As is should be; this was a wonderful show of empathy towards the speaker because he was truly speaking to their souls. While I like Tripp's responses, sometimes his demeanor and delivery can be a bit condescending and smart-assed; but this other young man (can't recall his name now) spoke with empathy and genuine concern to reach the deepest part of the human spirit. There was no arrogance, condescension, nor "I told you so" anywhere in his response as to why some women fail to recognize a good man. This is how you command the room. 👏🏽
@@chocolaza personally I don’t mind him being a little condescending, bc he keeps that same energy when talking about everybody. No one has a problem when men are called out on their bs, and neither do I.
*"Success depends on the actions or steps you take to achieve it. Building wealth involves developing good habits, such as regularly setting aside money for sound investments."* ...heard this from a friend.❤
She's a top notch for real, my colleagues at work kept talking about her, so I decided to take the test and work with her; she's put a smile on my face for the past few years of working with her😊
*with over 10 years of tra ding experience, mrs tonya has gained herself a good reputation by helping a lot of persons build their finances' through inves'tments.*
He is absolutely correct. And, a lot of these men haven't seen a good man in action or had positive male role models. So, all we do is perpetuate stereotypes and go around passing down the same generational traumas and dramas.
We've all seen good men. Whether they were coaches, teachers, or business men. It's just that in American culture, it's the "rebels" or the "tough guys" or the "cool guys" who get the lion's share of the spotlight. For me, even through school, the good kids were often the most overlooked in terms of popularity.
@stephenfoster1257 Truth is universal. These men grow up in th same screwed up conditions as the girls. Watching their mothers get used and abused by no good men. It's not about men or women. It's about the collective. And as a collective, we're a sick people. I've never seen grown incapable of any kind of responsibility or self-awareness.
@@nanonano.beepbeep the entertainment industry doesn't reflect it. As soon as we stop living in these gadgets and start paying attention to the world around us, we'll see the good role models who have been there the whole time but are taken for granted.
Yes..i can say i found out what the love of a real man is..he came and did what he promised..i finally understand why some never remarry..once you receive the kind of love that rebuilds you and teaches you to love yourself..its no longer an option to separate mind and body..for me anyways...he passed 16 years ago. Im blessed to have known him and to have been loved by him.
@@dragon1729 Comedians jobs are to literally made light of heavy convos and she does that for the audience and the panel because they laugh! Yall are the only ones that seem to have an issue. When the other comedian on the panels makes jokes yall down seem to say much 😂
@@laurencameron3150no, typically like her, you just cant see women being critised. Hence why you're getting all defensive. Its the pride that keeps your kind in stagnation despite doing things like "therapy"
But Kita funny tho… Her rebuttals done made me unwillingly laugh plenty of times. And they might not all be true, but she speaks from a sincere place of experience.
Unfortunately, toxicity is exciting for some women. A good man is responsible and honorable but straight boring to a woman who's cycled her life around disfunction.
My dude was pretty much on point! This is the biggest problem today with all these single mothers, raising kids with no father figure at home.🤔 How does a woman become a good wife, if she didn't see her mother interacting with her father? How does a woman choose a good husband, if she didn't see a good example growing up? How does a boy become a good man, husband and father, if their is no example at home growing up? These are the issues facing black communities now.
The Millennial's know better. They were probably the last generation to see healthy relationship. They know, they just don't want to sacrifice their own personal freedom for a family.
With children from households with a single mother you have to either have faith in the kids growing a set of values that carries them through life, or you just need to hope that the children actually see other good examples of a healthy and loveable adult (either through relatives, friends, community, positive media, etc.). In context of the black community though, the lack of positive media, strong values, community enforcing and reinforcing values, and other factors tied to an overall bad environment to raise children in, causes a lot of children from single mothers in the black community to have such bleak outcomes.
@@brandontrammel4581It was: 1. Unnecessary 2. Counter to the point being made 3. Inaccurate 4. A reinforcement of the misguided belief that good men are unicorns.
