After 21 Years of Not Knowing My Bio Parents, I Finally Met Them. But My Grandma Tried to...
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- čas přidán 28. 05. 2024
- After 21 Years of Not Knowing My Bio Parents, I Finally Met Them. But My Grandma Tried to Stop Our Reunion.
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I really can't believe Linda tried to tear them apart like that even though Rose is CLEARLY old enough to connect with her OWN daughter.
Most def a christian
@@munishgamer7329 it doesn't really mean it is fake, since most of the time people use throw away accounts and fake names... It gets easy to mess them
If this happened to me, I'd rip the envelope into pieces without reading it
We need more wholesome content like this to remind us the world isn't nothing but shitbags and rampant degeneracy.
Amen to that
Yup, agreed. Apart from Linda, the nasty grandmother, it was a super wholesome story.
Classic case of narcissist caring more about image and other people's opinion over their own child. Disgusting.
I am so happy for OP. She now has 4 loving parents.
The grandma seems so self-absorbed just by her demeanour.
I could never fathom the whole adopting a child and not telling them early on. You’re setting yourself up for a huge heartbreak later on
Exactly this. A young child wouldn't be horribly phased by the knowledge that they are adopted, but a fully grown adult would have a complete identity crisis over it.
@@alext9320no they wouldn't lol these stories don't depict real life
@@JustinAdamson270 My brother was lied to about his paternity, and the lie being unintentionally revealed to him in his twenties was a driving factor in him getting in to hard drugs. Just because it doesn't happen to you specifically doesn't mean it never happens to anyone.
@@alext9320Idk, Im inclined to believe, under these two scenarios, the identity crisis happens, yet differently. Ops case was strike of info to take all at once, the other one is procesed along all the stages of youth, shaped by each instance.
@alext9320 It would really depend on the personality, mental strength & situation. Some would be like this girl, some would be reckless ;& atleast she was told and had a document of her birth, showing emotions Of real love . The Bio parents were also really cool & good people
double the parents. double the fun! yes?
In my near 22 years of life I have never wanted to meet my bio parents but never would I deny someone else the opportunity to do so. Granny is absolutely fucked.
In hindsight, she's lucky to have both sets of parents
Couldn't get past the first few mins because of how descriptive it is. The amount of phrases used that you see in books/fanfiction immediately made me believe this is fake.
even if its fake, its wholesome and nice and we need WAYYY more of that
Good story but it really sounds like it was written by chatgpt. Maybe they just used it to improve on a true story but i cant unhear the chatgpt isms now ive noticed it.
Ehh OpenAI the devs of Chatgpt just used a certain writing style for the majority of training data, so if you write similar to that style it looks like chatgpt
this story is actually older then ai, when I first read it, i was touched to the soul
Im literally struggling to communicate with my bio fam and all i want is a medical history this Grandma is so out of line
It shouldn’t be her Choice. It’s the parents choice to reconnect since they wasn’t ready when she was born
Oh my God that was so wholesome. I was starting to get emotional listening 😊😊
Finally one with a happy ending 😂
Ahh theres it is. The bane of my existence. A wholesome story on this channel
Can we get more happy stories like this one
UGH. AI-written again, 'the whirlwind of emotion,' 'word hung in the air,' 'my identity is () pieces of a puzzle scattered on the floor,' 'the wave of emotion washed over me' and that's only the first few minutes. The first one and last one are the most often used, I've heard them again and again throughout youtube reddit. Why do they have to get AI to write their story?
'Vehmently' popped up twice. I've never heard that in casual conversation.
@@zombinosh 100%. Some phrases used in this story and many stories in Telltales video, used the same AI catchphrases, the whole 'whirlwind of emotion,' or 'wave of emotion'...I call 'em AI purple proses. Even if the story is true/factual/real, whomever wrote it, decided to use AI for it which made it questionable. I feel like I'm listening to AI created fiction on this channel lol
it also mixed up rose with linda a few times when op met their bio parents
@@tracys169thats why i the channel that say the users name and title
This story really reads like an A.I prompt.
A wholesome story. Nice.
