Drunk Abusive Husband Finds Out His Actions Have Consequences
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- čas přidán 14. 05. 2024
- On January 4th 2024 - Deputies were dispatched to a trailer home in reference to an active 911 call where children could be heard screaming and a man and woman arguing. After investigating, the husband was arrested for domestic violence and strangulation.
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anything involving children is a hell no from me, straight to jail for you!
Agreed!
@@Gnarley_DavidsonBlame the victim?
@@Gnarley_Davidsonor, hear me out, he could be a better man.
@@Gnarley_Davidsonspoken like a true drunkard blaming everyone but themselves
@@Gnarley_Davidsonnever too late to delete this comment.
I hate it when men expect moms to stay home with the kids and then complain that they don’t contribute to the finances.
Yep, like taking care of the kids, cleaning and cooking isn't a "real job"! 😡
It happens more than you think. I found a way to make money at home so the next time he laid his hands on me, it didn't mean an instant loss of income. After that he SUDDENLY found it was a bad idea to beat on his wife. Hasn't touched me since. That was 17 years ago.
It is contributing to the finances, if you work in a budget, which any decent woman would do to build up the family finances. It costs lots for fast easy food, daycare, car care, gas ect...
@@dottiscamprunamuck2830 This is why working at home is usually the only option for moms.
@@royalpitamammawait, your still with the guy?
The baby literally wiggled his way out of the dads arms trying to get away as he was using him to look like a loving father
Ugh so scary for the poor babies
@@BarbieinawheelchairAre you really in a wheelchair? If so, how have you been coping? I'm new to being partially paralyzed.
. I'm sorry to hear about your condition and don't mean to hijack your question to the other person. But I am also curious because of my spinal condition ( nearing severe compression @ L2-L3 w/fusions @ L3-S1) causing nerve damage to my legs and the need for intermittent use of a wheelchair. This is terrifying. I hope you're not in pain in addition to your paralysis issue.
Oh my...so heart breaking...even the babies like...NOPE!
Exactly, Dad trying to act like Wonder Dad when in reality he's terrorizing everyone because he pays the bills when she's having and caring for the children.
She’s a great mama. She says “forget me! You hurt the kids”. You’re doing the right thing mama.
Yeah… your comment had me crying. Alcohol should vacate the planet.
Cop- "oh you're leaving....with us!!" GREAT STATEMENT by the cop
That cop was super cool
Dude realized he was busted and said, maybe I should leave tonight. Then the cop said that line.
Immediately followed up "Go ahead and turn around" I loved it!
“F me it’s about the kids”
That crushed me.
Yeah that’s when you know she’s been brainwashed… I remember saying stuff like that to myself..
Same
That poor woman. She literally has the chunks of hair her husband ripped out of her head!
It’s admirable how much she loves her babies but her life matters too
@@MaddieFishblobpoor woman? You know nothing about them
That attitude can really mess things up. If he hurts his wife, he is hurtig hurtig the kids by incapacitating the only person that cares about them. I learned the hard way, I was so exhausted by trying to keep peace with a guy that jated peace that I had nothing left for the kids. I left and never looked back after some years, best decision I ever made.
“I didn’t rip off the door. I grabbed the door & pulled it & i pulled the door off… because I wanted to see my kids” Dude - that means you DID rip off the door 🙄
How dare you use logic 😂
In the middle of the night. Yep.
I wasn’t driving, I was just in the driver seat with the engine running and my foot on the gas pedal! - says this guy, probably
Rick James denying that he shoved his dirty boots into Eddie Murphy’s couch, and next breath saying “yea I drug my boots into Eddy’s couch”😂
@@Mike_CosentinoOr that he was “traveling”.
"She's nothing. I pay the bills." Domestic violence is also child abuse. People need to understand this!
It has been proven, that abuse in the home causes lifelong changes in brain development. So it’s a lifelong issue of mental health issues for those abused, and those witnessing the abuse.
Silent little kids in a situation like this means it happens on a regular basis. 😞❤️
lmfao theyre how young. they have no clue
The worse thing is, the one baby that slept through all the yelling, screaming, and beatings is so USED to it that he slept right through it! Not his first rodeo!
