Battling Over Visitation
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- čas přidán 4. 01. 2022
- The plaintiff says her daughter dated the defendant and they had a daughter. She says her daughter went to rehab after they broke up and she got custody of her grandchild. The defendant got custody back and she claims he’s keeping her from her granddaughter, so she’s suing. The defendant says the plaintiff is claiming he’s not the father, so he’s countersuing for defamation and emotional distress.
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So because your daughter is a dope fiend, you want to give this good brother a hard time. She's despicable.
It's never there fault 🤔
The daughter's not a dope fiend, she is a woman with a drug problem. You should hope that it doesn't happen to you or yours.
@@evacook4693 save it, if she was black you'd be calling her all kinds of names, that woman is a dope fiend and a horrible mother.
@@thatlsk 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@@evacook4693 She’s a neglectful mother and a dope fiend! White privilege FAIL! Have a seat Eva, you sound foolish
Wow, young man doing his thing and here come Karen try to put him down..and at the end didn't even disrespected her. Bless him
yea he better than me cause I would've cussed her Grand-Karen pasty ass tf out!!!!! plus tax and 2 stimulus checks!!
Karen's don't date black. Stop it
@@t.c.5456 Bra it's her mom in court, are you on CRACK??!
@@t.c.5456 they are talking about the plaintiff, not her daughter, who very obviously " dates black"...
@@mr.unbothered 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This lady is NUTS! She came in there with all that slow talking trying to get her story straight and still got caught up LYING. She’s talking about “breaking the kids up.” Lady I hope you didn’t expect him to take all three kids or just give you his kid so you could call him a deadbeat
Right!
Yeah she needs to be dragging her daughter and the other kids' dad to court. I think she's bitter cause he stepped up and the other kids'dad and their mom didn't.
Yessss that slow talking had me upset even ppl in the audience was shifting like GET TO THE POINT KAREN LMFAO 😒
Annoyed the fuck outta me talking so slow!
She is absolutely crazy. Hopefully he will remove his daughter from that situation entirely. The amount of bitterness and delusion she's demonstrating is toxic. There's no way that it's not rubbing off on those kids. If they have leg sores from stress she's probably causing it. It's probably chaos at her house because she's stuck raising her daughters children. She should be grateful that at least one dad isn't a deadbeat.
He is a good guy. She needs to be mad with her daughter choosing drugs over her kids not him
Yesssss! 👏👏👏👏
He should have chosen better
@@islandgirlruby2750 he definitely should have chose better smh .
Exactly!
He love that mixed baby. If it were a full Black baby, he wouldn't have anything to do with the child.
Everyone’s eyebrows went up (I bet, I know mine did) when she blamed the abscesses on “stress” and not seeing her siblings.
Absolute shock that she would take it there.
same here them kids prolly got it from Grand-Karen stressing them tf out!!! them 2 babies need cps back in there... I find it weird that the 2 kids got abscesses but his daughter didnt....
I had to pause what I was doing to hear her explanation on the cause because I’m like how would he cause abscess
Right!
She really made herself look stupid accusing him if something like that. My first thought was that this lady has no sense.
She's projecting the faults of daughter onto him and using the kid as a pawn. She need to direct that energy to her daughter and let this man be a father.
Men, quit asking to be apart of your kids life, IF you really want to be involved. Get your shit together and take the mother to court for legal authority.
Exactly. No need to beg anybody to let you see a child that is yours. That is every parent's right until the courts determine otherwise. Take it to court.
Absolutely
@@neisci - Facts!
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What a disgusting human being. So the daughter is supposed to miss out on having a father because the grandmother doesn't want to breakup the "sibling unit"? She needs to realize he's the parent, not her.
Well said!
She can have a father AND visit her siblings
She's needs to take care of the other kids and stop obsessing over his life.
The man was even kind enough to admit what a great grandmother that the woman is to his daughter.
To his “granddaughter “ … his words not mine lmao 😂
Salute to that brother. As a father, my heart broke for him. The nerve of that grandmother and I’m glad that JM saw through her viscous nature. Ridiculous
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He shouldnt keep the kids seperated though. They all blood. And lets not mk him out to be some sort of saint, lets keep in mind he bust raw in a dope fiend
@@coreyanderson5563 sure. No one is perfect but He’s doing way more for the kids than the mom is. I don’t know them intimately and neither do any of us. But there is a reason that he’s keeping his child away. Him and the grandma gotta reestablish that trust for the kids. But don’t have smoke for him and not for the mother that birthed both these kids.
