STOP Chasing a Specific Person and instead do this (they will chase you)
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If you treat someone like a celebrity, the many times they will treat you like a fan. The key to this is understanding that power dynamic and in this video I'm going to show you exactly how to switch that around so that they chase you. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness.
Now in this video I'm going to show you why chasing someone else is the problem in of itself and the energy dynamics that are going on. Anytime we are chasing someone and I'm going to show you exactly what to do and said because when you switch this around, it actually has the power dynamic work in your favor.
Now in general, anytime you are attracting a specific person into your life, a lot of times what happens is we end up putting them on this metaphorical pedestal, so we put them high up on this pedestal and then they are automatically further away.
Now in my own life, I've had many times where this has happened, especially early on when I began dating, I started dating and a little bit later in life, I was probably about 16 or 17. And I remember that one of my first girlfriends that I ever had, I really liked her. We started dating. And then what happened is she started to pull away.
She started to pull away and I started to feel that resistance and I would be thinking about, or I'd be wondering what is she doing? And I would kind of get in my head about it. Now what happened was this was a time when, uh, my, my dad divorced my ex step mom, for those of you that don't know my story, my ex step mom was emotionally, physically and mentally abusive and controlling. So my brother and I weren't allowed to have friends before that.
So all of a sudden, you know, when my dad divorced her at 15, 16 years old, now my brother and I are allowed to have friends. Now my brother and I are allowed to even date. So I had one of my first girlfriends and um, this was like a whole new world. And at the same time we started today, I started to put her on a pedestal and then I started chasing her, hoping that she would like come back to me and just like me and validate me.
Then what happened is I started to realize that, uh, I started to become friends with the new group within high school. So there was like a new group of friends that I started to be with. And at the same time, there was a couple, uh, you know, girls in that group that liked me and my brother, both of us, we were called the Doughty bros.
Now what happened was, is as that started to happen, my attention went away from the one that I was chasing. And all of a sudden she could feel that energetic pool of me not feeding her the attention and her, uh, and me not chasing her anymore. Well, I remember when that happened, she then started to become interested me again.
It was like she felt that energetic pool. And then I remember she would call me for like two or three weeks and I just wasn't as interested because now I have this whole new group of friends and I realized that there were many more opportunities than me putting this one person on a pedestal. And it was like two or three weeks of her colony calling me.
Then eventually it was just like we just, um, she kinda got the hint, got the picture. However, what changed was my own energy. Once my energy changed, that's when everything began to change with this process is I didn't view her on the pedestal. Plus I then wasn't being the cameo in her movie.
When it comes to attracting love into our life, if we put someone on a pedestal, what we do is we put them vibrationally separate from us. We say, I want you, I want you. And if you say I want you, it means I don't have, I don't have you. So, and you know, people aren't possessions anyways, but the idea behind this is that then we feel resistance.
We feel the resistance because we feel the lack of that person not being in our life. Now also think about the frame of this perspective when we come at it from the frame of I want you and I lack the love and I wouldn't want you in my life cause then I can love myself more.
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thank you honey! you give the advises at the right time! explain about "act as if concept" with this topic! most of times thats a point i feel like sometimes it keeps specific person on a pedastle ! but that is a powerful loa method! so pls make a video about the way to keep balance with that method!! thank you!
What place you are now dude?
Dear Aaron is it useful for those who already are in a relationship?? In order to bring more love and intimacy into the relationship?
@@sweets5785 It is.
They always come back when you stop caring.
I hope so.
Stephanie Dekinger wrong mind set
Not always.
How the hell do u stop caring and y💔
literally every time lmao
" if you treat someone like a celebrity they will treat you like a fan" love this quote
So instead get the other person to treat u like a celebrity
@@nimanixo well that's cool.
correct..be a King if you wanna treat her like a Queen..most onf men they’re become servant of the Queen...
Veronica Atkins truth
Love this
1. Create the fear of losing you
2. Avoid being always available
3. Maintain some mystery
4. Allow them to invest in you
5. Prioritize your needs
6. Don’t make them the center of your life
7. Stop initiating communication all the time
8. Create your own happiness
9. Be willing to walk away
Thanks ❤
I lost 5 years of my life behind someone who never appreciated me. I only ended up hating and hurting myself. Trust me guys, it's not worth it. This video teaches us to appreciate and respect ourselves. Keep up the good work everyone.
