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  • čas přidán 19. 04. 2022
  • Everyone wants a dog until they've got to clean up after the dog! You would've thought I asked this man Uriah to hand wash the grass LOL. He had to use the jaw pooper scooper to clean up after our labradoodle, Lily, and he was in a bad way about it. It's important to me though that I teach my children how to be responsible and that they learn how to follow through, even when things are hard or uncomfortable. #BELEAFINFATHERHOOD #BELEAFANDTHEPOOPSCOOP
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  • @HeatherHasQuirks
    @HeatherHasQuirks Před 2 lety +1205

    Beleaf, you did right!! It’s so unrealistic to teach your children that they will never have to do anything they don’t want to. It’s actually ridiculous to not have your kids LEARN WHAT RESPONSIBILITY is. That’s one of the biggest issues with adults today…entitlement. That’s all I’m gonna say. Great job Dad!!

    • @obiwanobi4091
      @obiwanobi4091 Před 2 lety +54

      The irony is that those people making those comments have poorly behaved children yet feel qualified to give parenting advice. If you gave them parenting advice they’d be in their feelings and tell you there’s no one way to parent 🙄

    • @lediana_de
      @lediana_de Před 2 lety +9

      @@obiwanobi4091 word

    • @sarahconner2832
      @sarahconner2832 Před 2 lety +2

      Yeah, but if your kids is really struggling, you can find an appropriate alternative or compromise, or a better idea that still gets the same results.

    • @sarahconner2832
      @sarahconner2832 Před 2 lety +2

      I used to raise English Labrador Retriever puppies when my kids were young. I got up before the dogs and took them for a walk and then fed them before the family got up. I had like six adult dogs and several puppies and I didn't even have to put them on a leash because they knew that they get food after the walk so they always went back to the kennels with no problems. Plus we were in the country.
      But when I did live in the city I just found an appropriate place where they could go with dignity and keep my dignity as well.
      It's not about the kids. It's about the dog. The dog is now resented. Too bad you didn't record them saying that they would clean it up! Then you would have a verbal contract and you could teach them the value of a mans word.

    • @caroljean161
      @caroljean161 Před 2 lety +37

      @@sarahconner2832 you are missing the point which is that Riah is learning through his experience, and often we ALL have to do stuff we don’t like in order to do stuff we do like.

  • @shekinahglory604
    @shekinahglory604 Před 2 lety +575

    “Dad, I’m a widdle girl.” 😂
    Brothers come in handy!

    • @lahawk2931
      @lahawk2931 Před 2 lety +5

      Cracked me up!

    • @sgayles11
      @sgayles11 Před rokem +8

      I hollered when Glenn said “I know who you are.” 🥳❤️

    • @kallyfrederick2499
      @kallyfrederick2499 Před rokem

      @@lahawk2931 me too😁😁

    • @uncclelocc
      @uncclelocc Před rokem +3

      Baby Girls learn early how to use their cuteness. My tip is don't look them in the eyes...

    • @RachelSocially
      @RachelSocially Před rokem +1

      I laughed so hard!🤣🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @redgarnet27
    @redgarnet27 Před 2 lety +623

    He’ll be just fine, nothing in the world would get done if we all didn’t do what we don’t like doing.

    • @ltarleton7527
      @ltarleton7527 Před 2 lety +29

      Exactly! Who makes comments like that?! So when my students say I don't wanna do my school work....I should say "Oh, okay." 👀🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @obiwanobi4091
      @obiwanobi4091 Před 2 lety +21

      The irony is that those people making those comments have poorly behaved children yet feel qualified to give parenting advice. If you gave them parenting advice they’d be in their feelings and tell you there’s no one way to parent 🙄

