Nah she just told a straight up obvious lie, and he asked the one person who would know. All she had to do was be honest from the start. But now her little white lie that she told voluntarily and for no reason at all blew up in her face. OH NO!
nope. ritchie attacked jill for his past and when jill said everyone has past relationship, richie said she never had any. so jill asked op for the truth abt richie's past. so, not a creep.
@@AhmadAhmad-xv5crwell they were all having a conversation about sexuality idk why you'd single him out like that when everyone else was essentially doing the same
@@cloroxflavoredbleach9362 are you stupid or just special how is asking a question the same as going behind their back to their fucking family in secret to ask dark sensitive questions that's creepy af and gross at least the rest had her consent he didn't and broke so many boundaries
Weirdly enough by OP not telling her cousin about her terrible fight with richie he actually trusted her more. If she tried to convince him to leave earlier in the relationship he would have suspicious of her. Enough so where he may have not of asked OP this relationship ending question
She wants her cousin to be happy, also you fail to realize anything she would have said would’ve probably been taken out of context including towards her cousin ( would probably think she’s trying to ruin his relationship even tho he probably wouldn’t).
@hanbaebummie3215 OP in the video literally says that they thought it was non serious, and it was a surprise to her that it was. I wasn't trying to make OP out to be a machavellian schemer either. I believe they thought the effort it would've taken to talk about everything the ex-bff wasn't worth it. Plus, the bad memories to relieve.
If she said something it could have backfired on her and make her communicate (which would prolly be yelling and insults) from richie. OP def could have been a better person and tell the cousin but I dont think she was willing to deal with any repercussions of that which imo is totally fair
@@jojiravi700 I don't see how when she has so much proof. If op cousin still chose after seeing the proof to still be with this person after seeing how nasty and manipulative she is, then they definitely deserve each other.
I once had a toxic best friend, I never confronted them on anything even when they made fun of me when I mentioned how I had been sa'd a few years ago. I was scared of being abandoned by them and they could've easily told everyone everything I had told them. It's honestly hard to confront people who you care about
She sounds like a pretty studious student considering her job and maturity in the situation and all the studious kids I know dont really do much to have crazy secrets (as far as I know at least lol)
The moment she left those bitchy women's remarks and the fact that she made the story seem like she had no fault at all, I don't know man, it might be true, but she's leaving a lot of shit behind I'm sure.
@@grizleyI question wether you live in or are American with that comment. It's highly inappropriate to talk about at work in the US. So no, we don't talk about our orientation.
@@drekon6939you cant speak for a whole country when there are so many types of work environments and people just might be closer than normal colleagues 🤷♂️
I dont know if the genders were reversed... Why name a guy Jill? A girl Richard and Ritchie? Is Jill actually a guy? Should I believe in the names or the pronouns used? Im confused
She was just looking out for herself which is fine and worked out in the end. If the cousin legitimately liked richie despite her red flags then shit talking her would just lose OP her cousin. She COULD have told him what richie did to her but she didnt want to get involved with their relationship which might be a bit selfish but is fair and def doesnt make her an asshole for that
Well to be honest it’s her cousins relationship so them dating is really none of her business to begin with. She should have told them they are no longer friends because Richie keeps accusing her of things she did not do and leave it at that. Whether or not the cousin believes it isn’t important.
@@deusexmachina9776 you know you could be right if it was someone like her brother or sister but its a cousin, someone you see once in like 1-3 months and that's as a kid but when your an adult you see them even less as your not forced to go with your parents so who do you think he will believe? his GF that he is so in love with her or his cousin that he see once or twice a year? its obvious, yes if we're talking about it from the moral perspective OP is bad but if we're talking about it from the situation she is in she is fine, her cousin is an adult that makes his own decisions and if he chose to ignore the red flags such as her being a freeloader or her being toxic its his fault
@@pyro7150 what? cousin brought up the girlfriend. he was activily speaking to OP about the girl multiple times. OP even said she hung up on him. she is a bad person
Huge W but shoulda told him from the start and what he did was not immature Clown lying she kept her self for marriage smfh, best anyone checks if they're lying or not
I'm not excusing Richie's actions, but I don't think OP is anywhere near as innocent as she's pretending to be. It's clear that she thought very little of her friend before any of this went down, and to confront her about not liking her pictures on Facebook is ridiculous.
well, let's see. Richie talked about ops secrets to the co-worker, bullied op by sending horrible messages and calling to say horrible things just to hurt them, which is verbal abuse, even mental abuse if it affected them, and emotional and did more just for not knowing they went to work dinners. Richie is pathetic and shows her true colours when op tries to help her not feel bad. for a best friend, she didn't even trust her best friend, while yes op could have handled it a different way instead of keeping it a secret but Richie showed who she was and probably was the whole time.
