So a man is supposed to keep it 100% but and you can Google this fact "50% of females in marriages and long term relationships already have a side dude." But men is supposed to keep it 100% lmao lol. Y'all need to stop pandering to these females and call them out on their double standards.
Agreed. Men definitely need to handle those situations better. Just as women need to STOP introducing mugs sht smashed, as " My friend, or my play cousin" Or her homey. Same for girls " she played with". They play the " you didn't ask me if we did anything" game. Never have your mate, someone you are dating, around someone you used to fuggck, and your current person Not know that. He-she should Leave you if you do that to them
0:22 FACTS!! 💯💯💯 Dudes get mad that telling the truth may have a consequence they don't like, and then say "Well y'all can't handle it. That's why I ain't even wanna say anything." Get over it! She has a right to be informed and to walk away if the situation isn't right for her.
You could, it's done all the time. He'll, I've done it, as a fellow employee and in a supervisory position. If u have an understanding, np. We, well I, kept it on the low, because I knew the ramifications. And I had 2 of them. Mind you, they came at me.
Messing around on the job, is something I wouldn’t suggest anyone to do- but, if you are? Don’t get caught up in it, or the workplace circus. If it’s your career? DO NOT DO IT AT ALL!!! Is it worth losing your career over? Even the slight risk isn’t worth it.. a career is a lot different than a “job”. That’s something you worked towards, strived for, achieved, and look forward to retiring from.. why risk it?
@@brandontrammel4581we need to normalize 'cost benefit analysis' and how,many of those relationships are worth a damb or just convenient lust? A volubteer group or a,charity event is one thing... Your Money and livelihood...cmon..the world is alot smaller now. We have to think long term even if it all ends tomorrow
I dont know if he was necessarily trying to be a player by withholding that info. It's possible he liked this woman, but was afraid she wouldn't be interested in him anymore if he told her. I could understand that. His best bet is to end it and move on. It's too much drama and the trust is broken.
What trust? Ask me no questions, I'll tell you no lies. One of the 48 laws of power is never voluntarily give up info. Women do that all the time, keep the mystery, so why the double standard?
Ill be damn if im at work daydreaming about what he did to me the night before, and another chick is like yeah girl i remember too! Nah! Also IMO, the other woman still has some type of feelings for the guy. Otherwise she wouldn't have mentioned it to her.
Of course she “just so happen to mention it” because she jealous Haha. But yeah I agree with Tripp. It’s always best to keep it funky from jump & let them decide.
He fumbled how? If she's trippin' now, then she wasn't going to mess with him anyway if he told the truth. He got it for longer than he would have otherwise. It's not like he could go back in time and un-smash the other one. Any loss was a forgone conclusion. Charge that one to the game.
@@JCPRuckus you high on that defense. Women are petty.. if he saw that other girl working for his girlfriend he shoulda tell her straight up he used to fuck her employee. We gotta be smarter than that. Can't trust them to be discret. And if you dont understand that youre not learning.
For the woman who asked the man if he slept with the woman from the past. Remember this, U opening yourself up to reveal your true body count whenever u start asking about Who somebody slept with in the past.
@KreativTouch so the problems here are backbiting, gossiping, talking about men, talking about sleeping with men, when they should be busy doing their jobs, right?
You acting like that isn't reasonable😂 I don't think y'all realize how much we have to walk on eggshells with y'all. You don't usually want the truth you want a story told to you anyway. If you would react like an adult in these situations men would lie less. Unlike women who lie because they don't want the emotional distress men lie so that you won't have reactions that affect him even if he didn't do anything wrong. It would be different if he cheated on you or something like that
@@lawrencevaughn9149 I handle the truth with my significant other very well talk to the women in your family . Lmaoo have nothing to do with me but thanks
How did he lie? Did you ask and he gave contrary account? Which would be lie. Or did he know of your working environment, and not disclose the prior relationship. Which would be dishonest. Honestly, either way the relationship is tainted. There are plenty more fish in the sea.
What happened to Not Kissing and Telling ? A dude is crushed if he does that. Neither of your past should matter. Unless it was Family... I understand a coworker, though. Just possibly sabotage something you obviously want for his past. He's gotta cop if she said it..whether she was being messy or not. She said knew him...where them screwing came up at? People ain't allowed to know someone else?
