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🎥💔 WEDDING TikTok DRAMA: Secrets, Scandals, and Unexpected TWISTS! 💔🎥
Hey, TikTok fam! Get ready to dive into the jaw-dropping world of wedding drama that's been brewing on the app! It's your girl, Charlotte Dobre, and I'm here to spill all the tea on the most scandalous moments that have taken the wedding TikTok community by storm. Buckle up, because this is going to be a wild ride!
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OK, but the bride specifically said, not clingy, not long, and absolutely not white. And she got all three she just didn’t wanna listen and then gaslighted the bride about it. What is wrong with this family?
Throw that whole family away!!
Exactly. Who the hell buys white for bridesmaids dresses? Her mom is an ass. She did it on purpose. Why buy more than one? At this point go no contact 😂
Sounds like my family
This is exactly why I'm also very frustrated with my dad. "I know what's best for you.' No, you don't. You're just imperfect human like everyone else.
Narcissistic mother who can't bear to see her daughter be the main character. All that fake victim: I can't do right by her, rubbish. She deliberately sabotaged the dresses and her daughters wedding.
The last family is totally wrong! She told the mom, no white, no cheap dresses and just to buy one! They were gaslighting her! I'm annoyed!
Yeah me too.
I just want to smack them all.
Dued I wanted to jump through the phone and start wacking the brother cause he was not helpful and just made things worse
That mum sounds like my mum and now I know not to involve her in planning if I get married 😅
That is a narsicistic mother and a stupid dad. The brother is just an asshole.
The "copy wedding" story is ridiculous 😂 the woman really thought that she was the only one who could find this beautiful venue? And other things.
It was never about copying (the "copied" definitely looked at pics before deciding on that venue and a photographer)... It's all about getting attention, positive or negative (which they achieved)
@@daninormandeau6452 Yeah, it definitely felt like she just wanted attention by stirring drama with the bigger influencers.
Idk honestly it was too weird that everything except the dress was copied
@@ZiiiZerowhats sad is she used her wedding, something thats supposed to be so special and sentimental, to get attention for the wring reasons. the dresses werent similar and neither were the headbands. its sad how far she was reaching for the sake of attention.
Yes
The fact that the family won’t even let Kelly speak. They keep talking over her and repeating stuff. Kelly is so clam, being able to sit and keep her voice level. I would be storming out of there.😅
Yeah, that’s a woman who has had to deal with that BS her entire life.
And to make matters worse, her dad plays the “Well, who’s the one footing the bill for this? They’re fine!” Card!
I know that line too well and if you are broke and can’t afford to do anything about it, there is no response for that.
If you have grown up with someone who holds money/paying for things over your head as a response for any and every argument, you learn quick to make sure that no one can ever hold money over your head again like that!
Gotta love growing up with controlling, overbearing parents who think that they are always right and that your opinion is always wrong!
Even about your own wedding.
Poor woman.
I hope she managed to get dresses that she liked in the end.
Trying to gaslight her,you can tell the mother is selfish. I would disinvite them
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My family is the same and I can tell you from experience that if you start yelling at them, they 100% use it against you. They push you by upsetting you on purpose then when you react emotionally, they're like "when can't understand you when you're yelling" and "if you stop yelling, we will listen" (lies!!!) "Why is it impossible to discuss calmly with you?" (When you try to discuss calmly, they dismiss you constantly, they don't care at all). Over time I started to do what I call angry whispering, they still accuse me of yelling. Turns out the volume of my voice was never the problem, it's the fact that I dare get upset at all. TOXIC AS HELL.
@@modkip25 You just described my mother's exact antics, what she put me through rendered me almost mute to the point where when I talk I can hardly be heard by anyone.
So basically every bride who has ever worn white, had a groom, took pictures etc., is now liable to be accused of copying everyone's wedding? Influencers are ridiculous!
People get married in white because of Queen Victoria, so she can turn in her grave. Diamond engagement rings have become commonplace because of the 1950s marketing campaign by DeBeers. Most people are sheep.
They are ridiculous and calling them "influencers" is even more so
yh influencer really just means narcissistic self obsessed and selfish😂
I got married 24 yrs ago at a local registry office... obviously i stole that idea from the thousands who'd been married there before and had their photos taken signing the book.... those who came after us must have stolen our idea.... 100% idiocy
@@jikook7457Totally agree! What and whom exactly, are they influencing? I sincerely hate that word.
I feel for that poor daughter who desperately wants to be heard and is blatantly ignored and told that she’s ungrateful and that she should accept whatever she is given.
Well, she's not paying, and she obviously gave the mum all the bridesmaid's sizes. TBH That alone makes me question what the bride claims she told her mum. Also, dissing her parents 'we have such a small budget', yeah love, one you are putting nothing towards, one that we've had to use our savings for. Then there's the irony of having such a small budget, but complaining the dresses are cheap. Of course they will be. Do you really believe the bride didn't give her mother a maximum amount to spend on bridesmaid dresses? Wake up!
@@RozanneMiller I think you're wrong here. The dresses are WHITE! That's usually a huge no no and obviously what the bride is upset about. That, coupled with the fact she said to only get ONE that was returnable and the mom did not follow ANY of those instructions, would also make me angry.
@@RozanneMiller ok so she's not paying but surely they want her to be happy? its her mum who's gone and got 5 dresses after she said just get one to look at. She said not long, they are long, not white - ahem, it's mainly white. WTF?
@@RozanneMiller 1) The bride asked for the dresses to not be long and to not be white. The dresses are long and mostly white. 2) The bride asked her mom to get ONE dress that they could return, and she bought five. So already, Mom didn't follow three tasks. 3) Shocking, I know, but abusive parents often take the financial reigns so they can use it for a guilt trip later. Clearly, this is what the Mom is doing, and the Dad is just enabling it. Even if the parents volunteered to pay for the wedding/dresses, but it's still the bride's choice in what she wants. Like, if my parents took me to dinner and get me a price limit, they don't get to decide what I eat because they're paying.
The only thing I found amusing was the brother. Like he knew his parents were 100% wrong in the situation, but he was having too much fun being a shitter. Hopefully, once he was done getting his laugh, he did actually take his sister's side
That mother ignored everything her daughter said and the dad and brother kept saying "Its fine, it looks fine, the dress looks okay" That can actually drive the lady crazy.
I need an update on Kelly's situation, because holy hell i would lose my mind and be out of there. That mom is so manipulative and that dad is an enabler!
"I can't do anything right!"
Is the single worst manipulation tactic a mother uses when they do something wrong and can't own up and try to make you feel bad
But it is also truthful because the mom really can't do anything right. She can't follow basic directions even if they were taped to the tip of her nose. Low key, I kind of really wanted to see Kelly stand up, return the dresses, get the dresses she wanted, and leave her mother no choice but to stew in her mistake.
@@sniderealism2410 The dresses were non-refundable.
My mom and family does exactly this. She uses the "nothing is ever good enough for you" meanwhile all I'm asking is to be listened to, respected and not treated and spoken to like dogshit. I don't believe that is asking for a lot. It's so hard to watch. And when your whole family is like that it's the loneliest feeling in the world. 😢
@@YoungDymisty my mom has done it my whole life, too. Not to mention my dad was gone while I was a child and abusive as a teen.
