I’ve gotten the invasive questions that I’ve gotten from unambiguous-Black women but with more curiosity to confirm versus an attempt to shade (if that makes sense): -Is that your real hair? -Did you perm your hair? -Are you wearing makeup? Your skin looks flawless. -Are those your real lashes? They’re so long. Shadier question: -Who’s your “doctor”? (When trying to imply that you bought your body versus just being born with your shape/ working out. Non-BW can be just as bothered as BW… SO, I prefer to be around CONFIDENT women who are not desperate for the male gaze because they are used to getting attention in general… regardless of race; those are the only women who happen to manage their insecurities well, if they have any in the first place.
OOOOOOOOOOOOH omg so true! One time someone was like “so where did you BUY your eyelashes from?” (Implying that my lashes were fake) they weren’t . Lmao
@@ExoticalsUnited Isn’t it funny the things that we NEVER have to think about that are brought to our attention by OTHER non-MLS women??? Like DUDE… STOP! 😩😂 A lot of MLS women I know, including myself, have naturally long/ full lashes and full eyebrows. Pretty eye shapes… Oh and for those of us who have full lips?! Non-Black people have obsessed over my lips. Not in a bad way but like a fetish. That’s the one physical trait that WW in particular seem sad/ obsessive over compared to BW who generally have full lips and therefore, nothing to compare. It’s all very exhausting because I have never been invested in the physical traits of another woman unless I admired and wanted to genuinely compliment said other woman. The type of thought process that someone has to go undergo in order to formulate an invasive question and actually vocalize said question will never not be SAD. I wished that more women learned to love and accept themselves more. It’s the only way they would stop being invested in those of us who are simply existing 💁🏽♀️😌
It wouldn't have made a difference anyway. I bet many of the creole women still looked beautiful with their headscarves on which must have made them more angry 😂
These stories are cathartic. I had WW actively try to fire me because the men they wanted liked me. A lot of these dusty dudes didnt have teeth. I was so offended that they thought I would want any of them. WW are notoriously envious/jealous.
Omg yes! I need to tell the story time about my accounting supervisor who would change up her whole entire VOICE around men in the office . She was a pick me for all races of men (white dusties, black dusties, she loved every shade of dust) I was like who ARE you?! she even tried to change up her personality over a guy who was at least 15 years younger than her I was like wtf?
@@ExoticalsUnited I am not surprised in the least! There was one job I had in a grocery store on base. I was a stocker. The woman who wanted her own harem of dusty D was caught blowing the gross dudes in her car AND One of our youngest workers was a guy straight out of high school and she denied having children and said she was in an open marriage. She was so upset that other men liked me. And this was in the south and when I say most of these men did not have their teeth I mean if they had three two were in their pocket.
@@ExoticalsUnitedyep I worked with a couple of weird Indian women trying to sabotage me at work who enjoyed talking down to me. I believe some of them look down on and think they are better than black or mixed black women.
Ive literally had white women GRAB their boyfriend/husbands closer to them when they see me approaching and give me the most dirty look possible. Ive always been confused by them doing that 🤦🏾♀️
Yessss! I’ve been through this many times. I interned for the state attorney and dressed really well because I was also on the executive board of my sorority. A sad Karen actually lied and said I didn’t fulfill my internship hours to keep me from graduating. The attorneys I worked with stood up for me to say I completed my hours. And I was invited out by the attorneys on both sides for lunch. And to add there was an unambiguous black woman of Jamaican heritage who was a state attorney and she was freaking stunning and so smart. Every time the mean ww came for me she pulled me into her office and helped me out. Confident women don’t attack others and there is no one more protective and loving than a comfortable and confident bw.
Omg yes! To this day I can’t even remember that woman’s name ! I was just thinking why is she so obsessed with me when she doesn’t even know me and I barely ever speak to her ? 😂
Karens STAY wanting to be my friend, recognizing every yt man was staring at me and not them- they don't understand that fetishization is VERY disrespectful. -__-
i may not agree with everything you say but i respect you for this so much lmao😂. many other accounts centering exoticals like to put nonblack people on a pedestal and pretend like it’s completely unheard of for an mls woman to have had negative experiences with them.
When I worked at my last job, I had 2 white girls that couldn't stand me... to the point that one of them told the job wasn't hiring when i showed up for my interview! Like I Said "Stank Coochie Energy"...
Yes they do get jealous. You handled their passive aggression with grace. This reminds me of kat grahams cast members being jealous of her and a older cast member ( a woman) being really passive agressive with her because of her looks. That last story with the ministers was hilarious.
@@ginelliaamira6953 yes I heard they killed her off the show. If she was an average looking chick , I'm show they would all be comfortable and not threatened. I heard she was a really good actress plus she is pretty and that can threaten both men and women. I didn't really knew she suffered racism , that's terrible.
From what I’ve noticed, those women were at their prime in their teen years back in the day. The pressure to act grown, smoke, drink, and settle down (or abuse) had them tied down and used up before they had their own identity. They see a beautiful woman full of life, and they are overwhelmed with bitter grief at what was lost, or taken from them. No excuse to hate, of course, but it’s a factor. Kindness wins❤
I am white eastern European and northern European. My ad mixture is less the 25%, my great grandma is Arabic. That part of my fam was early Arabic immigrants to the USA. But I inherited the curly que hair from the arabic side. I had so many none curly cue girls hating on my hair I swtg. saying stuff out loud to me like "omg youre hair is so terrible you should cut it off it looks like a frizzy rats nest like oh my gah" none curlies And other white girls hating, because i was white looking like them but have unique hair, super thick curly hair for a white girl.
I'm Mixed Race and non-black women hate me all the time you can be a pretty woman, but you can't be pretty and Mixed Race because you are seen as a threat. Alot of the Latina and Afro-Latina women at my job know that I'm Mixed Race/Bi-racial but they want to think with the one drop rule and push me off as being 100% black because of jealousy. It makes them feel superior to enforce the one drop rule on you it makes them feel better about themselves if they can call you black instead of Mixed Race.