    • @sarahconner2832
      @sarahconner2832 Před 2 lety +1

      When a child speaks up, for an adult to automatically stereotype that child as lazy, deviant, or conniving is a brutal judgement.
      Children are not pure evil. Although, you have experience with children, I assume that you do not have the best relationship with your former students.
      If a child acts out, or speaks up, and their behavior is merely scolded and dismissed. You have officially stifled his freedom of speech. Who are you, to think that you have the authority to deny a child a chance to be heard, to plead their case, whatever it may be, and to be taken seriously.
      Your intentions are good. You have higher standards for them to live up to. You hold them accountable. You expect nothing less than perfection because you want what is best for them in this hard cruel world. Life is tough. I will grant you that. But when a child starts to cry, and you dismiss it, and you don't take the time to look them in the 👀 eyes and listen, and hug them, and have some compassion; Well, you just become one of those monsters that you are trying to protect them from, because you choose to bully and "act like you DON'T CARE ABOUT their precious innocent feelings.
      You see them kids. They are not bad kids. They are good kids. They are soft. So what!!! The love of a family should be soft. This father does an impeccable job and he feels peer pressure to bully his kids because you all have a chip on your shoulder because nobody listened whenever you was crying neither.
      Do you think you are a better person because you are so hard? Because I don't see it that way.
      Do you remember the people who scolded you with love and affection? Do you go out of your way to seek out the people who dismissed your childhood tears and thank them for being so mean to you and for hurting your feelings time and time again. Are you grateful to those people who hurt you when you needed a hug? Do remember those fondly who kicked you whilst you were down, calling it "tough love", alienating you, judging you, and strong arm pushing you away like the famous Hiesman 🏆 Trophy (images.app.goo.gl/2U7SdQLA1HcMauQh6 )?
      The days where these babies are no longer sweet, and huggable, and kind, and innocent, and an open 📖 book fades away more and more every day. Why do parents feel like it's their responsibility to make sure that sweet innocent children get their hard knocks when they are tenderhearted? Scolding children is not ALWAYS the answer.
      It would have been hilarious if Mr. B. would not have just outright dismissed his tears. It would have been a way cuter video if he would have taken a much more gentle approach and taken the time to listen to what the child wanted to say. And let them cry it out. And talk them through it. And hug them through it. And go through it with them, like a support person.
      When life gets tough, we tend to navigate towards our support people. Well, are you going to step up, and show that kid an example of friendship, support through a tough time, even if it is just dog poo, or homework. If a child has the nerve to get the attention of an adult. The nerve to speak up! The hurt so deep that he's crying is a sign that this kid needs more hugs. He is a softy. He is a sweetheart. Don't take that away from him because your life was so hard, so e'rybody life should be hard and you gonna make sure of that because you got a big ol' chip on your shoulder.
      Nah, I ain't saying he did nothing wrong. I guess "rough tough love" is like some kinda man code.
      But if he so soft that he's going to cry about poo duty, or about that he felt like he did his poo duty and nobody believes him or maybe he just feels like you are trying to make him look bad in the videos. I really don't know what that child was thinking because nobody gave him a chance to express himself.
      I ain't saying, Don't make him do it!!!
      All I am saying is "take a little more time, and listen to what is going on"
      Maybe he was sleepy.... kids cry when they sleepy
      Maybe he needed a snack
      Kids cry when they sugar crashing
      Maybe he needed someone to acknowledge that he has been doing his fair share and the reason he was crying was because you dismissed him when he tried to tell you that and it hurt his feelings because he is a good boy and you tarnishing his "reputation". Maybe he cried because he felt like you questioned his integrity as a good kid, and he values it because all this now, could have a detrimental effect on his future. If his future teachers and classmates recognize him from these videos, they might lump him in with nefarious characters, because you make it look like he's trying to get out of doing it, and all he was trying to tell you is that he has been doing it.
      Or maybe he was just having trouble adjusting to the idea of having to do it "right now".
      I used to always warn my children in advance before I expected them to do something. That way, it would give them time "to adjust" to the 💡 idea and wrap their brains around it, so when I did come to execute the plan, they might still come along reluctantly, but it wasn't quite a shock to the system. Children and mentally challenged people need time to adjust. It's less stress on their systems if you say, "Kiddos, in five minutes we are going to put our stuff away, and get our coats on and go outside."
      Or "kiddos, in five minutes we all going to brush our teeth and get into our pajamas."
      And by the way, at 5AM when I was walking them dogs. One of the kids was always happy to go with me and help me walk and feed the dogs. And we just put on our bathrobes and sweat pants and a hoodie, (cuz if you look crazy, people are less likely to mess with you) and rain, snow, or wind.... We were out there walking them giant 🐕 dogs so's we didn't have to mess with no Giant 💩 poo!!! Fresh air, and exercise and showing kids to be responsible by BEING RESPONSIBLE.
      NOT SITTING BEHIND A DESK OR ON A COUCH and having "impracticable expectations".
      You will spend less time arguing with children if you show them how to get it done faster, easier, more efficiently, show them the clock, show them how long it takes, show them that it's nothing to cry about. Throw some at them!(;but don't hit them). Chase em around with it!(;but don't catch them).Dare them to lick it off a stick!(; but don't let them! Tell them how it can cause viral meningitis!)
      He didn't learn anything from that except he got another hard lesson in "nobody cares" and "nobody ever listens to me" and "I am a good kid, why you always tryna make me look bad!"
      Just like the broken down sorry excuse for a justice system that we have that says "You are presumed innocent until your proven guilty", well if you are presumed innocent, why are you locked up and not allowed to defend yourself? Why is your face plastered all over the news? Why aren't people allowed to tell their side of the story? Why do they pull over innocent people who aren't hurting anyone, nor violating any traffic laws, nor creating scene, all day long? I thought they were supposed to be crime fighters! Not criminal revenue creators and revenue special forces units. I don't get it.
      We are supposed to uplift one another. Take care of one another. How can a community, a classroom, and a family have that much needed sense of stability when you're divided against one another. This is how great kingdoms fall.
      Having high expectations is not a bad intention, but sometimes we go about it the wrong way. Which is why history repeats itself, and people get a big chip on their shoulder, and think horrible thoughts, and judge too harshly and/or without information or education, nor empathy or compassion.
      It hurts me to think a teacher is so jaded. Kids just want you to like them and they want to have a good reason to like you. Kids are awesome people, but they are tenderhearted little people and you might want to think about how you treat children, because you might end up in a home someday and one of your former students might be responsible for your care. I would consider that thought the next time you choose to give a sweet little innocent child who generally is a good natured kid, a hard time when they are "crying for help, or acknowledgement".

