How to Grow Up From a Girl to a WOMAN 🔥
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- čas přidán 11. 07. 2024
- In today’s video, I’m chatting about how to become that woman or how to enter your that woman era. We’re talking about how to grow up from a girl to a woman (not just a woman but a WOMAN🔥), how to get your life together in your 20s (or beyond), and level up.
I hope you get value from this video! ❤️
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CHAPTERS:
0:00 How to Grow From a Girl to a WOMAN
0:37 The most important tip
4:03 Are you letting other people decide your life?
6:37 Let’s talk about sexuality
12:13 Are you getting brainwashed by this?
14:08 How do you dress?
16:12 Assertive is not aggressive
17:43 The joy of a beautiful space
18:48 Don’t forget how important/healing this is
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I didn't know you're mother's passed away, i'm sorry to hear that and RIP 🙏 she raised an amazing beautiful woman who helps other women level up and reconnect with their femininity , thank u so much Jillz❤
Aw thank you so much 🥹❤️
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@JillzGuerin Sorry to hear that. I lost mine in my teens, which is exactly why I am grateful for videos like yours.
Sorry for your loss
My mother passed away too when I was 4 years old and I'm 29 already
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Just came out of a toxic relationship last year. The red flags were there, but I chose to stay because I was so in love with him and also because I didn't want to be alone. Now, I'm single and loving it.
I like to organize my clothes by types. Like office clothes, street clothes, t-shirts. Fancy clothes. It helps me dress based on how I feel. 😊
Love that 🥰
Wow, you are divulging things I didn't learn till my 30s. You are SPOT ON!!! ❤🔥 I'm so glad you mentioned ageism and getting cat-called early on. I was 11 when I started getting perverted creepy comments from men almost constantly. It's so disgusting and primes us to feel UNSAFE around men at a young age and also that we ARE our sexuality, which is such B.S- that is only PART of the magic of who we are. ✨
Tell me about it! Boys started making making really inappropriate comments towards me when I was 12 (I went through Puberty pretty early) and I’m just starting to trust men again.
@@kiaraeijopathetic woman. Spoiled.
I love when women cat call me, I am priviledged to be attractive to women.
You can bathe in your priviledge anf cry about it, you don't even know how to keep your own thoughts straight, you just go along with feminism you see on your screen.
Absurd.
Me too
Thank you Jillz for the courage to say, "...because at a subconscious level, you enjoy the chaos". That is a harsh truth that some of us took the better part of our lives and several partners to figure out. When chaos is familiar because that is how we grew up, we have to make a very big effort to learn otherwise. On another note, I am now 68 and I feel more beautiful than I ever have in my life. I believe that is because it comes from within and, it's a constant learning journey for those of us who continuously work at improvement. You are providing a wonderful service to women and I wish you much joy as you move forward.
For low libido: breath work, Ashwagandha, read healing love through the Tao, hydrate with fresh pressed juices, less caffeine and refined sugars, less alcohol, connect with your womb (this can be done by simply placing your hands on your womb which brings awareness to it) KEEP CERTAIN MEN OUT, study root and sacral chakra info. So many solutions. I applied a lot of these things. Turns out I can have internal big O’s during segs. Not just external. Hope this helped someone.
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IUDs are so much better - they're more effective than the pill and have WAYYYY lower hormone levels. Win win!
I stopped the pill last month after 14 years on it and my libido has gone from almost zero to distractingly high 😂 You're totally right, I have to relearn my sexuality now. I never realised how much impact the birth control pill was having on me and I feel a bit of grief about it now. It really feels like I'm reconnecting with my womanhood.
Getting off the pill after many years means reconnecting with yourself for sure! It can definitely change parts of yourself which is crazy!
Same!! Was on BC for 8 years. I stopped last year & feel so much more connected to my sexuality & intuition
I’m not using birth control pills but I’m using pills to make my endometriosis reduce
Sadly it’s not something that goes away so I’m forced to use these pills forever lol and one of the consequences of these pills is the libido that lowers, and tbh it seems ZERO to me now, not low, literally nothing. Since I’ve been using these pills for 3 months I hope this will change in the future 😂 I don’t have a bf so I’m ok for now but I don’t want my future relationship to be ruined because my body can’t get aroused 😱
@Retten can I ask you why you’re scared of giving up on pills?
@Retten That's great! I was scared too and still am because it's only been a month. But so far my only side effects have been spotting and a bit of breast tenderness. I read a book on stopping the pill to prepare. It's called Beyond The Pill by Dr. Jolene Brighten. She gives advice on what to expect and what it means for your hormonal balance if you're having different symptoms. I gave up caffeine, sugar and dairy (for the most part. I cheat a little 🤭) on her recommendation, mostly because I'm terrified of my acne coming back. I also watched a lot of videos on CZcams by women who have stopped the pill. The stories were a little scary sometimes (acne, emotional turbulence) but so many women said that after six months or so they had regained a sense of self and mental clarity, so that gave me the push I needed.
