r/Bestof I Imprisoned My Husband for 30 Years
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- čas přidán 24. 07. 2024
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Shoutout to Kate for tipping of OP and not being judgemental.
We all need friends like Kate
Fr, Kate is the MVP getting op the info to get away from that abusive psycho
She could've jumped on the bandwagon on shunning OP, but chose to do the right thing instead. Absolute MVP.
Not that I’m judging Kate for that arching corn, but I wonder how she found that specific video or what she searched or if it was recommended to her somehow 🤣
Everyone needs friends like Kate
This Story: Holy sh*t, I heard of crappy husbands, but THIS, takes the damn cake. He basically did everything he did because he was jealous of OP's success. He cheated, stalked, ruined OP's life, got OP fired from her job, caused OP to be harassed, caused OP to be shunned by many people. The word "scum" isn't enough to describe how awful and evil her husband is, like, he is CARTOONISHLY EVIL.
"He's lower than the dirt beneath our feet," basically, is what you're looking for. 😂😂😂
@@QuietChaos1996Or „I wouldn’t pi ss on him if he were actively on fire“
Nah not even cartoonsly evil people do this 🤬
It should also be noted that the jealousy angle is the version of events he thought would win her back. I'd bet money the reality is somehow even less sympathetic
Cartoonishly suggests that we'd find how over the top he was, funny.
He was everything BUT funny. He was a worthless MONSTER, through and through.
I suspect that the guy tried ending himself after experiencing some prison time is because he found out that some prison communities find men with his crime and abuse less like a human and more a thing to use and abuse themselves.
It isn't so fun getting passed around like a joint, is it fella? Just wait. There's another 30 years of this coming.😂
Sexual abusers are hated by prisoners. He's in for a world of hurt. He may not survive even a shorter sentence.
Normally, I would agree. But this didn't take place in the US, or other such western society, rather a country where women can often be seen as property by society. He may be seen by many as justified in what he did, as he was the husband.
Oh yeah he definitely tried taking himself out cuz he knew those prisoners would make sure his death in prison would be as slow and agonizing as the pain he caused his wife
Can we all agree that the friend who reached out to the OP is a godsend? She reserved judgement and told her what she found, then did her best to help her get the videos taken down
Kate’s the MVP
Who knows how far that man may have escalated down the line or even accidentally overdosed her down the line, so the coworker probably saved her life in a way.
@@CarinaCoffee Oh this 100%.
On the plus side for the ex-husband, I'm sure there'll be plenty of people in prison to help his 'sex addiction'
Sadly he will likely enjoy being "passed around"! 🙄
Rape jokes aren't funny just because they're prison rape jokes.
@@pastelroswell that's not true. They're not funny to you. Humour is a subjective matter often used to satirize darker elements of the human experience. You can't claim a blanket statement like that when what is funny comes down to the individual.
@@pastelroswell Well, I got a quote from a nice prison individual that is more your speed. "STABSTABSTAB!"
@@Raxisabominae☝️🤓
the first one was bad but then she said she was a fully veiled muslim woman i *gasped.* that's vile.
As soon as I read Muslim, it was pretty obvious how vile the entire story was going to be.
So did I.
This was exactly my reaction. I'm not Muslim myself, but gosh, it made me feel even worse. I hope she's doing okay now
@@internetpersonayy me neither, but i know how important that shit is for muslims folks and that level of violation is Horrific
My friend comes from a country where honour killings are illegal and punishable by law, but they still happen, and it's not just the family that women have to worry about, but the very communities these women live in. She could very easily become the victim of an honour killing.
However, if honour killings aren't something OP needs to worry about, she's got to worry about being stalked, attacked or even murdered by men who have watched the video and think she's an easy target. I feel terrible for OP... This man is a monster.
This story broke my heart. This poor woman...
The monster was jealous and angry because OP wanted better things in her life. I just feel so sorry for her. He caused her all this hurt and anxiety because of his fragile male ego. This man is a threat to any woman he comes across.
@@TiffWaffles The guy's an Incel of his own making...
IT KEEPS GETTING WORSE 😭
You didn't emasculate him. Can't pick berries if there's nothing on the vine
Stealing this for future use!!
It isn't really about emasculation. It all about that ex-husband being pure evil narcissistic jerk, who can't really bend or compromise, so he hated everything he has to do for his ex-wife and everything that his ex-wife had. And he more hateful of his ex-wife because he couldn't easily control her or have her do what he wants, which are all dumb and pathetic craps...
