True or false: Are men more attracted to “feminine” women?
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- čas přidán 17. 04. 2022
- Ft @klovethepoet, @tell_peezy, @kiaundrajackson, @trippfontane, @sir_rashaanali, @alignwithalison
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I love his intellect and non-conforming responses that are out of the box. I wish more people would be open in this way without it being defensive or emotional. This King is a class act.
I agree
he is a simp and you would never respect him as the man of your house cuz he is soft as baby doodoo...#stop capping
He is the most level headed man of them all on that platform. He is very balanced and so calm 🙌🏾
Be real, he panders
That’s kool or whatever but that box is there for a reason.
Everytime I hear him speak, the words he use and his perspective on love and life it's next level.
Is he married or in a long term relationship, or is he simply not ready for it. What he says makes sense most times, but I am skeptical of anyone (man or woman) who always has an answer for everything.
What’s his name,where’s more of his material?
Tripp Fontane. He has 2 poetry books out. I believe one was just recently released.
@user-sq7xr7yd3s EXACTLY...If you pay attention he always says what's politically correct for the topic at hand and women LOVE it. Also, the way he speaks in word salad is very much like a woman. A bunch of "next level" spaghetti comes from his mouth but the question never really gets a direct answer. He knows how women think, how they speak ,what they want to hear, and pulls those puppet strings...This shows first hand, in 4k an example of why men lie to women..Tell her what she wants to hear, exactly how she wants to hear it , throw a couple of fancy words in and BOOM 🐈🌊.
He just trying to be deep and as a man I’m calling this an perspective rooted in the lack of knowledge. Being female=feminine Male=masculine. His example made no sense. Being a good leader isn’t subjective to masculinity just like being emotionally inclined isn’t subjective to being feminine. Those two words are exclusive to gender. Alway have always will be. These aren’t societal norms. These words have definitions. He’s just making them mean what he wants. It’s like a woman trying to be a man. There is a reason kids act differently with there mom and dad. Tampons are feminine products aren’t they lbvs
Man he articulated this beautifully
I love how he articulates and the way his mind works!
He literally didn't answer the question at allll, but got you moist because he used big words and didn't say the "politically incorrect" answer that you didn't want to hear.... This is why men lie to women 😂😂😂
This is how y'all get finessed by the biggest low lifes....
This man sounds like he has studied Hermetic Principles. I don’t think many men will fully understand where he is coming from. Definitely beyond many ways of thinking. This is my kind of man and this is rare!
What the hell hermetic does it have to do with hermits. 🤔
One of the seven harmonic laws of the universe is everything in existence has masculine and feminine attributes@@adeneo.g6456
Basically, buddy said “it depends on what your definition of ‘feminine’ is.”
👍🏽 This brother explained this concept brilliantly!!
Very intelligent thing he said, but he didn’t answer the question exactly, to me... Femininity in my opinion, isn’t her cooking & cleaning, making sandwiches & etc. I’d say It’s a very soft energy that is strong, it’s magnetic and women express it in various ways, I think men are naturally attracted to that. When a woman is in her feminine, I believe it gives a spark of inspiration in a man more than anything, and when a man is inspired he does amazing things.
I totally agree and I think that some women just have that "it" factor when it comes to that.
@@divathedivinegoddess8001if y'all can't actually describe it but just give vague explanations, then it isn't a real thing. Feminine and Masculine are not real things. Past humans made that shit up because they were trying to make sense of the differences between men and women but didn't understand psychology and biology to the degree we do nowadays.
So, men are not attracted to women who express masculinity through being argumentative and confrontational with them. They may be attracted to women who express masculinity through leadership, hardwork, aggression in sports, being stern in business, etc.
This is what I took from it. This is an informing conversation. I would love to hear more viewpoints on this.
Do you know anyone who is attracted to argumentative and confrontational behaviors-male or female?
@@casi7480exactly most turned off by this behavior male or female
@@casi7480yes I do…. Men and women I know in my life are drawn to this chaotic behavior. They like crazy and it’s really telling because the more they say this they act just like the people they are drawn to. It’s even hard to make a point because all they want to do is argue. I just started to agree with them and let GOD sort it out. No matter how many times they are proven wrong they wanna argue about the 1% chance what ever happen will never occur again. Save your peace and run past these people. They are for the streets.