The reason why I have Borderline Personality Disorder and struggle with love and emotions so much 😒
@@YoungDymisty hopefully we both can find better people
Okay, this first gal.... get over it! Honestly. Your wedding was absolutely gorgeous, and any similarities between the two ceremonies do not take away from all of the sentiment in yours. Don't let this "ruin" your dream day!
Completely agree!!
Very well put! I definitely agree! Besides that I think I would personally be flattered if someone saw my ideas and loved it so much they also did something similar. Charlotte's input on the actual venue and having been there personally herself helps put it in perspective just how common this type of wedding is. I get wanting your day to be your own, but only to an extent.
If she wanted to gatekeep the venue she should have bought it and banned anyone from ever getting married there. This is so delulu!!!!!
Me too
I’m also baffled how she thought she was the first to have that wedding aesthetic, the dress was very Stevie Knicks, the headband is completely different and both unique, I also had one of those chairs and pretty much everything had been done before her, it’s very beautiful but definitely not original or only for one couple ever
the one about the bride's "maid of honor" wearing a white dress to the wedding sent me into absolute hysterical fits of laughter i was not ready 😂😂
Right?! I was already giggling, the look on Charlotte's face and I snorted and died laughing. That was amazing!
I've never been so happy to be mislead 🤣. I was ready to fight someone I didn't know, for someone I didn't know. I've never been soo happy it was a pupper 😂😂.
😂😂😂😂it made me laugh so much
She does realise that if you use a venue, they usually have a set amount of decor available, they have a set number of suppliers they recommend for photos and flowers and food and everything - if you pick from their providers, you are bound to pick some of the same stuff as somebody else. The more selective they are with providers - or even more so if the venue does it all in house - the more likely that they offer the exact same package to every couple who walk through the doors.
Exactly. And the crowns look nothing alike.
I feel SO HORRIBLE for that last bride who got completely overran by her ENTIRE FREAKEN FAMILY who acted like it's THEIR wedding and not the bride's.
Problem is, her dad is paying for the wedding as I got from the dialog. She shouldn't have a wedding that she cannot pay for. Especially if her family is like that. You cannot expect a "perfect wedding" if someone else has the financial choice in it.
@@TacseraEpSekahs you know is most cultures it is traditional that the couple's parents share the wedding costs... most probably the dad's wedding was once paid by his family too. But it's not a reason to decide for the bride and groom.
@@TacseraEpSekahsI'd accept this argument, if the dresses were not freaking white.
@@TacseraEpSekahs It's pretty common from the uk which judging by their accent is where they are from for parents to pay or at least help out that doesn't give them a right to just pick what she is having at HER wedding.
@@carolinemarchand4743 I don't like what her parents did. I'm just saying that if you're in a situation when you're not paying for things, you can't expect perfection. This is literally what money does - let's you have a choice. And if your choice is different from the choice of a person who gives you money - you're not in a position to dictate your wants. It's like a present. You may not like it, but bickering about it won't help. If the girl wants the perfect wedding, she would have to do it herself and with her money.
Here are the instructions given by the last bride
1) nothing floor length
2) nothing clingy (I want my party to be comfortable
3) buy one we can look at and return if I don’t like it
4) don’t buy white
These are all reasonable requests and the mom chose to ignore ALL of them!
“I can’t do anything right by you”
No mom you can’t when you literally ignore everything I said.
Jesus
It’s crazy how her mother ignored ALL of her requests. It was definitely done intentionally. If she had abided by a few, then maybe it wasn’t going to be too bad but every single thing is beyond insane
@@jahnaevasquez I agree, if the mom had bought a floorlength or one nonreturnable, but all else was within the guidelines - wich I think is fair and reasonable - I doubt there would have been much of an argument.
That is text book passive aggressive. Mom didn't want this wedding. Why? There is obvious conflict between mother and daughter.
Classic narcissistic mother. The daughter even said they had sat on the sofa and looked at pictures of dresses the night before and picked out what she liked! Mom actively went against ALL the bride's wishes, then played the victim when called out.
The way it was all playing out, especially with the brother filming and egging it on, I thought it would be revealed that they were pranking the bride.
The "copy" couple are SO cute! And super nice and respectful
Agree, I’ve been following them for a little and they’re adorable and so sweet
As A Wedding Photographer i have to say that 90% of the times the grooms bawl like a baby!!! I also 100% of the times I get a photo of them right after the wedding ceremony playing with the ring... i have that shot in one of my books that the couples see before they hire me and the grooms always say i wont catch them, and then i do :) I really should add that to contract that they owe me $10 when i get it :P
If you had that in your contract, that to me would just me one more reason to hire you 😂
Can you tell me what ut mean playing with the ring. Sorry English is not my first language. Did they take off the ring and toss it around?
No, they turn the ring around their finger from side to side, like a hoop. sometimes moving the ring from finger to finger. But mostly I don't think much of them would take something that costs so much and is so little and sometimes fragile to play tossing around heh 😜😄😆
That last tiktok makes me feel so bad. They’re all gaslighting the bride, and how calm she stays despite her family laughing and mocking her. I could never
OOOrr maybe the brother was filming her being ridiculous and spoilt and wanted it on camera... We can all speculate, but we all weren't there soo... wouldn't exactly go and call it gaslighting from the get-go. Also, you know who was missing from that conversation? The groom.
@@m0t0b33 No one denied that the bride and mom had a discussion about what dress to buy, so that means the mom went out and specifically got the wrong dress in spite of the instructions and now everyone is ganging up on the bride, trying to invalidate her. That's not being spoilt that's definitely gaslighting. Furthermore, the mom had to 'beg' the bride to give her this one job, which shows that the bride already had issues with the mom. If she hadn't then the mom would have had more responsibilities.
And why would the groom be involved in buying bridesmaid outfits?
@@m0t0b33who record a family member in order to blast them on social media? How are gonna help a bunch of strangers do in the situation?, the brother clearly tried to humiliate her sister and ended up painting the family as horrible people
It was a set up
@@m0t0b33um no you’re delusional babes why the hell would any bride want 5 ugly white dresses like that for her bridesmaids??? She said I don’t want anything clingy, long, or white and I want you to just buy 1 so that we can have a look at it. And what did mom do??? Bought 5 long white clingy dresses without any way to return them who knows if she even got the sizes right and then she has the audacity to be like “what’s wrong with it??” GIRL it’s WHITE literally stick your head in the sand like an ostrich sis
I feel so sorry for kelly, mom is a gaslighter, dad doesn’t wanna upset mom so he gaslights her too, and her brother is just a dick so he’s like “yea mom did great, you’re in the wrong”
Yeah, felt a bit too close to home with everyone against her when theyre the ones who did something wrong. It was crazy to see literally everyone blatantly ignore what she was saying and gaslight her. All of them jumping on her like that in such a situation where they were all wrong except her was so horrible to see.
Narcissist and her flying monkeys. I have a feeling mom did this to provoke her daughter and create drama...