Who tf cares bro... These some drama queens. Do you like him or Not? Set the boundaries and stop attacking the past. If he starts acting shady, bounce, but until then stop self sabotaging... THIS WHOLE DISCUSSION IS GOOFY
@@cjohnson_ Yes. Men know, on average, women flip tf out over little dumb s..t. So we tell them what they want to hear because its a Lose Lose situation, but she wants to "believe" shes the only woman on earth. Most women DO NOT have the objective emotional capacity to be mature about everyday situations. Emotiinal maturity of a 7 yrold (petty tantrums and all). So what he slept with someone else, hes with you now..do you Like him or Not? Jesus..THINK FOR YOURSELF. He didnt lie to be sinister, nefarious, malevolent or coy, he lied because shes being DISINGENUOUS. She just wants something to complain about and use as a reason to leave, rather than rocking with this guy. If it was that big of a deal, CONFRONT HIM and Leave. But she wont, cause the dick is too good and shes silly.
@@cjohnson_ Respectfully if she didn't ask did he lie? We gotta stop the circus drama. People have pasta...She is really the person whose judgement is in question because she is the boss. If she is willing to put her position on the line and make this public it shows a lack of judgement. I don't believe in games anymore personally. You just hurt yourself and others. But you gotta be real about it you playing the game you have winners and losers and you don't get to determine whether you will be the loser. The only way not to lose is don't play the game. If she asked and he gave her an honest answer the question is is she grown enough to handle the answer. iIs she mature enough to move forward with or without the dude in personal integrity is the only question. Lastly my opinion...is considering her position as boss this should have been I'm gonna let this go and move on
I 100% think that guys should be honest about things like this but at the same time I think that women should give these guys more leeway if they want them to be honest. Just like how we teach parents and friends Aunt couples not to overreact when somebody tell you the truth because that's how you teach them to lie to you when you're first dealing with a guy if he's dealt with one of your friends before you can't have too much of a reaction especially if he didn't do anything wrong. He might have been interested in her they talked for a little bit and then it ended mutually then why is he being punched for that and then you're surprised when he lies. Men you do not feel like being judged for things that don't actually matter for the relationship and that's why a lot of them lie. I do think that they should be honest and honestly not deal with women that would overreact at the same time y'all need to learn how to feel your emotions without throwing them back on the other person and reacting negatively and there's no reason that's how you get by lying to you
Lol those men need to grow up. We tell adults not to overreact to things children tell them because they're kids.. that advice doesn't apply to grown adult men. Also, people don't get to dictate how someone reacts to their honesty. You don't get a cookie for being honest. You don't get to dictate how someone responds to you being honest. Being an adult is accepting that even if you're honest, the reaction may not be one that you like. Someone overreacting isn't an excuse to withhold the truth or lie.
I think a decent person, if they knew they were involved with someone you knew would be upfront about that information. It doesn't even have to be a big deal like "hey, I didn't know you and so and so worked together.. we actually used to date a few years ago... blah blah blah"
He wrong on this one sorry my boy only how he can be right is if he meet both of y’all at the same place which is your job now if it 2 year down the line then and yall see each other at a work party who cares that part to much time in to worry about something that happened 5 year ago if we bring real
Stories like these just confirm the fact that a lot of people lack honor and integrity.
A real grown man is going to keep it 100% and you can’t help but to respect that but hunni let that man go
So a man is supposed to keep it 100% but and you can Google this fact "50% of females in marriages and long term relationships already have a side dude." But men is supposed to keep it 100% lmao lol. Y'all need to stop pandering to these females and call them out on their double standards.
@@Knightcraft42lol what's the source for this stat that you losers love so much?
Agreed. Men definitely need to handle those situations better.
Just as women need to STOP introducing mugs sht smashed, as
" My friend, or my play cousin"
Or her homey.
Same for girls " she played with".
They play the " you didn't ask me if we did anything" game.
Never have your mate, someone you are dating, around someone you used to fuggck, and your current person Not know that. He-she should Leave you if you do that to them
0:22 FACTS!! 💯💯💯 Dudes get mad that telling the truth may have a consequence they don't like, and then say "Well y'all can't handle it. That's why I ain't even wanna say anything." Get over it! She has a right to be informed and to walk away if the situation isn't right for her.