I’ve posted this on another video..Let me tell you I served in the Air Force. I’m on the darker side of the color wheel but I’ve had ppl literally stop and record me because they thought I should model or was a model. Anyways, the white girls in that Air Force gym EVERYTIME I would come in like fit and fine they would Swarm like a bunch of angry wasp or something. They all had black bfs and even tho it was other black women in the gym I was always harassed and had passive aggressive digs being thrown at me. Honestly it was an ego boost. White girls and Filipino girls especially in Vegas can not stand a beautiful colored girl. Weather that’s super light skinned or super dark skinned. Keep up the good work!
Exactly . This narrative that white women aren’t threatened by WOC is laughable . people sometimes hide behind r@cism to hide their jealousy in the same way people hide behind colorism texturism or featurism.
🤣🤣🤣 This is so relatable! I think I've experienced so much jealousy throughout my life that I started gaslighting myself about it. "Maybe I'm overthinking things or, maybe I'm being narcissistic?" But after hearing all of these story times and getting flashbacks to my own experiences, I know I'm not crazy! Love your content!!
Growing up, my white friends spent a lot of time and money trying to tan themselves to a color close to my natural skin tone. White women can *definitely* can be jealous of MLS women
When I was in my mid twenties, I had a female boss who made it her mission to make my life miserable.She was so jealous it bordered insanity! I am tall and slim. I’ve never really dieted but I do try to eat healthy. My style is classic feminine. I love to wear dresses and my hair in curls. My boss would always make a point to talk about how I dressed and say things like, “what’s the occasion?” Keep in mind this was an office job in the fashion retail industry. We were required to dress up. Not necessarily dresses but dressy type slacks, blouses, heels etc. no jeans! She would make comments about how thin I was and ask, “don’t you eat.” One time she told me she and the owner of the company were talking about my skin and how smooth it was. She said she couldn’t believe I didn’t have one wrinkle or eye bags. At first she would make little comments and act like she was just joking but over time it got worst to the point she would try to find excuses to write me up. Then one day someone brought in mini cheese cakes for everyone. My boss told me to go eat some cheesecake. I said no thanks. Well, she started screaming at me in front of the whole office, “Would it really kill you to eat cheese cake?! What’s the problem? Afraid you’re going to gain a pound?”
I'm not biracial, but man have I had my fair share of jealousy from non-black women. In secondary school I remember befriending this Italian girl, who would continuously talk down on me out of jealousy and in some cases would physically harm me with slaps and pushes. It got so bad that I had to move schools. On top of that, her friend joining in on the bullying was a dark skinned somali girl who would do weired things like compare her skintone to mine, then scoff simply because she had a darker tone; always asking me whether I thought I was pretty 😓
I remember, when I was 9 years old and have a cute pink shirt it was an “off the shoulder” shirt but you can barely see my shoulders a. Teacher called me out and said that “decent girls don’t wear clothes like that” … she was a fridge as well lol 😂
Thanks to things like the "ig baddies" era A lot of girls everywhere began to go after a new idealized specific look. Like full lips, olive or golden tanned skin (shimmery glamour look) with loose waves or curles. Whether natural or not bc everyone began to follow it. Everyone. Mixed girls heavily popularized the new the it-girl look even if some dont like to say it. Indigenous americas/northwest european girl here :3 , & ❤your channel
Oh ladies be sure you document these incidences....use you looks to your advantage...I documented for 2 yrs and went to HR and CRIED (like they do)....the ww got in BIG TROUBLE...
White women are very big pick mes. I love my mom and she’s a married woman but she’s always like “well you gotta dress sexy because men like that” like why can’t I dress like that for myself. She also said that men don’t like women who have sexual knowledge but my dad chimed in and said “yes we do” 😂😂
When I was 17 I was invited at a house party and my boyfriend at the time and the other guy that really like me. Got into a fight at the party because I danced with the other guy that liked me. So my black boyfriend had a white chick that really liked him with a car and she was like "oh come on David forget about her get in the car"! Haha so that let me know that they were sleeping around with each other. He didnt want to get into her car. He wanted to escort me home so he could be with me.
im not even basically mixed. my ethnicity is louisiana creole but I do have people who ask me what im mixed with, and a lot of ww but especially older ones, are very jealous.
Also same thing happened to me with getting fired. I was waitressing at a famous hotel I think it’s one of drakes fave. most WW guests there are nice I’ve noticed the richer a white woman is the less she hates me no matter how she looks. If she does hate me she’s usually my age or younger but it’s rare they’re usually super nice. But for SOME reason this blond lady noticed all the attention I was getting from the men as in they’d come up to me talk to me compliment me request for my managers to let me come outside with them. The blond older lady was FUMING she called me a slut and was like get her out of here! But yeah the next day I was fired. Or another time I was waitressing for a horse race course for the “old money”types according to some of the males that a lot of people heard about me from downstairs and even my managers didn’t understand why so many of them were coming up but I had a name the “beautiful waitress” and they were all coming up to see me of course the WW staff who were with me were PISSED and started embarrassing on our way home isolating me making comments about the name I was given. And laughing. I’m not saying other women aren’t jealous it’s just the fact that their jealousy is just filled with rage and deranged behaviour which can cause harm to others. And I never understood it cause I know the beauty Standard is meant to be them and I’m cool with it cause it’s not really my country it’s normal for someone who is white to be a standard in her own land but what I don’t understand is if you have been made a standard in some way why bully and attack others who are not or only reach the standard half way. Unless you yourself know the whole standard of beauty stuff is CAP.
girl its ALWAYS a unattractive hillbilly becky ...its NEVER pretty WW...like a christina hendricks pretty never beef but redneck rita from my 600 lb life lol
Omg same! I will never understand why some ww who literally look like the beauty standard will pay attention to somebody else who only looks half the beauty standard (I'm mixed with a "black nose") like if you guys are the beauty standard why are you paying attention to somebody else? Why even bother? It's like they themselves question the beauty standard I can't🤣
I’m a white woman but I am not jealous of any other race but I think black woman are really beautiful and have a divinity like no other⚖️🌷I envy their beauty
I'm age 60, British bi racial. My oldest friend since we were both age 5, first day at school. Still friends, she has always been there for me in my lowest times. When I finally moved out of her place owing her money, she cried because she missed me, she didnt care about the money. Only found this out 30 years later. We are still best friends. My other best friend, we met age 12 - saved my sanity. Both of them are white and irreplaceable - no one can ever come close to these ladies. I trust them with my life and they trust me.
