My dude told me that it's in a man's nature to have multiple woman. He also showed me that with two seeds he made behind my back. So I definitely agree with kitty. I kicked rocks after that and he still trying to get me back. Foh!!!!!
That's cuz she must like the company he keep and doesn't know her value in their marriage. It's definitely giving open Vibes aka fraudulent vows. He will definitely leave her eventually in 1 of those situationships she's ok w him inquiring about.
Multiple women sounds so damn stressful anyway lol and most dudes that want multiple are def thinking sex wise....theres a whole can of worms they're not even equip to deal with
I know a guy who thinks like this. He has a woman and constantly talks about finding her a sister (2nd wife). He rides the bus tho. I just think it’s crazy when men talk about being polygamous when they can’t even afford to be single…🤷🏾♀️
But that's what he's saying. He's not tryna take care of them financially, he just trying to hit it as long as you allow him. Some truth gotta be there if nothing a$$ men are continually getting multiple women
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When you do the math it is true, a lot of men would love to have multiple women but only a very few men are actually mentally and emotionally equipped to handle that responsibility as a GOOD partner in good faith. And a lot of those men who are so equipped aren't particularly interested in attempting it because they know how much actual effort it would require!
Exactly! Because I could care less what society thinks of me, I don’t even care to be married I grew up alone and I love my solitude which is why I think the lord let me have a child because Im not interested fr in the rest of the world. But the reason why I dont even date nor entertain the constant passes is because Im not equipped to do so. I dont have the energy nor care to. I couldve been the biggest gold digger 😅 but I aint got the energy nor am I equipped to handle multiple men and all their neediness…
Every man that I know who carries on with this whole conversation about having multiple women, only deals with broken insecure women. They can never deal with the woman of high emotional, spiritual, and intellectual capacities. They usually hate those type of woman because they can’t get over on them, and in all cases that I have experienced, none of those men can fully financially take care of those women, those children and Harley themselves without demanding much from those women. They are usually looking for help, not looking to be helpful and supportive is usually holding it down… Each of them more than him, so yeah it’s usually an excuse
@@7sevyn7_ : I absolutely get it. What I’m saying is, he doesn’t care. He’s living his best life and doing exactly what he wants to do and is proud of it. It’s only a “read” or “getting someone together” if they hear or receive it or it affects them in some way. He isn’t humbled, embarrassed, or even concerned. He…don’t…give…a…DAMN. Everything she said went in one ear and out the other and his girl was there to co-sign.
If you have a mindset to be with multiple women, you’re not for me! This is non negotiable…. Next‼️ It is very selfish and any man who desires multiple women lacks self control. The biggest Godly flex is to please your wife and to love her as God loves the church. If any man wants multiple women, let him have them but ladies, don’t include yourself in that number ❤
Tell it like it T. I. S. & no they can’t handle multiple women nor take care of themselves for that matter. I just had a guy try that w me. I told him to get lost & stay lost like he already was. I wasn’t going to have a confused man come into my life to try to confuse me. I’m too focused for that BS ! Btw…Great topic!
How many men have you seen actually handle 3 women? When i say handle, i mean control the direction of their lives SUCCESSFULLY. 99% of men struggle doing that with one woman, but be having these harem dreams that are unrealistic.
Some men are just hoarders... they dont be wanting alot of women, they be wanting to collect alot of women. Like cars, shoes, and all the other dumb shit they have an obsessive amount of
Apparently, this man IS “taking care of” multiple women . . . in the bedroom. His girl is excusing, even DEFENDING, his behavior. His women are probably taking care of and supporting *him.* “Selfish” or nah, if they like it, I love it. He’s obviously getting away with whatever he is and isn’t doing and does or doesn’t provide. They’re grown. The only reason he came to the mic was to let the crowd know he’s a playa’. 🤷🏾♀️
And these are usually the ones that can't afford one child, but go around making multiple and then complain about child support and not being able to live. Should've thought with the head on your shoulders first.