Well said
That ex husband deserves *way* *way* *way* worse for everything he did. He destroyed his wife's life out of nothing but jealousy. Also, you have to keep in mind that revenge p can get you years in prison and he did multiple videos on multiple sites. That's going to rack up time quickly along with whatever time he got for assaulting her in the worst way and doxing her and the fact that everything he did was intentional.
Tbf, corporal punishment is probably caning and that is brutal and can result in death or permanent disability. At the minimum it results in agony for weeks to months and permanent scarring.
Can't say I could wish it on a better person.
@@tiryaclearsong421Thanks for the chuckle! That was a hard story to hear, but when you started explaining how bad the punishment was as though you were sympathetic and then turned around and basically rubbed your hands in satisfaction, I had to laugh! I like to say there’s things I wouldn’t wish on anyone, but I am so over this weird strain of toxic masculinity that is convinced that women are responsible for their man’s self-confidence and that any achievement a woman makes is a personal attack. They are so convinced they’re in the right. Utterly selfish people.
@@BeeWhistler Normally I'm against caning. But not this day.
@@tiryaclearsong421 This thing did the worst of the worst to their wife claiming that it was out of jealousy. He 300% deserves the worst to come
@@tiryaclearsong421 thanks for this info. Veiled muslim woman being degraded this way… I really thought prison wasn’t enough. He even harassed her and released her name and info to creeps!
The situation gets worse and worse and worse over time.
The ex-husband secretly recorded adult videos, posted it online because he "had an addiction," then he confesses to it, then he was found to have been cheating, then proceeds to try to ruin OP's life in so many ways, and then admits that ALL of this was because he was jealous of OP?
I hope that he spends every second of those 30 years. His jealousy turned him into some sort of sociopath, and nobody needs that.
Edit: Changed some words
you left out the part where he was drugging her and r*ping her.
He needs more than 30 years, he needs 70 years.
That pretty much sums up this video. His fragile male ego led to him hurting the very person that he claimed that he loved. This monster uploaded information on where creepy predators who could have killed his wife AFTER she found out about the betrayal he did as well. At least from what I can gather from the language of the post?
I have no clue how this isn't life, to the death sentence, Jesus fucking Christ
OP should have gotten a restraining order and bear mace for her husband.
The husband has such a weird victim mentality to think any of his actions were justified.
His mentality will haunt him now
I think it is beacuse he is a narcissist from what she is describing he would blame her towndown the situation or make people believe it did not happen he craves control.
That's how abusive men think, though.
I think the words you're looking for is "delusions of grandeur." he thought the best way to make himself look good was to bring OP down
Lord Voldemort is less delusional than that wacko.
Correction: UP TO 30 years. Unfortunately, people don't usually get the maximum, even when they seriously deserve it.
Someone with his crime on their record in a conservative Muslim country won't last 6 months in prison.
The brazen bull is cheaper
@@Ironraven001 someone in the other comments said that they are most properly from Singapore. He might have to do hard physical labour for 30 years but be protected. Unfortunately.
@@hamatoJade I don't think it's Singapore because OP mentioned moving to the other side of the country. Singapore is about the size of New York City. So moving in an area that small comparitively wouldn't make much sense. I'm thinking more Saudi Arabia because the other thing mentioned was the "corporal punishment" which Saudi Arabia still has. And hijabs (veils) are optional there.
@@clarky23 yeah the thing about the other size if the country makes sense, we crossed Singapore in like 2 hours prime time. I might be poorly informed here, but does Saudi Arabia not have honour killings?
Maybe she is from Vietnam or Cambodia... Both with huge Moslem communities.
God, this story was already SO FUCKING BAD, and then she said she’s a religious veiled Muslim woman. I want to throw up for her. It’s such a horrible violation regardless of who the victim is, but adding that bit of context about her personal beliefs just adds an extra layer of betrayal.
HOW DID HE GET WORSE WHAT THE FUCK
You think christianity is ANY better?
@@bladerunner3314 what
@@uniraffesaur What part eludes your feeble comprehension skills?
@@bladerunner3314 the part where the comment wasn’t about religion, but a deep violation of personal boundaries. What is Christianity worse than? Pulling off someone’s hijab?
