Why so many black women's relationships end up as epic failures

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  • čas přidán 19. 03. 2017
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  • @cloudair4154
    @cloudair4154 Před 7 lety +11

    u make some great points here and u talked about how women have issues when they engage in sex however there is another thing ive noticed they do also and that is they realize they are vulnerable and so they become like stone.. many women today are like hardened rocks walking around.. they have no soft spot or vulnerability but deep down they blame everyone else for "not coming to their rescue" ... my ex gf was like that.. to the world she was a big strong unaffected success but inside she was just a total mess.. she was a TERRIBLE girlfriend to me... she complained nonstop, was never happy, always leaving me, she was a hypocrite.. etc etc... they cant love anyone in that hard rock state.. i thought i could win her over but after a while i realized God has to deal with that

  • @mstiffany
    @mstiffany Před 6 lety +6

    Very great points...and yes we as a community absolutely gotta deal with our stuff. As for many women not making the right decisions with men..well this is what happens when so many grow up without fathers in the home (for both men and women) as a result our relationships fail...takes two to tangle.

    • @loveyahscoils7048
      @loveyahscoils7048 Před 5 lety

      MS. Tiffany truth spoken, that's the beginning we're all forgetting about, so many of us are skipping over that👍🏾💯

    • @kevinford5480
      @kevinford5480 Před 5 lety

      But youre grown now. Become feminine
      Dont use that as a crutch

  • @arnealwilliams3359
    @arnealwilliams3359  Před 5 lety +2

    Great comment jack21spade. Thank you, God bless

  • @djjustice8772
    @djjustice8772 Před 6 lety +2

    Wen we feed our brain negativity we b negative if we feed it positive we b positive mind over matter mind elevation keep studing books on love and life and anytime u want answeres hit the libarys amen howmurcy

  • @Khanji743
    @Khanji743 Před 5 lety +3

    Words of wisdom ...

    • @912deborah
      @912deborah Před 5 lety

      جواد احمد خان what brings you to this video? Just curious seeing how your last name is Khan (Pakistani origin) and the video is about black women......

  • @soupbonejoyce
    @soupbonejoyce Před 7 lety +4

    Real talk !

  • @user-kx2vw8xe5h
    @user-kx2vw8xe5h Před 4 lety

    Awesome word!

  • @Chrisatrucker
    @Chrisatrucker Před 3 lety +1

    I think that you have some good points. But i believe it's over for us. We've gone too far. Only God can fix this mess. But nice video and great points.

  • @mlovely9829
    @mlovely9829 Před 6 lety +2

    Preach

  • @Jack21Spades
    @Jack21Spades Před 5 lety +2

    Complementarity... NEW WORD! I love it!

  • @ms.a806
    @ms.a806 Před 4 lety

    I am a woman who needs a man and I know there is a wonderful man out there somewhere who needs me.

    • @ms.a806
      @ms.a806 Před 4 lety

      Thank you Mr. Williams for your great channel. I just found it and started binge watching all of your old videos. They are very informative. Now I know the reason why I like listening to you. You learned from the great teacher Dr. Myles Monroe

  • @jimjohnston2982
    @jimjohnston2982 Před 7 lety +2

    +Arneal Williams....the bw is independent via psycholinqistical or linquistical manipulation.
    Gloria Steinem, Director CIA funded "INDEPENDENT RESEARCH SERVICES".
    independent

  • @herovids1197
    @herovids1197 Před 4 lety +3

    Aren't black women relationship failures also black men relationship failures as black women predominantly date black men??? You failed both sexes with this title. Your words of wisdom lose merit.

  • @MsCremant
    @MsCremant Před 7 lety +5

    What is it with black men and feminism? I've been around feminist women all of my life, and never had a problem with them.

    • @erfbgu2643
      @erfbgu2643 Před 7 lety +3

      There are different levels to feminism and feminism isn't just an issue within the black community...it's an issue in the US overall.

