r/Relationships My Ex-Husband Killed My Son's Dog
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- čas přidán 24. 07. 2024
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0:00 Intro
0:08 Dog mystery
7:53 Cheater
9:30 Tripping and cheating
12:41 Expert opinion
13:54 False accusations
"Sneaky Snitch" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) License: CC By Attribution 3.0 - Komedie
I feel bad for the son in story 1. Imagine your parent/s being so toxic that they kill your pet. Poor doggo did nothing wrong.
My dad's mother used to kill/get rid of my pets with such regularity that I basically knew to brace myself for the loss after the sixth pet. my last dog she refused to give to me when my mom and grandpa got custody of us back, and later on she called me and told me my job "jumped out onto the highway and got hit by a car." I knew my Louis, he never EVER even stuck his head out the car window whenever we went on long drives, she fucking threw him.
It's been almost ten years, but its still fucked me up so bad mentally on top of the other stuff she did/let happen.
@@TheLegendaryDeltaMan If i was in your shoes, the moment i would have heard him laugh, he would have no teeth left and I'd have broken every possible part of his body
My mom killed my cat named precious when I was like 8 or 9. I was visiting my great grandparents and she made an excuse the cat ran away. From an apartment on the 4th floor. Then she said the cat was dead under my dresser and she had to get rid of it. I know she killed it though. She’s a nasty human being. No contact with her is one of the best things I’ve ever done.
@@TheLegendaryDelta 😂
Uh, yeah... definitely need to get CPS involved. I wouldn't want my kids in that house.
Story 1: Whether the ex was spiteful, a pecking idiot, or both, the kids need to be away from him because he clearly can't take care of anyone. The dog was just the tip of the iceberg
Yeah, the disgusting part isn't that the dog died.
That can happen. It's sad, but let's assume it was actually true what they said. Either way, THEY LEFT A CORPSE ROTTING OUTSIDE WHERE THE KIDS WILL PLAY!
What the actual hell?!
That attracts dangerous animals, not to mention a myriad of diseases. It can even poison the ground itself, and if they have a pump instead of being connected to a central water supply ....
@@Nerobyrneyeah. And the part about the flies gathering around it makes me think it's been a while since that dog passed. I hope he wasn't in pain when that happened
In my eyes, neglect is abuse. Her ex and his gf needs to be charged animal abuse.
If he can’t take care of a dog, he can’t take care of his kids. If he can’t be sympathetic to his son’s trauma and grief over the death of the dog, what happens further down the line if something worse happens? He is a negligent father who deserves to lose custody and visitation
What he needs is to be taken from this mortal realm...permanently.
No sympathy for animal abusers. No eye for an eye, just instant death penalty.
Couple more updates from the first story: Op had to get the blood drawn again because the wrong tube was used, she said working in healthcare herself she knows this can happen. It’s just frustrating. She’s told the school and her lawyer and the school is going to keep an eye on them. Still no information on the girlfriend and the kids expressed a want to stay with her full time citing they aren’t happy at their dads. Then there was an edit to add that her son got sick with a temp of 103.
Update 6: she’s trying to find a therapist that will accept all three kids and they talk about their dog often while she knows she’s past the point of no answers she’s still upset about it. The kids however are recounting in vivid detail how they saw their dog with its mouth open when he passed and the kids get more and more upset. As for the tox screen no news and she’s hoping for a “no news is good news” situation
UGH! This is so infuriating! They had to redraw blood again because THEY USED THE WRONG TUBE?? SERIOUSLY?! THE KIDS ARE AT RISK!!
My husband works in the labs at a medical center he said it happens a lot aint that some shit.
My mother had a biopsy because she might have cancer. A couple of days later she was sent a letter with an urgent appointment with no explanation whatsoever.. For two weeks later.
She freaked out (for obvious reasons) and went to a nearby private clinic run by an acquaintance (out of work hours because he was fully booked) for an urgent biopsy and test. A couple of days later he called to say it was benign and she didn't have to worry.
When she went to the "urgent" appointment, it was to get another appointment to get a new sample because the previous one was spoiled somehow and could not be used for the test.
Story 3: I'm surprised that no one is talking about it being a possible sexual assault. I read the rest of the story and it came out that the cheater girl was so high on acid that she though that he was HER boyfriend as well and SHE was the one that initiated. When she figured out it wasn't him when her actual boyfriend opened the tent, she ran off and called an uber/cab. But she was so high that she thought she was already at her house when the cabby was still driving that she jumped out of the moving vehicle and broke her arm and went to the hospital. She is now freaked out that she's a rapist and is saying she doesn't blame her friends if they press charges. OP and her Boyfriend are now in therapy.
That is one of the most weird situations iv read
Normaly in a R situation there is one unconcenting person and the agressor but here it seems like there was 2 unconsenting persons like you could say that one of them was the agressor but it seems unlikely with zero proof
Oh I was looking for a comment about this. The assult thing never even crossed my mind as they were all tripping balls bad. But the fact that the girl is even willing to admit that what she did is the equivalent of assult shows that this could all truly just be a really bad accident. I hope they work through it.
I've been on some LARGE doses of acid, and never once did I mistake my gf with somebody else. These were just two cheaters trying to blame it on the drugs. Total bs.
@@seekeroftruth6728 So your experience dictates every ones else ?
as someone who has essentially had a drug trip because of a very messed up dose of medication, you're wrong. I could not tell who people were, some people were morphing into animals, other people were melting, I couldn't tell members of my family apart or who or where I was. If you think that a large enough dose of narcotics mixed with alcohol can't make a person face blind or see things, especially in the middle of the night you're either a liar or you're just trying to stir up trouble. @@seekeroftruth6728
As someone who for years worked in vet clinics, boarding kennels, and volunteered for rescues and shelters and have friends who still work/volunteer in all of those fields, trust me when I say there are people out there who 100% can go out and "feed" a dog every day (throw a scoop of food on the ground and call it a day) and the dog could drop dead one day for any reason, and they would go out the next time to "feed" them, see them dead, and legit just shrug and leave it, not give it another thought. So, while I 100% believe there was foul play AND negligence with story one in regards to the poor dog, there are people out there who could see their dog every day and if it passed away, would leave it where it was and not give it another thought. It's disgusting those people like that exist in this world.
I've known several people, including my Mom, my Lady Wife and myself, who were so paranoid about not taking proper care of our pets that we had recurring nightmares about neglecting them. FYI I didn't originally, but Mom waking me up in the middle of the night and asking me "Do we still have a dog?" (we were dogless at the time) rubbed off on me. Weird coincidence- I actually had that dream again last night.
That story honestly makes me want a rescue dog.
My uncle had one named pugsly and he was my bro. Rescue dogs always wanna sit on my lap if their trigger isn't female humans 🥺😭
my neighbor was one of those people.
they had a purebred bloodhound in a 8x10 cage in their front yard. didn’t feed him, didn’t give him water. i’d have to go out and give him food and water myself in the middle of the night since they had cameras. eventually, the dog got loose out of the cage and i called animal control and got him taken to the pound! owners have to pay a huge fine to get their dog out of the pound, so obviously these people didn’t want to pay it. me and my mom got the dog into a bloodhound rescue after the week long hold. i hope he’s well now ❤️
@@kamrynbutler3917 I had a neighbor who would sic his Huskies on the cat colony that was around our apartment and not even the cops gave a shit
We didn't catch it on video and if the neighbor who reported it would have shot the dog for killing a cat he probably would have lost his own cats because of an animal abuse charge and been charged with discharging a firearm within city limits
My neighbor in the first house I moved in to. It was a duplex. Had several dead animals found in her house. Made me feel like a piece of shit when I thought about all the yelps I heard. I put it away as dogs playing rough. These people are disgusting man.