I’m so stuck between reach out to convey my love is true and don’t reach out cuz I’ll come off as needy. My girlfriend of 2.5 years just broke up with me because she essentially felt the same way. She said I hadn’t been affectionate or loving for some time. She had said things like you never cuddle me or tend to me like I do you when your sick. She honestly does nurture so well. She is a goddess. But what she’s thinking is not the case, and if only the loving universe would open up a space for just long enough for me to show her otherwise. I do agree, I was lacking for probably the last 6 months. I got complacent and comfy. But comfy like an 80 year old couple. Honestly tho in the beginning I was wary and careful, not wanting to hurt another soul, nor hers or thy own. And I wasn’t too quick to jump the gun of i am content with this human. But I had a strong hunch. Sincerely though, every week that goes by I have been thinking more and more that this is indeed the one I’m willing to share my soul with for eons to come. Which is ironic that I became slowly less and less spontaneous, romantic, and affectionate as time had aged us. 6 months ago, about the same time that I could feel us lacking something, I didn’t realize it but in hind sight that’s what it was. Anyways this 6 months ago was the same time I picked up a night shift from 6 pm - 6:30 AM. My girlfriend works 7:15 AM - 6:15 pm. So our schedules literally became opposite. I went from working for myself and spending all this time with her to pretty much 1 day a week. And maybe some hours. I mean think about it tho, I go Into work 15 min before she gets off. So when can we talk, on those days, thur, fri, and sat. we live separately by the way, anyways we’re both off Sunday but I get off Sunday morning at 6:30 AM from my sat night shift and go home to go to bed. I just got off a 12 hour shift and am exhausted and just want to zonk. So I sleep till 5 in the afternoon, wake up and get ready and am to her house around 6ish. She falls asleep early around 10 so we only have a few hours. We also had Mondays together but she deff passes out by 10 on work nights, which is totally cool, that’s not the thing, what happens is both Sunday and Monday I’m still on night mode schedule so I stay up watching tv on my phone till 4 AM. I don’t watch the tv cuz it’s loud and bright so I use my phone with subtitles so she can sleep. But she likes to cuddle, and I can’t really get up in bear hug hibernation mode while I’m wide awake for 6 more hours. Unless maybe I practice hardcore meditation. The body can only sleep so much. I guess I could sleep deprived myself after work sat night so we could have all of Sunday together and then sleep and cuddle together. But that’s not healthy. So anyways she gets upset that I keep her up at night which I don’t mean to do. But apparently she doesn’t sleep as well when I’m awake on the bed watching the flix on my phone. That does make sense. I feel kinda bad. Anyways, then I’m off Tuesday and Wednesday which I would use to work on jewelry. In hindsight I should have devoted one of those nights to cooking her dinner after she got off work. We broke up last Sat. about a month ago she wasn’t feeling well and asked for me to come to her and help. I ducked up and gave attitude and said I’m working on something ): this tears my heart now thinking how I could even say that when my significant other was in distress. I ended up going but then I left to come back to the shop and finish what I was working on. This is when it went the relationship went from okay but distanced from off balance schedules and lack of communicating to essentially her starting to think I have no love for her and so why should she be with me when another would treat her like a true girlfriend. This is my opinion and perspective not her words keep in mind. Anyways then the last couple weeks went by with probably the least communication and for a month we have had these tickets that her boss gave her for a beer festival. I took the sat off to go with and was so excited. But got home from work sat morning at 6:30 AM(my fri night shift). And could not get to sleep! So 9 AM rolls around and I’m thinking how TF can I wake up in 1 hour and go to this beer fest. In hindsight shoulda taken Friday off and slept at a normal person time. But I told her I didn’t think it would be the best idea for me to go to a beer fest with 2 hours of sleep. I bailed hours before we were supposed to leave ): not because I didn’t want to go but because of work. She got home from this event with her friend and essentially dropped the bomb on me, asking why I’ve given no affection, I was stone cold, couldn’t come up with a reason. Just so distraught feeling and like an idiot. But it’s not like what she was thinking! If I could think at the time I would have said ALL of this! To sum everything up, I feel that a lack of communication and genuine time together from opposite schedules led to distance which led to doubts. It’s hard to be intimate and affectionate when you don’t even communicate and are essentially living in 2 diff time zones. Then to add to that I was seriously deep in my mind the last 6 months figuring out what I wanted to do. Obviously the night shift was a crutch until I took my next step, I got a new job as a jeweler. It’s what I enjoy making so i wouldn’t mind punching in for that. All while still building my own business. My last day on night shifts was literally the day before our split. I started my new job Monday. 