How to *actually* REINVENT YOURSELF in 2024

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    In today’s video, we’re talking about how to reinvent yourself, shift your identity, and step into your dream life! I hope this video breaks it down for you so you can actually understand and apply it to your life. Once you can master this process, it will change everything 💕
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    CHAPTERS:
    0:00 How to Reinvent Yourself
    0:29 Your identity creates your reality
    2:05 There are 2 ways to change your life
    4:46 Step 1
    5:48 Step 2
    9:55 Step 3
    15:54 If you’re struggling with step 3, here’s my advice…
    16:12 Let yourself climb the ladder
    20:07 Try her on in new places
    21:24 If your close friends/family hold you back
    22:21 Don’t waste these opportunities
    24:26 Lastly, step 4 - how to complete the cycle
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Komentáře • 3K

  • @gabrielahada
    @gabrielahada Před 6 měsíci +2950

    We don’t owe anyone consistency with our past selves! We can reinvent ourselves at any point without explanation to the people around us. Thank you for this!

    • @kattt8183
      @kattt8183 Před 6 měsíci +25

      I really needed to see this 😌❤️

    • @devildiamond68
      @devildiamond68 Před 6 měsíci +13

      Okrrrr, evolve always ♥️

    • @ispeakmandarin
      @ispeakmandarin Před 6 měsíci +11

      That's what life should be, live at the present!!!!

    • @joybiyela5513
      @joybiyela5513 Před 6 měsíci +9

      Well said. How do I like this a 100 million times?!❤️

    • @CuteKAS
      @CuteKAS Před 6 měsíci +9

      Love this, never understood the majority’s obsession with being consistent. I can’t count the times people stopped trusting me because I stopped viewing something in a consistent manner.

  • @artistic.harman
    @artistic.harman Před 5 měsíci +843

    finally a youtuber who doesnt scream or shout and set unrealistic expectations or just beating the shit of the person to tell them to do better. keep up the good work girl

    • @priyasukhai8615
      @priyasukhai8615 Před 4 měsíci +1

      23525w

    • @yinyangcalmness178
      @yinyangcalmness178 Před 3 měsíci +11

      My point exactly. I despise people screaming at me. Glad I'm not alone in this journey of reinventing.

    • @crystalhandy2584
      @crystalhandy2584 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@priyasukhai8615What does the numbers mean?

    • @linaquaries792
      @linaquaries792 Před měsícem +3

      agreed ! you should check out tam kaur as well. She sometimes speaks loudly but it don't feel like she's screaming at me hahah and I've never seen a youtuber give this much value in every single video

    • @sophiastarotmore2844
      @sophiastarotmore2844 Před měsícem +1

      🪻🪻💜💜💜💜💜
      Thank you so much. I struggled to see myself as successful until now. I took your advice and layered it with examples of times when I had felt truly successful and it not only worked but I felt relieved because I could feel the release of the energy it took to keep myself feeling unsuccessful! 🎉

  • @bridgettemacfadden4928
    @bridgettemacfadden4928 Před 3 měsíci +199

    May all our delulu come trululu r💰💵🏘️

  • @susanbrown4766
    @susanbrown4766 Před 3 měsíci +361

    Im 62, came across this w a bit of a smirk and an eye roll.
    I guess I was practicing some ageism and thought what on Earth can this beautiful young lady teach me? After all,
    I've seen so many of these over the years.... But I was way off...I have never heard anything that was this practical with specific, realistic "tips", for lack of a better word.
    Thank you so much and you should be very proud of yourself:)

    • @mirandareneeart
      @mirandareneeart Před 3 měsíci +5

      💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
      Thank you so much.🥰

    • @BlackjackMonster07
      @BlackjackMonster07 Před 2 měsíci +15

      Thank you for admitting fault and being transparent! It’s very refreshing and appreciated :) I’m glad you took some benefits from this video! I was similar to you, not in terms of the ageism but I was like “oh…just another self-help video, nothing I didn’t hear before” but I’m glad I clicked on it, because it was easy to listen through and was genuinely so helpful!

    • @Sushi2202
      @Sushi2202 Před 25 dny +5

      Same here: 45 years old. Didn't roll my eyes but was equally amazed by not only your wisdom, but also the practicality to it!
      Thank you for what you share! ❤

    • @CRISTINAGABRIELA-ck2td
      @CRISTINAGABRIELA-ck2td Před 24 dny +7

      I'm 68 yo and I tell you that she is one of the best.she may be young but she has a few words to help one move forward. 😊

    • @BlueApplesWhat
      @BlueApplesWhat Před 14 dny +4

      its so great to see someone of an older generation being open to listening and growing 🥹 especially taking advice from the younger gens 🤍 i feel so proud for you even tho i have no idea who you are 😭🤍

  • @adamrosefire
    @adamrosefire Před 6 měsíci +569

    Takeaways:
    -you have to embody the person you want to be, just like a great actor becomes the role.
    -In order to move into the new identity, you have to allow the old one to die, which can be painful.
    -It is important to be consistent with your new identity, aligning your actions with the new you. -To facilitate the shift, practice being the bold new you in public places where no one knows you.

  • @adiki7235
    @adiki7235 Před 5 měsíci +117

    “behaviour will always fall in line with identity.”

