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- Caught My Narcissistic Sister Admitting That She Fabricated Cheating Allegations About My Fiancé to Ruin Our Wedding.
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Timestamp-
0:00 - Story 1
16:47 - Story 2
Remember kids, when you get married you also get all the inlaws. Lucas dodged a bullet from the whole family
Yeah Lucas really did dodge a bullet
It seemed like it was just Diana that was that way though, then again the first story doesn’t really mention the in-laws
That man dodged a hole nuke
Dodged an ICBM
@Cumstain6900 what's a hole nuke? A nuke with a hole going all the way through in the middle so it looks like a donut, or....
The most disgusting thing about the first story was the drugging and the SA, and how Diana got away with it... had the roles been reversed, Lucas would've been behind bars.
#believeallwomen lol
EXACTLY!! I hope he presses charges when he's done healing tbh
@@l0rdapophis Sadly nothing will come of it. He did not get tested for drugs from what we can tell from the story, I'm sure that would have been proof Lucas would have tried to use.
Without that proof it's a he said she said situation, OP would only allow a little weight to the story due to the issues at hand and I doubt Diane's BF/EX(?) would be willing to testify due to being incriminated himself.
Lol nope most of rapists don't even get reported to begin with...
So its exactly the same like if he be a woman...
But yes it is SUPER annoying
@@morganablackwater2017 there would be proof with a rape kit. A man doesn't have that luxury
I honest don't feel sorry for op in story 1 she knew her sister was a prick since she was a kid a yet still took her in and believed her bad sister even her parents don't trust or like
She wrote the post in self-reflection. However, she thought her parents were goading her into a rebellious phase. Because of that, most red flags seemed planted and she learned to ignore them.
The fact that she still gave her Sister money in the end says more about her
She seems naive and idiotic tbh.
It seems her sister was good at lying and manipulation. Her parents saw through it. But op was too naive.
They both suck
So, no mention of op reabilitating lucas reputation, no mention of her exposing the sister to everyone, no attempt of reconding a confession from her of her ex boyfriend that helped her in order to sue her (because, you know, rape?)
Instead she decides to give her money
While I don't blame her for believing the sister her course of actions once she found the truth shows how the guy dodged a bullet
it's called a tragic tragedy tragic tragedy story
*missile
Both sisters were terrible. Lucas needs to find a better partner
There was no need to save Lucas' reputation because op didn't revealed his "cheating" to the public.
@@ImperativeGamesshe did say that the only reason she didn't reveal it herself was because she knew everyone would find out on their own anyways
So, he was drugged, sa'd by the sister and he wasn't even heard by the ex. Well Lucas dodged a 100 megaton nuke. He needs to go NC when she comes with those stupid apologies because im the end she didnt trusted him. And even his reputation is ruined and sadly that will never fully recover
Well she had bias, and she got visual evidence it's hard prove otherwise. Its like someone looks like they're cheating they are, doesn't have to be. Although she did wrong but for the right reasons. She can learn.
@@meruem6995ujjoooopleas she had an history of trying to make him cheat op is just dumb
Her fault for not getting down to the bottom of it instead of focusing on keeping her sister's image. She knew that her sister was a nightmare and a gold digger so now she needs to face the consequences and learn that she needs to now deal with the situation because she is a big girl. Now she has to learn from her mistakes and will now have to get herself back on track.
@@meruem6995ujjoooo no she won't. The bf never has any behavior indicating he was cheating. This showed him she never trusted him. I hope Lucas never reconciles with her. The only victim here was him.in the end like she said she never give second chances, and she won't get hers either.
story 1: Lucas dodged a bullet
Had quite some relationships ruined by ex girlfriends listening to bullshit friends told them out of malice, jealousy, whatever. I am the kind of Guy you hate or love, understand, that you get or don't get. So naturally i always find myself with one or another relative, friend, ex of them that despises me. Lession learned: people listening to others are toxic, maturing means making up your own mind! Input is valuable but filtering it with mind and reason is a core requirement for any healthy grown up. Letting a mere image about a person decide your feelings is about as childish as it gets
A bullet? A fucking cannonball.