Yeah he nailed it!
You get it. The problem comes when they equate rude , argumentative, and confrontational with being strong, powerful, and independent. My power as a person, man, or husband isn't to challenge my wife, women, or others. It's how productive I am and what I bring. Anger and confrontation are only used as needed.
I can listen to him breaking down life questions all day long. This young Man is amazing ❤ 🙏. I pray that gift of knowledge and wisdom continues to grow in him.
Fooled you too. Just politically correct word salad he just fed you, and you ate it up.🤣 Y'all make it too easy to lie to you.🤣
This is why y'all could have 29 degrees and get finessed by a low life with 12 baby mamma's and no high school diploma...
@@user-sq7xr7yd3s That’s why Derrick Jaxon is still running the scene 😂😂😂😂
@@user-sq7xr7yd3sif you disagree with Tripp's position, then by all means, make your case. All you said was "he's wrong lolz"
I love the way he explained this!!!
I love his explanation of the nuances of feminine and masculine. But the question is are “men” more attracted to feminine women? Men in general, not him specifically a collective, or majority more attracted to… the answer is yes. We are, just like women are more attracted to masculine men. We shouldn’t have to try to figure out when and where she might show feminine aspects in her life. We will flock to the softer woman first hands down. How she looks, talks, walks, her essence and how she treats you is more pleasing to be around. Even if she’s a leader of men by day, by night take the hat off. I have 11 aunts, + cousin aunts, grew up in a military town and worked in corporate for 20 years with majority women. I know a few
You're absolutely spot on. Notice how all the the masculine , argumentative , aggressive , combative masculine black females agree with this nonsense. He's a smoother version of Derrick Jaxin telling females what they want to hear versus what they need to hear. I'm a big proponent of results, so with his example there should be more marriages , less single baby mommas within our communities, because most black females nowadays are masculine. They're not getting the results because plain and simple , most men don't want masculine females and most females don't want weak , docile , passive effeminate men.
@@RobertNance-cr9fz I gotta watch him a whole lot more before I give him Derek jaxon, but on this particular topic, he definitely skated around like a Ice Capades
@@CorneliusSmalleliterealtor Once again you're absolutely spot on. I actually should've given more context. I've been watching him a little while and he's generally on point , not bias , and holding both men and women accountable for their poor choices and decisions. So I'll say on this specific topic he definitely pandered to their feelings and emotions.
Exactly!..I like dude but from time to time he tends to try to cater instead of just making the answers simple 🤷🏾♂️
@@michaeltheewolf He definitely pandered on this episode.
This might be the best explanation of anything I’ve ever heard ✨✨
I love how this King explained that. I would like to hear the rest of the conversation.
Tripp....is just the dude, man. I hope he's working on a book. That cranium just has a way of processing thoughts, ideas, and facts in ways that need to be shared with the rest of the world.
“Feminine” is not synonymous with “a woman” just like “masculine” is not synonymous with “a man”. Each individual must develop a healthy expression of both within themselves if they’re wanting to create healthy relationships with others.
👏🏾come👏🏾on👏🏾sir!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Very well said! Thank you!!
He said a whole lotta nothing. YES, real MEN like for their women to be feminine && are attracted to that. Simple answer to a simple question 😒
Dude didn't even answer the question lol
Yes, I agree. He reminds me of the pimps I use to hear when they talked to their “girls”. To much BS. This should have be a 15 second clip.
This post shows how different men and women are. All the women ate it up, I'm still thinking.. "umm but he dodged the question". He is a master, at saying what women want to hear, having them eat it up, and not even answering the question.. this brotha is gifted 😂😂😂😂
I ❤ the way he explains things intelligently without using confrontation. Well said.
On the macro scale or men as a group, yes we usually find feminine women attractive. Vice versa for women as a group. On an individual level, it is all about finding a person that matches your values. The power of matching values is often not talked about and often overlooked
Exellently put! I think you have explained it much more in reference to actually answering the question than old dude on the video did.
This was so nice to hear.
Short version. Yes.
