HOW TO GET OUT OF A RUT: get out of that slump + get your life together

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  • čas přidán 2. 08. 2024

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  • @liaooz
    @liaooz Před 7 měsíci +106

    1. evaluating the reason (every rut has a lesson)
    2. shifting your energy
    3. changing your environment
    4. breaking larger tasks into micro tasks
    5. shifting your focus on gratitude + love
    made this for myself hehe

  • @AdalgizaSouza-ey7gu
    @AdalgizaSouza-ey7gu Před 7 měsíci +112

    Thank you from Brazil! You have been helping me a lot. I am 27 and a mom but still haven't felt yet confortable enough with who I am as a woman and I have been feeling stuck since past my teen years.

    • @ka3716
      @ka3716 Před 7 měsíci +7

      I'm also from Brazil and love her videos

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 7 měsíci +5

      I’m so grateful you’re here ❤️❤️

    • @vanessas8325
      @vanessas8325 Před 7 měsíci +6

      Another Brazilian girl here 🥰🇧🇷 we should connect, ladies!

    • @isinhameira
      @isinhameira Před 7 měsíci +1

      Another Brazilian right here! That’s nice girls. ❤️

    • @deborahsiqueirasouza8804
      @deborahsiqueirasouza8804 Před 5 měsíci

      Me too, girls!

  • @Kayla868
    @Kayla868 Před 7 měsíci +72

    “Every slump has a lesson.” I love how you remind us that low moods can still serve us in the form of a lesson. Perspective, amen! Thank you for your inspiring videos Jillz! ❤

  • @jadef8
    @jadef8 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I went through two periods in 2022 and 2023 where I fell into a rut (currently still in one now). I knew for a long time that the cause was job-related. Simply put, my ideal career doesn't exist, so I have to create it myself. My problem is getting started. Motivation isn't something that works for me, so I love the idea of how your actions, even just 10 minutes, can generate the energy you need to get a task done and to maybe even keep going. 🖤

  • @annamoreau4068
    @annamoreau4068 Před 7 měsíci +10

    I’m seeing many new CZcamsrs that “teach” about femininity, living best life, how to be attractive etc. You are the Only one that I listen to. You’re very likable and naturally feminine. Thank you!

  • @leviluckman6678
    @leviluckman6678 Před 7 měsíci +14

    “Small micro actions create major energy shifts” Love it 💗✨

  • @ashhmita
    @ashhmita Před 7 měsíci +10

    gaining motivation through action is such a real thing! everytime i'm on the verge to procrastinate i tell myself "all i have to do is start" and i automatically gain momentum cuz i'd be too lazy to leave it mid-way.. it's almost like reverse procrastination 😅

  • @kindofher-2169
    @kindofher-2169 Před 7 měsíci +2

    THANK YOU. THIS POPPED UP AT THE BEST TIMING. I AM VERY LOW VIBE THESE DAYS I CANT EVEN GET UP AND GET MYSELF A CUP OF WATER!

    • @annabeavor3254
      @annabeavor3254 Před měsícem

      I am feeling the same way at the moment. Something I am going to try is making a different morning and night routine for each day and do that for 1 week. I don't want the exact same thing every day but I still need structure. Maybe it will work for others too. Let me know if you try it!❤❤❤ You got this.

  • @fairy7101
    @fairy7101 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I love the doing something nice for another person idea. It’s such a lovely way to shift the focus on stressing over our own lives by helping out or surprising another person with a kind act they didn’t expect ❤

  • @MadGamer-kq8wh
    @MadGamer-kq8wh Před 7 měsíci +5

    Tbh I am in a rut at this point of life, and this was all I needed. Thank you Jillz ❤

  • @laratalbot854
    @laratalbot854 Před 7 měsíci

    This was genuinely one of the best videos I’ve ever watched. Thank you!

  • @Keinkk
    @Keinkk Před 7 měsíci +1

    omg thank god I found this channel, this is gonna help me with my burn out slump!

  • @plumskyes07
    @plumskyes07 Před 6 měsíci

    Ugh, I so needed this!! Thank you for clarifying and making it so simple! Very grateful to have access to brilliant teachers like you xo

  • @kmontagna1
    @kmontagna1 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Yes, Jillz I just love you addressing Louise Hay and shifting your energy. It makes a world of difference.