I desperately needed this video. Am 29 yrs but stuck in my 19yrs. My fiance constantly tells me u need to grow up. I didn't know how or where to begin. Much love from Africa -Uganda
This is solid advice. No filler info, just substance
I literally manifested this video! two three weeks ago I was looking for a video about the transition from being a girl to womanhood. I am so glad that you made this video. I too didn't know your mother passed away, may she rest in peace. Thank you for this amazing video, I love your content. Thank you!
You are amazing ! My mother passed away when I was 20, I’ll be 24 in 19 days and I definitely understand when you say she was your validation for everything because my mom was mines too. I just started living life on my own without her and it’s a beautiful journey ❤
I am a newer subscriber and I really enjoy your videos! I have learned a lot! Also, what I really appreciate is your boundaries when talking about sexual intimacy and not talking going in to details or specifics. Very classy. And just in general you always explain everything very well. Thank you! ♥️
Im so sorry about your mom. I feel it's important to share that I lost my dad my brother and my boyfriend in the last 3 years. My boyfriends 1 year anniversary of passing is around the corner and I have used your channel as one of my tools to help discover, heal, and find myself. I found you about a month after he passed. I still have a lot to do. I also was on birth control for 7 years and now I am working on healing my pcos with a holistic doctor. My boyfriends passing made me realize that life truly is a gift and since he didn't get to live out our dreams I still want to so im really doing the work to heal and become by best self. I am so grateful for your beautiful channel. Thank you for being here at a time I really needed to find you. ❤❤
Listening to you makes me feel serene.thanks for helping me come back to femininity. feels like having an elder sister
You are the best! I own my own business and I need these morning pep talks. Keep it up!! We love you
I’m so sorry for your loss. You are such a strong woman.
This green top looks amazing on you!! Such a beautiful color on you!
That’s my first comment ever on CZcams, but I want to say how right you are about becoming the woman! I feel every word you’re saying and, please, keep going. Such a peaceful and comforting video❤thank you so much
Ugh I just loooooved this video. I think this is my favorite video so far 🤍🤍 So informative and it's the things that no one teaches you. Loved it Jillz, Thank you so much ❣❣
I can’t stop admiring your hair, they’re so beautiful like feathers. ❤ And thank you for what you’re doing!
I love this video!! I've watched it three times!! Thank you for being you and sharing all that you share
your body language... my adhd's attentions is captured. you best believe I sat down and listened with no struggle. I loved this video.
It's so peaceful & calming listening to you🌱
Love u💗
Your channel is so so wholesome and I always gain so much from every video. You’ve been invaluable as I grow into my womanhood. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. God Bless! ✨💝✨
Oh wow this just hit home for me, I resonate with you so much! I lost my mom at age 23 and was and am so lost. I always got her approval for everything and never wanted to disappoint her. To this day I’m 27 now I still want that but am having to just do it on my own.
I am so glad I found your channel a while ago. I am very often thinking of you. Your advice helps me so much growing in life as a woman.
Love this video!! A lot of parts really resonated with me, thank you for sharing 💜
Such great advice Jillz! I love your videos, thank you!
I needed this. Thank you, Jill.
Thanks for your videos! Super helpful. Also I'm a makeup artist and I have to say that I'm obsessed with the way you do your makeup!! 😍💅
OH GOONESS I CAN RELATE SO MUCH... I was like this 2 years ago, the me in the past, she relying too much on her mother and her opinion weighed so big. Then when one day just after my grandfather passed away it felt like she got strucked down by a lightning to break her into the realization to heal... I am thankful my mother is still alive however I am distancing myself from her to some extent to heal and so I would not rely too much on her opinion. Now I feel so, SO much better... Thanks for this video, you're amazing Jillz 😊
WOW, WOW, WOW!!! This was so good. Thank you for this content. It was super helpful
I love Jaiya’s work; I’ve been following her since MySpace. I’m a Sensual type. Great video.
thank you so much for this video
Thank you Jillz! I love your video. This video it’s so inspiring to me ❤
Wow! What a neat, excellent and informative material. It’s so good I have to say!👏🏻 thank you so much 🙌🏻
Man you exposed us!! Thank you for being honest!! This is gonna really help, like you said, "We have to accept what is going on."
I needed to hear this! Thank you!
I was watching your videos for the past few days.... And I really resonate with your thought process. I also lost my mother when I was 21 and she was my best friend. So, knowing your experience and how far you have come in life is really giving me inspiration to carry on. Thank you ❤.