My mom does shit like that even when I don't ask for anything!!!
That dress is boring, not "beautiful" and the fabric looks like polyester. It also looks very familiar to me, and I just figured out why.
In 1978, my bestie was performing at a special New Year's Eve concert with our school choir. All the guys wore black tie, and the girls wore simple black and white long dresses that were almost identical to this one. I remember the dress well because my friend was petite so I did the alterations on the dress so it would fit her better.
They did look elegant, for a 1978 high school choir performing at a mall in front of the Neiman Marcus store!
I love how the mom said she can never please Kelly. The mom didn't take the instruction right. Well, maybe it's the mom paying back on how Kelly didn't listen to her when she was small. I feel so bad for Kelly.
That last bride's family is exactly why my husband didn't want our families paying for ANYTHING. They can't use it as an excuse to take over! I don't think it would have been an issue with my family, but sometimes weddings make people crazy so you never know!
last bride story: I'm on the bride side. She gave simple and reasonable directions and it was completely ignored. I'm more offended that the mother threw the "your ungrateful" excuse. I learned from my wedding is that a lot of people come forward to claim they want to help in the wedding, but find out that most of them wanted to do whatever they feel like and get offended that there was no reward. I discovered who was actually reliable and I am greatful that they took up multiple jobs. This mother wanted a role and she blew it. Now the mother is offended that she is not looked at as a hero.
you know i gotta give props to the accused couple. they couldve been super rude and stuff but they calmly refuted everything and even showed receipts. good for them!
Funny how they can copy something that hasn't even happened yet😂😂😂😂. I'd love to get some numbers from them.
Honestly I would've just replied with "who the fuck even are you?" I think she forgot that she's tiktok famous, not actually famous
@@angycat4262PETTY. I love it 😈😂😝
@@meow_mixture lol, I don't have time for her bs, weddings are only special to the people getting married and their families, anyone looking from outside is just seeing yet another generic boho wedding lmao. She can cry me a river, build a bridge and get over it
@@angycat4262that wouldn’t be a good reply because she followed her lol
I feel bad for Kelly. The gaslighting and the manipulation from her mother saying “there is just no pleasing you” when she literally did everything wrong is so painful to watch. Her dad might be paying for the wedding but clearly he cares more about his show than his daughter enjoying her wedding. Really hope she has some awesome in-laws and a beautiful wedding ❤
Edit: omg I have never had more than 100 people like anything I’ve posted anywhere on the internet before. Thank you everyone and thank you Charlotte you help me start my day off right💜
I am sure this is not the first time something like that happened. If i were her, i would have gone low or no contact with the family.
It was so hard to watch. My blood was starting to boil and I wasn’t even the bride!
"hey I'm watching that" ... that mother is toxic, but that uncaring, horrible father.... it hurts.
The dad is definitely used to going along with his wife's whims. He probably thinks he's doing what's right by trying to calm things down and smooth them over, but all that does is let his wife steamroll everyone else's boundaries so he doesn't have to hear about it or deal with it. My bff's parents are like this, have been like this the entire time she and I have been bffs, over 25 years, and have probably been like this since they got married. He's just dragged around and agrees with everything she says and wants because then he doesn't have to deal with her anger. Sad situation really.
I would elope because fuck that nonsense
The first story: I come from a small village, there is only one park next to the church to get wedding pictures and most couple hired the same local photographer for decades, so every house in the village litteraly has the same wedding picture in the living room... No one cares
a wedding in Tulum is like, the basics of basics ideas for beach weddings in México XD not because it's cheap or anything, but because it's one of the most known beaches in the Republic and Instagrammable, it has a really specific vibe
Poor Kelly. With how her family kept going, I thought it was a prank or joke and they'd reveal the real dresses after winding her up. And she even looked through pictures and gave her a list of things to absolutely not do.
Same. And then no, they were just complete jerks. I felt so bad for her.
Right?! It was clear if they had let her finish talking that she had like a list of things that she specifically said she didn’t want. And the two she managed to say at least were she didn’t want it to be long and she didn’t want it to be white. So her mother shows up with a long white and blue dress and expects her to be happy with it! “There’s blue you’ll barely see the white!” …the white is like the front of the dress even if the blue covers some of it there’s still gonna be white. And that’s not even the point it’s not what she wanted! But her family absolutely did not care, they’re just like it’s fine its done they look beautiful! And sure maybe they do but not for HER WEDDING
I was waiting for the 'lol got you!' also because the brother was filming, so did they want her reaction to the prank dress? Still holding out hope that it was all just a prank and it will be revealed at some point, and not in fact her entire family just not giving a damn about her wishes for the one day that's supposed to be about her. Otherwise, this would actually be a reason for me to elope with just my future husband and my best friends and cut these people, who clearly don't even bother to listen to me, out and go low contact. Kelly also did not seem like a 'bridezilla' either, which no doubt they'll try to paint her as for this. Her requests were completely reasonable, and she was clearly also concerned with what her bridesmaids would like to wear as she repeatedly said one of them would feel uncomfortable in this, and I've yet to hear of a bridezilla who cares what her bridesmaids want. So yeah my heart goes out to Kelly in this! Plus, she's right the dress just looks bad.
She has the final say about the dresses, but in the mother defence the dress is not white, it's white AND dark blue.
@@Jia21 There is no defense for the mom, she's just an asshole trying to have her way. Kelly specifically said no white, she gave very precise instructions and even showed pictures. The mom just ignored all that and did whatever she wanted.
As much as I'm mad at the mother for what she did to her daughter. It's the father backing up the mother that just makes my skin crawl. I hope she is able to get away from that abusive family and creates a family that supports her.
I know right! And then he plays the "im spending the money here" as if to say, its my money so you have no opinion. That would ve okay if it was decided before, not during it. It sucks that there was no one there on her side. I kinda hope that people called out her family in the comments of the video and her parents saw it. Cos rhe gaslighting there was NOT ok
agreed. that dad is a pushover and a total asshole
The father was in a no win situation. If he backed the daughter, his wife would be all over him saying "why don't you back me". But backing his wife, he's a poor dad for not protecting his daughter. But it sounds like those parents deserve each other all miserable.
@@Ryan-wx1bi Having to just agree with your spouse even when they are wrong, doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. If I was acting like that I would expect my husband to say something. It may be a no win situation for him, but he brought that on himself by being with someone you can't disagree with.
I hope she eloped!
The white bridesmaids dresses video was insane. Her whole family was gaslighting her.
21:12 I feel so genuinely bad for this girl.her mum has clearly got a repeated behaviour of doing everything except what’s asked and turning it around as ‘oh I’m sorry I can ever do anything right’ and the dad clearly just enables it to keep the peace and the brother is just a twat.i know exactly what this dynamic is like-my bloody dad and stepmum were the same.guilt trip stepmum,minimising dad and twat sibling who just constantly windes you up
That one at the end where the mom bought those awful bridesmaid dresses!!! I got UPSET listening to them gaslight her!! Her entire family! That poor woman!
Agreed! Awful mother
Right! And the Dad basically saying they're fine so stop talking so he can watch his show.
