I am 24 years of age and I have the same problem one after another with women. I only date mid 20s and sometimes early 20s, but all of them have the same high masculine energy and character. Brother you answered all the questions and thoughts I had about why our women are too masculine. I've noticed that other race of women are more feminine and super gentle with men than our own. I haven't dated outside of my race, but I see more other race of women giving me more feminine charisma, soft charitable characters, and the manly role. I love my black women, but I am one day planning to get married. our young women have to make a change because other races are snatching our brothers out here. I currently live in Houston, TX and there's a lot of interracial coupling going on out here. Sisters, we need yall to make a change and reevaluate yourselves for us young men please. Love the video brother and thank you much for your work.
Denis Daseller well look on what blacks got to go through in America. So I understand why bw are so aggressive. WW, Latina’s, and Asians don’t need to go through that.
Finally!!!!! I've found a man on youtube that talks about this topic, references the bible, AND isn't hateful. Had to go through a weird trail to find you in the suggested videos but thank goodness lol! After a terrible relationship with my ex, I knew that there were things I needed to improve on within myself in order to be the person I need to be for the relationship I want. I didn't know anything about all of the masculine and feminine stuff prior to that relationship but now I'm trying to learn and grow. Really informative video, thank you!
When I visit other countries particularly in South America, melanin skin women are feminine, classy, gorgeous with ridiculously healthy bodies. My advice to the Black men that have their life together is to be extremely ambitious in growing in your professional career and start a business as well. You want to put yourself in a position where you will have more options and have access to better quality women to choose from.
Steve D Great point. Once you see the women outside of this country, it's mind blowing. There are some great women that stay in their lanes overseas. They can't all be trusted, but the odds are wayyyy better than choosing women in the USA.
Right on brother, the more feminine the better im a very masculine man and i have to have an ultra feminine female in order for us to connect, keep the black power going.
Women are Women regardless of ethnicity. Black Women don't fail in relationships... all too often Black Men fail to recognise that we we are Women first & Black second... all too often Black Men are not assuming the true positioning as a Man in the relationship... & forcing too much responsibility on the Nubian Woman...
Ali Rashada are you an alpha or a beta. You sound like a beta. Cause beta will say “I need all women to be so feminine for me to feel like a man” it’s like y’all are intimidated by alpha females
1: Black women grows up with 2 parents; but her father tells her to never depend on a man because he fears for her based on his past and the way today's men degrade women and predominately fail at some point in life. Thus, she becomes very masculine and feminist. 2: Black woman grows up with only her mother and she has the soft and feminine things that men want, yet she subcontiously never learned how to keep a man, because she never grew up seeing it. That woman may become a feminist also, but it's by default and not a real feminist; it's the feminist 'follower or fan'. It's a loss either way. Solution: Raise your daughters in a two parent household, and both parents must teach that girl how to be with a man.
Digital Industries sorry, not all females want relationships. Males have lied and cheated for generations. Today there’s Down-Low males. Males aren’t relevant to succeed and be happy in life. Many females choose to be single and all these videos with males degrading and complaining won’t change all females. No females are too fed up to be lonely.
I grew up with two parents; very strict religious household--the issue is my parents gave me NO guidance regarding relationships. The only thing strongly enforced is sex is not something you do until marriage. They said to just make friends with guys and date to learn what you like. Very vague and unhelpful advice. I learned how to navigate relationships by modeling my parents but they are married. BW stop acting like you are a wife before you get a ring. You will save yourself a lot of heartache.
Many BW are mainly masculine (profess, protect, provide) because they do not have the example of positive femininity (invite, influence, intuition) or they simply did not have a positive masculine figure. Also, it has help to make them high achievers in work, business and education. Leading with achievements is masculine so it's not something I do. I may not have been taught much about relationships but I was definitely grew up with a mother that valued her womanhood. She was very intuitive, influential, imaginative but also very protective. She exemplified both feminine and masculine energies--the latter as a survival. She taught me etiquette, fashion, presentation and poise are very vital to women's influence. I tried to rebel when I was younger as I was more tomboyish since I had a twin brother but now that I am older, appreciate her efforts.
I really appreciate this video. The comments brought out a lot of good points without bashing black women which is what I see and hear most of the time. It was edifying and constructive without putting anyone down.
