For real, I don't know why OP doesn't just leave her. That was 100% abuse and she doesn't want to fix the marriage. Only thing OP can do at this point is divorce her and fight tooth and nail to get the kids
Same. I mean, how will OP know that her ex's parents will actually hold up their side of the deal? She should've gone scorched earth because honestly that seems like the only way to finally "fix" her ex.
@Hippopotomonstrosesquippedalio that's the entire first story. The woman thought she could get child support from op, who is also a woman, for a child that couldn't possibly be hers, cause, ya know, they're both women
@@colemanroberts1102 And depending on state in many countries and states they give you 1 or 2 year leeway. Some countries give even options to opt out when you can prove it was deception and you didn't know, after learning the fact you have also from 1 to 2 years to opt out.
Story 2 - The wife is utter trash and OP needs to get away from her ASAP. Also needs to get the kids away from here ASAP. She's abusive and will only ruin the kids with her toxic mindset.
@@funtimegenshin6973okay I feel like an idiot right now I didn't notice the fact that there was two stories and I didn't watch the entire video and I was still on the first one
I wish they had recorded the interactions, her inactivities, etc in the case of a divorce. Custody is completely rigged in favor of mothers, even if they're horrible people and horrible influences to the children, they will will 90% of the time, so you need to have as much evidence that they are neglectful or unfit to parent.
@@elongatedsedation324True, but then, custody is yanked away from the mothers, when the children go into the foster care system, or become wards of the state.
Story 2 I heard this one before. Op should divorce her and file for full custody after that. Plus what bs that people were trying to defend her. If a man left his children in what he thought was a home invasion they would be screaming to never let him see them again.
Story 2: Talk to a lawyer, get the ball rolling for divorce, go to individual therapy. See if you can file for full custody as well. She needs serious help and she is not willing to go and get it, so you need to leave. I’m sorry you have normalized receiving abuse OP. No one should go through that
@@ManinawigSame here. I predict that, the kids will be removed from their mother when someone contacts social services, the twin daughters will be placed with other families through closed adoption, the sons will be placed in the foster care system, and not only will the siblings be separated, during the removal, they'll also lose contact with each other, next, after aging out of the system, the oldest son will marry a girl who's in a broken home, have a kid with her, abuse her, mentally/emotionally, verbally, and worse, physically, and get thrown in jail, when her father and the police rescue her and her kid, the youngest son will stay with a girl whose mother is neglectful, only to become a single father, after his baby mama self-deletes, then, move with his kid to another state to provide her with a stable home, raise his kid with the help of kind roommates, get his GED certificate, find a cheaper, and nicer apartment in a safe neighborhood, work one or two odd jobs to support his single-parent family, and have to have a neighbor keep an eye on his kid because he won't have OP or other relatives in his new state to help out; all he and his kid will have is each other.⚠️
@@danacarter9147 sorry, I was talking talking about the wrong story. Given the mother's apperant mental illness, and the father's mental and financial stability, he has a very solid foundation to keep his children. Even in the US. Your views are, as I said before, quite pessimistic.
That or the post-partum depression is so bad that she's gonna end up either killing OP or the kids. Some people might think that's a stretch but that's the number one reason a mother murks her husband and kids is because of unchecked post-partum depression.
I hope the kid is okay. Having a mother who doesn't take care of her bipolar disorder is hell. I think op should have sued, it might come back to bite if the ex doesn't get better and gets smarter.
Story 2. Nta. This woman is dangerous not only to his kids but to Op himself. She is very emotionally and mentally abusive to him and the kids. She's being very controlling manipulative as well. She's just evil. She is so disrespectful there are so many red flags flying that there's no way she's not either doing drugs or cheating.