He proud to take care of that mixed baby. Let it be from a Black mom who never even touched drugs. He would be running talking about she trying to trap him.
@@eve3363 that is so unfair to say. He’s supposed to take care of his child. My wife is black and I take care of my kids. News flash. Black men care for their kids too.
That lady is BEYOND annoying. I had to fast forward to get through her testimony. He is a good man
Same. 😂👌🏽
That is the slowest most drawn out explanation of why she's suing him! She's all over the place and can't even answer the questions correctly. You can tell JM is annoyed and gonna rule against her lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 factss
I was looking for this .. drawn out n the pauses omg Granny doing too much
I hate how she was saying all those horrible words,but I love how at the end he still praised her and said nothing negative,what a good man/father!!!
🙌🏾 I am so happy to see a black man know how to use his paternal rights to go to court to fight for his child! Her daughter had children by multiple men…
The mother is definitely a deadbeat but what does her having children with multiple men have to do with anything? He also has a son with another woman. She's just not a good mother and it has nothing to do with her having kids with another man 10 years after she broke up with the first father.
@@Egheosa5 lol I’m sorry, the point I was getting to was the grandmother upset about the children not being raised together
Amen!
Yeah for a mixed child. Black men like him don't give a crap about their Black children.
@@eve3363 Thank you!!!! I see too many of them that break their back for Half-breed Kids but not their Black Kids. Smdh.
Judge Mathis broke her down like a bad motor
Was anyone else wishing should hurry up with the story.. Omg! 🙄
For real😅😅
People can't even raise their children in peace without being bothered. I'm glad the judge awarded him and dismissed her case.
Yes Lord 🙏
Damn! Judge Mathis straight handled that Karen
Ma’am he has full custody he can do what he wants, whether you’re the grandmother or not you don’t have automatic rights plus a child can have stressors from anything don’t try to blame him.
I lost it officially when she blamed a second childs medical condition on him. No MAAM its their unfit mother missing causing all this crap
Exactly
Those abscesses are likely from being born to a drug addicted mother. The stress is probably from not having their mom around bc she likes to get high and have babies. Kudos to dad for FIGHTING for his daughter and providing a stable home for her.
I was thinking the same thing. Since the child has had medical issues from a young age and the other two children have as well, the common denominator is the dope fiend mom. Curious to know if the kids were born with drugs in their system. Either way, hacks off to this young man for doing the right thing and fighting for his daughter. I truly wish more people would fight for their children.
Okay!
@@nettejones8276 k
She's a piece of work! She blamed him for the younger siblings getting abscesses, I wonder if it's only right to blame her for her daughter being on drugs....? People are so ignorant sometimes.
Most people just don’t care.
I would be questioning if Grandma should be the guardian of the other two kids, not seeing there sister caused an abscess?
Girl you have said a whole mouth of complete truth
If she's going to blame him for her other grandchildren getting abcesses, then let's blame her for her daughter's drug use. Sounds incredibly stupid, right ma'am???? 🙄
Umm, she's taking forever to get her point/story out 🙄😒
Yes she is. Lol
Speaking slowly to remember all the lies. I’ve seen it before in corporate America 😂 right up there with “nice-nasty” emails.
Lies take longer lol
I applaud and commend this young man for being a great father and a stand up guy he is an example of what a father should be
I love when the judge is fair and puts rude people in their place…Not sure why the Grandmother isn’t relating the abbesses the two children had to the stress created by her own daughter? After all his daughter didn’t have any abbesses? 🤔
Good 👍🏽 point 👍🏽
So the stress is being with her butt lol
The abscess have nothing to do with it , That was the ploy of the grandmother to validate her reasons for being bias to the father . She doesn’t want to acknowledge the fact that she tried to keep the family together for the granddaughter to raise her siblings .
I can’t wrap my head around why this woman took this man to court
Salute to this gentleman who got custody of his daughter. I’m very disappointed with this mom and her overbearing ways. I pray that she doesn’t lose sight of who’s important which are the three little people who need guidance and love. A part of me thinks she wanted to keep the oldest to help her with the younger siblings but she needs to be with dad. Hopefully they put their differences aside and work together to raise her.
I also pray mom shakes that drug or alcohol dependency so she can also be apart of her upbringing.
Hats off to the father. Much Respect!. The last thing I would have done is sue him.