Thank you for speaking truth in such a gentle way. This message was easy to receive. I am a feminine woman that has a very masculine husband. Even we have to be reminded of this simple truth. It will change your dating life. My husband loves it some much I don't have to worry about his attraction to me. It's so true. I just want to thank all of black men voicing this to the black women. Who should we hear this from ladies? I want to say that this is clearly a message of love. Where do you hear hate? Before you attack me (because those same black women attack us feminine black women too) think about this. Then pray that God shows you your true state of thinking. Because the truth is he is right and so many of our brothers are right. We as women want our men to straighten up is it not fair that they ask us to meet them half way by doing the same? I was taught all the same feminism bs coming up too and it is hard to go against all that you know....but if there is error in it and it's negative in your life let it go. Black men are capable of loving us and providing. My husband proves this everyday. These men are tired of pleading with us ladies. It is an act of love to show you what you are doing incorrect and holding you accountable for your own actions.
I've been working to reclaim my femininity and increase my feminine energy for a while now. This morning in meditation something (God) suggested that I get clearer about what is masculine energy and traits. Who knew you'd tell me the giving is a masculine quality. This explains so much. Thank you!
As a black woman I agree . There are times I’ve been masculine. With the help of some of my black sisters on CZcams I’ve toned down a lot and I’m starting to see how I’ve acted and how some women act today . I had an ex friend. She has about four kids. Omg every time I call her she’s cursing and hollering. Every other word out her mouth is a curse word and not just simple ones either. There’s times I had to get off the phone. Even when we are in public .. again horrible.she acted so hard and “independent “ . There were times where I saw potential in her. She was really nice and appears classy when she wasn’t that way but of course that didn’t last long. You know what’s the crazy thing is? Her 16 year old daughter acts much more classier than her!!!! Smh . Now this lady has a man but I don’t even need to go into what type of man he is. You can just about predict it from how I described his woman. 🤦🏾♀️
I had a meeting in personnel. When I walked into the office, the black receptionist said, "what do you want". The white woman was sitting in her office and said, "Mr. Xxxx, is that you?". Several months later, a black man told me that his daughter was in the hospital and wanted me to give her a visit and have a word of prayer with her. I walked in the hospital room and that same black receptionist was laying in bed unconscious. Mr. Williams, I know something about forgiveness that most individuals don't know. Jesus died on Calvary for all humanity but, humanity must "repent" to be forgiven. An individual can not be forgiven without admitting they were wrong. I couldn't pray for that woman in all honesty. PEOPLE OUGHT TO BE CAREFUL HOW THEY TREAT STRANGERS.
Miss Klassy How can you open your mouth 👄 to talk about "Godliness" when your heart is so full of hate for black men? Your a white supremacist in black face talking about Godliness? Please tell me exactly where does that even begin to make sense? What God do you serve where your way of thinking is acceptable for a Godly woman? I don't know of any.
I loved the way you described a feminine woman - I felt the power and allure of that woman you described. Thank you for your teachings and your transparency. It is amazing!
It's obvious that when you see other woman around the world seem warm, humble, and feminine but here in the USA sad story and the marriage/ divorce rate shows this. This was a great vid as I watch my fam and others go down the drain because of this energy it's to much.
Black women are not afforded the opportunity to live in a community for about 398 years where they were protected and left to explore the feminine side as you say. We have been so busy raising and protecting our children since at first the black man was emasculated by the white man and now since we have been in this role for centuries, we tend to operate within it. Men, unfortunately have not stepped up to the plate both in the community which is indicative of their roles in the relationship. Men have to LEAD AND PROVIDE AND GIVE THEIR LIVES FOR SAID COMMUNITY INSTEAD OF RUNNING AROUND ACTING LIKE PIMPS AND PERPETUAL 20 YEAR old. In reference to the scripture you put forth, my people die for their lack of knowledge, refers to who they are as a nation and who GOD is in relation to them and the dynamics of that relationship. And who is their enemy and how to navigate the world. I am so tired of black men not changing who they are and LEAD THIS DAMN NATION. THAT IS WHY YOU WERE CREATED TO PROTECT AND SERVE.. TURN THAT ON AND THE MASCULINE PART OF A WOMAN WILL AUTOMATICALLY DIAL DOWN.
good points,...but it doesnt go back that far, this is two, or three generation thing, theres many reasons that i could point out, and you can rebutt ,...but the fact is, you are not a man, you are a woman, but as the responsibility and power of the woman has increased , an attitude of masculinity has emergered,...you all have raised us men, for basically the last 50-75 years,...but the side effect has been is this attitude, strong forceful, and really angry at times, i constaintly hear these women yelling at their kids, for even the slightest infranction of behavior..its disturbing, its made these boys subserviant to women,...an example, boys are giving thier mothers cards on fathers day.
