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Hey, TikTok fam! Get ready to dive into the jaw-dropping world of wedding drama that's been brewing on the app! It's your girl, Charlotte Dobre, and I'm here to spill all the tea on the most scandalous moments that have taken the wedding TikTok community by storm. Buckle up, because this is going to be a wild ride!
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My close friend said she didn’t want to be my bridesmaid, she wanted to be my “brick thrower” or the person to throw bricks at the people who talked sh*t about me and throws red wine filled water balloons on people who wear white to my wedding. I’m still close with her and I love her dearly, a true best friend.
Edit: she was kidding about the bricks, but not the wine water balloons.
If I ever get married, I will be giving someone a super soaker filled with red wine 🍷 to guard the door 😂
Savage
Love it😂
LOVE this!! That sounds like my best friend and I relationship!! Even after almost 15 years she is my absolute BEST friend in the world. Glad you have that in your life!! We ALL NEED a friend like THAT. Best wishes to you and yours!!💖
I would probably get a fan with a mister filled with rit dye.
As a woman who wears modest clothes for religious reasons, I find this 'leave nothing to imagination' phrase so weird. I don't cover up to give something to your imagination to play with. In fact, kindly leave me out of your imagination altogether please and thank you. If you think someone's dressed immodestly, you always have a great option of not looking at them instead of shaming them.
Agreed! A women’s body is not something you need to be imagining, most religions I have encountered call that a sin of the mind, its improper thoughts. Modesty for a religious purpose has always been presented to me as part of one’s relationship with their higher power/creator. Every time I see or have an opinion on this matter, somehow it gets turned to involve the male gaze or the female judgment, but it has nothing to do with anyone but the individual, their religion, and maybe their loved ones.
yeah, I'm not religious but I agree that's such a gross phrase, like way to sexualize women whether they cover up or not, you really can't win sometimes.
Exactly! I’m Christian and we usually wear according to the occasion, but how would it make any sense to cover every single inch of my body to make a man feel some type of way?? Make it make sense! For the gym I usually do shorts (average short length) or leggings and an oversized t-shirt, meanwhile most girls wear tiny micro shorts and a tiny workout bras . Does that lady really think the gym dudes would be looking at me like “hmmm, I wonder what she looks like under all that fabric!!”? There could be weird men like this, but at my gym they are very respectful towards the ladies with tinier clothes (so I really can’t imagine them ever thinking I want to leave something for their “imagination” by wearing “too much clothing”)! 😂
Spoken like a true queen!
Yes! There is a thick layer of objetification in that phrase, I hate It so much. I also hate the modest trend too. I was created in a religious background and to this day I'm not fond of low clevages and tiny skirts but this never ocurred to me as something like a duty, I just wear what I like. People should be able to dress the way they want to either for religious reasons or not.
And a little bit off topic, people who dress "modestly" inside religious communities often face backlash when dressing differently but the opposite also happens, I cannot count the ammount of times people tried to push me to wear a bikini when I'm really confortable with my full piece bathing suit.
If the bride didn't even notice that someone else wore white, that means she was sure that it's her day and nobody could steal it even if they tried. She was content and happy, and she didn't need to search for drama. And now she has a fun story to tell😂😂😂
It’s because of this channel that I texted one of my best friends from college to apologize about wearing white to her wedding, because I literally had NO IDEA about this rule. She laughed and told me she didn’t care, and she didn’t notice. She said I should know her better than that. So happy no one at her wedding made an example of my ignorance. We are not all doing it on purpose!
I wore white dress to my best friend wedding too! But, it was my one and only dress, and it's color was more off-white, kinda gray. When she saw me, she politely comlimented me, but said it was not 'official enough, I want you to shine', opened her wardrobe and gave me like 5 more choices what I can wear (we were the same size). So I ended up in a super beautiful red dress I chose, and not white-gray sports-style dress I wore because it was all I had. And only five years later I heard about not wearing white to the wedding. Bestest of best friends I had there.
In my culture, it Red and Black also. Screw that. The bride will be the BEST looking person anyway, so it's okay.
The people featured in Charlotte's videos do. So there's that.
@elrennot thats so sweet of her. Glad to know you have people like that in your life!
@@debbysouthworth5606The person with the wine drizzled dress may not have known that rule. It really depends on their culture and socialization.
I wore white to a wedding once, and my friend mom was belittling me the whole drive there. Until we got there and she was comfused because everyone's wearing white. Turns out, she never actually read the wedding invitations that requests everyone to wear white
The bride and groom both are wearing black.
Awesome. I hate wearing white/pale clothes so would probs do something similar if I had a big ceremony. 😄
That's awesome!
I know I'll never get married (bf not interested), but that's exactly how I'd want mine to be. Everyone in white/very pale colours and I get to rock a beautiful black wedding dress!
You're all invited to my goth wedding. Come dressed in black.
I'll be in Burgundy
Hubby will be in Dark Blue
I Love everything about that!
My cousin's photographer edited a girl in white at her wedding to the most disgusting shade of brown possible. It was amazing. My cousin was very sad when she saw the girl in white in many pictures, so the photographer was like "i got you". And she did!
That is the utmost in caring professionalism
Baby poop brown?
Love love love this!
That's awesome, photograher said they knew the rules and I say they shall resemble their shitty actions
Bow featuring gross brown shade :D
😂 I love it!
The last one the MIL waited until the last minute so the cake artist would feel pressured by the upcoming deadline and know that she wouldn't be able to book something else in that time. So the MIL was hoping she would think some money is better than none and do the wedding at the reduced amount.
Exactly. She did it on purpose. People like that are so shameless.
MIL dont wanna she married her son.
And The fact that The son dont stand up speaks volumes that this married was setup up to fail.
I love the modest dress, and i love that she designed it herself. But there is definitely no need to be negative towards others. Slay in your lane, ladies.
My grandma had the best comeback to people who blamed their bad behaviour, mean girl crap on alcohol…. “A drunk person’s words are a sober person’s thoughts.”