    • @sarahconner2832
      @sarahconner2832 Před 2 lety +1

      @@ltarleton7527 If a child uses their voice to express their feelings, and you ignore them, scold them and dismiss them, you may have missed out on a chance to entertain an angel.

    • @ruckes13
      @ruckes13 Před 2 lety

      I agree 👍

  • @natasha007
    @natasha007 Před 2 lety +621

    Riah's Face: "It's a nah for me."
    Naya: "I'm a wittle girl."
    Translation: "I'm not the one, son!"

    • @lavish169
      @lavish169 Před 2 lety +13

      Lol they are so funny

    • @natasha007
      @natasha007 Před 2 lety +13

      @@lavish169 Hilarious! I would have been crying too. This is reason #1 why I don't have a dog.

    • @CatsAndPokemon
      @CatsAndPokemon Před 2 lety +51

      Naya is soooo adorable. She's like ummm I'm princess, remember?? 💁🏿‍♀️

    • @GildedWarrior331
      @GildedWarrior331 Před 2 lety +7

      I luv these kids lol 🤣

    • @mjohnson6841
      @mjohnson6841 Před 2 lety +2

      @@CatsAndPokemon 🤣🤣

  • @Obeox
    @Obeox Před 2 lety +298

    People telling you to not force the kids are the same ones who have disrespectful and lazy brats at home.
    You are doing a great job👏🏾

    • @lateashprince
      @lateashprince Před 2 lety +2

      💯💯💯

    • @SimplyCiCi894
      @SimplyCiCi894 Před 2 lety

      Amen!!

    • @ivyjean4085
      @ivyjean4085 Před 2 lety +1

      Yeap I agree my kids father is the one that says don’t force our kids and I’m the one trying to push them to be responsible or sucks because now I have to change the things he created.

    • @michellesmith1328
      @michellesmith1328 Před 2 lety +4

      I don't have children but reading these comments I'm like this is simple responsibility this isn't torture and he will get use to it. That's why we have so many people who feel entitled because they weren't taught responsibility and have child like melt downs

    • @sarahconner2832
      @sarahconner2832 Před 2 lety +1

      @@michellesmith1328 Childlike meltdowns because they didn't get their own way.
      That's a tantrum.
      Crying is not a tantrum. There's a huge difference.
      I don't believe that any of them kids are deviant to a fault. Them kids are all decent little human beings. I ain't never seen a tantrum from any of them. They are very well adjusted kiddos.

  • @jayyp.
    @jayyp. Před 2 lety +408

    Why am I already crying at his face😂 One thing about Riah, his face is going to show every emotion before he utters a word!

    • @cancandoit
      @cancandoit Před 2 lety +5

      😂😂😂

    • @taharmusarsedeq7336
      @taharmusarsedeq7336 Před 2 lety +4

      😂😂😂

    • @dmc005
      @dmc005 Před 2 lety +12

      🤣🤣 Not impressed straight face 😑😑😑😂😂

    • @cooksous
      @cooksous Před 2 lety +14

      😭😭😭😭 the betrayal in his eyes 😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @srwarren103
      @srwarren103 Před 2 lety +9

      He’s soo pure n genuine

  • @PressingForwardSheenaA
    @PressingForwardSheenaA Před 2 lety +357

    She said dad, I’m a little girl. Too cute❤️❤️❤️

    • @mjohnson6841
      @mjohnson6841 Před 2 lety +34

      She's a 'wittle girl! And 'wittle girls aren't supposed to do stinky duties. I love it! ☺

    • @luyandadunjwa
      @luyandadunjwa Před 2 lety +24

      Looked him in the eyes too. 😂

    • @1Jojodee
      @1Jojodee Před 2 lety +1

      That Naya….(😈😈)!!

    • @latoyascott1147
      @latoyascott1147 Před 2 lety

      You got it bro you're doing a great job
      😑

    • @felin_de_la_nuit
      @felin_de_la_nuit Před 2 lety +1

      "wittle" 😆

  • @Silinganiso
    @Silinganiso Před 2 lety +107

    Beleaf: " You got it Riah. You're doing a great job!"
    Riah’s Face : " Don't patronize me"

  • @HighMaintenanceMinimalist
    @HighMaintenanceMinimalist Před 2 lety +109

    "I'm a widdle geeo"
    I'm officially dead. 🤣

  • @introuble873
    @introuble873 Před 2 lety +236

    Theo is such a easy going young man, he is a great big brother, he will always look out for his younger siblings. 👍Good Job Glenn and Evette!