Story 2: dude... my God why are you still with her?! She is abusive as fuck, probably, nah scratsch that, she _is_ cheating on you and she just doesnt love you anymore. You must leave, for the kids. Staying for the kids will only hurt them
Hell to the no she don’t owe her ex wife shit. That child was conceived through cheating not a mutual agreement. Not her problem, the situation with her now wife was/is different since no trust was broken and no one was deceived. Don’t even think about helping her. She made her choices now she have to live with it.
story 2 the op needs to leave and take his kids with him the wife is really a bad person cause if the person really was there to hurt them the kids would either be dead or kidnaped
I really had to go back and listen to it again after she said that she was happy for a millisecond. And then got sad when she realized that she can’t be the father because they are both cisgender women
Story 1 😂😂😂😂😂 I knew one of those lesbians who was a down low bi woman that turned up pregnant one day and claimed she never cheated and was "100% lesbian" etc like her.
See, that's why I don't like bi women(and pan for that matter), as easily as they can like you and be with you, they also can with the other gender. Cheating is already awful but cheating with a dude AND getting pregnant?Nah, bitch.
Story 2: She has zero respect for OP and he is too afraid to stand up for himself. This can only end in divorce. Threats of divorce and constant disrespect show how she feels about him. The worst part is that even if he divorces her that she will use the kids against him.
story 2, OP needs to get video evidence through secret recording if possible , if he divorces her , she is the type that will ruin him with lies and false accusations . but he really needs to protect his kids as right now they are normalizing this and they are going to suffer in future relationships
OP from the second story needs to cut the crap. That venomous harpy doesn't love you. Also, her behavior is rubbing off on your kids. Time to leave her messy ass and save your children. All the abuse and other things are not healthy. Leave and seek majority custody.
Why is it always women who say the ex should pay for the cheaters child in so many of these stories? What’s wrong with so many women and their world view?
You know, last time I heard a story on reddit like this second one, the guy just pushed for a year, then when he finally decided to make something, the wife killed both his child and tried to kill herself. Let's pray for this guy, he will need it.
story 1: to nice a doormat. how tf would you give the condo?? a car looses 1/2 its value of the lot. story 2: Divorce, this is an abusive relationship and only you want to work on it, whilst the other doesn't care/or see the problem (which is bizarre). One is starting to acting like her which is bad, and the other is probably going to have ptsd because of this
On story 1: Ehhh, if OP has enough money that the condo isn't going to break her, it might have looked like it was reasonable on the basis of just avoid the stress and the legal fight. "Here's 100 bucks for you to fuck off". Sure, it's a lot more money than that, but hey, she might be wealthy enough that this wouldn't feel that bad for her. And if the Ex wasn't, to use the technical term, a , hey, it might have even worked.
If this was a man talking like this to a woman, everyone would go ballistic. This is straight abuse on so many levels. I'm a strong believer that mental and emotional abuse is so much worse than physical abuse. She's also refusing therapy. This guy needs to run and run fast... She's probably already sleeping with someone else...
I feel bad for OP 2. He needs to get it together... He's so used to this abuse that he finds it normal. Its really scary for the kids. Better to have NC with the mother than a daily toxic environment.
Man...The first story reminds me of one of my friend's situation and the second story reminds me of my SIL... My friend is a lesbian and she broke up with her GF after she found out that the GF was pregnant after cheating on her. My 2nd oldest SIL is literally the "You don't love our kids because you don't spend enough time with them" and "I need the weekends off from having to take care of the kids cuz I worked on the weekdays" kind of person (she literally said those words). A few years back, they owned a restaurant and so she worked in the restaurant as the cashier up front and server. They were opened 10am-10pm. She used that as the excuse for my brother to have to take care of the kids on the weekends so that she can go out to relax. He worked a full time job from 7 in the morning, helped out at the restaurant right after he got out of work at 3pm, and then worked on his side business (fixing computers) until 1 to 2am. His income was what was keeping their family afloat. They used the restaurant profit to pay off both their student loans and then his regular income to pay their bills, expenses, and their house. She was a POS mother that couldn't stand her kids, but their kids loved my brother. They didn't even know the concept of what a mother was and called everyone who cared for them "mom," but there was only one dad. 😂 I (their aunt) was mom, all their other aunts were mom, their grandparents were mom, and all their uncles were also mom. 😂
