Narcissist Will Never Block You
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- čas přidán 9. 06. 2024
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Facts. They will not block you. They want to keep you for later. They do not want to lose access to you. You must block them!
They block so they can put all their time for new supply
What?
This is what I’m experiencing when I was with her she posted our dates and me but never went private on Insta or put my name in her bio now she blocked me on all socials she’s got her new supply’s name on her bio and has her account on private
The narcissist had me blocked for years, because they was spying on me with other accounts 😂
My ex gf would create fake accounts to spy on her son's father ( she told me this ) but claims she didn't want him. She told me she was looking for proof he was out partying when he didn't pick up his son by court order. When she showed me a picture of his new girlfriend's her style, it drove my ex crazy. Why would she care about her hair style especially if she doesn't want to be with him anymore? It's games....games, games.....I'm happy I'm away from the craziness. I got discarded 7 weeks ago because I refuse to keep playing along to this insanity. Once she realized the sex bombing doesn't work anymore, she discarded me and went to new supply.
Same!
Same 😂
Same
i blocked mine,she just stalks me now😂 insanity !!!
Thats OK. I blocked my narcissist, her daughter, her sister, her brother inlaw, and all of her friends. All good.
lol,,, that will do it
I've finally learned to block people now. It's peaceful knowing that they cannot pull me in again.
Yes
They do block as a form of power, control and manipulation but they also unblock as part of their game playing. But they create secret fake accounts to stalk you. Mine knew exactly what likes I was putting on friends pages
They do block you. They might unlock u but they do do it. There’s a lot of narcissists on CZcams saying they do block people all the time.
They'll only block you as long as it doesn't make them look bad, or they think you will never offer them supply again.
If you expose them for who they are and they realise that you've figured them out, they will run a mile and never return.
They will sometimes block you once they're done using you or think they can't anymore.
I am of the mindset that if you were true grade A supply, the narcissist will never block you. Grade A supply is hard to find. The new supply never compares. It’s short lived and their supply is a fraction as potent as yours was. They always come back if you were grade A supply.
They love the attention you give them while they ignore you on purpose.
This I went through this for 5 yrs with a narc he loved the attention from me but would ignore me or purpose and lie and say he wasn’t ignoring me or blocked me and he does selective responses I did no contact and it’s been 3 months haven’t heard from him since
They block constantly, they always block and unblock!
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The narc blocked me regularly on WhatsApp constantly like it was one big game . Exhausted me . Total power at the time . To this day I still can’t have WhatsApp on my phone 😮
Don't tend to agree with you on this one. Narcs often block to gain control over you. They can then decide at some point when to unblock you. Their action of blocking you gives them the power. If you block them first, you take that power away from them. I have experienced the blocking and unblocking games of the Narc.
It offers the Narc potent supply knowing you are eagerly waiting for them to unblock you.
No Ur absolutely wrong .The female Narc with whom I lived in a livin relationship hasn't bloked me for 2 years even though I have bloked her.
@@karansinghrocky30 There's always an exception to every rule. Most of them block and unblock.
@@cherylgregory6027 99% narcissist never block.May be thr 1% would be a rare exception
@@karansinghrocky30 I've listened to many videos and Quora information too. Narcs often block and unblock. It's manipulative and controlling.
I don't think either of you are wrong
They do block and leave you alone.
I agree. It’s been 2 and a half years since she blocked me and longer for a couple of other people I know. I don’t get people creating fake accounts requesting a Facebook friendship either.
Generally speaking, they won't block you unless they feel you permanently have no further supply to offer them. Other scenarios include blocking you only if doing so won't make them look bad, or if they feel by blocking you, it'll give them the upper hand.
I really hope so!
@@Melvina1975 ❤️
Who cares , just walk outside , enjoy your life now
He blocked me after I blocked and unblocked him on Facebook. So, I blocked him on my phone and I blocked his many social media accounts that I was aware of. I don't accept requests from strangers and accept the fact that we hate each other.
Yep mine blocks me and unblocks me
What are you waiting to leave him if he acts like this?
Same here.
@@Bintang221 My Ex Gf did this a lot also. You have to understand these people try to make us leave or react then make us feel guilty.
Its not easy to simply just go when they have you attached.
I’ve been blocked by the narcissist for the longest time!
