A petition should be started to get Webster Dictionary to change the definition of colorism back to the original meaning. Now the definition is colorism is only towards darker skinned people. Smdh
My ex “best friend” said I would be called “wasted yellow” by her family because I am light skinned without “good hair”. I knew at that moment just how jealous that b*tch actually was. Unfortunately it took me too long to end that friendship.
@@zenmasta1260literal studies show men marry lightskin women more than darkskin women but lightskin women are the minority. If y’all “don’t care” about skin color why is that happening? Let me guess. Just a coincidence?
The fact that they call ice spice unattractive is a perfect example of jealousy. If ice spice was Lupita Nyongo's color, they'd be calling her beautiful. These women repulse me. I'm not holding back. 😂
I’m a light skinned black women but I was always called nappy headed in school, I got so tired of it that i snuck and relaxed my hair at 12 years old 🤦🏽♀️ when I went to school the kids gave me a round of applause 🙄 it was so embarrassing. My Middle school years were the worst years of being in school. After that I spent several years over processing my hair because I always felt like it was never straight enough 🤦🏽♀️
Same. I have thick 4b hair and people would call it nappy and shit or say I have no curls?? Like bro just because I don’t have the typical loose curls doesn’t mean anything
@@Jettabbg I looked up some of the girls that used to tease me in school about my hair on Facebook and some of them don’t have edges anymore so I guess it was good that I waited to relax my hair. I was the only girl in my class that didn’t have a relaxer in my hair and I was reminded of it daily 🤦🏽♀️
When glo rilla was coming up, people were telling her to get a BBL and she said nope. When tiny was younger she got bullied by BP for her features. She then got plastic surgery and it still wasn’t enough. In fact they flipped it on her saying there was nothing wrong with her. Which one is it?!
It’s so crazy because I don’t see any other race saying this about BP more than BP. Like yeah there are racists/colorists of course, but everytime I see someone comment on black features, it’s other BP.
Wouldn’t that technically make them just as racist as other groups of people that behave the same way? The way they’re so AGAINST themselves is just crazy
@@ExoticalsUnitedI’m gagged because I really feel like she’s so pretty and especially her vibe and energy are so positive. I enjoy her channel and get ready with me’s. The fact they said she’s nothing special is crazy.
I think the young lady with the blue eyes is beautiful. I notice that there are some CZcamsrs that are first-generation Americans. Haitian, African, Jamaican( which have beautiful women, by the way). But it seems like there are some CZcams influencers who have a dislike for themselves and project that hatred on others. Their platform is growing, with attempts to convince others that their beauty is not attractive. Which has created this division amongst women of color and different ethnic backgrounds. The aggression and tone that I hear does not help their image or platform. I believe every woman has the right to a soft life if she chooses. Women who choose to listen to negativity will slowly start to embrace it and live it. ( consciously and subconsciously) I once subscribed to a few of those channels, and I noticed the pattern of hatred instead of uplifting women. I choose a soft life and peace going forward, especially in my 30s💅🏾✨️🧚🏽♀️
Yes you are right. I heard a guy saying he prefers rubi rose over ice spice because rubi has that foreign look ( aka feauturism). Also ive seen people saying ice spice is weird in the face and again it's featurism. They were even telling Glorilla to get a nose job. Also , people pointed out that muni long only blew up after her nose job.
I think she's good representation visually for us monoracial LSW since she still has cute African/rounded features. It's hilarious (Black) people are trying so hard to invalidate her beauty and call her ugly, when the white male executives who're propping her up to be as big as she is clearly don't feel that way. I saw footage not too long ago from one of her performances and it was all younger white dudes sticking their tongues out when she would start dancing...@@aisnow5788
They even gaslight other uabw if they say they don’t experience or believe in colorism. They literally get so angry that their colorism or featurism argument isn’t airtight. Then they just change the goal post.
Yess and they’ll tell the darkskin women “oh it will happen to you” when certain dark women say they don’t experience colorism or if they say they aren’t worried about it.. it’s like they want them to experience it too n be so gung ho to say it will happen to u one day watch
Yes! I remember when Oprah Winfrey did this to Tika Sumpter on her show. Tika was being interviewed and Oprah steered the conversation towards colorism and Tika BRIGHTLY SMILED and said, "I've honestly never experienced that. I can't remember one time feeling or being treated as less than because of my complexion." Oprah was very uncomfortable and visibly disgusted by Tika's response. So, of course, she just had to push the issue and she went after Tika's family and her upbringing. She insinuated that Tika's parents, particularly her DS father must've treated her less than her LS sister but Tika shut her down.😁 She was like, "Actually, it was the opposite!" She said, "My father actually spoiled me and openly favored me because I was the only one in the house who actually had his same rich skin color. He always said that I was his chocolate little twin." Oprah was DONE!!!!😂 The interview was obviously awkward after that because I guess Oprah had a whole line of questioning that went with Tika being a victim. Meanwhile, Tika was there to celebrate her successes in her career on one of the biggest television platforms in the industry and Oprah was trying to dim her light by trying to make her feel like the so-called ugIy and mistreated darky.
