How to speak to a man's heart: Part I, Never say this to a man
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- čas přidán 7. 03. 2020
- Never say these 14 phrases or statements, please it only creates a negative experience. Men learn fast that if a negative is the consequence. Then men will resist another encounter without even a second thought.
Not many girls or women have had good fathers or role models to prep them for adult life - womanhood. It is very refreshing to watch you. For some women this is the only education or role modelling that they will ever receive to embrace life and its various roles.
I'm in a committed relationship right now, and I have been through therapy due to past hurt and family dynamics/poor upbringing that I felt could have destroyed me for life.
I appreciate these videos because my father who was a good father did not ever sit myself and my sisters down and give us this kind of knowledge on relationships and understanding men.
With this relationship, I want to go the long haul and I can see where I've fallen very short in my past relationships and where I have made mistakes with my current.
I want to challenge myself to becoming a great woman in every area of my life and your content has played a big role in that.
Thank you very much!!!
I have one. NEVER NEVER SAY THIS TO A MAN. "Here honey let me get that it looks heavy". Yeah do not say that ha ha ha
Great wisdom! Thanks Jennifer 😊👍
Thank you! I agree on all of this.
Thank you sir , I’m taking notes.
Just a quick note to say I love your channel. I joined back when u we’re discussing Ready to Love but I have never seen u as frustrated as you have been with Married at First Sight. However, it has been a mess. Love your wisdom and calmness plus common sense
Yes indeed the pain I feel is obvious I cannot hide it. I know we were not created to be alone. I just hate it when people get in their own way and become the source of their own pain. Thank you for kind words.
Hey! Take care of yourself and your people elder! Stay safe and sanitized in your camp!
Wow I’ve done the negative parts before. Thank you
Thank you Mr Williams, this is timeless, insightful information.....
Not sure how I found the channel but love the content. Definitely some gems on communicating with my husband. Please upload more. Taking notes! 📝
Very good advice, thank you 🔥
Sounds like walking on egg shells.
No... lol, it's not egg shells just different.
It’ is “egg shells” when the man’s language is from another planet as you mentioned. And the man says things to women he shouldn’t. And he never learns
thanks for this! I appreciate your wisdom
Thks
Thank you so much for this video this will help my young relationship ❤️
Thank you so much. I cant wait for part 2. Im new to your channel, and i am learning so much.
Ditto Sis!!
Excellent, I also appreciate your encouragement and generosity.
I wish I would have known this years ago!!!! I’m glad I know it now!
Excellent! I accomplished what was needed. Thank you, your very generous.
Thank you so much for this information and I love your channel. It has been helpful for me. After listening to the 14 phrases or statements never to say, I'm kind of wondering, "what CAN I say?". Maybe this will come in part 2. I've been dating a man for over a year who is from another country and it is challenging at best due to his traditional ways. So, I have been using your guidance to help me with our relationship. Sometimes it works and sometimes not, mainly because my pride will get in the way at times (deprogramming). But yes, I would like to know what can a woman say to a man that is helpful and received well besides just petting him and stroking his ego every day and not just sitting there and looking pretty.....?
Thank you, I will be providing part 2 today on how to speak to man's heart. Trust me just think practice not perfection when it comes to men and communication.
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Real question. What is the difference in your wife making the suggestion she made about the clothes, and the advice you gave to women to never give their input? Didn't your wife (essentially) break that rule?
Also, does this apply to men giving their input to women?
There is know difference. My wife request is what I always counsel women to do with men. She "asked" that I provide a want for her. The issue was of course in her own way she wanted to be helpful. Nothing serious, however she did break the rule of unsolicited advice as well as micro managing the request.
Good question.....can men give their input?
How do you open a man’s heart again after making all these mistakes ?
Morning,
I was looking forward to hearing your statements or advice on what a woman should do. Some of your points are not good advice. Here are two points you made that is not correct:
"Don't give men advice, if they don't ask for it." This is wrong because men should accept advice at any time as this could save him the problem of being hurt, going the wrong direction, needing understanding of something, or lift him up to be a better him and it could encourage him. This statement here is only for independent men who live for themselves, who should be on their own and may not hear the Heavenly Father speaking to them to guide them
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"Don't tell a man what to do, how to speak or how to behave." This advice is wrong, too. At various given time a man should be told what to say to win over a woman's father, how to behave in front of her family. If she is not allowed to tell him how to do this then she need to leave him alone and run to the hills.... Because how would he know how to conduct himself properly around her family without her telling him how to please them. There is also other areas why a woman should be able to tell the man how to conduct himself. If he listen and do as required then this man is a keeper because you and him can always work things out and listening is the key to the relationship.
Just to put this point even more clearly. A man that listen to a woman and a woman who listen to a man and can follow instructions can survive anything and both of them can also hear the Heavenly Father speaking to them in their situations. How do two people gain direction when they are lost?
Let us suppose that you are a man that believe that the woman Eve was the cause for the World to Fall in Sin.
When reading the Bible it states that it was Adam that cause the World to sin, according to the Book Genesis and in I Corinthians. as stated:
I Corinthians 15:22 For as in Adam all die, even so in the Messiah all shall be made alive.
How do two people gain direction when they are lost? I am asking you Mr RC.
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I need me a left handed man then,
most man I know are slow, my opinion
Uuuuhhh what if you ask all year ? Lol..Women are treated as a princess at home. Dad says a man better treat you special. See, the men program us against themselves. Why ? Would you say to your daughter, don't forget, after here, you won't be heard. Lol. It's quite a shock, that women are not prepared for. Dad's say keep yourself guarded and never act wild. Husbands are all over you, and just another shocker. This stuff is a real mess. I didn't do well, unless counseling, playing baseball, or working with. The rest was just strange except cooking with. Or building stuff, with. At 65, i had a good man, even though he left a lot, slept a lot, and worked hard. If i yelled, he was ok. He'd gamble anyway..haha. That was not easy, because, no, he could not hear. He heard when i got him out of a store playing keno, and i said, how about some milk, this month, for your 3 year old daughter? He was a red bull, then. Laughing. Those were rough times. My baby sister would call, while he was right there, to discuss it. So, she never got the picture, when i'd hint. So, i always got in more trouble. I dearly loved Ted, but, all men have some real issues, and others don't. Thank you. You can know people a long time, and they start things, you wouldn't be ready for. Same on the other side, so, if you say you mean it, you certainly best, or there's 'no honor', in a fair weathered, man or woman. It works both ways. Never take a cheater back. Period ! That's what is, law !
Most women are too masculine i learned from my nanny less talk better thats how they stayed married until death! ask once and answer?