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How to ATTRACT a HIGH QUALITY MASCULINE MAN *for a lasting relationship*
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- čas přidán 1. 08. 2024
- Today let’s talk about how to attract a high quality masculine man for a lasting relationship. I’m sharing several tips + pieces of advice for how to attract a man, but specifically how to attract a masculine man. In this video, I talk about understanding the importance of masculine and feminine energy, and how understanding these energies (and how they work together) will help you understand a LOT about love and attraction.
I hope this dating advice for women, dating tips for women, and dating advice in your 20s (or beyond) is helpful and will encourage you to be more in your feminine energy in relationships (if that’s your true nature, of course). It may also help you to understand better what men want from women. As always, take what resonates and leave the rest! Love you guys!
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CHAPTERS:
0:00 How to Attract A High Quality Masculine Man
1:15 Tip #1
2:48 Tip #2
4:10 Tip #3
6:14 Tip #4
7:45 Tip #5
10:16 Tip #6
10:50 Tip #7
11:22 Tip #8
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A huge epiphany for me was when I realized that different scenarios require different energies. The healthiest and most beneficial skill is to discern and use the energy most appropriate for the result you desire. Therefore, I use my masculine energy when I run my business, leading a team, or studying. I use masculine when I want to drive progress in my life or get through a workout. When it comes to dating, I finally realized that my feminine side would magnetize a masculine partner to me- and thats what I wanted. Honestly, some women may prefer a man who is primarily feminine (and thats fine!); but for myself, I wanted a strong and protective " hunter" who knocks out his goals. I wanted to let him take the wheel more and that meant it's more appropriate for me to be in feminine.
I experimented with this. I started learning about how to be more feminine on dates. The biggest one was for me to get gussied up and to shut up more on the date. I had to let him make the plan even though it fell flat a few times (LOL). I had to let go of control on the date and let him open up. When I started doing this, I got more dates with quality men and 2nd, 3rd, 4th dates!
I aint readin allat
Yes girl!! Honestly, for myself I have been so career driven that I haven’t given it much consideration until now… so here I am lol! 😅❤
I see rich men are intelligent nowadays.. they don't extend beyond 4th date 😂
Very well said!
Listen to this Lady... I have applied many tips and I can't explain how much it changed my relationship dynamically .
Happy New Year! This year we all ladies are attracting masculine men this year 🥰
Happy new year!! 💖💖
Did you attract them yet?
I am so much older than you (54) and still have a lot of benefit of your video. It is your purehearted energy with which you give the impulses. ☺️🙏💝💐
Milf?
the big sister i never had, and we all deserve
Yes!! Very much needed and appreciated 🙏❤!
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I just want to add that taking pride in your appearance can look different to everyone. It is about YOUR authentic display of YOUR authentic beauty. You do not have to go out of your way to impress or seduce the masculine energy person. SEDUCTION is masculine energy. If you do not want to doll up, don't. If you want to, do. You can even wear your frumpiest outfit, it does not matter. It is about the light you shine.
Definitely, it’s about owning who YOU are and presenting yourself in a way that makes you look good 🙌
Completely agree! I'm feminine and take good care of myself and appearance. I am a low-key dresser and wear minimal or no makeup. When I go on first dates I look the same because this is the authentic version of me.
@@JillzGuerin I think it's ultimately about presenting yourself in a way that makes you *feel* good. If you're happy with the way you look and comfortable in your own skin, you exude that to others. I do happen to be one who likes to do all the girly things when I go out (dress well, hair, makeup) because that's what makes *me* feel good and comfortable - and boy, there is such a huge difference in the way strangers interact with me at those times versus those occasional days when I don't bother. I believe that is, at least partly, because my energy is so different when I feel good about how I'm presenting myself. I so enjoy your videos!
I agree! I noticed I get guys attention way more when I walk outside looking like a natural mess lol meaning sweats and my hair in a bun with no makeup lol
I love your makeup Jillz. It's very natural, simple and enhances your feminine beauty!
Ah thank you!!! 🥰🥰
I couldn’t agree more ….I just found your channel and even though I’m in my late 40’ I find so much value in each one of your videos. Keep up the amazing content you make ❤🎉😊
I'm following your advice and my relationship has gotten even better!