And you KNOW this how? Love how people are so quick to make a judgement yet they only seen a few minutes of a body camera
@@masonspaulding6278it’s the most plausible, especially when the mother said that she’s had enough of it and called the cops, the father is an awful human and there is no justification for it, like what you’re trying to show
@@masonspaulding6278 Have you ever actually met a baby? Do you have them? Because if you did you'd know how ridiculous this is. I'm genuinely sorry that you were abused by your mom, that's super fucked up. You can see the comfort level between the baby and the mom vs the baby and the dad. Children don't hide their discomfort. Dad is absolutely the issue here. Kid couldn't wait to get away from his dad.
Taking all that away, OP is right. the little one was absolutely used to yelling. I babysit for a living. The kid wakes up sometimes if it's quiet enough to hear my tummy growling when he's asleep on me. If people are yelling and screaming, the foot traffic of the additional police doesn't wake the kid up, they're used to that level of noise. Any excuse to hate women, though, right?
And the other one didn’t even cry.
@@EdwardoLover wow I’ve never seen such a lengthy youtube reply! Get out more love.
"I pay all the bills" is a narcissists favorite line...
Yep!
Yes
Yes. Crazy how universal that is.
He pays all the bills! In _her_ aunt's trailer that's probably paid off. What a loser.
Exactly! Any loving sane husband and father would never even bring this up. I pay all the bills and never once even said that to my wife even in a playful way. I pay the bills with money, she pays for everything else with her labor and love. The house is just a house without my wife making it our home.
I had an abusive ex who used some of the same tactics. He'd guilt trip me and say I was useless for not having a job then when I talked about getting a job he'd accuse me of wanting to send my kids to daycare and "letting other people raise your kids". It's all about control. They just want you miserable and under their thumb.
Bingo!
You so right about that and I'm sorry you had to see it first hand
You got that right! And I’m so glad you’re out of that situation!
Oh, me too. I gave up a promising career and my life took a nosedive, especially when we had a baby..... "Get a job or I'm leaving you".... I get a job, "I'm leaving you, you're not a good wife/mother"..... "I want all money to myself"..... "I only want someone to cook and clean". I was (back then) a beautiful, intelligent, sociable, kind and understanding young woman, but with no family of my own. He knew all my weak spots, and where to stick the knife in. He once had his hands around my neck and told me that I didn't deserve to live. He ruined my life.
Yep! Been there too!! It's taken years to get my mind right from the years of abuse.
As a DV survivor… this officer and watching this clip feels so healing. Like a big reminder we are safe. The officer is a superhero ❤️
If there were more like them, women would feel more comfortable knowing the situation will be taken care of.
“ she is nothing I pay the bills” perfect example of an abuser disgusting!!!
It’s that mentality I’m so happy I escaped also
@@Rahel8811 You picked him!
@@HiNickCares you think abusers don’t put their best foot forward in order to attract a victim? you’re naive and just plain ignorant 😊
@@HiNickCaresyou probably are a him
@@nolancrawf Do you have a toxic ex?
The way he looked at her when he was leaving was killer. Also the patience of the officers WOW!!
Mumma seems to keep a good home despite the difficulties! So often the homes are filled with trash and dirt. Hopefully she's been strong and is making her way.
Good for her for not taking his shit anymore! Once kids are involved, games are over.
Agreed!!!
He pays the bills. She'll take him back. Then anything that happens is her fault.
I hope not. There is help out there for her and kids.
Unfortunately, as DV goes, she'll probably be the one that bails him out! That's why most states have laws now where it's the state that brings the charges, and can prosecute even if the victim refuses to cooperate. Though, it is hard for the state to prove it when the victim refuses to testify!
@@mon10archyes the cycle of abuse is very real.
“I didn’t domestic violence anyone.” A genius.
To him he was just keeping his family in line, probably raised to hate woman and abused himself, he believes that's how families work and he can do whatever he feels like doing cause "I pay the bills, she don't do nothing" except try to protect her children from a monster.
Run honey and don't look back, this will be the life you live if you ever go back, monsters like him don't change.
Yeah, I know a close friend and his family, he was raised to treat women like if they are a tool, they are only supposed to stay home, clean and make food, we visit them for any occasion, and he’s always screaming at her to bring him stuff, and I know for a fact he hits her, she always has these random scratches and bruises on her, but we have no proof and she doesn’t say anything. And he’s teaching his sons the same way.
@@carlosamaro3897so they’re still together? That’s sad.