We've all seen good men. Whether they were coaches, teachers, or business men. It's just that in American culture, it's the "rebels" or the "tough guys" or the "cool guys" who get the lion's share of the spotlight. For me, even through school, the good kids were often the most overlooked in terms of popularity.
It's two things about Kita I see, either she had a good thing and messed it up or she had a bad boy and became bitter from the situation? I've seen this alot and in my experiences and you have to take accountability and continue to grow and become a better person making more money is not going to fix that for you!✌️❤️
Kita is happily in a relationship though. She was joking to break up tension and keep the conversation going. The room got dead silent so she just had to adjust the energy
@@filmadcamp1512 I was going by what you said about her being in a good relationship? Is this something she tells ya'll or did you know her personally is why I was asking? Which proves my point about most modern women having same characteristics on accountability they get emotional and defensive! You don't need to know anybody to see that and it's not assuming things it's just plain facts!
@@davidtolbert716I didn't say she was in a relationship because I don't know her. Someone else said she was. But prior to that person saying that, you claimed she either had a bad thing and messed it up, or that she liked bad boys and got hurt. Both of those things you said are clearly ASSumptions because it seems you don't actually know her. That's not me being defensive but me using logic based on your comments. Why should you be able to ask someone if they know her, to try and refute their point but if someone asks you the same question then it's an issue? Sounds like you're the one being defensive.
True. If all you ever saw was abuse, toxicity, negative behavior,bad judgement,etc.that becomes your normal. That's all you know. You don't know different. And,it is so hard to break that cycle of abuse, negative relationships,poverty,etc.
Fr, I had a similar conversation with a friend earlier. And on top of that women will often associate toxic or able to deal with their toxic traits as strong. Familiar doesn't means growth and sometimes you gotta step out of the comfort zone if you wanna see growth
I didn’t think it could be done, but because we’re human the inevitable just happened. I don’t wholeheartedly agree. Could it be that the women they’re talking about just doesn’t know how to say what they want or communicate what works for them? So when heart storms come, they’re mentally/emotionally preoccupied too much to properly love on that man?
What he stated was true and the consequences of it as well. However, it's still a womans priorities and personal values that matter before and after consequences. Even though she attracts to what she's used to, the continuity of failed relationships is no excuse. We're held accountable in society for being repeated offenders, but the same logic doesn't apply to insanity? The point is that habitual mistakes are no longer mistakes. After the consequences, when do you draw the line because Mama and Grandma did it?
People mirror what they see and experience. You can only see things at the level of your perception & understanding. And for some that’s very shallow. Some people operate from dysfunction and that’s their normal.
@@domicascott7596what Bazzman said. Also, some men feel the same way about women, but I am sure most women would take issue with a man making such a statement about women..... Good men are less likely to approach. Good men might be a little bit more boring and less egotistical (sorry.... "Confident".....) than bad men, so naturally women won't see or attracted to good men as often.
Personally, i think some Women appreciate what benefits or entertains them the most at that time. Meaning, if she has her own money, she pro'ly will appreciate the type of guy that entertains her "physical" and "thrill" seeking desires. Vice versa, if she doesn't have money, she appreciates the good guy that sympathizes with all of her "caring" needs as a Woman. Ultimately, women know that they are the only desired creature for most Men in the world, so they "appreciate" based on their current "needs" or "entertainment". Women know that Men have no other creature we can have physical companionship with. It's a complete sex "monopoly" for most Men. Which, if Men had other creatures for sex and/or companionship, Women would have become obsolete a l-o-n-g time ago. Men have nothing else. That's why when a Man typically doesn't have alot of options, or desire to entertain multiple Women, they tend to "typically" treat their Women they way a Woman should truly be treated... faithfully. Therefore, if you are truly what the world considers a "good", legit Man in life and to Women, but she doesn't appreciate you, all that means is she is just Not a good Woman, yet in a beautiful frame. You're just not "crazy" or "careless" or on the "edge" enough to entertain her drama and thrills. So let it hurt and move on. This is just a few pieces to the puzzle. ✌️🖤
dizzy 304 at the end prove yourselves righteous wives brothers .Ecclesiastes 7:28 “Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found.” SHALOM
The reality of Trill said isn't always from the men, today majority of boys are raised by who? Women, the same ones who in most cases raised these young boys to be toxic men from being toxic themselves. If the father of the children were never there in the boys life, what toxicity did he show the boy? That came from the mother because of herself or the men see allowed in her life with her children
The question is about women but you decide to talk about men. How can women improve if anytime people start to talk about women, the discussion instead gets pivoted back to the men?