  • @ainaragurrutxaga6013
    @ainaragurrutxaga6013 Před 2 měsíci +81

    I would love to become that dog that's lying in the sofa. He seems so happy with his identity ❤️

  • @clarissataylor8689
    @clarissataylor8689 Před 3 měsíci +37

    💜 I have literally watched this video 4 times in a row today… I have never watched a video like that’s that actually helps you understand HOW to become a different person. I have been struggling with this for years and finally I found it! I am so hopeful now. Thank you! 💜

    • @ntesla5383
      @ntesla5383 Před 15 dny

      Hi, have you applied one of her advices yet? If yes, what changes have you noticed ? 😊

    • @Jordan117-eh4em
      @Jordan117-eh4em Před 12 dny

      I agree! The breakdown of steps was incredibly helpful since I’ve also been trying for years lol

  • @kasiowelove1
    @kasiowelove1 Před 6 měsíci +536

    💜 Thank you for this video. I’m forced to reinvent myself from a married to a divorced woman, but also a survivor of a neglective and mentally abusing, toxic relationship. And also - as someone who overcame depression and suicidal thoughts. So, I’m actually happy to finally become someone I always wanted to be!

    • @hameshachakma
      @hameshachakma Před 6 měsíci +29

      Girl, we’re so very proud of you. I hope you get to live your dream life and rock that beautiful smile of yours.

    • @user-ux8zt9io9k
      @user-ux8zt9io9k Před 6 měsíci +23

      You are not alone 🥺

    • @thequietkate
      @thequietkate Před 6 měsíci +25

      So proud of you, especially for overcoming depression! I also spent most of 2022/2023 getting out of a deep depressive state and it is incredibly difficult. It is easy to get angry at yourself for “wasting time” by being depressed, but you should take some time to celebrate! Make 2024 a year of rewarding yourself for healing and overcoming such a major challenge!

    • @forever12gems55
      @forever12gems55 Před 6 měsíci +8

      Much strength to u ❤. It' s really brave thing. I hope/wish to u that God send you strength and give peace and thing u want in this new journey

    • @marycomstock6098
      @marycomstock6098 Před 6 měsíci +20

      I am also transitioning from married to divorced, and that transformation also brings me freedom from emotional neglect and toxicity. 2024 has amazing things in store for us, I just know it! Many blessings ❤

  • @ew.3275
    @ew.3275 Před 6 měsíci +354

    It all starts with an identity shift.
    Get clear on your identity.
    Change the identity and your habits will align.
    No rebirth without death
    Let go
    Anything that does not align has to be let go
    Be aware who you are
    Embody the role, internalize
    Meditate with the new u
    Your identity creates your reality
    Behavior is a reflection of identity
    Talk think feel assume like you embody that person
    Tips n tricks
    Start on a step in the ladder
    Small Jumps
    Try embodying when going to a place no one knows u
    A test drive
    Speak to your close friends
    Big moments in life can be used to capitalize
    Dont waste beginnings
    It needs consistency intentional effort

    • @justalina_S
      @justalina_S Před 6 měsíci +21

      I just screenshot this. I’m going to read it each morning as a reminder of all these powerful things, which if implanted daily, will be beneficial and impactful on helping me step into my higher self. Thanks again 🙏🏾

    • @ew.3275
      @ew.3275 Před 6 měsíci

      no problemm :))
      @@justalina_S

    • @ew.3275
      @ew.3275 Před 6 měsíci

      ur welcome :)) u can do this!@@justalina_S

    • @ew.3275
      @ew.3275 Před 6 měsíci

      @@kirstenprice2750 frfr

    • @ew.3275
      @ew.3275 Před 5 měsíci

      yessir
      @@kirstenprice2750

  • @rixolans
    @rixolans Před 2 měsíci +561

    it's kinda crazy how nobody's talking about the book womans magic truths on borlest

    • @senatemona5402
      @senatemona5402 Před 2 měsíci

      Going to google this

    • @Stormy_Dawn
      @Stormy_Dawn Před 28 dny

      Each page looks like I'm about to get hacked if I download it. Lol

    • @julieandco
      @julieandco Před 25 dny +1

      Can you link it? I cannot find a book with that title

    • @aliciakayartsandcrafts
      @aliciakayartsandcrafts Před 24 dny

      I’ve seen this exact comment on other videos and someone said it’s a bot/spam. Not a real book. They want you to go to some website called borlest.

    • @synergy2222
      @synergy2222 Před 22 dny +1

      ​@@julieandco it's a scam

  • @scraphappyjen4561
    @scraphappyjen4561 Před 27 dny +9

    We are on the precipice of a big move and I have the opportunity to shift my entire personality. New location, new house, new job, new friends, new daily routine, new everything and I can already see the shift in myself. In trying to find somewhere to live and exploring job opportunities I am seeing myself in these new roles and thriving but more than that I feel like I’m more of myself in this next phase of my life. I dress differently for property viewings, I present myself as more capable in my mannerisms and communication. I behave differently towards my husband. I feel more confident. I am so happy to let go of the person I’ve been. Thank you for putting context to all of this, an identity shift is truly what I am experiencing.

  • @RainbowPyramid
    @RainbowPyramid Před 6 měsíci +440

    This is perhaps the BEST video I have ever watched. So many of those "just manifest" suggestions don't work for me because I feel the cognative dissonance. How can I believe "I am wealthy" when I am behind on my mortgage. I CAN BELIEVE "I am a successful business woman and my profits continue to increase"

  • @emae5235
    @emae5235 Před 6 měsíci +108

    "no longer relevant, because it's not part of your story", is the best advice I've heard in so long. Thank you as always!

    • @MagicalMindsByAmra
      @MagicalMindsByAmra Před 5 měsíci +3

      So important to remind ourselves of this! The ego really takes many ways to keep itself alive in status quo. When we truly see it for what it is - which is just an old, no longer relevant story, it can no longer exist🙏

  • @GomQuotesInspiration-nq7qo

    You are not only relevant to the girls or women world alone, but also to the boys or men world. You are a blessing in this generation, Jillz. Keep it up!

