How To Be In Your FEMININE ENERGY In ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS *everything you need to know*
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- čas přidán 11. 07. 2024
- Let’s chat about feminine energy and dating - how to be in your feminine energy in romantic relationships. In this video, I’m covering feminine energy and masculine energy (and what they need in a partnership) as well as how to be more feminine and increase feminine energy in your relationships. Once you can understand the energy dynamics that play out, you can understand the importance of feminine energy and relationships.
If you’re an innately feminine woman, being more in your feminine will feel GOOD to you - your relationship will be more satisfying and you’ll attract in the right people, as well. This is a way to feel happier, more powerful, and more aligned in your life.
CHAPTERS:
0:00 Masculine + Feminine Energy Dynamics in Relationships
3:00 Masculine + Feminine Desires + Fears
4:06 How to Be More in Your Feminine
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Hope you enjoyed this video!! Let me know if you’d like me to do a video on how to attract a masculine man! 😊
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“Nurturing is not mothering.” 😂👌 Love that!
Haha so important!!
I love the polarity that mothering creates. It attracts the most playful, fun, wholesome people. The ones that want to spoil and pamper us.
But men tend to think it is mothering. Some men, you can't be kind to them without them thinking you're being a mother.
How do you counteract that?
@@maeowen8495 Men don't want to be mothered. It feels like a trap if their own mothers were domineering.
I don't know how to he my natural, nurturing, generous, encouraging self without them thinking I'm mothering them.
@@frankG335 I have never had that issue. I have attracted the best people with being "Mommy" It literally has brought me a lot of joy and passion in my romantic relationships.
Your right about this my marriage ended and I remember my ex's lawyer ask what went wrong and I said "we both wanted to be the girl, and he wants me to be a man" I love being feminine!
Dang girl! You're savage. Hope you're in a better place now❤
Hello Jillz! I've been married for 8 years, and I started this femininity journey after I got diagnosed with PCOS, I felt like this condition was somehow connected with me represing my feminine side. Now, Im healthier, and my husband and I are much more happier in our relationship, he's the leader of our marriage and I'm the playful intuitive partner. We're both happier than ever. Love your take on the body connection with the feminine journey, because is not emphasized enough, and your very useful advise on marriage. Love your channel!
Yes a lot of times if a woman is having health issues related to their reproductive system it can be because they're suppressing their femininity to some extent! This was a huge knowledge bomb for me and really changed my life! I'm so glad you found value from this video...thank you so much for watching!! 💖
I have PCOS and that's what I thought too! I grew up with a Masculine mother..
I had an intuitive hit to look up feminine energy and came across your videos. I've been watching them non stop for 2 days and they've been so helpful!! I can feel I'm close to entering into a relationship and I knew I needed to get back into my feminine energy for it to come to fruition. I feel a change already! My day job as a teacher is leading lots and lots of kids and dealing with other people that don't see what I do as relevant (art teacher) so I feel like I'm on the defensive a lot of the time. I needed to get back into this feminine energy so I can bring in what is meant for me. I think my younger self would have scoffed and dismissed these videos but now I'm all about this feminine energy! Thank you so much!
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I just last weekend found your channel and I am loving it!
My ex and I broke up for multiple reasons but I believe a huge part was my living in the masculine energy. Now that I am becoming more feminine and and living more in that energy, he and I are connecting better than we ever did when we were together.
So happy to hear that you guys are connecting!! 🥰🥰
Can you provide some example of how you’re connecting to and living in your feminine energy? If I don’t do the same I feel my relationship will break up as well bc I’m too much in my masculine:(
@@dr.andriamiller3964please read a book called getting to I do by Patricia Allen. It is life changing.
Wow!! I’m going through a rough rough patch in my 14 year relationship. I kept feeling like I need a “manly man” because I feel like the “man” In the relationship… I just stumbled across your channel and this video. It’s only been up for 10 hrs and it was meant for me. I learned so much about what’s going on in our dynamic. Growing up I was forced to step more into the masculine energy. I want so badly to step back into my feminine energy and let him into his masculine energy… I wish I knew where to start. But just recognizing this is completely mind blowing and helpful.