💯💯💯💯
This needs all the likes! 💯💯💯
BOSS!!...I just spit my water out. Caught me off guard. 🤦🏽♀️
I wouldn’t date him. That’s too close for comfort dating my coworker 😝
Even worse: employee. Yeah, we can't do that
You could, it's done all the time. He'll, I've done it, as a fellow employee and in a supervisory position. If u have an understanding, np. We, well I, kept it on the low, because I knew the ramifications. And I had 2 of them. Mind you, they came at me.
This dude don’t miss…
Dude is an idiot a player gon play to win and if he gotta lie he will
“Women can’t handle the truth” = “I don’t want to deal with the consequences of my actions”.
Messing around on the job, is something I wouldn’t suggest anyone to do- but, if you are? Don’t get caught up in it, or the workplace circus.
If it’s your career? DO NOT DO IT AT ALL!!! Is it worth losing your career over? Even the slight risk isn’t worth it.. a career is a lot different than a “job”. That’s something you worked towards, strived for, achieved, and look forward to retiring from.. why risk it?
People say that but statistically most relationships are from work.
@@brandontrammel4581we need to normalize 'cost benefit analysis' and how,many of those relationships are worth a damb or just convenient lust?
A volubteer group or a,charity event is one thing...
Your Money and livelihood...cmon..the world is alot smaller now. We have to think long term even if it all ends tomorrow
The Harvard Business Review reported that 40-47% of professionals have had romantic relationships at work at some point in their career.
Reggie, the guy that works the drive through. 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She watches this, she puts in her two week notice, she applies to your competitor, for the same role you are currently in. Villain activated
🙌🏾🙌🏾 origin story 🤣
😭
😂😂😂😂
I dont know if he was necessarily trying to be a player by withholding that info. It's possible he liked this woman, but was afraid she wouldn't be interested in him anymore if he told her. I could understand that. His best bet is to end it and move on. It's too much drama and the trust is broken.
What trust? Ask me no questions, I'll tell you no lies. One of the 48 laws of power is never voluntarily give up info. Women do that all the time, keep the mystery, so why the double standard?
@@mactherealestatemanFacts!!!
That'd be a great soap opera ...
Btw, that girl is FIRED!!! lol
Not me saying ooooooh out loud while I'm at work. Forgot where I was for a sec. 😂 let me go and sign off.
Ill be damn if im at work daydreaming about what he did to me the night before, and another chick is like yeah girl i remember too! Nah! Also IMO, the other woman still has some type of feelings for the guy. Otherwise she wouldn't have mentioned it to her.
@mrsnas80 true!
Workplace romance statistics reveal that 85% of affairs outside of marriage begin at work. (Good Therapy)
Of course she “just so happen to mention it” because she jealous Haha. But yeah I agree with Tripp. It’s always best to keep it funky from jump & let them decide.
If you gotta lie, you ain't got it like that.
If I lie and you tell the truth and we both hit it what does it matter
If she weed out the liar before giving it up, she will respect the one who told her the truth.
@@lidmontgomery8837 women don’t want the truth they want what’s right
You ain’t got to lie to kick it💯if you got to lie, it’s not a flex….. read my lips, YOU AINT NO PLAYA😂😂😂😂
That ain't what I was taught, but I get it. Besides, what would I look like now at 56 doing that?🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm laughing at myself!
@@mactherealestateman 😂😂😂🙏
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 is that in your John Witherspoon voice;because that’s how I heard it?😂😂😂😂😂
@@kamilleoliver2494 most definitely😂, R.I.P. Pops
Exactly! 💯
Full disclosure is a two way street
Don’t punish the truth so u can get it
Just tell the truth, she’s already decided in her mind whether or not she’s going to sleep with you❤
These ppl messy as hell
Tripp dont ever Trip!! Always on point! ✨️
🤣🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 but truth so its all about the respectful conversations..
I just say “I don’t talk about prior relations or old women” with women I’m currently seeing. They can do with that what they want
@inkedbeedeez True! It’s called the past for a reason.#ThatPart
This sounds like Babyboy😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Jody
Facts
Damn she fine.. dude fumbled
He fumbled how? If she's trippin' now, then she wasn't going to mess with him anyway if he told the truth. He got it for longer than he would have otherwise. It's not like he could go back in time and un-smash the other one. Any loss was a forgone conclusion. Charge that one to the game.