Unfortunately, there are people out there who will use pets in a hostile divorce to hurt their partner, including harming the animal. It’s monstrous and those people should be held accountable. They also shouldn’t have unsupervised custody of a child.
I agree with you 💯%.
My wife (soon ex) has constantly refused to turn over my service dog. Even got a restraining order(over turned as malicious) that denied me seeing him. Haven't been able to see my best friend since July, ,just out of spite. I'm grateful she loves animals and won't hurt him, but the lows people drop to in times like this can be unbelievable. Never imagined she'd be this cruel.
In this case, it may be worse. I went to the story and there were more updates and things are all over the place. But I looked at her post history.... oh, boy! She has all kinds of posts asking about restraining orders, or how to deal with a ex who is a narcissist and won't respect or LC/NC boundaries, or that she has been punched by him. It's.... ugly.
@@terrychant4365if its a service dog that helps you in your day-to-day life then cant you go to court and force her to hand him over? Shes essentially keeping your medical device (dog) hostage; like someone refusing to give back a wheelchair or prescription meds.
@@Dartkitten yes, keep in mind the reality of trying to live and restart with nearly nothing(seriously wouldn't give basics like dish and utensils, shower stuff, bedding/ pillows.) navigating the legal system to file the right thing in right court, then getting hit with protective order and having to fight that first, and all this while disabled on fixed income without a vehicle to get around.
If the dad and girlfriend didn’t want the dog, why not just give it to the mom? Is he so spiteful that he’d rather kill the dog than give anything to his ex wife? Someone that cruel is a danger to children.
Yeah. That's exactly what I was thinking too. He just sounds spiteful about it. He probably didn't even care about the dog, just wanted to see her miserable.
Exactly, even if the "dad" wasn't involved, and it was just the girlfriend, because "she's a cat person, not a dog person". What would happen to the children, because "they're not MY cildren"......
Literally, as he poisoned the kids
it's possible that he was using the dog as a sort of bargaining chip for the kids to come over. i was in a split household, my dad bought me a cat so that i'd visit more often/have more of a reason to visit and i eventually chose to stay with him full-time because i loved my cat so much. he ultimately killed the cat (no exaggeration) because it scratched him one time.
Last Story: I have a feeling that the friend's mom is one of those parents who doesn't want anyone to get close to her kid because of reasons related to emotional incest (when a parent does something like "You treat your romantic partner better than me, leave them" type of thing)
I agree with rslash that this is a rare case where I hope the children are poisoned(although it hopefully isn't anything serious).
Or find a meth head, and give them a mission... ;)
WHAT??? What story???
@@Imjustkendall listen tothe episode
I agree lmao, we already know they have been seen my doctors and there is no mention of horrible tragedy so it is safe to assume they are okay now/on the mend. That being established, if they were poisoned now OP has proof. I think knowing that even subconsciously allows means this would be the most justice filled ending, if the kids were hurt that wouldn't matter tho
In a twisted way, it would be the best outcome which you would wish on no-one as a lesser of two evils.
I NEED an update for story 1 on the tox screenings for the kids. I feel like we were left on a cliffhanger
Same!!
Found an update.
No news on the tox screen for the kids. Did have to get it done twice.
still no news about GF last name, kids have told mom that they would prefer to stay with her, but custody plan is to remain the same.
School counselors are meeting with kids and keeping an eye on them.
@@Lk7shoe so a half of a sad update.
@@Lk7shoe in a case like that you would think a lawyer / court would be able to press to get a last name. I wouldn’t want some person watching my kids if I am not allowed to know their name.
@@3xavior17 I know right!? Like there’s obviously something fishy going on that you would need to have it documented whose at the father’s house for safety reasons
The Dog Mystery Post: I was curious and looked up OP's account and she has A LOT of more recent posts about her ex in domestic v!olence subreddits. Mostly about restraining orders, or the RO escalating things and him having firearms. Some posts state blocked contact with the ex and he's trying to force contact with the children. Sounds like OP was grossly understated how much of a monster her ex is. 😬😨
I don't think she is, but the courts. Of course I haven't read any of her other posts so idk.
Oh god. I pray for those boys’ mental and physical wellbeing…
I hope this doesn't turn into a situation where Susan Powell boys were unalive by their pos father who was a suspect in Susan Powell disappearance/possible murder.
They weren't trying to kill the dog, but they weren't trying to keep the dog alive.
Neglect
This story brought me to tears, poor little dog. It breaks my heart.
The kids say that rat poison was sprayed on the yard. Not bringing the dog inside away from the poison means at best that they are so incompetent as should be barred from ever owning pets and have their custody reduced to observed visitation. At worst, they intentionally wanted the dog to die and didn’t care if the children were hurt. Plus, how do you not see your dog for so long that it starts rotting?
Also rat poison is an extremely awful way to die. The dog if it ingested rat poison basically died from bleeding out internally. As it depletes the bodies store of vitamin K which helps blood clot. Without vitamin K your blood can't clot. I've seen a cat sick from it because it ate a rat that had been poisoned. It's very sad.
I can't see the difference
I've heard the acid story before. My first thought was, wait, the girl was sober enough to be trusted watching the boyfriend who wasn't feeling well, she was on top, AND she left in the middle of the night without telling anyone?? It sounds to me like she was the one who started things and she ran because she felt guilty...
Op is setting her bf to a higher standered then herself. She admits that she thought sand felt like grass and she mistook the wind for singing, and yet she thinks her bf should be able to tell the diffrence in the two girls voices and know how doffrent their bodies feel.
According to the update, she too was high on acid, took an uber, thought she was at her house already, then got out of the moving car and got injured, then went to the hospital. If they were both high, I’d say the situation was less of an SA situation and more of a big fat mess.
Next time they do acid, they should at least have someone sober to look after them and make sure shit like this doesn’t happen again.
Last story is SUPER simple. Child is either bi/pan or has different boundaries towards her femne friends than the mom (who is probably homophobic) is comfortable with.. hence this entire situation.
Agreed. The mom has bought into the whole “groomer” narrative… I hate it.
My daughter likes a gender that I don’t agree with?? This must be the homosexual harlots she hangs out with that led her astray and definitely not her own self-expression!!
Could also be the mom being overprotective because she’s special needs, which makes the whole situation much sadder.
That's what I thought, especially with the groomer accusations specifically
The last story. The mom is trying to isolate her daughter. So she dont have the confidence to leave & move out. Sounds like mom is trying to get a lifelong caregiver. Ijs.
This. Mom may have even lied to her that she does have issues so she doesn't think twice about some things.
This girl goes to college is in her twenties just like OP and the mother thinks all her friends no matter the gender are grooming her? To do what, go out once in a while to a cafe or concert? That's just the mother being insane and the daughter should get away from her.