  • @user-ic9np7yt5p
    @user-ic9np7yt5p Před měsícem +11

    14:23, when I was a child till my teenage years, my mom used to call me. You're a bad,dump, annoying, and dirty person.
    But later, I passed my teenage time. My mom changed, and she learned energy she did self-improvement and became more aware
    Then she used to tell my smaller sister, who is 10 younger than me she is amazing, beautiful, and an angel she is.
    I can definitely tell the difference. I can't stop seeing myself as a dump, annoying, and dirty person I am. I still have childhood trauma. I don't have any friends and boring people pleaser because this makes me feel I'm a good person.
    While my small sister has a magnetic charismatic personality. She is lovely. I love her so much too she is very confident and can say anything in her mind without fear.
    I forgave my mom bc I know at that time she didn't know it. If she knew it, she wouldn't do that.
    I struggle to do this. Somehow, I have low self-esteem and do not find myself worthy. I want to be a charismatic extrovert, sweet person. I try, but these words just stick with me every second for 6 years I acted as a happy normal person but every second a part of me said the same thing my mom told me never letting me be happy for a second. This year, I faced most of my beliefs and thoughts but still working on loving myself and seeing myself worthy.
    My fear is that in next month I will go back to my country and see all my relatives that I haven't seen since my teenage years. I'm that person, mom explained in their head, but now I have changed somehow, but I am not strong enough to resist it bc you all guys know what gonna happen. Pray for me to turn out good

    • @GSAlchemy
      @GSAlchemy Před měsícem +4

      You’ve got this. Wishing you allll the best❤

    • @user-ic9np7yt5p
      @user-ic9np7yt5p Před měsícem +1

      @GSAlchemy thanks 😊 I wish you the best, too ❣️

    • @life_with_sunshine
      @life_with_sunshine Před 8 dny

      Oh goodness, I just wish I could give you a hug right now. Have you ever done brain rewiring via dealing with the bad memories? There is a specific way to do it. That is extremely helpful.
      I hope your trip went well 💕

  • @Kallenxo
    @Kallenxo Před 6 měsíci +250

    “There is no rebirth without death” that is sooo powerful. Wow you are incredibly helpful 😭❤️ I had my first child at 21 and my second at 24 with my now husband and every year I’ve gotten farther from myself. I used to be a straight up diva. For the last 3 years I’ve tried reclaiming who I am. But this quote really struck me. I’m so ready to be me again.. it’s going to take some discipline but I’m just so ready. Your videos are truly helping me. Thank you so much.

    • @chroniclesofcarrie1118
      @chroniclesofcarrie1118 Před 6 měsíci +2

      💜

    • @MagicalMindsByAmra
      @MagicalMindsByAmra Před 5 měsíci +6

      You were never really lost, just preparing yourself to find the newer, better version of you that has been growing and expanding in the background 💎

    • @Ahsinme
      @Ahsinme Před 5 měsíci +2

      Alots of power to you, You can reclaim your power 💪

  • @bashirauwal5825
    @bashirauwal5825 Před 5 měsíci +162

    Hi thanks for sharing awesome tips. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago. I'm now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself. This is to encourage someone "you can start anytime to have a reset it's worth it! I'm striving to continue growing cus it's a journey 💗

    • @bashirauwal5825
      @bashirauwal5825 Před 5 měsíci +7

      Change your mentality, read self help books, broaden your knowledge, budget and avoid impulse spending, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on.....
      I hope you find it helpful

    • @bashirauwal5825
      @bashirauwal5825 Před 5 měsíci +4

      I learned to be frugal, minimal on spending and paying myself first through investing, made plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plans consistently

    • @albertcharles4415
      @albertcharles4415 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Please can you recommend books and a good professional I can learn from ?:)

    • @bashirauwal5825
      @bashirauwal5825 Před 5 měsíci

      There are numerous investment options (real estate, stocks, crypto, ETFs) but my greatest recommendation is to have a pro lead you towards a successful one and make good financial decisions

    • @bashirauwal5825
      @bashirauwal5825 Před 5 měsíci

      Rich Dad, Poor Dad " is one of the financial books I'm familiar with. A financial IA will provide you with additional book recommendations and General assistance

  • @cassifink5394
    @cassifink5394 Před 3 měsíci +56

    This video made me cry. The part where you said “I couldn’t embody I’m healed so I said I was on the way to healing” it was so reassuring to hear, because that’s exactly how I feel.
    I see all these things about manifestation and energy but I’m in my darkest days and I feel that I can totally embody “I’m on the way to healing”
    This video gave me hope, thank you.

  • @SableDevon
    @SableDevon Před 2 dny +1

    Setting boundaries with people has been my main thing this year. As I was watching this I blocked those who can’t get on board with the new me every time I speak to them I am defending the new me what a setback.

  • @albenatsacheva3315
    @albenatsacheva3315 Před 6 měsíci +137

    💜 Thank you Jillz for this video. The example you gave from the book "Atomic Habits" is exactly what I did with smoking. First I threw away all cigarettes, tobacco and lighters that I had and started repeating in my head: "I am a non-smoker, and what is it that non-smokers don't do - we don't smoke". Probably sounds stupid but it's been more than 1,5 years and I have completely changed my identity so that the idea of smoking itself seems weird and crazy. I hope everyone this year can become the person they have always wanted to be. The challenge is to shift all your identities regarding different things but I think it is possible if we're consistent as you said.
    Happy and healthy 2024 for everyone reading this 💜

    • @hannahdewinter5515
      @hannahdewinter5515 Před 6 měsíci +6

      Just started reading this yesterday to help me stop vaping among other habits ❤

    • @gabbylopez3010
      @gabbylopez3010 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I don't know you but I'm proud of you!!