Reminds me of those two news stories. One is a woman explaining why she was right to leave her children in a burning building to save herself. The other is a female cat, burned horribly because she went back into a burning house multiple times until she had saved all her kittens
Yeah, once you end up working *and* doing most of the chores, the marriage is over and it's time to leave. Whatever may have been between you and your wife before that point is definitely and irrevocably gone and she's just using you to have an easy and simple life for herself without having to put any effort into anything. Dump her ass asap. Honestly at that point she doesn't need help, what she needs is getting dumped by OP (with OP getting full custody of the children), and then she needs to end up with someone who is just as abusive and manipulative as she is. If those kinds of people ever learn it's by showing them exactly what they are doing by letting them experience it for themselves. Of course, no normal human being would stoop to such levels, so the next best option is to just get abusers paired up with each other and watch while they're putting all effort into making each others lives hell for fun. Some people are damaged and mentally ill. Others just have a really shitty personality. I don't think any amount of trauma or mental illness can ever excuse such prolonged abuse and manipulation like OP had suffered, people who do that and refuse therapy and treatment are just bad people using their illness as a get out of jail card. I might be a bit biased because I myself was blessed with spending my first 12 years with a highly abusive and manipulative "mother" who had a habit of always using mental illnesses as an excuse for her behavior while never doing anything to correct it, but I honestly believe that such people deserve nothing but suffering, misery, and complete loneliness until the very end of their (hopefully long) lives.
Maternal instinct should kick in fight not flight. She is a terrible mother. It sounds like she wouldn’t even make Sophie’s choice and just give both children up.
The OP on the second story is a doormat, just divorce her and leave her and your kids as well, yeah he have to paid child support, but that won't last that long remember he does everything if he isnt around what do you think is going to happen?
Record what she has been saying and get cameras. With this kind of evidence and the fact she left 2 infants to the mercy of a mysterious man to save herself when she has a working phone. OP could easily get custody of the children because she would be seen as unfit to parent the children. Not to mention she is doing everything she can to avoid responsibility.
Story 1: The mother in law's beliefs are not only spiritual. This sort of thing is actually a law in my country. The concept of Illegitimate child is not in the law. Just saying about straight marriages as Same gender marriages are not recognized here.
I am sick of people acting like having depression makes you automatically bat sh*t crazy. My dad was bipolar and I might have it as well. We aren’t crazy actually pretty down to earth and have rather laid back in demeanors. I feel like some people who have depression use this illness for an excuse. Oh I was acting like a witch because you didn’t give in to my wishes it oh because of my depression. Oh and I should not have to apologize because of it. It is not my fault type attitude and everything I did or said is a product of the illness so, I shouldn’t be held responsible. I am not going to lie and say I have never got nasty with someone I love because of my depression. The important distinction is that I do actually apologize in a reasonable time. I also actively work on myself to become better. Depression is not an excuse to act and do whatever you want with no consequences.
@@holyroman6541 I understand they’re not totally the same but they are still in the same ballpark. My dad was bipolar and he was not crazy. He would be a curmudgeon for sure on his bad days and tended to isolate himself them.
Bipolar is way more stigmatized than depression. As someone that has two less stigmatized afflictions people don't take seriously (ADHD + depression) I can confidently tell you you're not treated as an alien. Whereas people afflicted with bipolar or a personality disorder are actively "othered" for it and painted as lunatics.
Yeah should go without saying that in relationships where procreation isn't possible, you should probably discuss options before deciding unilaterally on surrogacy
Why tf wont the dude in Story 2 divorce his abusive wife. I will say this. Nothing. And i mean nothing is worth more than your own mental health. The fact the dude has normalized her behavior, he needs a psychiatrist and not a therapist. That is like almost dissociation. I hope the dude in Story 2 gets help because my God, my dude, have some self-worth.
Need to be recording this stuff. Stop being an idiot and letting her do this to you. It’s definitely not okay that she does any of this to you. But if you’re going to sit there and take it and not do something about it, why complain about it ?