Why is this so true? You don’t have the money, the needs emotions to care for a multiple women all you caring for is yourself and sex. She’s standing up like it’s cute 💯💯💯 what he’s saying
Because he know which ones to get. He's not looking for women that want to be taking care of financially or emotionally. He trying to see who will let him hit it the longest until either he get caught or is ready to move on
If you've genuinely been with one woman for long enough. Not just being there physically but emotionally too, you wouldnt even want another woman, talk less of more women cos if you've been with one well enough and you deep the amount of emotional effort that has been required for just one woman, the thought of another woman being added to that dynamic will scare you
@@tinyking11 facts. Even in society’s that allow polygamy usually only affluent men engage in it because the finances required alone will stop most. Most of these dudes just want access to a lot of women but not the responsibility of actually taking care of them. A lot of Western dudes should thank their lucky stars they live in societies that only allow monogamy in relation marriage because worldwide most men will never get married nor have children. If the affluent could legally have more partners the amount of women available would decrease. They’d be fighting over those left available while the most talented and beautiful would be getting snagged first. Mediocrity would get you no one.
@@TheRazorTongue You preaching!! If polygamy was legal mehn would be fighting for scraps in the dating world. 🤣😂 Polygamy is a rich man’s game. They need to stay in their lane.
Yup to everything Kitty said! And why in the hell would you want to deal with more than one? If you are dealing with more than one all those relationships are as shallow as they come. You can't deal with more than one woman on a deep emotional level. Bro that's just exhausting and will give you no peace. Dealing with multiple women in a relationship is just chaos.
Your healing journey, is the path home to yourself. I'm going to say this so loud so ALL THE Women in the front back, sides and middle can hear this!!! Unhealed Men will lie and say anything to justify bad behavior. Unhealed women will allow it. Women , it is your duty to heal yourself, do the inner child trauma work, adult trauma healing, love & respect yourself so much and so hard that when you hear these stupid things from any man, you just literally say ABSOLUTELY FNG NOT I DO NOT SHARE MY MAN. Period!
I love being black and at the same time I am embarrassed to be part of this culture because that guy asking that question and the wife co-sign show how flawed we are at times
Aht Aht. Watching seeking sister wives. There's a DIVERSE crowd. Trust 😂 we are definitely flawed, but we gotta stop thinking "others" are better. you know how much apathy is in the typical white relationship? do you know how much transactionalism is in the typical asian relationship? how much cheating in the latino community? and ALL these relationships still "stay" together. let's not put others on a pedestal- our biggest flaw is that we are a vocal people (even when what don't even know what we saying 😂). ❤
Well, sounds like his wife approves. He needn't ask, except to flex. He can have women, men, and a Ninja Turtle too if that's what he wants. I say, let like-minded people find each other and have at it. Because, it could NOT be me.😒
Ladies on some of these topics we have to "Think Like A Man'. The dude w multiple women is probably not supplying all what she stated but may be supplying something those women want.
BRUHHH I was today years old when I found out about the audacity that hit that mic! Chile' Someone got that VIP pass to FAFO. Mane dude, a certified Pettyologist & his piece took the pills
Men we typically on desire multiple women sexually, not for a wife. You can’t say it’s for men’s own selfish needs, when the women are willing participants.
The lady is correct. Financially the man needs multiple women to help him to get where he wants to go. It's not for the woman. The woman can benefit from whatever falls he way but the ultimate beneficiary is the man
Silly wife..her tone of voice suggests she's defensive of his behaviour n she's well aware of his firting, which tells me she lacks confidence. She can't truly trust him. Either that or she's very dense. Probably the latter
That wife that took offense....is in for a lot of crying and heartbreak with that husband that came up there looking for some validation on what he is doing....or plans! Too Do... the wife got indignant... doesn't even have a clue as to why her husband ....REALLY!..."Wanted Too... KNOW"!!! 🤕😔
Be upfront and honest about your intentions. Give that person a choice as to whether or not they want to deal with you knowing what you DON’T. The 2 main issues are honesty and the changing of feelings. If they say you’re not the only one, move accordingly. If you are not emotionally strong enough to deal with not being the only one, then don’t put yourself in that situation. People get caught up in the person that says no, when there will be plenty of people that say yes.