  • @superchat-superchat
    @superchat-superchat Před 6 měsíci +37

    Habits become your identity
    Identity is reflected in ur habits
    How to shift ur identity -
    1. Who is she? What's her life like? What does she believe abt herself? How does she feel in her body? What kind of stories she lives by? At the core, who is she? Not external, but internal. Know everything abt her. And decide that you are going to become her.
    2. Rebirth comes after death. Letting go of everything that doesn't align with the new you. The past is no longer relevant. Grief is normal in this process. Decide what all parts of urself have to die. Letting go of people, clothing items, etc.
    3. Embody the character

  • @user-tifa
    @user-tifa Před 3 měsíci +36

    6 minutes in but this is already without a doubt the best glow up video of the millions ive watched since grade 8 and im about to GRADUATE next month, can u imagine?

  • @jnxclrs
    @jnxclrs Před 23 dny +27

    It's true. My mum kept spinning out shouting I'll become a drugie and have to clean toilets and so did I. Years later after ton of therapy I studied Architecture and had a good job in the field but I couldn't take all that positivity and got cancer. I healed from it, started a family but never had a courage to take on another job.... thanks for your content ❤

  • @paulinapardo163
    @paulinapardo163 Před 6 měsíci +75

    This February I'm moving to another city because this past year I felt like I was getting diluted and grey by living with my parents and I don't want to be this person any more. I already experienced the personality shift once. I spent 3 months in other country, and it was like I was reborn like a totally different person that I liked, but then I had to come back and little by little I turned numb. So I'm ready to recover the enhanced version I created in that trip 💜

    • @Mantras-and-Mystics
      @Mantras-and-Mystics Před 5 měsíci +1

      Awesome! 🎉

    • @AllAboutSCAR16
      @AllAboutSCAR16 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Good luck on your journey and take care!! Dang I wish I could afford to live in other country!

    • @ladysmithanderson3355
      @ladysmithanderson3355 Před 5 měsíci +4

      I’m in the same boat. I’m living in a place that’s bring no new opportunities or even available men to date. I’m moving to a new city soon. I’m with you!!

    • @toledogold
      @toledogold Před 19 dny +1

      I’m getting the sense I need to do this. I am surrounded by my life everywhere I go in my birth city. And I think I need a change of scenery. I’m grateful for everything I have but I want freshness or different. Good luck to you 💖🏡

    • @paulinapardo163
      @paulinapardo163 Před 19 dny

      @@AllAboutSCAR16 you don't really need it. It's been 5 months since I moved in with my aunt in Mexico city and I already got a job I love, I made new cool friends, people is buying my vegan products (no one was interested in buying them in the city I left), little by little my circle is and I'm doing things I've never done before. You just need a new place to create the new version of you, it doesn't matter if it's only another city, you don't necessarily have to go to live in other country.

  • @io100x100
    @io100x100 Před 6 měsíci +45

    I want to share my experience. I've always been shy, insecure, with some social anxiety. My parents though would criticise me for that (I didn't like it either) so I started changing, taking more risks even though I was feeling super uncomfortable, talking with a lot of people, working out more... and a little by little I became that, and my friends forgot that old version of me. I still struggle with self-love, but I'm trying to change it, I'll change it this year 💪 (There is nothing wrong with being shy, I wish my experience with my parents would have been better because I think by criticising me they contributed a lot on my insecurities, but it is what it is. I don't want to be in a victim mindset since we can always change and improve ❤💪)

    • @yes_noa
      @yes_noa Před 5 měsíci +1

      I am just like you and I want to change this year!

    • @lucrtrvl
      @lucrtrvl Před 4 měsíci +2

      I was shy to the point that I couldn’t make a call to a restaurant to make a reservation or to just call unfamiliar places or to talk on a phone with strangers. That was until I had to take job as a Network Operations Engineer at a telecom company. Which included but wasn’t limited to calling all over the world to troubleshoot with other telecom specialists. I can’t believe now that someone wouldn’t be able to dial a number and start a conversation with any person anywhere in the world. That shows how easily we can shift our identity.

    • @ntesla5383
      @ntesla5383 Před 15 dny

      As I always say, maybe your parents did their best regarding their culture, environnement expériences … my parents was not perfect at all but I know they did what they could at that time. Btw congrats for your effort ☀️

  • @michelleantolik6912
    @michelleantolik6912 Před 8 dny +1

    I am 61 and totally agree..you are never too old to reinvent yourself...I am always learning more and liv❤ seeing the positive changes as time goes on. Onward😎

  • @LucyEvans-t6g
    @LucyEvans-t6g Před 6 minutami

    💜 You are truly inspiring to me. My life has been difficult since I was a child, I'm 36 now with two of the most perfect children and i am a kindergarten teacher in Italy. i have been trying my best for years to give my children everything emotionally that i didn't receive while also trying to stop my past from invading my present. But throughout the years i always have hit obstacles, personal and with people who know my younger past. It makes me a very insecure, shy person with a lot of doubt in myself. I have been watching your videos and you are really explaining how i can become the person i deserve to be... know you most probably wont see this message but thank you. Also i never message like this because I'm always worried I'm writing the wrong thing, so already a step forward. In myself i know who i am supposed to be, and try but always fall back into old habits of self doubt. your videos are giving me a new way to look at myself.... so thank you again. Lucy xxx

  • @hiannahgus574
    @hiannahgus574 Před 6 měsíci +56

    💜 Thank you for this wonderful, inspiring video. I have recreated myself a few times already. The last time was, like you, away from the ill woman with autoimmune diseases to an active, healthy, vibrant woman who inspires others. I not only got healthy, I lost 60 pounds and do Pilates. I feel great. Now I am doing it again, as I go into a new time in my life. I am creating the women who lives the wonderful, rich, full life I am choosing to live today full of joie de vivre, love, and passion for life. Keep up the good work! Many blessings! ❤

  • @mariasarmento6473
    @mariasarmento6473 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Embodying is finding that person withing you. If you want to become something different than what you already are, it means you feel that pull within you. You're attracted to that idea because you recognize that potential in yourself, calling you to aim higher. To become a new person you just have to rap into that feeling and nurture that pull instead of what you were nurturing before.