The reason some women act masculine is cause they been told they are the back bone of the community and they be trying to show and prove they can do it on there own and thats just part.
+Arneal Williams I have managed 6000 employees, taught classes all over America and the following is a fact. The black American woman is the most insecure woman in America and have extremely low self esteem. This is evident by their constant repeating "I am strong, intelligent, independent and have high self esteem". You know a person with those characteristics do not have to verbalize it to others but, it is shown in their actions. When I walk into a classroom of predominantly black women, the expression on their face is as if all of them are on their monthly. Yes, UCLA has a doctoral program on facial expressions. When I see these "sisters", I find a white subordinate to teach the class. I will peak in the window and every bw in the classroom will have a cordial expression....i am not going to put up with that foolishness. One more scenario.... I was doing a site survey for the installation of a multi-million dollar computer system. The CEO and his staff was following me from room to room and floor to floor. I walked into one office with a bw sitting behind a huge desk, big picture window and instead of saying, "may I help you", this bw began addressing me as if I was a low down dog. I didn't say one word and walked on into her office. About three seconds later, the CEO walked in and this bw went into Aunt Jemima mode....Oh no, she should have went Aunt Jemima when I walked in.... Arneal, I took her office from her right then and there. Bw in corporate America show their a$$ to bm until they discover he is the director, manager or their superior. Then the bm suppose to have amnesia when the bw start flirting, spreading her legs. Only a fool would give such a woman entrance into his life because, such a woman will attempt to prove she is superior .....first impression is lasting impression.
jim johnston The crazy thing is that they are all over social media bragging about how they throw black men's resumes in the trash. About how they use the company rule book to screw black men out of their jobs one document at a time.
Miss Klassy That may be true, but evidently not all of them. Otherwise why would these women be on line bragging about this? Not my words. I work for myself, have my own business so I don't have to deal with any of these women. Except when one of my clients is boning then discards these swirlers. A few have come crying 😢 on my shoulder after being kicked to the curb, but I am not here for that so I keep it moving.
Miss Klassy You've got me confused with someone else. I don't know "Maceo" and I'm not old enough to have been hating on bw for 40 years. Also, I don't hate bw. Somebody has gotten inside your head, but it's not me.
I think most women want to marry up as it makes them feel and act feminine and submit, however, it isn’t easy to find men on a certain high economic level and and financial status. For instance, a man with leadership, ownership and investments. Therefore, some women prefer to remain single than to settle and marry down.
This man dont know shit. He just talking. I love when a woman Gives me something back cause she showing that she cares about me to and she is not selfish or trying to use me.
Black seed, you have missed the point, he's not saying that men don't appreciate when we give. What the man is saying that if a woman constantly GIVES and get nothing in return. Men are the giver's and women are receiver's. Therefore, if a man doesn't have a problem with receiveing mostly he has FEMINIST character. I have met a few player's in my life ( feminist mode).
jack pot very true I am very masculine my father change me at age 20 to be able to do for my self in every way to never depend on no one but the fights change me the most yes I would love to be that lady but when I do the bull shit start he now want to get crazy and I have to bring out him and beat his ass
joyce fuller you made a great point in that women's fathers are teaching them to not need a man vs teaching them how to be with a man. Fathers hate other men too because of how men in society degrade women, to the point that he fears for his daughter ending up with the men of today; black particularly.
But what about a "balanced man"? A man who has a good portion of masculine and feminine or who has a good handle on himself enough to know how to use both. That's the crowned jewel. Where are those men?
Black Women have NO interest or Desire for Men like that. BW Love, Worship, and Adore Pookies and Rayray types. The Men you described are the Men BW ignore and Crap on for being Good Men that want to be an asset to a woman, to truly protect and provide for her. But we are NOT her preference. It is what it is........