@@Jinx661i think men and women just use the word “abuse” differently prolly cuz we like to shit talk our friends for fun (not behind their backs but as casual banter)
11:30 No that’s when you say “Don’t act like you don’t have secrets. I wonder if any of those secrets could & would impact any future jobs, especially when your a photographer & I’m in the corporate world. Just a thought to ponder over….”
I had a few toxic friends like Richie more like B**** during high school my junior yr I had college classes and never told anyone because my father told me my friends were going to treat me differently when they find out and sure enough they did. When we graduated I didn't attend because I started my summer classes and I wasn't missing 10% of my grade if I missed and rumors started saying I was too good for high school. Well most of them are now dead from OD or just couldn't handle adult life or in prison
That's right BUUUUT ( MASSIVE BUT ) would you rather let your cousin destroy his life he had worked so hard to build up because of a girl or be an asshole for some time so that he can see the true colors of his gf
@-Zex- Same if she did tell that cousin he still blows her op off calling her snappy which I believe is Richie herself and chooses Richie well Glad the male cousin and figure Richie is nothing but a insecure jealous narcissistic gold digger.
Women discussing the attractiveness of a male colleague is normal in a workplace? Wha the f-? No man these days would even think about discussing how attractive a female colleague is.
That is normal dude. Like, at my work i've talked with my colleagues about other girls at the office being hot. That doesn't mean we will try to fuck them or anything, just that we find them pretty. Women also do that. It is not something weird, at least not in my work experience.
@@degenerate_mercenary9898No, we don't get fired for this. I've talked with other male colleagues about how we find a new girl at the office hot or things like that. No one will fire you for that.
OP is a MASSIVE POS for not warning her own family member about how much of a douche Richie was. Idk why women are so petty, but everyone here is an ah.
I 100% agree, if it my close family member I would warn them in order to make the right choice. She could cheat down the line and cousin wouldn’t have seen it coming. OP is kinda of an asshole in this story too.
Tbh, if I was OP, I’d tell my cousin. My younger cousins are like my brothers, and we grew up that way. If they came to me for advice they often listened, especially when they’re unsure of themselves. If the person they’re dating is full of BS i’d tell them. Nevermind the heartbreak, we can help mend that. Better early on than down the line
As a dude I’m glad I’ll never have to go through all this BS drama 😂😂😂 women can be so insecure, jealous and toxic, even to their “””BFF”””. If any of my bros made it I’ll be so happy for the dude and I know they’ll feel the same way for me.
Men act just as brutal if not more with each other. Have you seen the way guys act towards their friends when a girl they like shows up? Instantly they put each other down to appear on top.
I don't see why OP is annoying or even bad, she was betrayed by a jealous and petty "friend" who backstabbed her and gossipeped about her because she was a petty jealous b*tch.
Utterly childish that Richie is throwing a hissy fit Like I understand she’d be upset that OP didn’t tell her how well she’s doing in her work and would feel insecure how OP gets to dine at good restaurants but at the same time, it doesn’t excuse what she did all because of mere jealousy. Seriously, Richie needs to grow up if she’s gonna get all butthurt that OP is doing well in life. I pretty much cringed when Richie mentioned how OP’s an “elite” all because she’s doing well in her career and eating out in fancy restaurants with her colleagues. Good on OP for exposing both Jill and Richie, as well as ruining Richie’s relationship with her cousin. Pretty rich of Richie to badmouth OP for going to expensive restaurants when OP’s cousin literally gifts her expensive necklaces and even got her own phone 🤦♀️
Jill sounded like a major creep to go snoop around a girl’s history like that
Nah she just told a straight up obvious lie, and he asked the one person who would know. All she had to do was be honest from the start. But now her little white lie that she told voluntarily and for no reason at all blew up in her face. OH NO!
nope. ritchie attacked jill for his past and when jill said everyone has past relationship, richie said she never had any. so jill asked op for the truth abt richie's past. so, not a creep.