@@lucarioshipper4498100 megaton hidrogen bomb
@@lucarioshipper4498 a cannibal, a whole freaking atomic bomb
@@lucarioshipper4498 im saying it to be funny not to one up u
Lucas dodged a nuke there it is sad that he was SA'd and then got portrayed as a cheater, shame on the 2 sisters, if OP has an inkling of humanity she would get evidence about her sisters actions and give it to lucas so that he can get justice.
she wouldn't. she's been excusing her sister's bad behavior all her life and knows how messed up she is. she never once tried to acknowledge any of the countless mistakes she made. Lucas is better off away from that trainwreck of a family since they only seem to care about themselves
Lucas was taking care of a 16 SAd sister. Op was taking care of a woman child. Not the same. I think Op is stupid, not made a bad choice, but genuinely short bus. But I would be insulting the children that have no choice. I wish Lucas would press charges for technical SA.
Lucas' only mistake is that he didn't go to the police to report that he'd been drugged. They could've taken a blood sample to prove he wasn't himself, which would've given credence to his claims that she spiked his drink.
Then OP would've had something to go off of. But OP too should've suggested this as a first course of action, rather than immediately jump to swearing and physical assault/battery.
@@krel7160eh thats iffy. One claim from the sister and he'd be the one in jail, not her.
@@krel7160but since it dindt work she can sue her sister once she found out the truth right?
*NOPE*
Dear Lucas, wherever you are right now, I just hope that you never went back with OP and and learn your lesson to never marry anyone whose family never accept you but stay in your partner life. This includes your ex that you seemingly ack together with. You are just leaping from one crocodile mouth into another.
Story 1:
OP is almost as bad as her sister (maybe worse in some ways).
Her loyal fiance was drugged and SA'd by OP's sister right in front of her. He was then slandered all over town, damaging his career, and any support he might have gotten from friends (some of whom likely abandoned him).
On top of that, OP screamed curses at him, called him a liar, directly told him that the woman who SA'd him was more important than him, and SLAPPED HIM.
All of that, and she expressed absolutely zero concern for HIS wellbeing. Men have ended themselves over less trauma than all that.
She said not a word about taking responsibility for her own actions. It was all self pitying crap about what SHE missed out on, and everything was the sister's fault.
Did she tell fiance to get a blood test for what he was drugged with? Maybe find the wine bottle and test that? Did she try to get the letter tested by a professional to see if it was fiance's writing? She had the money for both if needed. Did she just trust the man she agreed to marry?
No. She decided to hurt him emotionally and physically instead.
Even once she knew the truth, she said nothing about trying to clear his name or restore some of the reputation he'd lost. She didn't care about him at all.
Both sisters are narcissists, or at least deeply self centered and unempathetic.
I dont know about the slandering name part since she did say she said nothing about what happened when asked because she believed karma would expose his true self later on and she doesn't believe in soiling people's names,
However,
I agree with the get his blood tested part. Like thats the first thing that went through my head. I really feel bad for that dude. Honesty she wouldn't be a great wife imo because if you said yes to someone that you supposedly love, then that means you trust and know their character. Why didnt she rely back on those at the time? I understand being emotional then, but upon hearing the man say he got SA'd, run a blood test, trust him until proven otherwise. Bc you know his character. This is honestly sad. He kept his story consistent and it still didnt click for her
Sorry for my Ted Talk lol. But you're the only one i see here who thought the same as me. Get a blood test. Cause she probably threw out the bottle.
She did say she apologized to him and stuff. While I agree with you for the most part, I also see where she's coming from. You have to ask yourself what's more likely? Did he get drugged by her sister, or did he initiate some intimacy? It's not easy to quantify, but I'd say that him initiating something has a higher probability and that's why her first reaction would be that. I think that's normal. However, her reaction does say a lot about her level of trust in him and so he dodged a bullet. I think her reaction is understandable though and not some narcissistic thing.
@@KenW418but why would she discredit her fiance like that? Even knowing (as OP clearly stated in her story) that her sister was acting negatively about the engagement from the start and he was being nice about it? OP’s sister showed selfish behavior from the start and OP’s fiance acted like a gentleman even though he could have easily put his foot down or walked out.
@@KenW418 op is not a narcissist she is just one of the stupidest women I've ever seen.