Hello again. I kind of just started listening to your talks. I can again in some respects, but I totally disagree overall. Black womem today are not taught the art of being feminine. Being a real woman is so much more than the outward looks of us BEAUTIFUL creatures. We black women are sexy...full...passionate and very real. Where I grew up, we had charm classes and those teachings were backed up by religion. My mother didn't allow eating outside...rollers in the hair in public...talking loud and making your husband the king of his castle. I was raised the old fashion way. You feed your husband first...take care of your household and the MONEY. We've just got away from so many things that make us WOMAN! I'm still all woman and them some.
Admit that you are Selfish, angry, greddy, demanding, unforgiving, rude, like confrotation, uncaring, don't cook, don't clean your house, unloving!. You need to seek help from a Professional therapist. Your heart needs to be remanufactured, rebuilt and polished to OEM Specifications!.
N by the way if I have to care for the house n work n care for the children what r y'all needed for n for this u men will be judge 2nd Timothy chapter 3 nen
There are Many Black Males That Are Lonely And Alone. Stop Trying To A ct As If You And Your Male Kind Is A Prize, And Over Black Women, You Are No Prize, You Males Are Not Over Black Women.
Anonymous.... It is very simple to see by your posts that you are attempting to play black men and women against each other for your racist amusement! This man has decoded and very aptly articulated what has become a widespread issue in our community. Your avatar very aptly reveals your spirit of descention, intrigue and double crossing rhetoric, all designed to create the hate you claim some of us very experienced and well-versed in our knowledge on the subject black men are "spreading" for merely taking an in-depth dissection of our race of women based on our uniquely intimate and historically close proximity to them. You are dead wrong to be on here trying to foment further discord between the black man and the black woman, you are nothing more than a spectator on the sidelines, without the ability to intrinsically know or feel what we go through with the type of black women we must deal with as their primary male consorts by natural attraction and instinctive magnetism. Whoever and whatever you "are" as a race or gender (lesbians do this shit all the time!), it would behoove you to stay out of this, you don't belong in it and don't give me a rant about your "right to free speech" because your speech is designed to destroy what fragile bonds still exist between black men and black women, two groups i feel very strongly you are intent on helping to tear further apart.
Why bw play th masculine role? Mainly bcuz the fathers of their kids have backed out don't want t commit, don't know how t commit were not shown by good role models how t commit n b responsible. So th sista has to b both mother and father wen she don't want to b. Pulling th teenage son up setting him str8t again n again doing th fathers role as well as her own. When a woman then meets z man she can b a little jaggared round the edges cuz of the 2roles she's had to b playing 4 x amount of yrs. It can take patience, time n understanding on th mans part to realise this n some men do. Cuz I know some women want to be loved n treated like a woman n hav the man b the head of th household n play his part n lead. I certainly don't wanna b doing th mans job in th home. It can take time 4some women to let go of all that masculinity n chill. Some of course, wanna stay as they are.
it's because black women want to lead in the relationship. they demonstrate masculine energy.
I am 24 years of age and I have the same problem one after another with women. I only date mid 20s and sometimes early 20s, but all of them have the same high masculine energy and character. Brother you answered all the questions and thoughts I had about why our women are too masculine. I've noticed that other race of women are more feminine and super gentle with men than our own. I haven't dated outside of my race, but I see more other race of women giving me more feminine charisma, soft charitable characters, and the manly role. I love my black women, but I am one day planning to get married. our young women have to make a change because other races are snatching our brothers out here. I currently live in Houston, TX and there's a lot of interracial coupling going on out here. Sisters, we need yall to make a change and reevaluate yourselves for us young men please.
Love the video brother and thank you much for your work.
Denis Daseller well look on what blacks got to go through in America. So I understand why bw are so aggressive. WW, Latina’s, and Asians don’t need to go through that.
God bless I plann on visiting Huston soon never been and I'm enthusiastic about going anyway suggestions on where to go and what to do ?
Denis Daseller lo
@@d.joseph98 being a masculine woman hurts yall in the long run...I'm sure you know that already
Real Advice bw are masculine for a reason......bm too feminine. That is going to hurt y’all in a long run
I just had another aha! moment. Because the masculine man is a giver...women who desire one must learn to be great receivers. This is epic!