@@sophiam9886I remember that interview! Your right. TIKA was very adamant with the fact that she never experienced colorism & Oprah was so mad she wanted the response to be different 😒
You referencing THEE ALICE WALKER for the definition of colorism?!?!?!? The monoracials are definitely punching the air after hearing that one!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm white passing latin in NY, I have a quite a lot of light-skinned black/mixed female friends and it's true. The dark skinned african american girls always hate on them. Maybe not always overtly but you can sense their self-hatred and anger. It's more than just self-hatred; it's self-hatred, jealousy and rage. It's so sad.
@@LightSkinnedAndProudOfIT And this BS always comes from DSBW. So many of my LSBW friends at some point always ended up blindsided by the jealousy and seething resentment their DSBW "friends" were harboring towards them. I've seen this happen all the time back when I was in High School. It's really sad and pathetic to simultaneously hate and be jealous of a group of people because of their skin color and try to rob them of any self-esteem... like, can't they learn to love themselves and stop externalizing their self-hatred?
@@howdypartner3403 not all let’s be clear but yes, many have their inner issues and they project and they put their hate on Lightskin women because people told them growing up that they’re a “darkie” “African booty scratcher” “burnt” “roach” “monkey” that “Lightskin or white girls are better” etc. just that doesn’t mean to put it on to others though 🤷
Yup! They completely ignore Bantu features , plus sized women, shrunken 4c hairstyles, etc. meanwhile I show thousands of images on this channel in my videos of damn near every phenotype
Bro, the “you’re not that lightskinned” I’ve only heard that from one person in my life and it was from my cousin who I thought was cool and I was close to it for years. One day when I was like, I want all red tattoos she gonna say “you’re not that Lightskinned “And I was like what do you mean by that? She couldn’t really say shit. I was always so confused and felt an ick like it was insult. Because you’re telling me, I have to be a certain type of light skin to have all red tattoos??
I love this channel! I am a LS black women with 4c hair. I was bullied a lot by a DS black women (my little sister, Sister)! Till this day If I ever saw her I’d want to square up. She would literally wake everyday just to bully me 10 out of 10 times unprovoked! Saying weird comments like “who do I think I am” “I think I’m all that bc I’m LS” or “ You don’t know what to do with your lips I should’ve had big lips”” You’re not cute and you’re ugly asf””you’re body is disgusting and you’re fat” Mind you I would be 10 yrs old and she would be 14! Disgusting/Embarrassing! Now even in my adult life I’m 24 now! The treatment and passive aggressive behavior from DSBW is disgusting! You can’t even post a video on TikTok as a LSBW talking about your experience and how you were bullied without a DSBW bashing you and using your skin color or your features as leverage to disrespect/bully you. And then they make these crazy assumptions that LSBW just want attention and we don’t experience colorism! It’s ridiculous bc at the end of the day we are all black!
I swear dark skin dudes always saying slick stuff to lightskin men but always tryna befriended white men and get in good with them I experienced it to with them calling me soft.
Right! We will have the same features as them and the only difference is light skin and they’ll say we are ugly. But it’s like what’s ugly? The features that we share with you? I noticed they did that with ice spice and Ella mai lol
You hit it right on the head. The jokes really do be writing themselves atp sis. Like pick a script guys. I feel like we subconsciously hold fair women to a standard of beauty much more than we think because you are automatically ugly once you no longer serve their light skinned fantasy. You must be a video vixen or nothing else💀 i
You have never lied. And the perfect example of this is Kelly Rowland. Kelly Rowland facial features especially since she got a nose job she looks in here features now. They love her to death and call her black Barbie. But in the same breathe hate on Beyoncé euporean features and light hair because she is light skin. It’s hypocrisy for me. They want euporean features on black women but hate light skin women for the same thing.
as an ambiguous lightskin person i’ve only been bullied/insulted by black woman and bc i have western features and im lightskin the only thing they could make fun of was my 4c textured hair and the fact that im tall. It’s so sad bc I loved darker woman more than myself at a certain point but I realized all that love I had would never be reciprocated.
I’m a mixed man. And I prefer to date only mixed women. And the hatred I’ve saw other black women project onto mixed women.. makes me love them even more.
Even though I'm a very dark skinned black man I also love dating mixed race and light skinned women. In general I get better vibes and energy from mixed race people in general. I've been harassed and picked on all my life by other black people because I'm dark skinned. While my homie who's mixed race always has been a good friend to me. And he told me I know you love black women but bro go where you're celebrated. And the rest was history. Looking to get married next year with my mixed cutie.
Great video as always❤ And for anyone in the blk female empowerment spaces saying we are bashing them, we are not, we are simply giving a counter argument to the blatant MLS bashing. 16,0000 MLS people are all pointing at the same source of problematic behavior? Not a coincidence!! Congratulations EU💕 GURL YOU ARE GROWING FAST🌺
Exactly. We can’t all be “delusional”. Also, they love coming back with “not all” arguments. Lmao we never said ALL of them did anything in particular, so it’s yet another deflection. 😂 anyway thanks for watching sis! ❤️
One thing I’d hear them say a lot was, “ you’re the preference “ but it’s not like we were winning by being a preference to black men 🥴 going 50/50 or being a baby mama is not winning 😂 honestly, I rather they didn’t prefer me.
OMG! FACTS! No, they do not like black features at all. Both UABM AND UABW both silently and vocally express this. Its a paradox that I don't understand.