When the dad said
EYYY, EeeY, EeeeeeEEEYYYYYyyy
Like how can't they see that white is the bride's colour? And the brother recording tells you she is the only sane one. Reminds me of my family tbh...
@gansz_lol classic Dad "not wanting to deal with" the wife he's clearly never had a backbone with. That daughter was so hurt and rightfully angry.
I know.. I honestly wanted to slap that man when he kept saying that. Like, let Kelly speak FFS. It's clear he doesn't care about her and feels like what she says is just nonsense. I hope she cuts her family off. They are all trash. They are all awful.@@gansz_lol
That last family has EVERYONE riled up. The most telling thing to me is that the mom says, “All I’ve done is try to do the best by you. But I just can’t do anything right.’ Lady, you followed 0 instructions from your daughter, and instead you did everything YOU wanted to do and now you are gaslighting her. 🤦🏼♀️ If you never do anything right by her, then why did you INSIST to buy her bridesmaid dresses? Because you wanted to cause this exact scene by choosing what YOU wanted and still making your daughter look ungrateful. My heart breaks for the bride. 😢
Moms got victim mentality all day
its exactly my mum... except.. she would shriek and throw stuff and round everyone so that i'm the bad one. i actually was amazed that the mum kept so calm and whispering. i sure hope it was some sort of prank.
Agree with you 100% but the dad is the one paying for the dresses and he said it's his money and he thinks they're great therefore she should be grateful. This is something my Mom would do, "my money so who cares if it's what you want or not?".
I think it's more than she just chose what she wanted, I think she's specifically chosen everything the daughter didn't want. It literally had all three qualities she said to avoid.
@@mistresskupo I'll just copy and paste my coment: If the money is yours and for you and for a service for you, it let's you have choice. If the ownership passes to somebody else, whereas a gift, a payment, a loan, or a donation, the choice is not yours anymore. You can argue in the case of loans or donations as those come with a contract in which money is bound to a purpose, like in this case: it is for the wedding, nothing more, nothing less. I do think you can claim it back because it is going against the contract. But this is not a case in which the donated money is being used for something other than its purpose. This is ego, control, tirany, and disrespect.
My mum is exactly like that mum. You tell her get anything but this, she gets the thing you didn't want out if million choices. I think these people just thrive off of attention regardless of whether it's negative or positive. It's so frustrating, selfish and disrespectful.
I love how the first couple replied so respectfully.
Mom bought a white dress? Turns herself into a victim and says, “I just can’t do right by you,” the dad defends the mom’s bad decision? This is my family. I actively avoid them for this reason. They are simply trouble!
Let's not forget the brother filming it and egging their parents on 🙄
@@Mx.Phoenixhonestly they all would be out my wedding. I would not stand for that disrespect, if that poor girls so called “family” can’t respect her and the mum can’t even follow some clear rules and get the dresses the bride wants because it’s her day, and then gaslights the hell outta her as if SHE was the one who was in the wrong! God forbid what they’ll do on her wedding day. They are the type of people to make it about them, especially the mum and they’d ruin it. Clearly the brothers got the bad genes as he was laughing at his sisters expense who was clearly really upset. I reckon this girls had to deal with this kind of behaviour before from the way she’s acting, she’s so clearly upset, angry and so done with them. I hope when this went viral, the mum, dad and brother finally got the cold hard truth from the online comments how toxic they truly are.
Time for some red wine 🍷
Mine too! My god, watching this triggered in me all the wrong memories!!
“I just can’t do anything right” “You’re always having a go at me” Okay but when y’all apparently sat on the couch together and she showed/told you SPECIFICALLY what she liked and disliked and you got a dress with all the things she DISLIKED, that’s cause for upset. And she even told her mom to buy ONE she can return, and she bought FIVE THAT SHE COULDN’T???? This to me feels like the mom got carried away with what SHE liked and is now gaslighting her daughter trying to get her to like it too.
The mom’s probably narcissist , this doesn’t look like an isolated incident to me.
This is like seeing my own mom. holy shit. it is infuriating. because the more times it happens it makes you feel like crazy. and we always like start out saying no carefully but eventually we get more direct and or angry and then we are the bad guy. my mother always does her own will when i tell her specifically what i dont eat or dont wear etc and then she goes out and buys that. and gives it to me. and i tell her that she knows i dont eat/wear this and she preceeds to pretend she gets upset and says in ungrateful and she plays the victim who is unappreciated and the tragic hero. because from the outside it looks like a nice gesture, and when i get a gift i should not be dissappointed or say no to eat or wear what she got me and people around call be a brat. and the more i explain i have said numerous times i cant eat this or wont wear this type of clothes and have said she can stop getting me things, they all like gang up on me until i cry and they say i should not treat my mother like this
Topped with a sprinkle of enabling and extra gaslighting by the men of the family. Ugh that one was a tough watch.
“I can’t do anything right” sent me. That’s the type of gaslighting shit my mom says to me and my sister constantly any time we have any sort of criticism at all. I feel for Kelly in this :(
OMG!! I think we have the same mom!!! I grew up with a mother just like that!
The Bitish bride wasn't so much angry about the dress as she was that nobody paid attention to her desires. I can't imagine what it was like growing up for her.
Bride A talks about the symbolism of their love story- but the symbols like a circle are going to be extremely applicable to any love story.
I’ve been marathoning these bride react videos for two days straight and the one thing I’ve learned is that so many people grow up in terrible families who gaslight them. It must feel like they’ve lived in the twilight zone their entire lives.
That poor girl who’s mom got the exact opposite of everything she asked for and then guilt tripped her with sad mom voice while dad pressured her to drop it because it’s fine to him and he’s paying for it. Horrible! Terrible! And then people wonder how someone could end up with abusive, narcissistic spouses. They’ve been programmed by their family first!
That last family was way too much! The amount of gaslighting the bride's parents were doing to the bride... Nothing long, nothing white. Only get one dress with a receipt so they can see it together. Clear directions were given, but the mother couldn't follow it. Instead, she and the family tries gaslighting the bride into accepting those horrible bridesmaids dresses. If you can't return them after purchasing, give the bride a call! Let her know about the dress you're interested in, the situation that they can't be returned, and ask if she thinks they'll be suitable or not before purchasing? Don't just purchase 5 unreturnable dresses on a whim, esp. on a tight budget! No, absolutely not!
The "It's just not pleasing you." "You're so ungrateful." "Your mum has been working really hard to get that." really pissed me off. And the "You're always having a go at me, I can't do anything right for you." Yes, it's clear that you can't, since I told you don't get anything clingy, don't get anything long, and don't get anything white. Bring one dress with a receipt and what did you do. What did you do!
They are really gaslighting the bride hard, and she's wasting her time trying to see the flying monkeys her point. It's sad.
It's all bs anyway. Mom for sure has the receipt somewhere in case she against all odds doesn't get her will. She does not give two f* about what her daughter wants for her wedding
I am willing to bet that those dresses were on clearance and that’s why they’re un returnable. Her best bet is to dye the front to match the back and cut them shorter
The parents having a go at the girl for being upset about the dress make me so mad. You can just TELL they do this any time she has any complaint, no matter what. IT'S HER DAMN WEDDING, she's allowed to be upset when you utterly mess up everything. Parents love to do this, they make you feel wrong and selfish and spoiled for having even the tiniest demand. I want to scream at these people.
