Great words of wisdom! You sound just like my Daddy, who’s up in heaven now. And my Uncle. They both always gave me great advice but sometimes as women we make poor choices all on our own. Real men would listen to this and say “Now that’s a Man”. But the little boy man would say “Look at This Dude”! But as a woman Mr. Arneal Williams I hear you Loud & Clear! Much Respect to you! ✊🏽
Im really enjoying these lessons Mr. Williams. I wish my father and I had these talks. I consider myself a masculine guy but I can definitely use some polishing. Its tricky dealing with these DMV women who arent socialized to depend on us at all. Especially us millenials.
I thank you for the insights but for some of your views on this I have to disagree. Sometimes our women are quick to to play the "Emotional Truth' card when it comes to justifying their negative mentalities when it comes to separating Men from Boys.
Why are so many Black women falling into the trap of smooth talking men that after one date, he's already spending the night in her house or apartment, next thing she's pregnant out of wedlock and the relationship has already fizzled, now she's struggling to make ends meet and last time I checked, I don't see a lot of men standing in the wings just waiting to assume another man's responsibility thus begins the journey on welfare and more so if the woman barely finished high school and has no real marketable skills and no college.
There are many reasons for moral failure. It's been my experience that there are two kinds of people. Many people today focus on their rights vs their responsibilities. Rights people are hyper focused on their past and on their feelings and what they believe they are entitled to. Without any regard for their responsibilities and any other moral obligations. They drift through life without a moral compass or a definitive narrative for their life they never add value to the world they just take and take. Consequently they live a useless existence. A man without a mission in life is life without a meaning. Without meaning in our lives life becomes a living hell. The tragedy of life embitters our hearts and angers our soul. The result is we start to live our worst life now. We live for ourselves for our habits for our addictions and our depraved desires. Then when we get the predictable outcome of a despotic lifestyle. What do we do? Like clock work we blame the world and everyone in it. responsibility requires that we grow the hell up and stop seeking momentary happiness. Sadly most will not because our society rewards moral failure and considers moral deficiency a virtue. Until we change our moral paradigm our society will not experience moral salvation and redemption.
@@arnealwilliams3359 You know it's so refreshing to read your response a Black man who's expressive skills and the use of the English language is flawless yet succinct. I was once accused of being a "White troll" because the person said I couldn't be Black because my English was too perfect...I was insulted because the assumption was made that most Black men don't have the ability to express themselves in either written nor oral communication. You know we've made great strides as individuals in our accomplishments but as a race of people there is the great divide. Black on black killings over something stupid "he dissed me" or "I didn't like the way he looked at me" it seems all the sacrifice of the previous generation and Dr King seems forgotten, there is no solidarity, young men with their butts hanging out, glorifying the prison experience and they keep repeating the mantra "BLM".........
I guess most men in this country a little boys what’s up make this so-called little girls 16-year-old girl and a three-year-old body that’s them money hungry Getty Getty Getty
Does a real man want strippers at his bachelors party? Does a real man want to go out to bars with "the boys" to check out other women and talk about them? Sometimes flirt and taking pictures of them?
Jumping Jack don't this there's anything wrong with that as long they responsible for their actions . I lv meeting women enjoy going out them but at the end of the all my responsibility are and I don't ask others .
@@set5323 Mr. Thomas I respectfully disagree with your assumptions. Number 1, are black people inherently good? Are black people perfect? Are black people complete? I have an objective view on the world and everything in it. I think your assumptions are quite subjective and single focused. For example indulge me for a moment. Please Mr. Thomas do me a favor look around the room your in for everything that is black then close your eye's for a count of 5 seconds. Then text me for my question about how many items you see. God bless
You're typical subject, controlled to the Max, afraid to acknowledge you have no culture, its been hijacked by the ruling class, close your eyes for five seconds, what do you see Turmoil and fear, you are speaking from Fear, you probably dont have a woman. Good Luck Bro Williams
To be honest that sounds pretty judgemental, whats with kids that dont have a father figure at home, who teached them all the necessary stuff in life tbey need to know. What's with highly sensitive masculin man who a pretty sensitive in the interior but would beat the crap out of you if you provoking it? Everything that you are saying sir is pretty judgemental it sounds like in the army, where all guys needs to be exact that way that's not how nature works. And not every woman is attracted to an extreme alpha male, where she is more like here little puppet so that he gets even more confirmed in his ego. It would be good if you look at little bit further how a society works and not only of your point of view.
Great words of wisdom! You sound just like my Daddy, who’s up in heaven now. And my Uncle. They both always gave me great advice but sometimes as women we make poor choices all on our own. Real men would listen to this and say “Now that’s a Man”. But the little boy man would say “Look at This Dude”! But as a woman Mr. Arneal Williams I hear you Loud & Clear! Much Respect to you! ✊🏽
Excellent and accurate sir! So glad I found your channel.
So true... among all, I witnessed the ''don't ask don't tell'' and the last point ''give and take'' too...