Your grandma sounds wise af.
In vino veritas.
shes not the only one who says that. I think the same I always say "alcohol is the potion of truth" or serum of truth
In Charlotte’s words: “That’s what’s up!!!”
😜
Words AND actions!!
“Nowhere did I call anyone out or judge anyone.” Bestie, you just called a whole group of women ugly.
And the pretty much the designers who made these dresses.
Is a backless dress really immodest? You could have a high neck, long sleeve, backless dress. Never thought about showing back being immodest.
@Garbeaux of course! That's the very thing your future husband will see when you unenthusiasticly, mechanically and without eye contact finally advance from soaking and not go to hell for it xD
@@RajetsuKibaoh yikes. Being upset about the words this girl uses to describe others is understandable. But, mocking the beliefs of an entire religion puts you in the same boat.
I wonder what she'd think of a Betazoid naked wedding.
I wore an open back with spaghetti straps wedding dress. Many of my guests were religious and wore very modest dresses and even head coverings (think ultra-orthodox Jews). Other guests had outfits with short hems and cut-outs. The mix and variety are part of what made my wedding so special!
The girl with the jealous bridesmaid ...was the CUTEST!! The little "excuse me!" when she had a hiccup. She's adorable ❤
Agreed, and her vibe was also lovely.
No I came here to make sure someone else said this lol. I cannot get over how adorable she is.
My best friend let me know a couple of weeks ago that she is getting married and I am so excited for her! She also told me right away that even though I am her best friend, she is asking her childhood best friend to be her maid of honor. She asked me to be her planner/coordinator. You know what I did? Started planning her wedding with her. Within a couple of hours, we figured out colors, dresses, decor ideas, location, etc. It is her wedding and I am honored that she trusts me enough to literally hand me her wedding day.
You are an amazing person and a true blue best friend.
This comment is one of the best I've seen on You Tube.
I give both of you credit for the open communication and then drama free.
She is fortunate to have you and vice versa.
Have a wonderful day.
Respectfully yours,
Missy
Ps unless you don't want her to know you commented on YT please tell your friend a grandma in California says congratulations and I hope her day turns out to be a best day EVER.
Have fun and dance, dance and dance some more.
@missmissy_90 Thank you, Missy. Neither one of us are drama seekers (except when I watch Charlotte 😆). We used to plan and coordinate weddings together all the time so she knows she can trust me with it. I am very excited to help with her wedding, and it will be super special since she officially beat cancer just in the last few months! ❤️
Wow that’s very kind of you to coordinate and plan a wedding for free. Those are expensive and stressful jobs, and they’re expensive for a reason!
My sister was my MOH but my best friend helped put my wedding together. When people care about you they aren't going to make the situation about them and their hurt feelings
You are a good friend
My mom used to have a dress shop. Due to scandalous bridal dresses, the church here prohibited plunging necklines, backless, etc. So what my Mom did, she designed with either bolero, or detouchable top or collar but after the ceremony, we take it off for the photo op and reception 😂 my mom always say "you wont be thin forever, show it off now."
What an awesome idea sounds your mom was awesome
Well, I love moderst dresses. But I still think your Mother did great there! That is how a real profesional works!
Love your Mom❤❤❤❤
I wasn't thin but I showed off anyway!
@@cozeydazeYou had something to show, some nice curve 💅
The ONLY time a wedding guest should wear white is if it’s part of the dress code ON THE INVITATION. When my aunt got married she initially was gonna wear a white dress but fell in love with a gorgeous red gown that looked stunning on her. So she wore that dress and the groom wore a tuxedo with a red vest and bow tie, and the guest dress code was “black and white.” I myself wore a really cute dress that was white with black mixed patterns. But yeah, I would NEVER wear that dress to a wedding again unless there was a similar dress code.
I make custom cakes. It’s not cheap to make, nor does it takes minutes to make.. it takes HOURS to bake, prep and decorate… and then they ask for you to deliver it. ❤
This has been making the rounds of Social media. There is photo of Charles and Diana during their wedding and in the crowd you can see Camilla dressed in white including a large white hat. Fast forward 30 years to the wedding of Charles and Camilla. Queen Elizabeth did not attend but there is a photo of her greeting afterwards. Her majesty is wearing a white dress that is almost identical to the one Camilla wore at Diana’s wedding including an almost identical big white hat.
😂😂😂😂 And no one is spilling wine on the Queen 😂😂😂😂 But Camilla was wearing pale blue instead, so supposedly it was so the Queen didn't clash with her.
Baller move, your Majesty. They don't make 'em like you anymore. RIP.
Wrong. Camilla was wearing grey, but it looked white due to the technology at the time (1981 cameras!) and the late Queen wore pale yellow to Charles' second wedding (and Camilla herself didn't even wear white either).
It's the expression on Elizabeth's face that says it all.😂 She knew what she was doing
@@kathydurow6814 legally, NO ONE can wear the same color as the queen at ANY event. This means Camilla HAD to wear a different color than white. And the Queen's outfit color was announced in advance so no one accidentally broke the rule.
There was this one girl in one of my college classes who came in one fuming! Like slamming books down on the desk and almost yelling at anyone who asked her what was wrong. The reason? Her sister was getting married and that morning her sister told her that she was going to have her best friend as the Maid of Honor. Girl was pissed that she wasn't going to be the MOH and was only going to be a "lowly bride's maid." Few weeks go by, and she starts ranting about being kicked out of the wedding party. Another week goes by and she's completely uninvited. Gee, I wonder why....
Obviously because her sister hated her...
Edit: Typo
@@aralornwolf3140 And it was painfully obvious why her sister didn't like her. A lot of people in class didn't care for her either for the same reason.
@@tigerdragon1982,
I was being sarcastic but... Yeah. With such an attitude... I hope you are never forced to do a group project with her, lol.