I love how you are giving such fair, balanced and truthful commentary on what is really going on with MLS women and people as far as our very relatable to one another experiences! This stuff is hardly ever talked about but happens all the time! Which is why I didn't ever understand why unambiguous BW could never accept that we MLS women understand full well what discrimination and harrassment for who we are entails. We get it from both sides. Unambiguous black, white, latin and asian women come for us! They will use similar tactics to the monoracial BW trying to humble us , will use our exotic physical characteristics to try to humble us or attack us literally in front of an audience most times. The jealousy is often not talked about by monoracial BW and some latinas and asians because they pedastalize WW. They will try to deny that WW could be jealous of MLS women , just like they deny that they are also jealous of the attention we recieve. They really seem to hate that whatever blackness we have with whatever other admixture just churns out some very beautiful looks that often have others angry and willing to try and sabotage or bully MLS women for possessing this type of beauty. We often grow up confused about why we get it from all sides. Growing up and understanding that it is often just extreme jealously explains a lot.
The using similar tactics to bring us down makes me think of one white girl even said to me once in front of others at school that my tan skin tone is not special because Indians have similar skin tone and that chocolate darker skin tone is better. Such a strange and racist thing to say using racism and pitting different ethnicities against each other. Both tan and dark skin is beautiful. Meanwhile these white girls are sitting on tanning beds to get my skin tone while claiming my skin tone is not desired.
@honeybee19892 Absolutely right. I have actually heard this weird comment be told to me and another MLS woman. It was very strange. I told her, dark skin is beautiful as well so I didn't understand why she was saying that to us. But it was because she felt insecure about her own skin tone because it was pale and remarked upon as being lackluster by some males who's attention she wanted I later found out . She felt very insecure that some men wanted MLS women over her, or thought that MLS women were more attractive in their eyes. I didn't understand why she thought attacking the women that the men she liked thought were attractive would have made her look better to them.
One time I was working in a doctors office environment and a cracked out muppet looking hairless spynx cat white woman had the audacity to give me a dirty look after someone complimented me on my red braids.
I’ve encountered just as many jealous white women as black women. I’ve heard them talk about hating me for my body, wishing they had my butt, wishing for my complexion, etc. Usually they were nice, some were even on that 🏳️🌈and flirting 😝, but some were hateful-cutting eyes and venom and all. That’s usually from the mayo monsters among them 😆. I just carry on and smile, unbothered. I’ve never been jealous of another woman so I can’t relate lol
It's because women in general are naturally frenemies by nature. I realized the reason for this is because biologically, women are meant to be influenced by their Husband...but in today's culture, single women/hookup culture has many women being forced into forced mutual "friendships" that would never have existed 200 years ago
@@EriPages this is the craziest lie I’ve ever read. Women aren’t the naturally competitive sex, men are. It’s male nature, hence why mammalian males always fight for the females, and not the other way around. Women always lived in cohesive communities together, it was always best for women and children as a support network. Males invented marriage to own women and children like property and to separate us from our sisters-and our only true community and protection. Males are predators, and we never were supposed to live with them alone and away from our fellow women. Look at how domestic abuse skyrockets once the woman is isolated. These are factors that are scientifically and statistically proven, how can you come up with a false alternate reality?
@@ravenrebel3183I don't persue any women regardless of race. Women regardless of race more needy for validation and attention than men are.I had a white women tell me "i only date white guys" Even though i didn't even approach her. Blackwomen basically want men to worship them. So i just avoid women and don't want to bring their miserable unhappy negativity in my life
You make me feel so much better 😭 I’m a MLS woman and I’m plus size but I’m built beautifully and ofc I always attract male attention and it’s always the frumpy build white women who harassed me my entire life 😭😭😭 you really described my day to day life (I have white coworkers) , thank you !!!
My Latina sister in laws hated and plotted against me since I married into the family. One of them would act so mean and try to make me feel left out I was sure it was racism. Her husband ended up divorcing her and then her new boyfriend was an Unambiguous black man. It all made sense!! 😂
Curiously and respectfully,what were the ethnicity of your in-laws and husband? I wouldn't be surprised majority of Latina females can be very low-key or high-key catty towards either non-latinas and/or half-latinas,if they find-out any woman got no Hispanic in her after married into the Hispanic family,the full/part non-hispanic women would be officially on the shït list of the Hispanic females. This is one of the reasons why I don't fūçk with females, regardless of their backgrounds
@@Universityofuncommonsense the phenotypes are similar because Latinas are mixed as well. I’m Latina(Dominican to be exact) and I’ve never heard such thing about us being haters. I’ve been following and supporting this channel cause she has spoken in support of all MLS, never thought the comments would turn against us 🥴
@@daughterofeveandhateroflil2683yes, as a half-Latina and half-black woman, I’ve dealt with this too. Although I wonder how much is cultural. Like, most Latin ethnicities are insular and don’t care much for outsiders “getting in”. I spoke English as a first language and my husband is very white passing/white, though Latino and mixed. Other Latinas would say slick things in Spanish that can interpreted as either rude or just too cozy. I was never a shrinking violet so I defend myself, but you could tell they were jealous ESPECIALLY since I didn’t have to bust my butt working like they did. Bitter!