  • @christilane8412
    @christilane8412 Před 3 měsíci +6

    You have touched on EVERY single issue I'm trying to change. Èven the autoimmune disease!! The letting go even some ppl that have never been healthy for you. Or better yet, toxic and they know but in their eyes you're not worth it to not be treated this way. So thanks!! Morgellons free here I come!!💜💜 # HEALINGMYBLINDNESS

  • @Miss__Elle
    @Miss__Elle Před 6 měsíci +14

    💜 i started my transformation 2 years ago and now I am in a phase where old life has collapsed , and the new one hasn't really come together yet. I'm grateful for the inspiration you provide on my journey 😘

    • @mjw2013xx
      @mjw2013xx Před 6 měsíci

      The "liminal" stage between 2 worlds

  • @nikolgeorgieva8316
    @nikolgeorgieva8316 Před 6 měsíci +18

    First, when I saw the title, I was very skeptical to watch it because I watch so many gurus and life coaches who record so many videos about this thing and talk nonsense. After that, I can state that it was one of the most valuable things I have ever seen. You explained everything in detail and made me look at things from a different perspective. ❤️

  • @KingaGorski
    @KingaGorski Před 29 dny +24

    "Who is she?"
    "She wakes up at 7am and drinks a matcha."
    lol.
    Jokes aside though, great distinction between pretending and embodying. Abraham Hicks also speaks to your concept of "climbing the ladder"-if you're feeling totally down and in a state of sadness or lack, it's not likely that you'll be able to genuinely bring yourself into a state of enlightened bliss or abundance. Instead, find a 1% better feeling place, mentally and emotionally, and work your way from there. This is self-mastery. 🕊

  • @chrisvdd000
    @chrisvdd000 Před 12 dny +1

    Best video I ever watched I am 59 and that’s it, I have taken this long to wake up thanks to you. This came randomly in my feed, I am so grateful! You explained in detail HOW to do this!🥰

  • @user-gr1ly1tj3e
    @user-gr1ly1tj3e Před 6 měsíci +41

    Holy crap! I have literally never thought of changing habits and changing things about myself in this way. Girl, this is freaking genius!! Makes so much sense that the things you do mirror the way you feel about yourself. It completely changes the perspective ❤

  • @AmyRoss23
    @AmyRoss23 Před 6 měsíci +19

    At the moment the biggest thing I’m trying to prioritise is changing my mindset and improving my mental health. I loved this video thank you Jillz!

  • @qelb5046
    @qelb5046 Před měsícem +5

    Thank you for speaking so clear and precisely....
    Calm. Confident.
    Beauty.💜

  • @tkalakech
    @tkalakech Před 9 dny

    I had discovered Jillz yesterday and since then, I haven't been able to stop watching her videos. Absolutely amazing, I had watched 10+ videos until now while I'm working.
    Take notes of what she's saying!!

  • @Kysentha
    @Kysentha Před 6 měsíci +17

    This is one of my favorite videos you've released, Jillz! I really resonate with you of needing deaths for rebirths, especially when it comes. to people who can't let go of the "old" you. My boyfriend of nearly 8 years broke up two months ago, and I felt that he and his parents never could see me past the insecure new college grad who was trying to find her footing as a working professional and figuring out what she wanted out of life. The death of the relationship lets me embody who I truly want to be. I also love your tip of embodying who you want to be when you're out and about in places where nobody knows you.

  • @mijngebruikersnaam
    @mijngebruikersnaam Před 6 měsíci +7

    halfway through the video and decided to let you know that your videos are so beautiful. the information is available for all of us through books, the internet etc but the way you explain it is so unique. keep doing you

  • @dottieprestel2743
    @dottieprestel2743 Před 3 měsíci +3

    I just moved into a new apartment this past weekend of Easter and woke up in my new place Easter morning (time of Rebirth). This video is perfect timing ❤😊

  • @CompliceCustoms-tq4ks
    @CompliceCustoms-tq4ks Před 22 dny +3

    I cured my “incurable” autoimmune disease too!! 💜

  • @kromatic3610
    @kromatic3610 Před 6 měsíci +11

    💜 Wow, Jillz! This video is chock full of information! Let's reinforce that identity/mindset/paradigm shift for 2024! Love it!!!

  • @msimonard
    @msimonard Před 6 měsíci +7

    Once again you seem like a bff and a fairy who just explains everything so easily and comfortably.
    I met your channel last year and every now and then I catch myself hoping for your next video release.
    I just wrote on my diary last night about how I feel like a fish out of water because I’m saying goodbye to the old me and preparing myself to meet the new me… but in the process I fell like I’m in between, like I’m in a limbo.
    So thank you so much for this video and best wishes from Brazil. 🇧🇷💗

  • @p.s.6674
    @p.s.6674 Před 24 dny +1

    This is so incredibly helpful. I lost my identity due to TBI and have struggled with finding my new one. Probably the most difficult thing has been the people who knew me before have had a really hard time accepting the new me. It's easier to be around people who didn't know me before because they accept me for who I am versus who I was. Sometimes new identities come with shedding people who don't grow with you or accept the new you. It's a painful process in so many ways.