@@aralornwolf3140 It was years ago, before TikTok was a thing, and thank god there were no group projects in that class, lol.
Honestly I am very close to my sister but still she chose her two besties as MOH , and it's fine I guess sometimes it more exciting hanging out with ur friends than ur family , ur besties have different attitudes than ur siblings may have
When my ex and I were getting married, the catering company canceled 4 days before the wedding. He said he got a higher-paying gig so he had to cancel ours. It was absolute chaos.
Wtf😮
If you signed a contract for the service you should have some legal recourse for being left high and dry at the last minute!!!
I get ya cake lady! As a florist, been there done that. Fired a few brides in my day. The reason the prices goes up for weddings…a million emails, phone calls, changes and this type of BS.
My first time commenting… I have 3 daughters. When they were in their teens, they agreed that they would not be MOHs at each others’ weddings. They didn’t want to have to be in the position of selecting a MOH between the two sisters. They’re all married now, and they all served as bridesmaids. They all selected their closest friend as their MOH. Charlotte, I LOVE your videos! I have been binge watching these past few weeks. I’m hooked! I even recommended you to my adult granddaughters (24 & 19). I figured that they could learn some life lessons from you. 😉☺️😃
I have six sisters. None but my oldest sister wanted to be mine. I’m glad she wanted to though. Because between my friends group, it would be oh so hard. There’s six of us, all brought together through me. It would be so rude to all of my friends if I chose one of them. So I lucked out
You're so sweet 🫂 ❤
I've never been married. I don't have any sisters. ALL my childhood and adult best friends ONLY have sisters, and there is quite an age difference between them (like 7-9 years). They are sisters but not close friends, if that makes sense. All of my friends have had their sisters as their MOH, and I've never felt any way about that. That's family! I'm here for the best friend insight for the girls celebrations! I love how your girls agreed to this to take the petty feelings out of this!
My husband and I chose the couple without whom we would have never met.
We have a thing called Trauzeuge for weddings in our country, they litterly sign on the marriage paperwork.
My cousins worked it out ahead of time when they were young, they would each be maid of honor at one of the other's wedding, so they all got to be maid of honor for one of their sisters.
The bride that didn't notice another woman wearing white at her wedding, she comes from a family of people who LIVE in the shadows, they didn't even tell the bride 😂❤❤❤
Probably because they didn’t want her to have that thought in the back of her mind the entire time. It’s her and her (now) husband’s day and they should be focused on each other. Leave the mild annoyances to the family, they got your back 😁
I had a modest wedding dress and an immodest reception dress. I had a great time and loved both of my dresses.
That's a great idea!
I was with a mommas boy who constantly told me I wasn’t good enough for my partner cause I have bipolar 1 disorder, eventually he caved and broke up with me. It ruined me. I loved him so much that my heart has never been the same. It’s been 13 years and after A-LOT I’m just starting to get over it and understand it wasn’t my fault. I’m now 43 and I’ve chosen to stay single and help look after my parents with their aging health problems and my heart has never felt lighter.
I'm so very sorry!!!
You did not deserve that.
You are worthy of so very much better. ❤
That's vile, what was done to you.
Though I can promise you, that you are probably better off without the "man" who refused to stand up for you.
That kind of attitude & behavior rarely changes after marriage, unfortunately.
As I know far too well.
You need a partner who is *_~ON YOUR SIDE~_*
FIRST, FOREMOST, & ALWAYS.
Mama's boy children will never be decent _HUSBANDS, & FATHERS,_
as they are expected to be THEIR _MOMMY'S HUSBAND,_ FIRST, FOREMOST, FRONT & CENTER.
MOMMIES LIKE THAT NEVER ALLOW THE "OTHER WOMAN" to WIN.
I wish you a good, kind, decent fully-SINGLE man, someday,
if you still may want a partner (& a male partner).
It is a véry worthy pursuit--
looking after your parents, & your elders.
God bless you, your parents, your family, & your future. ❤
Your ex and his mother deserve each other. You deserve love and a real man to stick up for you and be your support. I hope you don’t give up on true love ❤
@@redwoodrebelgirl3010 Thank you, you’re so kind ❤️
@@redwoodrebelgirl3010 wow your comment made me feel so special and validated my feelings I really appreciate you, take care 💓
@@jenniferbate-mz3yl
Awww. 💗
Thank you.
You are very kind. ❤️
You deserve to feel validated & special.
You are BOTH of those things. ❤️
You are clearly a very special, beautiful person.
You deserve Joy, happiness, & peace.
I went to a wedding once where the bride spent the entire wedding budget on a designer dress and an ice scupture. There was no food and only champagne. My friend and I paid a waiter to sneak into the country club bar and get us Diet Cokes because we were nursing and couldn't drink. It was a very odd night, but the dress was amazing!
Poor planner, she had different priorities
Terrible host manners. Can't believe they didn't have water or other non-alcoholic beverages available. And if I expect guests to bring a gift, at least I'd feed them.
That is just...no, lol.
@@gloriaalex11I can't believe the venue allowed that. At least have a cash bar, within alcoholic drinks available.
Not the ice sculpture, that takes the cake! (Literally!) 😂
To many people worry about the wedding and not the marriage. It’s sad how much drama can go on over one day.
So true. My niece’s MIL insisted on catering the reception herself. It was pretty much a disaster. I’ll spare you the details of the actual meal. I sat with my favourite Uncle and we just laughed our way through it. She apparently didn’t understand about cake supports because the wedding cake looked like it was about to slide off the back of the table it was on. We laughed about that too. It didn’t affect their marriage at all although I think her MIL does tend to want to be a bit interfering. Still, Brides get waaay too invested in all the fancy details and some irrational need for perfection. The prize is the actual wedding, the mate you’re swearing your future to, it’s better to relax and keep a sense of humour.
