The BEST Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You

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  • čas přidán 2. 08. 2024
  • Today’s video is about relationship advice!! I’m sharing some love advice, dating advice, and tips on how to have healthy relationships. Love + relationships are such an important part of life, and improving this area can really have a positive impact on your life. In this video, the best relationship advice no one ever told you, I’m sharing 6 different pieces of advice to manifest love and some relationship advice for women.
    So if you want to know how to make relationships work or how to make relationships last, this video is for you! I hope you enjoy! ❤️❤️
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    CHAPTERS:
    0:00 The Best Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You
    0:47 Advice #1
    2:26 Advice #2
    4:36 Advice #3
    7:13 Advice #4
    9:38 Advice #5
    10:53 Advice #6
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Komentáře • 96

  • @Viktoryia3
    @Viktoryia3 Před rokem +53

    I LOVE that you brought up the fact you need to have chemistry and attraction to someone, it's either there or its not. I've dated some really great people that by all accounts on paper we shouldv'e worked but it lacked that extra thing that sets it apart from the real deal. I've had people make me feel terrible for not forcing it to work because what are my chances of finding someone that is all those great kind qualities AND I want to kiss them for the long haul.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před rokem +6

      You just can’t force it!! 💕

    • @trollthebringerofdeath2.0j99
      @trollthebringerofdeath2.0j99 Před rokem

      I would like some advice although I’m a guy? Is there a way I can try to ease my woman’s emotions. I messaged my woman and then she told me to stay away from her and she would bite my throat off but then after we texted for around 15 minutes she ended with telling me she loved me and was happy that I have been thinking about her. Please help any advice would be welcomed. She said she was having a hard day that day but I’d like some insight to how to maybe manager her in the future. Thank You.

    • @abelsietecuatro9249
      @abelsietecuatro9249 Před rokem

      Modern women have many options. But they think nobody is good enough. At 45 yr when beauty is gone they are alone, living with cats, drinking wine and thinking about the good old days

    • @abelsietecuatro9249
      @abelsietecuatro9249 Před rokem

      @@trollthebringerofdeath2.0j99 Women are stronger in the subject of love because we are more romantic and vulnerable. After a break up or divorce men are screwed. Ask men not women. The best love coaching and chefs are men

    • @fitwithbrittany2706
      @fitwithbrittany2706 Před 6 měsíci

      Amen to this! Romance is the ONLY thing that distinguishes the marriage relationship from other relationships

  • @lovellytshotshi345
    @lovellytshotshi345 Před rokem +94

    I loved this video. I am like you Jillz, I don't believe in dating just to date and as I'm still young and not even looking for a long term relationship and marriage, I've never dated before. I believe that when I'm ready to start looking for him, he will be ready also and i will attract him that way. In the meantime, I'm learning about myself and becoming the woman I want to be, the woman who i feel proud and confident to be, the woman who i want as the mother for my children, the amazing wife of my husband.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před rokem +6

      Love that you’re focusing on yourself 💕

    • @danimatt814
      @danimatt814 Před rokem

      good for u loveee!! 🤍🤍

    • @AshokTiwari-hz8ir
      @AshokTiwari-hz8ir Před 5 měsíci

      Thikhamammanakchardraevigkarupmnaaapsamilnaahsktahunkyabtaiathnkyoumam

  • @guesswho5790
    @guesswho5790 Před rokem +2

    I loved this advice!! Thank you so, so much. I feel like this encapsulates all the teachings one needs to build something you actually want.

  • @orangejmoothies
    @orangejmoothies Před rokem +19

    great video.
    contempt -- some people might be shocked that anyone would be so rude towards their partner but ive been in a position where i felt resentment and contempt for my partner. it's not something that happens overnight, and it's not right but it happens. i think some of this can also be prevented if i just had stopped thinking of my partner's potential and just accepted them the way that they were and the current position they were in life. had i been honest with myself and asked myself, "am i okay being the bread winner, having my partner be much more of an outgoing person than me, be willing to split whatever time we have together with his friends? if so, then keep being with this person and dont put this against him!! if not, leave."
    in the end, both parties have gotta be equally attracted together. one person shouldnt like the other more than the other unless you wanna risk some sort of imbalance of "power" in the relationship. /sigh. relationships are difficult and more and more people are realizing that being lonely isnt a good enough excuse to be with someone (eg me LOL). good luck yall.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před rokem

      Thank you! And ya I think contempt is more common than we realize!

    • @pamelasamyia7277
      @pamelasamyia7277 Před rokem

      Wow! You have so much wisdom

    • @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
      @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Před rokem

      Well said. This is why we shouldn’t choose a partner for the their “potential” because it ends up in resentment and hurt. If the partner doesn’t fulfill their potential, we become resentful and hold the partner in contempt because we now view that partner as a loser. On the flip side, when the partner fulfills their potential, they’re more than likely to leave for someone that’s more in their new lane. We need to choose our partner by where they are NOW, and if it bothers us, we don’t waste either our time or their time and move along.