I’m secure in myself and my own beauty to give women of all races their flowers if they are beautiful. I don’t get the superiority complex white women have when it comes to beauty because there are mixed women and black women prettier than me but. I don’t feel a need to weight them down
“Will flame your ass so bad” 😂😂😂😂 Thank you for posting this I grew up in that community sort of. From when I was a teenager even my high school teachers would stand together saying out loud “who does she think she is” Lmao I feel like it has to do with men they feel like white men would prefer you even if your not into white men at all. That’s all they care about. And it also starts from young for them. Like I said the worst I’ve had with them was a two polish “models” who drugged me then started stalking and hacking me. Anyways I’d say even if people do think exotic women are lying that it’s not possible to for white women to be jealous because they’re seen as the standards I don’t bat an eye. Because I know I don’t even have to do my hair and makeup or dress the nines im naturally pretty so all I have to do is BREATH and they’ll be attacking me my existence just annoys the racist insecure ones. And that’s just a protection from them jealous people can’t hide their jealousy so people can think what they want but at the end of the day we ALL know that deep they’re burning.
Me too . I get treated so differently by blacks and some whites. I feel we are threat. We still not white enough and not black enough, and sometimes men and or women may find us pleasing and this is not allowed. I live in an affluent community and the white women feel like they are entitled and deserve the best of life . The rural white women absolutely can’t stand beautiful black , mixed or light skinned women my experience 95% of the time.
When I travel to the whole foods store , several ww , and wm would stare at me, just for fun I would hilariously stare at them for a second with a smile , just to let them know we're good. It was funny to Me. When I wear my hair scarfs OMG I would still get the stares , as long as they try not to stalk me we are good 😆
Some Ww with bm tend to try and befriend me and let me know how culturally aware they are - they can cook rice and peas etc, some try to act "black" to impress me. Some, need to get competitive, some are just plain intimidated by me, a msl woman, despite the fact Im in a relationship.
My backwater becky sister in laws (yeah both of them) are like this. One worse than the other since she's a queen bee in her small town. She lost her mind as soon as a met the family and has competed with me (dragging my MIL into it) ever since. Clowns.
The overweight white lady sounds like by ex boss, she would always give me a hard time like straighten up books on the bookshelf when i leave but never gave onyone else a hard time. I didn't know why she acts like that around me. She was known for being rude and a lot people quit because of her. She is also a adopted mother of 3 dsbm. One had a history with teenage girls at a high school and went to jail.
@@FoundSheep-AN what kind of question is this? What's make you think what I said is "racist" to you? I thought non-WP can't be racist but prejudice,am I prejudice? I don't think so
Armenian they are the actual caucasian people so they counted as southwest asian people. That friend of yours wow she didn't notice her own phenotype is beautiful. I look the picture of armenian girl they are beautiful but is unfortunate she didn't improve herself
Mixed or light skinned . When I say mixed I mean of any complexion (including dark skinned mixed people) and when I say light skinned I mean monoracial light skinned people like Tyra banks
Pick me is a term that is used when women are man centered and tend to focus more towards marking other women feel bad about themselves to seem superior to them but deep down that’s just deep rooted insecurity. Hope that helps 😊
Exactly!! Thanks for speaking on this. 🩷 it happens on all sides. I can sense their discomfort or being triggered when the attention is diverted or threat of the attention being diverted to me. Unfortunately, I’m so used to it being a side effect of being pretty.
Unrelated but that last story is making me have flashbacks to when this guy on my undergrad campus would be a weird religious stalker trying to proselytize me for being goth/alternative. "Yeah this guy is going to try and burn me at the stake if he gets me alone." 🫠🔥
I’ve gotten the invasive questions that I’ve gotten from unambiguous-Black women but with more curiosity to confirm versus an attempt to shade (if that makes sense):
-Is that your real hair?
-Did you perm your hair?
-Are you wearing makeup? Your skin looks flawless.
-Are those your real lashes? They’re so long.
Shadier question:
-Who’s your “doctor”? (When trying to imply that you bought your body versus just being born with your shape/ working out.
Non-BW can be just as bothered as BW… SO, I prefer to be around CONFIDENT women who are not desperate for the male gaze because they are used to getting attention in general… regardless of race; those are the only women who happen to manage their insecurities well, if they have any in the first place.
OOOOOOOOOOOOH omg so true! One time someone was like “so where did you BUY your eyelashes from?” (Implying that my lashes were fake) they weren’t . Lmao
@@ExoticalsUnited Isn’t it funny the things that we NEVER have to think about that are brought to our attention by OTHER non-MLS women??? Like DUDE… STOP! 😩😂
A lot of MLS women I know, including myself, have naturally long/ full lashes and full eyebrows. Pretty eye shapes…
Oh and for those of us who have full lips?! Non-Black people have obsessed over my lips. Not in a bad way but like a fetish. That’s the one physical trait that WW in particular seem sad/ obsessive over compared to BW who generally have full lips and therefore, nothing to compare. It’s all very exhausting because I have never been invested in the physical traits of another woman unless I admired and wanted to genuinely compliment said other woman.
The type of thought process that someone has to go undergo in order to formulate an invasive question and actually vocalize said question will never not be SAD. I wished that more women learned to love and accept themselves more. It’s the only way they would stop being invested in those of us who are simply existing 💁🏽♀️😌
It was WW jealous on MLS women hair in Louisiana that got laws forcing MLS women to cover up their hair.
Tignon law!
It wouldn't have made a difference anyway. I bet many of the creole women still looked beautiful with their headscarves on which must have made them more angry 😂
@@honeybee19892💯😂
@@honeybee19892this is actually historically true. They wanted to downplay the beauty of woc and instead highlighted the beauty of said women.
@@LaFlor718interesting. Doesn't surprise me..
These stories are cathartic. I had WW actively try to fire me because the men they wanted liked me. A lot of these dusty dudes didnt have teeth. I was so offended that they thought I would want any of them. WW are notoriously envious/jealous.
Omg yes! I need to tell the story time about my accounting supervisor who would change up her whole entire VOICE around men in the office . She was a pick me for all races of men (white dusties, black dusties, she loved every shade of dust) I was like who ARE you?! she even tried to change up her personality over a guy who was at least 15 years younger than her I was like wtf?