Aw I’m so glad it was helpful for you!! And it’s so common for women to feel like they’ve been forced to step too far into their masculine...don’t worry you aren’t alone 😊
Gina I totally can relate to what you say I too was forced at an early age to step into a masculine energy in order to cope and survive and it’s been a coping skill that has been hard to let go of. I have noticed how much better my husband and I relate and get along when I just let him be the man and I don’t always feel like I need to be the man and take charge of things, but I will say it is hard to do this because I often do really feel that I can handle things better😆
Start small ladies! I had this too from childhood and my first marriage. My husband now had similar emasculating from his wife. Start small, have grace and patience and work on yourself being able to let go. It's a hard journey but already I can see small changes and my husband and is feeling more confident stepping up. I heap geniune praise and gratitude on him and make him feel like a king and in turn he is treating me better, taking the lead and behaving more like a protector/provider
I could not agree more. My marriage is struggling right now and a complaint from my husband is that he does not feel independent anymore. I just realized this is why, the feminine and masculine energies have shifted. I am the provider who plans everything and takes control. I want to step back, into my feminine energy and allow him to be more masculine. I'm hoping this will help save our relationship.
I started this journey few weeks ago, stepping into my feminine energy and i have to say that it is so pleasing to see the changes in my couple but mainly in my self! Thank you for all of your advices!! 🙏🏼😘
Aw I’m so glad!!! Makes me happy to hear that 😍
hi! what did you concretely do until now in your journey?
@@perlabianca155 hello :) i’ve started by being more in the present moment... also by trying to slow my movements, my thoughts... by being more open... w/my bf I started to do things (at home) w/ my heart, like cleaning or cooking, not bc I have to but bc I want it, it changes a mood! I also try to be more gentle, more attentive to the needs of other (it goes along w being more present)... and i try to give more place to my bf ; as for exemple... let him do things on his own timing, let him carry something if he proposes to... in fact its just about balance... and these are just my few first steps 😆
Now I realize that being a single mother has had me in the masculine energy for so long that I find it really difficult to lean on my feminine energy whenever I have a date with someone. Thank you so much for this video, the second I see today. Happy last days of the year🎉
I really appreciate your videos, especially how you get to the point of the video quickly, instead of posting a 2hr live. Thank you for all of your wonderful advice 🙏🏽🥰
Everything you're describing is exactly the dynamic between my beloved late husband and me. I never felt so beautiful or desirable in my life, or so admiring and appreciative of my mate. I'm hoping I can generate this just one more time.
I love my feminine energy, I love your channel and your message, but I do want to make it clear that just because you decide to be in your feminine energy doesn't mean your man will become masculine. I would absolutely love to be a feminine woman, to have him take leadership and make the decisions, but even though on the outside my husband seems very masculine on the inside he's got WAY more feminine energy than even I do, if I step back my house becomes chaos, my children suffer, etc. So I really can't. And no, he didn't lay back because I took over, our married life started with me thinking he would be the man of the house and waiting, and waiting, and waiting, until the household (children included) couldn't take it anymore, so I took over. I appreciate the advice, I just don't want anyone to be heartbroken thinking their men will become manlier just because they're more feminine. Happy for those who do.
Yep I agree! I mentioned that at the end. This video is just to help people step into their feminine energy in relationships if they CHOOSE to and it works for them ❤️
Much needed words dear. I stand in the same situation as u dear. N here r times that i just cant do it anymore. But one gotta carry on once the kids r involved between 2 ppl.
I really appreciate how you take into account same-sex relationships in your videos. I’m a naturally more feminine woman but I’m also a lesbian and have felt in the past like I need to conform to a “man’s role” in order to be a “real” lesbian. Thank you for being inclusive!! You’ve really helped me step into my feminine more :)
I just discovered your account whilst looking for books on self development and the divine feminine and masculine..your content is so enriching to watch/hear and clear to understand! The masculine shield is definitely a huge aspect that developed over years of unsaftey and now it feels exhausting!! Making me ill even.. Definitely need a safe space to harness my divine feminine. Thank you for sharing this 🙏 ❤️
So glad you found me and that you enjoy my videos. Makes me so happy 💕💕
You are such a wise women. Thank you for these videos. I wasn’t taught any of this growing up and I’m 37 now. I appreciate you!!