8 am -7pm 4 days a week. And we have sat and sundays off both and also would be sleeping at the same time. I could wake up and send a good morning text. Cuddle her to sleep, the little things that she missed so much that I wasn’t delivering. Then when she was dropping the bomb I tried explaining the schedule thing and how we literally had no time together like we use to. but in like 10 words. And couldn’t articulate shit. And said that o was doing it so that we could be on the same schedule. She said I shouldn’t be doing things for her but because I want to and for me. But that’s not what I meant, im doing it for me first and foremost, that’s why I picked jewelry. But I am also doing it for us yes. For our happiness. And so that I could actually spend this life on the same frequency as my hopeful wife, and again, I picked something I was passionate about. And something that was stable, that could raise a family. Because for 5 years I’ve been trying to be my own boss and start my own business’ but that’s risky, and if it doesn’t work out and I don’t have support in the bank down the road what the hell am I. Maybe she saw that daredevil go getter boss @$$ attitude fade into secure, predictable, safe attitude and that was a turnoff. Just a thought. Maybe I’m wrong it really was just my lack of initiation, hand holding, cuddling, and affection that drove her so far away. She use to call every night, and even though sometimes I’d be busy wanting to get back to making whatever stupid thing was distracting me, I love her presence so much. And I miss those 2 hour phone calls till one of us falls asleep so much. I wish it wouldn’t have taken so much distance between us for me to realize. That saying of you don’t know what you have until it’s gone hits so deep. I have been in my mind since this night shift gig trying to make big moves now to set up for security and a family; which was distracting me from the the love right in front of me. I wasn’t cheating, wasn’t talking to anyone else, which is cheating, I just wasn’t there emotionally or physically for long enough for her to doubt my love. I wish I could convey all this somehow. God I’ll never get complacent again. No matter the matter
@@Laotzsaso hows it going so far were you able to fix things at all im currently in a similar situation
Ive lost 4
I’m trying to break away now. Wish me luck guys
16 years here. Love yourself everyone
@@Laotzsa I made same nistake, went complacent. Mine now said she is out of love. Any update?
Chasing someone always feels wrong. No one is that important. The right person with the same vibration as you will come into your life.
Nathaniel Wilson well said sir
Yessssss. Effort=resistance
1000% well said friend!🙌
Best thing a guy I was chasing ever said to me: "When you chase someone this hard, it's never about the other person."
@@presentfuture7563 Wow, that's deep!
Walk away that's self respect. Never beg for love. It will come in Gods perfect timing.
Amen 🙏
yup
Indeed
If you put god first and not them 🙏
Yes... easier said than done at first but with practice the concept gets easier and simpler ...
Never chase someone instead love and work on yourself, we don't need anyone to make ourselves happy...
Yeah but you need someone if you want a family lol
@@user-xu4xj2cd2jmaybe if you detach yourself from the outcome it will one day come to you
It's not about you not caring. It's just about enriching your own life. That's when people come across you and find you attractive, because you're on your own path.
It's about you. Once you got that confidence, then you see who is suitable to be a part of your journey
The person that cares less about the relationship controls the relationship
EL MEXICANO MALCOLM X facts
You are right on the money there
So true!
Very well said!!
Sucks when kids are involved and the kids sense one parent sux
“Don’t you see when you’re chasing someone, the other person is running” woah
Nice pic
Yeh this hit me too
Verrg fkn hard
Haha
Selfish desire
“Change your self image and you change your life.” 🔥
"Do you notice when anyone's chasing someone else, it implies that the other person is running?"
This really resonates with me
“You are the star of your own movie” yeah “Home Alone”
Thanks for all the likes and comments guys! I seriously didn’t think this comment would even reach this much recognition 😂 thanks again!
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thankyou for making me smile lol
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hahaha..i love this one
Basically choose people who choose you ... And choose yourself over everyone's else ......
thanks. I really need this.
@@raynatha4450 😄😄😄😄.... All the best for your manifestation ....✨✨✨
@@sampreetiacharjya969 thanks again for your uplifting and kind words. may Universe bless you. :)
@@raynatha4450 😄the universe loves us ...
Your welcome ✨✨
Well said.
If you’re chasing someone that means other person is running, thats the utter truth someone could told me. I literally can’t thank you enough, Aaron. I really needed someone to told me that.
One guy keep chasing and crying for few months ; even she block him from all contact but due to her friend she was force to unblock and met . Now she is in love with him . What you say in this ?