EXACTLY
She’s evil… her daughter didn’t deserved him.. he seems like a good guy
Well the good guy was with her daughter so
@@twill1007 Key word.. “was”! He learned quickly that the girl was a dope fiend and promiscuous, not to mention Violent!
It was wonderful to see a young black man hold his composure and win the case💯💯💯
Exactly! Granny presumed she would belittle him, lie on him, etc. to win. Judge Mathis was not falling for her accusations.
Her VOICE Urked my soul to the core!!!
This mother is fowl and wrong for treating this man like this just because her daughter is a drug addict she's putting all the blame on him. Woman please you and your daughter are unfit. Thank goodness this young responsible, loving, clear - headed, wise and integriful man was granted custody of his daughter 💗
He is very respectful good man. He still didn’t disrespect her even when she lied on him and many other things.
She trying to defame his character, and JM saw right through her lies. I, salute him for standing up for his daughter. Keep up the great work!
I know JM wants to tell ppl…” hurry up get to the point”…
Cuz I sure the hell was yelling it to the screen. 🤣
Right!! I was like you trying hard to make yourself look good
She was just up there rambling and rambling….
@@mzfancy4767 hey boo how you been girl…
@@justhereyeah1112 &nd still lost…
I'm very glad the judge ordered the defendant custody of his daughter. I know there are a lot of men out there that absolutely love their children, but like Judge Mathis said, a lot of single men don't do what the defendant did. If it's true what the defendant said at the end, and the plaintiff is a good grandmother, I think they should squash any animosity and allow visitation. Especially for the siblings. I don't how this grandmother could blame the defendant for the other children's health problems. She was completely wrong for saying that. Plus I do believe she lied in court. As long as the children are happy seeing eachother and it's approved by the defendant and under his terms, I really hope they can squash this and move forward.
Serena...we meet yet again...and again we agree.
I would not trust this woman with my child.. she will stay saying all your of shit he didn't do. e
This woman is wild. Her daughter ain’t around but she want this man to keep bringing his child by and for what.
You wouldn’t want to see your Grandchild ? You don’t think the children want to see each other ?
@@twill1007 non of that matters at this point and he isn’t obligated to do that. Her daughter shouldn’t be on drugs
@@dance4life1208 obviously her daughter shouldn’t be on drugs! But you REALLY think it doesn’t and won’t affect those children if they aren’t seeing each other ?
@@twill1007 the mother should have thought of that
@@dance4life1208 so the children should pay ? While you’re blaming everything on the daughter, remember the Defendant sure didn’t seem to have a problem with her
I bet she wanted the oldest granddaughter there with her so badly for a check and to have her babysit/help with the minor 2 kids she's raising.
Seems like an upstanding fine young man to me.
Shame he had to get involved with that trailer trash
Wow this man brought tears to my eyes, his daughter is so lucky to have someone fight for her. My father walked away from my life before I was born, and it hurts to the core. Hat's off to this young man right here. I wish him all the best🤗
danm what yo momma do
Her daughter is a crackhead and she’s trying to bring this man to court for foolishness😡 Some nerve.
Low hanging (yt) fruit for black men.
Mannnnnnnnnn that man aint go to take care of other people's kids she blaming him for not keeping kids together woman boiiiii
The young man stepped up and took care of his child and you want to bring him down??? Very disgusting behavior
Why should he or any other parent be rewarded for taking care of children they produced? Standards are so low for BM
@@DB-vt1kk there are about 4 million full time single fathers who for the most part do not see a dime of chils support from government assistance or the mother and yet doing a better job raising their kids in a statistically adjusted comparison with full time single mothers. This, in spite of the fact that one form or another of the pernicious tender years doctrine still influencing family court judges, shows exactly what high standards fathers and men (black, white, blue, brown or orange) exercise when it comes to ensuring the success of their progeny. Please inform yourself sufficiently before spouting this type of ignorance.
This lady is nuts and she is bringing this men down get on her judge mathis
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@@DB-vt1kk Its not being rewarded it's honoring ppl when they do the right thing vs. someone trying cause confusion
This lady basically wanted to raise ALL of her grandbabies and dude wasn't having it. It's not his responsibility to make sure all of the siblings (by different men) are raised together. That would have been the mom's responsibility to make sure she had all of her kids by the same man.
We've been so conditioned to think that when mom acts up that the grandparents, grandmas especially, are the ones to come in and raise the kids but there are plenty of fathers out there who want to raise their own kids and ironically aren't given the chance to do so sometimes until something like this happens where the mom wants no parts in raising them.