This was the best way I seen someone broke that down. Who is he ? 👀
Yeah he didn’t want to describe what the words feminine and masculine mean that’s why he gave such a long answer. Like just say yes or no and move on 🤣
bro didn't even answer the quesion, i can tell hes a panderer and women fall for it, just like most of the women here in these comments
Salute to this brother 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 💯! He gets it
Thank you ! There’s different types of masculinity and femininity
I love they way he responds to this question ❤️ open mindedness
Gracefully articulated
Very well stated brother
That man is so incredibly intelligent. I love him.
Smart enough to fool women and weak willed men..he didn't answer the question like a politician....everyone is clapping and nothing is changing
This brotha is wise beyond his years. Love listening to his thoughts and observations
That was like a politician announcing a yes or no question.
Broke that down the right way!
A feminine woman can still lead and remain in her femininity 100%
Yepp, take "From Scratch" for example!!! Great show btw
Exactly!
She can lead other women, not men
It's very interesting to me that he didn't actually answer the question that was asked. If you feel that he did, I respect your opinion.
0:45
I was thinking the samething. He said all of that and didn't even answer the question.
@@MissLadyG99 Word salad, he's running game and every woman in the audience fell for it.🙄
@@c60sofresh🤦🏽♀️ these people are so ready to find fault that they can’t even hear the clear answer to the general question AND totally missed his personal breakdown of him being attracted to what would be masculine traits because “a good woman is a good woman”
@@user-sq7xr7yd3s yep. Exactly
He’s preaching! 💯🔥❤️😍 I love how he articulated that! Yes, all humans have masculine and feminine traits. I wish more men were level headed, emotionally mature and used logic like him.
He dodged the question masterfully. And kudos to him for making it sound so profound. He knows what is meant by that question. He even made reference to it when he spoke of masculine and feminine energy. A man knows what feminine and masculine energy is just like a woman knows what masculine and feminine energy is. The hard truth is that today more women than not show up with too much masculine energy and more men than not show up with too much feminine energy. The actual answer to the original question is yes, men are more attracted to feminine women. And on the other side of the coin, yes, women are more attracted to masculine men. People, we have to be honest to make progress.
Exactly 👍🏾 it’s nature no matter how profound this dude tries to make it sound
As a woman, I feel that he didn't answer the question. There are a lot of BM out there that are resting in their femininity and us women don't like feminine men! It's not attractive! Get out there and build something! Cut lumber! Get more educated! Enhance your comprehension skills! Get therapy! Be a provider! Get married and love your wife! Raise your children! Even if you don't get married, at least better yourself! Only feminine men want to go 50/50 but have the audacity to want a feminine, submissive wife!
Those men are chosen by some women. Plenty of dudes working hard and building themselves in the dark. The question is are those men attractive to women in mass. A good brother working at local union as electrician is better than Tyrone. A estimator for Insurance company who is doing tech courses to make a career change. He lives in Atlanta and is moving to Seattle. The question is will he be attractive to the women in the community 🤔
@@adeneo.g6456 you seem to be focused on the job as if that qualify him as a "good man". Also, thinking that an electrician is "better" than a Tyrone is why a lot of men are failing at relationship. Why would a woman want an electrician if he has no character and treat her just as bad as a Tyrone but "think" he's better because he has a job.
@@diannwhitaker6 Provisions is the number 1 complaint black women have against black men. I'm simply saying there is good men with careers, jobs and trades that are single. I concede your point though having job alone doesn't make him a good man. I'm simply speaking from the guys I know that are good dudes with careers decent personality and character that are single. Often we see women giving legacy and children to men with no ability to provide or no intention to want to earn money. Thats the angle I was coming from. If your honest, you will see a great deal of women manage their 🐈 poorly and some men make poor decisions with the wrong women when they are not ready to father or be husband. All said, I think we both made fair points, just different perspective from our genders based on the problems and what we think the solutions should be. All the best Diann, nice profile picture also 👌 🙏
“You feel.” Feelings are not facts. He answered starting at 1:25 Timestamp.