She says "quality" and "character" What she meant was dominance and finance Cuz the fact he has or coukd have many women speaks for itself but she cant handle a man who doesnt meet her standard having multiple women, she even hates that the husband asked her that because hes so assured in his masculinity AND his wife followed suite as she is supposed to
I don't care if my man wants more 'wives' in polygny; not girlfriends, side chicks, etc. I'm not a jealous woman in that way because I want my sisters to experience being married, loved properly and protected too. It's not just about having extra kewchie. My main issue with this new age poly wave are the unfit men trying to leverage poly when they don't qualify to have more than one woman. Y'all can't just lead with your little head and expect to lead correctly over multiple women. The whole it's 'in my nature' is not an excuse to try and redefine poly in your own image to feed carnal lusts. You have to deal with these women in decency and in order if you desire righteous polygny. Tell these women upfront you want more than one with a plan and deal with them uprightly because you have to take care of these women the rest of their lives.
It’s not having multiple women that is in a man’s nature it’s the desire for multiple women that’s in our nature. However she is correct that the majority of men are not capable of maintaining such a life. Which is why we created monogamy in the first place most likely.
You know how many men ive encountered who caught themselves tryna “give me a better life” but because Im so over ish and men I just pass. Men be knowing they not gonna be able to keep up but it doesn’t stop them from causing chaos. Whereas me (a woman) and Im sure most women who respect themselves (as I wish men respected themselves)won’t get involved just for a quick nut, or a quick come up. Before yall come tell me well men and women arent the same, MORALLY we are and I dont wanna hear shit else.
It’s deeper than excuses. It’s been studied, it’s literally in their nature-whether they are emotionally intelligent or not. History tells us this as well.
Just had a conversation with a lady and she was talking about this , They cant , They Emotionally & Financially can't do it , This is why it always Fail in some way or if you rember that show sister wives all the wives were into it because he had chosen a favorite wife and he was doing everything for her but gving the other wives barley nothing , They usually wanna give one woman everything in the equation but expect to receive and get the same thing from the surrounding other women without giving them bare minimum to nothing but getting the same things from them that they get from the main, So that person is not going to allow you to keep taking from while giving everything and upholding somebody else and they get nothing but they basically giving and doing the same things
Most women deal in poly relationships where they all contribute their funds to the whole group and that man they really want but if you're talking polygamy that's different but still the same respect if the women really value and are attracted to you but if you can provide because you want to it's even better
Greetings ❤ I've ALWAYS said MEN should have what they can Afford & ANYONE with common sense, relates that Im NOT speaking of financial provisions only❤😊
If he was really taking care of his wife mentally, spiritually, emotionally and financially , he wouldn’t have energy for another woman.
Right!! Wouldn’t have even had the energy to stand up and say that mess. 😂
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This!!! ❤
My dude told me that it's in a man's nature to have multiple woman. He also showed me that with two seeds he made behind my back. So I definitely agree with kitty. I kicked rocks after that and he still trying to get me back. Foh!!!!!
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The wife sounds so foolish "he just wanted to know!"
Exactly She is a Silly Woman .
She needs healing so she would never allow that..
Very foolish 😢
She's probably cheating also, maybe swinging
That's cuz she must like the company he keep and doesn't know her value in their marriage. It's definitely giving open Vibes aka fraudulent vows. He will definitely leave her eventually in 1 of those situationships she's ok w him inquiring about.