I remember when i was pregnant with my 1st child, someone from my past who had just had her baby right before me, commented on and felt a way that my nose didn't spread or get big during the pregnancy the way hers did😅 And i was just like "Huh??" I see now
3:38 sounds like self hate. I never even preferred blue eyes tbh, maybe Cidney Black is just pretty with or without blue eyes, maybe she's just good at what she does.. 👁👄👁 sheesh...
Right, that is undeniable self hatred. To call an unambiguous DSB woman “nothing special” other than her blue eyes is PROOF that we’re right on how some of these women really think of themselves .
I usually like her content.So I aint going to record too much.I don't always agree with her.However, this was very distasteful because Cydne is gorgeous. Many black folks will try to clean her and use africa as a talking point or fijians as a talking point for the blue eyed feature to prove that black people can't have blue eyes but at the same time will shame them. She could have other qualities just like the previous comment that makes her stand out and the blue eyes is just a bonus. If you have any feature that will take black male attention away from them they go crazy. I consider myself to be unambiguous nonados black women of belizean andnhonuran descen & I definitely do not have those sentiments of inner hatred. I call out everybody light medium dark.I don't care what kind of type of black you are ados or non-ados I call EVERYBODY out on their bullshet and give credit when due, every plight is valid.
@@ExoticalsUnitedvery valid point I agree. Most UABAW do work against themselves constantly. Every time I point it out , my cultural background is used as a us vs them deflection so I gave up. I'm in my own lane. I do appreciate hearing from other black adjacent communities.Of different races, colors and cultures.To see what everyone has to say and everything is all valid.Everyone has the right to speak on the truth as they see it Congratulations by the way on your growing channel EU. I don't always agree in every little thing and that's OK but I absolutely respect your movement for MLSB people. Everyone deserves a movement of their own.
And mls women are changing that everyday by embracing our beauty and gaining noteriety. UABW should do the same for themselves instead of trying to bring these women down
Yeah, and due to that half of them do embrace their own beauty and try to overcome that, but you do have half of them projecting and putting down the woman who are praised by society down due to their own issues. Honestly, I just hate this whole color shit anyways.. being fetishized or praised because you’re lighter is legit Eurocentric featurism..
Some people would harshly criticize the unibrow that I inherited from my father. I love my broad afrocentric features that consists of my almond shaped eyes, full lips and plus size pear shaped body that comes from the nigerian side of my family. On multiple occasions I had to deal with some of my classmates touching me without my consent and making rude comments about my body. Some of my classmates tried to peer pressure me into shaving my eyebrows thin thankfully I never listened to them.
I can agree 100%. I’m darker brown skinned woman who has biracial children. The first thing a mother bw did when bickering with me was to tell me that my kids were ugly, and that my daughter’s hair is nappy.
As a light skin un ambiguous woman with 4c hair, alot of my dark skin’famale co workers try humbling me by saying my hair is “unkept “ etc , I feel like you should do more videos on light skin women with black features ❤️🔥
Im a light skin woman and i have African features (full lips, curvy) and all my life all I would get from black females was hate. It was majority of the time it was frim dark skin women all to try to humble me. Either my butt is not big enough or its "you not all that" which i never claimed to be. But they NEVER would say I was ugly because they know it would be a lie. Then every time I was part of a friend group that had a dark skin girl part of it, i always got the sense that there was underlying dislike. Every time. Now I understand the root of my experiences
There's a woman at my university. she's blackskin and she seems to hold a grudge against me.. and I don't understand what's going on... I wonder if that has to do with the fact I'm mixed-race.
I just googled up pictures of Ella Mai . She is gorgeous .In my opinion she would of won (Americas Next Top Model ) .Because Ella Mai would of made her facial features that UABW dont consider to be beautiful that resembles their phenotype. And also all types of hair styles short , or long hair styles that would look perfect on Ella Mai 😎
What i meant to say was if Ella Mai 🩵 was a contestant on ANTM she would of won in my opinion , because she loves her facial features that UABW also have that they consider to be set back for them .Which in my opinion is not a set back , but facial features to be celebrated as another form of beauty 🤎.
I cannot speak on your experience, but from my perspective as a dark skin women, dsbw are black male identified; they tend to befriend light skin women to attract groups of bm. They also uplift lightskin women over darkskin women. They can also be self depricating with regards to their own hair texture and skin tone.
I agree black people are very featurist towards other skin complexions and even other diasporan blacks. Yet they accuse others of featurism, many of them have internalized featurism and antiblackness themselves. I even got called out by darker hued female relatives for having a "mature face" but I never made comments about them ever. The Opposite sex never had a issue with my face.So I knew that it had to do with projection and jealousy on their part. They do the same thing to Lil Mama, and I hate how blackfolks talk so bad about her looks comparing here to lil bow wow or saying she has an old lady face because TO ME she's absolutely gorgeous and has good head on her shoulders. You can have strong broad features such as myself and STILL be beautiful in any complexion. You wear your features proudly! ❤
I am not sure if my story relates but I am medium brown with long 3b-3c ish hair. My dad’s side is creole and my mom’s side is Native American. I have been told I look Colombian, Dominican, Indian, Ethiopian. One woman stopped me and asked if I was Ethiopian because I looked like people from her country. Growing up it’s like people made me feel like I was not good enough or pretty enough because I did have a big butt. I am more heavy bust wise. But guys would always give comments like, “dam I have dated girl thicker than you” or “I have to date a thick woman”, or “you don’t have butt” like as if that is the only reason I am not perfect. It has made it so insecure about my size and I have become obsessed with only one part of my body.