  • @sanjananair9062
    @sanjananair9062 Před 7 měsíci

    Perfect timing to listen and incorporate these habits bus usually we feel disconnected from ourselves after a really long and nice holiday.
    I really appreciate you spoke about your struggles too ❤

  • @orazenou6003
    @orazenou6003 Před 4 měsíci

    I’ve been binging your videos, so helpful. Thank you for the mindset shift

  • @radishpie
    @radishpie Před 7 měsíci +1

    Omg this came at the right moment. I’ve been in a major rut all week. Going to sleep at 3 or 4 am each night 🥲

  • @marthag9471
    @marthag9471 Před 7 měsíci

    Really need this, thanks for helping ❤

  • @stacy179
    @stacy179 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you for this video, it gave practical advices. Simple and to the point.

  • @ahobbit1273
    @ahobbit1273 Před 7 měsíci

    This came at exactly the right time for me. Thank you.

  • @mimosaaa_
    @mimosaaa_ Před 7 měsíci +3

    that's another amazing one jillz 💌 i can't express how much i wait for your videos all week long and get excited like a five year old upon seeing the notification 💃 lots and lots of love 🧁

  • @shaybee6893
    @shaybee6893 Před 7 měsíci

    My favorite channel, my favorite girl! The best wisdom! Thank you again!

  • @MissMoonNL
    @MissMoonNL Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you for your video again Jillz ❤️

  • @Na.h587
    @Na.h587 Před 7 měsíci

    There's an instant smile on my face every time I see a new video from you😍❤

  • @ursidae8379
    @ursidae8379 Před 7 měsíci

    Thanks for your advice, I needed this right now :)

  • @Cameronnleeann
    @Cameronnleeann Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thank you, Jillz!💗💗💕🙏

  • @LunaJoy
    @LunaJoy Před 7 měsíci +1

    Love the suggestions ❤

  • @mizuki4544
    @mizuki4544 Před 5 měsíci

    Oo thank you! You're video's are so helpful! 🥰

  • @secretprettyuser
    @secretprettyuser Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you for this!

  • @bellaflora.
    @bellaflora. Před 6 měsíci

    Perfect! Your videos are so helpful. Thanks ❤

  • @callme_xe
    @callme_xe Před 7 měsíci +1

    You uploaded that in the right moment 🥺🥺🥺

  • @zainaraza9585
    @zainaraza9585 Před 6 měsíci

    Thanks for sharing this topic , you have so wonderfully explained how to put ourselves out of rut and slumps we sooner or later get in to due to our folly actions that starts a negative energy reflection cycle in our lives which makes us letharge

  • @justjryanfr8518
    @justjryanfr8518 Před 7 měsíci +6

    I think that a lot of us out here needed this today. Lol. Thank you !

  • @h34rtsz4al
    @h34rtsz4al Před 7 měsíci

    this has helped me so much, omg this channel is the best ilysmmm!!

  • @Emzotic
    @Emzotic Před 7 měsíci

    I needed this

  • @AMDay-xj7rb
    @AMDay-xj7rb Před 7 měsíci

    Another good one, Jillz!

  • @NN57143
    @NN57143 Před 7 měsíci +1

    This is a touuuugghhh time to be thinking about this. I’ll revisit after the holidays…😵‍💫

  • @caro9827
    @caro9827 Před 5 měsíci

    Your channel and this community is too good to be true🥳!

  • @heyyangiee
    @heyyangiee Před 7 měsíci

    so wonderful thank you Jillz

  • @bpattontx
    @bpattontx Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you Jillz, wonderful as always! ❤

  • @ttmoore8750
    @ttmoore8750 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I'm coming to the end of my rut, to be honest, and I will be in a better position by January 1st 2024. I owe this to myself, my younger self and my future self.

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank God you are always there for us Jillz!Not sure what we would do without your videos💖💖🥺🥺🥺

  • @laurapeck8902
    @laurapeck8902 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Great timing as always!❤

  • @kamix3ukes
    @kamix3ukes Před 7 měsíci

    Muchas gracias por tu video, este es el momento perfecto para mí

  • @nailalouis
    @nailalouis Před 7 měsíci

    this channel deserves way more subscribers!

  • @dareenaljaaidi
    @dareenaljaaidi Před 5 měsíci

    Genuinely, THANK YOU ❤

  • @Rumpelstilskin7
    @Rumpelstilskin7 Před 6 měsíci

    I can see that this video doesn't have as many views as otherbof your channel, and I think it's underrated. This video is actually so good, full of valuable and practical information explained in a very feminine and mature way. Thank for making this video! It has helped me very much!!

  • @lauriesyer4066
    @lauriesyer4066 Před 7 měsíci

    Thanks Jillz ,great steps to follow . You Can Heal Your Life is the best book ever.