@@ExoticalsUnited I am not surprised in the least! There was one job I had in a grocery store on base. I was a stocker. The woman who wanted her own harem of dusty D was caught blowing the gross dudes in her car AND One of our youngest workers was a guy straight out of high school and she denied having children and said she was in an open marriage. She was so upset that other men liked me. And this was in the south and when I say most of these men did not have their teeth I mean if they had three two were in their pocket.
No teeth 😅
😂😂😂
Yep I have experienced this from white and Indian women. I don't think white women get called out enough for their jealousy
OOOOOOOOOOOOOH OMG I NEED TO DO A VIDEO ON THE INDIAN LADY FROM NY FIRST ACCOUNTING JOB 😂😂😂 she was a psycho omg ☠️
@@ExoticalsUnitedyep I worked with a couple of weird Indian women trying to sabotage me at work who enjoyed talking down to me. I believe some of them look down on and think they are better than black or mixed black women.
Facts they hate to see you be more confident than them.
Yup!
Ive literally had white women GRAB their boyfriend/husbands closer to them when they see me approaching and give me the most dirty look possible. Ive always been confused by them doing that 🤦🏾♀️
Yessss! I’ve been through this many times. I interned for the state attorney and dressed really well because I was also on the executive board of my sorority. A sad Karen actually lied and said I didn’t fulfill my internship hours to keep me from graduating. The attorneys I worked with stood up for me to say I completed my hours. And I was invited out by the attorneys on both sides for lunch. And to add there was an unambiguous black woman of Jamaican heritage who was a state attorney and she was freaking stunning and so smart. Every time the mean ww came for me she pulled me into her office and helped me out. Confident women don’t attack others and there is no one more protective and loving than a comfortable and confident bw.
Yes they freaking are! Especially the white women that screw black men. I have had that experience myself.
Omg yes! To this day I can’t even remember that woman’s name ! I was just thinking why is she so obsessed with me when she doesn’t even know me and I barely ever speak to her ? 😂
Karens STAY wanting to be my friend, recognizing every yt man was staring at me and not them- they don't understand that fetishization is VERY disrespectful. -__-
Yes Omg! Also not every mixed chick wants a white guy. They don’t seem to understand this
i may not agree with everything you say but i respect you for this so much lmao😂. many other accounts centering exoticals like to put nonblack people on a pedestal and pretend like it’s completely unheard of for an mls woman to have had negative experiences with them.
And you’re so right!!!! They date dark skinned black men! And when they see you they get insecure passive aggressive and very upset with you 🤣🤣
When I worked at my last job, I had 2 white girls that couldn't stand me... to the point that one of them told the job wasn't hiring when i showed up for my interview! Like I Said "Stank Coochie Energy"...
Nothing like a jealous bitter Karen. It's truly something to study 😂
Yes they do get jealous. You handled their passive aggression with grace. This reminds me of kat grahams cast members being jealous of her and a older cast member ( a woman) being really passive agressive with her because of her looks. That last story with the ministers was hilarious.
@@ginelliaamira6953 yes I heard they killed her off the show. If she was an average looking chick , I'm show they would all be comfortable and not threatened. I heard she was a really good actress plus she is pretty and that can threaten both men and women. I didn't really knew she suffered racism , that's terrible.
Oh you’re so right!! The passive aggressive and the micro aggressive behaviors and comments are ridiculous.
@@SkinLikeCaramel exactly!
From what I’ve noticed, those women were at their prime in their teen years back in the day. The pressure to act grown, smoke, drink, and settle down (or abuse) had them tied down and used up before they had their own identity. They see a beautiful woman full of life, and they are overwhelmed with bitter grief at what was lost, or taken from them. No excuse to hate, of course, but it’s a factor. Kindness wins❤
I am white eastern European and northern European. My ad mixture is less the 25%, my great grandma is Arabic. That part of my fam was early Arabic immigrants to the USA. But I inherited the curly que hair from the arabic side. I had so many none curly cue girls hating on my hair I swtg. saying stuff out loud to me like "omg youre hair is so terrible you should cut it off it looks like a frizzy rats nest like oh my gah" none curlies And other white girls hating, because i was white looking like them but have unique hair, super thick curly hair for a white girl.
Yup! They were extremely jealous
Yeah i do notice alot of WW have an off vibe with me especially when they date black men.
Those are really the only ones that gave me any trouble when I was younger… The ones who had a preference for BM
I'm Mixed Race and non-black women hate me all the time you can be a pretty woman, but you can't be pretty and Mixed Race because you are seen as a threat. Alot of the Latina and Afro-Latina women at my job know that I'm Mixed Race/Bi-racial but they want to think with the one drop rule and push me off as being 100% black because of jealousy. It makes them feel superior to enforce the one drop rule on you it makes them feel better about themselves if they can call you black instead of Mixed Race.
I’ve posted this on another video..Let me tell you I served in the Air Force. I’m on the darker side of the color wheel but I’ve had ppl literally stop and record me because they thought I should model or was a model. Anyways, the white girls in that Air Force gym EVERYTIME I would come in like fit and fine they would Swarm like a bunch of angry wasp or something. They all had black bfs and even tho it was other black women in the gym I was always harassed and had passive aggressive digs being thrown at me. Honestly it was an ego boost. White girls and Filipino girls especially in Vegas can not stand a beautiful colored girl. Weather that’s super light skinned or super dark skinned. Keep up the good work!
Exactly . This narrative that white women aren’t threatened by WOC is laughable . people sometimes hide behind r@cism to hide their jealousy in the same way people hide behind colorism texturism or featurism.
🤣🤣🤣 This is so relatable! I think I've experienced so much jealousy throughout my life that I started gaslighting myself about it. "Maybe I'm overthinking things or, maybe I'm being narcissistic?" But after hearing all of these story times and getting flashbacks to my own experiences, I know I'm not crazy! Love your content!!