Such an inspiring video! the part about clothes resonates so much with me! I lovee to dress matching my mood ♡ and I just can't build something like a "personal brand", I'm way too playful and creative for that. So glad I'm not alone in this 😊😍
Amazing message! Thank you ❤
This is quite possibly my favorite video on CZcams. You are so wise and caring about women! Sharing this truth is invaluable and kind. Thank you for all you do Jillz 🙏 and Happy International Women's Day! 💝
A big hug. Thankyou so much for this video. You have helped me so much.
This video was awesome! Thanks for sharing this tips! ❤
I am 62 and feeling so healthy and beautiful and grateful. Happy to have found your channel.
I 100% agree with the havoc that birth control pills can wreak on a woman’s body. Most doctors, in my experience, do not take the time to explain what messing with your hormones will do, other than preventing pregnancy. I became a completely different person when I stopped years ago and am so much happier and at peace in my own body
Unrelated question: but did you lose pill without the pill?
I am a carrier of MD so I really cannot have a baby. I feel like I need to be on them...
@@BunnidoveIt's so sad😢
Yes, but do not quite the importance that some women like me DON'T want to have a baby and I don't understand why we can not enjoy sex without being afraid and stressed of that but with birth control. I hate it
And of course It doesn't matter if my partner use condoms I want it to make sure from my part that is not gonna happen.
This is another great video, thank you for sharing Jillz. 💖 And I also think that talking more about our natural feminine sexuality is very important. When you mentioned the part about always being 18 that sociality puts on us it reminded me instantly on situation that I was going trough. It was really ridicilous, my ex husband was telling me all the time in last months of our marrage that he wants that 18 year old Ana back, not "this woman" that I became and I am now. Well, let's say it did not work out for him in the end.😄 There is so much beauty and wisdom in getting older, it is privilge that many people do not have. 💕
I do love your energy and sharing, thanks so much for all your content and genuineness ❤ Love from the UK, Ana
Stopping the pill was the best thing ever for me as well ♥️♥️♥️
I lost my mom at 26. Definitely affects us as woman in so many ways.
Excellent video, as always
Vegan Kathy. It is so sad for every everyone. Mom is mom . She take care always for us.
I lost my dad 4 months ago and my sister 4 years ago and im trying to heal and it feels almost impossible some days. Im trying to give myself grace ❤
To all the people who have lost parents or siblings, I see you and I'm so proud of you and your journey. Us healing would absolutely be what most of our family members that we miss to our core would want. They want us to be happy and to succeed, and I wanted to say I am so sorry for everybody who has lost someone and is STILL trying to do everything to heal themselves. You all are amazing ❤
Thank you, it is very helpful, I was waiting for this video 🙏❤
Wow!!! Such an essential video!!! 🙏🏼 it almost deserves a sole video for each point 😅
This video was so relatable!
thank you for talking about the birth control aspect, and also about that we as women dont lose value when we get older. I am 21 now and have already got the impression, that women always have to stay young and girlish while i think its easier for men to stay attractive as they get older
more of this energy please!! lovee
always love your videos 🤎
This is very good and useful content I have been looking for. Thanks I’m turning 30 lately and your content is the thing I feel.
thank you for this amazing advice
Surprisingly good advice :) I would add a few more things to your list. 1) Learning that the world/universe is not about you is the key. Having wider perspective on the world is important. 2) Learn to care and empathize with others. Not only will it make you more human, it will support your parenting and relationship maintaining efforts.
❤ Thank you so much. You really make a difference. Be proud of yourself. Love and appreciation from Germany ❤
I LOVE THIS VIDEO SO MUCH
Also lost my mom younger than expected. Jillz your whole demeanor is comforting.
I went out to party life away to avoid the pain. 25+ years later and now 43 years young I am so ecstatic to have found you 🥰
Now I have nearly 17 years clean and almost 4 years sober and I have been dealing with some people who are dependent on me and I know they are so off from Jame it's really hard sometimes. Learning to not have to respond to every little comment and dirty look has been a huge level up. Thinking that deep down, I enjoyed them messing with me all along. As I learn more their comments and deliveries are bothering me less and less and I pay attention to how I feel before I respond 😂🎉 Thank you! This is helping me change my life to make sense 🎉
I love you and am so grateful that you have the courage to take us through these steps to make it a better world One smart small change at a time 🎉😅😀
I’m a routine viewer and I can’t recall a time when you mentioned the loss of your mother. Thank you for sharing that struggle and moments in your life where you had major adjustments 🤍
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Hi sisThanks for this great inspo. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it!
I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
Congratulations sis! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too
Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on...