  • @niewieder99
    @niewieder99 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Oh wow… this is me right now! I came back from a disastrous holiday about a month ago and since then - I stopped yoga, stopped meditating, stopped exercising and was irritated by everyone and everything 😂

  • @saveyrishi
    @saveyrishi Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you!! I really needed this video 💛

  • @love-risa
    @love-risa Před 7 měsíci

    I'm excited to watch this :)

  • @kiaraeijo
    @kiaraeijo Před 7 měsíci +1

    Hey Jillz,
    I have been going through some family stuff for the last two months and I have been having feelings of hopelessness and I will admit that I have cried (both happy and sad tears) more this year than I have since 2020/2021. On the other hand, while I have been having those feelings, I have also felt that I have received a lot of love from people outside of family. For some reason, I guess because of everything I’ve been through in my life, I feel a lot of times that I’m not deserving of love (even if it’s not romantic).

  • @sharanyasatheesh5388
    @sharanyasatheesh5388 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I so needed this
    Thankyou ❤

  • @a.b382
    @a.b382 Před 7 měsíci

    I usually get stuck at the cleaning the room and house, because there is just so much. Will try everything step by step.
    Great video!

  • @reciprocalhealing
    @reciprocalhealing Před 7 měsíci

    I love the idea of micro action! Thank you beauty ❤

  • @theotahiti
    @theotahiti Před 7 měsíci +3

    Hi Jillz, thank you very much for this video! I've been at home because of a burnout from work for the past 2 months. I've started to realise I was in a pretty bad place! I now feel so much better and have decided to address the root of that burnout/slump: I don't like my job. I knew it from the beginning but kept ignoring the signals... I now took the decision to start my own business, which is what I've been wanting all along :) I can confirm that the steps you laid out in this video are EXACTLY the ones I went through to feel better! I'm sure this will be very helpful to anyone who is in a slump right now. Take courage, listen to the signals and go for it! And don't forget to take care of yourself too :)

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 7 měsíci

      Ahh that is amazing!! And I’m so glad you agree and did all these same things naturally! 🙌

  • @IshaJain-mh7tk
    @IshaJain-mh7tk Před 3 měsíci

    Your videos are helpful

  • @user-fx2kk5cy8u
    @user-fx2kk5cy8u Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you, Jillz! Literally watch plenty of your videous! Thenk you for your great wibe, energy and work!❤ Appreciation from Russia!

  • @misskaur7028
    @misskaur7028 Před 3 měsíci

    You're too too good. Keep up the great work. You're changing lives. Shukriya

  • @Maria-rl5kf
    @Maria-rl5kf Před 7 měsíci

    Perfect timing!!!! I hate Xmas….. so I’ve been so unmotivated and i fell so bad and worry about it cause it’s not me at all! But this helped 💫😘

  • @lenaolichwer8534
    @lenaolichwer8534 Před 7 měsíci +1

    You could be a good coach! I would say that getting out of the house is a crucial part of setting yourself up for success when you're in a rut. Walks without a phone are especially helpful. You get the fresh air flowing, focus on where you wanna go instaed of your worries and when you come back you're ready to get your pomodoro clock and slowly get to work!

  • @Femi333
    @Femi333 Před 7 měsíci

    Thanks Jillz🫂 sending love from Mexico 💖

  • @ginbrunson7692
    @ginbrunson7692 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you😊

  • @danipeg4638
    @danipeg4638 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you very very much 💖

  • @jessymassecoach517
    @jessymassecoach517 Před 7 měsíci

    Excellent vidéo !! I am not anymore in the rut but when I was I would have benefits so much on your content ! You rock 😍

  • @LamyaaMuhammad
    @LamyaaMuhammad Před 6 měsíci

    💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 I Love this! Thank you so much. 💙

  • @Kavindyahasini
    @Kavindyahasini Před 7 měsíci

    Valuable lesson😁♥️

  • @ariamcdak4517
    @ariamcdak4517 Před 7 měsíci

    I needed this video right now 😂😂

  • @VickyLashenko
    @VickyLashenko Před 7 měsíci +6

    Oh my word 😭 I needed this message so so much! Thank you so much dear Jillz! So so grateful to you and for you!🙏🏼❤️

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 7 měsíci

      Ahhh you’re so welcome!! 😘😘😘

  • @sharonqui74
    @sharonqui74 Před 6 měsíci

    You are so beautiful ❤ I love your eyes ! Thanks for this video

  • @nicola3060
    @nicola3060 Před 7 měsíci

    I hope you and your family were safe from the tornados that hit Tennessee yesterday ❤️