I just started saying these words… I do not chase I attract what belongs to me will find 😊me! … I am valuable!! 💎💫 and before listening to this video I stopped immediately in chasing! I truly believe that the universe will send my person. Patience is key! Thank you for sharing this information!!
I will not chase you ,,go fly my angle 😉😁
You will die single
...that sounds like giving yourself as much credit as the main character in this hypothetical movie.
Too bad it couldn’t be just like:
I like you, you like me. Let’s be happy. :)
:(
Yes !! ):
Right!? Lol
Life is not fare
Exactly!
Sad : (
Take them *OFF* the pedestal, relax and know that if it's meant to be it WILL be. *Surrender* and *trust* that everything is working out in your favor and things come at the *right time*
Nothing is ever *too* important
Love that, life becomes so magical when we relax...
@@davidfilipovic2866 yes!!!! It changes everything David !
"If you want it, its meant to be"- Abraham Hicks
❤
Erika sweetheart you are so right ! Love you darling!
Someone who is not into you will NOT chase you, no matter what you do. Not everyone is going to be attracted to you. That's the bottom line.
Right but he's talking about people that you are with, that do love you but I think they take you for granted because your chasing them
I'm meant to be loved because I love myself .I AM A STAR 🌟
“If you treat someone like a celebrity, they will treat you like a fan.” Well said Aaron. Thank you for inspiring me to make videos 🙏🏾
Appreciate you bro!
Yes sir! He inspires me to do the same! Good luck with your channel brother!💯
literally I came to the comments just to quote that first sentence too.
💯💫
Vershon Charles haha yes! good shit...I love Aaron
One day you will meet someone without playing these games. Everything will be natural with carrying honesty and loving time.
thank u so much for this
Being in your element and not needy isn't a game..
Yes Amen
I am suddenly being ignored by a girl i liked rn, i had been waiting for a long time and decided i should try my luck, but it gets worse everytime, it's bad idea to be a good guy, to be caring. Be a bad boy and only think about getting into her pants, it would be fun.
@@akshayp5263 don't let this girl ruin healthy relations for you. Being a bad boy, as you call it, will just give you very unfullfiling series of dates that will leave you deeply broken inside.
No matters what the situation is, right person will always stay..
My wife recently cheated on me, it made me realise I should have been a better husband and I love her more than I thought. Im now stuck in this chasing / not chasing limbo. Time feels like its standing still trying to battling with my emotions. I wish you all the love in the world if you are struggling with love.
Don’t chase them chase your dreams then they will automatically chase you.
Facts 💯💯
I love your comment! So true!
What if they have the same mind set? Then what?
J2 tha c If the mindset is same, then the destination will also be same. So neither you have to chase your dreams nor your dreams have to come after you. You and your dream will meet together at your destination. Mic drop*!
True!
“I started dating later in life, 16 or 17”
Dude, I’m 20 years old and never been in any romantic relationship. :/
s a m e
You did'nt miss much
I’m 29 and have never had a romantic relationship
31 here! Only once for few months and since then lonely.
manjeet singh same
Just had a break up from a 3years of relationship. And now I feel like I was in a coma or something. I totally forgot about my dreams, my personality, my hobbies. All I cared about was making her happy. But now I feel like I'm awake. Thank God it happened. Can't imagine how much I'm about to upgrade myself! Daymn this breakup was all I needed.
@Kane Henry thanks brother but no I don't want her back cuz again I'll be in the same stage and I know this is not my identify I'm much better than the person I am today. I have to improve myself so I can be worthy of better person than her.
🙂🙏 "Change your self image and you change your life" loved it! 💖
The bottom line is, focus to yourself. When you focus to yourself, your energy is yourself and you gain your power back. When you are in power, they will chase you.
Unless, unfortunately, you are a very physically unattractive person. I’m not too bad looking (based on the many women I’ve banged over the years) and still, the pullback doesn’t always work.
But what happens if they do the same thing?
@@janusgreenway6934 there in lies the point. When everybody focuses on themselves and can truly be themselves, things happen more naturally, your interactions with people become more fluid and that’s when you start to connect with others more organically. This will in turn, build actual relationships and you can get to know the actual person, not a caricature of them. I also have noticed the best relationships are the ones that go slow and people are actual friends before moving into relationship territory.
But what if they watched this video so they won't chase..
Nae you still have to be high value, you could put all your energy into loving yourself but won't make others love you
You definitely won’t attract the person by sitting in your basement wishing and wanting. Get out and enjoy your life with no expectations and you will be surprised what happens!
Corona...
Power House 🤣
a sexless life. not surprising.