    • @jimjohnston2982
      @jimjohnston2982 Před 7 lety

      Oscar Gabriel hahahaha you claim to have been around feminist all your life and never had a problem with them.
      Here is Rebecca Walker, the daughter of the founder of black feminism and I want you to read it and WEEP.
      ============================
      How my mother's fanatical feminist views tore us apart, by the daughter of The Color Purple author. Feminism has much to answer for denigrating men and encouraging women to seek independence whatever the cost to their families.
      www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1021293/How-mothers-fanatical-feminist-views-tore-apart-daughter-The-Color-Purple-author.html&ved=0ahUKEwjt3t2-iv7SAhXIyVQKHfrcAK4QFgifATAZ&usg=AFQjCNEPbnf0rVofDUSHIlIsFJSe-neKtQ

    • @MsCremant
      @MsCremant Před 7 lety +2

      I read the article that you sent to me, but it didn't make me weep. I still admire women who refuse to have their fate decided at birth. You call them "feminist". I call them refreshing, interesting, and challenging.

    • @erfbgu2643
      @erfbgu2643 Před 7 lety +1

      What do you mean by women having their fate decided at birth?

    • @rodneyshaw8766
      @rodneyshaw8766 Před 7 lety +4

      Oscar Gabriel Because ur a simp !

  • @djjustice8772
    @djjustice8772 Před 6 lety

    Weather man study the holly karone.or he study the bibbal God got the answeres wen we obay God two make it work a marriage or relashion ship or friendship bibbal talks about love we gotta keep studing the word a scripture a day meadatate on it and practice applying towards everyday life teach the babbys God's word four those who wanna no truth and teach self the spiritual food four thought God's nutritious wise words of wisdom

  • @andrewgoosdy3814
    @andrewgoosdy3814 Před 5 lety +1

    no good black women ok

    • @lashondarochell7584
      @lashondarochell7584 Před 4 lety

      You know all black women to say they are not good, quit spewing that hatred

    • @arnealwilliams3359
      @arnealwilliams3359  Před 4 lety

      Thanks Lashonda it's obvious Mr. Goosdy didn't watch the video.

    • @lashondarochell7584
      @lashondarochell7584 Před 4 lety

      @@arnealwilliams3359 Some people want to hear negative rhetoric

    • @arnealwilliams3359
      @arnealwilliams3359  Před 4 lety +1

      @@lashondarochell7584 correct, sadly it is a sign of times. Many people are so diluted. As my Grandmother mother use to say" bless your heart," that brother and others like him need prayer. We need each other period and we need to try to understand each other. Rather than constantly throwing each other under the bus.

    • @lashondarochell7584
      @lashondarochell7584 Před 4 lety

      @@arnealwilliams3359 I agree with you wholeheartedly!! Blessings to you and your family 🙏

  • @SoulSearch11110
    @SoulSearch11110 Před 7 lety +7

    I'm getting tired of y'all doing negative videos on Black Women.

    • @erfbgu2643
      @erfbgu2643 Před 7 lety +12

      You didn't watch the video did you?

    • @So_Oneal
      @So_Oneal Před 7 lety +11

      They will always complain Erfbgu 2 ; this brother conducted himself with cordiality and he even has a black wife. This proves that it isn't how you talk about black women, but the fact that you are even criticising them

    • @SoulSearch11110
      @SoulSearch11110 Před 7 lety

      Inqlife30 804 It's a fact that a title of a video is one of the determining factors of what the video is about and if someone will watch it.

    • @So_Oneal
      @So_Oneal Před 7 lety +6

      Are you hung up on the title or the substance of his 27:24 minute video

    • @erfbgu2643
      @erfbgu2643 Před 7 lety +5

      +Aakasha Pri Well the reasonable thing to do is hear it out before rushing to judgement...especially if you are going to leave a comment. It's one thing to see the video and it's title and ignore it but responding to it is another thing. He's totally not bashing black women and he even speaks about the dysfunction in black men.