This is not limited to toxic men. Too often this type of reasoning or explanation is centered around the obvious, or the presumption he is bad. But it really does come back to what she has seen. My wife saw a single mom who made all decisions in the house as the lone adult. She didnt see a man involved in the day to day, or how a wife interracts, respects, submits, compromises and copartner with her husband.She didnt see how a man takes care of, provides, protects, prioritizes his wife and family. So guess how she acts....as a solo adult in a 2 married life, who doesnt recognize she has someone doing the things a good man is supposed to. Its a problem.
Facts and keep it mind that it goes both ways, men are also exposed to the women side of those types of men....women that create and enable those types of men hence they grow up thinking that women who set boundaries, have standards, don't allow foolishness are difficult, immaculate them, disrespect them etc. It's important to check yourself, your childhood & family before bring anyone else into it.
Kita seems like she has alot of hurt that needs to be healed because almost everytime one of the men up there say something valuable she almost always has a backhanded commit
This isn't wrong, but it's incomplete. The other part is just that a lot of women have issues with entitlement and don't appreciate anything regardless. If you think that having A, B, and C entitles you to a man with X, Y, and Z, then it doesn't matter how good a man who doesn't have X, Y, and Z is... You're not going to appreciate what he is, because you're focused on how he isn't what you think you're entitled to. The problem being that if men with X, Y, and Z aren't checking for her that means she really isn't entitled to all that. The problem with a "never settle" mentality is that if you don't qualify for the thing you want, then the thing you do qualify for instead isn't actually a settle, no matter how much you think it is.
The thing is t, 9 times out of 10 the reason why men choose to or have to be a "good man" is because there is something else about them women don't like, and if they had it, many would not be so "good" so it's not that they can't appreciate them being a good mad, the men often are missing something else that has to be in place for a relationship, usually charisma, chemistry, attraction or personality, amongst everything. And it's not a matter of really appreciating the behaviors or the way the person shows up, its that its not coming from the right, or the person people want those qualities from.
Finally I DISAGREE with something from these chats. I would say a lot of these women are just ungrateful ppl in general. There are plenty of things you can appreciate that you’ve never seen before; that’s how we discover new things that we didn’t know we liked. You can appreciate a nice vacation in an exotic location you’ve never been to IF you’re not an ungrateful person. You can appreciate $1M if you’re not an ungrateful person. You can appreciate a cold glass of water on a really hot day if you’re not an ungrateful person.
Don’t really think he was preaching anything to practice, but actually stating a common nature. The same can go for men. If a man is used to particular type of woman, it’s possible that when he get one that’s actually good(for him) he may not value/appreciate her because he simply not used to it or even know/care of what she can do for him eternally as a man.
Again the silence from the crowd, was deafening.
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As is should be; this was a wonderful show of empathy towards the speaker because he was truly speaking to their souls. While I like Tripp's responses, sometimes his demeanor and delivery can be a bit condescending and smart-assed; but this other young man (can't recall his name now) spoke with empathy and genuine concern to reach the deepest part of the human spirit. There was no arrogance, condescension, nor "I told you so" anywhere in his response as to why some women fail to recognize a good man. This is how you command the room. 👏🏽
@@chocolaza personally I don’t mind him being a little condescending, bc he keeps that same energy when talking about everybody. No one has a problem when men are called out on their bs, and neither do I.
That's how u know it was truth. 😂❤ I love to grow, feed me please 🙏🏿🥺🎉😊
Truth be told, it's hard to find a good woman these days.