  • @marykuemmerle7796
    @marykuemmerle7796 Před 8 dny

    Wow…I feel like everything in this video are things that I knew deep down but I’ve never heard all of it encapsulated at once so beautifully. Thank you for sharing!

  • @prernagandhi567
    @prernagandhi567 Před 6 měsíci +13

    💜 Thank you Jillz! My life has changed from the moment I started following your content. Sometimes it feels so aligned, and so in sync as if somehow the Universe is sharing my thoughts, my struggles, and everything I need right now with you, and there another video of you pops up with exactly what I feel I need right now. I am super grateful for you 💜 Thank you for existing and sharing such wonderful content and energy with me💜

  • @unmaskyourmagic6167
    @unmaskyourmagic6167 Před 6 měsíci +3

    This is the video I was searching for when I typed in, "I'm always late how to change my life." Now I'm down a wormhole in your videos :) I love that you talk about the energy of it all. That's my jam. Thank you.

  • @_justpeachy_004
    @_justpeachy_004 Před 2 měsíci

    You have changed my way of thinking and I am SO grateful for it❤I’ve recently experienced a random need to just let everything go so I can achieve my dreams. I’ve struggled for years with being socially awkward, insecure and a huge over-thinker. It’s held me back from so many experiences in my life and I’m done letting it control me. Thank you so much for helping me start my journey to reinvent myself❤❤

  • @giglyjen2
    @giglyjen2 Před měsícem +1

    Based on NLP part Maslow pyramid . Self Concept. Start from top of pyramid to change a bottom , which is start with WHO U R TO CHANGE WHAT YOU SEE AROUND

  • @gurpreetkaursandhu
    @gurpreetkaursandhu Před 6 měsíci +12

    💜 broke up after accepting all the flaws in him, saw no growth in me in any aspect. Working on my self.

  • @pragyakansal9017
    @pragyakansal9017 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I love this so much! I feel like every change I've tried to make in the past has been so action or outcome focused, which is why I've never been able to create lasting change, because relying on action alone takes willpower and leads to so much more resistance. I am now focusing on shifting my identity and the way that I perceive myself by using "I am" statements to define my identity versus "I have to do" or "I want to do" statements, which are solely action and outcome focused statements.

  • @exoticenby
    @exoticenby Před 2 měsíci

    I literally needed this so much I could cry. I’ve watched so many videos like these but never came across one like yours. THANK YOU SO MUCH.

  • @s0nyaschannel
    @s0nyaschannel Před 3 měsíci

    I am in my second act. I really appreciate this video. Solidifies many things I know, but having you confirm it is extremely healing.

  • @Kat-yg9np
    @Kat-yg9np Před 6 měsíci +9

    💜 Having recently decided to end a relationship - THIS could not possibly have come at a BETTER time in my life! Thank you so very much Jillz!

  • @kelia.booknest
    @kelia.booknest Před 6 měsíci +5

    💜 I’m on your channel for the very first time and I really needed this, thank you. I’m in an awkward situation of wanting to breakup but scared at the same time to make a mistake. And also strongly believing that I’m made to live on my own… I had shifted my identity about 8 years ago when I got divorced, and obviously I was younger so everything came along nicely. It’s a hard job but shifting identity is worth the way I feel 🙂

  • @gemmadidit4118
    @gemmadidit4118 Před měsícem

    💜 What I love about CZcams is that wisdom comes in all forms and faces. I don't know how old you are...and honestly it doesn't matter, because you have rocked my world! Thank you🤗.

  • @ARTOFROM
    @ARTOFROM Před měsícem +3

    💜💜💜💜💜P.S I took notes down and sketching and painting this proccess of identity shift into manefestation via art. I always wanted to share my journey via youtube but now i will start today becoming the woman I aspire to be.

    • @homykati
      @homykati Před 2 dny

      Ooh can you share the art? Feel like doodling too now

  • @bellaflora.
    @bellaflora. Před 6 měsíci +9

    This is extremely helpful for me right now as I am also healing “incurable”autoimmune disease. I appreciate you sharing your experience. I’m definitely leaning in and embracing the change. I feel like my inner butterfly is about to emerge! Your videos are genius, btw. Thank you 🦋🪷💗

  • @Nina_Hallsjo
    @Nina_Hallsjo Před 6 měsíci +5

    💜💜💜 You explain this in such a good and understandable way. I’ve been in a weird kind of vacuum in my life for the last year, and I’m really trying to break out of it. Embodiment! That’s the key word I’ve been looking for! Thank you

  • @ashleighnoon
    @ashleighnoon Před 3 měsíci

    💜💜💜 This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. I have been doing an amazing job already changing things to be better for myself. I am healing and I am happy and grateful. This just added so much more confidence in what I am doing and who I am.

  • @user-ld6wt5gy3c
    @user-ld6wt5gy3c Před 4 měsíci +2

    💜Thanks for the video! Just what I needed!

  • @rebeccajonh
    @rebeccajonh Před 6 měsíci +24

    💜 Thanks, Jillz! I just recently discovered your channel and LOVE your videos! I've been through hell with my health in my life so I totally relate and after 20 years unable to walk and the past 5 being homebound and bedridden, I miraculously regained my ability to walk through the grace of God alone without medical intervention! I truly believe in the power of prayer and energy healing through it all. Thanks for ALL you do for the community!!!!! Sending you love and hugs!!!!!