Acid OP posted an update:
FINAL (?) UPDATE: So much has happened in the past hour. Our friend was able to get in touch with the girl who was caught with my partner because he went to the girl's house and no one ended up being there. I'll try to break it down as best as I can, starting with my partner whom called off work to come to me so that we could sit down and talk about it once and for all (I asked him if he could possibly leave work early as I knew I wouldn't be able to sleep). Anyway, from his perspective, while being in the tent alone, he couldn't tell whether he was asleep or not. He thinks his eyes were open, but it wouldn't make a difference whether he blinked or stared into the abyss. He said he was really dizzy but really hyper, but then also really tired and that all these feelings made him nauseous but not to the point where he needed to throw up, just enough for him to feel the need to lie down and relax. He said he heard the tent open, but he didn't react because he naturally thought it was me. He said "You going to bed?" as the girl he thought was me just plummeted herself onto the sheet next to him. He couldn't recall whether he heard a response, but he said he felt a kiss on his arm. He went in to spoon her and say good night, until he felt a kiss on his lips. He kissed back, and it progressed from there. He said he consented with his body as he thought it was me, but not because he was hallucinating, but because he couldn't see anything. He had his eyes closed most of the time because he couldn't see anyways, apparently. Then they got naked, and she straddled him. They didn't have intercourse, but instead were dry humping naked. He said he couldn't even feel anything, as if no one was on top of him. Then the tents were ripped open and he thought it was just her closing it behind her, but it was us. Then, he saw us and got really confused. This was when he thought that maybe he was hallucinating, hence the no reaction. He thought that there was no way he could see me outside the tent when I was straddling him naked. Then the guy started yelling, the girl got off him, and he went out of the tent naked. He said he forgot he was naked and got so confused as to what was happening. Then he saw me vomit, and then pass out. The whole time our guy friend was yelling at him, he carried me back into the tent and stared at me for a good minute. He looked at our friend yelling and asked if this was real. Then, he realised it was. That's when he started getting agitated, stressed, and started crying because he realised he just cheated on me. Then the girl disappeared and they didn't notice until the guy stopped yelling to ask the girl what she was doing being on top of him. He told me that the girl never spoke, only moaned. He thought it was me as we had a similar hair length and was confusing her eyes for mine whenever he caught a glimpse of light on her. I gave him a hug when he finished explaining. We were both crying at this point. Still are. I asked him if he needs help reporting this girl to the police, and he said no. He said that he thinks she confused him for her partner too, and I said there's absolutely no way that happened when she could see her boyfriend across the shore walking with me. He said that he didn't feel assaulted because he was reacting to it with the same energy, but that it was definitely weird finding out it wasn't me in the end. Still, I urged him to think about it carefully but offered my support because I know how disgusting and weird it is to even think that we'd get raped by the same people we trusted, but that it needs to be addressed. He said he'll think about it. I said my side and how I saw it, then we sat in silence for awhile and ended up talking about the good moments that happened that night. We were both relieved that we talked about it, and it genuinely felt like he was telling the truth. I've known the man for five years, he physically cannot lie. He said he understands why I thought he cheated, because he also thinks he cheated. He brought up the proposal because he was terrified of losing me, but admitted to the bad timing of it. I shared my own guilt and apologised for leaving him in the hands of someone else, for allowing it to go that far, for everything. Now he's taking a shower and going back to work after and I'm shaking as I'm typing this.
As for the girl, buckle the fuck up. We finally heard from her from our guy friend and apparently she'd been MIA because she was in the fucking hospital. She got her phone taken away by her mum. Our friend went to the girl's house because he was sick of waiting for a response and no one ended up being home. He then got the mum's number from a neighbour they were close with and called her, and then was able to speak to the girl. Fucking weird if you ask me? Her own mum told our friend she was home safe, but she'd been in the hospital this whole time. She said she left because of how disgusted she felt when she realised what she'd done. She said she just wanted to lie down but confused our tent to be theirs (They were all the same colour). When she heard my partner say "You going to bed?" she said that she thought he said "No sex?" and immediately heard her boyfriend's voice instead of mine. As in, confused my bf's voice to be her bf's voice. So she initiated small kisses and when he reciprocated, she was reassured that it was, indeed, her boyfriend. Completely forgotten about the fact that he was twenty footsteps away from her. Completely forgotten that she was asked to watch my partner in case anything happens. And so, when she realised what she had done, she left without saying anything and took an Uber home. Then jumped out of the moving fucking car because she thought the car wasn't moving and that the car wasn't moving because she was home. Ended up fracturing her arm, staying longer in the hospital for suicidal ideation and getting infections and I think she's being fined for endangering herself and others for being high on acid. She did end up saying that she accepts whatever happens to her, whether we report what happened or beat her up etc. Our friend said she sounded very remorseful and worried for all of us, especially my partner and I. She said herself that she thinks she raped him because she was the one who had initiated it. We're waiting to hear more from him about her and he's now on his way to visit her. A lot about it is still very unclear to us and doesn't add up.
Needless to say, I am both relieved and horrified to have heard both parties' perspective. This has been such a big fucking day. It doesn't feel real. We will continue to work on this and may probably need therapy. The situation ended up being a lot bigger than me and I feel that the only ones to blame were ourselves. We allowed this situation to happen, and it didn't matter if it was intentional or not. We were irresponsible and really stupid. We thought the beach was an awesome idea for the solitude, silence, and the view, but we didn't factor in the darkness and the consequences of drinking and taking acid at the same time. Hell, one of us could've even drowned despite the ground rules we put out and despite it being a low tide that night. It was really, really dumb and set up to fail from the very beginning. As for our relationship, we're coming to an agreement to have some space between us physically as it felt like it would've been too soon to start sleeping on the same bed, and to get therapy together. We'll talk about it more after his shower. I'm going to continue to stay at my sister's, but I'll also be seeing him regularly to continue supporting each other. We're both still shaken up and quite traumatised from it all, but we're both willing work it out. We've heard one another and decided to trust each other, and obviously created very heavy boundaries regarding drugs and alcohol. I'm not the type to develop trust issues, so I'm hoping healing from this will be easier than how everyone makes it out to be. For the people that have commented and shared their own experiences, thank you. Especially to those who have challenged my perspective and called me out on my own shortcomings. Excluding the ones who were flat out insensitive assholes, y'all can choke. I thank those who had given me sound advice, those who educated me, and those who had given us well wishes. I really, really appreciate the time you've invested into this. I'll answer questions but I might delete this profile shortly after. Thanks everyone.
This right here needs more likes. It's so sad to not get the whole story on some of the videos
@@FlamesofJaggernothing more annoying than a cliffhanger
Jesus Christ that's long, can you summarize it?
@@donnyshields4450 tl;dr, bf is a victim, girl feels remorseful but may be not telling the whole story, however she fractured her arm and ended up in hospital for that and suicidal ideation, she was also high.
I think it's fair to say there are 4 victims in this story.
And this is why we shouldn't do drugs kids, so you don't end up in bad situations like in story 3. I hope both relationships can heal from this tho.
Spot on!