1 story is wild. You have a lesbian relationship, next thing your partner arrives and says I'm pregnant! You understand that she is clearly BI and was cheating with some dude and even managed to get pregnant without consulting with you, later you realize she is batshit crazy, LATER on she wasn't simply a crazy ex and BI she was also garden tool............The only upside in all of this, she doesn't need paternity test and doesn't need to prove that it's actually not her child. Wild stuff, shouldn't have given the condo though......I cannot even condemn her for cheating she beyond condemning 2 story, she is cheating and OP is really a little bitch. If of course what he said is true.
I find it hard to believe that OP would just totally be okay with staying with a woman who got pregnant shortly before they started dating after what happened with the ex. I'm calling BS on this story,
1. OP's a woman, so definetly not her kid 2. The cheater wasn't even sure who the kid belongs to because she slept with three different dudes around that time
Stop saying cis, youre a man or a woman, the trans people have to say trans before they say man or woman, normal people existed before them we arent 2nd place to the world.
Bro the way I laughed when she said "but then I remembered we are both cis women" 😂😂😂
Yeah, made me think this is fake. You can't make a hot dog with two baps.
Fishy fingers just got welcome to manhood didn't she
@@toadman5184as in she (Bisexual?) Ex cheated on the (Lesbian?) OP with a man, who got her pregnant, not hard to figure out lol.
So what made the ex think that she was going to win child support? They’re both women, so it’s not like the judge can play favourites 😂😂
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I probably would have went nuclear if I were OP. I'm tired of people coddling folks that act like OP's wife. Time to bounce like a basketball.
For real, I don't know why OP doesn't just leave her. That was 100% abuse and she doesn't want to fix the marriage. Only thing OP can do at this point is divorce her and fight tooth and nail to get the kids
Same.
I mean, how will OP know that her ex's parents will actually hold up their side of the deal?
She should've gone scorched earth because honestly that seems like the only way to finally "fix" her ex.
Girl really thought she could get child support from her lesbian ex
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@Hippopotomonstrosesquippedalio that's the entire first story. The woman thought she could get child support from op, who is also a woman, for a child that couldn't possibly be hers, cause, ya know, they're both women
@@Reaper-bd9blto be fair, guys can still be held on the hook for child support even if a DNA test proves they can't be the father either.
@@colemanroberts1102 only if they signed the birth certificate or were married to them at the time
@@colemanroberts1102 And depending on state in many countries and states they give you 1 or 2 year leeway. Some countries give even options to opt out when you can prove it was deception and you didn't know, after learning the fact you have also from 1 to 2 years to opt out.
Story 2 - The wife is utter trash and OP needs to get away from her ASAP. Also needs to get the kids away from here ASAP. She's abusive and will only ruin the kids with her toxic mindset.
Exactly she is the worst he needs to divorce her and take the kids
@@funtimegenshin6973the original poster is a female
@@funtimegenshin6973okay I feel like an idiot right now I didn't notice the fact that there was two stories and I didn't watch the entire video and I was still on the first one
I wish they had recorded the interactions, her inactivities, etc in the case of a divorce. Custody is completely rigged in favor of mothers, even if they're horrible people and horrible influences to the children, they will will 90% of the time, so you need to have as much evidence that they are neglectful or unfit to parent.
@@elongatedsedation324True, but then, custody is yanked away from the mothers, when the children go into the foster care system, or become wards of the state.
Story 2 I heard this one before. Op should divorce her and file for full custody after that. Plus what bs that people were trying to defend her. If a man left his children in what he thought was a home invasion they would be screaming to never let him see them again.
I bet she's also cheating
Her day to day behavior is also inexcusable. There's no reason he shouldn't divorce.
Story 2: Talk to a lawyer, get the ball rolling for divorce, go to individual therapy. See if you can file for full custody as well. She needs serious help and she is not willing to go and get it, so you need to leave. I’m sorry you have normalized receiving abuse OP. No one should go through that
Honestly, I am afraid for the kids too... that lady is so unhinged that my mind is thinking of ways to force a diagnosis.