Damn we get it from both sides 🤦🏽
Growing up, my white friends spent a lot of time and money trying to tan themselves to a color close to my natural skin tone. White women can *definitely* can be jealous of MLS women
When I was in my mid twenties, I had a female boss who made it her mission to make my life miserable.She was so jealous it bordered insanity! I am tall and slim. I’ve never really dieted but I do try to eat healthy. My style is classic feminine. I love to wear dresses and my hair in curls. My boss would always make a point to talk about how I dressed and say things like, “what’s the occasion?” Keep in mind this was an office job in the fashion retail industry. We were required to dress up. Not necessarily dresses but dressy type slacks, blouses, heels etc. no jeans! She would make comments about how thin I was and ask, “don’t you eat.” One time she told me she and the owner of the company were talking about my skin and how smooth it was. She said she couldn’t believe I didn’t have one wrinkle or eye bags. At first she would make little comments and act like she was just joking but over time it got worst to the point she would try to find excuses to write me up. Then one day someone brought in mini cheese cakes for everyone. My boss told me to go eat some cheesecake. I said no thanks. Well, she started screaming at me in front of the whole office,
“Would it really kill you to eat cheese cake?! What’s the problem? Afraid you’re going to gain a pound?”
I'm not biracial, but man have I had my fair share of jealousy from non-black women. In secondary school I remember befriending this Italian girl, who would continuously talk down on me out of jealousy and in some cases would physically harm me with slaps and pushes. It got so bad that I had to move schools. On top of that, her friend joining in on the bullying was a dark skinned somali girl who would do weired things like compare her skintone to mine, then scoff simply because she had a darker tone; always asking me whether I thought I was pretty 😓
That sounds awful. I'm so sorry.
In my personal experience, it was usually the WW that had a preference for Blek males.
I remember, when I was 9 years old and have a cute pink shirt it was an “off the shoulder” shirt but you can barely see my shoulders a. Teacher called me out and said that “decent girls don’t wear clothes like that” … she was a fridge as well lol 😂
LOL! What a role model 🤣 I swear the jealousy we endure as Exoticals starts as soon as we're born!!
Thanks to things like the "ig baddies" era
A lot of girls everywhere began to go after a new idealized specific look.
Like full lips, olive or golden tanned skin (shimmery glamour look) with loose waves or curles.
Whether natural or not bc everyone began to follow it. Everyone.
Mixed girls heavily popularized the new the it-girl look even if some dont like to say it.
Indigenous americas/northwest european girl here :3 , &
❤your channel
Thanks !
Oh ladies be sure you document these incidences....use you looks to your advantage...I documented for 2 yrs and went to HR and CRIED (like they do)....the ww got in BIG TROUBLE...
Yup I used to do that all the time, crying to HR
Damn finally this is being unapologetically addressed !
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Yesssssss it’s time we speak up for ourselves !
Yes 💯 💯💯💯💥 That's right ✅️
White women are very big pick mes. I love my mom and she’s a married woman but she’s always like “well you gotta dress sexy because men like that” like why can’t I dress like that for myself. She also said that men don’t like women who have sexual knowledge but my dad chimed in and said “yes we do” 😂😂
I’ve noticed a lot of older white women make sexually harassing comments to younger women about how their clothes are too “distracting to men.”
When I was 17 I was invited at a house party and my boyfriend at the time and the other guy that really like me. Got into a fight at the party because I danced with the other guy that liked me. So my black boyfriend had a white chick that really liked him with a car and she was like "oh come on David forget about her get in the car"! Haha so that let me know that they were sleeping around with each other. He didnt want to get into her car. He wanted to escort me home so he could be with me.
😂😂😂 I’m not surprised smh!
im not even basically mixed. my ethnicity is louisiana creole but I do have people who ask me what im mixed with, and a lot of ww but especially older ones, are very jealous.
Yup
Also same thing happened to me with getting fired. I was waitressing at a famous hotel I think it’s one of drakes fave. most WW guests there are nice I’ve noticed the richer a white woman is the less she hates me no matter how she looks. If she does hate me she’s usually my age or younger but it’s rare they’re usually super nice.
But for SOME reason this blond lady noticed all the attention I was getting from the men as in they’d come up to me talk to me compliment me request for my managers to let me come outside with them. The blond older lady was FUMING she called me a slut and was like get her out of here! But yeah the next day I was fired.
Or another time I was waitressing for a horse race course for the “old money”types according to some of the males that a lot of people heard about me from downstairs and even my managers didn’t understand why so many of them were coming up but I had a name the “beautiful waitress” and they were all coming up to see me of course the WW staff who were with me were PISSED and started embarrassing on our way home isolating me making comments about the name I was given. And laughing.
I’m not saying other women aren’t jealous it’s just the fact that their jealousy is just filled with rage and deranged behaviour which can cause harm to others. And I never understood it cause I know the beauty Standard is meant to be them and I’m cool with it cause it’s not really my country it’s normal for someone who is white to be a standard in her own land but what I don’t understand is if you have been made a standard in some way why bully and attack others who are not or only reach the standard half way. Unless you yourself know the whole standard of beauty stuff is CAP.
girl its ALWAYS a unattractive hillbilly becky ...its NEVER pretty WW...like a christina hendricks pretty never beef but redneck rita from my 600 lb life lol
Omg same! I will never understand why some ww who literally look like the beauty standard will pay attention to somebody else who only looks half the beauty standard (I'm mixed with a "black nose") like if you guys are the beauty standard why are you paying attention to somebody else? Why even bother? It's like they themselves question the beauty standard I can't🤣
@@camilafoglia7345 bc they know that beauty standard is a myth LOL
@@sirenthomas4595 exactly lmao
Ur so right, ESPECIALLY THE BLACK WOMEN WHO DATE BLACK DUSTY MEN 😭😭😭
I’m a white woman but I am not jealous of any other race but I think black woman are really beautiful and have a divinity like no other⚖️🌷I envy their beauty
Yay! Thanks for watching !