The sad thing here is had the mom wanted custody of the kids, drugged out or not, the brotha here would probably still be fighting for custody and probably wouldn't get it.
True true
Right
Actually, he has a responsibility to make sure of exactly that. They can be raised together and still live in different homes. Being cruel to the daughter and the other kids by splitting them and keeping them apart like that is unacceptable. Period. Yay, he’s a hero, for what exactly???? Doing what men are SUPPOSED to do?! Give me a break. All this bringing race into it as well… yet I bet anything if that grandmother was a black woman in the same position she wouldn’t be getting such vitriol.
And where was he when she was granted guardianship? Obviously not playing a part or showing interest or he’d have been there to take it.
Those other kids aren’t inconvenient throw-offs, they’re his daughters siblings and they all have a right to each other, regardless of what parents or grandparents are doing,
@@armstrongdhawan6338 reread what I wrote and come again. I never said any of what you just said about how they can't be raised together in different houses. I never said that.
Obviously it's possible and if I were in a similar situation I'd hope that I could make it work.
But what I do stand by is that the other two kids wasn't his responsibility and he did try to make it work for the benefit of the kids so you've really lost me now. Because he did try.
Were we watching the same case?
He did try to do exactly what you're saying here but grandma was tripping which is my point. She wanted it to be either her way or the highway and he wasn't going for that.
She should have bent more instead of trying to push him into doing what she wanted him to do.
She crossed some boundaries that she shouldn't have crossed.
It sounds like he’s a good father! Grandma needs to stay in her lane and be supportive of her daughter and try to get her into rehab lol Grandma kept talking slow and cautiously lol
If this grandma would chill out a bit and recognize that this man is a good father and stop fighting him, she might be able to have a relationship with him. But at this point I wouldn’t trust her.
My sentiments as well. Granny is wanting his daughter (the oldest granddaughter) to assist in caring for her siblings. In addition, granny is looking for a check. Crazy lady leave this young man alone. She depicted him as a deadbeat, but it backfired 😂
Facts
Judge M ate her ass up 😂😂😂 When he starts talking fast I already know what’s going to happen! That man already has a son so he could have ignored his daughter but didn’t! I commend him! I understand the grandma wanting to keep the kids together but she has to understand that she can’t control that.
How does the judge have patience with how slow this woman speaks. Kudos to the young man for taking care of his responsibility.
Flew Spirit straight to the comments. Hats off to this young man. Keep on doing whats best for your child.
Not Spirit😩😩🤣
Flew spirit 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Stand up dude right here. Need more like him 🙏🏾
A very nice young man just doing the best for his child. Wish him well.
Damn the daughter will be 18 this year.
How you know
@@asiam1528 math my G
@@asiam1528 she was born 2004,the grandmother said it
That’s one bothered evil lady, kudos to that man for being the best dad and support system to his daughter ❤️❤️❤️
I totally have big respect for this man. He's the dad and his child's mother is an addict. She's crazy she raised an addict. And trying over and over by lying on him . God Bless this man
Can't imagine the stress he is going through with his child. Even as a good father the ones closest to him are against him. Honestly sad what the some men have to go through these days.
"ESPECIALLY WE SINGLE PARENTING BLACK MALE FATHERS OF THE YEAR 2022., GOD LOVES YOU BETTER STAY FAITHFUL TO THE PROGRAMMER?"✌🏿😷
mainly because they don't want that biracial daughter to be with her dad.
I know he got that sweater from his uncle 😂😂
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Does it matter?? Dense comment
Unfortunately, it's situations where your child's welfare and mental health is more important than exposing them to b.s. just to have a relationship with their siblings. I don't blame him for keeping his child away for now, he's being a protector.
Salute to him.So proud of this young black man. Judge told her right🙌🏾
I KNEW JM was gonna go IN on her!!! I was waiting for it. He held it together until the end and then unleashed it! And she needed that reprimand!!
I'm a single Black father, and went through similar foolishness as this man. CPS would randomly show up in the hopes that they would observe some crazy criminal, irresponsible lifestyle that I was living. My son is now a Dean's list college student. I have never been out of his life since birth, and have had custody of him since he was 12.
This is a prime example of how evil a Karen can be. She was willing to leave this child with no father at all, just to get her way. Pathetic
I wish he would’ve asked for $5,000… she stressed me out just with this case alone
Proud of that DAD!! You keep it up!! As long as you let her see the grandma she will always know!!