Im really enjoying these lessons Mr. Williams. I wish my father and I had these talks. I consider myself a masculine guy but I can definitely use some polishing. Its tricky dealing with these DMV women who arent socialized to depend on us at all. Especially us millenials.
Sooooo helpful. Thank you. I'm glad to know this now. Better late than never.
Corina Weber Thank you for kind word's
Excellent video! Thanks for the breakdown Brotha!
Dia S Thank you, you are very generous.
Thank you
I thank you for the insights but for some of your views on this I have to disagree. Sometimes our women are quick to to play the "Emotional Truth' card when it comes to justifying their negative mentalities when it comes to separating Men from Boys.
I agree with all that you've said but this is impossible to find amongst the black male population.
Love your lessons!!!
Núria Ferreira I appreciate you
NO GOD HAS TO DO IT
Nice glasses...
Latoya Austin Thanks
Why are so many Black women falling into the trap of smooth talking men that after one date, he's already spending the night in her house or apartment, next thing she's pregnant out of wedlock and the relationship has already fizzled, now she's struggling to make ends meet and last time I checked, I don't see a lot of men standing in the wings just waiting to assume another man's responsibility thus begins the journey on welfare and more so if the woman barely finished high school and has no real marketable skills and no college.
There are many reasons for moral failure. It's been my experience that there are two kinds of people. Many people today focus on their rights vs their responsibilities. Rights people are hyper focused on their past and on their feelings and what they believe they are entitled to. Without any regard for their responsibilities and any other moral obligations. They drift through life without a moral compass or a definitive narrative for their life they never add value to the world they just take and take. Consequently they live a useless existence. A man without a mission in life is life without a meaning. Without meaning in our lives life becomes a living hell. The tragedy of life embitters our hearts and angers our soul. The result is we start to live our worst life now. We live for ourselves for our habits for our addictions and our depraved desires. Then when we get the predictable outcome of a despotic lifestyle. What do we do? Like clock work we blame the world and everyone in it. responsibility requires that we grow the hell up and stop seeking momentary happiness. Sadly most will not because our society rewards moral failure and considers moral deficiency a virtue. Until we change our moral paradigm our society will not experience moral salvation and redemption.
@@arnealwilliams3359 You know it's so refreshing to read your response a Black man who's expressive skills and the use of the English language is flawless yet succinct. I was once accused of being a "White troll" because the person said I couldn't be Black because my English was too perfect...I was insulted because the assumption was made that most Black men don't have the ability to express themselves in either written nor oral communication.
You know we've made great strides as individuals in our accomplishments but as a race of people there is the great divide. Black on black killings over something stupid "he dissed me" or "I didn't like the way he looked at me" it seems all the sacrifice of the previous generation and Dr King seems forgotten, there is no solidarity, young men with their butts hanging out, glorifying the prison experience and they keep repeating the mantra "BLM".........
I guess most men in this country a little boys what’s up make this so-called little girls 16-year-old girl and a three-year-old body that’s them money hungry Getty Getty Getty
Does a real man want strippers at his bachelors party?
Does a real man want to go out to bars with "the boys" to check out other women and talk about them? Sometimes flirt and taking pictures of them?
Jumping Jack don't this there's anything wrong with that as long they responsible for their actions . I lv meeting women enjoy going out them but at the end of the all my responsibility are and I don't ask others .
Yes. That's a real man who does what he wants to do. He owes no boundaries to anyone.
Mr Arneal Williams, you are Programmed by controllers, You will have to wake up to be REAL, let go of the HYPE!
Explain Mr. Thomas what is the problem the programming and the solution that will benefit the community.
you blaming the victims, Mr Williams, plus you taking the HYPE given to you by the controllers.,teach defense from the attack on BLACK PEOPLE!
@@set5323 Mr. Thomas I respectfully disagree with your assumptions. Number 1, are black people inherently good? Are black people perfect? Are black people complete? I have an objective view on the world and everything in it. I think your assumptions are quite subjective and single focused. For example indulge me for a moment. Please Mr. Thomas do me a favor look around the room your in for everything that is black then close your eye's for a count of 5 seconds. Then text me for my question about how many items you see. God bless
You're typical subject, controlled to the Max, afraid to acknowledge you have no culture, its been hijacked by the ruling class, close your eyes for five seconds, what do you see Turmoil and fear, you are speaking from Fear, you probably dont have a woman. Good Luck Bro Williams
@@set5323 God bless you sir we need you.
To be honest that sounds pretty judgemental, whats with kids that dont have a father figure at home, who teached them all the necessary stuff in life tbey need to know. What's with highly sensitive masculin man who a pretty sensitive in the interior but would beat the crap out of you if you provoking it? Everything that you are saying sir is pretty judgemental it sounds like in the army, where all guys needs to be exact that way that's not how nature works. And not every woman is attracted to an extreme alpha male, where she is more like here little puppet so that he gets even more confirmed in his ego. It would be good if you look at little bit further how a society works and not only of your point of view.