What makes a narcissist revalue you

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  • čas přidán 29. 05. 2024
  • A narcissist may revalue you when they see a potential benefit to themselves. If you regain or enhance your status, wealth, or social influence, they might seek to reestablish a connection to exploit these advantages. Demonstrating a newfound success or achievement can catch their interest, as they are drawn to power and prestige. Offering them admiration or attention, which feeds their ego, can also make them revalue you. Watch this video and find out more 👇🏽
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Komentáře • 48

  • @simonsezfitness5702
    @simonsezfitness5702 Před 2 měsíci +36

    The best revenge is success ❤ never look back when they come back for the hoover

    • @carlparker9343
      @carlparker9343 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yep, turn a blind eye and stay away from the nasty narc

  • @passerby6168
    @passerby6168 Před 2 měsíci +23

    That's easy - selfish reasons. When their ego takes a hit due to things not going their way. Egos operate on superior v inferior judgments. What happens is they come back, maybe you forgive and also allow them back, and then part of love is to boost your partner's ego if it is too low, then their ego gets better, then as it gets better, others notice and also boost it, now they feel superior to you again and then they discard you again. Rinse and repeat.

  • @CreateYourOwnWorld
    @CreateYourOwnWorld Před 2 měsíci +9

    Exactly. It is a typical behavior pattern of people who, without any empathy, exert their control over others in any situation. Their sense of superiority is thus guaranteed. They hide their egocentric attitude with strikingly "socially adapted" behavior. They often make a career by giving themselves extraordinary importance and absolute priority. In an affective relationship, the partner is manipulated, idealized, then devalued, and accused of lack of commitment. A narcissist can lie, insult and cause deep guilt in others.

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 Před 2 měsíci +5

    When they see you leaner, stronger, looking better, working harder, the ship is coming in and everyone sees it... people want to be around you ...the want to co-op the new glow around you so they can " steal " it from you.

    • @l.m.5286
      @l.m.5286 Před měsícem

      Perfectly stated ❤

  • @MegaRockstar48
    @MegaRockstar48 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Yup I’m working towards a screenwriting Oscar…….and I can’t wait for the hoover at that point so she can understand she screwed up

  • @JacK-qn4zh
    @JacK-qn4zh Před 2 měsíci +7

    THEY WANT YOUR NEW FRIENDS !

  • @user-yh6pt5ni4o
    @user-yh6pt5ni4o Před 2 měsíci +9

    Good information. I'm preparing for her to circle back. I'm at peace today

    • @jaysigma1ofnone
      @jaysigma1ofnone Před 2 měsíci +3

      She Will Circle Back, They Always Do/Will…

  • @TheAppaloosa14
    @TheAppaloosa14 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Valuable for whatever their current need is in the moment

  • @normandbriones7204
    @normandbriones7204 Před 2 měsíci +4

    True story! See through what’s going on and stay away. Thanks for the advices @Anoushka!

  • @jacqueshowell1400
    @jacqueshowell1400 Před 18 dny +1

    Expecting the narcissist to revalue me it means I lost vs the narcissist. To be revalued by the narcissist isnt a good thing that means you are being taken back into the cage and you accepted to be their pet again.

  • @steveanhiron6764
    @steveanhiron6764 Před 14 dny

    At my wits end with this girl who proposed marriage. Now , Thankyou so much , I’ve a clue to what’s happening .

  • @MiguelK.-um3oz
    @MiguelK.-um3oz Před měsícem

    I never asked for none of this, it's all good, the biggest event in human history, I'll just forget that ever happened like everyone else

  • @user-kk5bz3pf2m
    @user-kk5bz3pf2m Před 2 měsíci +7

    Not always, there’s no way the narc can see me, I’m not on social media, I’m blocked everywhere. So, why would the narc be back? I could be dead for all he knows. 😝

    • @katherinestaudt8492
      @katherinestaudt8492 Před měsícem

      Yes, not all of us are all over social media, where someone can 'watch' us. More likely they want you to show up, like comment etc. on theirs, then they can ignore you, and you wonder why you are there. I have been absent from his SM, until recently where he was in town, he lies low anyway from SM traveling, but still was upset he did not respond, so I guess we are done. Circle back? I can't see it.