Shitty parents do this.
There, fixed it for you.
AbsolFriggingLutely!!! Even I'm apprehensive getting married because I can't trust either sides of our families to even behave like adults...without reverting to overgrown children with their own tantrums 😶
@@HelloGirKitty91Save up or elope! Keep it simple, tell them when it’s over. You can have a lovely wedding on a small budget but if you want a big one, the price will be having a bunch of overgrown babies involved! Good luck!
@@BeeWhistler Thank you for the advice. Eloping would seem like a much better idea that would save my sanity and repair my fiancés inner worth as a man for the best~
Now where to Elope is my next challenge to think over...🤔
Andy thinking he's exposing a bridezilla but actually outing the family as a bunch of loony toons.
The Nigerian woman’s story reminds me of one of my ex’s best friends. She came an hour or so late to any appointment, but used the excuse that it’s “cultural”.
My ex accepted that excuse.
…
I should have said “honey, from ANYONE ELSE, your cultural principles demand that being on time is the bare minimum of respect. But…like…what? Her “culture” overrules yours because she’s black? Or a minority? Or just…because?”
I never did though. I should have called her out more often.
THE GASLIGHTING from the family! I can't!
I feel so bad for kelly like wtf if wrong with her family. absolutely gaslighting her after getting dresses with everything she stated that she ABSOLUTELY DIDNT WANT.
Right!?
That's the kind of thing that's gonna leave a family without a daughter eventually. And Kelly will be much better off without them.
And mom made sure they couldn't be returned. Manipulive narcissist
They’re the type of parents to do what they want explicitly against their children’s wishes and then turn around act like the victim while also telling their kid that they’re spoiled, always get what they want, etc when in reality, the father is a doormat asshat and the mother is a selfish narcissist
Whoa, someone used a circle at their wedding like you did?!? Holy cow! That was so original! I can’t believe anyone else ever thought to use a shape that has been used for centuries to indicate eternal love, you know, like a wedding RING, at their wedding. They totally must have copied you and I think you should sue.
ROFL 🤣
Very well said. And I am just so tickled that you spelled 'whoa' correctly! You totally rock!! 😁
There is archaeological evidence to suggest that ancient Egyptians were exchanging wedding rings as far back as 4000 BC. Just about every wedding I've been to had the officiant hold up the wedding ring before the groom placed it on his bride's finger and gave a speech about the significance of the circle symbol portraying "no end, no beginning, it's a symbol of eternal love".
You get the point but you’re not addressing it directly
We did a semi circle at my wedding 5 years ago.
I must have been copying her, right? RIGHT?
(I'm being sarcastic, if that didn't come off clearly)
I was nearly in tears watching that poor bride get outvoted for her own wedding.
When you post so many details about your wedding online, PEOPLE WILL BE INSPIRED BY IT, take it as a compliment.
The one with the uk parents gaslighting the daughter about her wedding really hit home. I’m from the UK and I grew up in this narcissistic environment. She needs to cut and run because these people will invalidate her forever. Then when they’re old expect you to be their slave.
I've started to notice that a far few people from the UK have had this with their parents
It runs rampant here in the states. It’s everywhere. But you’re right, don’t walk, run away, and never look 👀 back!
I was thinking the exact same thing.
Absolutely agree. This family dynamic will suck the life out of you. If you don't give yourself the space to heal, and surround yourself with people who genuinely care about you and show you that they value you, then in time, you'll become a shell of a person. I hope Kelly's life turned out wonderful because these narcissists have been invalidating her feelings her whole life.
The fact that the mom purchased ALL FIVE tells me she KNEW her daughter wouldn’t like it.
She was stacking the deck in anticipation of this fight.
The first bride complaining is a bridezilla. She should’ve not posted her photos if she doesn’t want someone to copy them 🤦♀️
6:05 the other bride complaining about the stolen wedding ideas has such main character syndrome looking at those photos i was thinking but it's completely different and head bans / crown are very common and ofc the designer wedding dress would have similar details it's from the same creator 😂
That second to last one riles me up. I wouldve gotten up told them they are no longer welcome to attend, told dad to enjoy the dresses his money bought, and signed papers at the courthouse and had a wedding when i personally saved for one. Absolutely heartbreaking. Sitting there Gas lighting her daughter knowing damn well she purposely sabotaged those dresses. And dad just doesn't want to hear it because he doesn't want to deal with the whining his wife does. Absolutely not. Cut them off now girl.
AMEN!!!! If Either side of my fiancés or my Own families attempt such an atrocity, they'll NEVER hear or see from me ever again. 🙄
Same tbh
it was hard to watch. even if she was quite direct i felt sorry for her, because this is probably not the first time something like this has happened. mother running her wants over hers, and it get you more and more frustrated each time. and especially now that it is for a big event and the item cant be returned
Ok I understand the frustration but uninviting your parents to the wedding does seem a bit much..
@@xtinaromait is a lot. But, I wouldn't want a wedding where my dad pays and my mom goes over my head about everything that I had in mind. "No, thank you, dad. We'll cancel the wedding. We just go to the courthouse and you two are welcome to take offense and remain absent"
And then... The mother getting the wrong type of dresses for bridesmaids saying "You are so ungrateful" THIS!!! THIS IS THE PERFECT EXAMPLE ON MANIPULATION FROM PARENTS. That mother did the opposite of what the daughter asked her to. SHE was the one being stupid! And the fact that the father is siding with the mother infuriates me. AAAARGH!!! I hate parents so much for this......
Ironically the golden child, the AH brother not being he brightest, thought he was exposing his sister posting her being tortured, ganged up, abused, gaslit, mocked and distressed. But he exposed their mommy dearest, enabling dad and himself as the piles of sh1t that they are.
Amen to that! T hat clip was so triggering. Wowsa the mother is a textbook covert narcissist. I know because my mom cycled through the exacttt same set of manipulation tactics. & by definition, she’s a boss level covert narc.
A child feeeeels abused by narcissistic parents but believes and trusts them when the parent blames the kid for feeling that way. So the kid thinks there must be something deeply wrong with them … especially with all the manipulation & gaslighting they’re raised with. On topppp of all the shame and guilt they grow up feeling. When you have oarents who are experts at playing victim & turning the table at the speed of light ooo boy that guilt can lasta lifetime if you don’t one day learn about narcs and their playbook.
It was super freeing & validating to finally learn about narcissism- the day I realized I was raised by 2 narcs was one of the most magical, most healing days of my life. The guilt I felt my entireee life just melted away.