The more super elaborate weddings I see on the internet and bad things happening at weddings makes getting married in nature more and more appealing
I got married at a rustic lakeside resort, with a ‘wear western if you feel like it’ theme. Combined it with a family reunion so lots of people came. Barbecue, standard sides, and a Costco sheet cake. Lots of fun, still together 30 years later. Would recommend.
It was both of our 2nd marriage and we had kids so no money. We got married at the courthouse on our day off and it's been 42 years. We're blessed with 4 sons, his, mine and ours. Plus 15 grandkids and our 1st great grandbaby girl is due in 3 weeks. Marriage is more important than a damn wedding.
@@AngieHux I also like what my cousin and her now ex did. They were in the military stationed in Texas while her family is here in Minnesota. They had a courthouse wedding and had a big first anniversary party here when they moved
I gasped outloud at the last cake story. RUN BRIDE RUN!!!!!
That wedding dessert tale was gripping!! I book corporate events and you MUST pay your vendors if you want your event to be a success!!! And it’s hard to execute everything on your own - that’s why we have vendors.
That mother-in-law in the second story! She not only showed no respect for the cake-maker, she also showed no respect for her future daughter-in-law. She did whatever she was able to do to embarrass the couple at their wedding. The cake-maker was so kind and sweet to help out the bride as much as she was able to. That poor bride! So glad she divorced her weak-ass husband. I’m sure MIL had her part in that as well.
I'm a bridesmaid in a wedding that's coming later this year and THE ONLY REASON is because the bride knows that I'm the friend who will throw red wine on someone for wearing white to her wedding. She told me that this is my only job as a bridesmaid so that her maid of honor can be the "good guy" and ask the offender to leave, and i can be the "bad guy" with the wine if they fail to do so.
I’d rather have the job without having to buy a new dress but I like it.
You can be some sort of undercover bridesmaid, no need to dress like a bridesmaid, your only duty is spill the red wine... 007 bridesmaid licence to spill
Perhaps send in The Good Guy first, to ask said idiot to go change, and Good MOH will gently whisper "Or the alternative is to wear red wine all over the back of your skirt - with no more warning"....
Your bouquet is made entirely of those joke squirt flowers, filled with merlot
@@lucabaroni7715, "007 license to spill" 😂 Genius!
The whole red wine concept is incredible but hear me out MUSTARD 😂
I strongly believe now, Wedding, Funeral and Reunion are nothing but an event to understand actual human behavior and how people feel about you.
Love your content Charlotte! Keep going ❤
The bride in the last video should have called off the wedding as soon the mother-in-law started bickering about the cake cost . It would have saved her the pain of the divorce and the embarrassment of a wedding . Also , Charlotte saying "that's a plot twist" with the same expression as "Clutching my pearls" . 😂
She might have gotten assets from the divorce. Maybe the bride wasn't stupid at all. 😉
I agree. I know the cake artist suffered because of the MIL but she wasn't the one MIL was trying to hurt. She was saying her soon-to-be DIL wasn't worth it. It was a huge red flag that the groom wasn't dealing with his mother. The bride either missed it or hoped it would get resolved after the wedding. Spoiler Alert: If you don't take care of the problem before the wedding, it only gets worse from there.
I'm so glad that in my culture, we don't have to deal with this "don't wear white at a wedding" stuff, some people will even come wearing their actual sari they got married in to other people's weddings and they'll still never even hope of outshining the bride. In my culture, weddings are for everyone to look good and celebrate the couple together, without being too finnicky about the colour of clothes that people wear- even non-brides can wear the same shade of red the bride's wedding sari will usually be. I enjoy seeing all the guests dressed to the nines at weddings and sharing makeup and bindi and helping each other with pins and fixing each other's hair. One of my favourite parts of Indian weddings is seeing what everyone is wearing tbh. Also the food. And the opportunity to catch up with family and friends while being dressed in your best and most beautiful outfits- makes me feel like a princess at a royal event lol
Films I’ve seen of Indian weddings look so joyous
Ikr ! People genuinely having fun at the wedding. One of my college bestie was hitched 2 years back and it was the coolest thing ever! Everyone including me wore colorful, blingy and beautiful saris, jewelleries. Had our hair done and had an amazing ceremony! 👏 Everyone was happy around us and nobody 'outshined' the bride. It was her day and she was happy ❤ Nothing else mattered! ❤
Not an Indian but I'm glad I don't have to deal with other people's cultures either.
Most people prefer their own.
That's really nice! Before Queen Victoria started the trend about 120 or so years ago, people here just wore the nicest dress they had to their wedding (or had a dress made which after the wedding just was their nicest dress in the closet). Much more sustainable than spending thousands of $ or € or whatever on a dress that is only worn for a few hours.
What are you talking about. All the woman and aunties who come looking like a gold shop trying to out do the bride definitely get side eyes from us. Maybe it's just a younger gen thing
Ppl forget being MOH is actually hard work they won’t be enjoying the wedding as much as the other bridesmaids and wedding guests. You have to literally be by the brides side at all times and ‘manage’ things so everything is picture perfect and as smooth as possible. Sometimes MOH does not mean you’re the best friend No1, but the friend that can handle the situation the best and can work well under pressure and not everyone is willing to do/ or be suitable for that role. Choose your MOH wisely 💕 ✨
I’ve known my SIL since I was 3, we’ve always been close and she’s been my family for as long as I can remember. My cousin is really like my big brother, so we three have always been fairly close-knit. I was one of her bridesmaids for their wedding in 2015, along with her three sisters and a few friends I’ve also known for years. My SIL’ MOH was her best friend that she’s known since high school. Her sisters understood, obv you can’t pick only one when there are three sisters, and everyone has always been close with everyone. My feelings weren’t hurt or anything, I honestly was just happy to be included in the wedding party. They’ve been together since 2006, just celebrated their 8th anniversary in October, and had my two nephews birthday in December 😊 (the moh is still around, has her own kids the same age as my nephews, and even moved in across the street from my SIL. We absolutely love them:))
The first story is wild to me. My best guy friend was getting married and his fiancé and I were instantly best friends. She had two besties from her hometown and she told me she didn’t know who she should pick as her MOH. She told me she felt like I should be it because we were so close. I was absolutely flattered and would have been so happy to do it, but told her to pick one of the other two girls because she had grown up with them. I think we need to remember that we don’t get to dictate or be angry with the decisions the bride and groom make. We are there to show our love and support and to celebrate the newly married couple. ❤
You are a true friend
@@ellemmenn2930 Thank you!