Finally!!!!! I've found a man on youtube that talks about this topic, references the bible, AND isn't hateful. Had to go through a weird trail to find you in the suggested videos but thank goodness lol! After a terrible relationship with my ex, I knew that there were things I needed to improve on within myself in order to be the person I need to be for the relationship I want. I didn't know anything about all of the masculine and feminine stuff prior to that relationship but now I'm trying to learn and grow. Really informative video, thank you!
Thank you so much, I really appreciate your comments.
When I visit other countries particularly in South America, melanin skin women are feminine, classy, gorgeous with ridiculously healthy bodies. My advice to the Black men that have their life together is to be extremely ambitious in growing in your professional career and start a business as well. You want to put yourself in a position where you will have more options and have access to better quality women to choose from.
Steve D Great point. Once you see the women outside of this country, it's mind blowing. There are some great women that stay in their lanes overseas. They can't all be trusted, but the odds are wayyyy better than choosing women in the USA.
Izzie's World That's true, the women are a reflection of the men. That's why I gave up on associating with the African American community
Izzie's World
Bullshit!!
Right on brother, the more feminine the better im a very masculine man and i have to have an ultra feminine female in order for us to connect, keep the black power going.
Women are Women regardless of ethnicity. Black Women don't fail in relationships... all too often Black Men fail to recognise that we we are Women first & Black second... all too often Black Men are not assuming the true positioning as a Man in the relationship... & forcing too much responsibility on the Nubian Woman...
Me to bro
Men don't put whores In front of them.
Ali Rashada are you an alpha or a beta. You sound like a beta. Cause beta will say “I need all women to be so feminine for me to feel like a man” it’s like y’all are intimidated by alpha females
Thanks to feminism and liberalism.
1: Black women grows up with 2 parents; but her father tells her to never depend on a man because he fears for her based on his past and the way today's men degrade women and predominately fail at some point in life. Thus, she becomes very masculine and feminist.
2: Black woman grows up with only her mother and she has the soft and feminine things that men want, yet she subcontiously never learned how to keep a man, because she never grew up seeing it. That woman may become a feminist also, but it's by default and not a real feminist; it's the feminist 'follower or fan'.
It's a loss either way.
Solution: Raise your daughters in a two parent household, and both parents must teach that girl how to be with a man.
Dayshawn Iverson what about a bw with a single father. I’m one.
Digital Industries sorry, not all females want relationships. Males have lied and cheated for generations. Today there’s Down-Low males. Males aren’t relevant to succeed and be happy in life. Many females choose to be single and all these videos with males degrading and complaining won’t change all females. No females are too fed up to be lonely.
@@Harley08 Absolutely
I grew up with two parents; very strict religious household--the issue is my parents gave me NO guidance regarding relationships. The only thing strongly enforced is sex is not something you do until marriage. They said to just make friends with guys and date to learn what you like. Very vague and unhelpful advice. I learned how to navigate relationships by modeling my parents but they are married. BW stop acting like you are a wife before you get a ring. You will save yourself a lot of heartache.
Many BW are mainly masculine (profess, protect, provide) because they do not have the example of positive femininity (invite, influence, intuition) or they simply did not have a positive masculine figure. Also, it has help to make them high achievers in work, business and education. Leading with achievements is masculine so it's not something I do. I may not have been taught much about relationships but I was definitely grew up with a mother that valued her womanhood. She was very intuitive, influential, imaginative but also very protective. She exemplified both feminine and masculine energies--the latter as a survival. She taught me etiquette, fashion, presentation and poise are very vital to women's influence. I tried to rebel when I was younger as I was more tomboyish since I had a twin brother but now that I am older, appreciate her efforts.
Why are you felmine to other races of men who treat are people badly
I really appreciate this video. The comments brought out a lot of good points without bashing black women which is what I see and hear most of the time. It was edifying and constructive without putting anyone down.
Thank you for speaking truth in such a gentle way. This message was easy to receive. I am a feminine woman that has a very masculine husband. Even we have to be reminded of this simple truth. It will change your dating life. My husband loves it some much I don't have to worry about his attraction to me. It's so true. I just want to thank all of black men voicing this to the black women. Who should we hear this from ladies? I want to say that this is clearly a message of love. Where do you hear hate? Before you attack me (because those same black women attack us feminine black women too) think about this. Then pray that God shows you your true state of thinking. Because the truth is he is right and so many of our brothers are right. We as women want our men to straighten up is it not fair that they ask us to meet them half way by doing the same? I was taught all the same feminism bs coming up too and it is hard to go against all that you know....but if there is error in it and it's negative in your life let it go. Black men are capable of loving us and providing. My husband proves this everyday. These men are tired of pleading with us ladies. It is an act of love to show you what you are doing incorrect and holding you accountable for your own actions.