@@ManinawigSame here. I predict that, the kids will be removed from their mother when someone contacts social services, the twin daughters will be placed with other families through closed adoption, the sons will be placed in the foster care system, and not only will the siblings be separated, during the removal, they'll also lose contact with each other, next, after aging out of the system, the oldest son will marry a girl who's in a broken home, have a kid with her, abuse her, mentally/emotionally, verbally, and worse, physically, and get thrown in jail, when her father and the police rescue her and her kid, the youngest son will stay with a girl whose mother is neglectful, only to become a single father, after his baby mama self-deletes, then, move with his kid to another state to provide her with a stable home, raise his kid with the help of kind roommates, get his GED certificate, find a cheaper, and nicer apartment in a safe neighborhood, work one or two odd jobs to support his single-parent family, and have to have a neighbor keep an eye on his kid because he won't have OP or other relatives in his new state to help out; all he and his kid will have is each other.⚠️
@@danacarter9147 sorry, I was talking talking about the wrong story. Given the mother's apperant mental illness, and the father's mental and financial stability, he has a very solid foundation to keep his children. Even in the US.
Your views are, as I said before, quite pessimistic.
She’s also showing all the habits of a cheater.
Story 2: Bro needs to leave her and take the kids. She’s either bipolar or cheating while projecting her insecurities onto OP.
That or the post-partum depression is so bad that she's gonna end up either killing OP or the kids. Some people might think that's a stretch but that's the number one reason a mother murks her husband and kids is because of unchecked post-partum depression.
I hope the kid is okay. Having a mother who doesn't take care of her bipolar disorder is hell.
I think op should have sued, it might come back to bite if the ex doesn't get better and gets smarter.
Story 2. Nta. This woman is dangerous not only to his kids but to Op himself.
She is very emotionally and mentally abusive to him and the kids.
She's being very controlling manipulative as well. She's just evil.
She is so disrespectful there are so many red flags flying that there's no way she's not either doing drugs or cheating.
Isn't that what most average women do?
@@lifeisamess8100 some yeah but I don't know if I would say most.
@@juliearmfield2634don’t feed the troll
@@lifeisamess8100 if that’s what you think an “average” woman is then, brother, you need to pick your girlfriends better.
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Story 2: dude... my God why are you still with her?! She is abusive as fuck, probably, nah scratsch that, she _is_ cheating on you and she just doesnt love you anymore. You must leave, for the kids. Staying for the kids will only hurt them
That's why you always expose the cheater so they can't control the narrative and do shit like this in the future
Story 2 has one of the biggest doormats I've ever heard of.
Hell to the no she don’t owe her ex wife shit. That child was conceived through cheating not a mutual agreement. Not her problem, the situation with her now wife was/is different since no trust was broken and no one was deceived. Don’t even think about helping her. She made her choices now she have to live with it.
Damn right. The ex literally fucked around and found out.
story 2 the op needs to leave and take his kids with him the wife is really a bad person cause if the person really was there to hurt them the kids would either be dead or kidnaped
that therapist needs to also be fired and have their license removed
I really had to go back and listen to it again after she said that she was happy for a millisecond. And then got sad when she realized that she can’t be the father because they are both cisgender women
Story 1 😂😂😂😂😂 I knew one of those lesbians who was a down low bi woman that turned up pregnant one day and claimed she never cheated and was "100% lesbian" etc like her.
See, that's why I don't like bi women(and pan for that matter), as easily as they can like you and be with you, they also can with the other gender.
Cheating is already awful but cheating with a dude AND getting pregnant?Nah, bitch.
The award for the world biggest doormat goes to OP #2
2: Wife isn't a diamond. She's a huge lump of coal
For the second story- divorce, take kids custody, and child support from the evil wife.
Story 2: She has zero respect for OP and he is too afraid to stand up for himself. This can only end in divorce. Threats of divorce and constant disrespect show how she feels about him. The worst part is that even if he divorces her that she will use the kids against him.