"Hey guys, lets go for a walk while both drunk and tripping on acid in this nice secluded and hard to interrupt beach! Lets also leave two people on guard of the tents cause we wouldnt want anything to happen to them here, all alone at night."
"Hey you, boy and girl who are also tripping on acid and drunk, stay here *all alone* on this nice, beautiful beach in the dark while we go for a walk.
Dont do anything i wouldnt do ;)"
Honestly idk what they were thinking. Well they were trippin so...
Reminds me of that story where that wedding had a Bachelorette and Bachelor party mixed into one at a strip club, which was then followed up by all the heartbreaks and breakups and the cancelation of the wedding.
Sucky situation, but come on.
@@ninjdraw8305 ah I remember that one too. Yeah, that was a terrible idea like throwing gasoline on a fire terrible.
False accusations story- it’s time to contact a lawyer and get a cease and desist order.
If this is going around, it can come back to haunt you.
DON’T contact your friend without talking to a lawyer first.
There's an update: The girl was still on acid and was in the hospital because she got out of the Uber/taxi because she thought they were stopped at her house. The tents were the same, if not, similar in color and style. She went in still high and thought it was her and her bfs tent and since OPs BF and the girl's BF looked similar in the very, very dim light, she thought that her BF was there. Also, there was no penetration at all. They were BOTH still under the influence of acid AND alcohol.
@@audreym3908You replied to the wrong comment.
Idk, it sounds like it might be a very weird case of Munchausen by proxy imo. What do you think?
@@tazhienunurbusinezz1703 I think it's either Munchausen by proxy or the friend came out as lesbian and mom thinks she's only a lesbian because she was "groomed", since OP said the mom accuses women specifically.
@@FlashQuatsch yea, idk but it's very weird considering op is a straight girl with a whole azz boyfriend herself. Apparently logicing isn't a thing that mom is all that great at.
I have done acid. I 100% had a almost similar situation. I though my male friend was my girlfriend who also was on acid. He though I was his crush. Before anything happened. He fell over and the illusion was broken. Acid is one hell of a drug
Not just acid but also super drunk. That's just asking for something bad had to happen.
Story 1 angers me because CPS just straight up aren’t helping, OP is doing everything she possibly can, but the authorities just aren’t helping her at all.
For story 3, I was hoping you would cover the updates. From the way OP tells it, it sounds like OP's partner was SA'd. The other girl initiated it. He had his eyes closed for most of it, and he was too out of it to consent.
Unfortunately a lot of people here believe that males can’t be victims of SA 😢
That disgusting person let that dog die out of spite rather than let his ex wife have it. If I'm the judge on that bench, that man is never seeing his kid again.
Didn't OP say that the vet said it was too late to determine whether or not the dog was poisoned? There might not be any solid evidence unless it turns out the kids were poisoned too. Right now, I don't know if OP has enough evidence to take legal action. She's trying and hitting dead ends.
My gut says it was more than negligence. They deliberately killed that dog to cause OP pain.
You'd rip apart a family over a dog.....who's spiteful and small?
Last story: I have to agree with R/ here, that's the kind of damage you do not want to risk, but odds are no one's going to believe her since this isn't the first time she tried to do something like this. I am curious why she keeps doing this to anyone who's friends with her daughter though. A b a matter of isolation or is she really delusional and thinks her daughter is constantly being targeted.
I’m willing to bet she’s delusional in the sense that she’s been taken in by the whole false and defamatory narrative around LGBT people that certain people have been pushing recently, her daughter is possibly a lesbian, and she’s trying to stop her daughter from “becoming a lesbian” by accusing every woman in her daughter’s general vicinity with this accusation, claiming they’re “turning her lesbian”. In fact, I’m willing to bet a week’s salary on this. This just screams emotional abuse.
@@Tustin2121That or her mom is one of those crazy-clingy parents who thinks that anyone who is friends with her daughter is taking her (the daughter/OP's friend) away from her (the friend's mom). My ex's grandmother was like that, and claimed that I was using him for money (only for her to do exactly that to him), all the while ignoring that he used me for what little bit of money I had.
@@Artretha My thought was that the friend's mom was watching way too much TV.
Another possible take here: Munchausen syndrome. I found a pretty odd coincidence that the girl has "learning disabilities" and the mom just keeps saying her daughter was groomed by random people. Idk it sounded a bit like mirroring...
The theory of daughter being lesbian and emotional abuse seems more likely though.
@@Black-pq2iwidk my thoughts went to the same place. I think the mom is isolating her and using the disability money to pay the bills. She will lose her lifeline if the daughter gets a friend that is wiling to be a roommate and moves out. My experiences have taught me to be critical when assessing disabilities. My mom spent years working in group homes, there were a few people who lived there that were slow, but not in a crippling way who had been socially isolated by their parents resulting in them being unable to function in society.
I grew up with a friend and her mom constantly told her she was slow and would never make it, this resulted in her putting in less effort failing multiple subjects and proving her mom right. When we were 7-8 we read books together. When I reconnected with her at 13 she was unable to read at all. At 16 our mutual friend talked her into moving out helped her with court. She now has her GED and is working a regular job. Her mom laments losing her disability checks and still insists her daughter was taken advantage of by everyone that helped her get established.
Story 3: I belive it is very possible for it to be a mistake, but important point would be to know if the friends girlfriend was also on on acid, or if she was sober. If it truly was an accident, but the girl was sober, the boyfriend was basically r'd
There's some updates to this story already. As far as I remember the girl was on drugs too and also thought it was her boyfriend and initiated, the guy got confused and followed along. When she realized what she did she panicked and ran away, to the point of hiding for days out of shame. She also considered what she did rape and encouraged the guy to press charges but he didn't
Nah, I'm more inclined to say he was cheating intentionally, (imo because I don't know these people irl).
If he wasn't, he wouldn't have been dangling the carrot in her face about proposing, she said she had been asking for a year now but he does drugs with rando chic and gets caught boinking her all of a sudden he wants to say he wants to propose to OP. I'm not buying it.
Either he uses OP's money to bankroll getting high, or idk could be an honest mistake.
Edit: @user-pn1mo6jy2o
Thanks for the update. Still don't believe it though if thats was her bf told her, its kinda hear say unless OP heard it straight from the other girl.
I think OP said she was
@@RandomAnagram. you've never been on acid
@@GiordanDiodato
You're right, I haven't. But I still kind of find it fishy with the whole carrot dangling thing.
He kinda did like when you make a bad joke and everyone looks at you like you crapped your pants and you nervously chuckle "I'm kidding guys! Don't hate me."
Story 1: The ex-husband is a massive monster for sure, but can we talk about the humane society rule here? The dog DIED at HIS place, yet the website says you have to witness the neglect to file it? Bruh, having the pet die at the ex-husband's place is proof enough! Hell, maybe have the kids TELL them they witnessed it! OP, get your kids away from this evil AH, who knows what would happen to the kids besides throwing up!
In recent years one of the families on my street moved out. They left dogs behind, locked up in the house. When we finally realized they had been abandoned we our pet shelter. They found out another neighbor was doing the bare minimum of feeding the dogs and so they couldn't do anything. The dogs would have to go without food for a week for them to come get them.