Really? Or maybe it's the same advice given, just vice versa
@jadeeldridge540 probably a bit of both
Work on yourself first to attract better..
Why do good women attract bad men? And why do bad women attract good men. Can that be answered without darts being thrown?
Same logic...
*"Success depends on the actions or steps you take to achieve it. Building wealth involves developing good habits, such as regularly setting aside money for sound investments."* ...heard this from a friend.❤
Well I engage in nice side hustles like inves'ting, and the good thing is I do it with one one of the best(Tonya Evans), she's really good!
That's an amazing testimony, I've also heard good things about this Tonya Evans, I think she's one of a kind.
She's a top notch for real, my colleagues at work kept talking about her, so I decided to take the test and work with her; she's put a smile on my face for the past few years of working with her😊
*with over 10 years of tra ding experience, mrs tonya has gained herself a good reputation by helping a lot of persons build their finances' through inves'tments.*
That's interesting, any way to connect with her? I have to get started.
He is absolutely correct. And, a lot of these men haven't seen a good man in action or had positive male role models. So, all we do is perpetuate stereotypes and go around passing down the same generational traumas and dramas.
We've all seen good men. Whether they were coaches, teachers, or business men. It's just that in American culture, it's the "rebels" or the "tough guys" or the "cool guys" who get the lion's share of the spotlight.
For me, even through school, the good kids were often the most overlooked in terms of popularity.
He's talking about the men that women pick. Not men not having good role models.
@stephenfoster1257 Truth is universal. These men grow up in th same screwed up conditions as the girls. Watching their mothers get used and abused by no good men. It's not about men or women. It's about the collective. And as a collective, we're a sick people. I've never seen grown incapable of any kind of responsibility or self-awareness.
@@briana.g.7412 Your community doesn't reflect it.
@@nanonano.beepbeep the entertainment industry doesn't reflect it. As soon as we stop living in these gadgets and start paying attention to the world around us, we'll see the good role models who have been there the whole time but are taken for granted.
Yes..i can say i found out what the love of a real man is..he came and did what he promised..i finally understand why some never remarry..once you receive the kind of love that rebuilds you and teaches you to love yourself..its no longer an option to separate mind and body..for me anyways...he passed 16 years ago. Im blessed to have known him and to have been loved by him.
So you need somebody to teach you to o love yourself ?
When she speaks, you know shes about literally prove the guys right.
Ugh…she proved his point. Can’t even appreciate what he just explained.
Every single time.
@@dragon1729 😂 She didn’t prove anything! Plus, if her joke ruined it, you weren’t really paying attention and/or y’all just dislike Kita
@@laurencameron3150 yeah right..a comedian that doesn't know when to be a comedian 🙄
@@dragon1729 Comedians jobs are to literally made light of heavy convos and she does that for the audience and the panel because they laugh! Yall are the only ones that seem to have an issue. When the other comedian on the panels makes jokes yall down seem to say much 😂
@@laurencameron3150no, typically like her, you just cant see women being critised. Hence why you're getting all defensive. Its the pride that keeps your kind in stagnation despite doing things like "therapy"
Kita be blowing my shyt sometimes. Honestly can she stop doing that 😖
lol Kita always gotta say something to break up the truth of what a man is saying. She need to be quiet 🤐 sometimes lol
But Kita funny tho…
Her rebuttals done made me unwillingly laugh plenty of times.
And they might not all be true, but she speaks from a sincere place of experience.
@@samlemons-tx so her breaking up his thought to say only “14” good men where made is a “genuine” experience 😂
She doesn’t know how to be quiet that’s the problem
@@onterioushuitt151all you do is cry and that's a problem
@@ronnymack5524you're so bitter a well placed joke is top tier and here you are crying 😂😂
It’s always her.
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Yes, and I am quite over her cringe responses. 😬 Always the arrogant, loud, over-talking female in the group. I'm so over it...
Good men stand up
Unfortunately, toxicity is exciting for some women. A good man is responsible and honorable but straight boring to a woman who's cycled her life around disfunction.