MIL:*finds out her son is a cheater and posted revenge porn about his wife*
MIL: I understand you're angry, but please don't murder him, just get him jailed for thirty years.
This woman is scary.
Tbh, seems pretty reasonable to me. It's not that far-fetched that someone would want to murder him for this. Especially since it's a different culture and it's violating the woman's "honor" there in addition to all the other stuff. And she didn't know about the 30 years, just asked her to let the law take it into their hands. Huge respect!
Also fainted
@@xLostInFirexshe literally said that her country doesn’t do honor killings
I don’t think they live in a predominantly Muslim country.
@@CD0789 Italy is predominantly Catholic, and until 1981 someone of either gender could murder their adulterous spouse and get reduced punishment.
How does tearing down someone make sense? It makes sense to a narcissist. He doesn’t know how to build up, and since no one can be above him, he will tear down. He’s a threat to anyone he meets.
Sounds like a typical high school drama, except this is a grown-asses man
Based on the details given by the OP, that is extremely common in that country, unfortunately. Almost to the point that I felt this story was fake, but then I've also heard of stories where the perpetrator is absolutely taken to task, because it is an embarrassment to powerful families, because that's how things work down there as well. Wouldn't surprise me if he were sentenced even more severely.
Sadly this happens, some men will gladly destroy any luxury their wives have built up out of spite. A friend of my mom's husband, who's more like a leech than a husband literally tanked a business his wife was running that was made 900K a year only to buy an airplane and start a business that's doomed to fail. You don't have to be a narc to destroy your wife's happiness, you just need to be a spiteful jealous asshole. And some people dare to wonder why no one wants to get married when crap like this happens.
My wife is smarter than me. Her career hit high gear about two years ago, which allowed me to sell my two businesses and retire at 40. Now she earns all the money, we use my savings and the profits from selling the businesses to play every weekend and go on vacations at a whim. I don't feel inferior, I feel like I won the lotto. 😂 This dude is bent and making excuses.
@@cecejamesableI made my comment before reading yours. What is wrong with that dude? Was he watching my wife and I and said "okay, I'm going to do the exact opposite?"😂 I feel horrible for her, but her husband is a comical level of dim.
I don't care about the audio quality as much as the story quality. But I am mostly just happy to get my daily Rslash.
That’s one very evil man. I hope he spends the rest of his life in prison.
Even Satan won't want him, that foul creature is going straight to Super Hell.
This joker said that he's jealous of his own wife, but this is a whole other level! He assaulted her, badmouthed her, and recorded her WITHOUT her consent and dares to have the balls to share it to other losers on the net! He is just asking for the prison-mates to make him their new toy!
In trying to ruin her life he completely ruined his while she was able to get away, start a new life and gets to feel the vindication of seeing him punished for what he did to her. She's on her way to rebuild what she lost to him while he will rot. You love to see it 💜 I'm wishing her best in her recovery
This story is absolutely disgusting. This man destroyed OP’s life all because of “jealousy” and other BS he tried to excuse. He had no self-awareness of what he’s committing as crimes and now she has to in fear all because her ex-husband uploaded videos against her will.
If this were an r/aita post, Husband would break Dabney's scale
Im gonna say the real hero of the story was the coworker who showed her the videos first. That took a lot of courage and honesty.
This is so sad, but huge props to the friend for taking action immediately and contacting and scouring the websites herself so that poor OP doesn't have to be further traumatized and burdened with this. EDIT: How THE F would depression make you sexually violate your wife? Also huge props to the families for handling this well and OP's MIL being on her side, at first I was afraid that this was gonna go the other way. Thank god the husband is a complete moron and left a huge trail of written evidence against him.
It always weirds me out when people use “I was depressed” as a reason people should ignore their misconduct, like what if you get depressed again? I'm medicated for my depression and even on meds I still experience some depression
I do enjoy the fact that rslash 100% glossed over 'corporal punishment' part to be happy about a 30y sentence.
depending on the person perforning the corporal punishment, OPs ex may not serve 30 years after all. He may not survive the punishment.
Having corporal punishment is wild
(not that I feel sorry for the scumbag, but imagine that happening to an innocent person, or used with bs laws like those punishing people for being gay)
Good final update. I kept waiting to hear, my husband has gone missing. Coincidentally, my brothers have all found employment out of the country so I don't get to see them as much as Id like.