  • @srwarren103
    @srwarren103 Před 2 lety +80

    I love it soooooo much when Anaya pleads her case, she’s learning the power of her girlie persuasion 👧🏾

  • @rasulmuhammad2343
    @rasulmuhammad2343 Před 2 lety +11

    Watching this makes me realize how irrational my dad was. It's beautiful that you let Uriah express how he feels and handle him in such a mature and adult way. In my youth my father would never have had with me the patience you had with Uriah. He'd have beat me, belittled me, and then made me do everything by myself without my siblings help. To see this contrast in parenting just goes to show how important your mentality is in life and in parenting.

  • @yolandasmalls9438
    @yolandasmalls9438 Před 2 lety +42

    Anaya's translation to "I'm a wittle girl" ....I'm a Princess & I'm beyond this. Uriah's facial expressions get me every time!🤣🤣🤣🤣 He's straight ANTI-NATURE yo!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @dwn2earth260
    @dwn2earth260 Před 2 lety +196

    Bless the father because I wouldn't have the patience for Uriah. 😂

    • @rebeccadavenport3667
      @rebeccadavenport3667 Před 2 lety +6

      Yes

    • @sashatv382
      @sashatv382 Před 2 lety +15

      That yell that Glen gave after Uriah sprayed him w/the water was really how he wanted to react/scream/yell/holla back to Uriah crying, stomping his feet & leaving to go to his room for having to scoop the poop!🤣🤣

    • @dwn2earth260
      @dwn2earth260 Před 2 lety +1

      @@sashatv382 😂😂😂😂

    • @hahihohuhey
      @hahihohuhey Před 2 lety +3

      I'm pretty sure Uriah actually has ADHD. But of course I don't want to remotely diagnose anyone.

    • @j.a6705
      @j.a6705 Před 2 lety

      😂😂😂😂

  • @BelovedofGod14
    @BelovedofGod14 Před 2 lety +216

    Please DO NOT feel discouraged, we are rooting for you, you guys ROCK parenthood!! That’s why they are called “chores” they can’t always be fun 😂

  • @nevenali7593
    @nevenali7593 Před 2 lety +110

    Riaya’s face when you said “you’re doing a good job!”

    • @nad7760
      @nad7760 Před 2 lety +10

      It’s hard when you are so vex and no cares 🤣

    • @sorol79
      @sorol79 Před 2 lety +1

      Exactly!

    • @MsLotus47
      @MsLotus47 Před 2 lety +1

      😆😆😆

  • @ashleyhw4388
    @ashleyhw4388 Před 2 lety +53

    “Dad, I’mma wittle girl.” I can’t believe she thought that would work. 😂

    • @LindaC616
      @LindaC616 Před 2 lety +8

      Lol, it may have, time will tell! 😄

    • @grayskindablue
      @grayskindablue Před rokem

      Worth a shot! Lol. My sister is a full 16 gd years older than me, and still tried similar tactics. Yeah you were a just a poor wittle teenage girl, meanwhile I was dead ass still a toddler 💀

  • @crystalpoindex
    @crystalpoindex Před 2 lety +196

    We should get Uriah his very own Hazmat suit and gas mask. He'll look official doing a chore he hates! 😂

    • @nyanya-ray7235
      @nyanya-ray7235 Před 2 lety +4

      Best idea ever!

    • @valerieriggins3184
      @valerieriggins3184 Před 2 lety +5

      That Would Have Been My First Thought Or Rushing Holding My Breath.👌

    • @sarahconner2832
      @sarahconner2832 Před 2 lety +3

      It's actually not a bad idea.

    • @maijennasis
      @maijennasis Před 2 lety +1

      as a kid I would love this😭 I get his sensitivity bc that was me too; but the emphasis on responsibility is also very important

  • @Nub1anPrincess
    @Nub1anPrincess Před 2 lety +77

    I definitely appreciate the patience you have with Uriah. You understand him and always find ways to get him to push through assignments.
    You are a great parent. Nevermind the trolls who don't see the bigger picture/lesson.👍🏾

  • @karlettakelly1807
    @karlettakelly1807 Před 2 lety +53

    Good job Daddy! Uriah's face when you told him he was "doing a good job" was priceless. Roflmao!!! The internal conflict of self pride and self pity crashed in that baby's head and stalled in his face. He will thank you when he matures and value that lesson.

    • @andre7767
      @andre7767 Před 2 lety +3

      It was a literal emotional car crash...pride and pity colliding with no brakes 😂

    • @salubriousinfo
      @salubriousinfo Před rokem

      Beaitifully described!!

  • @Courtdracula
    @Courtdracula Před 2 lety +87

    The amount of energy that went into Riah being that upset, he could have scooped the yard 3 times over lol you got this Riah, all in time my friend.