Thank you SO much for making this video. I’m in my 40s and just now learning how to receive and rest in my feminine energy and it feels SO good. 💝 I was definitely missing out on all the fun of being my full feminine self!
i started this feminity journey a year ago nd day by day i realise that my ex wanted to be the girl and let me lead what mades me feel exhausted but now m in a healthy relationship with an true masculine man and it makes me improve my feminity side more and more
Love this! Thank you! I think it's what is missing from so many relationships these days. 💕 having grown up with 4 brothers and no sisters it's a good reminder for me to not be afraid to let this energy shine a lot more 😊
I grew up with two older brothers and no sisters and so I totally relate!!
I love your videos and all the wisdoms within them are so valuable.. not to shift focus from how wonderful your message is, but I’d love to know your hair routine!! It’s just always so healthy and feminine
I had to leave a dysfunctional relationship, but it won’t be easy because he will try to get me back. He has not yet excepted that it’s over and that I just want to be friends with him. I liked this video, thank you 🙏
Love this! Thanks beautiful Jillz! ❤
❤ I'm so grateful for you Jillz ❤ I'm very happy to have found your channel
As a man who has been through it (even the death of my spouse of several years, and the death of my son), I couldn’t agree with you more. When my spouse died, I thought that women around here were into their feminine energy, and I wan’t to please them so badly; unfortunately, I found that they placed money and “what can you do for me” way ahead of my attempts of pleasing them (both physically and emotionally). So, I am working on finding a woman who is way more confident in who she is, rather than “if you do that, you can have this”. If I do, great. If I don't, that's OK, too. A BIG Thumb’s Up and Subscribe!
Truly well articulated and summarized. Thankyou
Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Very helpful and insightful ❤
Jillz, love your channel so much! 💫thank you very much for always sharing high quality content! 💗your topics are helping me in my relationship very much!
Aw so glad they’re helping you! That makes me so happy 💕
I agree totally. This kind of info and self reflection has made me realize that I don’t want to work that hard or be that successful. Those were idea I learned. I really would rather just enjoy the day and I would have liked to have children....... femininity is the most awesome fun thing !
Thank you, this is one of the best videos on this subject💕. I am also very grateful for what you said at the end, doing this for ME 1st and formost💕
So glad it resonated with you!! 💜
I really loved this video. I am in my masculine energy for past traumas and romantic relationships are always a problem because I am scared of let my wall down
Thank you for continuously amazing videos :) did you ever consider doing a video on coping with pre menstrual symptoms and balancing mood swings ? It would be most welcome! I'm 30 years old and still can't get a grip on my hormones!
Yes, Jillz, we all have both masculine and feminine energy within us. In fact, our chakras are a pulsation of masculine (externally oriented, driven, penetrative) and feminine (internally and relationally oriented, surrendering, receptive). The odd chakras (root, solar plexus and throat) are masculine and the even chakras (sacral, heart and third eye) are feminine. It's such a beautiful energetic design. And our hormones/culture make us live more in one polarity while carrying both. Love it!
Yes, so true, I've thought about this before but it's cool to see someone else validate it!
Well said🙏
30 year old post operative trans woman here. This was illuminating because I lost my boyfriend due to my insecurity and not accepting his love and self-sabotaging because it was so perfect. You explained it well and sounded so organized. Subscribed! ❤
Ah been waiting for this one ! Thank you love ❤
Of course! 💖
Such important info. We have been so lost for so long!
Wow I can relate to everything you say here. As someone feminine but living more in their masculine (raised by my single dad) my whole life, this is so helpful to me. In recent years I have begun self development work which has, without me realising, led to me to live more in my true self feminine. This has since caused changes and connection difficulties in my 20 year marriage. Not feeling my husband steps up or is growing too. I think being aware of what you talk about here will really help with my situation. Thank you so much. ❤
Of course! I hope this video was helpful for you ❤️❤️
Yessss was waiting for a video like this! 😊
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Hey! I loove love love your videos and your insight on things... could you talk more about recovering your own life once you kinda lost it or it became very entangled with his? (we recently moved out to a new city where we don't know anybody, so we naturally started to spend all our free time with each other, and I would like for both of us to recover our sense of individual selves)
I love your videos! Could you make a video on feminine energy for those who aren’t yet in relationships?
Keep the how to coming, im so in need of finding my féminin energy 😢dont know where it went , so love these ❤
Intrigued by the cover pic, I thought this video was going to teach us how to attract Jon Hamm.