👁👄👁
@@carlosamaro3897are they still together
We need to figure out a place where women in these situations go. As a person that grew up in this exact situation as a child and even as a toddler, you don’t forget these nights. We pay football players millions of dollars annually but we can’t come up with a nationwide program to prevent women and children from being stuck in these homes.
Good for her pressing charges. ❤
Lol in Germany we even have a Word for that, its called "Frauenhaus" and its literally made for Women who have to escape from such Situations.
Cuz the powers that be are often in the same situation and to end the violence would be calling them out.
This!!!!! This society is so backwards and cold. Needs to be restructured and quickly
They have abused women shelters where I'm from. I stayed in one. They are under funded and barely help you get on your feet.
Men need to face SERIOUS PHYSICAL CONSEQUENCES for this abuse.
I mean..like limping for the rest of days kind of consequences.
The system is so fu c ked up. That mother is so scared, she knows she’s going to get another beating regardless..men like him are narcissistic evils liars.. I wish you all the love and support lady mum.❤
Good on you mom! She puts her babies first.
Damn right
The mom was apparently blowing another man in a nearby trailer. Husband found out and confronted her
@@seeno1Source? And even if that was true he’s still in the wrong for hitting and abusing her and the children so not sure what u tried doing with this one buddo
Amen. My mom was strong and divorced my father after 7 years of abuse. I wish she had done it sooner, though. I was 5 at the end. He never hurt me, but watching him hit her, throw her, choke her, and tiny me jumping on his back trying to stop him…. It was awful and has stayed with me for 40 more years.
@@drexyspiveyI am so sorry that happened to you. I'm right there with ya
Dear parents, if you believe your kids won't remember domestic assaults later in life then think again! I remember tramatic incidents vividly as early as 3-4 years of age. You may think your kids are asleep, trust and believe me they aren't.
My kids are 6 and 7 now. They were 16 mo and 5 mo when I left. They still get triggered by certain things. My son will fall asleep ANYWHERE loud, the louder the better. My daughter has night terrors. Therapy is helping. Please leave when they show you the first time. There doesn't even have to be a finger laid on you, their words, body language and face will tell you everything.
One night when I was ten I heard a fight going on downstairs and when I went down and peeped through the door I saw my dad hitting my mom in the face. Her lip busted and started bleeding. I wanted to help her so bad but he told me to f*ck off and shoved me through the door back up the stairs. Next I heard a loud bang and watched out the window and saw my mom run away. The next morning my mom wasnt there and my dad send me to stay with a friend. I thought she was never coming back. She did eventually but we NEVER talked about it. I am 37 now and just this year had EMDR (intens traumatherapy) to finally get closure for this one event, THIRTYSEVEN. So yeah you are totally right 😂😂😂
This not only goes for physical violence, emotional abuse and financial abuse is just as worse.
Nobody remembers things vividly when they are 3. Such a liar.
sir, are you hurt? children from the age of 3 and older can definitely remember events such as traumatic ones. this is when they are learning how to talk and how to express themselves. they grow up with this, im pretty darn sure if children can learn how to speak and express themselves they will most likely remember the traumatic events that has happened especially when it isn't the first time happening. they grow up to think this is okay. I dont know who you are trying to protect here... either A.) you grew up in a toxic household or B.) you are in denial because you have either experienced domestic violence or have done things in front of children that shouldn't be done in front of them.
@@trashbun2
When a man becomes a child in front of another man but a monster when he's alone with a women.
LMAO his dreadlocks sent me 😂😂
Is that what that is?😂😂
@@silverlining9120that’s what they are about to be if he doesn’t start combing that shit.
Why? Do you think dreads are only for black people?
@@darthniloc6099 are you illiterate? I said no such thing.
@darthniloc6099 Are you okay? Who hurt you? I strongly suggest touching some grass.
A woman putting her kids before her man! I 100% respect her for this! She must be terrified!. I’ve been there, Never let my kids get hurt but that’s not her fault. She’s a strong woman for doing this! ❤❤❤❤
Is that ur dog?
Hopefully she sticks to it, so many times they let the abusive person back in because of promises that won’t be kept..
She also didn’t sensationalise the brutality of this grub.
I wish there was away to highlight this comment and I hope her the best of luck.
She won't. The children will and are suffering.
No, she's not having you arrested, you are getting yourself arrested. Notice how he snatched up a kid, almost as a shield between him and the cops. As soon as he put the kid down that kid ran away.
He didn’t really put the kid down the kid squirmed out of his arms until he had to let go. Poor kid.