  • @Tweetztheone
    @Tweetztheone Před 2 lety +95

    Riah’s face!! This kid is over it 🤣🤣

  • @kpeezyforsheezy
    @kpeezyforsheezy Před 2 lety +125

    Look at Lily trying to comfort Riah when he was crying by the door. What a sweet girl ♥️ he has no clue what a bestfriend she’ll be to him over the years.
    In time Riah, in time… 😊

  • @reactivepidgeon1875
    @reactivepidgeon1875 Před 2 lety +35

    Since the pandemic I've learned wearing my mask while cleaning dog poop is the way to go. Cuts down the smell a good amount.

  • @lavish169
    @lavish169 Před 2 lety +54

    At least he had a scooper and didn’t have to pick it up with his hands lol

    • @1PrayerWarrior4
      @1PrayerWarrior4 Před 2 lety +1

      Yup, I had either a plastic bag or I used a garden shovel and placed said doggo poop in a paper bag. Such is the life of a young doggo owner. 😂

  • @cycyj847
    @cycyj847 Před 2 lety +28

    I like that you allow them to plead their case. They may not get to do what they want, but they get to plead their cade and also express their emotions without being punished

  • @i_am_feliealberto6243
    @i_am_feliealberto6243 Před 2 lety +34

    Uriah is going to be super grateful that he went through this..

  • @Chop.45
    @Chop.45 Před 2 lety +6

    I swear I love all the kids but Uriah is definitely my favorite he learns the hard way which is his way of learning good parenting makes great children…right on ✊🏽

  • @melmostly
    @melmostly Před 2 lety +138

    Listen, ya'lls parenting is admirable and your children seem to have such great hearts. Now that being said...this was visual birth control. 😳

    • @EchoJ
      @EchoJ Před 2 lety +17

      My thoughts exactly. I applaud those who have the patience of parents (which is more than that of saints, IMO), because Uriah would've been returned with a refund and exchanged for a rebate coupon 2 for 1 full tubal ligation and vacectomy for the husband 😂🤣😂🤣

    • @melmostly
      @melmostly Před 2 lety +18

      @@EchoJ haha I dk about returning anyone but the way he bounced between 3 kids nonstop needing him before the video was 5 min in was both impressive and terrifying lol

    • @genemark8351
      @genemark8351 Před 2 lety +6

      Lol changed my whole mind on getting a dog! 🤣

    • @anonikys
      @anonikys Před 2 lety +10

      @@melmostly That moment did it for me too 😂😂 He bounced off all 4 names in one roll of the tongue and had separate messages for each. There's no way I could keep up--I got second hand tired just witnessing 😫🤣

    • @yootoob2
      @yootoob2 Před 2 lety +4

      @@EchoJ you make me so sick 😂😂😂😂 I laughed too hard at your comment

  • @skarletcharity
    @skarletcharity Před 2 lety +17

    I am a solo mom with a 13yo son and a 7yo daughter. I love watching your videos with my kids, because you're such a great example of paternal excellence. It is very challenging to drag my kids through chores and things they don't want to do when I'm home from work, tired, and also don't want to do chores after making dinner, the homework, and packing lunch for tomorrow. Listen, my kids dont have the father figure that I wish they did, so your channel and Dad, How Do I? Have become staples in the household. I appreciate so much the effort you and your wife put into providing the world with a window into your perfectly imperfect lives. These videos are truly a lesson to families that are missing a limb.

  • @kaitlynperich5062
    @kaitlynperich5062 Před 2 lety +12

    Riah is literally my spirit animal. I totally feel the same way every Monday before I have to go back to work.

  • @Baba_Wawa
    @Baba_Wawa Před 2 lety +57

    You gotta love how dramatic kids are. When mine complain about pet chores I ask them what kind of state would they have been in if I had the same attitude about cleaning their diapers? You gotta do what ya gotta do.

  • @aldush827
    @aldush827 Před 2 lety +35

    You did a good job teaching him responsibility and perseverance. He will be ok. One day he will get a big laugh out of that day. Love watching you and your family.

  • @bthmkcherry2699
    @bthmkcherry2699 Před 2 lety +18

    😂 The way Riah stopped and looked at his dad 😅😅 Said "EVERYTHING" he knew he couldn't say!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @emilyevans3629
    @emilyevans3629 Před 2 lety +1

    You are so patient. Even your voice stays calm. I applaud your parenting.

  • @maroonwhite87
    @maroonwhite87 Před 2 lety +131

    That was so funny. The way Uriah is always able to articulate what's on his mind makes me forget how young he is. That melt down reminded me. The days are so long, but the years fly by. Enjoy the ride. By, the way, sometimes you HAVE to make your kids do things they don't like. Your family makes me smile

  • @urbanlady1.
    @urbanlady1. Před 2 lety +45

    I can listen to Nyah say girl all day. She has such a cute accent.