How did you do that specifically?
I really needed to hear this right now. Thank you!
So fascinating! I study law and love to develop my analytical thinking. When I work, I'm quite straightforward because getting things right and pursuing justice are so important to me. However, for all my love of order and logic, this video still makes total sense to me. I'm not that logical, straightforward kind of person in my personal life. In my personal life, I strive to be just the kind of feminine woman that you talk about so much. This channel is seriously fascinating! ❤️❤️
I've always loved children and enjoy depending on a man. In my experience it has often met resistance not from men, but from masculine energy women.
Masculine energy women know how it ultimately turns out by depending on a man.. they know the little secret that's why they warn you to earn your own bread
Ugh yesss I love your energy. More on this please..💙💙💙
I noticed the book on your bookshelf - How to Heal Your Life By Louise Hay. One of my favorite books that I reference often! I love the index in the back.
This is so refreshing to listen to as a man, love your videos!
All I can say is wow. I’ve been watching all your videos about masculinity in women and I’ve never felt more heard while listening to your words. I work in construction and also enjoy more masculine activities. I’m definitely curious to hear your advice on maintaining your feminine energy in a masculine dominated workplace or activity while also maintaining a level of respect.
I do have a video about how to be in your feminine energy while getting shit done...some of it might be relevant to you! But also there’s nothing wrong with turning on some of that masculine energy for work, but you just have to be very conscious about kinda switching that off and turning your feminine back on when you get home. It is definitely doable but takes conscious thought!
As a guy your comment is filled with feminine energy, you're probably fine
Wow I second that. I was forced to work in construction at a masculine dominated workplace and I absolutely hate it, and I'm really struggling 'cause I'm not the masculine type at all, would love to get advice on that
@@ilariamasullo3353 how were you forced to work construction???
The best advice video I ever came across on this topic is yours. Thank you for such advice and you're the type of elder sister a girl needs.🧡
Ah yay so glad it resonated with you ❤️❤️
@@JillzGuerin 🧡💕
Femininity is so powerful in its own way.
Of course it is powerful... we as women tend to feel that we are powerless because of the stories that the world created for us.
Since the beggining of modernity women are seen as "the weak creatures". Some of us are treated like crap every day because of our feminity and because the meaning of being a female. We are told that our feminity can be something to make fun of (i have seen this a lot), that we are meaningless, that we are a thing with a body that can be bought or sold. It seems that the world we live in has forgotten that we as women create life, we nurture, we take care of everybody and everything.
However, we are not respected enough our feminity is wounded because of this...
Maybe we should be more feminine, feminine as grandiose queens
@@iaf4454 spot on🖒
@@iaf4454 Well you should see what us men have ot aspire ot be in order to be attractive to you women. All you women have to do is be nice or cute.
What do you mean you take care of everybody? Men are expcted to take care of women becuase women date across and up. Which puts pressure on men to be better than women. Every man made thing that you ever touched was invented by a man. Men took us out of the jungle. Not women. Modern "feminism" is why there is so much misery.
Couldn't find any better explanation than this... Amazing
Such an incredible video and the best advice! Be authentic and true to YOU!
Great content! I love the balance of how you explain each sides. Definitely subscribing to learn more. Thanks Jillz.
Happy new year Jills! Loved the video, as always 😊. Thank you so much, and I hope you get everything you want this year ❤️
Ah thank you! Happy new year!! 😊
Thanks for the great tips, Jillz! It is a delight to listen and watch your video 😊
Aww 🥰🥰🥰
I've been thinking of living more in allignment with my vision and also watched this video earlier today. However, I was also supposed to meet the opposite of a man you are talking about (masculine and respectful), someone I'd been seing, and he stood me up without even giving me notice or apologising. In some strange way, I was very glad as it made me think even more that I shouldn't waste time on such guys. Thank you!
I like to think that a situation like that is just the universe doing you a favor 💜 Clearing the way for someone better to come along!
A tip to women: if you want a man to approach you, first make it known that you’re attracted to him. Make sure he sees you looking at him…a lot. This very easy but crucial step has somehow been lost.