Tbh I've had guys want to get with me while I literally sat in my basement, doing nothin :')
It was by choice tho
When you're of a higher level of consciousness, things emerge more readily, land in your lap etc as there is less inner resistance so things do come to you on their own lolol
It's regarding all things, not just relationship.
I have a thought, the thought then happens as physical, pretty much right away, etc
Men... chases whom they like
Man, wish had understood these truths years ago. I kept thinking if I could just find someone who loved me, I would be happy. I didn’t realize you have to be happy first before you can have a healthy relationship with someone. It is a massive hurdle to overcome but you have to overcome it on your own. No one else can do it for you.
Honestly, I've never felt like this before in my life, I feel completely lost ... all of my friends and family can see it. It's mentally making me ill.
I stupidly tried contacting her yesterday telling how I felt I now regret it as there was no reply.
These videos do help me but I know I've got a long way to go before I heal from this breakup.
Whoever left your life was not tied to your destiny. Let them go. Continue on your destiny. Better will come.
dbedazzling1 thank you i needed to hear this.❤️
AMEN
444❤️😁so true
TD jakes
Needed to hear this!
Edit: Thank you for the many likes! 😊
Happiness is like a butterfly; the more you chase it it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things it will come and sit quietly on your shoulder.
Love this❤
@@roscinapatterson7509 Thank you!
@@ShiaGirl18 u honestly think if I stop chasing my ex she will come back
@@dannyboym4260 If you pay less attention to someone, he or she will miss your attention. This prompts the individual to seek you out.
@@ShiaGirl18 ok another thing I need ur perspective I was in a 2 month relationship with this girl she broke up with me cause I was an improper bf tbh. She said I didn’t have much say in the relationship and she felt like she had the balls in the relationship I didn’t say much and I tried to be someone I wasn’t ( because I wanted to be perfect for her but I was perfect for her in the beginning) anyways it’s been 6 months since the break up and In the beginning of it it was nothing but mixed signals her telling me she missed me , she wanted to see me , and she didn’t respect my request for space. When I thought she wanted us back together I tried to make a move only for her to move back and shzz. Then we started arguing a lot cause the mixed signals thing I wanted a second chance she didn’t we kept arguing and we kept not respect each others space. It just got to the point where I blocked her then unblocked her only for her to block me and then unblock me and her deleting me on everything but only for her to add me back on snap only. What I wanna know is what s there still a chance for me and if u can give me any advice only advice I got was move on , wait and see what she does between us , or act like her friend
What he’s explaining in the “twin flame” journey and what it leads to is his advice, finding the love within yourself instead of basing your happiness on the love another.
@click.profile.for.his.whtsapp haha.. wow. No thank you.
This video has changed my life. I’m implementing this and I actually right now feel an energetic shift within me. Thank you so much
"if you treat someone like a celebrity they will treat you like a fan" WOW
@Sol Cutta how is it bs?
@Sol Cutta yepp
Yes....and fan is short for FANATIC.
I wouldn't because I'm humble.
I treated my Gf like a.. Ac
To the person reading this:
You are so, so worthy of love ❤️
Edit: Keep up the loving vibes in the comments! What you give always comes back :) You're amazing!
Thanks, so does the person writing the comment above.
Hey positive energy can I get your number?
No one told me this ever.... thanks 🙈
I know :) [thumbs up emoji]
Yeah, I know. But thanks anyway.
Omg. Universe is really with me and m so greatful for this. I really needed to hear this today. I dont know where this came in front of me from nowhere. Thank you universe 🙏🙌
So true. I don’t like when women act I’m gonna chase them. I’m fine being single. Great video Aaron!
Invest in yourself, because people will drop you at any moment 😒
I totally agree, even though I know how hard self-love is. But I also think that investing in yourself is so much important than chasing a specific person. It just is not worth it!
big facts
😌harsh truth
Whatever you chase , will run away..
When the energy is right and it is meant to be, it will happen naturaly.
No need to chase anything❤❤
I really appreciate you and your helpful video thank u 🤗👍
@@odijana79dijana31 Thanx but I didn't make the video....
Bruh I'm finna start chasing bills, bill collectors, doctors, n some more... lol
@@ternon83 lol
giovanna, the first two sentences of your comment settled it....I am done. Am moving forward with my one month old now. thank you
“You are the star in your own movie” Sent me🤩
The key really is to live and accept yourself. Some of us never find a romantic relationship and that's ok, too.