Multiple women sounds so damn stressful anyway lol and most dudes that want multiple are def thinking sex wise....theres a whole can of worms they're not even equip to deal with
☝️This is true☝️
I know a guy who thinks like this. He has a woman and constantly talks about finding her a sister (2nd wife). He rides the bus tho. I just think it’s crazy when men talk about being polygamous when they can’t even afford to be single…🤷🏾♀️
Facts
But that's what he's saying. He's not tryna take care of them financially, he just trying to hit it as long as you allow him. Some truth gotta be there if nothing a$$ men are continually getting multiple women
Facts 💯
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My man can have as many women as he wants. A mama, some aunties, some sisters, me, daughters, nieces, god daughters, and all that!
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And those are the only ones he can have 😂😂😂😂😂
This comment took me out🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hardcore comment
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Nah fam, as a man that brother doesn’t speak for me because I DO NOT want multiple women 😂😂😂
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Why u lying bruh that’s ain’t gonna get u laid
Respectable 💯
Facts
Any man that’s healthy, in his prime, and full of testosterone will naturally desire multiple women. Why do people conflate providing and casual fun?
“He just wanted to know!” 🥴😫
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Right LOL
100% he is already cheating and she is clueless and naive!
She probably wants to sleep with his women too…
@@jesmey4902sad & unbelievable
That's all
When you do the math it is true, a lot of men would love to have multiple women but only a very few men are actually mentally and emotionally equipped to handle that responsibility as a GOOD partner in good faith. And a lot of those men who are so equipped aren't particularly interested in attempting it because they know how much actual effort it would require!
Exactly! Because I could care less what society thinks of me, I don’t even care to be married I grew up alone and I love my solitude which is why I think the lord let me have a child because Im not interested fr in the rest of the world. But the reason why I dont even date nor entertain the constant passes is because Im not equipped to do so. I dont have the energy nor care to. I couldve been the biggest gold digger 😅 but I aint got the energy nor am I equipped to handle multiple men and all their neediness…
It’s some one for everyone I see. The wife is standing up for this mess until she sees it doesn’t work for her. I really hope that bond is strong.
Every man that I know who carries on with this whole conversation about having multiple women, only deals with broken insecure women. They can never deal with the woman of high emotional, spiritual, and intellectual capacities. They usually hate those type of woman because they can’t get over on them, and in all cases that I have experienced, none of those men can fully financially take care of those women, those children and Harley themselves without demanding much from those women. They are usually looking for help, not looking to be helpful and supportive is usually holding it down… Each of them more than him, so yeah it’s usually an excuse
Well said 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Facts
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YOU GOT HIM ALL 2Gether Kitty ❤
Did she? Where? 😂
Exactly 💯
@@hereforit2347it all went over ur head. We kno 😂. U are definitely the ones ahead speaking of… u don’t get probly never will
@@7sevyn7_ : I absolutely get it. What I’m saying is, he doesn’t care. He’s living his best life and doing exactly what he wants to do and is proud of it.
It’s only a “read” or “getting someone together” if they hear or receive it or it affects them in some way. He isn’t humbled, embarrassed, or even concerned.
He…don’t…give…a…DAMN.
Everything she said went in one ear and out the other and his girl was there to co-sign.
I see Kitty didn't come to play today 👌🏾
If you have a mindset to be with multiple women, you’re not for me! This is non negotiable…. Next‼️
It is very selfish and any man who desires multiple women lacks self control. The biggest Godly flex is to please your wife and to love her as God loves the church. If any man wants multiple women, let him have them but ladies, don’t include yourself in that number ❤
Tell it like it T. I. S. & no they can’t handle multiple women nor take care of themselves for that matter. I just had a guy try that w me. I told him to get lost & stay lost like he already was. I wasn’t going to have a confused man come into my life to try to confuse me. I’m too focused for that BS ! Btw…Great topic!
Good for you! It would have been unnecessary stress & drama.
How many men have you seen actually handle 3 women?
When i say handle, i mean control the direction of their lives SUCCESSFULLY.
99% of men struggle doing that with one woman, but be having these harem dreams that are unrealistic.