    • @seoocathainestateofbrianka8043
      @seoocathainestateofbrianka8043 Před 5 měsíci

      Essentially the grace of god is through the power of belief- Joe Dispenza's testimonials are demonstrating just that with cancers. That is the automatically switched off healing part of our brain and the trauma memory blocking in body. The power of prayer and the power of belief are one and the same. Prayer is essentially meditation. It's source-god. Many people don't know how to 'pray' they plead change-which assumes scarcity. It's why that type of prayer doesn't work. However abundance prayer, that you used, whereby possibility is expanded and invited from higher intelligence. Allowing and attuning into whole brainwave coherence. So I agree with you, for some they call it god, for some their relationship to religion makes them not want to ascribe transformation to god. So well done to you.

  • @pepper8163
    @pepper8163 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I just discovered your channel and I'm very thankful for all your words of encouragement to star this 2024. You are a true inspiration . Also it's adorable to see your dog sleeping in the background, he or she brings lots of peace to this video ❤❤❤

  • @ewa6644
    @ewa6644 Před 2 dny

    I love how practical your delivery and content is. Much more encouraging.

  • @prettycozylife
    @prettycozylife Před 6 měsíci +82

    Yay!! New video is out! I really look forward to your videos. They have become a part of my Sunday routine and are such a great to start for the upcoming week.✨📔☕️ I ended and started the year going back to some of your manifestation videos from years past and made a great board that makes me excited every time I see it! Truly appreciate all the work you put into this channel and the help you give to us ladies recuperating from the highly masculine, corporate world. Ok, now time to watch. 😂 I’ve got my kitty in my lap, coffee in my hands and ready to take 2024 by storm. Hope everyone is having a good start to the year. Let’s get it! Softly…😊

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 6 měsíci +7

      I love this!!! Wishing you the best start to 2024 💜

  • @joshuaweightman7694
    @joshuaweightman7694 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I listened and received as a balanced being of div8ne masculine and feminine energies. 💜 beautiful, beautiful message.

  • @Kashmir-lt4cx
    @Kashmir-lt4cx Před 4 měsíci +8

    "Omg 😱😲 i just love how generous you are!" You made my day! I am soooo happy and grateful! ❤😊

  • @Lautaro2401
    @Lautaro2401 Před 5 měsíci +4

    This video is a Master Piece! I love the powerful information that you share with us and the great and beautiful way you communicate! Thank You Jillz! 💜 Keep the great work in helping others manifest the life of their dreams!

  • @nanarian8388
    @nanarian8388 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This piece about letting go of your old self is so helpful!

  • @leaignacio3482
    @leaignacio3482 Před měsícem

    💜 I've had this on my Watch Later playlist for the longest time and now I'm wishing I didn't put it off for so long!! This video is just what I needed to hear. Thank you for breaking down this concept so thoroughly and practically! o know it'll be difficult to let go of my past identity but this... this gave me hope that it is indeed possible. I swear to go back to this when I can finally say "I've reinvented myself"💜

  • @Idk_Simi
    @Idk_Simi Před 6 měsíci +25

    Hey Jillz, I'm actually a new subscriber but I have watched a couple of your videos and I already feel much better about myself and can't wait to become the best version of myself. Keep up the good work, you are truly inspiring and sort of like a role model to me. Have a nice day!

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 6 měsíci +2

      Aww welcome!!! So happy to have you here 💕

  • @viviane21011
    @viviane21011 Před 6 měsíci +22

    "Sometimes we are forced to new beginnings when we don't want them". Yes. 💜

  • @life_with_sunshine
    @life_with_sunshine Před 8 dny

    Oh my goodness! I cannot even begin to put into words how excellent this video is. Thank you, thank you, thank you for giving of yourself in this way. 💕💕💕💕

  • @kch3019
    @kch3019 Před 2 měsíci

    Girl I am really glad I bumped into this vid, I have been watching self identity vids the whole morning and this explained it best. Thanks!!

  • @MaryMichelleWorthy
    @MaryMichelleWorthy Před 6 měsíci +3

    Haven’t even finished it, but Jillz you have outdone yourself with this one. Bravo girl❤

  • @gingerdad127
    @gingerdad127 Před 5 měsíci +4

    IMO this is the best identity changing video on CZcams, thank you so much for this content ❤❤❤❤

  • @juliefernandez6165
    @juliefernandez6165 Před 23 dny

    💜I absolutely loved your video, your information, your pace, your energy! I’m so glad I came across your video because as somebody with an autoimmune condition, I find this is much more digestible than many other videos I have seen. 🙏🏼

  • @nobuen0
    @nobuen0 Před 3 měsíci

    7:50 love this house analogy nobody talks about this part of growth and change

  • @saveyrishi
    @saveyrishi Před 6 měsíci +14

    The way you break down thing and explain topics is beautiful. I love your videos! 💛

  • @lttlod1
    @lttlod1 Před 6 měsíci +5

    This is soooo good! I've noticed lately my old self has come up again to try and be released. I'm struggling with shifting fully out of who I was and who I want to become. My 20 year career that was my passion isn't fitting me any longer. I'm working towards something more aligned that I feel more passionate about and doesn't fry my nervous system on a daily basis! I'm trying to go from seeing myself as single to being in a relationship one day. Trying to break through glass ceilings is tough but I like the ladder example, take a step towards what I want and who I want to become fully : )

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Just having the self awareness to realize that the old self is coming back up is huge! Half the battle right there 😊

  • @rileypaigemc7018
    @rileypaigemc7018 Před 4 měsíci +1

    1 minute in and my jaw dropped ! You will never moved passed the limits of your identity. GIRL