It makes me sooo happy now seeing how many people are aware of narcissism & how quickly we can spot these narc parents! Boooom Their glory days are overrrr lol
I had a small wedding as well. I asked my sister in law if she had a long dress and she said yes and it was peach colored. So that how I picked the colors for my wedding. Not other attendants except her and best man. Simple. Did things go wrong? Yes? Did I have the people there that meant something to us? Yes. And that’s all that matters. 38 years later and we still laugh at the things that went wrong. People matter, things don’t matter. Stay kind. 💕🐝💕
The mother at the end makes me think of my grandmother. My mom had to wear a hideous dress on her wedding day to save money for the booze that would be served to guests. My mom made touch-ups to the dress until the wedding day (she's a seamstress) and didn't have enough time to do her hair the way she planned. My poor mother was treated so poorly by her mother throughout childhood but to this day makes excuses for my grandmother's behaviour. I've realized that Grandma was a narcissistic B. She always played favourites with her children and grandchildren. She was even a B to me and I was a child.
Kelly's mom knew exactly what she was doing. She said "there's some blue in it" before Kelly even said anything.
Yeah, I feel like it takes more effort to find a dress that breaks all of the three rules than just getting something your daughter likes
I agree with so many here: Kelly sat down with her mum, had clear discussions with pictures and boundaries, then gave clear specific instructions when she delegated the task, and mum just did the exact opposite. Not only is that upsetting in itself, but the whole family joining in on the gaslighting absolutely infuriates me.
Not only that! Kelly was gonna go and do it herself but mum INSISTED that she go do the shopping.
@@juphil1645 oh yeah, that's a great point!
Oh yeah my blood is boiling watching this conversation
I swear I thought Kelly was going to get up out of that chair and beat the fuck out of Andy because family or not I would have thrown hands at this behavior.
Can we all agree that the Birch wanted to wear white to her daughter's wedding and used this way to manipulate her way into it?
LMAO the girl with the dog that was SO funny I love that for her! not even mad she set up the joke and knocked it out of the park 😂
I had one of those wicker chairs back in the late 80's.
I got it from my friend and I think she got it in the late 70's
Azulik is a high priced fashionable wedding factory. No one who gets married there is going to get anything unique to them. Both weddings are gorgeous, but I'm sure all the couples who get a "designer" dress and the whole wedding package will have a similar aesthetic.
Yep. If you want unique, get married in an abandoned factory or something. I seriously doubt theres ever been a wedding there. Actually that's not a completely bad idea. Hmmmm.🤔🤔🤔
The problem is that people not in the wedding industry think something they haven't seen something it is "unique".
The dresses may be "custom" and even "unique", but an overall aesthetic will be fairly consistent for any given time period.
The rest of the stuff, chairs, colors, decor...at this point that palette had been trending for a year before the "influencer's" wedding for over a year.
There's probably extremely limited place to get married that someone hasn't done similar, except for places like Chernobyl.
@@wendysteele8789 Hmmm Chernobyl. Talk about unique. I wonder what that Insta post would look like...
Amen. Such whining about ‘oh so special’ and ‘It had MEANING to US, our LOVESTORY’. Like b*tch, if it was such a secret and intimite happening, don’t be such a attentionw**re on Insta. It looks like any other wedding with a Boho/beach theme I went to and I didn’t even have to leave Europe for that. Same for the Tuscany weddings. Have you seen one, you’ve seen them all. People come to celebrate you, not your dress/venue/designer. If you feel happy walking around like the 500th ‘boho Ibiza’ bride on Ibiza, go for it. It’s not like I’m going to cheer harder or give you more cash as a present because you’re ‘more original’ then another girlfriend who’s married.
@@wendysteele8789getting my hazmat tuxedo ready 👰♀️ ☢️
I feel so badly for the daughter Kelly because it's obvious that the Mom is a narcissist. She got what she wanted and didn't care what her daughter's friend's and bridesmaids wanted. This Harriet might want to pull out of the wedding if she's so uncomfortable with the dress.
Hell, if I was the daughter, I'd elope at this point. If I'm not getting what I want, then why bother?
It’s the classic case of acting the victim for me, with the “I’m always doing X Y Z for you and this is what I get” kind of behaviour. I would never accuse my own mom of being a narcissist because she has a lot going on right now, but she has started to say this kind of stuff a lot. It’s very triggering and I completely take the daughter’s side. It’s awful that the dad and brother are backing the mom up too. Do they not want their own daughter to be happy?? And the dad trying to blackmail her by complaining that it’s his money?? Honestly this all hits close to home haha - my dad has said the same about simple things, but this is their daughter’s wedding!! Where is the sympathy??
Yep. I have a narcissistic mother and she is exactly like this. It’s infuriating.
@@broncochick4x4 I would elope if I ever got married because my mother would question all my decisions and take all the fun out of the event.
@@janejones7638 I eloped and have never regretted it.
How DARE they have the same color flowers, the same chairs and a picture of the aisle everyone walks down at a wedding where nothing should be remotely similar to other weddings 😡😡😡😡
People who think others "stole" or "copied" wedding ideas have main character syndrome. Pretty much all wedding ideas at this point are copies or derivatives of previous weddings. Weddings have a certain aesthetic and it's very easy for them all to be similar, ESPECIALLY if it's at the same venue. And guess what, more than one couple can use the same venue 🙄
Sometimes you just end up having similar tastes as other people, just enjoy your wedding and don't worry about how unique it is
My husband warned me that he’d most likely not cry at our wedding. I said as long as he looked happy marrying me I’d be happy. During my vows he started welling up and the waterworks came during his vows. I started crying, family started crying, even our wonderful officiant dabbed his eyes. It was beautiful.
My husband said the same and he didn't cry until his mom gave her speech at our reception
My hubby said the same thing the moment i said are vows his tears flowed and so did mine ill never forget that moment❤❤
LOVE!!❤❤❤
Same here! It was the best ❤
I felt so stressed out during that recording of the family arguing with the bride. Poor girl, they all acted like total assholes and the mom was gaslighting her like crazy.
She literally has the same wedding as tons of other people who got married at that exact hotel. to say what has meeting to a couple that she’s never talk to? It’s literally a shape. Circle. She’s the same basic girl as everyone else. Like what does she think is gonna happen when you’re getting the same venue and designer as each other? You’re getting their aesthetic
The fact that the couple were well aware of the fact that their wedding was not super original in regards to the location and aesthetic, but the first bride somehow thought her wedding was one of a kind
I feel so bad for Kelly, this is clearly a repeated pattern of behaviour from her abusive parents. The intentional choice of a dress that is everything she said she DIDN'T want, gaslighting from all members of the family at once literally DOGPILING on her, not listening or giving her a chance to speak, minimizing her feelings, the manipulative 'I can't ever do anything right for you' and 'I can't ever please you' from mom-- Kelly's better off cutting them all off no-contact and doing a courthouse shindig til she and her spouse can save up for a party later on.
I'm just honestly so proud of Kelly for standing up for herself there
100% Agreed. "Don't be afraid to cut people off." - Lorena Bobbitt
@@dc9631 is that the lady who cut her husband's little friend up ? LoL 😆
@@angelaggarrido7816 yes...lmao.
thats what i was about to say - uninvite their asses and do it on ur own if not only mom is going to try to guilt trip her and dad is going to hold the fact that hes paying for it over her heard - fuck all of em
I like how the brother (I think-Andy?) probably posted this for sympathy/trying to show his sister being a bridezilla but all it showed was how crazy everyone else is.