LOVE THIS. Great advice! You definitely are a wonderful TRUE friend. They are lucky to have you!! Best wishes to you ALL!!💖
@@ellemmenn2930That’s nice of you😊 who did she end up choosing in the end ?
@@wartanabadanooh7157 She chose the one who she had known the longest (I think she met one in elementary school and the other when she was a little older). She said they practically lived at one another’s houses growing up.
Spilling shot glasses was probably the greatest party game during that reception 😂😂😂
IT Sound so funny
The young lady that was bullied is so so pretty, maybe jealousy had something to do with the bullying. Enjoy your life with your husband. You are beautiful.
Okay, the adorable girl talking about the men girls bridesmaid while playing with her food with a plastic fork and her fingers while never showing taking a bite is absolutely sending me over the edge.
As an artist, it so upsetting to see how people undervalue our skills and refuse to pay what we’re worth or even be respectful 🤬
Yeah I hate it, it takes years of invisible work to build your repertoire and improve your skills, if you can't afford it stop being rude and wasting the artist's time... You could get them to lower the price but don't expect it, there was this one guy in my uni that made great portraits, I wanted to gift a friend of mine a drawing of us 2 together in our first day at uni, but when I asked for the prices I saw it was outside of my budget, I clearly deflated and the artist was like "how much can you pay" I said to nevermind cus I didn't want to take advantage but he was so kind and was like "ok what If instead of my normal drawings I make something simpler... I could charge x instead " I was so happy cus that was something I could afford, it was a great deal and the final product was beautiful.
Yeah, but don't forget: We get EXPOSURE!!
(Please note: That's sarcasm."
In Germany, we don't have bridesmaids, a MOH, or a best man - and that's good, looking at all the drama presented on this channel.
My MIL made my wedding cake herself: a three-tiered sponge cake with jam and buttercream filling. She had a little help from her aunt and me with decorating. It was gorgeous and it tasted like heaven. Our marriage lasted until my husband passed away. And my MIL was the best MIL you can imagine.
You always marry the family not only the spouse. Keep this always in the back of your head.
Sorry for your loss🙏🏼
iN gERmAnY- whatever, good for you.
However, it doesn't always go poorly having Maids and Men of Honor in a wedding party. Plenty work out just fine every day. You can't judge traditions by Reddit posts intended to share drama.
@vocexseta interesting since the weddings I went to in Germany, they did have a bridal party. My best friend, who is German, her son just got married and they had brides maids and groomsmen.
@@My3gifts It would be interesting to know where in Germany that wedding took place and the background of the families. There may be other traditions in other parts of the country and families with different nackgrounds - or movies and tv influenced the couple to have an "English" (tradition in English speaking countries) wedding.
I'm from the southwest of Germany and both our families have protestant backgrounds and no migration history, We had 2 "Trauzeugen" (both male, but you can choose whoever you want) for the civil ceremony (mandatory) at the town registry (Standesamt). The church ceremony was the same as every one I attended before or after. No one beside my husband and me walking down the aisle together.
@@vocexseta Are you Alright? She wasn't criticizing.
The majority of cultures around the world do not have the concept of bridesmaids, MOH, and best man, even though best friends and close family members still play important roles in the ceremony. While “iT doEsn't alWayS Go pooRly haVing mAids and mEn of hoNor in a weDding Party,” it is still a very expensive and wasteful 'tradition' that brings a lot of drama, instead of allowing the bride and groom to enjoy their special day with their loved ones. But to each their own 👍
If you are having a wedding for 400 ppl and don’t have $1200 you don’t need to be getting married in a huge way! That’s insane!
10/10 MIL was pushing for a huge wedding
One of my besties that lives in England is getting married to her long term bf and I’m so happy for them 😭 I wish I could get over there but she knows I’ll be there for her in spirit!! That’s how friendships should be.
I didn’t even technically get an invite but it’s not the first friend I haven’t been invited to their wedding cause they were keeping it small and mostly family which is totally understandable ❤
Their day is their day, I’m just happy they found their person x
Lol i work at a home decor store and people really do come in, look at an item, and go "I like the item but not that price. What can you do for me?" Bish this ain't a flea market. If you don't like the price than leave.
I've worked in a restaurant and people would also bargain there! How impolite!
My sister (and MOH) told me about how she had to straight up shut down my mom and grandma while dress shopping. Apparently, neither of them thought there was anything wrong with wearing white to my wedding
Your wedding videos have literally been the highlight for me the last couple of months. I’m in the process of planning my wedding and these videos are my go tos every day.
The white dress one. My daughter and I have joked about this multiple times. Being hired out for weddings, and anyone that shows up in white, we'll pour all the red wine on it you want. 🍷🍷🍷🍷
IF I ever get married again, I'm gonna request that ALL of my guests wear their wedding dress or whatever dress made them feel the most confidant & stunning, in their whole lives. Men too, will _need_ to feel like they're SO good looking & great feeling that their _very presence_ might set the room on fire! This is the very bestest thing about 2nd marriages, getting to starting some wonderful & super fun traditions. Love life, we only get one! 💕
Ah ........ refreshing 🍃🍃🍃
@@ach13ng The 2nd time round we can do all the crazy stuff that we wish we'd thought of for the 1st wedding.
That is so amazing!