First of all. The blood test wouldn't show anything. Even if she did believe him after he sobered up the next day, the drug would be out of his system. She would have had to suspect it from the get go, which she didn't and if she suspected he was anything more than drunk. A urine test might show it, if they knew what to test for that is. So it would have been a waste. Wait a month and cut a lock of hair off at the root to test the hair roots would be the next best thing (it's how they test for heavy metal poisoning over a long term), but by then she had already pushed him away.
Second, she showed her true feelings for him in that moment. Rather than give an ounce of trust or doubt, she called it all off. Unfortunately, that is the standard advise I see on social media now. "Oh he does X, I am gone. Divorce him. Leave him." X being any number of things really. So it really isn't that surprising when that is what you are being "taught" is a good relationship. Social media things can override even good relationship upbringing.
Third, we don't know exactly what she did. She didn't say. She could have had concern for his wellbeing and show remorse for what happened when she met back up with him, but just chose not to go into detail because honestly we don't need to know.
Fourth, it sucks that she finally wakes up to how her sister is by being hurt in such a way, but life will go on. Almost guaranteed she will never see her ex again. So really, the sister won in that respect but she won in the end by finding out and cutting her sister off completely.
Fifth, the story might well be fake or highly elaborated for clout.
S2 : "I met my wife at Burning Man."
That's where you made your fatal mistake. 😃
😂😂😂😂😂
Story 1 I heard this one before. The icing on top was the slap. Plus if anyone accuses your spouse of cheating you need to give them a chance. Especially with how easy it is to make false evidence.
Honestly, in this case, one needs to stop and think. Yes, she saw a compromising view and letters, but the whole scene sounded fishy.
He came the next day saying he was drugged, which can be tested, so worth taking the tests before canceling the wedding.
@@Maninawig Honestly, in many of those stories, everyone say to investigate and prove the cheating before confrontation. Op did not and she lost everything.
@@ultimsing I do hear that a lot, but rarely is the investigation this easy. Which is why it's so frustrating that she didn't.
@@Maninawig even if the wine specifically could be proven it was drugged, it can be difficult to prove that the sister intentionally tampered with it. The only physical proof that could prove their innocence would be the letters (only if they're handwritten). Ask the husband to explain their PoV via written letter (while having some1 supervise whether they write normally) and compare the handwrite. If the letters were digital, then it could only be deducted:
The sister coming to his house with a bottle of wine, while allegedly have gotten the love letters prior without notifying/warning the OP nor having the intention to recipricating his feelings (allegedly said by her) seems too sketchy to consider the sister 100% a victim at that time. However, in that state of mind, people won't be thinking logically, and after all, she did see him all over her.
@@shadowrealm3707 the toxicology report would prove that he was drugged, and the doctor would be able to speak on his mental state (lack of mental faculties). This would not prove the sister's intent, but it will disprove her claims that he tried anything.
As for the letters, they got an artist to hand forge them. So it would be hard to disprove them.
I hope Lucas moves on with a partner that actually deserves him. All she could talk about was how much she loved him, how great the relationship was, and just how good of a guy he was...and yet when *he* needed you the most, you had the audacity to not believe him. Great, just great 🙄 let's hope it works out with the ex, cuz I could never look at OP the same again
I think after all he went through, he should go monk for a very long time.
Indeed. OP is an idiot and believed her rotten sister! I hope both sisters stay alone forever
OP1 is a horrible person. Even after finding out the truth she never apologized and was just sad she didn't have a fiance anymore and didn't own up to anything she did in the situation
Yeah. She made it all about herself
She did apologize
“I don’t have a fiancé”
I think theres more behind those words
She did apologize though...
She did apologize, watch it again
things op1 shouldve done
1. Sue her sister with her ex after finding out the truth
2. Blood test
3. Doubt her sister/believe his bf
But instead?
Tarnish his reputation
Slap him
Curse him
Call him a liar
And when she found out the truth?
She didnt even sue her sister with her bf, dindt restore his reputation, she was so dumb enough to even believe her sister, she gave her money, and she only gaved her 50% pain.