Did you listen to the same ending we did? It says he's in custody until trial and sentencing. I kind of want him to stay alive to be punished. Escaping through death is too easy.
I have been listening to r/slash for over a year. I do not think I have EVER been more satisfied from an ending. When she said she was a veiled woman, I cried, and I am not, not, not religious. He was so proud he didn't stalk her. I wonder what his family thinks now.
He actually did stalk her just later on
That’s the type of ex that needs to be taken care of “street justice” style….
OP was able to hire multiple lawyers, a lot of others aren’t so fortunate.
"give him credit for that"???
That man violated OP in every way possible...
As an outsider perspective I'd give him some credit for honesty, HOWEVER, just because he was honest doesn't mean his actions were justified in anyway shape or form, he gets called out form making essentially revenge porn, and his response is to retreat into the bath room to cry to mama
At one point when OP said she was still getting calls from weirdos, I thought "girl, change your phone number, many times if needed, and only give it out to your most trusted people". Glad it had a happy ending though. Dude was seriously sick in the head.
I feel it still be just exhausting to do that evertime for changing phone numbers and adding the victim was not in right (justifiable) mind.
Or just scream at top volume til they give up 😂
@@Emerald501stmy family's favorite tried and true way for scam calling is putting the phone inside a big cooking pot (we have one, used once a year for something like thanksgiving, so aside from that it's unused), close the lid and then using metal spatula we hit the pot many times, making a very noisy clanking sound. The caller always end their call after 5 seconds.
He's a textbook criminally malignant narcissist.
Not that easy when the bastard leaked her work number. Sometimes those can't be changed, or it takes a while. And let's remember they were turning up and stalking her _in real life._ He leaked every contact detail he knew.
What I find worse than the original offence by the husband is the actual follow-up by the (hopefully) ex. Destroying her career, inciting harassment, and revealing his use of her own medications to abuse her. I really hope the whole book, plus all the supplementary volumes, gets thrown at him, and that he spends a good time inside.
OP needs to get into therapy, and find ways to heal. My sympathy, love and hugs go out to her.
You know it's gonna be juicy when the whole video is one story.
The truly sad part is, that he probably never loved or respected her from the beginning.
He claimed he did, but I doubt it. He probably just wanted to marry someone, and since she’s very religious and modest, he probably assumed she’d be more of a traditional wife.
Meanwhile op really trusted and loved him. Never demanded more of him than he was willing/able to give. Never asked him to be “more“. Like making more money or be “the man and provider“. She was happy with her life and marriage.
It’s so sad, that she deserves so much more and that it’s probably gonna be so hard for her to date now. Not just on an emotional level to trust again, but because she now really has some baggage. I mean, it literally took almost a year and a move across the country for the harassment by perverts to slowly die down. And who knows if it will ever go away fully? That’s likely to be a strain on most new relationships. And she really doesn’t deserve that.
Her disgusting ex however deserves everything horrible that’s coming his way! He’s truly the scum of the earth. And that he felt entitled for her to take him back is utterly delusional!
I don’t think it mentioned this but I hope he was charged with r*** bcz he honestly doesn’t deserve to leave prison he should be there for the rest of his life
Unlikely. But hopefully.
Very unlikely, he is amongst scums of his level who see what he did as an ideal thing and have nothing against harassing and hurting women and people in general.
Unlikely husbands rarely are even husbands like that.
I cannot imagine how beyond hope the harassing guys in this story must be. Husband is one thing, because that guy is the absolute peak (or perhaps the absolute bottom?) of insecurity and dickbaggery, but come the hell *ON*. Who approaches a harassed woman and just gropes her in the middle of the street *and gets away scot free*? Is this culturally normal in wherever OP is from? Because the thought of that is genuinely concerning.
I hope the OP gets a chance to put her life together and find a partner to live her life with that isn't a monstrous dirtbag. After all this bullshit, she deserves something much better.
"fully veiled muslim" so yes, it is the norm
Someone up in the comments concluded by the punishment that they are most likely in Singapore. So no, not normal, but what is OP to do?
Culturally? yea its disgusting sadly, but religiously this is not supported at all, they are not true muslims, just like a pedo priest is not a christian.
@@kevintrang6447what do you mean by that?
Oh Lordy, hearing that the first OP is a fully veiled deeply religious woman broke my heart even more for her. That just adds another layer to shatter OP.
I can't even imagine the hurt and pain OP went through, she's a fking FULLY VEILED MUSLIM????????