Hi sweetie ! Love your videos... Sometimes guys don’t know if there is an opening or not. Whether your just being nice to everyone or showing him romantic energy. A tip for girls if there is a guy you like sometimes giving him your number is a good idea (giving him your number is a clear big opening). This way he knows there is an opening but he gets to choose to pursue you. He chooses to call you and take you on a date. If he doesn’t oh well he’s not for you but at least you know. Love from the Uk xxx
So true, it still allows them to initiate on their own or not! 💜
I Love your videos ! ❤ and thank you for your advices you seem to know what you are talking about and it is always good to have a lifting female community ...we unfortunatly have been living in such a Masculin societies that we can't blame female for wanting to imitate male or being scared of feminin qualities but thankfully we started to accept it more znd to embrasse it more...
You’re really amazing! So helpful and knowledgeable!
Amazing video. Thank you so much!!! I love your channel
The most exact and senseful video of this topic. 100% agree with everything. Jillz, thank you so much for the correct words that there are also many combinations of energies and it's ok for man not to be in his masculine energy if he doesn't want to. Everything you say is cool, these are not exact advices "what to do", but you explain very well how to behave in general.
Your videos make me softer and less anxious ❤
Love that video! So happy for you and your relationship ❤️😘😘
Aw thank you!!! ❤️❤️
this video emaculates pure energy
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Love all your tips. First time watching you. Great advices and relatable. Love tip #4!
Thank you!!! So glad you liked it 🥰
Could you do an affirmation video for the mornings to put us into the right feminine headspace around 5-10 minutes long and focusing on ^how to be a femine partner^ kind of vibes;) ?
I do have a general affirmation morning video that I just posted in case you haven’t seen that yet, but that’s a great idea for a more specific one!! Thank you!! ❤️❤️
Thanks for the video, this makes me feel like I'm about to meet the man for me.
Good luck!🍀
Loved it. Helped me a lot 😊❤️
I see sooo many guys just wanting a woman who is employed and working...they judge me based on that..and reject me for that...because I am struggling in my career...they don't care if I am loving or compassionate....they care that I am not earning and don't have a job...since sooo many guys have the same taste...and I'm always being rejected for the same thing...it puts a doubt in me...if truly masculine actually likes loving and compassionate...Jillz could you shed some light on this....
It seems like there are so many men who confuse women's desire for political equality with equality in relationships. We can desire equality in society, but also be different as women (and individuals) and bring different, yet balancing qualities to a relationship. In an era where so many people open conversations with "What do you do (for a living)?", it can be hard to direct the conversation toward other things. BUT, having & pursuing goals is just as valuable as the achievements themselves. Maybe you just haven't come across someone mature enough- or secure enough- to understand this? Remind yourself daily of all of your beautiful strengths and allow yourself to project that energy in conversations. Outwardly, work toward the profession you desire, one step at a time. And enjoy time with the people you care about. Inwardly, continue to think about what you truly want in a relationship. When the right guy comes along, he will appreciate you for who you are, not just "where" you are in life. Your comment resonated with me and I felt compelled to reply...hope I didn't overstep. I wish you all the best! 💕
@@theStarryNYT thanks so much for reaching out to me and shedding some light on my situation....you did not overstep...you helped me... does age matter? I'm going to be 34...
@@shreyaindia4024 age does matter. The older you are the harder it gets. But it is still possible.
In terms of work. I find it tough to fully believe that u have been rejected SOLELY based upon ur job. Men tend to on average not care about a woman’s financials and jobs relative to women besides what someone can interpret from it (such as competence) and what job it is (in terms of is it to do with janitor or a job that is immodest) Men also tend to prefer women of lower income then them, but perhaps not “broke” and “uneducated”. Poorer men who also struggle financially may care more about the job.
I can’t really say much without detail but I doubt it’s the fact that u don’t have a very successful career. It may be more so u don’t seem to show much to them. Career is one way of showing something about urself. As long as you have a respectable passion in your life such as charity work even if you aren’t earning much, men who are confident with their money won’t be bothered by it and may like it over someone who is for example a janitor.