Story 2: I cant feel sorry for the man.. he tolerated it for so long it became normal to him..
story 2, OP needs to get video evidence through secret recording if possible , if he divorces her , she is the type that will ruin him with lies and false accusations .
but he really needs to protect his kids as right now they are normalizing this and they are going to suffer in future relationships
OP from the second story needs to cut the crap. That venomous harpy doesn't love you. Also, her behavior is rubbing off on your kids. Time to leave her messy ass and save your children. All the abuse and other things are not healthy. Leave and seek majority custody.
Why is it always women who say the ex should pay for the cheaters child in so many of these stories? What’s wrong with so many women and their world view?
You know, last time I heard a story on reddit like this second one, the guy just pushed for a year, then when he finally decided to make something, the wife killed both his child and tried to kill herself. Let's pray for this guy, he will need it.
story 1: to nice a doormat. how tf would you give the condo?? a car looses 1/2 its value of the lot.
story 2: Divorce, this is an abusive relationship and only you want to work on it, whilst the other doesn't care/or see the problem (which is bizarre). One is starting to acting like her which is bad, and the other is probably going to have ptsd because of this
On story 1: Ehhh, if OP has enough money that the condo isn't going to break her, it might have looked like it was reasonable on the basis of just avoid the stress and the legal fight. "Here's 100 bucks for you to fuck off". Sure, it's a lot more money than that, but hey, she might be wealthy enough that this wouldn't feel that bad for her. And if the Ex wasn't, to use the technical term, a , hey, it might have even worked.
Like one minute in and I can barely keep up with the family tree. "Wife's aunt's brother's cousin's uncle's dad..." lmao
Story 2, there is no fixing that.
If this was a man talking like this to a woman, everyone would go ballistic. This is straight abuse on so many levels. I'm a strong believer that mental and emotional abuse is so much worse than physical abuse. She's also refusing therapy. This guy needs to run and run fast... She's probably already sleeping with someone else...
I feel bad for OP 2. He needs to get it together... He's so used to this abuse that he finds it normal. Its really scary for the kids. Better to have NC with the mother than a daily toxic environment.
I feel bad for all the kids in these stories and also feel bad for the repair guy.
okay second story, D I V O R C E. use the leaving kids behind thing to hopefully get more custody
Story 1 glad the ex is getting her just desserts.
I stopped when op said they were both cis women 🤣
0:36 oh...guess no one expected THAT plot twist, huh?
Story 2: JFC get a divorce. Kept waiting for that shoe to drop and nada.
Damn no motherly paternal love, abandoned the kids. Even in fear parents are relentless to not leave their kids
2.- I wonder if any of those kids is OP's. You can't fix a house on fire.
Man...The first story reminds me of one of my friend's situation and the second story reminds me of my SIL...
My friend is a lesbian and she broke up with her GF after she found out that the GF was pregnant after cheating on her.
My 2nd oldest SIL is literally the "You don't love our kids because you don't spend enough time with them" and "I need the weekends off from having to take care of the kids cuz I worked on the weekdays" kind of person (she literally said those words). A few years back, they owned a restaurant and so she worked in the restaurant as the cashier up front and server. They were opened 10am-10pm. She used that as the excuse for my brother to have to take care of the kids on the weekends so that she can go out to relax. He worked a full time job from 7 in the morning, helped out at the restaurant right after he got out of work at 3pm, and then worked on his side business (fixing computers) until 1 to 2am. His income was what was keeping their family afloat. They used the restaurant profit to pay off both their student loans and then his regular income to pay their bills, expenses, and their house. She was a POS mother that couldn't stand her kids, but their kids loved my brother. They didn't even know the concept of what a mother was and called everyone who cared for them "mom," but there was only one dad. 😂 I (their aunt) was mom, all their other aunts were mom, their grandparents were mom, and all their uncles were also mom. 😂
Reminds me of those two news stories. One is a woman explaining why she was right to leave her children in a burning building to save herself. The other is a female cat, burned horribly because she went back into a burning house multiple times until she had saved all her kittens
Story 2: DIVORCE. HER. I CANNOT STRESS THAT ENOUGH THAT IT IS WHAT SHOULD BE DONE.