@@runemidgard938 I didn’t mean the husband I meant the guy at work who asked if she was a lesbian
@@AhmadAhmad-xv5crwell they were all having a conversation about sexuality idk why you'd single him out like that when everyone else was essentially doing the same
@@cloroxflavoredbleach9362 are you stupid or just special how is asking a question the same as going behind their back to their fucking family in secret to ask dark sensitive questions that's creepy af and gross at least the rest had her consent he didn't and broke so many boundaries
Weirdly enough by OP not telling her cousin about her terrible fight with richie he actually trusted her more. If she tried to convince him to leave earlier in the relationship he would have suspicious of her. Enough so where he may have not of asked OP this relationship ending question
Common behaviour, people tend to spit things out when specifically asked if it means inconveniance for them
She wants her cousin to be happy, also you fail to realize anything she would have said would’ve probably been taken out of context including towards her cousin ( would probably think she’s trying to ruin his relationship even tho he probably wouldn’t).
@hanbaebummie3215 OP in the video literally says that they thought it was non serious, and it was a surprise to her that it was. I wasn't trying to make OP out to be a machavellian schemer either. I believe they thought the effort it would've taken to talk about everything the ex-bff wasn't worth it. Plus, the bad memories to relieve.
Love is blind
OP should have saved her cousin early on, and Ritchie needs Jesus and therapy.
Fr
Only somebody that toxic and delusional would need god, so I agree.
That cousin got what he asked for 😅😂. He should’ve been a better cousin. OP was graceful.
@@stagenine4702 excuse you ?
god or his son aint going to do anything.
bro imagine being envious over choices you made >.> she chose an ARTs degree what did she expect (i draw for a living and it tok WORK)
She chose an Art Degree, and doesn't even look for work. Both her and her mom are so damn shallow.
The OP just be irrigating. I didnt tellem, i didnt confron them. Girl!! Send them damn screenshots! Help your cousin like wtf.
If she said something it could have backfired on her and make her communicate (which would prolly be yelling and insults) from richie. OP def could have been a better person and tell the cousin but I dont think she was willing to deal with any repercussions of that which imo is totally fair
@@jojiravi700 I don't see how when she has so much proof. If op cousin still chose after seeing the proof to still be with this person after seeing how nasty and manipulative she is, then they definitely deserve each other.
fr also if they were best friends why didnt she confront her early on when her friend was making sarcastic comments about her being high class
I once had a toxic best friend, I never confronted them on anything even when they made fun of me when I mentioned how I had been sa'd a few years ago. I was scared of being abandoned by them and they could've easily told everyone everything I had told them. It's honestly hard to confront people who you care about
these are adult women? that whole story belongs in the kindergarten.
I know right? Talking about your sex life at work, and your private life is just odd to me.
exactly
Modern women don't age mentally past high school. Even women in their 40s act like this now.
@@petresko1041 same goes for men.
I think their ages and professions are fake, and these are just 16 year olds from my town having a regular 20 000 people city drama.
Play stupid games win stupid prizes 🤣💯
Richie Threw Rock in a Glass House !!!
OP has way too much mercy for Richie bro
These are not conversations for work colleagues - especially at work! Colleagues are not your friends!
High-school level drama bs. Why would anyone consider this drivel worthy of mention.
Is kissing a girl once in High school, and having a crush on a teacher really count as a secret? Those are painfully bland. 😂
Maybe. But are you human if you haven’t been embarrassed by something stupid? Lol
@@comet9864 True 😂
She sounds like a pretty studious student considering her job and maturity in the situation and all the studious kids I know dont really do much to have crazy secrets (as far as I know at least lol)
😂😂😂😂😂
Depends on the culture.
The moment she left those bitchy women's remarks and the fact that she made the story seem like she had no fault at all, I don't know man, it might be true, but she's leaving a lot of shit behind I'm sure.
Fr, I think OP is leaving shit out that would make her look pretty bad. The way she writes makes me think she kinda of an AH irl
Agreed, seemed like there were some red flags in her recounting of the events
I generally find her annoying... Self absorbed and stuck up - and how she tries to pretend shes all good and considerate of others... Just NOPE NOPE
envy is quite a DEADLY SIN.
Wtf... Who is discussing sexual orientation with colleagues
Welcome to 2023 bro
In America fuck yeah! lol where else do u think.
Thats childish 😬
@@grizleyI question wether you live in or are American with that comment. It's highly inappropriate to talk about at work in the US. So no, we don't talk about our orientation.