If this is real Lucas dodged a bullet, OP is a doofus for trusting her obviously sketchy sister
Dude poor lucas....(hope he sue the sister for that)
I almost feel bad for story 1 but the horrible way she treated the man she apparently loved without even bothering to investigate an obvious lie is telling of how awful she really is
In story 1 OP's whole family is just terrible, the comments have talked about how OP and the sister were both bad, but no one mentioned the parents, OP mentioned how the parents would compare their grades, and talk lowly of their own daughter, their own flesh and blood. OP is a pushover and idiot, OP's sister is narcissistic, rude, spoiled, and ungratfeful, OP's parents I can't say much since we dont know too many details, but they dont sound like great parents, and Luca's doged a metor worth killing dinosaur's, good for him for getting out of there
lucas dodged a bullet
1st story: OP deserved everything to go wrong
Knows sister is a liar and a narcissist, completely believes sister over someone who only treated her with love and trust. Assaults him.
Dodged a bullet there, bro.
So, not only there was clear signs of ruffie but also the fact the multiple redflags were ignored by OP constantly.
This is why when people show their true colors, you believe them. OP you are naive as hell for ignoring her behavior. She may be your sister, but if she walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck...
Story 1: so she craves love but is unable to give it? No love, no compassion, empathy etc for the man she claimed to love. She’s a narcissist. I hope her ex finds healing and is able to recover from being SA’d by her sister then physically assaulted by her
Seems like OP kinda deserves her failure with love.
Also, if you marry a girl you met at Burning Man, you only have yourself to blame 😂
God for the first time i think op is more toxic than the "toxic" siblings
Lucas really needs never talk to these assholes and miserable, disgusting people because she believed a sister who has been horrible her whole life over a man that showed her everything right. I hope Lucas gets therapy and his sister believes him and gives him that support
I have no sympathy for op. She knew her sister and how she was yet never once questioned if maybe her evil sister was lying or hiding someth8ng. Glad that guy had the sense to cut his losses and disappear.
Bruh... op in first story is spineless
if story 1 is real op is an idiot like other comments said if she knew how her sisters was she trusted her so easily Lucas Deveres better lol
Hope Lucas finds a woman that truly loves and respects him.
God story 1 is so frustrating, if you think the drink was spiked, why the hell would you not go to the police/hospital to get checked for drugs in your system...
Bc his head at the time was to save his engagement. He was probably so frazzled with getting SA'd and losing his fiance that it slipped his mind
Yikes story 1 is bizarre
Boo hoo, Op is such a doormat
S1: what makes me upset is that OP knew what her sister was like and just blindly believed everything she said because "FaMiLY". OP, you had everything in the palm of your hand with Lucas and you still chose to believe your sister, who according to you, was a bad apple from the start
I just can't feel sorry for op in the first story.
OP in story 1 deserves to live alone with a house full of cats
1st story OP is stupid for believing her sister and Lucas was stupid to drink the wine when he sensed something was wrong. They deserve each other 😅
So happy for Lucas for dodging Bullet
I don't feel sorry for OP #1.
first story op didnt even listened to a potential sa’d victim is insane. when it turns out hes an actuall sa’d victim she still didnt show any significant support, good god
WHY would you ever believe your lying sister when she makes accusations of that magnitude?!!
You don’t deserve Lucas and he deserves much better.
Remember people, don't be as idiotic as the OP in the first story.
People talking about op in story one being terrible and she was, I will say she is 100% also a terrible story teller. Like she changes the amount of times from past and future and adds in comments and jabs and defenses that it’s almost unlistenable. Like seriously I get you could be new to it or inexperienced but it’s really hard to follow.
I hate theres never an actual link to the stories
It reads like bad fanfiction
I know everyone’s talking about the first story, but was anyone else bothered by the “housekeeper” line in the second one? Like, she learned how to clean so now she’s worthy of being a wife? The fact that he specifically chose that fact to include in a relatively short story seems like a red flag
She doesn't even deserve to get back her boyfriend cuz you didn't even try to understand anything you just went off and impulsive decision and hated him
How tf did op in story 1 not even listen to Lucas??? You know your sister’s tenancies and still just left him that easily?
With family, who needs enemies?
I swear since 2000 families are just -D soap operas with less comas involved but MORE infidelity.
Unpopular opinion: I feel bad for the 1st OP.
How?
Problem was you. Never Lucas. Glad he left you. Because even if that happened if I had a sister like that I would first suspect her. Because she's a first rated AH
Last story has a happy ending. Yay
Hope everything works out for op1
The AI bot that writes these stories really likes the phrase “whirlwind of [blank]”
I thought "the possessor of female underware" was a beautiful add.