That's a wonderful idea 😃
I love this. Give them a chance to wear it again
I was bridesmaid for my bestie. She had a small wedding so I was the only bridesmaid. All her other g/friends double downed on me, saying I was only bridesmaid because bride felt sorry for me for losing my partner 5 months
The fact I had been there to help her organised the wedding, helped her pick her dress and looked after her 3 kids while she was away on her honeymoon ment nothing to them. They did nothing.
Wow, her other friends are trash, it's no accident she picked you as her MOH, lol, you are an *awesome* friend!
As Christian who wants to be married, I would NEVER say anything like that, God gave us free will and even if I don't like something doesn't mean I can force anyone else.
1th story all I could focus was her using her hand to push the food into the fork and girl, just get a spon 😂😂
Aw, the southern bride with the mean girls that talked shit behind her back…. Is STUNNING!! So gorgeous! And I love her southern accent!
They're clearly jealous of her. Too bad for them! That girl is sweet and beautiful.
Yeah! I could barely pay attention to the story as she was incredibly gorgeous 😍mind that I have had a stressful day and am nursing 😅
About the prices for weddings skyrocketing, recently there was a case about this my country (Brazil), about the prices for brides being more expensive, so a woman asked for a "social makeup", that cost R$120-160, (because she was on a budget) and not a bridal makeup (that was R$2000+). The makeup artist saw her post and the lie, so she went out on social media, and the bride responded.
Ok, ok, sneaky bride is what I love! But what did she respond with?
@@Diridonda the bride said about the budget and that is was just a little party after signing the documents, and the makeup artist said that the mother in law (of the bride), another girl and the bride started telling a story about the makeup being for a christening and that she wasn't happy about discovering the lie and started showing the differences in her package (it was a lot of stuff hahahaha). Sorry if any mispelling
If you are embarrassed about the truth of your price gouging... don't do it. Sucks to suck.
Love this I mean she can just want social makeup for my wedding
I somehow got lost into the first girl not being able to eat while using the fork and her fingers to collect the food. 😂😂
Is anyone else questioning the contradiction of the 'modest wedding dress girl' hosting an extravagant wedding with a Bentley, etc., all while advocating for "modesty"? 🤔🙄
Also, it's disconcerting how some individuals attempt to deceive custom cake designers into providing beautifully decorated cakes without payment. A friend of mine who runs a custom cake design business had a disturbing experience when a customer, who had ordered and paid for a birthday cake, filmed herself and guests enjoying it while yelling loudly about how “awful” the cake was, during the event. Strangely, despite the alleged poor quality, everyone continued to consume the cake. When my friend requested the return of any remaining slices for verification, the customer resorted to threats and even went so far as to post the incident on Facebook to tarnish my friend's reputation. To make matters worse, one of her teenage relatives suggested violence against my friend in the comments, saying, “Let’s beat her up and steal her scarf!”
My friend didn't want any trouble and ended up refunding them the whole amount; hence, the woman basically got a good and custom-decorated cake for FREE! It's disheartening to witness the challenges custom cake designers, as hardworking small business owners, sometimes face.
And bragging about how modest she is
For my friends wedding we made titles for everyone. I was the only one married so I was the matron of honor, her sister was the maid of honor, the sister in law was the sister of honor, we had a man of honor and my personal favorite the bartender of honor.
Love that idea! No one could be upset about what they were called and it truly does honor everyone.
I recently watched a story about a couple that didn’t want to pay for a wedding venue so they wedding bombed a coffee shop in Indiana. They blocked the door and the path for customers going in and out, moved the furniture, and held an entire ceremony. They were there for like 2-3 hours and left. Did not have permission (this shop does catering events). Refused to pay anything even after the fact. It’s a crazy story.
That’s disgusting
@@KnawedOneRight. Horrible.
FWIW, I googled that because it's baffling. The bride had indeed contacted the owner of the shop but he admits he forgot to tell the manager. The owner thought the couple was just going to do paperwork or something at the coffee shop. The bride was sorry about the mixup and offered money after the whole thing even though the owner had not asked for any. 'Cause, yeah, the original version was just bewildering.
I freaking love the family who w/o being asked kept throwing red wine on her dress. That's a ride or die family. I would've given anything to be there to see her when she realizes. 😂
the girl who i considered my best friend of 17+ years didn't even tell me when her wedding date was. i found out she got married from her parents social media. her reasoning was that she was embarrassed that it was such a small wedding. I'm now living my best life without a "best friend" who thinks so little of me.
Similar thing happened to me. Best friend of like 16 years and I didn't find out she was even engaged until I got engaged and I told her! Then was talking to her about my wedding date and turns out she was having her wedding the week after me and she had no intention of inviting me
@@FloCrothat's so sad did you find out why
This first girl steady touching her fork was bothering me 😂
At least we didn’t have to watch her eat 🤮
She was playing with those noodles! Gross 😂
SAME! It kind of irritates me whenever I see a video where someone is talking and eating. Like, you are intentionally filming this video to TALK, why wouldn't you wait until after you're done to eat? Especially if you're going to sit there and mess with your food while you talk, like, put the fork down, do one or the other! Other than that she was cute, lol.
😂 Saaaaaaame!!!
Me Toooooo..yuk. Fingering food?
The baker should have added a clause to the contract that stated if payment was not received one month prior to the wedding the contract would be cancelled and the deposit would be non-refundable. If consequences are not laid out in firm language the baker will always be left without payment. It is not easy for soft hearted people to be firm but it is a skill that those who are self-employed need to learn.
Playing with her food was driving me nuts!!
Lol i literally scrolled down here to see if i were the only one getting annoyed by that shit thank god i was not the only one😂
You're right, a bridal party with picking your friend order feels very MySpace top 8
When a former housemate of mine was getting married he specifically asked me if it was okay if he asked another friend, who he had known for several years before we met and began rooming together. I appreciated that he'd asked me (and even that he had considered me) and told him that it was up to him who he chose to stand up with him so there was no problem. I was, however, a guest at the wedding and I felt so happy that he'd found love again. The wedding was beautiful, and I remained friends with both him and his bride until his unfortunate demise (through a heart attack). It was the second marriage for both of them and their families blended well, as her children were friends with his long before they (their children) worked together to get him and her together.