It shocks me that the plaintiff wants to have custody of all 3 of her drug-addicted daughter children in order for the children to continously grow up seeing their mother strung out.
I'm excited to hear the defendant taking responsibility for his child.
I just hope grandma and daughter not try to manipulate the rulings of the courts decision in the near future bc grandma seems like she's going to find a way to obtain custody.
She want that check...
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Classy gentleman. I dont think I couldve stayed so calm and collected as he did. His daughter is blessed to have him advocate for her. hope one day the grandma can see that
It says a lot about a persons character when they use their moment of victory to complement the person who wronged them.
Omgg. Started crying at the end. Good man. Good father. 💯
Wooow. Even after she bashed him and tried to make it seem like he was not a good father, he still had kind words to say about her at the end!! What a MAN!!
Plaintiff should’ve been more focused on her own daughter and maybe she wouldn’t have turned into a drug head.
Oh she really bold with the judge
"THAT IS IN THE STATE OF NEVADA A FACT, GOD WILL ALLOW MATHIES TO PASS GRANTED BEAUTIFUL JUDGMENT I PRAY FOR YOU AND GOD LOVES YOU THE MOST TO RAIN JUDGMENT ALWAYS. 😇😷
Peace n blessings to this young man and his family
I'm feeling so happy and proud for this young father fighting a good fight🥰
weird how the only child that formed abscesses from stress is one that is under HER care🤔 and she wants to blame him????
TELL HER JUDGE💯💯💯💯💯💯 GREAT AFRICAN AMERICAN IN FATHER, THANK YOU FOR ACKNOWLEDGING THAT JUDGE, CAUSE BLACK MEN DONT GET THAT RESPECT 💯💯💯💯 WE LOVE OUR CHILDREN TOO!!!!!✊🏾✊🏿✊🏽✊🏼🙏🏽
This Karen trying so hard to make him seem like a bad father. Your daughter is the unfit parent.
She never once called the little girl her granddaughter she always said “the child”😡l
That’s because said “child” equated to a Check for lying granny
I cant tell you how much I loooved how the judge handled this indignant derelict Karen, she really tried to get this man on some legal bs
This lady is a freakin nut job for tryin to destroy this good brotha
Great dad , grandma your a piece of work!..
I don't even know this man but the way he acted in court I hope God blesses him America needs more men like him
If she wants the sibling unit to stay together, she needs to stay on good terms with this man and learn to respect his autonomy as the child's father and primary caretaker. And cut out the "Oh you didn't do exactly as I demanded! Now the kids have abscesses and it's YOUR FAULT!" - it's ridiculous, considering the background.
This woman is not faulting her daughter for anything. Instead of thanking him she's reducing him
Truly, he never has to see her ever again.
Kudos to this young man. 👏🏾
Honorable young man!!🙏🏾 God Bless Him and his daughter!
I love a happy ending
Whew I was holding my breath the whole time. Yay it's his and he's got rights. Yay Judge saw through this crazy ladies tales.
I love Judge mathis he is so fair ... 🙏
And even after all of that he still doesn’t have anything bad to say about her
Much respect to this young man stepping up being a single black man taking care of his daughter and JM so right straight through her as well.
Dang this was a great episode of mathis
Tough situation. If he was present in his daughters life, how could he not have known the mother was on heroin? Kudos to him for stepping in though.
Now your asking the right questions. And I concur. I am glad at least he's there now.
She got served. Respect him for still bring cordial to her at the end
Why is she talking so damn slow 😡🤬🤬
😂😂😂 so we feel where she coming from 🤷🏾♀️
Being manipulative, like JM said she ain't dumb, she lying and formulating her story as she go... the judge picked up on that about 7-10 min in.
Brother should have chosen better than getting entangled with a druggie.
Entitled Karen wanting things to go her way. SMH How about be happy that your Granddaughter have a loving father who is willing and able to take care of his child. You should be working with this man, not against him!
JM was going to find a way to make sure he won
In my Richard Pryor voice) Karen, Karen Karen sit yo azz down.
Those abscess stories have me worried. What is really going on in that house? Prayers out to those poor babies.
What a fine example of a MAN ..even after she put him down and tried to project the issues of her drug fiend daughter on him he didn’t once bash her..even called her a good grandmother at the end ..she needs to go find peace somewhere and good for him he seems like a great guy