Being a guy myself and knowing many guy friends I would say 99% of us in the end don’t really value ur job if there’s clear evidence that ur unsuccessful job doesn’t resemble your actual character and personality. But usually it does. If ur a janitor and u had an education. A lot of men might see u as “lazy” and “not competent”.
Again a job CAN matter. But if u show that u have a great personality and that it doesn’t oppose ur job or another way of saying it is u leave them enough of an impression that they can look over ur career. Then you should be good.
Of course, beauty, weight, charisma, passion and personality etc. all have an impact. Notice The last 3 things listed can perhaps actually be seen through ur career. Again everyone has something they can improve on. I’m sure u have a list of things that u can improve on and perhaps open up a bit more about. And I’m sure if u do that well then a lot of men won’t feel the need or care about ur career
Sorry for the long response. Relationships are complicated. I didn’t feel like I could do it well by being short.
I'm 45 and don't have a normal "job". I'm meeting various guys but tend to attract needy, immature guys. Have you done any self work like she talks about?
Because you girls asked for equality. Now earn equal 💩🙈☕☕☕
Also you’re awesome appreciate your channel so much! You goddess!! Xx
This video is amazing!!! Thank you and wish you a happy year with everything you desire most 🌠💕🌹
Happy new year!!! 😘
I needed to hear this
You explained it just soo perfectly! I confirm this from a Man's perspective 👌👌💯💯
I am so glad I found your channel! You are talking with so much respect and motivate me to be better without making me feel bad for what I am now. I also love your style! If you feel like sharing, where is that lovely t-shirt from?
Than youuu very much! I can't stop watching your videos!
Thank you
Love your content! Very good tips. Would you do a video once on how to go about this when you are in a relationship already but have been way too much in your masculine energy and wish to reverse polarity?
Thank you!! I have a video called “how to be in your feminine energy in romantic relationships” and it should be super helpful for that!! ❤️
1-be feminine
2-open receiving energy
3-let the masculine pursue
4-stop trying to force it
5-dont compete with him
6-be best version of yourself
7- take a pride in appereance
8-be authentic
Such valuable content again, thank you!:)
You’re welcome!! ❤️
Thank you for this video!!!! I love your content 🤍
Ah thank you!!! 💜
Beautiful video! Thank you. 😌🙏🏻
You’re welcome!! 🥰🥰
thank u so much for ur amazing advices
Thank you for your tips
❤ Great advice!
Thank you for this video! ❤
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Amazing video. Thank you so much!
You’re so welcome! ❤️
Thank you for sharing your energy Jillz. ❤️ I found you several days ago and have been binging your videos. You give so much quality and actionable advice. 💕
Aw that makes me so happy! 🥰
Your spirit is glowingly beautiful!
Aw thank you!!! 🥰❤️
Loved ur dress girl ❤
I love the nuance in this video ❤️
The other part of this is ; if the mans family dynamics is that the dad is feminine and mother masculine than I feel he will think that is normal and mimic what he grew up in. If you don"t want to act in a masculine energy your relationship will never work no matter what you do.
Loved this video so so much xx
So glad! 💛💛
I enjoy your videos so thank you!
So glad!!!! 💕💕
I lovvvve this!!!! I met my alpha man and instantly felt the shift into my Goddess-Ness hehe
thank you for this video, you made some very good points! I have felt like I’ve been attracting nothing but feminine men lately. I think I’m going to watch your older videos of how to reengage my feminine energy :) lol
I hope they’re helpful for you!! 💖
Is there any other man watching this?
Love your videos.
You might like the book, how to be 3% man. I think you might have read it too.
Thank you.. it's helpful
I love your videos Jillz, happy new year! I've been looking into your recipes too, cooking makes me feel feminine. :)
Love it!!! 🥰
"The man you love to cook for is the right one for you?" ...popular saying in Mediterranean countries
Definitely using these tips and be more feminine and attract a well off man ❤😊
Ty for your videos.
I am a man.
And watching your videos makes me remember that "red pill" is not everything. There are also commited and feminine woman out there.
I'm loving your videos 😍☯️♥️
Thank you!! 💕
please share style tips for winter and for summer!