@@drekon6939you cant speak for a whole country when there are so many types of work environments and people just might be closer than normal colleagues 🤷♂️
It’s the first time I notice the minecraft video more than the narration, I couldn’t help but giggle at the spinning cows 😂🎉
I dont know if the genders were reversed... Why name a guy Jill? A girl Richard and Ritchie? Is Jill actually a guy? Should I believe in the names or the pronouns used? Im confused
is werid ya lol
Can't complain, it's 2023😂😂
Meh some people's use character names
Jill can be bill and Ritchie can be ratchelle
maybe they got the names reserved, Jill is really Richie and Richie is Jill
OP is an asshole for letting cousin's relationship with Richie go on - even if it wasn't serious
She was just looking out for herself which is fine and worked out in the end. If the cousin legitimately liked richie despite her red flags then shit talking her would just lose OP her cousin. She COULD have told him what richie did to her but she didnt want to get involved with their relationship which might be a bit selfish but is fair and def doesnt make her an asshole for that
@@jojiravi700 with family like OP the cousin doesn't need enemies. OP will always put herself first even at such minor inconvenience
Well to be honest it’s her cousins relationship so them dating is really none of her business to begin with. She should have told them they are no longer friends because Richie keeps accusing her of things she did not do and leave it at that. Whether or not the cousin believes it isn’t important.
@@deusexmachina9776 you know you could be right if it was someone like her brother or sister but its a cousin, someone you see once in like 1-3 months and that's as a kid but when your an adult you see them even less as your not forced to go with your parents so who do you think he will believe? his GF that he is so in love with her or his cousin that he see once or twice a year? its obvious, yes if we're talking about it from the moral perspective OP is bad but if we're talking about it from the situation she is in she is fine, her cousin is an adult that makes his own decisions and if he chose to ignore the red flags such as her being a freeloader or her being toxic its his fault
@@pyro7150 what? cousin brought up the girlfriend. he was activily speaking to OP about the girl multiple times. OP even said she hung up on him. she is a bad person
Well no one ruined richies life but richie.
8:20 This is why communication is key, you should have talked about this before everything got worse
Two low-class ladies. No wonder they were friends.
Huge W but shoulda told him from the start and what he did was not immature
Clown lying she kept her self for marriage smfh, best anyone checks if they're lying or not
I'm not excusing Richie's actions, but I don't think OP is anywhere near as innocent as she's pretending to be. It's clear that she thought very little of her friend before any of this went down, and to confront her about not liking her pictures on Facebook is ridiculous.
Cousin acted properly.
With ‘friends’ like that who needs enemies
5:22 THE WAY I LAUGHED TO HARD
Edit: 12:14 OH MY GOD I LOVE HER SHE IS THE MOMENT
Certifiable woman moment.
Facts. The stupidest drama ever.
And that's girls friendship , never reveal secret to a woman it's just matter of time
3 minutes in, can't do any more, they're a pair of children
OP saved the cousin life.
Op seems to love using the word abuse for any altercation
well, let's see. Richie talked about ops secrets to the co-worker, bullied op by sending horrible messages and calling to say horrible things just to hurt them, which is verbal abuse, even mental abuse if it affected them, and emotional and did more just for not knowing they went to work dinners. Richie is pathetic and shows her true colours when op tries to help her not feel bad. for a best friend, she didn't even trust her best friend, while yes op could have handled it a different way instead of keeping it a secret but Richie showed who she was and probably was the whole time.
@@Jinx661i think men and women just use the word “abuse” differently prolly cuz we like to shit talk our friends for fun (not behind their backs but as casual banter)
@@jojiravi700 yes but there's a difference between jokingly insulting your friend and just full on abusing them
Have you never heard the phrase "to hurl abuse"? It has nothing to do with actual abuse.
This is an ai generated story lmao
I don't think so.....
Any part u think that indicate this???
An AI generated comment over an AI generated story.
Funny.
She should tell her cousin, she's a gold digger
Dude, this type of video has me in a chokehold
Green isn't inherently an ugly colour but when it's a shade of envy it's pretty heckin' nasty
Its also not a creative color according to a notebook.
Good day to everyone.
“He’s 28 and owns a car”….This must not be in the US.
7:57 Lmao now I remember this story because of that comment 🤣
So basically two 304 outted each other.
These stories that just say "abuse" for bad mouthing or insults is really annoying and immediately makes me think its AI generated
shame on the OP for not warning the cousin sooner
Im pooping.
me too!
Me too!
All aboard the chocolate rocket express!
11:30 No that’s when you say “Don’t act like you don’t have secrets. I wonder if any of those secrets could & would impact any future jobs, especially when your a photographer & I’m in the corporate world. Just a thought to ponder over….”