Everything you said is so true. When I relaxed and let go, he came back and I ignored him. He apologized for everything he did to me, I forgave and let him be. Now he is trying to chase me just like I did once and guess what I am not interested. I have moved on in a positive way. I love myself so much more now..thanks :)
He sounds like a narcissist and he wants his good supply back but you went no contact.
@@shaheeda wtf😂😂😂
😂❤❤
How long did it take?
that what I am saying I really wanted to talk to a girl you know chat and hook up, but they never replied back, sooner or later they will want to chat with me only I don't know if I should reply back because It really hurts when you are ghosted by someone, but ignoring them back is probably best because you don't appear to needy.
I needed to hear this today. I've been acting so desperate for so many days that I lost my sleep, appetite and self-worth over it. I'm so glad I could listen to this today. The love we seek outside is already within us. We just need to give that opportunity to ourselves to find it and embrace it. Whatever is meant for us will find us eventually. Until then, let's enjoy this blessing called life. God sent us on this Earth with a purpose bigger than pleasing a few individuals. I hope everyone finds that love within themselves.😃 Sending happy vibes to everyone out there!!!!
Thank you … ❤️
thank u same to u
Been there too.sending positive vibes
Which god?
Koi gaal ni, things happen just keep it rollin
I really am. I am a voice-over actress and I chased so many people. Degrading myself, not knowing my worth. I now know that I'm the STAR and not them. Ty for creating this video.
“You are a 10/10 and so is everyone else”
Yeah, I tried with my ex-gf, so I am just in no contact, keeping away from social media, meditating, walking a lot, and started working out. I am focusing on myself. Yeah, if you're running after someone, they just won't think you're so special. You have to respect yourself.
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I don't want someone chasing or putting me on a pedestal - i just want equal effort and it being genuine and natural.
Wanting someone to chase you sounds narcissistic and needy.
Ur right SicilianShorty.
@@michaelgonzales4899 there's not wrong or right in this situation, just my preference & my opinion, but thank you for saying so. 😊😉
I was chased at first, but I wanted to put equal effort and that's when he slowly began to pull away. I wasn't being needy, I just wanted to be equals, but some guys don't see it that way and just take a good woman for granted.
@@daphne201239 if u r a womanI wish u were mine.
@@rukiakuchiki5136 I hear you babe, but you gotta understand that happens to men too!
Love reading the comments, they give me strength knowing that many feel the same. I only wish people would come back and give an update on how their lives turned out... hopefully for the better
Years later I am seeing this again. Oh yeah I remember now. Thank you for the reminders. Relaxation, fun and new energy is key! 🗝
I can smell the marker from the other side of the screen.
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Same
It's an alcoholic based sanitizer
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We are the same weirdo
Basically, the key to everything in life is detachment.. Buddha was so fond of detachment for a reason.
That's balanced.
Attract visions of receiving.
Detract visions of needing
Now I started agree on detachment 😞
I think that a good way to accomplish this is to take a break(or completely disable) from social media. Whether it's friends or celebrities....if you're sending the same tweets to the same specific people, everyday.....they will have the "So what else is new?" mentality.
Well he left his wife and son. 🤭
Buddha isn't around. And only God knows. God knows. Buddha ain't wise. God is.
I just watched this video repeatedly. It resonated so deeply with me, as I have been dating someone for six months and have
been very anxious about them as I was putting them on a pedestal.
Thank you for your insights, they are spot on!
Aaron your videos taught me a lot about self worth and detachment. Watching your videos definitely helped me get away from that anxious, scarcity mindset, that needy energy which always caused me to over-invest into someone and eventually spoil them and make them devalue me. Everytime I feel like I am turning back to that state of mind, I come and watch your videos to remind myself how worthy and valuable I am!
“Be the star of your own movie”
Works like a treat everytime! Regardless of what happens you feel joy and happiness consistently.
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Yep youll win some and youll lose some keep steppin broaden your scope
I believe when someone is meant for us, everything works out well, and we end up together no matter what and it's life long bond.
How can you be so sure?
That's in movies
@@tonic1667
Lotta factors involved , so it sometimes isn’t a Disney movie.
I’m starting to have this belief. That if it’s the right person nothing I say or do will make them leave. Regardless of whether I’ve put them on this pedestal.
I’ve had at least 3 girls break up with me when I was in my teens and 20’s. I’m 53 years old and I’m still single and happy. All of these girls found me on fb and wanted to get back with me. I stayed in shape and they gained a lot of weight. They wanted to sleep with me but I rejected them. I said let’s just be friends. They hated being rejected and it felt good.