Not on this channel , plus I used the word exoticAL which is a made up word coined by black empowerment content creators. Just like others take back the n word which was negative and they use it as a positive, we are taking the word exotical. Anyone who doesn’t like that can unsubscribe from me or not watch.
Most times I see DSBW complaining about that word even when it isn’t used to describe them. Just like they got all up in arms about Latto calling herself Mulatto. Mixed women didn’t really care what she called herself it was them that cared more than anyone for some odd reason.
@@Love-Fashion-Makeup oh ok, I’m a DSBW and I don’t rlly think about mixed women ever. I just heard that being referred to as exotic was not a good thing and that it’s weird asf.
That's a talking point UABW used to diminish the desirability of LSW/mixed women since we all know BM have an obsession with 'exotic' women. No LS or mixed women ever complained about it before darkskin women told us we should@@mymykisses5980
Unambiguous black women. This channel is for mixed black women or mixed looking black women who are accused of benefitting from featurism, colorism or texturism.
I don’t know what race/nationality you are speaking thru this video….but I hope you Not…ywt….giving your thoughts/opinion/and feelings about a subject that does not apply or should not apply to you….
@@Love-Fashion-Makeup Gurl fr!! That's what I'm saying! She needs to get out of our space... And as far as the whole "Not All" excuse but Enough of them do feel that way!! Just like I can tell you that "not all" blk men hate bw, but enough of them are on large social media platforms making videos saying that they do.. To me bm and bw are no better than the other you guys just have different targets🤷♀️
Everything you stated is spot on!I am in lights skin what's 4C hair and broader bigger features and even though the world / the media only shows one type of beauty or makes us feel less than its not okay to uphold those standards or that mentality of believing that we're not good enough for leaving not to be true, and then project and get on to others that are confident with their 4C hair in their nose or big lips and their forehead
Yes they called light skin women and men with the same features ugly but if someone said the same thing about them it's colorism 😂
Exactly.
A petition should be started to get Webster Dictionary to change the definition of colorism back to the original meaning. Now the definition is colorism is only towards darker skinned people. Smdh
My ex “best friend” said I would be called “wasted yellow” by her family because I am light skinned without “good hair”. I knew at that moment just how jealous that b*tch actually was. Unfortunately it took me too long to end that friendship.
We have all been there. *hugs*
Yes, I’ve waited too long to get rid of bad , jealous people. I’m glad I left this bad habit in my youth. You live and you learn.❤😊
Woww that’s messed up
That’s so gross
Wow that's so fucking disrespectful I'm glad you ended that friendship, because that was the worst type of sneak diss ever.
Yes!! I have 4c hair and light skin… and people are continuously upset about it.
you mean people as in "black women" I'm a light skinned man and I could care less about skin color. Only women seem to care so much about this.
@@zenmasta1260 black men def care about skin color too lol
@@zenmasta1260why do y’all lie like this? Lol
@@zenmasta1260literal studies show men marry lightskin women more than darkskin women but lightskin women are the minority. If y’all “don’t care” about skin color why is that happening? Let me guess. Just a coincidence?
@Free2Be7Your hair is pretty I'm for real about it.
The fact that they call ice spice unattractive is a perfect example of jealousy. If ice spice was Lupita Nyongo's color, they'd be calling her beautiful. These women repulse me. I'm not holding back. 😂
I’m a light skinned black women but I was always called nappy headed in school, I got so tired of it that i snuck and relaxed my hair at 12 years old 🤦🏽♀️ when I went to school the kids gave me a round of applause 🙄 it was so embarrassing. My Middle school years were the worst years of being in school. After that I spent several years over processing my hair because I always felt like it was never straight enough 🤦🏽♀️
Same. I have thick 4b hair and people would call it nappy and shit or say I have no curls?? Like bro just because I don’t have the typical loose curls doesn’t mean anything
@@Jettabbg I looked up some of the girls that used to tease me in school about my hair on Facebook and some of them don’t have edges anymore so I guess it was good that I waited to relax my hair. I was the only girl in my class that didn’t have a relaxer in my hair and I was reminded of it daily 🤦🏽♀️
When glo rilla was coming up, people were telling her to get a BBL and she said nope. When tiny was younger she got bullied by BP for her features. She then got plastic surgery and it still wasn’t enough. In fact they flipped it on her saying there was nothing wrong with her. Which one is it?!
It’s so crazy because I don’t see any other race saying this about BP more than BP. Like yeah there are racists/colorists of course, but everytime I see someone comment on black features, it’s other BP.
Exactly !
Wouldn’t that technically make them just as racist as other groups of people that behave the same way? The way they’re so AGAINST themselves is just crazy
Usually other black american people mostly that do this, sorry to say but it's the undeniable truth.
That’s why I love that saweetie hasn’t touched her nose!!!!❤❤
Ella Mai is very pretty
She's beautiful 😍❤️🥰
So basically, they hate themselves.
Exactly 😂 she literally called dark skin and broad features “nothing special” ☠️
@@ExoticalsUnitedI’m gagged because I really feel like she’s so pretty and especially her vibe and energy are so positive. I enjoy her channel and get ready with me’s. The fact they said she’s nothing special is crazy.