4 loving parents, damn, lots dont even get 2
Way to go Linda... Don't bring toxins into the nice stories.
I used to think these were just fake stories, but now i really believe an AI's making them. Being unrealistic and overusing alliteration is one thing but they legitimately feel like they're being written by the same person
😅 if it is it is. Its just background noise for me
Same
Not sure if it's AI or made up, but it didn't sound real.
1: The whole story sounds so emotionless. If you were told at 21 you're adopted, your whole world disappears under your feet. You don't go "ok, no wonder I have curly hair, lets meet them in a week and all is fine."
2: The camera angle seems to be from the outside looking upon the family (written in 3rd party focus), not from OP's perspective (1st camera angle). There's details about the adoptive parents telling the OP about the adopting process that an OP wouldn't write down like that if it was them writing it down on Reddit. You just heard your parents aren't your parents. That's OP's focus, not "it took long to finally adopt a baby".
3. During the meeting with the bio parents the writer switches the name of the bio mum to Linda twice. I don't have experience with AI's, but switching names of characters is a typical beginner writing mistake (especially when you don't re-read your work).
@@Nathan_Bookwurmfalse people don't have an identity crisis just because they find out about DNA
Damn, wish my bio parents had left a letter too
I don't know if any of these reddit stories DON'T mention therapy. I don't have an issue with therapy, but it feels like people go pay people for every little thing they can. Can always tell poor people don't write these stories. Maybe the fake ones.
Some people's jobs offer therapy services for free, and therapists often have sliding scale pay. Sometimes even free services if needed.
its a conspiracy by Big Therapy to try and normalize it. dont let them win
Would say it was a huge W for OP except the meeting of her bio grandma. Would say she got 4 parents and 4 grandparents (assuming both on the adoptive sides are still alive)
Goodness, this doesn’t even try to hide it was written by KI 😂
though this is wholesome. i'm going to say that his adoptive parents should have told OP earlier. imagine at age 21 you find out the parents you knew your whole life aren't your biological parents and then meeting your bio parents who have a whole family themselves within the span of a few weeks. it's better to tell kids their adopted earlier
U mixed linda and rose
Thank you i got hella confused
You mean the AI mixed Linda and Rose
ngl that's a hard situation to be in
Id not ask why if that crazy evil lady came by id be like grandma sucks.
Who else assumed it was a man telling the story until they mentioned “boyfriend” lol 😅
me lol
Look, it's a cool story but definitely some writing exercise. The writing is so impersonal for a story that is so obviously personal. "Ethced into their faces", really? I guess I'm used to a lot of the cheating stories and men writing in a very matter-of-fact way but there are way too many literary devices being used here. Either this person is in uni for literature or they are faking this entire story, either way they need to improve their writing because it's kind of weak, even for an amateur.
Halfway through the story Linda the bio grandma became the bio mom 🤔 so written by AI
Seems fake, but is still a good story nonetheless. It's nice to listen to a wholesome story amidst the plethora of cheating ones.
Byw yall this story is fake as fuck.
how do we know these stories are real and not AI generated?
we don't. It's clearly written by AI. One possibility, just an AI generated fiction, another one is true story, but OP decided to put it through chatgpt or something and wanted specific amount of words so that it'll be long enough to be used for youtube/tiktok.
Just think of how you would write a story after your parents just told you after 21 years you aren't biologically related. You'd break down, maybe start cursing and would rethink your life. Not "lets meet them in 2 weeks." Nowhere in this story you see OP's emotions. In fact, you get to know more of the adoptive parent's emotions than OP's.
Wait is this story told by a man or a woman ?
This story is fake :). The way it is written is fanfiction, not someone reliving a life changing event
'the whirlwind of emotion,' 'word hung in the air,' 'my identity is () pieces of a puzzle scattered on the floor,' 'the wave of emotion washed over me'
@@tracys169 Yeah. It's usually bad, but not THIS bad.
Content farms are interesting to observe, but it is worrying to read the comments that imply the commenter actually believes this badly written fiction. Critical thinking should be trained on these things. Rarely anything an AI voice reads over a sad guitar tune is true, people.