Okay I’ll try to do this! I just released a new video today about spring clothing you might like! 💕
@jillz can you share what lipstick you're using? I love it!!
Great channel!!
Thank you!!! 💜
Thank you from Syria ❤
This video came at the perfect time. Thanks Jillz 💕happy new year
Happy new year!!! 🌸🌸
it would be easier understand for me if detailed examples were provided
Real goddess be blessed ♥️🌷
Your dress is beautiful
Aw thank you! It’s a blouse from Anthropologie!! 🥰
You are the prize for the RIGHT man
Thanks!
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love this episode! thank you so much!
1:23 be in your feminine
2:51 have open, receiving energy
4:21 let the masculine pursue
6:23 stop trying to force it or convincing him to like you
7:53 you don't have to compete with him
10:23 be high quality yourself
10:55 take pride in your appearance
Be authentic
Be in my feminine energy
Have open receiving energy
Not my job to convince someone to spend time with me
I’m the prize for the right man
Not my job to convince him I’m the best
Good advice
❤️💕
I’m not the prize for every single man. Only the right man. 😔💔 26 and still trying to convince that I’m worth it instead of being perused
Thank you so much for this video! Speaking of being in your feminine energy, I had a question! Disclaimer: I am talking in the context of a heterosexual relationship. If a woman is on a dating app like Bumble (where the woman makes the initiative etc etc), does this reduce her feminine energy as she is the one making the first move? Would love to hear from some of you about this!
Soooo true. Couldn't agree more with all the advice! Even in nature, it's the male that pursues and not the other way round. Thank you :)
Yes that’s usually true!! I think a lot of the answers in life could be found in nature 😊
I'm really happy for you and your husband
High value men also look for accountability within a woman it gives us a clear indication if you are a nacissist or not.
I’d love a video on feminine conversation topics for those of us who’ve gotten boring from too much focus on work 🙈
John Delony offers packs of "Questions for Humans" cards that might help.
you womens just want to trap men😂
Yes, You know IT probobly. I Love YOU re videos 😊 bye! I know its not 4 MEN, but its abaut You're personality!
I've been following all these tips before I even watched this, and yet, I'm still single and no one loves me. This is all a bunch of hot air. For some people like me, it doesn't matter how much I be myself, how feminine I am, how sweet I am, how good I look, or how much love I show; still men choose other women over me.
It doesn't matter to others, I love you ❤️
Hi Jill, hope you’re having a lovely day ☺️💕 little msg, how would you recommend you let a man know you’re not interested in them without hurting his feelings / being considerate if you’ve already been clear you only see them as a friend, as focusing on my goals at the moment & he still keeps persuing you constantly? I’ve been clear, but he isn’t backing off. At a loss for what to say whilst keeping my feminine grace! 😅thank you 🙏🏼 x
If you could offer your advice? Though I appreciate from a good place, it’s rather distressing when they don’t listen (red flag..!) 🤦🏻♀️ thank you 😇
I am 100% attracted to masculine men, but am not a very feminine woman. I was a tom boy as a kid, still have trouble getting along with most women even as an adult because I don't like drama or gossip. My favorite hobbies currently include wrestling and jiu jitsu and this is the type of man I'm attracted to, as well - a man who also enjoys expressing his masculinity in such ways: the soldier, the fighter, the protector, the police officer, etc. I have zero interest in men who act feminine.
Maybe I suppress some part of my femininity unintentionally and I need to work on it. I guess that's why I ended up watching your video.
Make sure you show them your feminine side! 💕
"The Rules" are back in fashion :)
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What to talk about during dates to highlight my femininity?
You figure it out yet?
Im a 22 year old virgin and i have 0 experience in love and dating but im not shy of wemon usually meaning sometimes i am i have asked out wemon before never worked out i got asked out twice by wemon i didn't not find attractive but after being single for a long time and getting into my adult hood with no love i learned over the years of being single maybe i should be a lot more open minded and focus more on personality
Edit and im happy this woman is understanding
Awesome👍
what do I do if I love my best friend thats in a relationship and he shows interest in me too?
Love ❤️
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As a man I think you just need to be beautiful and thin , and not to talk too much
More on anything really. 🎉🎉
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