This is so true! I have always put people on pedestals and missing the red flags! Thank-you so much for this ❤❤❤
If you started or feeling like you're chasing someone. Then you're in the wrong relationship. Love is not about control.
Maria Yee : Agree!!!
It is not a matter of control, it is a matter of balance. I was in the right relationship for a period of time and still encountered a power struggle every now and then, duality.
Nice pic
@@iana6955 me too
"People feel what you feel about yourself"
Yes!
Amen!🙏👸🙏
Practically, that's not true. My close friend is very beautiful but depressed girl, still many boys get attracted to her.
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just do your own thing! i recently had the same issue with a woman i’m dating. i became kinda needy and she pulled away. instead of acting like a girl i decided to do my own thing. i started hitting the gym, eating healthy, and working towards goals to better myself financially. we didn’t see each other for a month. she came back and was a completely different person (in a good way). the tables turned for the better. point i’m making is to just do your own thing! do you boo boo!
I needed this lesson. Thank you dear. I have been chasing for three years. I tried so so hard to move on but didn’t work. Now I’m serious. I will never ever care about him anymore. If meant to be with him it would without my chase. Now I started new life. Im so so happy. And I don’t need any one. Im loving myself more and more. 😈
I hate when people use that 7 billion people on the planet speech.. when ur in love with someone it dosnt matter.
DNA Tru Lyricist ikr
Till realize u lost in one person world and the person live in a world that you don't exist
The main point, though, is to not worry about how many people there are, oddly enough.
Exactly..... it's about li e not chase.... wrong vid ... it's for kids
It’s a mindset shift. When you focus on the lack of on the one, you loose your magnetism and depolarize the relationship! Abundance mindset 💃🏽
“You always attract what you are.” Those are wise words
like how that work?
That’s why I attract losers cuz I’m a loser😢
I keep attracting mosquitos. Am I a mosquito? 😟
I know someone who is so like me, or so it seems. I'm not even a blip on his radar. So not so sure about what you are saying. But did get some good points from his video.
@@kmstirpitz4285 nah you just like peoples blood
Aaron, this is fantastic!. Thank you. I have found this 2 years after you posted. Great message
You legit were born to teach. The way you break things down. Love it.
Most powerful phrase I learned last year and which I am applying into 2020 : "You don't NEED love. You ARE love."
I liked that
This just might be my next tattoo so I will always have a reminder, sometime we get lost in love or the routine of it!
Franchi C no we need love
Try to feel that no one loves you and tell me about your soûl health
Hell yeah
"If you treat someone like a celebrity, there are many chances that they will treat you like their fan"
SO. TRUE.
Namaste Dharani!
@@AaronDoughty44 Namaste Aaron! 😊
Dharani Kanagarajan yeah that got me
That hit me hard, that's exactly what I've been doing sometimes without realizing it
💯
You are absolutely right! You have to have some balance and have ur own thing going on! If u don’t have any thing outside of the relationship or any independence it can be too much for some people and they run!
i was chasing her instead, she liked me back and her feedback to me was something i would never get with someone else
"Be the star of your own movie." BOOM.
Oh mandy nice channel
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your Dad is he a Crazy Russian .???
The movie title is “home alone”
What if you dont really have your own movie! lol
Detach from the outcome, let it go. You are always manifesting something, even if you’re manifesting things not manifesting. Trust the process.
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This is the best way this has been broken down for me. ✨
Crazy this video came up today. I literally gave this speech to my friend yesterday. Your vibe attracts your tribe 🧡
"I started dating A LITTLE later in life... at the age of 16"
Damn, yeah that's late...
Thats like a normal but kinda early age for me lol...18 for my kids some day lol..
Dam I started dating at age 19 😅
😂😂😂 I thought he was going to say his mid-20s or something.
I was 26 when I started lol, that isn't late
fuck i'm 28 today.
Just be yourself. It's not a game - it's a two way relationship caring for each other. Show your feelings - life is too short for these pathetic games.
Agree
Exactly
what if that person ignores us so bad while we are extrimenly in love with them?..
@@lamislamis7209 stop being so extremely in love, just be interested and willing to leave when its not healthy
So agree. These CZcamsrs make me feel like love and relationships are hopeless.
One of those "exactly what I needed to hear" today videos. Thanks a lot!
Thanks for reminding me that each one of us has a great story because we are all unique. And also being thankful for those who WANT to be part of the story.
Chased a guy for four whole months. Enough is enough, I gotta chase my dreams.
