đ„ Is Your Home Fat Friendly? Fat Positive Checklist đ„
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 11. 07. 2024
- Should you have to make your space accessible for obese people?
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Yeah no. I don't really have morbidly obese friends. I live in the mountains and we hike and climb. They wouldn't be able to hang with us. It's too hard if you aren't just generally fit.
My home isn't even short friendly, and I am a short person. I have to use chair when I have to pick something from high shelves, and know what? I don't feel like a victim in this world!
World is simply designed for majority of people, I may need a little more effort for something but I am still able to do anything that tall people can, because I am taking care of my health.
I live on the seventh floor of a nineteenth century Parisian building... If you can climb the stairs then you're welcome, if you're that morbidly obese you don't even fit in the stairs #sorrynotsorry
If someone breaks my chair they better replace it lol
Noo It'S yOuR fAuLt that you didn't have suitable chairs in the fiiirst place, you should have accomodated all the fatties.âïž
Lmao ikr. I don't have money to replace my chairs just because your 400 pound ass can't accept the fact that you need to loose weight
Forcing me to pay for your broken furniture and floors is fatphobic đđđ
Lol my Uncle Did break one of our chairs when he came to visit once
This post is an admission that being obese is unhealthy. If Health at every size were true why would fat people need all this accommodating? Donât their bodies function exactly like a thin person? This person is in some ways admitting that HAES is not true
Good point!
Well said!
Fat privilege
exactly what i thought when he read the stair count thing. like holy shit- im 180lbs but i walk up 3 flights everytime i go in my apartment. they must be considerably larger
How dare you speak truth. Thatâs unacceptable
Ah yes, let me drop $2k+ to remodel my home because somebody else refuses to accept personal responsibility for their health.
My place is 100% fatphobic. Over 100 years old, 3rd floor, narrow stairwell (2 130lb ppl cannot walk side by side) Victorian home. No a/c and absolutely shitty airflow.
Unfortunately, that's all I can afford, so if y'all want my place to be fat positive, please pay my rent for said place.
Thank you!
My apartment building is an older Victorian era hotel. People were shorter and smaller when this place was built
I want to visit. Sounds gorgeous!
@Scott McErlean are you 12?
My home is also extremely fat phobic. Early 1970s mobile home with the original avocado green bathtubs and toilets. They are smaller and narrower than modern toilets. Doorways into bedrooms are also slightly smaller. Closets are narrower than modern closets and not meant to hang plus size clothing in that a plastic hanger barely fits. I had to find wire hangers to make sure clothes were not touching the walls. One toilet is actually in a stall-like area behind the shower and is very small, there is only about 2 inches between the toilet and the wall on each side. I have one friend who can't use that particular bathroom because she can't wipe in that space. I have all wood cat-proof seating all over because I like the mission, rustic look. I like my fat phobic mobile home. Edit went and measured. It's only 2 inches from tank to wall. There's about 4.5" from bowl to wall. Very small space!
@@flordeamapolita I LOVE tiny spaces!!! They are great to force one to declutter! My goal is to live out of a van for a little bit while working and saving for a downpayment.
My home is prepared for visit of fat people. I have my dumbbells and yoga mat always out. Come on and work with me!
Plot twist: my husband and I just don't have living room furniture. We expect everybody to bring their own seating because our dog is why we can't have nice things (and nobody else can either).
This list is more suitable for a care home or a similar facility for the elderly or disabled people.
Exactly
Holy shit that's so true.
I would think it would be more embarrassing to address to anyone
A REAL disabled person with a wheelchair.
My husband and I are fat. We are working out ass off to be healthy. Literally
Well done đ keep up the good work
@@brightstar78 I don't know how to respond to you. Mostly because he literally talks about being healthy. You must not watch anything of his, just go though the comments. Also he isn't the reason we are losing weight. We've been doing this for over a year and half. I also was making a joke.
That's all I got. I have no other ideas how to respond to you. You have baffled me and my husband.......
proud of u sis ! ily
Ummm I'm not investing money into reinforced furniture, specialty toilets *unless its a fancy heated Japanese one *, structural changes, heating and cooling changes and such.
