure. Like look at how these other girls know how to make friend groups, and look beautiful. I’m over here feeling like potato among roses.
It took me a while to figure out just because something felt uncomfortable to me didn’t mean there was anything wrong with either it, or myself.
Like I will never know how to paint my nails, or do a cut crease, but those things take skill and artistry, it awesome for the people who can and like to do those things. Likewise I’m still just as much a girl even though I’m most comfortable unadorned. There’s nothing lacking in me that I don’t enjoy wearing make up.
I hope some of these people can mature past this.
skill is built with time and practice, no one that knows how to do nails and cut creases got it right since first try. if you are willing, try it a few times while watching along a tutorial
Yeah, I'm older too and I also wasn't like other girls and I was so jealous of them.
The first time a guy showed interest in me I was genuinely shocked and, now that I think about it, that feeling of disbelief stayed with me for years until I built up some confidence in my 20s.
I struggle understanding this trend now
I think a lot of them are actually jealous and are just putting a facade to validate themselves. Same mechanism as people that are bullies (they are often veeery self-concious and riddled with insecurities)
Just like me for real, lol
@@billcipher8645 it is definitely an insecurity thing. I think a lot of the nlog content is produced by insecure teens. I met a girl who complained about her insecurities and then sent me a list of ways she was different from other girls. She even told me verbatim that she knew she was special. The list included things like having a pixie cut…I knew several other girls with pixie cuts. I understand her pain. She has been bullied but ripping others down won’t build her up.
12:22
What? Lying about what? In what way is using a pad as opposed to a tampon dishonest? Having sensory issues is deceptive? Not wanting to risk toxic shock syndrome is untrustworthy?
The statement in the post makes no sense, in what way is, "I prefer pads over tampons" dishonest?
Honestly yeah, in my country tampons aren't even sold, so I really can't understand people who think like this. 😅
That lass is just completely bonkers😅
Is it possible to love Click's low effort drag and also hope hes a better furry than a drag queen? Yes.
Yes it is.
19:45 sounded like the beginning of human trafficking to me. Like who says that? If it were real, I would've veen worried because it sounds so weird to have someone talk like that to you and "surprisingly" put their number in the box
It's where gatekeeping and psychosis meet. 😂😢
Oml you're right
This was so well put LMFAO
A gatekeeping/psychosis van diagram? 😮
Need that as a visual asap.
And "Taters"😂😂
Stardew Valley actually does take skill, I say this as someone who played mass effect, the fallout games, Alien isolation, chainsaw lollipop and all the games that that person listed as "not real games" all take some kind of skill or thinking.
Yeah, I've started up spreadsheets to keep track of how to MAXIMIZE PROFITS with mods that add new crops.
Yup, while I am a Harvest Moon/Rune Factory person, but these kinds of games take as much effort than any other "real" game. I think people just like to discredit games that aren't competitive. If there's no leader board, apparently it's not legitimately a gamer game.
I applaud folks who play stardew seriously. Ive tried getting into it and i have no idea what im doing!
Looking at the wiki somehow made it worse...
Anyone who says “real games” is not to be listened to.
Yeah! Some "true gamer" is really going to tell me that all that time I spent ripping my hair out-- I mean fishing, requires no skill at all?
Dude I love u and your content but I physically could not finish this video😭kudos to you for scouring the internet and FINDING these. U have my full respect and condolences👍🏾
Like a bunch of people have said, I think a lot of teens go through a "pick me" phase, although it might be to different extents. For me, I was a quiet, depressed but nerdy teen and looked down on pop music, instead listening to classical music/musicals. I also didn't get the idea of people starting to date each other, though that might have been because I was actually ace. But the most "pick me" I ever got was probably when we had to play football/soccer in PE and the other non-sporty girls wouldn't even try. I wasn't any good, but would at least try to play