Long comment here:
This reminds me of a post I just listened to: The stepdaughter told her stepdad that his son ab*sed her repeatedly. Of course the son denied everything, but the father said “even though he’s my son, I can’t believe he would do something like this…”
He called the cops on his son and got him locked up. The son had to literally sit in jail because his own father didn’t believe him. The son lost friends, he lost his scholarship, his reputation was completely destroyed and shattered.
The stepdaughter came out and said that she made the whole damn thing up because of some other issues she had going on. You know what her punishment was? ………………….. He slapped her, and sent her to live with her biological father.
The son was released from jail, and despite the father calling everyone to tell them his stepdaughter lied, the damage was already done. No one wanted to be around the son.
The son had a female friend (the only one that actually used her brain instead of her feelings. Plus her father went through the same thing so she understood what the son was going through) offered the son to move with her to Japan. The son (rightfully so) packed his sh*t and was getting ready to board the plane, but his father showed up, begging and pleading for him to stay.
To sum this part up, the son basically said, “there’s nothing else here for me, you didn’t believe me when I told you I didn’t do anything. You wasn’t there for me when I needed you So I’m leaving.” The son left his dad in the airport, on the floor crying, while the son left to Japan and is living his best life. I believe he actually got with the girl, got married and had two kids.
The father actually had the nerve to get on Reddit, (I think?) and post thinking he would get sympathy from strangers. However, the people literally chewed his ass out. Apparently, 8 months after he posted, the father “unalived” himself due to the guilt and the fact that he basically lost his son. There was never an update on the mother and stepdaughter (besides her getting slapped and sent back to her biological father).
The stories are different, BUT they stem from the same point: someone making false accusations and ruining someone’s life and reputation. Whether big or small..
Now that I told THAT story, I’m gonna give my two cents on THIS story:
OP is full of so much shit.
You’re telling strangers that Lucas is charming and funny, understanding, how much you love him, and that he is your soulmate n shit (I think that’s how she described him), but when false allegations got thrown around about him potentially cheating, you decided to jump ship and side with your sister?! Instead of her actually doing more investigating, she literally said “you’re guilty, end of story”?
OP is the biggest fraud ever. She claimed she loves him, but was willing to throw him under the bus instead of truly hearing him out.
People need to stop making false allegations. It doesn’t matter if it’s based off cheating, s*xual a**ault, r*pe, etc. There are serious consequences for sh*t like this. Families are torn apart, relationships and marriages get destroyed. The ones that are truly affected by the allegations are the ones who have to stand against everyone to prove their innocence.
Sorry for the long comment, I just don’t understand how OP can sit here and tell the story as if she’s the victim who did nothing wrong.
Honestly, ESH: OP for not trusting Lucas. The sister for breaking up a potential marriage (or in this case, subtly, kinda helping Lucas dodge basically a damn meteor) and everyone that basically just said “f*ck Lucas.” Now she wants to sit here sayin she made a terrible mistake… gtfoh 🙄
Lucas the only one in that sh*t show that decided to step away from them. He better not get back with OP. He definitely deserves way better 🤷🏾
I hate how your friends or family could stoop so low trying to ruin your relationship & actually do succeed in planting trust issues between the couple. Now ig there would be no more updates from the 1st story 'cuz she's not getting him back. The evil sister won.
Most relationship that out there are broken up because when someone is giving evidence they don't even try to get a bigger picture they just go off impulse and start hating. If someone gave you like evidence that your boyfriend is cheating and your first thought is to slap them and throw papers in his face then you aren't mature enough. First you talk to the person try to understand the situation and if it's true then you slap them and throw the papers in his face. If not then you're just an impulsive childish person
Story 2 makes zero sense. Married to a woman for 4 years and NEVER meet her best friend who's also her boss, and she never met her best friend/boss husband???
Hold up. Wait a minute. I need to hear more about the last story
Story 1: i don't feel sorry even for op. Lucas dodged a nuke indeed. LMAO.
Story #1: Buckle up buttercup 😂
Story 1:
Op: ofc i would listen to Lucas because i want his story
Op 5 seconds later: so i went to his place and slapped him instantly
Lol
OP should have given Lucas a second chance. OP knows her sister is toxic af but still choose to believe her. I get that she's her sibling but Diana is a very horrible person.