This has been my experience as well. Absolutely could not believe this last narc person would still be following me after what I saw with him but I think it is that they are just trying to show you are irrelevant and they don’t care - this makes them feel superior and yes, also to keep an eye on you for any future “opportunities”. It is up to us to keep them blocked out of our lives!!
that's exactly what just happened after 90 days she unblocked me
Excellent i have seen this. They block then unblock. If no supply? The 3rd assertion of control -withdrawal. They will create a new fake acount to watch you. So if you want to reduce their time with you reduce contact drastictically to the level of indifference. If you can't leave give 1 word answers ve boring as hell.
Wait till you block them and never look back. My ex has been blocked for a year.
I don't admire most people but you are close to being one of them.
Mine blocked me after I went no contact and didn't wish her a happy birthday a month after she left me. I'm glad she did, because it helps me deal with ruminating over her. I'm glad I can't see her profiles because it would be too tempting to look if I could.
My experience as well. She's keeping me from trying to work things or criticize her stupid games (we have kids or I wouldn't care). At this point, though, it is what it is. She gets to own the consequences of her actions.
Mine blocked me after I called her out on being a narcissist. She created a new facebook account 3 days after my birthday. Then when I asked her if her facebook had anything to do with me she said no and blocked me. But she doesn’t use the account. It’s all control. Probably watches me from another account.
Mine never contacted me again after the final discard...
It's final....!!!!
Yep. He never blocked me. Just one time in the beginning when I said that word ( narcissism). He left my house in anger and stated that we will never meet again. After 3 or 4 days ( don't renember) he unblocked me. And then, because I didn't reached him, he send me a text like " ivdyukcd" and then a second one where he said " sorry maybe I've pushed the phone by error " 😅
They will if you question them about things they've said or done or if they're busy with another supply
Yep. Can't handle criticism (pierces their fragile ego balloon). They don't want you texting them and reminding them what a complete failure they are when they're coaxing the 4 S's from the new sucker.
I had a different experience, I reconnected with an old friend online from 30 years ago and never realized she was a narcissis. After only a couple of weeks ,I got hooked on her and she pulled back from me and. Which made me reread my messages to see what I may have said wrong, it didn't make sense to me and I was even going overboard on my feelings for her, I didn't understand where it was coming from, it was a psychology tactic I didn't realize . Because I felt it was abnormal for me to go through what I was going so I had to tell her twice to block me and she did it reluctantly and gaslighted me at the same time. I'm good now that was 6months ago. I do miss our friendship from years ago. Don't miss the head game she played on me.
You are one of the best. I admire how you change your format from time to time. I think the worst thing that can happen from that is that you can pick whatever format you want for any video that you want to make. Keep killing it!
They use other people to gather information that they can’t personally get themselves so, in most instances, the information they get is certainly not objective and it’s coated with subjective views and values….
I was blocked from day one and still blocked 4 years later.
Sorry THIS IS NOT TRUE
LOVE YOUR WORK, BUT they do block.
This is true - Mine blocked me on my main account when I liked a couple of posts by a Narc Abuse poster, which maybe hit her a little too close to home? It was either that or it was the same night I had a totally unrelated post go-viral. Something she’s never achieved, despite being far more active social media than I. Interestingly though, she still follows me on an old/rarely used account of her’s which I have noticed she keeps alive. Maybe because my replacement, who has also since been discarded follows her there too? She also has two other accounts that I’m aware of, although I have never interacted with her on them. Complex or what!
I would say that it is kind of true. A narcasist can defently Block you. They do it to get a reaction and then they unblock you. In my experience they have this hot and cold game that makes you confused. It is very destroying.
I blocked my ex narc so he texts my friends, they blocked him so he sends friends I've haven't see in many years who didn’t know we'd split up. Interestingly it was after his latest supply died, so we all know why, your video is spot on!
Everything she says it’s true the narcissist I dated never blocked me but hovered making positive comments then going negative back and forth…. Just ignor and move on it’s very very stressful on your mind and body I lost like 10lbs but I recovered. Try not to hit the same places to shop eat and ect….
Mine kept blocking and unblocking ( the silent treatment) ...and after the final discard, she finally unblocked me after a few months.. but I never went back and kept her blocked. Lol
I’ve been dealing with my narcissist for 5 1/2 half years. He constantly blocks and unblock me. I can usually tell when he found a new girlfriend or new supply same thing because he disguises it as “let me text you first or I’ll text you when I can” when he can simply just tell me, he has a girlfriend like an adult, he’s 27. My age. but he still flirting with me, and then I find out and tell the girl and then he gets mad at ME and blocks me.. he always places the blame on them when I know him. And then when he’s done with his supply, he always unblocks me and comes back because I allow it….
Are you still involved with him? It sounds like it with the constant back and forth between you two. Perhaps it's time for you to sever contact altogether, once, and for all.