Op almost had the exact same situation happen, but new girl was pregnant when they met, just didn't know it
Yeah, once you end up working *and* doing most of the chores, the marriage is over and it's time to leave. Whatever may have been between you and your wife before that point is definitely and irrevocably gone and she's just using you to have an easy and simple life for herself without having to put any effort into anything. Dump her ass asap.
Honestly at that point she doesn't need help, what she needs is getting dumped by OP (with OP getting full custody of the children), and then she needs to end up with someone who is just as abusive and manipulative as she is. If those kinds of people ever learn it's by showing them exactly what they are doing by letting them experience it for themselves. Of course, no normal human being would stoop to such levels, so the next best option is to just get abusers paired up with each other and watch while they're putting all effort into making each others lives hell for fun.
Some people are damaged and mentally ill. Others just have a really shitty personality.
I don't think any amount of trauma or mental illness can ever excuse such prolonged abuse and manipulation like OP had suffered, people who do that and refuse therapy and treatment are just bad people using their illness as a get out of jail card. I might be a bit biased because I myself was blessed with spending my first 12 years with a highly abusive and manipulative "mother" who had a habit of always using mental illnesses as an excuse for her behavior while never doing anything to correct it, but I honestly believe that such people deserve nothing but suffering, misery, and complete loneliness until the very end of their (hopefully long) lives.
Maternal instinct should kick in fight not flight. She is a terrible mother. It sounds like she wouldn’t even make Sophie’s choice and just give both children up.
what is with people condoning the cheater's behavior and demands for child support for kids that aren't the ex? it is suspicious.
Story 1: If OP was a man there would be no escape regardless the fact if he was the father or not.
“It was conceived during your marriage”
…yeah, that’s why they got a divorce
we were both "CIS" women LMFAO 😂😂😂
Story 1: typical bipolar story, but I did love the "my daughter decided she wanted some attention" update. Very cute.
Story 2: get your kids DNA tested.
story2: OP is a complete pushover
Definitely needs a divorce in Story 2. Need an update
If my wife left my daughter behind, it would be instant divorce and she would never be left alone with my daughter again.
I’m embarrassed for OP having to think about the fact that they are both women and her girlfriend can’t get pregnant with her. 😑
Story 1 was so confusing.
The OP on the second story is a doormat, just divorce her and leave her and your kids as well, yeah he have to paid child support, but that won't last that long remember he does everything if he isnt around what do you think is going to happen?
Record what she has been saying and get cameras. With this kind of evidence and the fact she left 2 infants to the mercy of a mysterious man to save herself when she has a working phone. OP could easily get custody of the children because she would be seen as unfit to parent the children. Not to mention she is doing everything she can to avoid responsibility.
Story 1 how did she went on to have 2 more kids?
Bro- wait no it an girl…. Girl, adopting is an choice
Story 1: The mother in law's beliefs are not only spiritual. This sort of thing is actually a law in my country. The concept of Illegitimate child is not in the law. Just saying about straight marriages as Same gender marriages are not recognized here.
Story 2. 50$ the wife is cheating and will fip out the second her budsiness makes the first 20$
I had to do a double take when she said they were both women.
Story 2, I'm sorry but he is a walking carpet
I am sick of people acting like having depression makes you automatically bat sh*t crazy. My dad was bipolar and I might have it as well. We aren’t crazy actually pretty down to earth and have rather laid back in demeanors. I feel like some people who have depression use this illness for an excuse. Oh I was acting like a witch because you didn’t give in to my wishes it oh because of my depression. Oh and I should not have to apologize because of it. It is not my fault type attitude and everything I did or said is a product of the illness so, I shouldn’t be held responsible. I am not going to lie and say I have never got nasty with someone I love because of my depression. The important distinction is that I do actually apologize in a reasonable time. I also actively work on myself to become better. Depression is not an excuse to act and do whatever you want with no consequences.
Depression and Bipolar are two very, VERY different things. No one thinks having depression makes you batshit crazy, but bipolar is a different story.