Single mothers are raising feminine men. Children typically emulate the behaviors they are most exposed to. Secondly, men have always built which is why you’re not sleeping in a cave right now. Every advancement, amenity and even the home you live in was built by men. Ppl assume men are becoming less educated bcuz college enrollment for men has fallen but fail to take the fact that men are getting trade into account. Men are being productive and taking care of their kids. Media has created a false narrative to downplay men for years
True. Didn't need the overthinking
Yeaaaa! He ate that up !!!! Lol
👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾 to his response!
Yayy I’m first. I love how he explains it
This dude said nothing. Of course we all know there is feminine and masculine nature. But there are people who exist in either extreme all the time. Therefore ,there can be a overly masculine woman or feminine man. And that's what the question is about. All he did was try to explain the question in stead of answering the question.
Facts there never a balance u always lean more to the other side
Just because they exist in their extreme doesnt make it right you are suppose exist within balance brotha… Yall forget that big B word BALANCE… Yall wanna have fucked up mindset and be misinformed so bad because yall dont know how to exist without being comfortable which shows you lack self-control. Wake up
@@BrooklynDaDon1 You didn't read my comment in the context of the video. Calm your tits. All I said was, it's a problem when individuals exist in the extremes. Am on your side buy your emotion compromises your intellect.
I am so glad to see that you and others picked up on the fact that he didn't answer the question.
He did a good job at skating around the question.
LOVE IT TO THE MAX.
I love hearing his POV.
He's a relief to listen to. I had the same thoughts.
I definitely relate and agree with this guy.
That was a good explanation. Right on dude
Thank you!!!!
He made the concept abstract to say yes 😂😂
Where can we go to hear the full length interviews?
The gentleness of his wisdom is unmatched.
Fabulous answer❤
I love a feminine and nurturing woman. It doesn’t make her weak or less than to operate this way, to me it’s a strength.
What does that look like to you?
I fall in love with his mindset everytime he open his mouth! Gosh I wish they made more men like this brotha near me.
Just go to church and listen to your local pastor.... A whole lot of talking and pandering, not a lot getting done....
“That’s right” 😂 bro
Love that ❤️
He should be a life coach. So much wisdom and knowledge
It was a lot of words but the short answer to the question is “yes”.
Straight up bro
This guy dey yarn...
He was on so on point it's amazing ...
He articulated what he said well but his wrong
Im thinking...that's right.
Tripp be on ONE.....🙌🏿🙌🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Yes Sir
bruhhh waw ...what a profound statement. this mans intelligence is next level ...i learn so much from Mr. Fontane every time he speaks without fail
Tripp is always going to give you in depth conversation I love his mind set most dudes will arguing us down for saying this perspective of what's feminine and masculine energy is but some would say he's pandering just because he's actually educating.....
So you fell for his word salad. He would never marry a masculine woman, he didn't even answer the question. Oh well, keep drinking from that well if you want.🤷♂️
This is why pastors drive nice cars and live and beautiful houses. Y'all love the beautiful lie...
Finally someone said it 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This is one of the only brothers I hear speak and over 80% of the time I haven't seen all this contents but I would say they rarely interrupted when ever he speaks That's when you know you're saying something
YES!
Why would I want a masculine woman.
Yea❤
Who men are attracted to and who they settle with a two different things.
Thank you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 people are both feminine and masculine just depends on the circumstances which comes out as dominant in the moment.
To answer the question (which he didn't) Yes men are more attracted to feminine women.
@@thadonjuan2339 You'd think that would kind of be a no brainer cause if straight cis men are naturally (predominantly at least) masculine then why would they be attracted to masculinity in women? I believe the masculinity of a man and the femininity of a woman is meant to complement and balance each other
@Dre-yd2xh Exactly, big Facts. Women never say they want or are attracted to a feminine man so I don't know why they act dumb when men say they value femininity.
@@thadonjuan2339 Not to mention dude didn't even really answer the question, it sound like he was trying to hard sound emotionally intelligent, trying to pander lol
@@Dre-yd2xh word son was pandering. Lol
As Blackamericans, we mostly see culture, politics and philosophy from the prism of the dominant white hegemony. Even when we discuss masculinity and feminiity, it is done through this gaze, which is also consistent with capitalism and Americanism. When I interact individuals from the Afrikan continent from Asis, their in-tact cultures describe describe and guide masculinity and feminity. And they don't make the exceptions, the rules.