@@JCPRuckus you high on that defense. Women are petty.. if he saw that other girl working for his girlfriend he shoulda tell her straight up he used to fuck her employee. We gotta be smarter than that. Can't trust them to be discret. And if you dont understand that youre not learning.
Smdh❤❤❤ oooo wowww🔥💯💯😌😌
This is so Messy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love me some Tripp❤
Ace’s reactions 😂
True men tell the truth... Period.
I love Tripp
For the woman who asked the man if he slept with the woman from the past. Remember this, U opening yourself up to reveal your true body count whenever u start asking about Who somebody slept with in the past.
If he lied about it now what lies is he going to co tinted to tell. Dump him he not truthful to you and respect you.
What episode is this?
As a "boss," you shouldn't be messing around with your employees anyway. Her fault. Got caught in the sauce. Chalk it up to the game.
It wasn't her employee she was messing with the way I understood it. It was a guy that messed with one of her employees.
@KreativTouch so the problems here are backbiting, gossiping, talking about men, talking about sleeping with men, when they should be busy doing their jobs, right?
@@Tyrone950 you sound like a Bitter Brian, lol....his name came up in conversation sir. Be nice.
@KreativTouch when thou are the least married women compared to all other US women, I can understand how you feel about bitterness.
@@Tyrone950I'm not sure what you mean, but at any rate, have an amazing day! Practice positivity in all you do! 😊
Smh yes they lie because they know you will move around. That man doesn’t want that so they lie smh
You acting like that isn't reasonable😂 I don't think y'all realize how much we have to walk on eggshells with y'all. You don't usually want the truth you want a story told to you anyway. If you would react like an adult in these situations men would lie less. Unlike women who lie because they don't want the emotional distress men lie so that you won't have reactions that affect him even if he didn't do anything wrong. It would be different if he cheated on you or something like that
@@lawrencevaughn9149 I handle the truth with my significant other very well talk to the women in your family . Lmaoo have nothing to do with me but thanks
@@lawrencevaughn9149 didn’t want it to affect him? Lmaooo cornball watch the video again sis
@@lawrencevaughn9149"If you would act like an adult" meanwhile you're lying to your partner because you're afraid of how they'll react.
We anti goofy this year 💅🏾
He never miss ❤
Dam that’s crazy not her boss
How did he lie?
Did you ask and he gave contrary account? Which would be lie.
Or did he know of your working environment, and not disclose the prior relationship. Which would be dishonest.
Honestly, either way the relationship is tainted. There are plenty more fish in the sea.
Tripp Tripp Tripp…that MAN Tripp 🫡🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️❤️
"Most if yall think you got cheated on. Naw,you just thought yall were in a relationship. " Deon Cole
Ugh I'm prepared to be alone these stories turn me completely off
Preach
Amen
If she don't ask, why am i telling you?
Women can’t handle the truth
It shouldn't matter
NOW THIS WAS REAL GOOD A
And time out only time your man should be at your job is when he pick you up so when he pick you up he should say hey I mess with her 5 year ago ?
I feel like women like her, like that kind of messy
Yea he “Goofy” but he hit BOTH OF YALL! (He GTD Got the drawls .. Tommy!). 😂😂😂. Y’all better stop lying to these women on that stage.
😭😭😭😭😭😭
This Ace Metaphor dude is an unfunny cornball.
The plot thickens 1:08
Nah i thought yall said the past dont matter😂
Ive done this they both doubled back
Is it a lie or did he not tell her???
If he didn’t tell her that’s lying by omission. You are purposely withholding information.
Reverse rolls would a woman be up front hell no,ok den!
They messy
What if the co-worker doesn’t work there any more? Does it count?
Counts less, but not as low as zero. Context and honesty still go further..
@@ZisoRegondo: 😂
@@ZisoRegondo: How is it their business though?
@@hereforit2347 Was it coincidental or was this his hunting ground? Was the ex-coworker the only one from that place? Did she leave coz of him..?
@@ZisoRegondo: I’m not sure. I’ll have to ask and get back to you . . .