It's not what God has ordained. That's why it doesn't work. It's not even a question of male abundance or agility.
Men have 5 children by 5 different women that he say he can't take care of.How long will they act like this isn't destructive to a community
Some men are just hoarders... they dont be wanting alot of women, they be wanting to collect alot of women. Like cars, shoes, and all the other dumb shit they have an obsessive amount of
Yes avoid them !!
Apparently, this man IS “taking care of” multiple women . . . in the bedroom.
His girl is excusing, even DEFENDING, his behavior. His women are probably taking care of and supporting *him.*
“Selfish” or nah, if they like it, I love it. He’s obviously getting away with whatever he is and isn’t doing and does or doesn’t provide.
They’re grown.
The only reason he came to the mic was to let the crowd know he’s a playa’. 🤷🏾♀️
Absolutely agree she's paying for everything 😮
Exactly. I'm willing to bet she brought him there thinking one way and he sprung that question thinking it was gonna go another way lol....
And these are usually the ones that can't afford one child, but go around making multiple and then complain about child support and not being able to live. Should've thought with the head on your shoulders first.
Lol She was about to throw hot grit balls at the guy 😂
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I noticed most men are quiet on this one. That speaks alot. I wonder if women paying attention🤣🤣🤣
Right! I noticed that too, was expecting someone to stand up and help the poor guy but no Man did! 😂😂😂🤭
Interesting.
Noted
Unless his wife agrees he really shouldn’t be married. Let him go so he can be who he is.
Why is this so true? You don’t have the money, the needs emotions to care for a multiple women all you caring for is yourself and sex. She’s standing up like it’s cute 💯💯💯 what he’s saying
Because he know which ones to get. He's not looking for women that want to be taking care of financially or emotionally. He trying to see who will let him hit it the longest until either he get caught or is ready to move on
There is definitely a different mindset needed to be that guy. Not saying it's not obtainable if you tryna do that but you can't be a regular degular.
If you've genuinely been with one woman for long enough. Not just being there physically but emotionally too, you wouldnt even want another woman, talk less of more women cos if you've been with one well enough and you deep the amount of emotional effort that has been required for just one woman, the thought of another woman being added to that dynamic will scare you
If you don’t have supreme communication and great assets don’t even try it.
💯🥱👏🏽 Most mehn don’t.
@@tinyking11 facts. Even in society’s that allow polygamy usually only affluent men engage in it because the finances required alone will stop most. Most of these dudes just want access to a lot of women but not the responsibility of actually taking care of them. A lot of Western dudes should thank their lucky stars they live in societies that only allow monogamy in relation marriage because worldwide most men will never get married nor have children. If the affluent could legally have more partners the amount of women available would decrease. They’d be fighting over those left available while the most talented and beautiful would be getting snagged first. Mediocrity would get you no one.
@@TheRazorTongue You preaching!! If polygamy was legal mehn would be fighting for scraps in the dating world. 🤣😂 Polygamy is a rich man’s game. They need to stay in their lane.
Just say you want a neverending cycle of rotating WAP and the Woman is irrelevant.
Yup to everything Kitty said! And why in the hell would you want to deal with more than one? If you are dealing with more than one all those relationships are as shallow as they come. You can't deal with more than one woman on a deep emotional level. Bro that's just exhausting and will give you no peace. Dealing with multiple women in a relationship is just chaos.
What she’s saying is, he’s telling you what he’s doing.
😂😂 facts , I’m African and was given the option to have 2 wives . Pass , cause I love peace .
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DAMNNNN!!! SPEAK ON IT!
Your healing journey, is the path home to yourself.
I'm going to say this so loud so ALL THE Women in the front back, sides and middle can hear this!!!
Unhealed Men will lie and say anything to justify bad behavior. Unhealed women will allow it.