Lol, 🤷🏾♀️ harsh truth. However, I appreciate mine! Annoying tail. 🥴
Only 14 remember and there married 😂😢😮
Right.... This brother us right..... You hit the nail on the head... Thank God... Somebody finally Saud it.😮
My dude was pretty much on point!
This is the biggest problem today with all these single mothers, raising kids with no father figure at home.🤔
How does a woman become a good wife, if she didn't see her mother interacting with her father?
How does a woman choose a good husband, if she didn't see a good example growing up?
How does a boy become a good man, husband and father, if their is no example at home growing up?
These are the issues facing black communities now.
The Millennial's know better. They were probably the last generation to see healthy relationship. They know, they just don't want to sacrifice their own personal freedom for a family.
Read
Seek out mentors
Get therapy
Develop a friendship circle of good parents you can lean on for support and advice...
That last question been on my mind alot
With children from households with a single mother you have to either have faith in the kids growing a set of values that carries them through life, or you just need to hope that the children actually see other good examples of a healthy and loveable adult (either through relatives, friends, community, positive media, etc.).
In context of the black community though, the lack of positive media, strong values, community enforcing and reinforcing values, and other factors tied to an overall bad environment to raise children in, causes a lot of children from single mothers in the black community to have such bleak outcomes.
You blame everything on single mothers; but, where are the men? Where are the men teaching men to be men?
Damn, she had to go there. 🙄
I'm honestly confused I get what she meant by that
@@brandontrammel4581lmaooo
@@brandontrammel4581It was:
1. Unnecessary
2. Counter to the point being made
3. Inaccurate
4. A reinforcement of the misguided belief that good men are unicorns.
@@Bazzman1974 I'm still confused by 14 . Was she implying there's only 14 good men that's what she meant?
Yes, sarcastically tho, thats exactly what she meant@brandontrammel4581
That last remark made by Kita proved his point. People need to listen to learn instead of listening just to make a rebuttal.
Which point did she prove?
I agree! Im thankful for my Papa. He was an amazing father....❤❤
We've all seen good men. Whether they were coaches, teachers, or business men. It's just that in American culture, it's the "rebels" or the "tough guys" or the "cool guys" who get the lion's share of the spotlight.
For me, even through school, the good kids were often the most overlooked in terms of popularity.
It's two things about Kita I see, either she had a good thing and messed it up or she had a bad boy and became bitter from the situation? I've seen this alot and in my experiences and you have to take accountability and continue to grow and become a better person making more money is not going to fix that for you!✌️❤️
Kita is happily in a relationship though. She was joking to break up tension and keep the conversation going. The room got dead silent so she just had to adjust the energy
@@ynobeplease Do you know her personally?
@@davidtolbert716Do YOU know her personally?
@@filmadcamp1512 I was going by what you said about her being in a good relationship? Is this something she tells ya'll or did you know her personally is why I was asking? Which proves my point about most modern women having same characteristics on accountability they get emotional and defensive! You don't need to know anybody to see that and it's not assuming things it's just plain facts!
@@davidtolbert716I didn't say she was in a relationship because I don't know her. Someone else said she was.
But prior to that person saying that, you claimed she either had a bad thing and messed it up, or that she liked bad boys and got hurt. Both of those things you said are clearly ASSumptions because it seems you don't actually know her. That's not me being defensive but me using logic based on your comments. Why should you be able to ask someone if they know her, to try and refute their point but if someone asks you the same question then it's an issue? Sounds like you're the one being defensive.
Of course Kita can't handle a guy being right
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Agreed
That was well said 👏🏼👏🏼
True.
If all you ever saw was abuse, toxicity, negative behavior,bad judgement,etc.that becomes your normal.
That's all you know.
You don't know different.
And,it is so hard to break that cycle of abuse, negative relationships,poverty,etc.
Thank you, sir.
AMEN! I'm know I'm ready for a good man and I'm staying single until a man show me different.