@@texan903 yes I’m still in contact with him. It’s been a constant back-and-forth, but it’s mostly him. This last time it was him we tried to go on a date. He got anxious and started gaslighting me before it even started. So we did even go.
My ex has been blocking and unblocking for two years now 😂
Anouska thanks for your information. 🙂👍❤️
The narc had blocked me 4 months
100% right in my case , however I agree with others that not blocking is a bit unusual .
They spy on you digitally as well, in areas you believe to be private. Then, in conversation with you they'll casually mention something completely innocuous that you never shared with them, something that they could ONLY KNOW if they violated your privacy. Then when you mention how in the world could you know that without spying on me, they absolutely go ballistic - how dare you accuse them of that. It's the most horrific gaslighting.
This was quite good. Chapeau!
after I discarded , I blocked him immediately ..he hoovered for a 1yr. fake FB friend requests, he asked to track me on my cell, unknown caller ID calls, etc... never give them any energy!! good or bad they'll take it !!
Blocked? No. Ignored? Yes. Kept waiting for hours or days until SHE wanted my attention.
Absolutely true!
They want you to witness the new supply affair. And to bring to your awareness stuff they know will upset/irritate you.
Mine kept blocking me and because I didn’t chase her she would unblock me to abuse me and it got worse so I blocked her 7 months ago it’s been very hard to keep her blocked she ain’t tried to contact me in any other way since 🙏🔥
Unless they have a new supply that gives them whatever they want and they can’t get anything out of U whatever they want then they will usually leave you alone…… move on to someone else ( one or multiple people) to get whatever they want in their life to make them feel better about themselves etc
They like to keep checking your social media to see how you’re doing in life
I'm blocked on her phone, on Facebook, and on email. It's been 3 months. She knows I know. She won't be back...
anoushka, yes my avoidant doesnt block me but when she is mad she ghosts me for months,, i lov her so much she has good qualities and affectionate, but can be so mean too me,, it hurts that she will be gone for good
Thank you ❤
I’ve not blocked.. I have discipline & Self respect, that’s enough
Hmmmm they do blocking too
And then they stalk you 😝🤪
He blocked me then sent me a message saying he unblocked me and i told him good for you and he stayed blocked on my End and forever will be staying blocked
My covert narc never blocked me!
I think they also want to give false hope, because they have no mepathy (they do not "kill hope" on purpose).
*Of course, it doesn't mean that it is not there, because it is always there, but you cannot give it (I mean as an empathetic person).
My ex-narc blocked me for good when she saw I was telling people in a Facebook lesbian group about her and how she had hover me back for like the 5th time only to find out she was already seeing someone else, made me feel used and grossed, apparently her new supply was part of that group and knew who I was, I still don’t know who the new supply is but they weren’t happy and sent her the screenshot so she said I had no right to tell any one I said I didn’t even used her name so not sure why I should’ve need to be careful in a group I’m part of for a long time. Anyways she felt exposed and blocked me which was the best thing that could’ve happened. They’ll block you once they feel you know exactly who they are and know you’re done with them.
When I married my ex narcissist,She said her ex boyfriend congratulated her,then a month later she blocked me from seeing her friends,I could only see the people that I was friends with also on Facebook,Now she stalks my Facebook
Kinda confused, I never blocked her because I just don't block people? Not for any bad intentions.
I was the one who was giving emotional reactions and being accused for arguing when reacting
I would be getting blocked and unblocked thousands of times by her, she knows how much it would affect me because it would shut me up and basically "teach me a lesson to be quiet in fights"
I thought narcissists block and unblock to control?
That’s exactly what they do. They block you so they can control whatever scenario that’s id going on
Yes! My boyfriend’s ex girlfriend blocked me and after a year of having me blocked, she got a flying monkey to harass and threaten me on Twitter then his ex girlfriend UNblocked me after that bait/hoover from the flying monkey
Blocks and unblocks multiple times
Never say never! ❤🎉
He blocked my from his IG but not his FB. Keeps that one public 😂😂
I don't think he knows how to block me. He's old school. I taught him everything he knew about smartphones.
Great video. Thanks for the info.. they don't block but they threaten to block but don't do it. Chickens!
I don't know if mine is a covert but mine definitely used and discarded. He checks my status daily even when dating he wouldn't talk to me but always had time to check my updates.