Yeah...trust me, animal care laws in the US are kinda _shit._ And I say this as someone who volunteers at a rescue, so I see a lot of the dumb bullshit that runs through the system. Dept of Agri will shut down a rescue/shelter before poor animal control can/will be able to actually do anything for an actually abused animal. because the laws are so ass-backwards.
To be fair, not every pet death is related to abuse, and if you could accuse someone of animal abuse every time their pet died without some sort of evidence... that would really suck.
But yeah, in this case, it's pretty obvious that the husband was a spiteful asshole. And while the death was not witnessed, the history of neglect was, so hopefully that will be enough.
@@peepopopo7140
Given the updates on Story#1, I fear that the husband has progressed from animal cruelty and neglect... to child endangerment and attempted murder.
Story 1: The kids were sick all weekend barfing red stuff and changing blood, your ex didn't say anything about it, but that wasn't enough to issue neglect or abuse? These people are stupid. Also if you can't get the real answer then go by what your ex said, he knowingly let the dog out onto poison covered grass, lied about what happened and didn't even try to take him to the vet, not to mention just left the body outside for hours if not longer.
I think OP lives in Texas
@@GiordanDiodatowhy would that be relevant?
@@GiordanDiodato- Honestly, I wouldn’t put it past Texas to have terrible laws in that respect… They have terrible laws about everything else, especially relating to protecting the safety of children…
Boy the beach episode is a very good antidrug story.
I mean, in the aftermath, every single person in that group ended up damage for life, don't do drugs or don't be stupid enough to do it in a bad place, i mean now they are realizing that some could have died there, they were idiots and now they will live with the consequences.
On the bright side they are aware of what happened, and i guess they learnt from it.
Hopefully. Some people never learn anything
First Story: People who needlessly mistreat animals and pets are trash in my eyes. What was the point of this scumbag taking the dog if he had no intentions of actually taking care of it. Why not just let OP take the dog? Instead, this prick decided to let his also garbage girlfriend kick it out, let it died, and (the worse of it all) let his 6 year old son find said dog and call OP to tell her about the dog
Update 1: Yeah this guy is definitely hiding something. If what he said was the truth, why was he being vague and defensive?
Update 2: Oh no, get these kids away from these two asap. They sprayed rat poison in the grass of the backyard (obviously to kill the dog) and still let the kids go back there? These two are a danger to these kids and all living things
Update 3: He really thought he didn’t need to tell the mother of his kids that they were throwing up something red?! I hope OP gets full custody of these kids and her ex and his girlfriend rot in a cell
Update 4: Wow I feel so sorry for OP. Everything and everyone has failed OP in this situation; here is hoping that OP can get that police report filed
Second Story: That is a red flag. Most of the time people try to cover their intentions by claiming it was a joke. This guy dared this friend to make out with him and immediately said it was a joke after she said no. I also found it weird that he wanted to keep the game between them
Third Story: Wow this is a very...interesting situation. Obviously this guy full blown cheated and I honestly don’t believe his excuse (I honestly wouldn’t know because I don’t do drugs and I don’t know the effects of acid) but OP and the other guy wasn’t gone for so long and OP's boyfriend didn’t go on the walk with them because he said he didn’t feel well but if he didn’t feel well, how was he well enough to have sex? Him telling OP his planned proposal was a typical tactic into emotional manipulation imo
Comment: Oh ok, so this person IS an expert on this and it can possibly happen. With this insight, I don’t know now.
Fourth Story: This is a lawsuit waiting to happen. Falsely accusing someone of something so serious is not a good thing to do. I think OP should tell the friend and confront the mother because this is a life changing accusation
@@aaroncousins4750why do more and more people comment this under my comment? I thought I’ve done this long enough for people to realize I edit the comment
@@xKCAZxLEADERjust ignore them, ESPECIALLY the recent one.
@@markx2231if you don't have anything good to say, don't talk.
@@markx2231heres the thing bozo, this ain't the first time so U get off ur high horse.
If u dealt with the constant bs of random trolls u would see things from my eyes and get annoyed with it. So do urself a favor and go somewhere, have a nice day
@@markx2231if we got beef lets hash that shit out right now. Fyi, he commented this bs before I can fucking edit the comment, assuming I’m saying "first" like I’m the first to comment so think before u respond
The first story gives me traumatic memories from my own dad as a child. He killed THREE of my pets. Yes they were all accidents but it was just because of his own stupidity, and he is fairly experienced with animals so none of it should have happened. The first one was my dog when I was 8 years old. We lived in a small town covered in forrest and our house was right beside a highway. I was having a halloween party and my dad didn't close the backdoor, my dog then saw a deer on the other side of the road, and since his fur was black and it was night a driver on the road didn't see him and ran him over. The second animal was a budgie. My dad has owned parrots before, and yet thought it was a good idea to leave the window behind the cage open all day. My bird got sick from the draft and passed away. The third animal was a rabbit. When I was 9 I had 2 rabbits that my dad built a big outside cage for. It was great, except he didn't think it was necessary to build a floor. So one of my rabbits dug a hole out of the cage and got eaten by a fox. Because he is a narcissist he wasn't a good dad to begin with, but I think him killing so many of my childhood pets is what I find the hardest to forgive him for. I am now a pet mom of a bird, lizard, dog and hamster, and I spoil them as much as I can. Since I am an adult living in a different country than my father thankfully I don't have to worry about him harming them as well.
The acid story did have an update:
The OP did forgive the bf.
And if I remember correctly, the friend gf and went the hospital because after she left, she crashed and got a few scratches.
She got out of a moving car because she thought they stopped. So I guess it was a crash of sorts
The boyfriend was raped
The girl was sober
Regarding story 1 - If my dog ever gets harmed or murdered, let's just say I'm fine with going to life in prison.
The first story shattered me. I'm in bed crying and holding my dog. How on earth anyone can purposefully hurt an animal is beyond me. 😢
Story 2: He started iff telling your friends to not say anything to you, i think it's obvious he wants to cheat, assuming he hasn't already. Cut your losses and find a better man.
Story 3: I'm not one to ever agree that someone can accidentally have sex with someone else, however the one time I'll say that's valid is definitely while tripping hardcore.
Story 4: Seriously? She did not just say that! Like, randomly calling people gr**mers? Is she okay?
Whatever it is, this needs to stop. She could get sued for this!
_Can_ you even groom someone who is 5 years _older_ than you? Even if something shady were to be going on, it certainly wouldn't classify as _grooming._
That lady mom :" Anyone who wants to be my daughter's friend is a groomer" sicko...
@@Wendy_O._Koopa Grooming is something that happens to an underage person who doesn’t have enough experience to know better that what the groomer is doing is wrong.
Keyword: *_Underage._*
Yeah, she’s definitely using that word in the same way multiple politicians have been using that word recently in the US and not using it as per its ACTUAL definition…
@@Tustin2121 But when politicians say it, don't they mean gay and/or trans? Didn't OP confirm they were cis/het? Any way you slice it, the mom is seriously delusional, possibly with malicious intent. (Also, it should go without saying that equating the LGTB+ with groomers is objectively wrong, there's no correlation).
Last story: I do believe the girl could have a disability and it's not just the mom gaslighting her or something. I've seen it many times where parents get creepily protective of their disabled kids. Granted this is a disabled ADULT we're talking about, but I can easily imagine that pattern of behavior from the mom continuing into her daughter's adult life.