Women , it is your duty to heal yourself, do the inner child trauma work, adult trauma healing, love & respect yourself so much and so hard that when you hear these stupid things from any man, you just literally say ABSOLUTELY FNG NOT I DO NOT SHARE MY MAN.
Period!
I love being black and at the same time I am embarrassed to be part of this culture because that guy asking that question and the wife co-sign show how flawed we are at times
Y'all love to act like these are things that are isolated within the Black community. White men have entire TV shows dedicated to their polygamy.
OMG! Facts, like just grow up already! And I wish that it was the total solution, I know it's not, but it would be a start.
Aht Aht. Watching seeking sister wives. There's a DIVERSE crowd. Trust 😂 we are definitely flawed, but we gotta stop thinking "others" are better. you know how much apathy is in the typical white relationship? do you know how much transactionalism is in the typical asian relationship? how much cheating in the latino community? and ALL these relationships still "stay" together. let's not put others on a pedestal- our biggest flaw is that we are a vocal people (even when what don't even know what we saying 😂). ❤
Um sister wives was a whole show of Caucasians. This is waaay more a whyte than black thing
#KITTY LET EM KNOW, GIVE THEM THAT KNOWLEDGE 🎯💯🔥🖤
Ohhh I love the way she explained it so correctly. This woman is powerful ❤
Well, sounds like his wife approves. He needn't ask, except to flex. He can have women, men, and a Ninja Turtle too if that's what he wants. I say, let like-minded people find each other and have at it. Because, it could NOT be me.😒
Lol a ninja turtle too let's throw in Annabelle & chucky too lol 😆
It was in wealthy/powerful men’s nature to have multiple women. Not middle class or poor. They always leave that part out 😅
Say that Kitty!! Aint that her name 🥴😂
Facts all those Parts ❤👏🏾🙏🏾✝️
Ladies on some of these topics we have to "Think Like A Man'. The dude w multiple women is probably not supplying all what she stated but may be supplying something those women want.
BRUHHH I was today years old when I found out about the audacity that hit that mic! Chile' Someone got that VIP pass to FAFO. Mane dude, a certified Pettyologist & his piece took the pills
She chewed up dat mf. Damn shame.
Came to the mic serving dust and audacity
He sobered up quick 😅
This is true,they want the women but not the responsibility
PREACHHHH ❤💯💯💯
Yes and amen!
Speaking right. Thank you.❤
Men we typically on desire multiple women sexually, not for a wife. You can’t say it’s for men’s own selfish needs, when the women are willing participants.
The lady is correct. Financially the man needs multiple women to help him to get where he wants to go. It's not for the woman. The woman can benefit from whatever falls he way but the ultimate beneficiary is the man
Preach it sis👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Silly wife..her tone of voice suggests she's defensive of his behaviour n she's well aware of his firting, which tells me she lacks confidence. She can't truly trust him. Either that or she's very dense. Probably the latter
PREACH KITTY‼️🔥💯😮💨💕
Say it louder for the people in back you go girl tell ‘em Queen👏🏽🙏🏾🥰
Saved and Approved 🙌🏾
Yes she's speaking the truth!!!
As a man.....that woman spitting!
That wife that took offense....is in for a lot of crying and heartbreak with that husband that came up there looking for some validation on what he is doing....or plans! Too Do...
the wife got indignant... doesn't even have a clue as to why her husband ....REALLY!..."Wanted Too... KNOW"!!!
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Talk that Talk Mrs. Kittie!❤
POWERFUL!!!!!❤❤❤❤💯💯💯💯💯
Be upfront and honest about your intentions. Give that person a choice as to whether or not they want to deal with you knowing what you DON’T. The 2 main issues are honesty and the changing of feelings. If they say you’re not the only one, move accordingly. If you are not emotionally strong enough to deal with not being the only one, then don’t put yourself in that situation. People get caught up in the person that says no, when there will be plenty of people that say yes.