That woman who brought it up with OP is so kind, god bless them both.
You gotta stoop VERY VERY low to ruin a person's life like that! It doesn't matter if your a male, female, trans, or non-binary! None of you deserve being taken advantage of, raped in your sleep, or anything horrible like those! Much hugs to everyone!
This makes me wonder how many "amateur" and "homemade" videos out there are on the level...
A lot. I once went down the rabbithole of watching these "dark side of adult web-sites" kind of videos and it's horrifically common. The "hub" was especially known for this and many of the updates requirements such as only verified users being able to post and etc have been made exactly for this reason.
Depression doesn't make you cheat, or post such things. And he clearly isn't depressed, since he was bragging about what he did. 30 are not enough. He will definitely do it again obviously.
It's rare to have this hard of a story that ends in a "all is well that ends well... To some extent".
Me: I need to start looking for a serious relationship
*listens to reddit relationship stories*
Me: Never mind
I mean I used these stories as a cautionary tales and red flag 🚩 spotting.
I know you’re joking, but please do not allow reddit stories to shape your worldview or important life choices. Let's be honest with ourselves: more than 50% of these stories are greatly exaggerated (or outright fabricated) to push upvotes. Scroll through any of these subreddits for 5 minutes and the BS content mill vibes become obvious. The world is strange and often terrible, but not nearly as much as doomscrolling leads us to believe.
@@kaykay8855 I try to, but there's SO MANY STORIES (flags)😭.. I need some R/IHaveAPerfectRelationship stories ..Is that a thing? It needs to be a thing.
@kaykay8855 same. I always see these situations and try to put myself there and see what flags i can see before shit fully goes down.
This is the worst abuse story I've ever heard. I hope no kids were involved, none were mentioned. What that man did was worse than "ordinary" assault, it was like having it done to her over and over again. I hope her faith is getting her through this and I will pray for her as well. I'm Christian BTW.
He began to shout and said he knew that would react that way: “D*** it, I just KNEW you were gonna be rational and not fall for my bulls***!”
There is actually an me for what the husband did: Revenge Porn
re·venge porn
[revenge porn]
noun
revealing or sexually explicit images or videos of a person posted on the internet, typically by a former sexual partner, without the consent of the subject and in order to cause them distress or embarrassment:
"she's been campaigning for a change in the law since she first became a victim of revenge porn" · "he uploaded the photos to scores of revenge porn sites"
It is on par with Felony offenses and can cost the perpetrator thousands of dollars as well as years in prison.
I’m almost in tears over this story - what this poor woman has had to go through is just inhumane
I feel terrible for OP in this post. She claims that she doesn't have to worry about an honour killing, but it seems that this is exactly what her waste of oxygen former husband was planning on doing. The anger and hatred that this man had for a woman who just wanted better things for herself and her family is both disgusting and terrifying. I am still afraid for her even though things ended in her favour.
OP's ex husband posted information on where to find her AFTER he was caught out for what he had done in retaliation. She's still got those creepy predators she's got to deal with. What's to say that one of those men isn't going to do the very thing that OP's husband wanted to do to begin with? This man intended to destroy OP all because she was better educated, had a better paying job that she loved to do, was well travelled, and seemed better than him... and all because he was jealous and angry.
Then to top it off, he tries to play the victim. I am glad that wherever OP is living that the legal system is fighting for women and women's rights. This could have ended tragically with OP being killed. If not in an honour killing (since OP says she doesn't have to worry about that given her country's laws and values), then by some maniac who found the video and personal information and decided to go on the attack.
This goes to show how fragile some men's egos really are. My heart breaks for OP and I hope she gets to rebuild her life and come back stronger than ever.
Any country can and do have honor killings. They dont have to be legal to happen.
Really heavy on the second paragraph no matter what happens to the ex and the revenge her life is still ruined regardless. Hope she is safe now considering this story was a decent amount of time ago
"appreciate for not stalking" *corners OP after the funeral*
Story one.... Ex: "I put those pics on the internet, but didn't think anyone would see it!" 🤨
That guy is an absolute monster.
OP's ex stool sample was definitely a narc, right? Its speech about why it did all those things to hurt OP sounds like something a narc would say. I'm glad OP got her justice in the end, and I hope the therapy sessions work for her.
1st story: I am so happy that OP is in a better place. All the people who hurt her should be ashamed and her husband should rot in prison.