Just met someone on social media. I can tell now that they sized me up as an empath because they could tell I was a giver (most of my items I had were for free: FB Marketplace). The minute I got in the vehicle with them, they cut off every sentence I had to say (in order to establish power and dominance), turned their back to me when I began speaking outside of the vehicle, and subjected me to a monologue of theirs. That's such disordered behavior. Oh, and not long afterwards, I caught them in a small lie. These people act like their whole frontal cortex is shorted out. I've met some people like this who think I should listen to five-hour monologues and in return get future faking in return or just a lot of fake flattery. They are happy they have found good supply!!!
I will soon be blocking her.
I have had 2 blocked narcs reach out in the past 2 months. Just waiung on the third to drop. Everything bad happens in 3s.😂
2nd reached out to a former boss to contact me on their behalf making her an unknowing flying monkey. Smh
I'm finding this to be somewhat in accurate. Mine blocked me first now whether or not that was to have control of whether there's a blocking and unblocking going on with the full assumption that I wouldn't block back, which I did that is possible. Mine blocked first before she even left the house before we were even separated.
This is blowing my mind. This has literally happened to me, recently. Textbook behavior
In a world that’s becoming more and more narcissistic, the narcissist is never me, is always someone else.
Excellent analysis I’m in need of help
My previous narcissist blocked me...
Yes so true😂😂😂
I have downright narcissist block me.. One glove does not fit all.
Yes they do lol
I'm thinking even if you block them they're going to have definitely more profiles so that they can still see there's no way that they don't but block them anyway
No, but they erase your phone number when they get very angry at you, that's been my experience, then they reach again and hoovers back 🙄
100% ✅️
It depends how you leave them. If you devalue/discard and go no contact in one hit as recommended by Sam Vaknin that may well be it.
My ex narc blocked me back in February when he left my house. Haven't heard from him since then. But I feel guilty for missing him sometimes.
You miss the character he created to lure you in and the bond you formed with him. If he's a narcissist, then that person he showed you before never existed and that's what really hurts. I still think about my ex-gf who was also a narcissist more than I should. She blocked me after I didn't tell her Happy Birthday a month after she left me. I'm OK with it, though because it keeps me from looking at her when I'm feeling down about her. She did me a favor.
No , they did
Mine never contacted me again..
Because he knew he'd never ever get anymore supply from me, no attention. No nothing...!!!
Yeah like me finding out my ex has Facebook and Instagram wtf
I testify. My ex commanded me to block. Her. Reason she can't do it. I go crazii with that command to block her, y she don't do it. Then I really get pissed off after ghosting. Manipulation lies. I had the courage to blocked her. She even said it's much better for your peace. I guess I have to thank God for that.
I escaped the Narc female almost 2 years ago .Still she has not blocked me.Though I have bloked her
❤ when ex narcissistic lass blocked me it was because she thought she could control me.. & being argumentative with me.. random acts of moodiness for no apparent reason…. ???? Blocking me … then unblocking me…. Psychological mind game manipulation.. but to be honest I don’t care anymore.. I’ve changed my number so it’s unlucky for her & Beneficial for me.. because I know .. I’ve got my own personal boundaries.. to keep … & my own insanity… intact away from it……. So I can now move on with my life sadly she can’t day by day her life will be an emotional wreck.. with her many supplies… because she can’t hold down a relationship with anyone… & also her flying monkeys 🙈 from wizard of oz ….
I've blocked them cuz it's a two-way street, they might find me boring, and I find them? Hurts my head to think about, describe what they've done!
I have been blocked and unblocked when back together then discard blocked. From what I noticed, she keeps many ppl blocked. I joked with her and called it the “blocked totem pole” because I had went through her phone more than once. I’m staying blocked even while we co parent. Fine. I dont want to see anything. The scary thing is, the ones that are blocked… and your still around as supply or co parent etc… will one of those blocked ppl come back in their life. Possibly.
That’s not always true because I was dealing with a narc for 5 yrs before I figured him out and he blocked me so I didn’t seek closure and he got other suppliers it’s been 3 months since I did no contact and didn’t reach out
Wrong. Yes they will
I’ve tried blocking but my account gets hacked. Yes, they won’t block you..
If they do it's cause they got many other accounts and people spying on you
I called her out on everything she gave me the silent treatment but never block me I couldn't figure out why now I know why it's been 3 months she's terrible 48 years old
Narcissists block people all the time. That is one of their main tactics. What are you talking about?
My female narcissist has blocked me for 2 years and has broken up with her new supply now, im still blocked !! So i dont know
How do you identify a narcissist exactly? Could it be a person may have one or two traits of narcissist but not completely be so? Weird thing is every other person thinks the other person is a narcissist but no one ever questions themselves 😊
He I blocked I give no fs anymore.