Black women be their own biggest enemy I swear, like they’re shooting themselves in the foot why did you just insult yourself?? 😭
I think the young lady with the blue eyes is beautiful.
I notice that there are some CZcamsrs that are first-generation Americans.
Haitian, African, Jamaican( which have beautiful women, by the way).
But it seems like there are some CZcams influencers who have a dislike for themselves and project that hatred on others.
Their platform is growing, with attempts to convince others that their beauty is not attractive.
Which has created this division amongst women of color and different ethnic backgrounds. The aggression and tone that I hear does not help their image or platform.
I believe every woman has the right to a soft life if she chooses.
Women who choose to listen to negativity will slowly start to embrace it and live it. ( consciously and subconsciously)
I once subscribed to a few of those channels, and I noticed the pattern of hatred instead of uplifting women.
I choose a soft life and peace going forward, especially in my 30s💅🏾✨️🧚🏽♀️
This is a swooping statement and it is untrue🌸
Yes you are right. I heard a guy saying he prefers rubi rose over ice spice because rubi has that foreign look ( aka feauturism). Also ive seen people saying ice spice is weird in the face and again it's featurism. They were even telling Glorilla to get a nose job. Also , people pointed out that muni long only blew up after her nose job.
Right, its basically that they don’t like wide flat Bantu noses. They like keen features
@@ExoticalsUnited you are right. There are videos on muni long gaining success after doing an ethnic rhinoplasty.
I find Ice Spice so cute and unique looking!
@@aisnow5788me too
I think she's good representation visually for us monoracial LSW since she still has cute African/rounded features. It's hilarious (Black) people are trying so hard to invalidate her beauty and call her ugly, when the white male executives who're propping her up to be as big as she is clearly don't feel that way. I saw footage not too long ago from one of her performances and it was all younger white dudes sticking their tongues out when she would start dancing...@@aisnow5788
Literally went from 15k to 16k in less than a week!!!😜🎉🎉🎉🎉
Yes I gained 4000 subs in the last month . The exoticals have united ! 💅🏽
@@ExoticalsUnited Thank you so much for uniting us! You’ve provided a safe haven! 💖
Yesss congratulations Exoticals United!!! And thank you! 💖🌺🪄💅🏽
They even gaslight other uabw if they say they don’t experience or believe in colorism. They literally get so angry that their colorism or featurism argument isn’t airtight. Then they just change the goal post.
Yess and they’ll tell the darkskin women “oh it will happen to you” when certain dark women say they don’t experience colorism or if they say they aren’t worried about it.. it’s like they want them to experience it too n be so gung ho to say it will happen to u one day watch
Yes! I remember when Oprah Winfrey did this to Tika Sumpter on her show. Tika was being interviewed and Oprah steered the conversation towards colorism and Tika BRIGHTLY SMILED and said, "I've honestly never experienced that. I can't remember one time feeling or being treated as less than because of my complexion." Oprah was very uncomfortable and visibly disgusted by Tika's response. So, of course, she just had to push the issue and she went after Tika's family and her upbringing. She insinuated that Tika's parents, particularly her DS father must've treated her less than her LS sister but Tika shut her down.😁 She was like, "Actually, it was the opposite!" She said, "My father actually spoiled me and openly favored me because I was the only one in the house who actually had his same rich skin color. He always said that I was his chocolate little twin." Oprah was DONE!!!!😂 The interview was obviously awkward after that because I guess Oprah had a whole line of questioning that went with Tika being a victim. Meanwhile, Tika was there to celebrate her successes in her career on one of the biggest television platforms in the industry and Oprah was trying to dim her light by trying to make her feel like the so-called ugIy and mistreated darky.
@@sophiam9886I remember that interview! Your right. TIKA was very adamant with the fact that she never experienced colorism & Oprah was so mad she wanted the response to be different 😒
CZcams algorithm recommending me this channel as a white male, truly a fascinating experience
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LMAO 😭
Well... its the internet, all types of ppl find these channels 💀 😂
Lmfao
You referencing THEE ALICE WALKER for the definition of colorism?!?!?!? The monoracials are definitely punching the air after hearing that one!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 if they want to argue with my definition of colorism they can argue with Alice walker !
Exactly. Your definition EU is what Alice Walker said.
I don't care what complexion she is. I love black women period. The best looking females on the planet period.
I'm white passing latin in NY, I have a quite a lot of light-skinned black/mixed female friends and it's true. The dark skinned african american girls always hate on them. Maybe not always overtly but you can sense their self-hatred and anger. It's more than just self-hatred; it's self-hatred, jealousy and rage. It's so sad.
Exactly. It’s a “tension” with DSBW when they are around a LSBW even sometimes brown black woman do it too!
@@LightSkinnedAndProudOfIT And this BS always comes from DSBW. So many of my LSBW friends at some point always ended up blindsided by the jealousy and seething resentment their DSBW "friends" were harboring towards them. I've seen this happen all the time back when I was in High School. It's really sad and pathetic to simultaneously hate and be jealous of a group of people because of their skin color and try to rob them of any self-esteem... like, can't they learn to love themselves and stop externalizing their self-hatred?
Jelous of what? Latinas are the poorest and least educated group?