Yeah...the moment she threw shade and said OP didn't "look good" in the pics was the end. Cuz I would've cussed her poor self out 😊
I had a few toxic friends like Richie more like B**** during high school my junior yr I had college classes and never told anyone because my father told me my friends were going to treat me differently when they find out and sure enough they did. When we graduated I didn't attend because I started my summer classes and I wasn't missing 10% of my grade if I missed and rumors started saying I was too good for high school. Well most of them are now dead from OD or just couldn't handle adult life or in prison
There's no way I can watch this with the fast moving background. I'll get motion sickness. Shame.
I hate rich people food 🤢
op was a bit of an a-hole to her cousin I wont lie
That's right BUUUUT ( MASSIVE BUT ) would you rather let your cousin destroy his life he had worked so hard to build up because of a girl or be an asshole for some time so that he can see the true colors of his gf
@@Prots0392she should've saved him the time, money, and heartache by telling him immediately bruh what a bad cousin
@@Pokemon_Doge as the op said , she wasn't aware of the fact that they were serious
@-Zex- Same if she did tell that cousin he still blows her op off calling her snappy which I believe is Richie herself and chooses Richie well Glad the male cousin and figure Richie is nothing but a insecure jealous narcissistic gold digger.
Women discussing the attractiveness of a male colleague is normal in a workplace? Wha the f-?
No man these days would even think about discussing how attractive a female colleague is.
This is normal. They weren't hitting on him or anything like that, just saying that he's attractive
no offense but you clearly don't have close friends it seems
@@degenerate_mercenary9898 for saying that a woman is beautiful? I doubt it. Like I said, is not like they were harassing/ making advances on him.
That is normal dude. Like, at my work i've talked with my colleagues about other girls at the office being hot. That doesn't mean we will try to fuck them or anything, just that we find them pretty.
Women also do that. It is not something weird, at least not in my work experience.
@@degenerate_mercenary9898No, we don't get fired for this. I've talked with other male colleagues about how we find a new girl at the office hot or things like that. No one will fire you for that.
OP is a MASSIVE POS for not warning her own family member about how much of a douche Richie was.
Idk why women are so petty, but everyone here is an ah.
I 100% agree, if it my close family member I would warn them in order to make the right choice. She could cheat down the line and cousin wouldn’t have seen it coming. OP is kinda of an asshole in this story too.
Tbh, if I was OP, I’d tell my cousin. My younger cousins are like my brothers, and we grew up that way. If they came to me for advice they often listened, especially when they’re unsure of themselves. If the person they’re dating is full of BS i’d tell them. Nevermind the heartbreak, we can help mend that. Better early on than down the line
This some highschool BS
Op did well. 🎉
so women are okay with being friends with cheaters unless they piss them off. nice
As a dude I’m glad I’ll never have to go through all this BS drama 😂😂😂 women can be so insecure, jealous and toxic, even to their “””BFF”””.
If any of my bros made it I’ll be so happy for the dude and I know they’ll feel the same way for me.
Bruh there are toxic dudes, crab mentality dudes (I'll keep you down here with me), count yourself lucky you've never met them
Men act just as brutal if not more with each other. Have you seen the way guys act towards their friends when a girl they like shows up? Instantly they put each other down to appear on top.
Both genders are equally bad bud
“richie is getting bitchy”
The gendering in this story is all over the place. made it hard to follow
MISCOMMUNICATION -- tbh i doubt this is the whole story
God she is a way better person than I am 💀
Girls💅
6:27
wimin ☕ ....
This sounds like a made up story that you would find on Wattpad
Was this written by ai or something? It's full of typos and errors.
I dunno whos worst OP or Riche ...but OP really annoys me
I don't see why OP is annoying or even bad, she was betrayed by a jealous and petty "friend" who backstabbed her and gossipeped about her because she was a petty jealous b*tch.
Burn
Why are you gender swapping names?
Utterly childish that Richie is throwing a hissy fit
Like I understand she’d be upset that OP didn’t tell her how well she’s doing in her work and would feel insecure how OP gets to dine at good restaurants but at the same time, it doesn’t excuse what she did all because of mere jealousy. Seriously, Richie needs to grow up if she’s gonna get all butthurt that OP is doing well in life. I pretty much cringed when Richie mentioned how OP’s an “elite” all because she’s doing well in her career and eating out in fancy restaurants with her colleagues. Good on OP for exposing both Jill and Richie, as well as ruining Richie’s relationship with her cousin. Pretty rich of Richie to badmouth OP for going to expensive restaurants when OP’s cousin literally gifts her expensive necklaces and even got her own phone 🤦♀️
Boring story