  • @lavish169
    @lavish169 Před 2 lety +23

    Lmaoo is he crying while scooping?? omgness this was so dramatic

  • @dejaniquenelson9458
    @dejaniquenelson9458 Před 2 lety +55

    It was Theo poking his head through the door ,Uzi saying yay to playing soccer, Uriah stopping in mid walk to stare in the camera , Anaya asking is she going to To play tennis and I’m a little girl, for me !! Yvette stay catching all of the funny ish ! I love y’all 😂😂🤍🤍

  • @junawallace7315
    @junawallace7315 Před 2 lety +8

    "Dad............I'm a widdle girl"
    Lol I'm knocked out yall

  • @Bellaei
    @Bellaei Před 2 lety +28

    That's Parenting. You're supposed to push your kids past what they think they want to do. Letting them do what they want is kinda irresponsible... Keep doing your thing Beleaf🖤

  • @itsmekiaratee
    @itsmekiaratee Před 2 lety +13

    I’m so so so happy to see you dealing with this spirit in Uriah early because there are some adult males (notice I didn’t say grown men) who still have this energy. They want to get out of everything and take no responsibility and someone in their life along the way didn’t break this within them. Riah is going to be a quality young man because he’s learning so early.

  • @candicebrunson9131
    @candicebrunson9131 Před 2 lety +1

    Man, Uriah's personality would be a huge challenge for me as a parent. I say that as an indictment on myself. I am super impatient when it comes to whining and complaining over little things.
    To see how patient you are with him is convicting and encouraging. God continue to bless you with patience and perseverance with all your beautiful children! God job Uriah on getting it done!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @Chen-my1ks
    @Chen-my1ks Před 2 lety +1

    Bro you got the patience of a saint because when Uriah started whingeing and crying whew! The length of discussion and space for those emotions. I couldnt.

  • @DJtap15
    @DJtap15 Před 2 lety +72

    I hollered when Uriah walked past Lily and she tried to touch him😂 he didn’t want anything to do with her

  • @lorettagray9041
    @lorettagray9041 Před 2 lety +17

    Uriah is hilarious 😂, I would’ve cried too ! Dad your doing a great job 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @mellie67
    @mellie67 Před 2 lety +14

    Raising a dog is SO WORTH IT. Lilly will be an amazing companion, just stick to it. It’s gets hard but by year 2-3 she will be amazing

  • @sonyatheoneyouseek5040
    @sonyatheoneyouseek5040 Před 2 lety +139

    I just started my kids doing chores as well as giving them rewards. They are 4 and 2 so the chores are like putting trash bags in the trash, putting clothes in the washing machine and little stuff like that. You guys are inspiring. At least they won't be brats. You're making your kids responsible and well rounded.

    • @LindaC616
      @LindaC616 Před 2 lety +2

      My niece, at 6 and 4, had them alternating: feeding dog, wiping down their bathroom daily, cleaning dog's nose prints off patio sliding door, etc. They'd trade off to avoid monotony and one person getting the worst of it. And they get an allowance for it

    • @sonyatheoneyouseek5040
      @sonyatheoneyouseek5040 Před 2 lety +3

      @@LindaC616 That's good that they can do all of that at such young ages and they get to learn the value of a money with their allowances.

    • @LindaC616
      @LindaC616 Před 2 lety +2

      @@sonyatheoneyouseek5040 Definitely! She said when they go into stores, they're no longer asking for things. They have their money saved. It even reached the point that when they visited Disney, they were looking very carefully at items in the gift shop. She laughed and told them "we will buy you souvenirs. You don't have to spend your own money on souvenirs."

  • @princepaakowtenteh9870
    @princepaakowtenteh9870 Před 2 lety +29

    So proud of Uriah!!!

  • @michellepegues4011
    @michellepegues4011 Před 2 lety +21

    This is part of the difficult moments of parenting. My son said he didn't want to a particular HS but once he got there he loved it. Now amd then we all have to get out of our comfort zone and push through. Amen

  • @KeemTheDream84
    @KeemTheDream84 Před 2 lety

    I admire the patience you have because that was a lot to endure with Uriah.

  • @troirimpson6081
    @troirimpson6081 Před 2 lety

    You and your wife are doing a great job raising your children! You give them freedom to be who they are, make mistakes, learn and grow…..while teaching them responsibilities and being accountable!! Beautiful Family!

  • @Healfirstthengive
    @Healfirstthengive Před 2 lety +3

    Awwwwwww! Lilly, wanted to comfort Uriah! 🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @nichebmore4520
    @nichebmore4520 Před 2 lety +5

    I am LITERALLY in tears. 😭😭The way Naya looked at him like "boy bye" when he told her she hasn't even done anything. OMG too funnyyyy.