Can you believe i chased a guy for 2 years? Me neither.
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@@WaitingForChocolate I chased a guy for 4 years 💀 now I'm DONE!!!!
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This video was so enlightening and I could see myself in the points he made. Now I see my self worth and I'll now work on improving my self image.
I have to say, I have had problems with this in the past. And I was beginning to have an epiphany about the concept when this video popped up on my feed. Now I get it all. Thank you for making this. I needed to hear your words.
"Focus on your value. Do what you love."
“When you put people on a pedestal, then they are automatically further away.”
😮wow love this 💕🍓🥥
Then how to feel about other person
vinayaga be with me prioritize yourself first.. don’t make your existence based on them
Like when their thoughts come if they r superior to me like he may marry some other girl like that .how to shift that
vinayaga be with me make yourself believe without a doubt in your mind that you are worthy and you are extremely high value and that you are the absolute best! Believe it believe it believe it💕Girl I’m sooo in this same situation... read this once somewhere... when you run to God, he makes his creation run to you ♥️
This video is a whole school. Extremely motivating and energizing
Totally love this video! We need to love ourselves to teach them how to love us. I had several times trying to be the most caring guy in someone's life and even put myself prior to them. All of it failed miserably. This time, I don't want to be that desperate but somehow stuck, I need the words and thoughts to make myself realize how to adjust my energy into my own core, not others. Your explanations are one of it!
'X' chases you.
You dont notice.
You chase 'Y'
They dont care.
This chain continues
@@Threedaughters8871 🤣🤣🤣🤣 what is going on in the world lol
@@Threedaughters8871 🤣🤣 hilarious but so true
“When you put them on a pedestal they’re automatically further away.” 👍
Wow thats powerful
Put a person on the pedestal and they'll treat you like a footstool
Put them on a pedestal AFTER you win their heart
@@Jleed989 nope never put anyone on a pedestal regardless
Agreed!!!
Perfect timing!!! Thank you! I needed to come across this
Felt like you were talking to me. I really needed this. Thanks, bro!
Whosoever is reading this, I pray that you find the person who'll love you the way you want to be loved.❤️
“You always attract what you are “ very deep I had to replay that part
anthony2saucy hmmp
That is actually a contradiction according to this theory. Right? Celebrity's don't chase each other? Robin Williams didn't. I love that celebrity and know we would have made perfect couple.
You could look at this in a a way to seek to be continually self improving, seek to become want you want to attract, learn how to play guitar, surf, etc for no one but yourself and those people will come
Yep all playboys so I'm a playgal?
This is a scary thing to believe if you are an empath that attracts narcissists.
i was shaking and anxious and your video just give me the relieve i was needing. Thank you so much.
12pm afternoon here, just got to know that the girl i was chasing is into someone and this desperate me thinking that there is no one to replace the girl, my heart was pulled out, my world stopped, everything was blurry that i came into my room and slept for hours. Waking up with this video and it really brightens, gives me different view and that it just me who was seeing as her as this big thing and that there are literally tons out in the world that are above her who could really love me as much as i did her
Thanks for this video, u r just spitting facts✔️
When you put off needy vibes people run and when you just love yourself and don't care if there's a man or woman in your life then they start flocking
I could care less of the power aspect, I just want equal effort. I’m tired of giving everything for a half ass response
You're chasing. Listen to this video again.
I m in a relationship.. i am being hurt so many fucking times.. every fucking day caring more.. this care even turned out to be cage, n i was a good damn "pretender".... i lost myself n also fucked off mine self respect....!!
From today, i want her to show her move... i wont stop loving her but showing her and crying for her... wish me luck...!!
❤️
Amen
I want you to know ... I felt what you said 100 about your care being a cage. I hear you ... metaphors are so powerful... care shouldn’t be a cage but yeah in abuse you’re only supposed to care for them and never yourself and meanwhile, they’re not even really caring for you (those kind of people in that kind of a relationship)... I’ll be contemplating that metaphor for a WHILE.
I needed to hear this so badly right now. Thank you.
I started watching this video completely distraught yet started laughing when you started talking about the begging dynamic and snuck a “please like this video” in there. Amazing message. Thank you so much
I will never forget this… “treat them like a celebrity; they will treat you like a fan”!! So true!!
Can u please explain this?
how so?
That was a great statement, Lori.
@@Hap738
when many people treat us like king ....
we always feel we are superior of them not equal to them...
is this enough explanation?
@@UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude oh thank u very much and this is enough 🥰