✋ On God Nem 🖤🖤
Fr, I had a similar conversation with a friend earlier. And on top of that women will often associate toxic or able to deal with their toxic traits as strong. Familiar doesn't means growth and sometimes you gotta step out of the comfort zone if you wanna see growth
I didn’t think it could be done, but because we’re human the inevitable just happened. I don’t wholeheartedly agree.
Could it be that the women they’re talking about just doesn’t know how to say what they want or communicate what works for them?
So when heart storms come, they’re mentally/emotionally preoccupied too much to properly love on that man?
I love 💕 when he speaks I agree with him 💯 he what I'm looking for no lie 😜
I'm liking the nWo shirt 💯💯💯
It's hard to identify what you've never seen before
What he stated was true and the consequences of it as well. However, it's still a womans priorities and personal values that matter before and after consequences. Even though she attracts to what she's used to, the continuity of failed relationships is no excuse. We're held accountable in society for being repeated offenders, but the same logic doesn't apply to insanity? The point is that habitual mistakes are no longer mistakes. After the consequences, when do you draw the line because Mama and Grandma did it?
And this is why it's important to listen to a married man 😊 Not a person who is SINGLE 🤷🏽♂️😍
TRUTH!! Well said brotha
Amen 🙏🏾
Women: I'm ready to let him hit it raw.
Men: No second thoughts?
Women: None. Everything will be okay.
True.
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People mirror what they see and experience. You can only see things at the level of your perception & understanding. And for some that’s very shallow. Some people operate from dysfunction and that’s their normal.
Yup lost my good man over some inherited toxic cycle bs💔
FACTS
Get comfortable with being uncomfortabke then cuz its more good men out here than bad ones now a days
That's hard to believe
@@domicascott7596it's hard to believe because of the endless stream of media portrayals and commentary like the one she interjected with.
@@Bazzman1974it's hard to believe because of the the true stories of women and the crimes
@@domicascott7596what Bazzman said. Also, some men feel the same way about women, but I am sure most women would take issue with a man making such a statement about women.....
Good men are less likely to approach. Good men might be a little bit more boring and less egotistical (sorry.... "Confident".....) than bad men, so naturally women won't see or attracted to good men as often.
@@domicascott7596 I agree with OP. The majority of men out there are genuinely good.
Personally, i think some Women appreciate what benefits or entertains them the most at that time.
Meaning, if she has her own money, she pro'ly will appreciate the type of guy that entertains her "physical" and "thrill" seeking desires. Vice versa, if she doesn't have money, she appreciates the good guy that sympathizes with all of her "caring" needs as a Woman.
Ultimately, women know that they are the only desired creature for most Men in the world, so they "appreciate" based on their current "needs" or "entertainment". Women know that Men have no other creature we can have physical companionship with. It's a complete sex "monopoly" for most Men. Which, if Men had other creatures for sex and/or companionship, Women would have become obsolete a l-o-n-g time ago. Men have nothing else. That's why when a Man typically doesn't have alot of options, or desire to entertain multiple Women, they tend to "typically" treat their Women they way a Woman should truly be treated... faithfully.
Therefore, if you are truly what the world considers a "good", legit Man in life and to Women, but she doesn't appreciate you, all that means is she is just Not a good Woman, yet in a beautiful frame. You're just not "crazy" or "careless" or on the "edge" enough to entertain her drama and thrills. So let it hurt and move on.
This is just a few pieces to the puzzle. ✌️🖤
How many people men/women are actually "good"? Next question are you a good person yourself?
dizzy 304 at the end
prove yourselves righteous wives brothers
.Ecclesiastes 7:28
“Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found.”
SHALOM
Real
The reality of Trill said isn't always from the men, today majority of boys are raised by who? Women, the same ones who in most cases raised these young boys to be toxic men from being toxic themselves. If the father of the children were never there in the boys life, what toxicity did he show the boy? That came from the mother because of herself or the men see allowed in her life with her children
The question is about women but you decide to talk about men. How can women improve if anytime people start to talk about women, the discussion instead gets pivoted back to the men?