The problem with some of these discussions, is that there is hardly any sociocultural and/or, sociopolitical analysis from a Black nationalist perspective. Meaning, we still want to be or possess the modern ideals of the West that defines manhood and womanhood. We are still 'Americanists' in our approach and understanding of masculinity and feminity, and that Americansim attitude has a financial price tag or sexual prowess attached to one's personhood.
Building or rebuilding Blackamerican communities must involve some analysis of who we want to be. Many still want to be "Black-white people..." Or, we claim Christianity or other religions and yet uphold values that are anti-Christan. So, who are we really?
We have to take steps to reconstitute Blackamerican culture; a culture that shapes and defines masculinity and feminity. It is sad, the religion of Islam has given me much more of sense of masculinity and feminiity, than what is expressed through Blackamerican culture. And what I have learned is that being truly masculine or feminine is understanding that one cannot do whatever they want to do. Modernism is obsessed with individualism and hyper-consumerism, and again, this is what unfortunately drives these "masculinity/feminiity..."convos. It is not based on cultural values, but marketing ones.
I do not knock the intent of these convos. But are these "masculinity/feminity..." conversations done with the intention of nation-building? Or, people just concerned with their own individual fantasies of what a feminie woman/masculine man looks like for them, and only them? See when you put a nation-building/community reconstruction emphasis on masculinity/feminity, everyone must know their roles within these constructs to ensure a maximum outcome. In individual relationships too, because of what has been established and practiced by the larger collective.
Finally a Men who put thought into the what femininity meant to him; versus the regurgitated definition that we have been forced feed by the Manosphere 😂
Well, let's see how well that works out for y'all
@@hotice8885 Who is ya’ll??? And what is exactly your point with this comment full of nothingness 😂🤣
Men like women......It depends on their preference some like tough girls & some like softer ones.
Men do not like tough women
We act like he said something amazing or prophetic. Short answer is yes. Because i can guarentee hes not going for a woman that is 100% masculine and rough like a stud. Men love femininity. Opposites attract. Women have been feminine since the beginning of time. Just because a woman has masculine traits doesnt mean she isnt feminine. The bad thing is when those masculine traits outweighs the feminine. He sound like a politician here.
agreed
Sounds good on paper lol
True
Deep🤔 Got me thinking
We all have both sides true . But honestly men are attracted to feminine women because it draws out their feminine side and vice versa . A lot of us men are attracted to women who have minds of their own but yet still need us , as silly as it may sound
Tripp is just being diplomatic with his answer, trying not to make women mad at him.🤷😂
I absolutely love Tripp and Kittie!
That’s what’s up. Plus, Ngl, i definitely dig the Congo sweater the dude was wearing
This dude should be allowed to answer all the questions
Do men like women who behave like traditional women? Yes.
yes. The end.
Again he is 💯!
Batteries don't have a masculine and feminine side and never in history has a thing been said , yeah he didn't really make sense .. because who said a woman being a good leader is masculine? And leader if what? He could've just answer the yes or no question with a yes or no and I wouldve been strait... some people just seem like theyre trying to hard to be intelligent ... 🤷🏿♂️
i can handle both energies
Damn this is the first time I ever had to disagree with ol boy & it seems like he's pandering to women in order to validate their aggressiveness. "Feminine" is & always has been the female trait that displays her grace, her elegance & her gentleness & yes Men prefer that.
Every man I know wants a feminine woman
It was nice to hear but ultimately men and women tend to lean towards letting ONE be dominant. Irregardless of both genders having both feminine and masculine in them.
Men love women who've mastered the understanding of Time & Place!
It’s not a complicated question. Yes men typically prefer feminine women. The whole we have both traits within us nonsense should cease. Some ppl get too caught up in seeking validation from the audience to say it straight up
Buddy needs to write a book.
Why is this even a question?
I could listen to him talk all day
Even tho he ain't saying shit? This is why men who tell women what they want to hear get 😻.
@@JSmooth89 👍🏾
@jazzyj792 He spoke in circles and threw in a few fancy words, ALL to not answer the question asked at all. That's what you like? 👎🏽
What is his name and does he have his own show/channel/platform?
TLDR: answer is YES.