No don't be jealous you know your better. Your richer, prettier, and probably have a husband unlike them.
@@marleythomas3414keep telling yourself that loser
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I'm age 60, British bi racial. My oldest friend since we were both age 5, first day at school. Still friends, she has always been there for me in my lowest times. When I finally moved out of her place owing her money, she cried because she missed me, she didnt care about the money. Only found this out 30 years later. We are still best friends. My other best friend, we met age 12 - saved my sanity. Both of them are white and irreplaceable - no one can ever come close to these ladies. I trust them with my life and they trust me.
I love how you are giving such fair, balanced and truthful commentary on what is really going on with MLS women and people as far as our very relatable to one another experiences! This stuff is hardly ever talked about but happens all the time! Which is why I didn't ever understand why unambiguous BW could never accept that we MLS women understand full well what discrimination and harrassment for who we are entails. We get it from both sides. Unambiguous black, white, latin and asian women come for us! They will use similar tactics to the monoracial BW trying to humble us , will use our exotic physical characteristics to try to humble us or attack us literally in front of an audience most times.
The jealousy is often not talked about by monoracial BW and some latinas and asians because they pedastalize WW. They will try to deny that WW could be jealous of MLS women , just like they deny that they are also jealous of the attention we recieve. They really seem to hate that whatever blackness we have with whatever other admixture just churns out some very beautiful looks that often have others angry and willing to try and sabotage or bully MLS women for possessing this type of beauty. We often grow up confused about why we get it from all sides. Growing up and understanding that it is often just extreme jealously explains a lot.
The using similar tactics to bring us down makes me think of one white girl even said to me once in front of others at school that my tan skin tone is not special because Indians have similar skin tone and that chocolate darker skin tone is better.
Such a strange and racist thing to say using racism and pitting different ethnicities against each other. Both tan and dark skin is beautiful.
Meanwhile these white girls are sitting on tanning beds to get my skin tone while claiming my skin tone is not desired.
@honeybee19892 Absolutely right. I have actually heard this weird comment be told to me and another MLS woman. It was very strange. I told her, dark skin is beautiful as well so I didn't understand why she was saying that to us. But it was because she felt insecure about her own skin tone because it was pale and remarked upon as being lackluster by some males who's attention she wanted I later found out . She felt very insecure that some men wanted MLS women over her, or thought that MLS women were more attractive in their eyes.
I didn't understand why she thought attacking the women that the men she liked thought were attractive would have made her look better to them.
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One time I was working in a doctors office environment and a cracked out muppet looking hairless spynx cat white woman had the audacity to give me a dirty look after someone complimented me on my red braids.
Not a muppet 😭
I’ve encountered just as many jealous white women as black women. I’ve heard them talk about hating me for my body, wishing they had my butt, wishing for my complexion, etc. Usually they were nice, some were even on that 🏳️🌈and flirting 😝, but some were hateful-cutting eyes and venom and all. That’s usually from the mayo monsters among them 😆. I just carry on and smile, unbothered. I’ve never been jealous of another woman so I can’t relate lol
It's because women in general are naturally frenemies by nature.
I realized the reason for this is because biologically, women are meant to be influenced by their Husband...but in today's culture, single women/hookup culture has many women being forced into forced mutual "friendships" that would never have existed 200 years ago
@@EriPages this is the craziest lie I’ve ever read. Women aren’t the naturally competitive sex, men are. It’s male nature, hence why mammalian males always fight for the females, and not the other way around. Women always lived in cohesive communities together, it was always best for women and children as a support network. Males invented marriage to own women and children like property and to separate us from our sisters-and our only true community and protection. Males are predators, and we never were supposed to live with them alone and away from our fellow women. Look at how domestic abuse skyrockets once the woman is isolated. These are factors that are scientifically and statistically proven, how can you come up with a false alternate reality?
@@ravenrebel3183 You've been brainwashed into fearing men, feminist-satanist woman.
@@ravenrebel3183I don't persue any women regardless of race. Women regardless of race more needy for validation and attention than men are.I had a white women tell me "i only date white guys" Even though i didn't even approach her. Blackwomen basically want men to worship them. So i just avoid women and don't want to bring their miserable unhappy negativity in my life
I’m loving your storytimes!!
Yay! I’ve got more coming soon 😂
But you went TF off though on that intro 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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I get it from mostly Latina women (besides monoracial black women), for some reason.
You make me feel so much better 😭 I’m a MLS woman and I’m plus size but I’m built beautifully and ofc I always attract male attention and it’s always the frumpy build white women who harassed me my entire life 😭😭😭 you really described my day to day life (I have white coworkers) , thank you !!!
My Latina sister in laws hated and plotted against me since I married into the family. One of them would act so mean and try to make me feel left out I was sure it was racism. Her husband ended up divorcing her and then her new boyfriend was an Unambiguous black man. It all made sense!! 😂
Curiously and respectfully,what were the ethnicity of your in-laws and husband?
I wouldn't be surprised majority of Latina females can be very low-key or high-key catty towards either non-latinas and/or half-latinas,if they find-out any woman got no Hispanic in her after married into the Hispanic family,the full/part non-hispanic women would be officially on the shït list of the Hispanic females. This is one of the reasons why I don't fūçk with females, regardless of their backgrounds
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@@daughterofeveandhateroflil2683 our husbands were brothers and they are Filipino.
@@Universityofuncommonsense the phenotypes are similar because Latinas are mixed as well. I’m Latina(Dominican to be exact) and I’ve never heard such thing about us being haters. I’ve been following and supporting this channel cause she has spoken in support of all MLS, never thought the comments would turn against us 🥴
@@daughterofeveandhateroflil2683yes, as a half-Latina and half-black woman, I’ve dealt with this too. Although I wonder how much is cultural. Like, most Latin ethnicities are insular and don’t care much for outsiders “getting in”. I spoke English as a first language and my husband is very white passing/white, though Latino and mixed. Other Latinas would say slick things in Spanish that can interpreted as either rude or just too cozy. I was never a shrinking violet so I defend myself, but you could tell they were jealous ESPECIALLY since I didn’t have to bust my butt working like they did. Bitter!