Considering OP is a woman, I'd say it is also a case of homophobia. Even if OP herself is straight.
There is also an odd trend of treating adult women like children.. even when they mean well. Like, any age gap is called grooming even if the woman is above 20 years old.
First story, OP isn't angry enough. She needs to have a lawyer on hand and hold her husband at knife point and take them away for good. It's clear that the girlfriend is a threat to their safety and apparently forcing the ex to do what she tells him? How he's behaving about her is raising a lot more red flags about her and her behavior.
Story 1: I know I've said it a thousand times, but it cannot be stated enough; if you haven't already then please Satan, PLEASE create a specific layer of Hell for animal abusers!
I like to think they and child s** offenders are the test subjects for any new torture techniques he comes up with to determine who they should be used on regularly
And when the animal abusers are NOT being tortured, they’re having to take care of Cerberus, who will just eat them if they try anything and they’ll be back by the start of the next day
There is, Betty White is in charge!
@@rosiepear7531OBSESSED with this idea that Betty Whites version of heaven is being in charge of testing torture methods on child/animal abusers in hell
In some Eastern religions, the Ex and his GF would end up being reincarnated as dogs- and getting abused.
The first story made me really angry. That's an image those poor kids will never get out of their head. Animal abuse and severe neglect are a good indicator of a trash human being, it's too bad CPS doesn't take red flags like that seriously.
Story 3: dont do drugs kids, it can absolutely ruin lives.
Story 1 I heard this one before. I say use this in court to get full custody.
I'm almost sure I figured out that last story. I assume the mother is the tipe of Autism Mom that thinks that just because her kid has some learning disability, she is immature and helpless and can be taken advantage of. I bet she thinks she protects her kid when in reality she infantilizes her and strips her of agency. Because in her mind any neurodivergent person is just a kid inside, she assumes literally anybody enjoying their company is a groomer. She needs some sensitivity training or a restraining order, because if she can't change, she will eff up some lives, including that of her daughter and OP.
Last Story: The Mom of OP's friend is ableist, as evidenced by her constant grooming accusations. It's pretty obvious that she believes that old discriminatory lie that those with adults that have IDD, mental disorders, or are neurodivergent are children mentally, which is not true. Almost all of those are perfectly fine in terms of mental function, but often get pushed aside because they need support in communication or other areas of life.
The mother is definitely trying to use this lie to suggest she should have absolute control over her daughter's life, since she believes she's 'not capable' of doing so herself (which as the daughter's responses to OP shows is not true). She is definitely trying to gaslight both her daughter and anyone she doesn't want close to her, which is currently happening with OP.
Is this a sign of abuse? Maybe but we don't have enough information. I don't think OP should ghost her friend since the friend seems perfectly capable of dealing with the situation. I say just let her friend know and support her in whatever decision her friend makes.
first story made me hug my dog. No one deserves dog if they let dog die or something like that. Definetly something poisonous is on backyard if kids were like that
Op, PLEASE call Animal control and have the cat removed from your ex husband’s gf’s care. If she’s not caring for the dog, she’s neglecting her cat as well.
rSlash, this is not a dig about story one but I don’t think the kids weren’t vomiting blood, apparently if you cough/vomit blood from your stomach it’s coffee coloured but if it’s from the lungs it’s pink and frothy. But anyways we can agree that father is a piece of work (CZcams wanted me to play nice)
Story 1 : The Gf killed the dog.. simple...
Updates : Call your divorce lawyer and see if you can get full custody.. This dude and his hateful GF is gonna end your kids as well not just the dog.. The dog was just the start.. Damm man where's John wick when you need him..
Story 2 : Play truth or dare with him to either tell the truth or break up with you !!
Story 3 : he cheated ..no excuses.. cheating is cheating drugs or not.
Story 4 : That Girls mom is freaking loco.. being nice to people is now grooming them ?? Ok chief !! Op tell that girl that her mom is gonna make her into an outcast by accusing anyone who wants to or is friends with her of " grooming her"..
Story 3 had an update, he's was SA'd by the other girl. She was sober, he was not.
you've never been on acid
Story 3 so you will call a drugged rape victim ? I hope you are never on a jury were a woman was slipped a date rape drug... and oh right this only applies to men because man cant be rapped by a women .
If you read the update, it was shown that he was SA'd, didn't cheat
Story 3, He was raped. Being sexually assaulted is not cheating. And OP forgave him because she realized he was raped.
Last story: The story is horrific, I feel so sorry for that friend, it could be they are weird as their parents make out anyone trying to be friends must be "grooming" so nobody wants to risk being friends. Very lonely life that would be. Whats worse... what if the friend is actually gay, and the parent is saying this stuff because of their homophobia, that their child isnt gay, its the gays GROOMING her?
This is why drug education is so important. Everyone should know you have to have sober people babysit the people who are tripping. I don't do drugs, we were taught this in school.
Story one, my friend had a dog who was quite sweet and not very big. While my friend was away from home one day the dog “went missing.” Finally her husband confessed he was mad at her and picked up the dog and whacked it against the wall and broke its neck. I never liked the guy or his dad and that just cemented my opinion of them.
Tripping and cheating: Man, makes you realize that "not even once" really is the best policy for drugs.
Story 3: Your not in a state to make any long-term decisions, and I think for now at least you need time alone to figure things out.
He was raped
He was SA why is barely anyone getting that
@@stuartwalker9597 it crossed my mind but if everyone was doing acid and drinking maybe the lady also didn't know what was going on. But she was in a state to drive in the middle of the night and if she did know what she was doing then she should most definitely be arrested for SA.
@@d.phantomfan1216 the update there is a key point to me that she felt guilty and upped and left due the guilt, I’m sorry people don’t want hear it but it reeks of SA. rSlash said in a recent story that a guy tried to fist a girl she was aware of her situation and that was SA (it is) but the man is barely keeping his eyes open gets straddled and it is not I mean wtf.
That story with the acid had updates. Bf explained how he couldn't see her at all and the girl, who was also high, thought he was her bf. Like she saw his face eventhough she saw him walking. She came out of it at home and thought she r*ped a guy. They both felt terrible. Op didn't leave.
9:30
The guy was tripping balls, what did you expect?
The first wrong thing your guys did was do it, second add alcohol and then leave a girl alone with him. Just like asking the drunk person to drive while the side passanger is still drowsy from anestesia.
First story is horrible, it reminds me of what happened to a mutual friend of ours within this last year, her husband killed her emotional support dog in cold blood because he was jealous of the attention she gave the dog. It was shocking to us all. I used to be friends with her husband in highschool and he never seemed like the type to kill, just goes to show you never know who people really are. He did go to jail and she divorce him, but that will never bring her sweet baby back.
*First OP:* I've said this in a different story, but there should be a John Wick law where unaliving an animal abu5er constitutes as justifiable h0m1cide. OP's dog died, _and_ her baby discovered said dog? Nah, Pop's ex and his current girlfriend don't need anymore oxygen.
*First OP UPDATE:* The kids got sick, too? Yeah, no more oxygen for the ex and his gf.
