Would YOU Date A Fat Person? (EXTRA SALTY)

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  • čas přidán 6. 08. 2020
  • Is refusing to date a fat person fatphobic?
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Komentáře • 458

  • @Swolenormous
    @Swolenormous  Před 3 lety +20

    Would YOU date a fat person??

  • @shanea7050
    @shanea7050 Před 3 lety +400

    I started dating my wife 30 years ago and she was a size 0-1 and 90#. Over the years she has gained and lost weight. Now she is about 160#. I to have gained and lost but for me for the most part I have always been in decent shape. I have been a 265# powerlifter and I have been a 225# bodybuilder. My wife eats her meals and I eat mine. She doesn't like the food I eat. Now I will always look at her and see that beautiful young girl that I fell in love with. Nothing will ever change that and she will always get me to where I need to go in the bedroom. Now I try to encourage her to be more healthy and for the most part she does eat healthy meals but the snacks is what gets her. I am not myself attracted to overweight people but in the same sense it's who my wife is and the adorable things she does that keeps me hooked and attracted to her. Couldn't imagine my life without her. Skinny, chubby, young or old she will always be my dream girl.

  • @EmmaFrosting131
    @EmmaFrosting131 Před 3 lety +117

    I’ve been attracted to so many kinds of men. Even over weight men. There are so many factors that go into it, not just looks.

  • @StrawberryJam806
    @StrawberryJam806 Před 3 lety +8

    I’m just simply not attracted to men who are overweight or even just big in stature. I’ve always been attracted to guys who are very tall and thin. Doesn’t mean I’m fatphobic, I’m just not sexually attracted to men with any weight on them.

  • @JuliannaHolmes
    @JuliannaHolmes Před 3 lety +108

    You cannot force attraction. You either are or you aren’t.

  • @samparkker5103
    @samparkker5103 Před 3 lety +188

    Personally it’s hard to deal with. My ex fiancé and I separated not just because of his lack of care for the relationship itself and lack of respect but for the reason I couldn’t watch someone eat McDonald’s and pizza rolls 24/7 and say the gym is boring. Yet also had pretty bad health issues. It made me feel he didn’t care if he died so why would I want to use my time to foster the relationship when he could just drop dead and didn’t care to try and prevent it.

  • @beyondthelimit5596
    @beyondthelimit5596 Před 3 lety +63

    When are those people going to stop forcing themselves on to others ?? Dating preferences are intimate and private to every individual so no one has the right to dictate what you should be attracted to. My body is not a part of anyone's human rights.

  • @greasi
    @greasi Před 2 lety +1

    I'm going to need the internet to realize that dating is inherently exclusive and that people not being attracted to you is not oppression

  • @Bayumm65
    @Bayumm65 Před 3 lety +16

    I don’t thinks its ok to find an obese person attractive because they’re obese, if you find an obese person attractive for who they are. There’s nothing wrong with that.

  • @adammitchel3374
    @adammitchel3374 Před 3 lety +31

    I once dated a guy who would try to convince me not to workout because it made him feel bad that I was making all of this progress and he still thought of himself as a skinny twig that would always be weak. I told him to come workout with me and do yoga so that he could begin feeling more confident in himself. To that he told to me go F myself. Alright then, regardless of my lack of the community pillar at the time, I still found a way to snap back and get my swole on. Thank you to the fam and Papa for being the community that I don't always get IRL.

  • @paradoxieart
    @paradoxieart Před 3 lety +39

    I’m fat I wouldnt date myself lol BUTT if I’d find someone who’s on a weightloss journey as I am I would at least give it a chance 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @samsays6859
    @samsays6859 Před 3 lety +91

    Why do I have the strange suspicion that she is saying this because she wants to have someone like Papa Swolio date her, and doesn't want to have to date a fat guy....

  • @joelhall5124
    @joelhall5124 Před 3 lety +222

    You have to date people you're not attracted to, otherwise get shamed into it?

  • @bertinalechner8437
    @bertinalechner8437 Před 3 lety +69

    That lady made that post, because she won't date guys, who are as fat as herself. She wants a pretty fit guy, but stay obese herself. The fat ladies are the real "fatphobic" ones and hope, that gaslighting someone, who is out of their league, will get them a guy, who looks like a fitness model. It's very narcissistic and delusional to think that way. You aren't entitled to get a bodybuilder when you yourself look like jabba the hut. Dating someone isn't the same as looking for a room mate or friend, where it is about personality only.

  • @IAmNotYourProblem
    @IAmNotYourProblem Před 3 lety +183

    “Would you date a fat person”

  • @TheLola1235
    @TheLola1235 Před 3 lety +248

    Can't force someone to be attracted to you just because you're insecure about your body. I don't find fatness attractive. Sorry not sorry.

  • @earthstar7534
    @earthstar7534 Před 3 lety +100

    Listen, I'm not going to be a caregiver to self inflicted illness. If my husband got hurt or sick, Don't get me wrong I'd carry him to the ends of the earth. If he ate and sat his ass into serious health issues not so much. Our children deserve health focused parents. The example we set will shape who we are.

  • @rae2622
    @rae2622 Před 3 lety +46

    I’m in a committed relationship and my partner doesn’t work out like I do but he’s not fat. He lifts a bit but I go harder than he does. But I would not date a fat persons for two reasons. 1) I am not attracted to fat. I can’t help that. I just am not. I don’t hate fat people and I’m happy to be friends but I am not attracted to that. 2) I wouldn’t want to be with someone whose lifestyle is so different than mine. I feel like it wouldn’t work. I’ve worked through a lot of my shit. I’ve been fat. I’ve been super thin. And I couldn’t be with someone who would potentially throw off my progress

  • @jessies_doodles_9876
    @jessies_doodles_9876 Před 3 lety +57

    I did .... I'll never do that again... Way too much issues.. Like me having big dreams and him wanting me to be a stay at home wife... Also me working out and him thinking I'd cheat on him with a gym guy... But refusing to go with me and see I won't... And whenever I invited him to any thing that would mean being up and around he said I was fat shaming him.. When I said I was worried about him he had a big fit.... Can't really build a relationship when all you ever do together is eat

  • @thetearsofjungkook4985
    @thetearsofjungkook4985 Před 3 lety +43

    I’d never date a lazy person who doesn’t care about themselves period