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 7 měsíci +1

      Yes we are thankfully….thank you ❤️❤️

  • @prettycozylife
    @prettycozylife Před 7 měsíci +2

    Another great video Jillz! I’m not in a rut right now, but I still watched and am saving for when I know I will be in one in the future. Lol.
    I really enjoy your channel. I’ve shared with friends and family. Your entire energy and channel just feels like a sister that’s giving her best advice. Love it! Looking forward to the next one. ❤

  • @mahaultpons
    @mahaultpons Před 7 měsíci

    Could you do a video about things you can do for your man as a feminine woman ? Love your videos✨❤️

  • @fitwithbrittany2706
    @fitwithbrittany2706 Před 7 měsíci +1

    All of this 🥺💗

  • @user-yd4yr5hr3s
    @user-yd4yr5hr3s Před 6 měsíci

    ❤️you appreciate you❤️✨

  • @gabbriellejacobs5192
    @gabbriellejacobs5192 Před 7 měsíci

    Amazing channel. ❤❤

  • @suki-ta
    @suki-ta Před 7 měsíci

    9:55 yup !

  • @narutosd8178
    @narutosd8178 Před 7 měsíci

    Thanks

  • @teruldacz
    @teruldacz Před 7 měsíci

    Im definitely gonna need this as exams season is starting and studying maths and chemistry is hard. I chose it and like it but its hard. I'm a very responsible student but it often burns me out. The most annoying is that i cant even enjoy Christmas as I'll have to study throughout. Any ideas to not fall into a slump in the first place?

  • @livinginthemoment8
    @livinginthemoment8 Před 7 měsíci

    Hi Jillz, where do you shop for your dresses?

  • @vasilenko7647
    @vasilenko7647 Před 7 měsíci

    its. so on time...

  • @z-yn8gp
    @z-yn8gp Před 7 měsíci

    I clicked on the video because I saw Elle Woods and I love your videos. 😊

  • @hilahamorim5448
    @hilahamorim5448 Před 7 měsíci

    Your job is amazing, love your videos!

  • @susannaspitalsky7502
    @susannaspitalsky7502 Před 7 měsíci

    Life felt apart, Partner died After 23 yrs together, COVID- 1000 less income.. ok survive, but 2023, march all costs for living +50%
    Bcs of that got sick every 2 month
    See 10000 of videos but… cant start
    ( if so, i handle the Morning, but middle or end of day… Fall back)
    I am so unhappy where i am now, But cant imagine how to get out- too much!
    Only financially it takes me 3 yrs or so to be stable after that desaster

  • @gameover9321
    @gameover9321 Před 7 měsíci

    Can you please talk about managing depression ? xx

    • @annielala8
      @annielala8 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Hi, the ideal is always to get psychological help ❤️
      I have my own type of things that help me to feel better when I’m sad or demotivated (you can try searching for that type of videos if youd like) but depression is a deeper problem. It’s still something that you can heal and one day be happy again. I hope you get better ❤

    • @gameover9321
      @gameover9321 Před 7 měsíci

      @@annielala8I appreciate your reply so much thank you you’re so sweet ! Yes i have been dealing with clinical depression for five years and getting psychological and psychiatric help for 3 years now and here i am still in that darkness tbh but i won’t give up and I’ll figure it out ^^ i just find it hard to find content online that i can relate to ..

  • @bk_8888
    @bk_8888 Před 22 dny

    💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @cecilyweinstein8675
    @cecilyweinstein8675 Před 7 měsíci

    Where are your earrings from??

  • @priyankakurlawala8413
    @priyankakurlawala8413 Před 5 měsíci

    How can you identify the reason of your slump? I am trying to find my lessons but i just can't figure it out. Some tips will be much appreciated. Anyone?

  • @user-if2bh9mr3m
    @user-if2bh9mr3m Před 7 měsíci

    Hello jillz, I like very much the content you provide, but I do not understand some of the English words. Please add a translation into Arabic. Thank you for everything. Have a good day.🌷

  • @sulusu4812
    @sulusu4812 Před 3 měsíci

    Maybe.....

  • @gladysmi
    @gladysmi Před 7 měsíci

  • @journmarieh
    @journmarieh Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you!! Needed this today 🩷

  • @jazzosaurousyes5787
    @jazzosaurousyes5787 Před 7 měsíci

    I love this lady 🥲 i have felt that i've been in a slump and my partner has definitely said i've lost my sparkle a bit but didn't know what to do. I've been binging your channel and already feel lighter and more positive.

  • @yamu208
    @yamu208 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I really needed it now thank s🫂

  • @bbblueblun
    @bbblueblun Před 7 měsíci

    this came at a perfect time. seriously, you have no idea, thank you🫶🏼