I hope wherever OP is now, she is doing so much better then she was before. I can hardly imagine being in her shoes as this was happening.
I hope her ex is rotting in the hell he created for himself
If I were op, after the 3 hour rant of excuses I would have just said ”that sounds like a ”you” problem.”
What I don’t understand is 1. Why was he there as it’s ops father and 2. WHY SHE SPOKE TO HIM AFTER KNOWING HIS VILE AND DISGUSTING CRIMES! I know she mentioned being too tired to get him away but seriously I wouldn’t have even spit in his direction let alone let him make excuses for THREE HOURS. The only reason I could see this happening is if she didn’t want to interfere with the funeral by leaving or getting him away
As it could and definitely would cause a mess
@@Intruder63 I know, but snaaaaark!
@@Intruder63 @Intruder63 I was in an abusive relationship for over a year. He even got me pregnant. I fled and now have an amazing teenager that I raise with my then best friend, more guidance/common law partner O frequently refer to as hubby.
I left my ex with nothing but my child and the clothes on our backs, as well as my ps3 of course!
I was scared of his retaliation. I avoided him because i feared retaliation.
When in court, fighting for custody I was giving him chances and graces that I normally would haven't. I desire this man, but something in me still wanted to believe he ever actually cared. I still have nightmares that he's going to kill me and i still look forward to him no longer being on this planet, but I also want to believe that although I don't want him in my life for it, that he has some non-Psycho reasons for things he's said and done. I hope that helps💜
@@paranoiarpincess I’m very sorry to hear about that and thank you this helped give a little perspective. I just didn’t take into account that she genuinely loved this man at some point as he is such a monster. I hope you continue to do well
I am blown away by how psychopathic OP's ex is. To just get worse and worse with every update, when the first part is revenge porn of your Muslim wife.....Wow. 30 years. Deserved.
This one hit hard. May OP find peace and happiness in her new life. Honestly, my heart and soul hurt for her. I am dealing with some of what she’s been through and it’s beyond ghastly. 26 years of marriage that was a complete lie. You question yourself everyday on how you missed the signs. Thank heavens for “Kate”! She’s a blessing. The ex is below pond scum as are those that harassed OP.
When OP was talking about how her ex kept making excuses for his behavior becuae he felt so inferior to her, it gave me flashbacks to a very similar conversation I had with my own emotionally abusive ex, and I've heard similar things in other stories. That's definitely a tactic abusers use. They'll try to guilt you for being successful in any way because it makes them feel bad about themselves in comparison. But instead of taking responsibility and getting help to manage their own feelings, they try to blame and hurt others in retaliation. In this case, it rose to nuclear levels. I'm so glad OP's ex got what he deserved and that OP is doing better and getting the help and support she needs.
Evil has many forms and that man is one.
OP’s ex-husband is one of the most disgusting people i’ve ever heard of.
This is horrible what op is going through I'm glad she's divorcing that monster
Me: Maybe I should start dating again.
*Listens to video*
Me: Nevermind, being a cat lady is better.
Out of all the stories rSlash has read, this husband is one of the vilest characters
11:59 classic DARVO, me thinks.
17:40 I think he might be a narcissist. They're blind to their own worth, so they try to tear you down to where they think their level is.
The ending to the story was really cathartic. Assuming he serves 30 years, the guy will come out an old man with very little family left to speak of, almost all of his friends will have moved on with their lives, and nobody will want to give him a job
Wow. What a horrible betrayal. I hope only the best for this woman.
Dude is literally facing 30 years in timeout from hell _and_ an ass whooping. Make sure he can never sit down for the next year after that sentence comes down
This awful man and his supporters, terrible behaviour. I really feel for the cultural shame pushed onto this victim.
“I thought he was out working hard.”
Well, he sort of was….
If I had a spouse convicted of the same thing I took would be delighted in that sentence, and insist on watching as the corporal punishment was administered and then sweetly smile as he was hauled away to jail.
But back to the OP in this case, I hope she can regain her feelings of self worth and confidence, and with her continuing therapy she will.
Good morning guys. Remember it’s a good day just to have woken up! Tell your loved ones you love and appreciate them as time is never promised! Hope everyone has a great blessed day!