This is not limited to toxic men. Too often this type of reasoning or explanation is centered around the obvious, or the presumption he is bad. But it really does come back to what she has seen. My wife saw a single mom who made all decisions in the house as the lone adult. She didnt see a man involved in the day to day, or how a wife interracts, respects, submits, compromises and copartner with her husband.She didnt see how a man takes care of, provides, protects, prioritizes his wife and family. So guess how she acts....as a solo adult in a 2 married life, who doesnt recognize she has someone doing the things a good man is supposed to. Its a problem.
Woooo! You on fire!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Facts and keep it mind that it goes both ways, men are also exposed to the women side of those types of men....women that create and enable those types of men hence they grow up thinking that women who set boundaries, have standards, don't allow foolishness are difficult, immaculate them, disrespect them etc. It's important to check yourself, your childhood & family before bring anyone else into it.
Drive by Kita strikes again.
Kita seems like she has alot of hurt that needs to be healed because almost everytime one of the men up there say something valuable she almost always has a backhanded commit
Once again, it's our fault. Smh. Even when we are good, we're bad. Even when it's their doing, it's not their fault.
The women were quite lol
C’mon kita 🙄 🤦🏿♀️
Picking a partner is like being at the buffet. With a lot of choices in front of a person,watch what he or she puts on the plate.
This isn't wrong, but it's incomplete. The other part is just that a lot of women have issues with entitlement and don't appreciate anything regardless.
If you think that having A, B, and C entitles you to a man with X, Y, and Z, then it doesn't matter how good a man who doesn't have X, Y, and Z is... You're not going to appreciate what he is, because you're focused on how he isn't what you think you're entitled to. The problem being that if men with X, Y, and Z aren't checking for her that means she really isn't entitled to all that. The problem with a "never settle" mentality is that if you don't qualify for the thing you want, then the thing you do qualify for instead isn't actually a settle, no matter how much you think it is.
How many people men/women are actually "good"?
So, they've never seen an example of a good man?? Thats absolutely not true!
Talk to talk to
🙄🙄😩😩
😂 man I love Kita 😂 and it's only 10 😂😂
Keisha only wants Pookie.
Good Men get Used.
Why would good men be attracted to Keisha anyway
@@soulsistah5738 Keisha is the majority. So he tries to stick with his own people in the beginning. It's Keisha that rejects Good Man for Pookie.
Big facts! Living example
@@mr.dccomics9018if keisha is the majority then the majority of men aren't good men
Not handsome good men😂😂😂😂
The thing is t, 9 times out of 10 the reason why men choose to or have to be a "good man" is because there is something else about them women don't like, and if they had it, many would not be so "good" so it's not that they can't appreciate them being a good mad, the men often are missing something else that has to be in place for a relationship, usually charisma, chemistry, attraction or personality, amongst everything. And it's not a matter of really appreciating the behaviors or the way the person shows up, its that its not coming from the right, or the person people want those qualities from.
I really adore Kita Rose! Her responses come through every time lol!!!
That same shit can be applied to women. But, you'd be preaching to choir at this point.
So she never says anything positive ehh?? Got it. 🙄
Finally I DISAGREE with something from these chats. I would say a lot of these women are just ungrateful ppl in general. There are plenty of things you can appreciate that you’ve never seen before; that’s how we discover new things that we didn’t know we liked. You can appreciate a nice vacation in an exotic location you’ve never been to IF you’re not an ungrateful person. You can appreciate $1M if you’re not an ungrateful person. You can appreciate a cold glass of water on a really hot day if you’re not an ungrateful person.
All the advice dude be giving. I wonder if he practice what he preach. He seems like a wolf in sheeps clothing🤔🤔🤔
Don’t really think he was preaching anything to practice, but actually stating a common nature.
The same can go for men.
If a man is used to particular type of woman, it’s possible that when he get one that’s actually good(for him) he may not value/appreciate her because he simply not used to it or even know/care of what she can do for him eternally as a man.
Was it good advice or bad advice that he gave?
What about him gives you rhe feeing he's a wolf?
Pander 🐻
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