Despite the initial disappointment, I loved this video. Great contents, thanks! ❤
I am spending time with your content every day. I feel amazing!!! Thank you!!
So glad!!! 🥰🥰
Thanks sis...You really solve a great mystery of my life...now i understand why i am feeling not satisfied when when i am trying to be so independent...
You’re so welcome! 💖
One of the best ones I've found on how to be more feminine in my marriage so far!! Thanks ☺️👍👍
Oh yay glad it was helpful!! 💜💜
I am from India. I have watched your videos. I find them so to the point. Very clear and understandable content. Happy to be on your channel. May universe manifest all your wishes and goals soon. Love and respect❣️
I’m so happy that you’re liking my videos!! Thank you so much ❤️❤️
Masculinity makes me feel safe, but it also makes me feel like I should be careful because they could be dangerous. I hope I'm making sense with this.
Totally makes sense! That’s the difference between healthy masculine energy and wounded masculine energy - the healthy will strive to protect while the wounded will try to control. It’s not always easy to tell the difference right away!
As women we always fear male violence to some extent. If I meet a man I am thinking he is a narcissist or abusive?
So true
I totally get this and I'm the same. I feel safe cus I'm in control.
thank you!
I agree with you 100%
Wow, everything makes so much sense, thank you!!!!
So glad it was helpful! 💕
Love this! I really enjoyed this video!
So glad!!! 😍
Your voice is so relaxing🤗Have a nice day! 🍀🌻
Aw thank you! You too 💖💖
Loved it! Thank you ! Love your videos.
Thank you so much! ❤️
This was eye opening, THANK YOU!!!!!
You're welcome! Glad you enjoyed 💖
Hey Jillz! I’m a new subscriber to your channel. I’ve watched a few of your videos in a row and really appreciate your insight. Your advice is balanced, thoughtful, and very gracious xoxo
Thank you so much!! So glad you’re here! 💖💖
I so agree!
I’m so grateful for these videos. Thank you 😊
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I’m 55 and love your videos. I left my long term marriage 3 years ago so this is my thought process.
Thank you so much Jillz, I really appreciate you so much ❤️
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So thankful for this video! It came at the perfect time for me. I am embracing more of my feminine currently and I’ll definitely be using these tools in my relationship 🥰
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Oh Jillz i love this thank you sis❤️
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I love your content so much, I'm glad I found your channel.
Thank you!! So glad you’re here!! ❤️
thank you this did help
You are SPOT ON. I wish more women thought the way you do.
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Letting go and try to compliment him for his work 🤗🤗🤗 appreciation and laying back -let him take the lead can take you very far 💞;💞
Agreed!! 💖
Thank you for the video ❤ I wish one day to have a friend like you! Keep shinning 💫
Be the friend :)
I am genuinely on this journey ,sooo far sooo good,i am getting there God help me
You're amazing ❤️❤️
so much wisdom :)
Omg I needed this video literally tha k you thank you lol in the beginning I was so much more Innocent and he held the masculine energy and now were swapped and were toxic and I'm running and I'm avoiding and I don't feel cherished and he doesn't.. idk he's so blind to his own flaws and I laugh in his face and he thinks it's disrespectful but I will only bow down tk someone who is actually my king it's not him I'm not submitting i refuse
5:24 I'm offering too much I'm overriding to make him happy to make him feel loved but I'm slowly doing less what i want what i like where I wanna travel what I dream it's like I'm not me I'm him and if i try to break away and do something for me and open my heart back up cause I'm shutting down and in my head
Great video! Helped alot
So glad!! 💛
Well you are such a sweet pretty young woman and you are very wise you’re teaching this much older woman how to step into my femininity after years of living in my masculinity in the working world I literally do have to learn this stuff! And I think all women these days could benefit from embracing their femininity. There is actually a lot of power in it more than women realize
Aww thank you!!! And yes there is so much beauty and power being in touch with your feminine ❤️❤️
I love your wisdom and insight 🎊
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Thank you for sharing this helpful knowledge Jillz. I can see a beautiful, wise, and feminine woman version in you. Everyone should be aware of this topic and practice it. How did you collect the knowledge on this topic? Can you please prefer some sources and books that help me learn this?