@@holyroman6541 I understand they’re not totally the same but they are still in the same ballpark. My dad was bipolar and he was not crazy. He would be a curmudgeon for sure on his bad days and tended to isolate himself them.
Bipolar is way more stigmatized than depression. As someone that has two less stigmatized afflictions people don't take seriously (ADHD + depression) I can confidently tell you you're not treated as an alien. Whereas people afflicted with bipolar or a personality disorder are actively "othered" for it and painted as lunatics.
Second guy sounds soft as hell
Yeah should go without saying that in relationships where procreation isn't possible, you should probably discuss options before deciding unilaterally on surrogacy
Confusion of the highest orda.
Why tf wont the dude in Story 2 divorce his abusive wife. I will say this. Nothing. And i mean nothing is worth more than your own mental health. The fact the dude has normalized her behavior, he needs a psychiatrist and not a therapist. That is like almost dissociation. I hope the dude in Story 2 gets help because my God, my dude, have some self-worth.
Crazy people are watching this story right as I am
WHY DID U NOT LEAD WITH SAYING U BOTH ARE WOMEN FROM BIRTH? GENDER IS ALWAYS IMPORTANT AT THE START 😭😭😭
How do lesbians decide which one of them is getting pregnant?🤔
I’m so confused why doesn’t ex sue daughter’s father for child support?
Nvm video answered question we need Maury to come out of retirement for this one
Another Simp-y OP. Shouldn't have given her a condo.
Love your videos❤
Story 1 I got confused where they lesbians or was op a trans-man (female to male)?
She was a lesbian. She is a cis-woman, which means she was assigned the gender female at birth and identifies as such.
what is a home invasion it seems to me an attempt break in
Why put story 2, it's just blue balls.
People of the comments, anyone got a link to story two? Can't find it when searching the name sjown
Need to be recording this stuff. Stop being an idiot and letting her do this to you. It’s definitely not okay that she does any of this to you. But if you’re going to sit there and take it and not do something about it, why complain about it ?
For story 2 op you have to divorce she treats you like trash
They're called "women" not "cis women".
1 story is wild. You have a lesbian relationship, next thing your partner arrives and says I'm pregnant! You understand that she is clearly BI and was cheating with some dude and even managed to get pregnant without consulting with you, later you realize she is batshit crazy, LATER on she wasn't simply a crazy ex and BI she was also garden tool............The only upside in all of this, she doesn't need paternity test and doesn't need to prove that it's actually not her child.
Wild stuff, shouldn't have given the condo though......I cannot even condemn her for cheating she beyond condemning
2 story, she is cheating and OP is really a little bitch. If of course what he said is true.
at first I was like, okay deadbeat dad, that sucks, but then BOOM lesbians exist lol
All of this could have been avoided if you just decided not to be sodomites
Story 1 - mentions that wife was preggo for the first time but later says 2 eldest were adopted? Something isn’t adding up here
Maybe adopted older kids?
Adoption means the wife wasn't pregnant with them. So it does add up.
All i hear is op being a doormat n allowing his kids to see him being abused
What does cis-woman mean?
A birth woman that identifies as a woman
A woman that was biologically born as female. Important to mention in the first story because some trans women can still impregnate others
Huh
This lesbians gay-dar is super weak
I heard “cis woman”
Poof stop the video immediately
Story 1: women ☕️???????
I find it hard to believe that OP would just totally be okay with staying with a woman who got pregnant shortly before they started dating after what happened with the ex. I'm calling BS on this story,
seventh
u wasted ur time
Wait on the first story why didn't he get a DNA test? Is the girl his or not?!?
They're both women, dude.
🤦 listen again, my friend
1. OP's a woman, so definetly not her kid
2. The cheater wasn't even sure who the kid belongs to because she slept with three different dudes around that time
Welcome to manhood fishy fingers get used to it
Stop saying cis, youre a man or a woman, the trans people have to say trans before they say man or woman, normal people existed before them we arent 2nd place to the world.
your "milisecond" of happiness are questionable
Story 2: Leave her you stupid bastard! At this point he deserves to suffer!
Story 2: your a FOOL