Of all the things I could spend my money on this is literally so far down the list its under buying a goose just to terrorize me in my own yard.
I have a friend who is an amputee and before she got her prosthetics I used to carry her inside then go back for her wheelchair and I would shove furniture around to get her around so we could still party. She can't just eat less and exercise to get her legs back so I would NEVER accommodate someone who can solve their accessibility problems through diet and exercise.
Being fat isn't a handicap, thats so insulting to actually handicapped people who can't just change their lifestyle and stop needing accessibility accommodations.
A goose to just terrorize me in my yardđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
That goose comment sent me to my grave! đđ€Łđ€Łâ°ïž
I wish to know more about the heated Japanese toilet
I've been obese most of my life and it fucking sucks. I definitely had that victim mentality for a long time. I'm sad, I'm depressed, I've had a bad day, I deserve to over eat. I deserve this. But I also always felt guilty because I could feel the effects of fatness on my body - how hard it is to run, jump, get out of bed, breathe. I've lost 70lbs now, still more to lose, but I refuse to let some stupid fat molecules ruin my life. Even though I will probably always have saggy skin, every day, my body is better. My mind is clearer.
Good job! :D.
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Incorporate weights to prevent the saggy skin? Iâm not too sure, this is a guess.
Way to go! I lost 130 lbs ago 4 years ago, never going back!! Youâve got this đȘ
I lost almost that much and then hit the gym, 5 years ago. Good job!! Get that diet in control. That's the biggest obstacle.
My mom is overweight. When I get my first home I know this conversation will undoubtedly come up. I plan on telling her that I'm getting the kind of home I want regardless of how she feels about it.
"those stairs are to high for me when I want to visit."
"Too bad. Lose weight."
Reminds me of a friend of mine
YEP !
@Lillymay Parker Found the fatty. Also I didn't even mention relationship status in my comment. Where the hell did that come from? đđ
@Lillymay Parker what is wrong with you?
My mom just complains that everything is "so high up" and that she can't look into my cabinets. Sorry that I place the furniture at a height that's comfortable for my body, just as you did with your home.
Iâd never ask this of anyone tbh. I have MANY food allergies and when Iâm going to social events I offer to just bring my own food to avoid putting stress on others. Unless you are disabled I donât know how you can expect this of others who are kind enough to open their home to you.
The extent they go to to avoid taking responsibility for their behaviour is insane.
^^This.^^
For real đ
I'm obese and I'm not offended. I don't even have this type of stuff in my home. How can you be arrogant enough to demand other people do this just to make you feel better. It's mind boggling.
i mean gosh, i think that fat people should not be teased, bullied, or feel self hatred for their size. but we should still encourage healthy habits. my father had a stroke from high blood pressure that came as a result of his obesity. he immediately turned his life around and is doing much better now, but only after years of struggling to speak, coordinate his movements, drive, etc after his stroke (still has permanent organ damage). he was in his early 40s when it happened, and i would say heâs one of the lucky ones. the consequences are no joke and it should not be normalized. i wonder whatâs going to happen to these people in a decade or so. i started watching your videos a few months ago and always thought âdamn, heâs harsh.â but you never fail to speak straight facts. health is EVERYTHING.
If someone canât fit into my 600 square foot apartment then they can stay out! My furniture is not able to hold a 600 pounder.
I can't believe the title of this video! This "movement" is getting crazier every day. I'm dying đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
The only reason this "movement" is still around is that it's not going anywhere fast, just like the people who support it.
đ€Łđđ€Ł this is the movement that would benefit from more movement!
To us people that live in apartments , Iâm gonna tell you right now most apartment buildings are fatphobic.. also my home is my domain, if you get the honour of being invited into it, I expect you to respect my living situation just like I would respect yours.
People donât have any self control anymore therefore blaming everyone around them for their âfatâ
âPussificationâ is my new fave word
Can you imagine trying to follow that stupid checklist. That like $60,000 in home renovations and new furniture. Screw that!! Iâm not spending $60k because someone doesnât want to lose weight.