I hope it is useful to you.
How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.
Congratulations that's a big big win
I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.
Your mom would have been so proud of you,in fact she’s really proud looking down how well you turned out without her here.
I’m so so sorry I didn’t know that..
Great video as always you look amazing.
i needed this, thank u
Wow I needed this
Jillz, you look gorgeous! Especially the match of emerald top and red nail polish is chic! And thank you for all pieces of advice! They're so helpful!❤
Ah thank you!!! 😘😘
emerald green looks good on you! 😍
In my case, being the baby in my family, Hispanic and neurodivergent, my growing up was slower than other women. I noticed that I had to grow up pretty quickly when I lost my dad when I was 26 1/2 almost 27 (I’m turning 31 in November), I was very close to losing my mom when I was 20 (almost 21) and again when I was two weeks shy of turning 28 but thankfully I still have my mom. I often have to tell my mom that I’m more capable than she thinks I am. I will admit that it wasn’t until my late 20’s and now my early 30’s that I have really started to see myself not as a little girl but a grown woman. I still have to keep reminding myself especially when I’m with younger women.
I took birth control pills for 10 years and affected my body health, I had covid twice and I could feel my blood circulation struggling during this period, my skin still struggles with the change but in general I'm much healthier now without that on my system, also my libido increased extremely too! Love the video, your content is my absolutely fav now 💗
Love this, thank you ❤
I think one of the best methods to learn what fits you is through learning your kibbe body type and what suits your body for you to know your rules so when you want to break them it would be more intentional. Also, learning your skin undertone helps a lot as well as your color season. Finally, learning your Kitchener essence helps you develop a signature essence in all your different styles. Also, knowing what type of makeup archetype suits you best helps you find that signature look that when in doubt you can lean on. These things have really helped me get more in tune with myself and my femininity tbh.
Daaamnn I'm sooooo greaaat fannn of thiss womennn literallyy in love withh her all videosssss❤
Wow I love the comments about style. I don’t fully know what my style is, but it’s easier to tell when you feel like wearing different types of things depending on situation, weather etc!
I really enjoyed this video! And I agree with the cat calling! I was approached by men in the streets a lot when I was 15-19 which is crazy to think about... We were kids!!!
Hey hey Queen!!! Thank-you for your great video!!!!! xoxo
I love your content ..u just make my day better ..thank u 🌸❤️
Thank you 😇This was a wonderful video 😊
I love your energy.
i'm so sorry for your loss and i'm sure your mother would've been so proud if she saw how much you inspire other women! you're so strong for opening up to us, you're really a sweetheart.❤️
You are a wonderful woman Jillz! You seem to be all the things i aspire to be, strong, feminine, kind and i admire the way you value yourself so highly. You're just super, thank you for sharing your thoughts and wisdom ❤
January Donovan founded a School for Women because this is the stuff that isnt being taught, how to be a women. Its nice to see channels like yours and her's popping up!
I agree! It's not easy to grow UP! I find that the more you relax into your feminine energy the easier the transition is between a girl to a woman! From one creator to another great video!
Heyy there. That was a really insightful video. Thankyou for taking time out for making such videos for us.
I was wondering if you could make some videos to guide us on how to do shadow work, how to understand where we are doing wrong in relationships. And how to set up your boundaries. What boundaries mean and how to maintain them without coming off as rude, or how to understand yourself better and your needs better.
Thanks in advance!
This was perfect
I loved this episode a lot. Especially that you start with the points that I need to hear - taking agency and responsibility over my life and stopping the blame on external things and trauma... Honestly, whoever is watching this, if you're short on time just watch "The Most Important Tip" part! Thanks a lot Jill :)
Thanks for these videos & lessons. I'm a life coach, therapist & mother of 3 daughters. I share your vids with my older two daughters & there friends. I work with single women & also love to share with them ❤ 🙏
Aww thank you so much for sharing!! That means a lot to me and I’m so glad you find my videos helpful! 💕
We appreciate your pieces of advice. God bless you.
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i love your channel!!! growing up without a Woman role model it’s so hard to navigate myself. your videos help so much
Aw I’m so glad! ❤️
I love your content 💕 It is helping me in my healing journey 💓 and I also lost my mother i can feel the pain
I’m glad it’s helping you. Sending you love 😘
Thank u for this❤
thank u for this video ❤
Coastal grandma chic! 😊 how fun is that ❤❤❤❤
Im sure your mom is watching you from upstairs and very happy with what a good and kind woman you have become. Thank you for your videos
The message that stood out to me here is SPEAK UP. Being a woman do not be afraid to speak up
this woman is perfect
thank you Jillz. Much love :)
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Thanks, Jillz. Once again..much appreciated input❤
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