3:38 he seeked solace in other women's underwear lol i died
OP is so not-smart 🙄, who writes handwritten letters these days??? More importantly, who write letter while cheating on their person with their sibling??? Like, it doesn't even make sense. I hope Lucas values himself and dumps her.
"Word had gotten around town that he had played the Wales sisters" 100% fake story. This is NYC. Unless this lady is travelling in high society (she isn't) no one is going to have a clue who this guy is a block away from his apartment
1st Story: OP is just a passive Narcissist.
Story 1: I gotta be honest, i dont have any sympathy for Op here…
SHE let her toxic sister into her life, SHE let her sister walk all over her, SHE took her toxic sisters side over her Ex and didn’t let him explain and then, not only did she STILL let her sister live in her house…she actually gave her money…
Yeah Lucas dodged a bullet, hopefully he stays away and lives a happy life
Woman born and raised in seattle and moved to new york but writes like english is her 2nd language.
Poorly written story. "Flooding house with my tears"--it's creative writing exercise. It's 202x and we're still using pen and paper lmao
Is there a link to the whole video? It feels like the audio cuts off
Hey,where can i fin the original post?
Story one couldn't be faker if she had a giant spider attack them.
Op is just as bad as her sister, the nerve to try and get back with lucas after everything what a pos
lucas dodge a fucking tsar bomba this entire family is toxic like i dont even feel bad for op i just feel bad for lucas
That second story is real fishy... I'm sorry, you're best friends and you've NEVER met each other's spouses? That seems highly unrealistic
the first story is disgusting
Wow that’s deep you don’t deserve him. You should have looked into it more. *sigh*
The op from the 1st story is both too naive and somewhat dim. If you truly know who your partner is you would at least give them the benefit of the doubt. The fact that she knew how her sister was and who Lucas was should speak for itself. There were ways to verify what he did or didn’t do. The Op needs to grow up
Holy, i wonder how old reddit demographic is. The second story is about 38 years old right? So reddit demographic is about the same as facebook?
It depends on the subreddit, honestly.
The second story i was asronshid bu, i am glad the op has a new and better wife
What bs is the second story? "Best friends" but they don't know each other spouses, lololol fake af
Real winner is lucas here. Op has issues
Lucas deserves so much better then OP
Poor Lucas…………
Well, best if your fiancé (if female) has a brother and if it is a male, a sister so no one can accuse you of cheating with siblings.
Thank god lucas is saved
Anyone know the actual title for story 1?
All the op had to do was ge tyhr ex fiance a drug test kit...but no she ignored her sister
Oh Dirty Diana….
Story 1 is fake the fact that not 1 but 2 separate young people can afford to live in nyc in the wealthy areas where a 1 bedroom the size of a closet is 5k a month and financially support unemployed sisters that live with them and have exoensive tastes... and the OP works in fashion which does not offer consistent income until youve really made a name for yourself which isnt easy to do since thousands of young girls move to nyc for the sane dream tells me this is most likely a fantasy lol and she said she moved her senior year of college so she didnt even finish... she just majically had the money to move to nyc and start a business
Story 2: also seems fake hiw the hell do you not know who your *BEST FRIENDS* Husband is? Especially since it seems like she helped said friend when her business was in its infancy, she never saw her friends husband ever? Makes no sense 😅 and the OP or tiffany questioned it which Tiffany would be the one to know if it was a lie whuch she didnt call her out on.
Lucas dodged a fucking nuke
"Jinxed"?
It was the best word the AI bot could come up with.
There's no way this story is real
The music and Minecraft just kills this. Otherwise good story
God i love pro victims
My sister broke up with my fiancee
My sister refused to listen, believe or trust the man i was gonna marry.
My sister did every thing and made every choice in my life.
Nah sugar you did at least assume responsibility
You lost me at two years of you living with a parasite. Enabling big time. Good luck and many blessings. It is your responsibility to remove toxic people from your life
20:29 wtf, she's her effing bff *what does she meant about she doesn't know it was her boss's husband?*
Wtf... op from story 1 was a moron. All that her sister did and her revenge was to cut her off from an allowance. OP you shouldn't have been paying her one to begin with.