  • @nguyenthutrang2787
    @nguyenthutrang2787 Před 2 lety +2

    At first when I watched him stomping and acting up, resisting to do the cleaning, I was so triggered. Then I realized in my childhood I've met kids like this and usually they got their ways and I, as the "obedient" one had to do things instead, so watching you guys in this video not only entertaining but also very soothing for me. Love the kids!

  • @catrinaa4315
    @catrinaa4315 Před 2 lety

    👏 I agree, Beleaf did right! Blessings & love Beleaf & family ❤️

  • @alkahinat4558
    @alkahinat4558 Před 2 lety +15

    His facial expression in the thumbnail is killing me 😩🤣😂😂😂
    We can all see what he thinks of this chore!

  • @kyragreene8690
    @kyragreene8690 Před 2 lety +39

    Theo is a stand up kid 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💕 I hope you were able to finish pressure washing the yard…Good job Theo 💕

    • @january7213
      @january7213 Před rokem

      I think he let Uriah finish it to calm him down. Theo is a rocc star🤩

  • @DakitaRFelix
    @DakitaRFelix Před 2 lety +1

    "Dad, I'm a wittle gal." Lmao, Anayah pulled the girl card REAL quick!

  • @sr-huston2583
    @sr-huston2583 Před 2 lety

    Your kids will never learn until you as a parent teach them, and teach them your way👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @bradychristine
    @bradychristine Před 2 lety +33

    THIS WAS AWESOME! 👏 👏👏 You are empowering him to finish the task and even encouraging him through his frustration. This is the best kind of parenting.

  • @joycecomegys5835
    @joycecomegys5835 Před 2 lety +21

    I love the way you and Yvette are rearing your children teaching discipline, respect, and responsibility, that's righteous. Uriah will be fine... one of my nephews who is the same age does the same thing they remind me so much of each other. If Anaya gets any sweeter ...so adorable... dad I'm a little girl and Theo... I just love his spirit always willing...my lil man Uzi he's just too cute. Needless to say, I loves me some Chocolate Babies, love & shalom!

  • @tamiweinert1007
    @tamiweinert1007 Před 2 lety

    And Beleaf. Proud of you for sticking to it. Sometimes it is hard. Really really good, dad!

  • @QueenLadyQ
    @QueenLadyQ Před 2 lety +1

    I love this it's called discipline and not letting him skip past the hard parts. God bless ❤❤

  • @ltarleton7527
    @ltarleton7527 Před 2 lety +32

    I needed this lesson and I'm grown. We're getting a dog in August thanks to my hubby. We don't have a back yard, live in the Midwest, and I just keep thinking of those future winter days! I'll be referring back to this video! 🤣😭😂😭

  • @roleplayer14
    @roleplayer14 Před 2 lety +17

    I enjoy sitting in these inglorious moments even when Riah makes it unbelievably dramatically painful to watch. I appreciate these small lows and lessons because it’s what defines them in which you alluded to at the end. I’m more human and not much diff than ya.

  • @Teestar519
    @Teestar519 Před 2 lety

    And everything you did here to teach your kids responsibilities of having a pet was 100% fair and valid, your a great father through n through! Keep being amazing King

  • @karlinemompoint2439
    @karlinemompoint2439 Před 2 lety

    Reminds me when I was growing up.. responsibilities.. made me who I am today!! Good job Dad!!

  • @mizndmi8703
    @mizndmi8703 Před 2 lety +6

    “ 🥺I’m a wittle giwl” 😂 she is so funny

  • @arieeyell6660
    @arieeyell6660 Před 2 lety +11

    Riah already over it lol

  • @kendracarr6366
    @kendracarr6366 Před 2 lety

    SOOOO PROUD OF YOU AND YOUR WIFE ON RAISING YOUR CHILDREN!!!! God bless you all... 👌 Great Job!!!💞💞💞☺🙏🙏🙏

  • @TheMariettaBabysitter
    @TheMariettaBabysitter Před 2 lety

    They don’t see it now, but you are giving them something truly priceless. We all have to work to provide for ourselves and the things that we delight in.

  • @nataliepope3286
    @nataliepope3286 Před 2 lety +49

    I just love Theo so much… that’s it…😊

  • @genieNotinabottle
    @genieNotinabottle Před 2 lety +14

    Great life lesson!!! I was raised like that!! I love my parents and I thank them for it every single day❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💯💯💯💯💯

  • @ItsTruthMedia
    @ItsTruthMedia Před 2 lety +1

    Man I’m a young father I’ve been watching y’all for some time. This channel is very much needed it helped me have conversations with my little guy and also helped me grow more patient with my little ones

  • @annac11666
    @annac11666 Před rokem

    You & your wife are wonderful parents for instilling values and hard work into your kids. Thank you for raising responsible and thoughtful children. I enjoy your videos.

  • @blazeywash
    @blazeywash Před 2 lety +6

    Theo is such a grown little man 🥺

  • @mangilitking4572
    @mangilitking4572 Před 2 lety +12

    Being Asian, this won't fly on our house, if my parents required something to be done, it has to be done with a straight face and no sassiness or nothing.