He's so delusional as the golden child that he might truly believe his sister is the obnoxious, disrespectful, unbearable, ungrateful brat their parents claim she is. When clearly she's the communal scape goat in their sh1t family. And the only wholesome, kind and honest person there. I hope she goes NC on them.
I hope people chewed his family out and showed Kelly support!
you have any links? id like to pile on more if the internet hasnt done so already.
@@jongbascoi'm pretty interested too
I’m almost curious if this was a prank…but then there was no reveal at the end so, probably not. It’s just all so rediculous it doesn’t feel like it can be real 😩 That poor girl
As someone who's also been to Tulum (like many others). Those 2 weddings are just...the Tulum aesthetic. Really not surprising they were similar especially if its the same (super popular) venue
That poor woman at the end. My mom did the same thing to me for my wedding invitations. We were getting married in the winter and I she wanted to help with the wedding invitations. I told her to be absolutely sure to NOT get wedding invitations with poinsettia flowers. She literally bought wedding invitations, on sale, so they couldn't be returned, with WHITE POINSETTIA FLOWER'S. I was so angry. Then she pulled the same "I can never please you." Bit. Ugh.
No mom, I'm not pleased with you sabotaging everything on purpose and then acting like a victim...😒
How frustrating. Sorry you deal with that!
The bride and dog story is the best part of this video, that caught me off guard big time 😂 The idea, the execution, the delivery - spot on! 👌👏
Best part of the video hahaha hands down. Caught me so off guard. She really nailed they delivery 😂😂
Extremely well done to the point it took me a moment to even realize the joke! I kept waiting for the second picture with the MOH in it. 😂
Same, normally I can tell it's a joke..she did an excellent job of fooling me..I laughed out loud.. Normally I roll my eyes and smile a bit.. Good one lol I was also relieved it wasn't a real life scenario..
I have only ever seen my husband cry once. That was our wedding day and he cried a lot. Love that man! He started crying at the sight of our daughter as the flower girl
HOW AND I MEAN HOW did I just discover your channel be right back as I binge watch everything 😂💖
I discovered this channel today... I have a toxic family JUST like the last one (they abuse each other like this too, not just me)... I'm on my period today and therefore my emotions are high...
But today is a good day.
I honestly feel bad for Kelly in the second to last video. The one important thing she asked for the bridemaid's dresses was *No White* . The fact that the mum really wanted to be in charge of the bridesmaid dresses, and was told No White Dresses, and yet got white dresses anyway?
If one of my siblings were getting married, and I wanted to be in charge of the bridesmaid dresses and got to be, the last thing I'd do is get them in white! If anything, I would send pics of the bridesmaid dresses I find to the sibling, and wait for approval before I get them.
I have no idea why confirmation pictures weren't sent except for the fact that the mom did what she wanted and knew that Kelly would never approve of them. With the majority of the population of first world countries using smartphones, or heck just any phone with a camera, there is absolutely no logical reason to not send a quick pic and say, "What about this?"
My dad has Parkinsons and his short-term memory is shot, so if he needs special directions, things to buy, customization of food items, chores that need to be done, etc, then I text him so it's in writing. I started using this tactic with everyone. If you have the instructions of what is wanted and not wanted then it's much harder to forget or get things wrong unintentionally. People used to just do that on sticky notes, but it's so much easier to just text the information, and unless you lose your phone then you will definitely have it.
Send pics?? That's ENTIRELY too sensible for this family!!😂
@@christinawahlberg6805 Good point xD
@@Just1NoraThe poor bride was probably waiting for pics!
I’ll bet the mom found five dresses on super clearance and decided to force it on her.
If it’s real-I’m hoping they told her it was all a prank! The gaslighting was so incredibly obvious and over the top that it _could_ have been a prank…
Poor Kelly - that last one was so frustrating to listen to. Her mom literally did everything she asked her not to do. Kelly had the perfect idea too, to pick out 1 dress (that's not long, clingy & NOT white) and is able to be returned if it doesn't work. Then the mom gets all the dresses, unable to be returned, they are long, white & clingy. The gaslighting was so infuriating.
I just want to give the last girl a hug, it was a very simple set of rules she set out and her mother ignored the lot as ploy for control.
That 'father' and her brother are just fueling the mother to gang up on poor Kelly.
If those 3 love the dresses so much they can wear it to their funerals.
The bride and the awful bridesmaids dresses... this is my family and what I experienced during the planning of my wedding. The feelings it stirred up watching that, OMG. I feel the for the bride. Stand your ground!! The gas-lighting is unreal.
That narcissistic mum and the family gaslighting her is disgusting 😔the mum completely ignored the 3 guidelines for getting the dress and then tries to guilt the daughter, the dad shuts down the daughters valid feelings because he is watching the TV, and the brother inflames the whole thing for his entertainment 😮💨 I feel so sorry for Kelly ❤
Sadly, she broke 6 guidelines, not just 3. Poor Kelly… she said
Not long
Not clingy
Not cheap material
Not white
Buy ONE
Make sure you can return it
Literally did the opposite of them all!
Then gaslights and guilt trips the sweet girl.
Horrible parents
Me laughing as a Mexican after knowing this hotel does variations of the same thing over and over for foreigners because its the aesthetic they like. Get over it. There are hundreds of instagram pictures looking the same.
Mexican here too. It’s so obviously a foreign wedding trap. If you mention Tulum to any Mexican they will most probably think of the Mayan ruins near the sea. Not bohemian, hippie, or those robes the grooms wore.
Not that we actually mind. It’s still tourist money coming in and helping the local economy :)
El aesthetic de Tulum es incomparable, todas las bodas en Tulum se ven iguales lol
I would sooooo uninvite my mom and DAD for the wedding, the bride said a dozen times: "You had one job!" That's what I called a toxic family... just by her reaction and anger I can tell situations like this happened before, and the way her mother gaslit her is so disgusting!!!!
That one with the mom buying the dresses?! Bride has every right to be upset and her WHOLE family is gaslighting her. Not ok at all.
This is why you don't send your mother out alone to make wedding decisions. Something similar happened to me when I assigned my mother to handle the flower arrangements. Let's just say I had several white easter baskets filled with every spring flower for a wedding that was held in the middle of Autumn. She clearly picked what was the cheapest, which were things that were out of season. I didn't ask her for anymore favors after that.....
Agree - I don’t think I’d trust anyone with that job if I wasn’t there… having said that, her mum’s a dick 😒
Some parents don't deserve children.
I would have returned it lollll.
I basically didn't consult my mother on anything to do with my wedding. Completely sidelined her. "All sorted, I've got it all done; everything's arranged, all you have to do is turn up" and what a mistake that was. She and my MIL got into it after new hubby and I had left, and practically came to blows. Except, I'd forbidden my MIL from taking the wedding presents home because she always had so many people over. And as expected, gift cards were lost, for all I know presents walked out of MIL's house by themselves. It was a mess. So I kind of let my mother off on that one, but a real debacle. Probably still some people badmouthing me for not sending "thank you for the (named) gift messages", but it was too hard to explain lol. Weddings bring out the worst in some folk.