  • @zucherobakes2454
    @zucherobakes2454 Před rokem +11

    Your videos have helped me so much in all facets of my life. I was so exhausted and in my masculine energy forever.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před rokem

      So glad they’ve helped you!!! 💕💕

  • @shhruuti
    @shhruuti Před rokem +3

    Please keep making videos. I just subscribed. I'm so happy I found your channel. It's amazing and is helping me out in many ways! ♥️

  • @sihembouaoud8226
    @sihembouaoud8226 Před rokem +1

    Thanks Jill
    When I have been experiencing issues and grives with my husband we have chosen to consult a therapist and it was the best thing to do because a lot of things change in a better way in my relationship and we have saved our marriage thanks god

  • @razan_xilla
    @razan_xilla Před rokem +9

    I really like to listen to ur videos when i clean my room but today i already clean it so I'm just gonna chill and listen to the video

  • @moniquemaciel8391
    @moniquemaciel8391 Před rokem +5

    I am so glad I found your channel ☺️ you've been helping me out a lot

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před rokem

      Aww so glad! I’m glad you found me too! 🥰

  • @morarwen
    @morarwen Před rokem +2

    Sage-Mystic here, married to a Magician-King. Never a dull moment.

  • @JulioReguero
    @JulioReguero Před rokem +3

    This is gold for men trying to understand women or fix their relationship

  • @blueskinneyjeans
    @blueskinneyjeans Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for this video 😊

  • @aNnAkt1qw
    @aNnAkt1qw Před rokem +2

    i came across you videos, i am so happy i did. They are amazing, really helpful so thank you 💙

  • @sharonqui74
    @sharonqui74 Před rokem +5

    Thank u for this .. I’m noticing that my boyfriend when he arrives to me home for visit usually the last weeks he is more on the phone or laptop … and in feeling like he prefer to do that instead of being with me ..

  • @Nothingelsematters.
    @Nothingelsematters. Před rokem +3

    This video was incredible, I don't have enough words to describe it. Thank you!

  • @user-uh5tb9er4o
    @user-uh5tb9er4o Před 5 měsíci

    thanks, Jillz! youre so talented to create women's health videos, you continue to be the "Mr. Rogers" of educating women... easy to receive the message and feel positive afterward

  • @athraa3083
    @athraa3083 Před rokem +7

    Literally the best CZcamsr for me 💕

  • @ayeshazubair-ni7iz
    @ayeshazubair-ni7iz Před rokem +1

    I was a little bit upset because of my fiance. Thank You My Dear ! This video proved a answer to my Anxiety .

  • @vegankathy2583
    @vegankathy2583 Před rokem +2

    Great advice.

  • @luizaferreira9782
    @luizaferreira9782 Před rokem +7

    You just put all of my thoughts into this video lol
    Too bad I still haven’t found that loving and nurturing partner. I’ve dealt with contempt, disrespect, men who date just to date… hopefully I’ll find someone who can build a life with me and grow together :)

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před rokem +1

      You will! ❤️

    • @asrakkhatoon7139
      @asrakkhatoon7139 Před rokem

      Something special is going to happen to you soon.. I am so positive for all out there.Just have to be open to love and be less sensitive. I think..

  • @maysaraali5772
    @maysaraali5772 Před rokem +8

    That was beautifully said 💗

  • @melissa_rabbani
    @melissa_rabbani Před rokem +1

    Thanks beautifull jillz❤

  • @kavitha9456
    @kavitha9456 Před rokem +4

    Hi jillz lov the way you speak....it helps a lot...lov frm india

  • @char-su9vu
    @char-su9vu Před rokem +1

    All so true

  • @Nicoleliestsogerne
    @Nicoleliestsogerne Před rokem +4

    Thank you so much. I had several relationships but never longer than ten years. I seem to struggle around years seven or eight.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před rokem +1

      You’re welcome! I’ve heard that year 7 is statistically the hardest year!

    • @lolaloredana3258
      @lolaloredana3258 Před rokem

      das verflixte siebte Jahr 🤝🏻

  • @sadeiofficial
    @sadeiofficial Před rokem +2

    I’m only 21 and I’ve never had a boyfriend ( I share my story on my channel) ❤️ These videos are super helpful for me and sooo many others on our journey. So many little nuggets here.. thank you ❤️ Big Aloha 🤙🏾 from Hawai’i 🧘🏽‍♀️🌸🫖🪴

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před rokem

      Glad you found it helpful!! 💖💖

    • @AA-ow2mn
      @AA-ow2mn Před 6 měsíci

      Hey bby can we chat

  • @asrakkhatoon7139
    @asrakkhatoon7139 Před rokem +24

    Bottom line... self love is the key 🔑.. to our own heart and finding a longterm partner.