    • @dr.uracil
      @dr.uracil Před 2 lety +6

      Yes - I didn’t want to scoop litter once and my mom threaten to drop my cat off at a grocery store.

  • @gwendolynlovett6610
    @gwendolynlovett6610 Před rokem

    Your patience is priceless👍

  • @LivinLife7149
    @LivinLife7149 Před 2 lety

    I’m so surprised at Riah, Keep teaching Glen!! God bless.

  • @angeboyer1605
    @angeboyer1605 Před 2 lety +5

    Yes yes yes! I love how you help them do the hard - gentle, firm, gracious & uncompromising 👏👏👏that’s love❣️

  • @arieeyell6660
    @arieeyell6660 Před 2 lety +10

    Anaya and her bacon I’m here for it !

  • @josephgreene4174
    @josephgreene4174 Před 2 lety

    Bro, I am so happy that your are reinforcing a standard of child development that produces healthy, productive human beings. Great job.

  • @s1mone220
    @s1mone220 Před 2 lety

    I have so much respect for you! I have only 1 boy and when he whines, I admit my patience wanes thin. Your children are very lucky to have you for their father! Blessings to you, your wife and beautiful kids!

  • @ItsMaegansLife
    @ItsMaegansLife Před 2 lety +50

    I laughed too hard at this. I had this exact experience when I was learning how to cook and I had to break down a whole chicken.

    • @EmiB1
      @EmiB1 Před 2 lety +4

      Recién casada lloré porque no me salieron las albóndigas pero así se aprende ...

    • @LindaC616
      @LindaC616 Před 2 lety +1

      @@EmiB1 😄 👍

  • @MichaelHolding69
    @MichaelHolding69 Před 2 lety +7

    4:20 Riah gets so mad from you saying that lol. He was finally doing😂

  • @phomelloraltadi7636
    @phomelloraltadi7636 Před 2 lety

    This is one of the best ways of portraying parenting skills, the shared love❤️❤️👏🏾

  • @racheller8753
    @racheller8753 Před 2 lety

    God bless your patience because him crying about that annoyed me you guys are beyond patient and wonderful

  • @MelaninMonroe222
    @MelaninMonroe222 Před 2 lety +4

    This is the kind of parent I want to be one day🙌🏽🙌🏽 These kids are going to grow up to be amazing people.🖤

  • @ilovederek22
    @ilovederek22 Před 2 lety +12

    You guys are EXCELLENT PARENTS!!! Kids have to learn the same way we did growing up. Forget the negative comments you get. It's always easy for people to hide behind a keyboard and all of a sudden become an "Expert parent" to YOUR KIDS!! LOL SMH. It cracks me up. 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️😆

  • @nicolewashington1811
    @nicolewashington1811 Před 2 lety

    Your doing the right thing Dad.... Awesome lessons to teach is to follow through and follow up!! Amen

  • @thundercat7184
    @thundercat7184 Před 2 lety

    I think you did the right thing and make him follow through with it you did right. Good Dad

  • @aandrus2169
    @aandrus2169 Před 2 lety +7

    Hey man, you are totally on point. You are doing exactly what a great parent does. My mother (78) says you are an excellent father and I think she's not only a great parent too but a great judge of character. Be encouraged. 👍

  • @NovemberChristine
    @NovemberChristine Před 2 lety +6

    “DAD. I’m a wittle girl.”

  • @stayblessed5647
    @stayblessed5647 Před 2 lety +1

    Dad, you are doing a great job. Teach them how to be responsible young boys now & they will grow into excellent men. Uriah will learn that doing the work quickly will result in him being able to enjoy the yard sooner.

  • @petinachambersmcvay8482
    @petinachambersmcvay8482 Před 2 lety +2

    When that lil cutie-pie 'Riah cries, it crushed my heart everytime. I just love that kiddo!! ...and as for that little Princess!...she's "...a widow gewl." 💕💕💕💕 Keep up the great work, Dad and Mom. Much love, peace, and blessings of God to your beautiful family.❤️

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways Před 2 lety +24

    THANK YOU because I needed the positive/motivating speech towards the end as a reminder that we are REWARDED when we overcome our challenges!!! 😭🙌🏾❤️🖤💚

  • @thecrystallockett
    @thecrystallockett Před 2 lety +10

    This face alone does it for me 🤣🤣🤣

  • @gwendolynestrada3017
    @gwendolynestrada3017 Před 2 lety +1

    Uriah is so dramatic.I know you care raising your children with your values, I respect that. I would not have been able to act out like that
    If my dad told me to do something I didn't want to do. You have much patience.

  • @didimratikoane8929
    @didimratikoane8929 Před 2 lety +1

    Riah is not feeling any of this!! His facial expressions though 😂😂😂 Anaya is my favourite person definitely!