  • @mahshadashrafi7838
    @mahshadashrafi7838 Před 6 měsíci +8

    This is so strange yet wholesome. Last night I was crying cause there's a chance I'm developing an autoimmune disease and I need to make a major shift. And today I came across this amazing video. I'm not sure I've got the whole thing but I'm grateful for I take it as a sign. Thank you

    • @__GirlGetUp__
      @__GirlGetUp__ Před 6 měsíci

      This work will help your autoimmune. That and parasite detoxing. I healed my endometriosis symptoms doing those 2 things ❤❤❤❤

    • @mahshadashrafi7838
      @mahshadashrafi7838 Před 6 měsíci

      @@__GirlGetUp__ thank you dear❤️

    • @tinasarahhofer3853
      @tinasarahhofer3853 Před 5 měsíci

      @@__GirlGetUp__ please tell me how you healed your Endo - if you don’t mind! I am so desperate, I feel like total crap and missing out on life…

  • @angelacacace3705
    @angelacacace3705 Před 6 měsíci +5

    This was one of the most beneficial videos I've ever watched! Thank you so much! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @meerajeram4033
    @meerajeram4033 Před 4 měsíci

    💜💜💜 Thank you for this 🙏🏼 This is the first video that breaks down step by step how to actually reinvent yourself. I am needing to do this now for my next chapter and this is perfect!

  • @alina1skye
    @alina1skye Před 13 dny

    Amazing video!!! I needed to hear this! I pretty much had a mental breakdown this morning because I couldn’t see myself as wealthy because how poor I grew up! And I realized that I was holding on to an old identity, I felt angry at myself, even ashamed…I am working hard on reinventing myself! I quit drinking and smoking, I started working out, I moved to a new state! Lots of changes! Now I am a real estate agent and I want to be successful with every fiber of my being! This is very relevant right now. Thank you 🙏🏼 so much for making this video ❤

  • @mar_in_color
    @mar_in_color Před 6 měsíci +24

    I’m in exactly the same boat as past you right now, struggling with an autoimmune condition and deciding that I’m not taking “oh well deal with it” for an answer! I quit my job and am actively reinventing myself and honestly so grateful for the illness because I never would have had the guts to take these leaps without a big enough catalyst. I am so excited to get to know the new me I’m building 💚💙💜

  • @kokikara
    @kokikara Před 6 měsíci +5

    Jillz thanks so much for the tip to move from A-B instead of A-Z. I was visioning/manifesting a lot of things that seem so far away and it feels too distanced. I like your example of healing, I'm gonna apply that. ❤

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Ahh I’m glad it was helpful!! 😘

  • @Im_AshParker
    @Im_AshParker Před měsícem

    The universe knew I needed this video! I've been dying to make changes to become what I really want in my life. I feel so lost in the process. The way you explain things really helps. Now I just need to figure out how to tell people in my life to let go of the old things that have identified me that are no longer who I want to be.
    Thank you for making this video. I'm going to listen to it everyday while I create the new me. ❤

  • @annetteangulo5942
    @annetteangulo5942 Před 4 měsíci +1

    This video was literally what I needed, I'm so grateful I found this video when I did 🙏

  • @MilindBorkar_MENTOR
    @MilindBorkar_MENTOR Před 6 měsíci +3

    This is a powerful video, I am thankful to you from my bottom of heart ❤️

  • @BeBeReed
    @BeBeReed Před 5 měsíci +3

    Thanks for the real talk! 💜💜💜

  • @sarahkayharrison8258
    @sarahkayharrison8258 Před měsícem

    Love love love love love love love love love this… I have done this with my health too, now I’m doing it with love and wealth, but I needed this reminder. Thank you. 🎉

  • @user-zb1yn4xf3g
    @user-zb1yn4xf3g Před 4 měsíci

    Love this video! I had the same scenario when I was diagnosed with incurable autoimmune disease and I chose to embody an identity of a healthy and radiant woman and was able to heal myself. I no longer identify with my diagnosis and feel amazing! Thanks for sharing your story!

  • @bsitsme
    @bsitsme Před 4 měsíci +13

    One advice I would give based on experience is that DO NOT pretend or "fake it till you make it " because it will lead you to burn out and to a point where feel like you're lying to yourself which is the truth and that feeling/intuition/conscience is what is speaking to you. It's like me being in my past self energy trying to replicate future self who I 'want' to be as opposed to getting real with myself and stepping into the future self energy in the present moment authentically even if it means to do things slowly, step by step which is the requirement of any form of change.. Hope I made sense
    Your life won't change for you to align,
    You have to change for your life to align

    • @strawberru_milk
      @strawberru_milk Před 3 měsíci +2

      this is true... it led me burn out and forget myself and i even felt like im lying to myself. so next time when i do this i will just do it by step and step, slowly, not all at once. 😢

    • @iuliiaposelskaia4495
      @iuliiaposelskaia4495 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Back this up! I think “fake it till you make it” may bring more harm than good, as it was my case. It really depends on a personality type.

  • @makruhilarrosa5918
    @makruhilarrosa5918 Před 6 měsíci +21

    💜 I've never heard personal reinvention talked about this way. It has really blown my mind. It's a more soft, more intuitive method to archive your new self, and I can't wait to put this in practice. Thank you very much for posting this video

  • @cassiamarocki
    @cassiamarocki Před 4 měsíci +1

    💜 This was the most helpful video I saw on the topic. Thank you!

  • @CM-qh4wj
    @CM-qh4wj Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for turning my day around! You're making a difference!!!

  • @viviannypassos5778
    @viviannypassos5778 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Queen! I loved your content! 💜