I got so lucky. I had an amazing mother-in- law. She even made our wedding cake and it was beautiful. Sadley, she past away to early. I miss her dearly.
In indian weddings, the brides colour varies from region to region, community to community, ritual to ritual. Most well known are dark green (esp in maharashtra and karnataka), red in large parts of the north and bengal, yellow - rather, turmeric, because it's used a lot and clothes may stain; and no one in the wedding party or the guests are expected to watch their colours! (Well, not white, as it is the colour of mourning.) There's no doubting who the bride is. And no cares if similar shades are worn.
I make custom cheesecakes. Recently I made a champagne and chocolate covered strawberry cheesecake. It cost me over $50 just for the out of season berries and champagne. So I can't imagine doing an entire dessert table plus a wedding cake and having somebody try and cheap out on something that elaborate. I would have stopped the entire process until payment was received. If not, tough bananas.
That Cheese cake sounds amazing ❤
My goodness I have 2 besties since elementary school were now 55. We weren’t even invited to each other’s weddings. Just the way things worked out. The love is there the loyalty is there. But heck no drama.
It's hella weird that y'all didn't invite each other though lmfao
I love how the first girl, Yolanda, kept picking up her tuna in her fork then setting it down over and over without ever eating anything.
The MIL absolutely did what she did on purpose. My SIL ordered roses and cake from Costco, and I went with her. It took like 30 minutes to go pick them up.
This is why im going to the courthouse. Screw EVERYONE else's happiness
S'what we did. No regrets whatsoever. Hubby said we could do whatever I wanted, big, small, elope...after starting to plan, I realized I didn't care all that much. I've always thought that "princess for a day" mentality was kind of weird anyway, lol, and would rather spend the money fixing up our house or on the honeymoon. My (large) side of the family (who lived far from us), while we were visiting a few months later, threw us a casual, fun pool party at my sister's house, with a simple cake and champagne. So nice. (Probably grateful we didn't make them all fly a thousand miles to our wedding.😂)
Everyone should do what they like, but so much stress and expense over "the perfect wedding"...is not a great way to start a marriage, IMHO. Edited to add: happily married 20 years.😊❤ Congratulations and good luck!
@maggieb4736 we haven't gotten married but we just had our 14th anniversary last week. 3 kids and alot of people cut out of my life and I'm soooo much happier than I used to be. At one point I designed a wedding dress for myself in high school, but I think it was because I saw my brother get married and I wanted something big. S I got older I realized I'd rather have a house than pay to get other people drunk for way too much money. Congratulations on your 20 years
@@Stephanie11189 , everyone should do what works for them, I guess---but sometimes I think they don't know what that is till after the fact, lol. Because I know too many people who wound up actually hating the stress and expense and wishing they'd done it differently.
And good for you cutting out the toxic people in your life. It's hard to do and I wish I'd learned sooner just how much those sorts can drag you down. No thanks, life is just too short.
My mom and her ex- husband did the same thing.
For some women they dream of a certain wedding dress since they were children. Why would any woman bring somebody else down because they want to wear backless or sleeveless or whatever. I say girls do what makes you happy it's your one and only wedding day hopefully lol so live it up sissssttaasssss!
I have always felt like Flowers, Photography, and Cake/Catering are the most justified in charging higher prices because of the nature of the deliverables. Flowers and food ingredients are EXPENSIVE without the wedding word being applied, and photographers spend HOURS shooting, and even more HOURS editing your album to look beautiful and document your day.
Wedding price gauging is definitely a thing, but those specific areas I don't believe gauge.
charlotte that blue sweater looks great with your hair 😻
Right! Redheads are always told to wear green but this blue is stunning on her.
I swear that last one was about my former mother in law!! (Except we're in Australia.) She sounds EXACTLY like her!!
BTW I'm also no longer with my husband. He left me to go live with his "Mummy"! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He's 52!
20:15 When I was a kid i would rewind this part of Aladdin over and over. It was a stim for me. I havent seen it in a while and seeing it here i was suddenly flashbacking to my childhood 😂
Maybe that is where I learned sarcasm from. Memory unlocked.
With my friend’s wedding, it was less ‘this is my best/favourite friend’ or even longest friend. It was just, ‘who has time and energy to work with me on the wedding?’ And y’know who would actually want to work on it with her. Idk, to me that seemed like the most reasonable choice
When I eventually have a wedding I think most of my buddies already know my brother is gonna be my man of honor 😂
That's cute. My best friend is straight and is a guy I've already told his wife that i want him as my maid of honour she laughed out loud saying good luck 👍 haha oh dear why do I need luck 😅
I had no idea about the white dress rule. Thankful I don’t go to weddings. Already struggle socially so weddings terrify me and I just avoid. Now I’m even more terrified 😂
99% of the rules for weddings are: do not outshine the bride.
As the bride is traditionally dressed in white do not dress in white, just like you wouldn't arrive late or go through the church to meet the groom at the altar.
If the bride decides to change things up you'll be told so (for example if a bride decided to wear red the invitation would specify not to wear red. if the bride would like all her guests to wear light blue the invitation will say so. and it should specify hat or no hat, although that has nothing to do with the bride but with whatever her mother decides to wear)
My wedding was in India. Not one person in my family came. The only person on the brides side was my husband’s auntie who flew with me and helped me out with customs and religious stuff.
It was still a wonderful experience.
My suit was royal blue and I had the ladies that came wear their bridal dresses cause they were all different shades of reds.
Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤
Good morning Nichole, you have a lovely day!
