The narcissists time patterns that give them away
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- čas přidán 14. 06. 2024
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They’re Peter Pan. They dust Wendy with fairy dust (lovebomb) take you to Neverland then literally drop you then find a new Wendy (to be their mother) next season.
I am Peter Pan and out Hypnosis I don't appreciate Dust comments looking out for your own good it’s dangerous just telling you it’s crazy as Hell! 🔥😂
😂😂😂😂
Best analogy I’ve heard yet 😂
Totally true!
I so wish i had this information 48 years ago. Its been somewhat livable until the last 6 months and since has been real ugly. Selling property and ending the disaster. Thank you for the help.
Everything you said is absolutely 💯! Until I was able to escape, I was easily able to stay 3 or 4 steps ahead of them because of their patterns.
Interestingly, it is repetitive but chaotic beyond reasonability…. for a narcissist time is a dispensable commodity when it comes to being responsible about keeping commitments timewise.
Spot on. I recently lived it and made a lot of mistakes going back more than once (now no contact for the past two weeks and celebrating that small victory.) Hearing you break it down in this way was pretty empowering. Thank you very much.
Your channel is literally the only front bumper I enjoy.
I came to understand the bull and was 😮 very glad I escaped, it left a lot of emotional scars but I have worked hard to get free from them, thanks 🙏 to my Heavenly Father!!!!!!!!!
❤EXCELLENT❤
Perfect Analysis and description of the narcissistic pattern I have experienced 💯‼️
After I have been discarded,I really thought that I was the problem,bc it’s what I’ve been told over and over again 🤦🏻♂️ Thx to empathic Therapists and especially your videos and sessions. I gained clarity and hope again, Anoushka🙏🏼 You are so important for the victims of abuse to heal and to grow! I love to listen to what you share, it’s so clear and combined with some positive ideas to make this experience a lecture for a new and better beginning. That’s what it’s all about for us who experienced the pattern of abuse, unfortunately beginning with the best part that you perfectly described,Anoushka: the lovebombing-phase(wasn’t it great?🤦🏻♂️). The community of healed and aware human beings grows to defeat and avoid narcissists! My heart goes out to everyone who is on the healing path❤☺️🙋🏻♂️
Absolutely on point
Thank you for the great content, @Anoushka.
From 2008-2023 (apart from 2020, due to the pandemic), every 3 years (or since 2014, 33 months and minus 3 days), my Narcissistic former neighbour tried hoovering me and I had the police on him in May 2014 and again in September 2017.
The first time around, the police visited him at his Dad's house because his Dad believed his son's lies (and was a Narcissist himself until he died four months later) and again in 2017, to warn him off with threats of court action.
On 24th of June 2023, he saw me passing by (I didn't see him) and he waited until I fully passed by a balcony with a metal railing and he began tapping something metal against the railing in taps of three "tap-tap-tap" over and over again.
As I ignored the tapping, I noticed that it got faster and faster and faster (to create mental tension) STILL tapping in threes in succession and WITHOUT slipping-up on the momentum.
I recognized it as "Narcissistic Rage" and an attempt to instill psychological fear into me.
But luckily, I had seen a couple of CZcams videos, including one on Anushka's channel (this one) about TOTALLY IGNORING THE NARCISSIST WILL CAUSE THE NARCISSIST TO UNRAVEL AND SEND THEM CRAZY FOR ALL TO SEE.
I did exactly that and he unravelled and everyone else where he lived saw that he's totally lost the plot.
He was moved into a secure place for him (going by what was hinted - he's been put into a psychiatric care home because they saw his demented behaviour upsetting others around him)
If he's in a "nuthouse" then Karma has collected on his Narcissistic Ways at last.
Now, I can fully heal WITHOUT his insane interruptions every 3 years.
I used Numerology to decode his Narcissistic Cycle and found he had four numbers that I could work out exactly when I was due to see or hear him again.
He was due to reappear again on 21st of March 2026 - but, since he's now 15-25 miles away from me, I very much doubt it, ESPECIALLY if he's in a psychiatric care home and he probably wouldn't be allowed out alone anyway.
His Narcissistic Numerical Code were the numbers:
3, 6, 8 & 9 (adding two or more digits to break it down to a single digit.
6 weeks of constant clinginess (Valuation & hoovering)
Then, 8 weeks of "erasing" my existence (Discard)
Once I figured it out, all I had to do was wait for the next Discard and NEVER allow myself to be his friend again.
The last discard is where he gloated after a flying monkey verbally abused me after believing the Narcissist's lies about me.
So, I called him out as a troublemaker (didn't know the psychologist terminology at the time) in front of the whole pub in February 2008.
I haven't drank in there since because of too many bad memories in that one.
From 1999-2008, I suffered 9 years of constant Narcissistic Abuse and he STILL continued after he left the street in June 2010.
2008, 2011, 2014, 2017 (2020 cancelled due to the pandemic) and 2023.
Notice the three-yearly timings?
Use Numerology wherever there's numbers around - especially, calendar dates including years and you'll find 4 numbers keep on recurring and you'll solve the Narcissistic Code within 6-12 months.
Patience is key here.
Every 2 weeks he would start a fight...didn't like a calm relationship
Narc promised me he would always be there to keep me safe. (My biggest need and then tore me down from a successful reliable person to nothing. Rocking in the corner thinking of how to end this torture. I lost myself and my family and friends and ended up after 26 years in a psychiatric ward. He sure did keep me safe. Ha he stripped me of my life and walked away with everything I had worked for. He destroyed me. I’m 5 years past this evil relationship with much help and on my own now living my life on my terms. Some days are better than others but the worst of the bad days don’t compare to those days in that relationship. ❤
Yes, you get loads of special treatment and feel really special. And then you become trauma bonded
I wonder if she is a narcissist? I seem to be a flea to her. She tolerates me. She's nice to look at but immature. She gets a lot of attention and perhaps uses the attitude for protection. I think I'm wasting time.
RG made a vid about the love bombing …it’s not happening every time
They pour into you in the beginning just so you can pour twice as more into them later. It’s completely all transactional.
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And every two years they want to get married to someone new.