    • @user-sj4hn7jo9d
      @user-sj4hn7jo9d Před 29 dny +1

      No, they may still come 9 months after the break up. Even when they.can't have any information about you. It's happened to me twice. I rejected them because I had got to a point where I didn't even like them as humans, let alone as men. Yes, it can happen. They were the ones who had left me abruptly, breaking me.

    • @user-kk5bz3pf2m
      @user-kk5bz3pf2m Před 29 dny

      @@user-sj4hn7jo9d they’re snakes, not humans or men. I hope you’re ok. ❤️

    • @janebraun4482
      @janebraun4482 Před 16 dny

      @@user-sj4hn7jo9d How do they get to you without SM? and after a gap in time?

  • @sarahkennedy1481
    @sarahkennedy1481 Před měsícem +1

    Of mine was he has a beautiful face and body and v charming. He said I was the 'ultimate prize'. I have blocked him. We got on well but he was v jealous. He is a local Councillor lol. He kicked off at me twice with severe verbal abuse and then said it was a joke. He liked me on his arm. I said get counselling then he turned it all on me and sent me a beautiful photo of his body saying he loved me and I am for him but I have 4 days to come back to him or he will sleep with women and go on dating sites. He has blocked me. He had a terrible abusive childhood.

  • @natalinemourad7391
    @natalinemourad7391 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for this video, probably saved me from getting hurt agaim ❤

  • @MiguelK.-um3oz
    @MiguelK.-um3oz Před měsícem

    I get what your saying, it's beyond God now and let it go ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I get it

  • @MiguelK.-um3oz
    @MiguelK.-um3oz Před měsícem

    They got people better than me to play the role GOD gave ME

  • @rynjrczk
    @rynjrczk Před 2 měsíci +2

    love your hair 🤩🤩

  • @arcticauroras9627
    @arcticauroras9627 Před 29 dny

    Really exist😊

  • @HopeFaithExpect77
    @HopeFaithExpect77 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Theres zero way i think she will ever re value hoover or contact me again. Her hateful meanspirited bitter projecting socialmedia posts indicate that even after 6mos post discard from our 8yr relationship that she absolutely loathes me. Im garabage and trash to her

  • @DennisD-yv4ys
    @DennisD-yv4ys Před 2 měsíci +1

    I kinda think narccisists see people simmilar to farm cattle in the emotional sense.

  • @shaniecegullison
    @shaniecegullison Před 2 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @barbaradivjak7944
    @barbaradivjak7944 Před 2 měsíci

    ❤️🙏❤️

  • @calebkeegan3023
    @calebkeegan3023 Před měsícem

    I joined the live and she silent me for speaking the truth

  • @MiguelK.-um3oz
    @MiguelK.-um3oz Před měsícem

    Who's the one living a fake life

  • @rizen9457
    @rizen9457 Před 2 měsíci +1

    You take a while to actually give the answers

  • @calebkeegan3023
    @calebkeegan3023 Před měsícem

    Oh yes queen let me pay u for common sense mostly womem facts

  • @lovepeace8918
    @lovepeace8918 Před 2 měsíci +1

    circle around repeating herself lol....ok she seems to be speaking from experience maybe, is she one ? 2:45 seconds in before she gets to the point then its repeat, ramble repeat.

    • @kaoshi_kutie
      @kaoshi_kutie Před měsícem +1

      Go away troll 👋🏼👋🏼

    • @lovepeace8918
      @lovepeace8918 Před měsícem +1

      @@kaoshi_kutie Thank you for inviting me back here, nice of you. Why you call names, what do you mean by troll ? I believe the video content was rambling and just repeating the same things several times, very lazy content. If you disagree please explain why, but name calling just invites my replies, you make no sense.

    • @lovepeace8918
      @lovepeace8918 Před měsícem +1

      @@kaoshi_kutie Seriously do you even watch these videos ? If you did, then you would agree with my comment.