I feel very alone when I'm apart but also can't feel comfortable when we're spending too much time. It's been one of the most difficult things to let go, I get triggered and my anxious thoughts take over "What if he is having more fun without me?" " What if he finds me boring?" " He doesn't miss me?". I'm trying very hard to actually feel enough on my own and focus on my own time. I have progressed a lot but I'm still lacking
Hey Jillz, I'd love to know where you get your dresses. You always look so stunning!
Great content. Thank you!:)
Of course!!! 💜💜
i looooove you !! your videos are very helpful and you are sooooo pretty
Ahh thank you so much!! 🥰🥰
I need to go back to this over and over.
I hope this video was helpful for you! Sometimes refreshing ourselves with these concepts regularly is such a simple but powerful thing 💖
Love your videos 🥰🥰🥰🥰
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Wonderful content!!!!!! xoxox
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I agree
Hi jillz I’m lena from indonesia. thank you for made this video ❤️ I’m on process being feminim energy now, I want have health relation with my man.
These are wife skills! Feminine energy is so important. I am so thrilled to have found your content!
Ah so glad you found me too!! ❤️❤️
Some women take things the wrong way when a man opens the door I personally think it's really nice to do that. I am puzzled as to why some women think it's an insult. Thank you for your very informative video it is very useful. 😁🌻🐝
I think some women have subconsciously turned off a natural receptive side of themselves, and becomes difficult to take a basic compliment or recieve some help sometimes without getting defensive about it. I had to learn not to make my life harder than it has to be and not shun away some assistance, even something as simple as opening the car door
@@deannamarie3746 This is very true.I open doors for many people and they have not thought it was in insult, but have been truly grateful. 🌻💐😁 I don't know what the big deal is.
you are literally mesmerizing 😍 so gorgeous and you have such beautiful energy!!
Aw thank you so much!! 🥰🥰
Finally thank you! A woman that knows. Your husband is a very lucky man and where can i find a woman like you?
I have a boyfriend who is heavily into his feminine energy.
I was in my masculine energy all these years but now I want to allow my feminine energy to thrive.
I don't know how it will be possible with such a feminine man around though 😭😭😭😭
I trust him absolutely. I don't know how to be more feminine and vulnerable with him. So... HOW do I find things to open up about? I don't feel a lot of trauma right now.
Thank you Jillz!! QUESTION: As women, how is required to use masculine energy in ourselves? In which aspects?
Hi! I am new to your channel!
I love your top!
Where did you get it?
Welcome and thank you! It's Aqua from Bloomingdales 😊
Hii jillz I'm binge watching your vdos.. Can you please make vdo about self care and appearance in a feminine way.. Because feminine energy is soo connected with venus which is about aesthetic.. And women always feel good when they are taking care of their skin, cloths, hair., mental health and physical body
You’re so right! I just wrote this idea down in my notes 😊 thank you!!!
@@JillzGuerin woww❤ I'm waiting
Can u talk more on overgiving? Cz I feel like I may be dealing with that as a woman and idk maybe that's sumthin that causes issues too
I just found your channel today and decided to sub. I like your content as well as how you present yourself. With respect, just one minor note: The phrase *"at the end of the day"* seems to be excessively overused and because it's so repetitive, it becomes distracting, taking away from your actual message.
yep yep yep, all of it!
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Hey beautiful jillz! How do you deal with chores?
I see a lot more light feminine and dark feminine in same sex relationships. The light and open and deep and mysterious.
Thank you. You’re so well spoken! I tend to overgive and operate from my Masculine in my relationship. I gotta chill lol I know my fiancé will provide in certain ways, he just sometimes don’t do it on the timeline I want him to. I may need to be more patient.
Same here 😅😂🤚🏻
Ah thank you!! Haha I can be impatient as well 😂
I am in an ldr with a guy who lived in a different island. He is the one who always visit me. The thing is, he doesn't has a car in my town, but i have a car. Is it okay if i drive him around or i am the one who came to his place? Because his place is 1 hour drive from my place. How to be feminine about this?
Question, don’t know if you’ll write back or anyone pls share, I’m trying to be less needy and more feminine, although I know being feminine is letting my partner make decisions and I follow (paraphrasing, not literal) but if I do these things like you say, I will feel needy, although I want me to be submissive I feel like things I do on my own to try and not be needy makes me confused asf😂