@@aquarius-woman5364 Bitter UABW detected ‼🚨‼
@@howdypartner3403 not all let’s be clear but yes, many have their inner issues and they project and they put their hate on Lightskin women because people told them growing up that they’re a “darkie” “African booty scratcher” “burnt” “roach” “monkey” that “Lightskin or white girls are better” etc. just that doesn’t mean to put it on to others though 🤷
Yup! Until they can admit they hate their own features they cant have an honest conversation about featurism or colorism.🤷🏿♀️
Correct!
I've noticed that too. The pro black women pages that I see on Twitter mostly post racially ambiguous, horner or straight up biracial women
Yup! They completely ignore Bantu features , plus sized women, shrunken 4c hairstyles, etc. meanwhile I show thousands of images on this channel in my videos of damn near every phenotype
Yes! They constantly try to pretend that we’re the same but in the same breath make negative comments about our features it’s very frustrating.
Bro, the “you’re not that lightskinned” I’ve only heard that from one person in my life and it was from my cousin who I thought was cool and I was close to it for years. One day when I was like, I want all red tattoos she gonna say “you’re not that Lightskinned “And I was like what do you mean by that? She couldn’t really say shit. I was always so confused and felt an ick like it was insult. Because you’re telling me, I have to be a certain type of light skin to have all red tattoos??
Yup, and they’re exposing their own self hatred as if someone lighter/whiter than you is better than you or more valid
I'm an unambiguous BW and I LOVE seeing very black features on exoticals lol, it's actually my favorite look. I'm also African though, so yea.
Yay 😀
Love this....cos I am very light skinned but have a huge afro....hahaha
She said the SILENT part out loud!!
I hate this topic so much but it is true and a real pain.
I love this channel! I am a LS black women with 4c hair. I was bullied a lot by a DS black women (my little sister, Sister)! Till this day If I ever saw her I’d want to square up. She would literally wake everyday just to bully me 10 out of 10 times unprovoked! Saying weird comments like “who do I think I am” “I think I’m all that bc I’m LS” or “ You don’t know what to do with your lips I should’ve had big lips”” You’re not cute and you’re ugly asf””you’re body is disgusting and you’re fat” Mind you I would be 10 yrs old and she would be 14! Disgusting/Embarrassing! Now even in my adult life I’m 24 now! The treatment and passive aggressive behavior from DSBW is disgusting! You can’t even post a video on TikTok as a LSBW talking about your experience and how you were bullied without a DSBW bashing you and using your skin color or your features as leverage to disrespect/bully you. And then they make these crazy assumptions that LSBW just want attention and we don’t experience colorism! It’s ridiculous bc at the end of the day we are all black!
This is crazy cause another YT content creator said the same thing about black people not liking black/African features. she is a DSBW.
It's the same shit with guys, dudes been clowning me with breezy jokes since highschool
Oh I can imagine. I remember witnessing the hate MLS boys got back in school right along with us girls.
@@Love-Fashion-Makeup that shit is whack, insecure people be doing too much
Yes I can see that, my hubby went through the same, just straight up disrespect to his face, and I had it from the girls
I swear dark skin dudes always saying slick stuff to lightskin men but always tryna befriended white men and get in good with them I experienced it to with them calling me soft.
Exactlyyy!!!! They be saying “definition of light skin doesn’t mean pretty. “ but you ask them what makes them ugly they can’t say much
Right! We will have the same features as them and the only difference is light skin and they’ll say we are ugly. But it’s like what’s ugly? The features that we share with you? I noticed they did that with ice spice and Ella mai lol
You hit it right on the head. The jokes really do be writing themselves atp sis. Like pick a script guys.
I feel like we subconsciously hold fair women to a standard of beauty much more than we think because you are automatically ugly once you no longer serve their light skinned fantasy. You must be a video vixen or nothing else💀 i
Like Fantasia; why do people call her ugly?
I think she is just gorgeous ❤
You have never lied. And the perfect example of this is Kelly Rowland. Kelly Rowland facial features especially since she got a nose job she looks in here features now. They love her to death and call her black Barbie. But in the same breathe hate on Beyoncé euporean features and light hair because she is light skin. It’s hypocrisy for me. They want euporean features on black women but hate light skin women for the same thing.
They be telling on themselves. 😂
as an ambiguous lightskin person i’ve only been bullied/insulted by black woman and bc i have western features and im lightskin the only thing they could make fun of was my 4c textured hair and the fact that im tall. It’s so sad bc I loved darker woman more than myself at a certain point but I realized all that love I had would never be reciprocated.
I’m a mixed man. And I prefer to date only mixed women. And the hatred I’ve saw other black women project onto mixed women.. makes me love them even more.
Even though I'm a very dark skinned black man I also love dating mixed race and light skinned women. In general I get better vibes and energy from mixed race people in general. I've been harassed and picked on all my life by other black people because I'm dark skinned. While my homie who's mixed race always has been a good friend to me. And he told me I know you love black women but bro go where you're celebrated. And the rest was history. Looking to get married next year with my mixed cutie.
Great video as always❤
And for anyone in the blk female empowerment spaces saying we are bashing them, we are not,
we are simply giving a counter argument to the blatant MLS bashing. 16,0000 MLS people are all pointing at the same source of problematic behavior? Not a coincidence!!