It is possible, when you come from a stabile houshold, with S tier "adoptive" parents.
If it's real someone must have written the og history and then ask an AI to rewrite it.
@@kanto555 I consider that possibility. IF it's real, someone put it through AI to rewrite, and the AI just spewed out those AI purple proses used repeatedly lol
Aw
L granny
This sounds AI
Aww ❤❤
*clears throat at an excessive volume for five whole seconds*
NOBODY ASKED YOU, LINDA.
wtf grandma
yikes
Clearly AI.
This sounds fake. Valedictorian at college?
Let me guess, you never went to college 😂😂
@@lefthandedempath What makes you say that? Does your college have a different system?
How can both the maker if the story and the poster of this channel not edit the obvious mistakes out before posting, like Rose turning into Linda mid conversation twice. 😬 It doesn't make the story believable if you don't even know the names of your characters.
You dont tell your child at 21 that they are adopted, you tell them as soon as they can understand words. Three maybe four. Children are malleable and can easily adapt, so sooner is better than later.
I very much disagree. I would adapt to being adopted much sooner and better at 21 than at 4. At 4 years all I would hear is that they are not my parents not seeing all the love and effort. At 21, while it would be an absolute rollercoaster of emotions, I would be able to put things into a better perspective.
The moment I understood I knew. They never hid it from me. I lived with it growing up. And I met my bio parents at age 38. I don't know if its right or wrong time wise. Though I agree with your comment. However I can also agree with the "waiting" comments as well. Heck I don't know. I'm 44 now and it was just never a big thing to me. Also my adoptive parents are just...my parents. Always have been. Always will be.
@@Matt-li5pm so if both parents are white and the child is asian they should pretend they birthed the child? Hard truths only get harder over time. If you lost your leg at 4, by 21 its not problem. If you are 21 and lost your leg last week its devastating. I have a child who is now a teen and i have never ever lied or omit any thing from her, she simply absorbs what I tell her no matter how harsh it may seem. The most bitter truth is better than the sweetest lie.
@@Matt-li5pm While you *might* be better emotionally equipped to process the information at 21 than at 4, you have to bear in mind that if you learn it at 4 there was never any real lying going on, but if you learn at 21 your parents have been functionally lying to you for a decade. And it's oddly infantilizing to decide on someone else's behalf that they're not "ready" to learn a major piece of information about themselves until an arbitrary age. If you learn it at 21, you question why they didn't tell you sooner. And if you adopt a child and don't tell them until a certain age, you risk them finding out through alternative means. What would happen if the protagonist of this story stumbled upon the letter from their bio parents when they were 16? They'd be left completely on their own with regards on how to process the information, and depending on where they are mentally, that could end catastrophically. I've seen firsthand this sort of knowledge completely destroy people, and people are much more capable of destroying themselves at 21 than they are at 4.
@@Matt-li5pmA child doesn't need to SEE the love and care you spent. A child KNOWS you love them. Lying for 21 years is something a child will never forget. And kids at 4 years will just follow your lead without getting traumatized. Now think of what telling a 21 years old that their parents aren't their parents will do to them.
I had to tell my kids that I'm transgender at young age. (3 and 4 at the time). They just said "OK." It only took a week for them to go from mummy to daddy. Many adults still misgender me after years by accident, and have more problems with the situation than kids. It's their normal to have 2 dads now, just as it's normal to grow up with parents who aren't biologically related. People have the unnecessary need to "protect the children" and end up harming them by waiting until they are adults to tell something.
This whole story is a lie.
Rose is kinda fucked Up. She should,have told her husband before they got married and had kids. That is totally fucked up to still keep,it a secret and let it out now that the kids is back.
Im early 😅
Dude normal people don't write like this
Boop
Why OP still living with her parents at the age of 21?
Do you know the costs of houses and apartments nowadays? In my area the average house is like what 1million dollars (Over exaggeration but pretty accurate).
Not everybody has to leave their parents' house at 18.
Cause a 250k starter home was over 400k, on 1.27 acres of land and no bigger than an apartment, so unless I was supposed to start saving when I wasnt even born. Im living with my parents.
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