*Second OP:* Lol at OP's bf using a game of Truth or Dare to try to cheat on OP. Dude's got zero rizz. I agree with OP's friends; that is definitely grounds for a breakup. At least OP's friends are loyal.
*Third OP:* Hey, Deleted is back!
I remember this story! This was probably the wildest case of N.A.H. (different subreddit, but humor me). I genuinely believe OP's bf and the other guy's gf didn't mean to cheat on their respective partners.
*Fourth OP:* Was OP's mom's friend the one who accused OP of gr00ming her former classmate, or was it OP's friend's mom who made the accusation? If the former, then OP's mom should end that friendship. If it's the latter, and the friend is unaware, then OP should let that friend know, and possibly help her find her own place to live.
it was the friend's mom
Even if you can't unalive them, she should have rights to point out that the severe neglect of an animal means it's highly likely the ex and his gf are also neglectful of the children. Also the statement of the father not reporting illness is also suspicious. CPS dropped the ball _again._ What else is new.
S1: this broke my heart and I am seathing of how much of a garbage the ex and his monster gf are. It's infuriating that no matter where OP turns to, no one is helping! There needs to be justice for OP to take full custody of the kids and keep them away from the ex and his gf before it gets even worse!
The acid story had a pretty heavy update. OP, the girl, and the boyfriend think that the girl r-worded him and were struggling with it. The boyfriend thought she was OP because it was dark, his eyes were closed, and he only heard moaning (nothing actually happened even though they were naked, if I recall correctly). She thought he was her boyfriend because his voice morphed into her boyfriend's from the acid. I'm hoping they're gonna go to therapy to handle all this.
I got an ad from "we owe dogs - barkbox" mid first story. So all I heard was the kid telling op that the dog went to heaven followed by the ad crushing my soul with a "they're always happy to see you...they make you feel better just by existing...they're basically a walking anti-depressant. You'll never be able to repay your dog...". 😭😭😭💀
Story 1: basically the girl friend is a psychopath, she definitely killed the dog , and then set her sights on the kids because she wants the ex husband for herself and hes basically a clueless idiot who’s only hindered and obeys the girl friends word,
I can 1-up the first story. My friends parents divorced. His mom took the family husky and had it put down. For no reason. Out of pure spite since it was the husband's dog primarily.
That's cruel. Though I heard that some vet clinics refuse to put down healthy pets. I'm not sure if that's true or not but I hope it is.
Sounds to me like they put down the wrong bitch.
Story 3: there's a lot more to this story than what was in the one post. The BF genuinely thought it was his GF because he was incredibly high and drunk (NEVER mix multiple substances, that's never a good idea). The woman thought it was her BF because she was also drunk and high (LSD is a hallucinogenic drug).
OP's bf was essentially SA'd by the woman, but feels like he cheated because he participated (unknowing it wasn't his GF) and it turns out the woman left the next morning because she felt as if she had SA'd him and panicked.
All around, shows why you shouldn't take drugs, and if you do, have at least ONE sober person per three impared people.
The story about the friend group taking acid for the first time:
You took a hallucinogen never experienced before, got drunk, and left your boyfriend with someone who was equally high and drunk.
The actual f*** did you think was going to happen?
where's John Wick when you need him??
I’m wondering the same thing
That dog story really needs another update. If op ever does, I hope r/slash posts it.
And with the last story, I was thinking that op would say that the friend she hung out with started to have feelings for her. I didn't expect what actually happened.
The Acid Story - There were updates after OP read comments saying that the Beef was technically SA’d. Apparently the other girl thought Beef was actually HER boyfriend, and it turned out to be one huge misunderstanding. Both couples are okay, getting therapy, and have mutually agreed Acid is not for them (or at least, not with other things, too).
My favorite channel to listen too in the background for 5 minutes, then get distracted and not listen for a bit, just to come back to the middle of the craziest story
Story 1: Dog dies. Both sons vomit blood... I would like to quote Ian Fleming here: "Once is happenstance. Twice is coincidence. Three times is enemy action”
Oh man I remember my first and only "trip".. I had the time of my life! I had a great conversation with Charmin toilet paper and a purple "fuzzy wuzzy!" 😂😂That was 9hrs of hilarity! We watched the minds eye as well!! Absolutely awesome.. Yes, I believe the boyfriend didn't know.. It would take a bit to get passed but I absolutely believe the boyfriend.. My boyfriend at the time was the purple fuzzy wuzzy 😂😂
There was another update on the acid cheating story, I think the girl said she thought it was her BFs tent so they both thought it was their SO. I think they ended up working it out
i don't even need to hear the dog story, the ex husband should mysteriously dissappear
If they live in NJ, it’s easy and it’s called The Pinelands.
Imagine being crackheads and then complaining that an extremly high person cheat on you
thank you for keeping your opinions unedited! In the last story, personally I wouldnt block the friend and move on after explaining but I'd instead meetup with the friend and let them know what you've been told so she can be on the same page.
There's a couple of updates for the story about the people that did, and basically it came out that OP's bf was telling the truth and he didn't cheat. They suspected that the girl took advantage of OP's boyfriend in his vulnerable state, but that wasn't the case either.
Basically, they did drugs, made the midtake of mixing alcohol with acid and not having a sober friend.
Hello from the UK! It’s 2pm here and I’ve just having lunch whilst watching Rslash!
It's 6:40 in India rn. I wonder what it is in America.
3PM in Germany!
About the acid story: an accident is defined as something that can't be prevented, so, in reality, the history is more like consequences from doing something dumb.
Also, OP should be grateful that the only thing that happened was cheating. Acid is a drug that makes anyone unpredictable. People had killed, rape, and committed suicide when under the effects of acid.
I had a friend who drowned himself on a beach, while on acid, because a monster was chasing him.
So OP and all the people involved should take responsibility for their actions, be grateful that nothing fatal happen, and move on with their lives.
The boyfriend got SA…
Story 3: OP openly admits to the fact that she could hear a singer's voice while on drugs, yet couldn't think that the BF who couldn't even walk wasn't fully aware of whats going on. She really needs to rethink that if she thought she could imagine the whole thing, maybe he could hallucinate his GF climbing on top of him and not realize it's a different girl. Plus the girl was ALSO on Acid and Alcohol, which is NOT a good mix from what I've heard.
Basically, I doubt that aware the level they would trip, nor able consent to sex. And while I usually follow the rule of "You took the drug, so what you did while under it is on you." this is one of the rare exceptions.
Story 4 has 1 or 2 updates. BF legit had no idea it wasn't OP. He felt really awful when he realised what happened. It was cheating, but from the BF POV's he didn't know it until he was told.
Final Story: OP should ghost her immediately. And if you want to still communicate, do it only via text and never meet without witnesses or a camera.
Most times i enjoy the storys but story 1 was just too 😢
I hope that everyone is having a good Monday!
Idk about the others, but I was
Then I heard story 1 and now I’m just mad
Story 1: If you suspect someone is neglectful of a pet... call the SPCA IMMEDIATELY! And start a file on them. I'm pretty sure you can start the inquiry anonymously. Definitely massive red flags! How can someone have no worries about something killing their dog and getting the kids sick not care?!