The kid is smart he's like I'm out of here
@@Lwah0812 the child knows what's happening. He has seen it before.
She has not one mark on her neck she is a liar.
@@scottinnh88nah, he is an abusive drunk & even his own child didn’t want to be near him
My husband and I both grew up in domestic violence. We vowed to live in peace, and be a blessing to one another. It never leaves you. I feel so bad for this lady and her children. I pray for this family. I hope that she can gather the strength to leave. I’m 43 and still feel like a scared little girl every time I hear a loud noise etc. 😢
❤❤❤❤❤
It’s not just SAHM’s in trailer parks. DV victims can be doctors, lawyers, teachers, police officers, managers. Abusers aren’t only found among the unemployed drunks. Abusers can be doctors, lawyers, teachers, police officers, managers. All too often it’s silent for way too long. The abuse isn’t always physical either. All too often it’s mental abuse and that’s much, much harder to prove.
The woman in this video is lucky the officers believed her and got him away from her so fast and so calmly. I remember sitting in a dismal, cold office with half my face bruised and swollen beyond recognition, one eye completely shut and trying to report my SO. The officer refused to write anything down or to give me a case number. He advised me to go home, calm down and think about it. Because my SO and me had a kid together “and this type of report has consequences”. I went home because I cottoned on: that officer was one of my SO’s drinking buddies.
It took me seven more years of hell and a giant stroke of luck to finally get my child and myself out of there.
The cop questioning the dude is pretty sharp.
Hope he considers a career as a detective
And he got a mouth full of tobacco too, surprised he can even talk.
Yes he plays his role extremely well and I really hope he applies for detective one day. He could be fantastic.
@@alexhinkemeyer6408Amen
Both cops seem to be slow to me. That's why they are cops ! 🤔
"I pay the bills!" Which means, to him, i can do whatever the hell i want to her. He's a loser. I hope she gets away from him. The way the baby squirmed away as soon as he started getting mad
exactly he thinks just because he pays the bills his family has to live in the hell he created :/
That is exactly what he means. 110%!
Could not agree more. "I pay the bills around here!" = I am a dictator and I demand obedience and submission else I will beat you into compliance.
I'll bet this guy is balls deep into the manosphere and men's rights - he stinks like alt-right 🐂💩
Its just like its father and his grandfather before him. It's a very sick cycle. As a child i saw my dad and grandfather act just like this so i KNEW once i became an adult i'd NEVER touch alcohol. Never have in 60 yrs. As a child, i knew to break that cycle, these days ALL the kids ARE smarter than their parents from what i see on a DAILY basis. Be a GREAT father so that when you die, you KNOW your children thought of you as a great man. A REAL man, they're rare these days.
Ladies stop letting abusers take care of you
Oh, you’re leaving tonight, with us!! Priceless!!
He's not a man! What he is doing is damaging these poor children! "It is easier to build strong men than to repair broken children!"
Abusive drunks , male or female make me sick . Nobody should have to live in fear of them .
My great uncle was an alcoholic, and the worst thing he’s ever done is teach me how to hook a donkey to a buggy. He has so many mental health issues, was always drunk, and yet NOT ONCE was he a bad human. He made poor choices, but never caused another human any harm. Angry drunks let me know these people are harboring sheer hell under all of their false platitudes when sober.
@@-MaryPoppins- very true!! When I drink (not often at all like 3x a year) I'm usually giggling and having a blast. Most people I know are this way. Yet I had a bf (became an ex like 2 decades ago) when he got drunk he got violent. I mean I locked myself in my friends bathroom and he tried to take down the door. Screaming and yelling saying how I was going to take him home. Then he shoved my friends mom almost knocking her down. My friends mom, his wife, and i had been gone all day for a baby shower thrown about an hr and 45 mins away. After doing that trip there staying 4-5 hrs then coming back i was exhausted. I told him we will sleep here and I'll take you home in the morning. I shouldn't have been dating the guy i was 17-18 he was 24-26. I'd never seen a mean drunk before that day. I broke up with him that night telling him you wanna go home you walk back. I refuse to drive you while acting like this. I didn't know if he'd have hit me or not but something said if i take him home he won't take no for an answer to anything.
@@-MaryPoppins- Alchol warning label should be more honest. WARNING Alcohol will turn you into the same asshole your father was.