Congratulations EU💕
GURL YOU ARE GROWING FAST🌺
Exactly. We can’t all be “delusional”. Also, they love coming back with “not all” arguments. Lmao we never said ALL of them did anything in particular, so it’s yet another deflection. 😂 anyway thanks for watching sis! ❤️
One thing I’d hear them say a lot was, “ you’re the preference “ but it’s not like we were winning by being a preference to black men 🥴 going 50/50 or being a baby mama is not winning 😂 honestly, I rather they didn’t prefer me.
OMG! FACTS! No, they do not like black features at all. Both UABM AND UABW both silently and vocally express this. Its a paradox that I don't understand.
Bc the media only upholds keen features. Only represents people w keen features as "beautiful"
@@SandraBridges-qo3gb You should watch more Nollywwod movies then, Sandra.
That makes so much sense. Thank you.
I remember when i was pregnant with my 1st child, someone from my past who had just had her baby right before me, commented on and felt a way that my nose didn't spread or get big during the pregnancy the way hers did😅
And i was just like "Huh??" I see now
wow thats crazy !
3:38 sounds like self hate. I never even preferred blue eyes tbh, maybe Cidney Black is just pretty with or without blue eyes, maybe she's just good at what she does..
👁👄👁 sheesh...
Right, that is undeniable self hatred. To call an unambiguous DSB woman “nothing special” other than her blue eyes is PROOF that we’re right on how some of these women really think of themselves .
@@ExoticalsUnited On point ! Great content.
I usually like her content.So I aint going to record too much.I don't always agree with her.However, this was very distasteful because Cydne is gorgeous. Many black folks will try to clean her and use africa as a talking point or fijians as a talking point for the blue eyed feature to prove that black people can't have blue eyes but at the same time will shame them. She could have other qualities just like the previous comment that makes her stand out and the blue eyes is just a bonus. If you have any feature that will take black male attention away from them they go crazy. I consider myself to be unambiguous nonados black women of belizean andnhonuran descen & I definitely do not have those sentiments of inner hatred. I call out everybody light medium dark.I don't care what kind of type of black you are ados or non-ados I call EVERYBODY out on their bullshet and give credit when due, every plight is valid.
@@ExoticalsUnitedvery valid point I agree. Most UABAW do work against themselves constantly. Every time I point it out , my cultural background is used as a us vs them deflection so I gave up. I'm in my own lane. I do appreciate hearing from other black adjacent communities.Of different races, colors and cultures.To see what everyone has to say and everything is all valid.Everyone has the right to speak on the truth as they see it Congratulations by the way on your growing channel EU. I don't always agree in every little thing and that's OK but I absolutely respect your movement for MLSB people. Everyone deserves a movement of their own.
Dang you’re exposing some truths!
I guess it's sadly due to not being the respresentation for "beautiful " , admirable, not valuable.
And mls women are changing that everyday by embracing our beauty and gaining noteriety. UABW should do the same for themselves instead of trying to bring these women down
Neither are you in the white world. You're not blonde. The only people who value lightskin are black men
Yeah, and due to that half of them do embrace their own beauty and try to overcome that, but you do have half of them projecting and putting down the woman who are praised by society down due to their own issues. Honestly, I just hate this whole color shit anyways.. being fetishized or praised because you’re lighter is legit Eurocentric featurism..
Some people would harshly criticize the unibrow that I inherited from my father. I love my broad afrocentric features that consists of my almond shaped eyes, full lips and plus size pear shaped body that comes from the nigerian side of my family. On multiple occasions I had to deal with some of my classmates touching me without my consent and making rude comments about my body. Some of my classmates tried to peer pressure me into shaving my eyebrows thin thankfully I never listened to them.
I can agree 100%. I’m darker brown skinned woman who has biracial children. The first thing a mother bw did when bickering with me was to tell me that my kids were ugly, and that my daughter’s hair is nappy.
Lol your one of the dark skinned women thry are talking about.
As a light skin un ambiguous woman with 4c hair, alot of my dark skin’famale co workers try humbling me by saying my hair is “unkept “ etc , I feel like you should do more videos on light skin women with black features ❤️🔥
I stand with you!
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Wow! Good insight
Im a light skin woman and i have African features (full lips, curvy) and all my life all I would get from black females was hate. It was majority of the time it was frim dark skin women all to try to humble me. Either my butt is not big enough or its "you not all that" which i never claimed to be. But they NEVER would say I was ugly because they know it would be a lie.
Then every time I was part of a friend group that had a dark skin girl part of it, i always got the sense that there was underlying dislike. Every time.
Now I understand the root of my experiences
Omg I got the “you’re not all that” comment from an unambiguous woman as well 😂
A “friend” of mine got mad cuz some girl referred to me as caramel 😂 bro was like “ur like chocolate if anything”
Context: this friends constantly “complimenting” my black features
Sounds like jealousy chocolate can look like Carmel to brownskins can get lighter in winter
@@beccaedward7555 💯
@@jay-555 people jealous af nowadays lol
I’m light skin American. Non mixed! Im American!!! Love my Blackness!! I am American
There's a woman at my university. she's blackskin and she seems to hold a grudge against me.. and I don't understand what's going on... I wonder if that has to do with the fact I'm mixed-race.