Tiffany Talley Agree with you Tiffany!
I've been working to reclaim my femininity and increase my feminine energy for a while now. This morning in meditation something (God) suggested that I get clearer about what is masculine energy and traits. Who knew you'd tell me the giving is a masculine quality. This explains so much. Thank you!
As a black woman I agree . There are times I’ve been masculine. With the help of some of my black sisters on CZcams I’ve toned down a lot and I’m starting to see how I’ve acted and how some women act today . I had an ex friend. She has about four kids. Omg every time I call her she’s cursing and hollering. Every other word out her mouth is a curse word and not just simple ones either. There’s times I had to get off the phone. Even when we are in public .. again horrible.she acted so hard and “independent “ . There were times where I saw potential in her. She was really nice and appears classy when she wasn’t that way but of course that didn’t last long. You know what’s the crazy thing is? Her 16 year old daughter acts much more classier than her!!!! Smh . Now this lady has a man but I don’t even need to go into what type of man he is. You can just about predict it from how I described his woman. 🤦🏾♀️
I had a meeting in personnel. When I walked into the office, the black receptionist said, "what do you want". The white woman was sitting in her office and said, "Mr. Xxxx, is that you?".
Several months later, a black man told me that his daughter was in the hospital and wanted me to give her a visit and have a word of prayer with her. I walked in the hospital room and that same black receptionist was laying in bed unconscious. Mr. Williams, I know something about forgiveness that most individuals don't know. Jesus died on Calvary for all humanity but, humanity must "repent" to be forgiven. An individual can not be forgiven without admitting they were wrong. I couldn't pray for that woman in all honesty.
PEOPLE OUGHT TO BE CAREFUL HOW THEY TREAT STRANGERS.
Miss Klassy How can you open your mouth 👄 to talk about "Godliness" when your heart is so full of hate for black men? Your a white supremacist in black face talking about Godliness? Please tell me exactly where does that even begin to make sense? What God do you serve where your way of thinking is acceptable for a Godly woman? I don't know of any.
Miss Klassy Are you nuts? You don't know me and I don't know you.
Frank Mgtow Lol who tf is Maceo and you said a damn "straight jacket" lol
the first two minutes of this video , are pure gold.
I loved the way you described a feminine woman - I felt the power and allure of that woman you described. Thank you for your teachings and your transparency. It is amazing!
It's obvious that when you see other woman around the world seem warm, humble, and feminine but here in the USA sad story and the marriage/ divorce rate shows this. This was a great vid as I watch my fam and others go down the drain because of this energy it's to much.
Black women are not afforded the opportunity to live in a community for about 398 years where they were protected and left to explore the feminine side as you say. We have been so busy raising and protecting our children since at first the black man was emasculated by the white man and now since we have been in this role for centuries, we tend to operate within it. Men, unfortunately have not stepped up to the plate both in the community which is indicative of their roles in the relationship. Men have to LEAD AND PROVIDE AND GIVE THEIR LIVES FOR SAID COMMUNITY INSTEAD OF RUNNING AROUND ACTING LIKE PIMPS AND PERPETUAL 20 YEAR old. In reference to the scripture you put forth, my people die for their lack of knowledge, refers to who they are as a nation and who GOD is in relation to them and the dynamics of that relationship. And who is their enemy and how to navigate the world. I am so tired of black men not changing who they are and LEAD THIS DAMN NATION. THAT IS WHY YOU WERE CREATED TO PROTECT AND SERVE.. TURN THAT ON AND THE MASCULINE PART OF A WOMAN WILL AUTOMATICALLY DIAL DOWN.
Arianyah Bat Yahuchanon LIES
Insane
Arianyah we need kings. But that is rare. But we just got to listen to each other. That’s all. Bm need something and bw need something
Arianyah you are the only one that make sense on here
good points,...but it doesnt go back that far, this is two, or three generation thing, theres many reasons that i could point out, and you can rebutt ,...but the fact is, you are not a man, you are a woman, but as the responsibility and power of the woman has increased , an attitude of masculinity has emergered,...you all have raised us men, for basically the last 50-75 years,...but the side effect has been is this attitude, strong forceful, and really angry at times, i constaintly hear these women yelling at their kids, for even the slightest infranction of behavior..its disturbing, its made these boys subserviant to women,...an example, boys are giving thier mothers cards on fathers day.