This story is wild! Had to pick my jaw off the floor a few times. Every turn in this story was a left.🤣😭
I've heard of a lot of messed up things in my time on the Internet, but this has got to be one of the worst of the worst. I'm not even religious in any capacity and I agree with the OP that her ex is demonic in nature. To think somebody would even consider doing any of these things... I sincerely hope for only the best for the OP and her family.
I just want give her a hug for this. No woman should have go through this.
He didn’t deserve her, and he’s definitely in the right place. Prison.
I love how his excuse is 'he was jealous'
he wasn't. that's his excuse. the videos were multiple. He had an addicition sure, but bear in mind his reaction to her saying 'so you hurt me because you felt this way' was to get defensive. I can buy that he got support from people online to do this, and they pushed him to do more, but at the same time, look at the timeline of things.
She found out, started moving out, and suddenly a thousand and one pervs come along to make their moves. he sent people after her who mysteriously disappeared when he was imprisoned.
this isn't about jealousy, it's control. and he lost it.
One of the most well-written reddit posts that rslash has covered in my opinion.
You can tell that op and her ex were from a country where women’s rights are solely being implemented but sexiest traditions keep it from happening
Y'know, I think OP had justification for murder there but... I'll take 30 years in jail lol.
Him having a corn addiction is no excuse to be secretly filming u and ur partners bedroom activities with out permission
He ruined and his own life and hers and then expects positive reinforcement from Op for attempting to clean his shit up when all of this was avoidable
"Didnt think anyone would see it" YOU POSTED IT ON THE HUB MY GUY
Round of applause for the cops arresting her for assault. Equality at its best
They always cry when there's consequences
Just remember, just because he faces 30 years, doesn't mean hill get 30, and it's likely he won't serve the full time he's been given either. If he's on good behavior, he'll likely get paroled out.
He tried ending himself.
This story was crazy, but what made it even more enjoyable were your reactions. The surprised giggle to the explosion of unbelief. Thank you for sharing. Your posts always make my day.
It wasn't OP, it was the ex's weakness with handling his addictions that took his manhood completely away and left no crumbs. If he would've managed his addictions, he would've had the money to pay his share and not feel "emasculated" when OP picked up the slack. He wouldn't have resented OP, tried to cowardly tear her down to feel better about himself, and blamed her for all of the consequences of his addictions. A feather duster couldn't salvage any dignity that he had left. I hope OP is living a good life.
I can't help but laugh at how, once he's faced with the consequences of his actions, he wants to end his subscription to life so he doesn't have to face it 😂😂😂
Op's, ex is the scum of the earth. At least he's right about one thing, she is better than him. I hope that things start to get better for her.
He is self aware enough to acknowledge his mistakes but too prideful to say sorry and crazy enough to think his minimal effort is enough to undo the damage he has caused.
My heart breaks for OP. All those horrible things she went through. I am so glad she finally got justice and some peace!
30 years in prison for repeatedly drugging and r@ping someone? Sounds like the ex-husband got off easy.
I don’t think that we have adequate words to describe how awful this man was. Nothing I come up with seems despicable enough to describe what he has done. I hope he gets that 30 year sentence and I hope he’s miserable in jail. He deserves at least that for what he has put his ex wife through… while married to her and after. I wish OP the very best in life, and I hope she finds peace and happiness with her new job in her new city.
Guess that OP went from unwilling cornstar to being a Reddit star.
He ruined his ex's life because he was jealous and inadequate? PATHETIC!!!!
This story actually had me in tears because of the horrible things this poor woman had to go through and I am so glad that disgusting man is getting the jail time he deserves and she is at least being compensated for everything even though like she said that doesn't totally help with everything she had to go through.
Thats not even a personal violation. Thats a spiritual violation that cuts the soul… that man is extremely evil
Honestly, the audio's better than it has been! rSlash isn't in a trunk anymore! Rejoice!
30 years and several major ass-whoopings. Don’t forget that corporal punishment part😂
Story #1: wow. This first story is sick!! This husband is insane!! With such a husband you don't need enemys!! That's just so cruel and disgusting! I hope OP gets peace and her live gets better in the future.
The similarities between this guy and my ex husband are staggering. I’m glad my situation wasn’t this serious but he still made my life hell.
Guy :my wife is amazing! ....oh no, my wife is amazing!? D:
That was wild...
But how the hell was that guy not in jail sooner? And allowed to contact her? It sounds bad, but when he said she was lucky he wasn't "stalking her", that was the truth.