Since when are things that are out of season less expensive? I think your mother was just trying to recreate what she wanted for herself, instead of what you wanted. I’ve worked loads of weddings and the amount of mothers and mother in laws that have come around and changed the professionally arranged venue and flowers and added gaudy cheap props is way too many.
I love vids like this. Reenforces our decision to elope and forgo a wedding!
Damn Kelly's mother did exactly what my mother does to me all the time with the whole "I can't do anything right" it was kind of alarming and then reading the comments about her being gaslit... I feel like I have some reflecting to do now...
Test-drive this response, if only in your head: "Yes Mom, unfortunately it's true. You'll just have to try harder." Be safe and well.
Mmhmmm, this story definitely resonates with being gaslit from the moment I learned to walk....up until being engaged a second time in my life....I'll schedule myself a mental health consultation.
I'm both sad and real mad at the astonishing amount of people who recognize and relate to the situation of the last family.
Every single second was an opportunity for one infuriating thing to be added on top of another.
Hehe... in my country, if you can't afford to pay for the wedding as a couple, you don't get married. And the groom and the bride make the decisions for everything equally, and maybe get some help from the parents and other relatives, when it comes to food, drinks, venue ( by that, I mean restaurant for the party, cause they get married at city hall and church, in that order), hosting and transport for people who come from a long distance, etc. But yeah.. that kinda takes away the element of bridezilla... for normal people, at least. The richies can be bitches here too.
I felt for her so much. My mom insisted on paying for parts of it though my husband and I didn't really want her too, but I accepted reluctantly. She then kept making changes and wanted my wedding to be a reason for a family reunion to celebrate her birthday and my grandma's birthday. I don't really like being center of the attention but it felt wrong. She then told me I should be ashamed for inviting family she hadn't met but decided she didn't like. Completely ruined my happiness for my wedding.
I hope Kelly got the dresses she wanted and it was sweet of her to keep her bridesmaid comfort and preferences in mind.
Yehhh, this was my family. I was absolutely the scapegoat and I had 31 years of this before I finally went no contact. It’s honestly crazy making to be in a family like this.
Girlllll the stories I’ve seen on Reddit have me like 🤯🤯🤯
@@catrinasoath4848They are pushy and they don't listen but that's not a good reason to cut off all contact with your family. Thats extreme.
The dog one had me laughing.
THERE IS NOTHING NEW UNDER THE SUN!!! The problem with social media is that it while it opens up the world, it can also kill originality.
The family gaslighting that poor girl was hitting a little too close to home. It’s the narcissistic thinking that they’re opinion is superior or that they make better clothing choices EVEN THOUGH ITS NOT THEIR CHOICE TO MAKE!! Reminds me of my own mother honestly.
The bride with the dog got me. I was like wow that moh is terrible but then she showed the picture and I laughed 😂
And in the last one the family was pissing me off. Like don't you want your daughter to have the wedding of her dreams? Then why would you go and do this?? I just feel so bad for the bride 😢
First bride's makeup and fit with the headband is actually really good 😩💯
I was once stuck in traffic in very snowy weather, which was much more intense than I expected on my way to the groomer. I called 3 times to update her how the ride was going and eventually asked if maybe it's better we reschedule. I apologized and would've been prepared to pay some money as a fee, she said it was ok.
So I don't understand how that attitude is possible 😄
My mom was a lot like the mother at the end of this video. She would intentionally sabotage anything that mattered to me whenever possible. Haven't spoken to her in 17 years. Now I'm getting married to the most amazing man, and this video makes me grateful. It's a nice reminder that I get to celebrate drama free 🥰
I'm so happy for you!
@@ununhexium Thank You! 💖💖💖
My mom was very similar to this (Dad too). Gaslighting, verbal abuse, and physical abuse became the norm after they adopted me. I'm over 20 years YOUNGER than all my siblings (I was adopted at 9 and I'm 33 now), yet when she got cancer and eventually passed, I was the only one there talking care of her while her biological kids barely talked to her on holidays. Half of me is sad they're gone, but the other half is relieved to be free... 😥
@@mikoamaya134 I can totally relate. It's nice to know that us good hearted people are not alone in this world 🥲🥲
The last bride, you can tell that she is trying so hard to get her point across, without yelling. Especially when she's trying to explain and they are all talking over her.
The bride was going with the list of what she didn't want and the mother went, this is what you want
That was a good laugh about the "maid" of honor 🤣
This is wild to watch bc I know Cami in real life and you’re watching a friend of mine narrate this story and wow the internet is weird. 😂😂😂
When my cousin got married she absolutely did the right thing by announcing that she already had everything taken care of and nobody needs to help. Though all of her aunts and mother were all jumping over each other to recommend their help she still adamantly said “No”. The only thing they could do was “ Just show up” she said.
She did this because she’s smart.
Doing the same! I asked a wedding planning group I'm in how to politely say it's a child free wedding as well ❤❤❤
Yeah this is what I would do too. I'm too picky and will NOT be okay if you do something that I asked you not to do.
Imagine thinking you own a wedding venue or headband style (not even the same design). Is every Indian woman out there gonna sue every other Indian woman getting married because they have similar styled jewelry, headbands, saris, etc??? People gonna be suing each other over particular shades of champaign?
People have been wearing similar garments for their weddings for centuries...imagine thinking you're so unique for getting married in a particular outfit or place
The thing that triggered me the most about the last one (besides all of it) is not that she gave specific instructions on what the dresses needed to look like, but that she gave specific instructions to get ONLY ONE that can be RETURNED! The mom knew what she was doing. I thought this whole thing was a gag because of how absurd it was that the family was taking the mom’s side and making Kelly feel like she was overreacting. I hope she feels validated by the amount of rage that the public has
while i was studying interior architecture and furniture design, our teacher told as that chair has been designed ones and you are not gonna create chair again. i think the same goes to the weddings and different themes. if there is a same theme, it usually has same notes and details, 'cause it belongs to that spesific category. people can try to be special and unique, but at the end, we are all copying and creating stuff again and again. :'D
What?! An extremely popular wedding venue, with a very specific look, might have more than one wedding with that look going on?!! Shocking! Even if she copied your wedding (which I still doubt) WHO CARES?? A wedding is not a popularity contest; it's supposed to be a celebration of the love you share with your spouse! So this girl had a similar wedding to yours; so what? It shouldn't take away from the experience of your own wedding! Unless....a Tiktok user is extremely shallow and narcissistic? No! Surely not!
Lol. It's true though. The important thing is that you had an enjoyable and happy wedding with the people who love you. The same venue using their decor for more than one individual wedding because that's the esthetic and what they already have? No! Scandalous! Furniture must never be sat on by two different butts! Also, no wedding gowns must have any of the same details even if the dresses are designed by the same person! How dare a designer have a specific style or theme! 🙄
On that second to last one, the bride-to-be was being so unbelievably calm.
How could the mom do her like that, and then not care?
She's clearly been scapegoated her entire life. I hope she goes no contact on her family soon, or that she did already.
Mother is a narcissist, dad an enabler, brother the golden child.