I just googled up pictures of Ella Mai . She is gorgeous .In my opinion she would of won (Americas Next Top Model ) .Because Ella Mai would of made her facial features that UABW dont consider to be beautiful that resembles their phenotype. And also all types of hair styles short , or long hair styles that would look perfect on Ella Mai 😎
Ella Mai was on ANTM??? I never knew that
What i meant to say was if Ella Mai 🩵 was a contestant on ANTM she would of won in my opinion , because she loves her facial features that UABW also have that they consider to be set back for them .Which in my opinion is not a set back , but facial features to be celebrated as another form of beauty 🤎.
BINGO🎯🎯🎯🎤🎤🎤💯💯💯!
Light skin women are fine as they are, no complaints here 🌸
I cannot speak on your experience, but from my perspective as a dark skin women, dsbw are black male identified; they tend to befriend light skin women to attract groups of bm. They also uplift lightskin women over darkskin women. They can also be self depricating with regards to their own hair texture and skin tone.
everyone can be beautiful in their own way
Yeah, I have ppl say I have a strong face/ strong features
I used to get called High yellow, and white girl all the time I just learned to ignore it and of course everybody thought my mama was white Lmao 😆😂🤣😭!
HAA! I pierced my nose twice just to bring more attention to my nose.... No matter what my Radiant skin tone shines on...
Please do a video talking about mixed hair shaming by UABW
Omg yes!!
I agree black people are very featurist towards other skin complexions and even other diasporan blacks. Yet they accuse others of featurism, many of them have internalized featurism and antiblackness themselves. I even got called out by darker hued female relatives for having a "mature face" but I never made comments about them ever. The Opposite sex never had a issue with my face.So I knew that it had to do with projection and jealousy on their part. They do the same thing to Lil Mama, and I hate how blackfolks talk so bad about her looks comparing here to lil bow wow or saying she has an old lady face because TO ME she's absolutely gorgeous and has good head on her shoulders. You can have strong broad features such as myself and STILL be beautiful in any complexion. You wear your features proudly! ❤
Envy and jealousy are ugly.
Facts
Facts. Sad.
I am not sure if my story relates but I am medium brown with long 3b-3c ish hair. My dad’s side is creole and my mom’s side is Native American. I have been told I look Colombian, Dominican, Indian, Ethiopian. One woman stopped me and asked if I was Ethiopian because I looked like people from her country. Growing up it’s like people made me feel like I was not good enough or pretty enough because I did have a big butt. I am more heavy bust wise. But guys would always give comments like, “dam I have dated girl thicker than you” or “I have to date a thick woman”, or “you don’t have butt” like as if that is the only reason I am not perfect. It has made it so insecure about my size and I have become obsessed with only one part of my body.
Black women idolize Beyonce! However, She promotes the European standard of beauty to our women.
👏👏👏👏
I thought mixed women didn’t like the term exotic to be used on them? Isn’t it like being referred to as an animal?
Not on this channel , plus I used the word exoticAL which is a made up word coined by black empowerment content creators. Just like others take back the n word which was negative and they use it as a positive, we are taking the word exotical. Anyone who doesn’t like that can unsubscribe from me or not watch.
@@ExoticalsUnited kk was just curious
Most times I see DSBW complaining about that word even when it isn’t used to describe them. Just like they got all up in arms about Latto calling herself Mulatto. Mixed women didn’t really care what she called herself it was them that cared more than anyone for some odd reason.
@@Love-Fashion-Makeup oh ok, I’m a DSBW and I don’t rlly think about mixed women ever. I just heard that being referred to as exotic was not a good thing and that it’s weird asf.
That's a talking point UABW used to diminish the desirability of LSW/mixed women since we all know BM have an obsession with 'exotic' women. No LS or mixed women ever complained about it before darkskin women told us we should@@mymykisses5980
how can dark people come in all shades
Everyone is beautifull
I agree that everyone can be beautiful, INCLUDING THE WOMEN ON THIS CHANNEL AND IN THIS COMMUNITY . I will forever validate our beauty.
No, "everyone" is not beautiful. Lol.😄😅
What does UABW mean?
Unambiguous black women. This channel is for mixed black women or mixed looking black women who are accused of benefitting from featurism, colorism or texturism.
Is this a white women ?¿
I don’t know what race/nationality you are speaking thru this video….but I hope you Not…ywt….giving your thoughts/opinion/and feelings about a subject that does not apply or should not apply to you….
I’m not a white woman . Nice try.
This channel isn’t for you ‘boon.
I’m a black woman and I love my features and not all dark skinned women think like this so you need to pipe down
She NEVER SAID that ALL DSW think like that so YOU need to pipe down😒💯
did she say all
How do you come on someone’s channel and tell THEM to pipe down on their own channel? Sounds like a hit dog hollering to me 🤷🏻♀️
@@Love-Fashion-Makeup
Gurl fr!! That's what I'm saying! She needs to get out of our space...
And as far as the whole "Not All" excuse but
Enough of them do feel that way!!
Just like I can tell you that "not all" blk men hate bw, but enough of them are on large social media platforms making videos saying that they do.. To me bm and bw are no better than the other you guys just have different targets🤷♀️
Wish we could have an exotical meetup 😩🥹
We have our own Community (Exotical Community) that is start from a meet up 😉
Everything you stated is spot on!I am in lights skin what's 4C hair and broader bigger features and even though the world / the media only shows one type of beauty or makes us feel less than its not okay to uphold those standards or that mentality of believing that we're not good enough for leaving not to be true, and then project and get on to others that are confident with their 4C hair in their nose or big lips and their forehead