Do any MLS women have white women who get mad when MLS men try to talk to you and try to sabotage the conversation?
OMG I NEED TO MAKE A VIDEO ABOUT THIS
Oh could you make a counter tactics video? Like how to shut down people in these scenarios?
Oooooooooh that’s a great idea ! Coming right up 😂 I can use my personal tactics of what I’ve done . Some are nice, some are not 😈
@@rykie8081 lol yessss I love it
@@ExoticalsUnited thank you! Both nice and nasty are great for broad use!
Just stay calm and collected. NEVER lose it.
I’m secure in myself and my own beauty to give women of all races their flowers if they are beautiful. I don’t get the superiority complex white women have when it comes to beauty because there are mixed women and black women prettier than me but. I don’t feel a need to weight them down
“Will flame your ass so bad” 😂😂😂😂
Thank you for posting this I grew up in that community sort of. From when I was a teenager even my high school teachers would stand together saying out loud “who does she think she is”
Lmao I feel like it has to do with men they feel like white men would prefer you even if your not into white men at all. That’s all they care about. And it also starts from young for them.
Like I said the worst I’ve had with them was a two polish “models” who drugged me then started stalking and hacking me.
Anyways I’d say even if people do think exotic women are lying that it’s not possible to for white women to be jealous because they’re seen as the standards I don’t bat an eye. Because I know I don’t even have to do my hair and makeup or dress the nines im naturally pretty so all I have to do is BREATH and they’ll be attacking me my existence just annoys the racist insecure ones. And that’s just a protection from them jealous people can’t hide their jealousy so people can think what they want but at the end of the day we ALL know that deep they’re burning.
"Pickmeisms"😂 I love your roasts
Refrigerator body, I’m so dead!🤣🤣🤣
I'm going through this situation with white and monoracial black people I work with.
Me too . I get treated so differently by blacks and some whites. I feel we are threat. We still not white enough and not black enough, and sometimes men and or women may find us pleasing and this is not allowed. I live in an affluent community and the white women feel like they are entitled and deserve the best of life . The rural white women absolutely can’t stand beautiful black , mixed or light skinned women my experience 95% of the time.
You had me rolling at certain points of this video LMAO...so relatable
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When I travel to the whole foods store , several ww , and wm would stare at me, just for fun I would hilariously stare at them for a second with a smile , just to let them know we're good. It was funny to Me. When I wear my hair scarfs OMG I would still get the stares , as long as they try not to stalk me we are good 😆
Some Ww with bm tend to try and befriend me and let me know how culturally aware they are - they can cook rice and peas etc, some try to act "black" to impress me. Some, need to get competitive, some are just plain intimidated by me, a msl woman, despite the fact Im in a relationship.
I have never heard of "MLS women" 😂
More stories please 😂
My backwater becky sister in laws (yeah both of them) are like this. One worse than the other since she's a queen bee in her small town. She lost her mind as soon as a met the family and has competed with me (dragging my MIL into it) ever since. Clowns.
This video is so real!!
I live for these stories ❤
Omg yay! I need to share more on here then! I didn’t think you guys cared about storytimes
@@ExoticalsUnited oh definitely!! I love this channel
Finally!!! This right here 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
yasssss we need to talk about the jealousy.
The overweight white lady sounds like by ex boss, she would always give me a hard time like straighten up books on the bookshelf when i leave but never gave onyone else a hard time. I didn't know why she acts like that around me. She was known for being rude and a lot people quit because of her. She is also a adopted mother of 3 dsbm. One had a history with teenage girls at a high school and went to jail.
OHHHHHH so she has called it out before 😁❤️❤️❤️
This is why I've always say "Whïtē🐕🦺🐕🐩🐶 ain't 💩!" I said what I said and to be frank,IDC! 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️💅🏽
@@FoundSheep-AN what kind of question is this? What's make you think what I said is "racist" to you? I thought non-WP can't be racist but prejudice,am I prejudice? I don't think so
Loving the content ❤️
This is so refreshing and hilarious! I’ve had similar experiences with women lol.
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Im white and Hispanic, i dont know if that is considered MLS but i see what youre saying.
No, but you know your better.
@@marleythomas3414 ?
It could be. If your Hispanic side is of some African descent ❤❤❤
What does MLS stand for ?
Thank you for sharing your stories.
A pick me is born/created every day 🎉🎉🎉
MLS Woman is what?
Mixed/and or light skinned (multi generational)
Armenian they are the actual caucasian people so they counted as southwest asian people. That friend of yours wow she didn't notice her own phenotype is beautiful. I look the picture of armenian girl they are beautiful but is unfortunate she didn't improve herself
What’s mls
Mixed or light skinned . When I say mixed I mean of any complexion (including dark skinned mixed people) and when I say light skinned I mean monoracial light skinned people like Tyra banks
Amen!!!!
What is mls ?
What does mls mean?
Mixed or light skinned
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Muahaha yes more stories of white ppl it’s more interesting
Hi
So true Becky wants to be me and is obsessed with me
❤😂 isn’t it the truth baby 😅 your dad likes me I guess that angers you
What is pick me culture
Pick me is a term that is used when women are man centered and tend to focus more towards marking other women feel bad about themselves to seem superior to them but deep down that’s just deep rooted insecurity. Hope that helps 😊
Exactly!! Thanks for speaking on this. 🩷 it happens on all sides. I can sense their discomfort or being triggered when the attention is diverted or threat of the attention being diverted to me. Unfortunately, I’m so used to it being a side effect of being pretty.
Unrelated but that last story is making me have flashbacks to when this guy on my undergrad campus would be a weird religious stalker trying to proselytize me for being goth/alternative.
"Yeah this guy is going to try and burn me at the stake if he gets me alone." 🫠🔥