I'd feel so embarrassed if someone I knew wrote or posted this.
Yeah... my house was built in the 1930s. The bathrooms are TINY. I'm not blowing out a wall to expand the powder room.
If my fat friends are uncomfortable in my home they can go somewhere else cause it's my house not a fat house for sick people
Exactly
My former in-laws are like this. Never came to visit my ex and I at our house because they had to go up stairs to get in to the house. đ€·đ»ââïž
I am obese, formerly suuuuper obese, and Iâm working everyday to get healthier. Your channel motivates me all the time. 92lbs down!
My cottage (built in 1831) is offended by the non-inclusivity of this house description!
so you want me to remodel my home because you're gonna visit... you wanna send me the check?
Lost 48 pounds in 5 months going on 6 and Iâm trying to lose another 90 pounds đȘđœ. Wish me luck
You're doing great!! Keep it up and good luck !!
If anyone ever come up with this topic as a conversation in MY home. That person and I will no longer associate. The only thing that should be sturdy is my table and coaster holding your glass of water.
If I have to model my house to accommodate you and you're weight you best be paying me
When I talked to an obese friend a couple of weeks ago, he talked about his strategies to eg. Move from one place in a restaurant to another. It never occurred to me that a person needed a strategy to do a thing like that.
Iâd do alto for a disabled person, but this here is going too far.
How about every time Virgie Tovar talks about âbody positivityâ we say âShut up Tedâ lol
If anything, my home will be fat-proof NOT fat-friendly.
So all homes are fat phobic
Except nursing homes.
@@Gaia_Seraphina I haven't spent any time in a nursing home so I can only speculate that they don't have extra wide toilets so maybe only semi-fatphobic
I've had 2 chairs broken by obese people. And i had a panic attack while watching a family of obese people on my back deck and feared joining them on it đŹ
Just because a person has chose to spend an excessive amount of money on food that has left them in a state where they can't function in a standard home or space does not mean I have to spend my hard earned money accommodating someone else's self inflicted state of being
#yogurlisbroke
I am losing weight. I have lost 50 lbs so far. I was 333lbs. Feeling so much better
Iâm sorry but I could not stop laughing at swolios reactions lol
Literally screaming laughing the whole time đđ dude your sarcasm hits different
The only thing I agree with is the room temp... because people keep their house wayyyyyy to cold.
Bring a damn sweater!
If u dont like my house dont come?
I have been morbidly obese most of my life (I am 33) and your videos are part of the reason I hired a personal trainer. Thank you!!! One of the greatest decisions of my life!!! Instead of failing diet after diet for the 8th year in a row, the gym I joined gave me a no bs meal plan and have taught me so much about fitness. I haven't met my goal yet but I am already seeing and feeling major benefits. That is what gets me about people encouraging staying obese.... what are the benefits? There are no actual benefits to being obese. Why do we seek benefits, perks and rewards when it comes to every other aspect of our lives yet the fat movement promotes giving up the rewards of health and wellness/or acts like there aren't really any? It's a perk that my apnea has gone away, snoring nearly gone, my clothes fit better, I don't feel like I'm dying on stairs anymore, I sleep better... it isn't beneficial dealing with all these ailments.
Answering the question in the video, as a person who has up until very recently been obese (BMI 35) these videos do not offend me and instead they help. This channel and the angry bald man help because I watch and I see what I am stepping away from by making healthier choices for myself.
This is one person banned from all family gatherings and âfriendâ parties
Wide, high toilets? Does that mean itâs too big for a normal sized person to sit on without falling in?
A terrible idea for a home in which children live or visit, which might be more often than when an obese person visits.
My grandpa was blind, so after witnessing what he went through and what he taught me, I have feelings about accessibility.
He always taught me it was *his* responsibility to do what he can and address specifics (not give people a checklist, but maybe make them aware his guide dog would be coming). He always taught me that the more you rely on people, the more you HAVE to rely on people.
Basically, if you're giving someone else the responsibility, you're essentially at their will. He chose not to live that way.
I'm so grateful I had that experience growing up and it really taught me so much about personal responsibility and accountability.