  • @kayleemarie6322
    @kayleemarie6322 Před rokem +2

    Hey what does your playlist have on it? I dont have spotify

  • @OllieSmiless
    @OllieSmiless Před rokem +1

    Thanks Jillz! 💞 I wonder: if I need more respect and appreciation, does that mean I'm more masculine than feminine?

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před rokem +2

      Not necessarily, it depends on the relationship...everyone needs respect so if you feel like you're completely missing it, it will be something you're craving! Hard to explain in just a short comment ❤️

  • @jupiteriancracked
    @jupiteriancracked Před rokem +7

    This video was full of hard pills to swallow, especially when you talked about how dating just to date was a waste of energy… I just broke up with my first boyfriend a few weeks ago and I didn’t realize at the beginning why he was so serious about dating me. I was looking at it as more of a dating just to date thing, but even as time went on and I became more serious about him I still had to realize that it wouldn’t work because my parents are religious and wouldn’t approve of him. It broke my heart and I kept trying to justify dating him without long term intention because I felt I deserved love, but it would be a waste of time in the end. It’s been a rough few weeks but hearing you say the same thing I was thinking helped. Thank you Jillz, love your videos 💗

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před rokem

      So glad it was helpful for you 💕💕

  • @dayanafang7455
    @dayanafang7455 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Could you give examples of little things to forgive? I know every person is different but I feel my gauge is being forgiving, but I can’t forget and trust is compromised😢

  • @alisontill7677
    @alisontill7677 Před rokem +1

    Love relationship

  • @parkyuna6573
    @parkyuna6573 Před rokem +3

    احسن يوتيوبر بنسبه اليه حرفيا

  • @flowersandlace
    @flowersandlace Před rokem +5

    i needed to hear that forgiveness part. thank you 🙏🌸😊🤍

  • @melaneephillips8721
    @melaneephillips8721 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Every day is a choice. 40 years in.

  • @MarinaH777
    @MarinaH777 Před rokem +1

    Where did you get that pink dress behind you 😍😍

  • @iiEatLiveBabiez
    @iiEatLiveBabiez Před rokem +1

    You’re so funny 😆

  • @Allycastlemakeup
    @Allycastlemakeup Před rokem +3

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @monikap8777
    @monikap8777 Před rokem +2

    Please do the mbti test. You seem like intp or intj, I am really interested what type you are

  • @jessicanameh8243
    @jessicanameh8243 Před rokem +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @TtalgiNotesPH
    @TtalgiNotesPH Před 3 měsíci

    Jillz, I am a woman... but should I confess? Do you have a video for that?

  • @nadiyeuyghur3606
    @nadiyeuyghur3606 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Can u make a video about male infidelity and forgiving.

  • @jessicanameh8243
    @jessicanameh8243 Před rokem +2

    💎💎💎💎💎

  • @raquelt5342
    @raquelt5342 Před rokem +3

    So many ads in a 12 min video…..👎

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před rokem

      Oh really? I thought there was only 1. I’ll check it out, thanks!

  • @riddhiroy3965
    @riddhiroy3965 Před rokem +2

    I usually love your videos, and I mean no offence but the point on masc/fem completely ignores LGBTQ relationships. Btw I am not in that spectrum and am heterosexual.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před rokem +4

      There’s masc/fem energy in every relationship, including same sex! It’s no different

    • @riddhiroy3965
      @riddhiroy3965 Před rokem

      Thank you for clearing that up ❤️

    • @lolaloredana3258
      @lolaloredana3258 Před rokem +3

      LGBTQ has the same dynamics. IT depends who is playing the woman and who the man. good luck for you

    • @shamaaara8056
      @shamaaara8056 Před rokem

      Energy is not gender specific.

  • @hybridangel3403
    @hybridangel3403 Před rokem +2

    there appears to be a bit of trying to impress your beliefs on people. dating just to date is dumb. dumb is a dangerous controlling term.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před rokem +4

      Of course my videos will naturally include my beliefs. But I think people should do whatever they want with that info!

    • @lucybraun8969
      @lucybraun8969 Před rokem +1

      If you want negative consequences, go with dating just to date. It won't land you anywhere happy. To me, wanting that result is dumb.

  • @madeasimmons9746
    @madeasimmons9746 Před 4 měsíci

    My advice for women is pursue men and be their provider. Men did both since the dawn of time. It's women's turn.

  • @jawi499
    @jawi499 Před rokem +2

    Chemistry is just another term for “good looking “

    • @Blondiee777
      @Blondiee777 Před rokem +13

      Nah you can go with good looking guys and not have chemistry. I've been with guys that are average looking and there's been amazing chemistry.

  • @lightghost7524
    @lightghost7524 Před rokem +3

    Imagine thinking there is such a thing as feminine energy

  • @binitapandey5400
    @binitapandey5400 Před rokem +1

    💜💜