The reason some women act masculine is cause they been told they are the back bone of the community and they be trying to show and prove they can do it on there own and thats just part.
+Arneal Williams I have managed 6000 employees, taught classes all over America and the following is a fact.
The black American woman is the most insecure woman in America and have extremely low self esteem. This is evident by their constant repeating "I am strong, intelligent, independent and have high self esteem". You know a person with those characteristics do not have to verbalize it to others but, it is shown in their actions.
When I walk into a classroom of predominantly black women, the expression on their face is as if all of them are on their monthly. Yes, UCLA has a doctoral program on facial expressions. When I see these "sisters", I find a white subordinate to teach the class. I will peak in the window and every bw in the classroom will have a cordial expression....i am not going to put up with that foolishness.
One more scenario.... I was doing a site survey for the installation of a multi-million dollar computer system. The CEO and his staff was following me from room to room and floor to floor. I walked into one office with a bw sitting behind a huge desk, big picture window and instead of saying, "may I help you", this bw began addressing me as if I was a low down dog. I didn't say one word and walked on into her office. About three seconds later, the CEO walked in and this bw went into Aunt Jemima mode....Oh no, she should have went Aunt Jemima when I walked in....
Arneal, I took her office from her right then and there.
Bw in corporate America show their a$$ to bm until they discover he is the director, manager or their superior. Then the bm suppose to have amnesia when the bw start flirting, spreading her legs. Only a fool would give such a woman entrance into his life because, such a woman will attempt to prove she is superior .....first impression is lasting impression.
jim johnston The crazy thing is that they are all over social media bragging about how they throw black men's resumes in the trash. About how they use the company rule book to screw black men out of their jobs one document at a time.
Miss Klassy That may be true, but evidently not all of them. Otherwise why would these women be on line bragging about this? Not my words. I work for myself, have my own business so I don't have to deal with any of these women. Except when one of my clients is boning then discards these swirlers. A few have come crying 😢 on my shoulder after being kicked to the curb, but I am not here for that so I keep it moving.
Miss Klassy You've got me confused with someone else. I don't know "Maceo" and I'm not old enough to have been hating on bw for 40 years. Also, I don't hate bw. Somebody has gotten inside your head, but it's not me.
@Kemet89 I totally agree with you 😍
Now days alot from black woman resemble man now cuz that's so masculine and masculine energy has replaced the feminine side
Great video!
The QUESTION should be 'Are BLACK MEN to FEMININE for LOVE? YES! YES! YES!
Masculine energy of you homegirl
I think most women want to marry up as it makes them feel and act feminine and submit, however, it isn’t easy to find men on a certain high economic level and and financial status. For instance, a man with leadership, ownership and investments. Therefore, some women prefer to remain single than to settle and marry down.
haven't watched the whole thing but awesome so far
This is an eye-opener, I have enjoyed listening to all of your advice.
All I can say is thank you. 😊
Lanita Rojas, I appreciate your grace God bless you.
True Mr. Mike
I appreciate you making this video. All black american women need to see this among other videos to realize their faults.
Amen brother.
Excellent
Jehovah have us n it is he that make us stand n not we ourselves n we are doing the best we can trying to survive
This man dont know shit. He just talking. I love when a woman Gives me something back cause she showing that she cares about me to and she is not selfish or trying to use me.
Black seed, you have missed the point, he's not saying that men don't appreciate when we give. What the man is saying that if a woman constantly GIVES and get nothing in return. Men are the giver's and women are receiver's. Therefore, if a man doesn't have a problem with receiveing mostly he has FEMINIST character. I have met a few player's in my life ( feminist mode).
Black seed this dude is very much on point.
@@onewmnman I don't think he knows shit.
I don't think no one criticize their own as blacks do. It's a dame shame.
jack pot very true I am very masculine my father change me at age 20 to be able to do for my self in every way to never depend on no one but the fights change me the most yes I would love to be that lady but when I do the bull shit start he now want to get crazy and I have to bring out him and beat his ass
joyce fuller you made a great point in that women's fathers are teaching them to not need a man vs teaching them how to be with a man. Fathers hate other men too because of how men in society degrade women, to the point that he fears for his daughter ending up with the men of today; black particularly.