I just gotta say how much i love me some Kitty. She is a beast when it comes to wisdom. I love you my sista!!!!!. You be on your ish, and i love it
Factsssssss
Ain’t that da dude from “I’m a Virgo”😂😂 that’s a whole actor!😂
The only men that I have seen pull this off is Pimps and some of them struggle with it as well.
Tell him!!!
I LOVE when women like her end up with men like him.
That game was fun back when I was with a woman who loved grits with her sausage, but these days I no longer care for all the responsibility.
He came for the wrong woman on the right day. He had it coming.
Where can I watch the full conversationnnnn
Preach Kitty! Love her ❤
Look at dem, clapping and hollering. That hefer ain’t state ONE fact up there…
Yassss Kitty preach!!!
She says "quality" and "character"
What she meant was dominance and finance
Cuz the fact he has or coukd have many women speaks for itself but she cant handle a man who doesnt meet her standard having multiple women, she even hates that the husband asked her that because hes so assured in his masculinity AND his wife followed suite as she is supposed to
So well stated. Thank you lady. 👍. Would you honestly accept and admire your qween with the same values or standards.
She's right.
I don't care if my man wants more 'wives' in polygny; not girlfriends, side chicks, etc. I'm not a jealous woman in that way because I want my sisters to experience being married, loved properly and protected too. It's not just about having extra kewchie.
My main issue with this new age poly wave are the unfit men trying to leverage poly when they don't qualify to have more than one woman. Y'all can't just lead with your little head and expect to lead correctly over multiple women.
The whole it's 'in my nature' is not an excuse to try and redefine poly in your own image to feed carnal lusts. You have to deal with these women in decency and in order if you desire righteous polygny. Tell these women upfront you want more than one with a plan and deal with them uprightly because you have to take care of these women the rest of their lives.
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Her statement refers to "most men," not "all men," therefore let's talk about the men who don't fall into that category.
Preach Sis Preach
It’s not having multiple women that is in a man’s nature it’s the desire for multiple women that’s in our nature. However she is correct that the majority of men are not capable of maintaining such a life. Which is why we created monogamy in the first place most likely.
You know how many men ive encountered who caught themselves tryna “give me a better life” but because Im so over ish and men I just pass. Men be knowing they not gonna be able to keep up but it doesn’t stop them from causing chaos. Whereas me (a woman) and Im sure most women who respect themselves (as I wish men respected themselves)won’t get involved just for a quick nut, or a quick come up.
Before yall come tell me well men and women arent the same, MORALLY we are and I dont wanna hear shit else.
It’s deeper than excuses. It’s been studied, it’s literally in their nature-whether they are emotionally intelligent or not. History tells us this as well.
Just had a conversation with a lady and she was talking about this , They cant , They Emotionally & Financially can't do it , This is why it always Fail in some way or if you rember that show sister wives all the wives were into it because he had chosen a favorite wife and he was doing everything for her but gving the other wives barley nothing , They usually wanna give one woman everything in the equation but expect to receive and get the same thing from the surrounding other women without giving them bare minimum to nothing but getting the same things from them that they get from the main, So that person is not going to allow you to keep taking from while giving everything and upholding somebody else and they get nothing but they basically giving and doing the same things
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It goes both ways
I feel like a lot of women want multiple partners too. They just get shamed for it...
Most women deal in poly relationships where they all contribute their funds to the whole group and that man they really want but if you're talking polygamy that's different but still the same respect if the women really value and are attracted to you but if you can provide because you want to it's even better
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Exactly. Don’t even have all the skills and attributes needed to navigate this but always talking about what they want or what’s in their nature. 🙄
Exactly
That's what you call a true reality read. Next chapter 😂😂😂
Greetings ❤ I've ALWAYS said MEN should have what they can Afford & ANYONE with common sense, relates that Im NOT speaking of financial provisions only❤😊
Where is the full show? Homeboy was waiting to respond and I wanna hear his response 🤭.
Never wanted multiple women in my life, just give me one really solid one and im good. I dont even like dealing with my momma most of the time 😂