Hello petty potatoes
Coucou tata 😊😊❤
Good morning 😊
And good evening from the Netherlands ❤
I can't wait for the tea, I hope everyone is doing well
@@stefv.o.7078il est 18h00 heures 😊😊
I felt the same way about the first girl - she was so cute! 🥰 ❤
I work in charity retail and the amount of times I get 'you get this for free, it's not worth that much' and 'it's $9? I'll give you 5.' Is ridiculous. I'm always stunned into silence by these people
If its Charity retail they *do* have a point. You got that GRATIS
If I can clarify, we raise funds to help others in their darkest days. Anyone can shop in our store, example: the $5 discount a customer gets, is one less meal to a homeless person who hasn't eaten in a week. We sell goods to raise money for others less fortunate. We also do give away goods to homeless, without charge. We are a retail fund-raiser, to help the less fortunate. The more money you want to save yourself, takes away food or shelter for others less fortunate................
I make wedding cakes and they take a long time to perfect. The vendor was extremely gracious and all people think they can bake professionally. I cannot tell you how many attempt pics I get sent to me 😂😂 xx
My friend got married on my birthday and didn’t even invite me, because (and I know this to be the reason) I had gained a bunch of weight due to a medication change, and she didn’t want me to ruin her pics.
You deserve better friends
Yikes! They aren't your friend babe. Real friends don't judge. You definitely deserve good friends around you, much love ❤
@adelinewolf9300 Okay, I appreciate your thought process. However, we cannot judge the people whom we love. Real friends love each other.
@@handlenot030 one thing is critique, which can be welcomed when it comes from a good place, or asked for. Another thing is criticism which comes from a place of judgement, and "I'm better than yourself".
Not wanting someone in their wedding pics because of their weight is criticism. And therefore unwelcome and hurtful.
We need "judgement" as a concept in order to tell whether something could change for better or worse. Being judgemental is not the way to do it.
First time commenting, ever on CZcams. I just wanted to Thank You Charlotte for being such a positive influence in my life when I needed it most. I've wanted to comment for a while, but have just worked up the nerve to do so. There have been so many clips of you saying you were once a people pleaser and that we all need to stop, and in watching your petty videos, it has helped me to overcome my own people pleasing and stand up for myself more. I've not done anything assertive and petty enough to be in your videos yet, but it is something I hope to achieve someday. 😊
I wonder if the dessert vendor offered the one year anniversary cake just to see how the marriage was going lol
Whoah. You are SO much more perceptive than I am. She took me in completely; I thought she was a nice, decent person. You're like the woman who was almost my mother-in-law; you see through everybody. It's a superpower.
Our budget was $5,000... Thank you to my wonderful parents! We put in about $1000 total of our own money for other items and little things! We arent in debt and never planned on being so having our beautiful wedding. It was perfect, beautiful, elegant, backyard picturesque and couldnt have asked for better! Love you Mr. B!
I remember the guy who brought our dance floor said wow who designed all of this and put it together?? Like what company?... Me sir... My dad and i are the company 😂
As a modest girlie, we aren't supposed to be mean towards girls who don't fit our PERSONAL modest style/journey. Nope. Being modest includes having a modest/humble soul
Marriage is a beautiful union between two people who commit to love, support, and cherish each other for a lifetime. A wedding is a celebration of this commitment, bringing together family and friends to witness and celebrate the love shared by the couple as they embark on a new chapter together.
My mum has made wedding cakes since I was a toddler (I’m now….well I’ll leave it at “not young”😂) and she’s always been known as the Cake Lady. It’s a title many would aspire to, much like a Dame or OBE. ❤
I feel so seen every time you say "I love your face" and make squishing motions with your hands 😂. I've been saying that for around 15 years. My kids are so used to it that they just present their faces for squishing without being asked😂😂😂
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My husband and I went I to our wedding with the mindset that we'd pay for everything ourselves. Help was welcomed, but not expected.
Then cv happened and we ended up having it in the backyard 😂 It was still beautiful and fun and the best day of my life 💜
When picking a maid or matron of honor, it is also important to select that good friend that can comfortably do the responsibilities that come with that honor. Be direct and honest when asking that person that you really want as your maid/matron of honor. Asking someone that is going to be nine months pregnant with two young children can be asking a lot. Or someone that travels all over the states all the time. Ask them if it is putting too much pressure on them. Have two people if it is an overwhelming task.
The first case.... I kept watching that damn fork that kept filling up with food and not being eaten!!!
Regarding the cake lady situation… this is why I stopped being a vendor at craft fairs and doing pop ups.
People would see my jewelry that I made and offer like $5… and I’m just over here like ummm noo, set price is $12, this isn’t a negotiation lol
They’d always come back with “well so and so at that booth is selling a pair of earring for $5” and id always tell them yeah but they’re a wholesaler, mine are handmade. & I’d go into the whole thing about how I cut down my wooden earrings with a specific machine and the time it takes to sand down 1 pair, the stains and paints I use and that they aren’t just marker, each design is unique and on quality paper not something that just randomly gets printed out. The adhesives that I use are quality it’s not like Elmer’s glue lol and the sealant that brings everything together is a very specific glaze that allows the designs to “pop” which is what caught your attention in the first place. Then it goes into a whole different price range if I add in any beads or do special bead work on top of the earring itself.
I get it, everyone wants a good deal but some people just don’t understand that for an artist, something unique with quality takes their time and usually they buy the materials first because it’s something they’re passionate about.
This is so random and off topic, but seeing the first girl being Latina with a draw, literally made me so happy lol people always question my Latin roots because of my accent and called me a coconut and even my own family from Mexico made fun of me, so to see another southern Latina really made my day lol💕
Nari is so adorable and I can't believe she's already 1,feels like yesterday we were all on the edge of our seats waiting her arrival. I love the photo of her in the traditional outfit very beautiful ❤
Thank you for your respect! Love, this Artist ❤
The little boy with the porridge clip that you shared. I reference that clip more often than I care to admit. And it made me happier than you know to see it here. Every time I do it my kids make fun of me whenever they ask for more or seconds. I will do the whole bit and it's weird anyway, thank you.
Made my bday
Well, it is Oliver Twist.