Welp
Yeah, I would not like it if told beforehand, but would respect the truth. But yall messy....lol
What happened to Not Kissing and Telling ? A dude is crushed if he does that. Neither of your past should matter.
Unless it was Family... I understand a coworker, though. Just possibly sabotage something you obviously want for his past. He's gotta cop if she said it..whether she was being messy or not. She said knew him...where them screwing came up at? People ain't allowed to know someone else?
So with men status doesn't matter...🤦🏾♂️🤑😂
Who tf cares bro...
These some drama queens.
Do you like him or Not? Set the boundaries and stop attacking the past. If he starts acting shady, bounce, but until then stop self sabotaging...
THIS WHOLE DISCUSSION IS GOOFY
Yeah bc the lying wasn't goofy the discussion is 😒😒😒😒
@@cjohnson_ Yes. Men know, on average, women flip tf out over little dumb s..t. So we tell them what they want to hear because its a Lose Lose situation, but she wants to "believe" shes the only woman on earth. Most women DO NOT have the objective emotional capacity to be mature about everyday situations. Emotiinal maturity of a 7 yrold (petty tantrums and all).
So what he slept with someone else, hes with you now..do you Like him or Not? Jesus..THINK FOR YOURSELF.
He didnt lie to be sinister, nefarious, malevolent or coy, he lied because shes being DISINGENUOUS. She just wants something to complain about and use as a reason to leave, rather than rocking with this guy.
If it was that big of a deal, CONFRONT HIM and Leave. But she wont, cause the dick is too good and shes silly.
@@cjohnson_ Respectfully if she didn't ask did he lie? We gotta stop the circus drama. People have pasta...She is really the person whose judgement is in question because she is the boss. If she is willing to put her position on the line and make this public it shows a lack of judgement. I don't believe in games anymore personally. You just hurt yourself and others. But you gotta be real about it you playing the game you have winners and losers and you don't get to determine whether you will be the loser. The only way not to lose is don't play the game. If she asked and he gave her an honest answer the question is is she grown enough to handle the answer. iIs she mature enough to move forward with or without the dude in personal integrity is the only question. Lastly my opinion...is considering her position as boss this should have been I'm gonna let this go and move on
I 100% think that guys should be honest about things like this but at the same time I think that women should give these guys more leeway if they want them to be honest. Just like how we teach parents and friends Aunt couples not to overreact when somebody tell you the truth because that's how you teach them to lie to you when you're first dealing with a guy if he's dealt with one of your friends before you can't have too much of a reaction especially if he didn't do anything wrong. He might have been interested in her they talked for a little bit and then it ended mutually then why is he being punched for that and then you're surprised when he lies. Men you do not feel like being judged for things that don't actually matter for the relationship and that's why a lot of them lie. I do think that they should be honest and honestly not deal with women that would overreact at the same time y'all need to learn how to feel your emotions without throwing them back on the other person and reacting negatively and there's no reason that's how you get by lying to you
Lol those men need to grow up. We tell adults not to overreact to things children tell them because they're kids.. that advice doesn't apply to grown adult men. Also, people don't get to dictate how someone reacts to their honesty. You don't get a cookie for being honest. You don't get to dictate how someone responds to you being honest. Being an adult is accepting that even if you're honest, the reaction may not be one that you like. Someone overreacting isn't an excuse to withhold the truth or lie.
@@jas1565bingo 💯
My Past is my business.
Why does he have to tell if it was before you? Is she gonna admit to everyone she had sex with before you?
I think a decent person, if they knew they were involved with someone you knew would be upfront about that information. It doesn't even have to be a big deal like "hey, I didn't know you and so and so worked together.. we actually used to date a few years ago... blah blah blah"
@@jas1565most of you are not upfront
@@albaptiste8691 who is this "you" you're referring to? Speak for yourself sweetie.
He wrong on this one sorry my boy only how he can be right is if he meet both of y’all at the same place which is your job now if it 2 year down the line then and yall see each other at a work party who cares that part to much time in to worry about something that happened 5 year ago if we bring real
His body count don't matter. His past doesn't matter. What you asking for?? Why she so insecure??
What happened before you isn't your business, this dude is being a sucker with this comment
What episode is this?