The boyfriends mistake in story 3 is honestly reasonable on LSD. That's why you bring a trip sitter the first time you do psychedelics
For the acid story i would make a rule completely forbidding them from every being around them/talking to them (within reason) if they want to stay with me.
The acid story: I don't think it was an accident. I think he was taken advantage off. He was tripping, he most likely genuinely believed he was with his girlfriend. This is sexual assault territory.
Thank you for saying it how it is as a lot of people have been ignoring it’s SA
For story 1, I hope the mother is able to keep her kids from being able to go to their neglectful dad's house one way or another. There is no way the dog's death was an accident. And all three kids puking up blood and the father not doing anything about it is not right at all. And CPS needs to get a wake up call and actually do their job.
Neglecting and ignoring a dog is murdering the dog. Come on. I’d go to court with a lawyer and see about full custody. Your ex and his wife are monsters
I thought rslash was going in a different direction when he started with the "don't attribute malice" bs
Ex in story 1: mistreats dog.
John Wick: peace was never an option.
As someone who ate an edible and started to forget I was walking and thought I teleported and that my phone was growing and time wasn't working, it's likely the acid did make him think the other girl was OP. Should this be a deal breaker? That's on OP like one commenter said.
Story 3 is the finest example of why you don't mix drugs. Just don't.
The gal whose group of friends took acid, I agree that it is most likely an accident. In my wild and reckless youth, I experimented with drugs, and quickly learned I hated the affects and never did them again. When I took acid at a nightclub, I had a black out. I woke up almost two days later, over 300 miles away in bed with a 55 year old woman, I was 21. Thankfully, she was a wonderful lady who had realized I wasn't in great shape after the acid, and not wanting to leave me alone at the club, took me to her house. I lost contact with her after I turned 40, but she turned out to be a good friend. Acid can not only give someone hallucinations, it can cause blackouts for up to 48 hours. So, while it did happen, I don't think OP should dump him for it just yet. She should talk to the other girl, because her side could bring a lot of clarity.
the false accusation part was a plot twist. I was expecting the friend to have said her and OP were dating or something but that took a whole other turn.
I have heard so many terrible stories of people using pets as leverage in divorce. It’s awful.
They then just go an euthanise.
This was murder via neglect. Awful humans.
The first story reminds me of something my own dad did when I was a kid (warning for child/animal abuse) ...
He intentionally killed our birds by opening our bedroom windows during a terrible storm in the middle of winter. We know this was meant to kill our birds because their cage was situated right in front of the windows and our bedroom windows were the only ones in the house that he opened. It ended up getting my sister and I extremely sick as well. One of the birds froze to death the next day, while the other survived, but suffered complications and died shortly afterwards. I was absolutely devastated.
I'm pretty sure he killed them because he thought they were "annoying" since they whistled a lot. I also remember that every time my sister and I would close our bedroom windows, he'd come back in throughout the night to open them again as wide as he could, and if we protested, he could get violent with us as well to the point where I got too scared to even leave my bed.
My dad died a couple years ago during the pandemic. I don't miss him.
That said, I'm pretty sure the father in the Reddit story absolutely killed that dog on purpose and out of spite, and did not care that he ended up hurting his own kids in the process - the same as my dad did with our birds.
While Hanlon's Razor does say "don't attribute to malice what can be explained by incompetence" but the corollary is “any sufficiently advanced incompetence is indistinguishable from malice.” As someone who ran a shelter overflow from his home in highschool, what the people in story one did is, in fact, malice.
No shit dropping acid alone in the woods without a trip sitter was a bad idea.
Doing drugs safety is better than unsafly, and people will always do drugs so let them be informed and prepared.
Always have an experienced person with you who is sober, dont do drugs with anyone you dont trust.
I will never forgive my mom's ex for this: Years ago we had a dog, and I'm pretty sure similar to a lot of other things that he did that he intentionally let her loose while we were gone over 'it being an accident". HE KNEW THE FUCKING DOG WOULD RUN IF YOU LEFT THE DOOR OPEN AND HE DID JUST THAT WITHOUT PUTTING HER UP BEFORE LEAVING THE DOOR OPEN. So she of course ran, and he "tried" to catch her, again I think he's full of shit given where she was found was in a nearby place which isn't too far fetched, yet given how dogs behave that would have been too far for her. She was found by my aunt and uncle on the mountain they live on, she came to them and I 100% still think the truth is he drove her there and abandoned her, never will know the truth though. In which things were fine for two weeks, until she randomly died without warning, the current theory is that she ingested something while she was on the mountain, I doubt he did anything to her given we were gone for the week. In which she was placed in a trash bag, and afterschool I had no idea that she was dead until the fucking asshole drove me to my aunt and uncles house to bury her. I was given a shovel and told to start digging, he didn't even tell me initially why or what was in the bag until I asked, in which I never got to say goodbye, and he didn't help at all either and forced me to do all the work because "it's not my dog". The even worse part after was I couldn't even grieve, I wasn't shown any sort of sympathy or compassion for what had just happened from my mother, I was told to "get over it, it's just a dog", this was when he had is claws deep into her, she's a lot better now. I also still remember when he "accidentally" let our terminally ill cat out because "he forgot that she isn't allowed to go out anymore", he didn't try to search for her either or bring her back when he let her out, she was deaf, blind and had a severe thyroid issue. We never found her, I hope she passed peacefully, but I know what he did was intentional given its far too convent that he did this to two pets that he had no investment in. We currently have a dog that he and my mom got when they were together that he takes care of from time to time.
Do not let love blind you, I dealt with this monster for years, and I still am given I'm a "failure" in his eyes, along with he wanted me gone from the day he even started seeing my mom so all her attention would be on him. He bullied me, harassed me, and at times induced panic attacks due to how he acted towards and treated me. Along with listen to your child, along with boys and men, I'm a man, given we aren't made of an inflexible material like a lot assume we are, and we go through the SAME damage as everyone else does physically and mentally speaking. Given if your kid is saying that this person is doing something that's upsetting them or hurting them, they mean it, and you need to take it seriously and due your own investigation into what's going on and resolve it. Over letting the abuse continue, and forcing them to suffer without any way out, other than suicide or lashing out in a very severe fashion against other people.
My ex never spent his own money on gifts for our kids. After we split, he would ask his parents for money for the kids birthdays & Christmases, then pass the gifts off as being from him. Sometimes he would keep all the money & tell the kids that he was too poor to buy them anything because of how much child support he had to pay me (a whopping $300 a month). His parents told him that the gifts needed to stay with the kids, but he refused. One year the kids grandpa bought them a $700 children's car. Not only did he keep it at his apartment, he only let them ride it 3 times in 2 years. Then he became homeless & "put it in storage" (asking a friend to store it) instead of giving it to me for the kids to use, even though I had stable housing. He then started crashing at that friend's house, and kept bribing the kids with "if you come visit me, you can drive the car" but never once let them. He is sadistic & enjoys hurting others, even his own kids, but especially me (how dare I leave after he threatened to un-alive me multiple times). Seeing the hurt on their faces literally made him giddy. The dad in the first story sounds like he's one of those.
Dog mystery: sometimes in these stories I’m really shocked and concerned that the OPs haven’t called the police yet. The dogs death was already suspicious even before the kids got unwell and even going by the neglect that’s animal abuse and they still killed the dog!