Using the lessons he taught me, I've been able to lose 200 pounds and keep it off for 12 years. Knowing that I did it on my own, I can take all credit for my actions, and never became dependent on someone else to reach my goals.
Having empathy and looking out for others is one thing.... giving someone else a checklist and requiring others to be responsible for your accessibility and mobility? Nah, that ain't it...
My home is to make myself comfortable. I pay my mortgage, I purchase the furniture, I pay for the upkeep. I will put what I want in my house that is comfortable to me. Demanding others curtail their homes to accommodate your morbid obesity is just more incredibly self centered behavior from those who refuse to take responsibility for themselves.
Given my dad is about 50lbs overweight then I guess my house is fat friendly. Its friendly to anyone who's HUMAN shaped. If someone is to heavy for my wrought iron chairs outside then I dont want you on my wooden porch.
Iâm legally blind myself and I havenât made a whole lot of accommodations even with in my own house.... Times I do worry if any of my friends are ever in a wheelchair for whatever reason or on crutches about all of the damn stairs, some of the stairs are short so I could get a smaller ramp but for the bigger proper staircases I donât know what I would do. If you have a disabled friend the best thing you can do is just tell them ahead of time and let them decide on their own about the challenge.
Considering itâs hard to even have that conversation... people are intimidated by it I get it...but this one? People do need these accommodations in their own homes but expecting other people to have them already? I donât know how I feel about it.
I agree with everything you said 100%. I am currently obese and am on the keto diet to lose weight so I can get healthier and more fit. Fat acceptance is bs
As someone who lives in NYC this whole checklist is actual insanity
This made me laugh sooo hard, thank you đ
Thanks broâđż
Ah yes, don't we all know that "I will reconstruct my bathroom before that big party I planned, so I can relay plumbing pipes, so there is "ample space" between toilet and the sink" planning inconvenience? Just the usual đđŒ
Havenât even watched. Just read the title. UM WHAT!?
Dont forget to have food everywhere at an arms length, as well as insulin goody bags for everyone to enjoy
When you started going through my list, I was thinking this sounds like a list my family make/thinks about when it comes to my grandparents & their walkers/canes/wheelchairs.đ€Šââïž Iâm obese (working on it reversing that) & Iâd be mortified if I got an invite that specified all these items đł no one, NO ONE needs to cater to my weight, my weight problem is on ME, not anyone else. Crazy people.
My front door immediately opens up into a staircase, so I guess my apartment is "fat phobic."
Soooooo we should all spend thousands of dollars renovating and refurbishing our houses so that people who DO NOT EVEN LIVE THERE donât get their fee-fees hurt. Yeah. No.
When he repeatedly said your home đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
Iâm obese and you are inspiration for me daily to change. Down 6!
Hey papa, Iâm obese and your words do not offend me. You speak the truth and I love you for it. I am obese but I have lost 90 pounds and Iâm no longer in the morbidly obese category. I have about 60 pounds left to lose. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel.
I rent. Literally could not make half these changes without doing something that would get me a bollocking from the landlord...
Big girl here. Losing fat, lifting weights, & eating much healthier. I'm not offended. đȘ
The âTVMAnocâ made me insta sub lol
This is so weird. I gained a ton of weight during the pandemic, and I'm starting to feel too fat for my desk chair and a few other items. Instead of complaining about the furniture and wondering why someone won't subsidize me buying new accomodations, it made me 100x more determined to lose the weight I gained so I could fit comfortably into my own home again. My home will not be a "fat-friendly" space. Any future fat people in my life can get over it. Also, a lot of people live in apartments and can't control these things, and/or can't afford to renovate their entire house.
I am fat, weighing 253.4 lbs and I am working steadily to get down to 200 lbs or LESS! Yeah, I said it, LEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSS!
At least the fridge will remain stocked.
They act as if everyone can afford to remodel their home to virtue signal.