Are black men real feminine?
But what about a "balanced man"? A man who has a good portion of masculine and feminine or who has a good handle on himself enough to know how to use both. That's the crowned jewel. Where are those men?
T Mitch u gota deserve a good man
Black Women have NO interest or Desire for Men like that.
BW Love, Worship, and Adore Pookies and Rayray types.
The Men you described are the Men BW ignore and Crap on for being Good Men that want to be an asset to a woman, to truly protect and provide for her.
But we are NOT her preference.
It is what it is........
I think I have not been around many masculine men. Men leave me because I won't give. I'm confused.
💯+10%
if women work for a company built and owned by men, they need men
Turn your back on any woman that needs to hear this message
dremoe51033 💯 smartest comment in this whole thread
Hello again. I kind of just started listening to your talks. I can again in some respects, but I totally disagree overall. Black womem today are not taught the art of being feminine. Being a real woman is so much more than the outward looks of us BEAUTIFUL creatures. We black women are sexy...full...passionate and very real. Where I grew up, we had charm classes and those teachings were backed up by religion. My mother didn't allow eating outside...rollers in the hair in public...talking loud and making your husband the king of his castle. I was raised the old fashion way. You feed your husband first...take care of your household and the MONEY. We've just got away from so many things that make us WOMAN! I'm still all woman and them some.
Admit that you are Selfish, angry, greddy,
demanding, unforgiving, rude, like confrotation, uncaring,
don't cook, don't
clean your house,
unloving!. You need
to seek help from
a Professional therapist. Your heart
needs to be remanufactured, rebuilt and polished
to OEM Specifications!.
N by the way if I have to care for the house n work n care for the children what r y'all needed for n for this u men will be judge 2nd Timothy chapter 3 nen
There are Many Black Males That Are Lonely And Alone. Stop Trying To A ct As If
You And Your Male Kind Is A Prize, And Over Black Women, You Are No Prize,
You Males Are Not Over Black Women.
With the exception of Denzel Washington, there are no leading black men.
Anonymous.... It is very simple to see by your posts that you are attempting to play black men and women against each other for your racist amusement!
This man has decoded and very aptly articulated what has become a widespread issue in our community.
Your avatar very aptly reveals your spirit of descention, intrigue and double crossing rhetoric, all designed to create the hate you claim some of us very experienced and well-versed in our knowledge
on the subject black men are "spreading" for merely taking an in-depth dissection of our race of women based on our uniquely intimate and historically close proximity to them.
You are dead wrong to be on here trying to foment further discord between the black man
and the black woman, you are nothing more than a spectator on the sidelines, without the ability to intrinsically know or feel what we go through with the type of black women we must deal with as their primary male consorts by natural attraction and
instinctive magnetism.
Whoever and whatever you "are" as a race or gender (lesbians do this shit all the time!), it would behoove you to
stay out of this, you don't belong in it and don't give me a rant about your "right to free speech" because your speech is designed to destroy what fragile bonds still exist between black men and black women, two groups i feel very strongly you are intent on helping to tear further apart.
Evidently they don’t need your love or a relationship. It’s their choice.
Why bw play th masculine role? Mainly bcuz the fathers of their kids have backed out don't want t commit, don't know how t commit were not shown by good role models how t commit n b responsible. So th sista has to b both mother and father wen she don't want to b. Pulling th teenage son up setting him str8t again n again doing th fathers role as well as her own. When a woman then meets z man she can b a little jaggared round the edges cuz of the 2roles she's had to b playing 4 x amount of yrs. It can take patience, time n understanding on th mans part to realise this n some men do. Cuz I know some women want to be loved n treated like a woman n hav the man b the head of th household n play his part n lead. I certainly don't wanna b doing th mans job in th home. It can take time 4some women to let go of all that masculinity n chill. Some of course, wanna stay as they are.
On welfare we nothing if we work we a masculine what do u men want sir who ever u r with hold on to her for us black
Stfu masculine broad you irrational
Yessssssss.......MGTOW
lmao most are
It's only the black women what about u men u r trying to use the scriptures to put us down n to call evil on us if we stay