Dam bloody â the peppermint tip makes ya sooo fucking funny
I laughed so much watching this video kfkdks I love you
WOW, it's unbelievable how far things have gone! I live on 13th floor. The elevator in our facility often doesn't work.....I guess my home is not fat- friendly đ€BTW, I take the stairs everytime for 20 years, if I don't carry heavy bags...some things are up to you. Have a awesome dayđ
My husbands work friend came over no way would he sit down outside in the back yard. He stood for over an hour. After he left I realized he didn't believe our lawn/deck chairs would hold him.
Omg. I'm crying. đđđ
This makes me wish i could add more stairs to my porch lol
My biggest problem with chairs is lack of beard support really dose a number on my neck.
I have no cartilage and donât have my mpfl in my right leg and I donât even ask people how many stairs are in someoneâs house đ đ
That would be a good idea for your handicaped friends (not even to this extent tho.... you could just have a head's up conversation with them about their needs)
Even when i was creeping up on 300 pounds i never once made sure where i was going accommodated my fat ass. And never once did i refuse to go anywhere because it was a tight squeeze to get into a bathroom stall in a public space or a friend's smaller apartment so it was harder to maneuver around furniture. I changed my lifestyle and dropped the pounds so i could easily go more places and not make myself uncomfortable.
I am 5â2 was 71lbs but now 75.6lbs been going to the gym 3-4 times a day. Hired a personal trainer also. Each week little by little gaining weight to get to a healthy weight
Iâm still obese, 98kg, and no Iâm not offended by your words
LET'S JUST SIT TOGETHER OUTSIDE FRINED.... T_T (Seriously what kind of friend is that to tell someone to change their interiors.)
'Accessibility' as if they have an actual disability đ everyone else needs to accommodate them but they take no responsibility
Lol, they better not come to my house - up the hill, 3rd floor, suuuper narrow hallway and narrow kitchen. And plenty of plants so you have to be careful not to knock them down. And also, if you seat down on wrong place on the sofa the other end will lift đ oh, and cheap plastic seats because I like them. Don't break them.
Nope! My house is a tiny home! A obese family member had to stay with us for a while she broke 2 chairs at my moms house and the frame of the guest bed and told me that she could never live in a tiny house like I do, because it is too small for her. I am not going to change my house to accommodate obese family members, it is a sad world we live in when people blame others for their own health, and want others to accommodate to their lifestyle.
I live on the third floor there are no elevator and one my friends who is overweight will not come to visit mind you I love there for 3 years
I think my wheelchair needs to access the space first...đ actually you know what? I'll go get some sun while I still have my legs
I thought he posted this yesterday
Yes l think he does that for anyone who missed it đ€·ââïž.
Yeah
One of my best friends is morbidly obese and she brings her own chair over a lot of the time. My indoor and outdoor furniture is just fine, but she will bring her XL camp chair over knowing it can hold her weight. Makes me sad but I canât make her change her lifestyle đ€·đŒââïž
This is like watching Leon Lush on TREN
3:09 I mean this would be very helpful for disabled people [physical] and also accessibility isn't about telling others what to do in their own home. many people rent, what happens when they move out if a disabled person needs to move in? I've had difficult housing situations because of a lack of accessible and affordable housing. 15 to 20% of the population has some kind of chronic illness or disability
In the UK we now have regulations that every new home built must be wheelchair accessible from outside
Honestly when the pandemic started I gained more weight again. I was stuck at 181lbs. Your elimination diet idea was helpful. Three weeks ago I guessed one of the culprits was bread. Two weeks ago I found a very low carb bread (that I still eat in moderation now) and today I was down 3 lbs. I lost half an inch on my waistline. Slow progress is still progress. Edit: I am just under 5' 1".
When I get my own house someday it's gonna be fatphobic. It's going to be comfortable for me. You want something different? Bring it yourself or pay for the renovations.
My home isn't even stick figure-friendly
I barely have people over now, I'm not very social. But this is the type of bullshit that doesn't fly, I should get a sign that hangs on the wall and you see it when it opens: "Don't bring that bullshit in here."
I guess I gotta move!
Iâm blessed to have a fast metabolism
Why does this remind me of baby-proofing or puppy-proofing homes when you know your friend with dogs or kids is coming?