My father was an alcoholic
@@melaniexoxo I’m so sorry babe. I hope you’ve been able to find healing from that trauma❤️
“maybe I need to leave tonight”
“Oh you’re leaving, with us” 😂
Yeah he meant to his boyfriends House
Fuck knows how long this pos has been putting his hands on her.
Best line - I truly appreciate this Deputy !
@@mattier.9095petty
😂😂😂😂😂😂
What scares me in these situations is...this guy is gonna get out of jail eventually. And he's gonna be MAD. And he's gonna come back, after stewing in a jail cell for however long and getting angrier and angrier. And what's he gonna do when he comes back....
He'll come home to an empty house or an angry security system.
Tearing doors off the hinges and pulling gobs of hair out of his wife head with a baby in her arms is "domestic violence" it is insane he is so surprised! I am glad the police took action against this fool!
You’re not a man if you hit a woman… and to justify your actions with “I pay the bills; she’s nothing” is hideous.
Thank you!
That goes both ways
@@theminuteman3460 not really, yea women shouldn’t hit you but as a man it’s 100x easier to get away. We’re bigger, stronger, and faster so just remove yourself from the Situation and don’t come back. Both scenarios should end a relationship and result in criminal charges tho im not condoning any domestic violence.
Agreed. Clean home, health and clean child. Drunk, worthless dad, I highly doubt he does anything but make messes for her to clean. I think this momma is doing a great job and its not a easy one.
100% . I did notnget the impression that was the case this time though. Their was nothing broken or thrown about. She showed the officers the door. Why didn't the dad say what she had thrown? Then when that story was not adding up and he said she hit him. Unless she is a masochist. I find it hard to believe she would attack her drunk violent husband, while her children were awake and in her clean home. Knowing that if she loses him he will probably make getting any support from him extremely difficult and she is going to have 2 small children to care for and no way to pay her bills. Her life is going to be very hard either way. I know from experience that leaving someone when you are the home maker and they are the bread winner is a very scary perspective. I don't know about other people but I do not air my dirty laundry or ask for hand outs. At the same time... people are getting crazier every day. So not being logical does not mean much.
I feel for her. Stuck in a trailer park with little kids and a drunk. Probably trapped financially. I hope she’s ok and really leaves him. It only ends one way.
right…..and then she went on to have another kid with the loser
@@MsIniquityyour joking ?
@@tattooboo306 why would that be a joke? Why would you bring another kid into an already bad situation? The more the merrier???
@@MsIniquityDude get out of here. You're not clever, you're just a jerk.
@@MsIniquityhow do you know this is what he's trying to say
“Oh your leaving. With us” best response
He’s just shocked! Because she’s finally done something this time , she never admit to police before
45 years ago I was that little boy. This kind of abuse lasts a lifetime. I feel for those traumatized children. I know what they are going through.
I can relate. But in a way it's a blessing because I am extra devoted to my kids as a result.
@@goodyeoman4534 yet you scoff at protecting children
@@Taylor23890 Yet you resort to using a straw man argument. In my experience, only the dimmest of people behave this way.
@@goodyeoman4534 you’re using your experience as any everybody experience. Only attention seekers do that
@@Taylor23890 You asked me. Bit of a gas lighter type ain't ya? Yep, I am convinced you should be kept well away from vulnerable children. And women for sure.
He blames her for having him arrested and not himself for beating her.
That's the usual way of agressors' behavior. Only those, who are not violent in general, but becomes ones, because of living in antisocial environment and in a lot of stress, admits, that they behaved violantly, that they has problem and doesn't know how to deal with it and they would like to learn to control themselves, solve difficult situations in right way and etc. like that.
They always do.
Emotional blackmail and a lack of personal humility and responsibility from the husband.
Very sad
That’s being a narcissistic human being.
In 2011, my now ex-husband punched my head through a window while I was driving. The resulting crash made my face smash all over the steering wheel. (It was my mother's car and her airbag light had been on for months but because we were dirt poor there was no way to fix it. And also her insurance lapsed and her car was completely destroyed.) when the car crashed there was an ambulance behind us and I believe that was God. When we came to a stop I was still sort of knocked out and he came over and ripped me out of the driver side of the car and threw me down into a ditch on the side of the road. I believe that I would have been dead if it hadn't been for that ambulance. He tried to say we hit something in the road but when I woke up I told them what happened. He ran away from the hospital when he realized that he would be arrested. And then he tried to call the police on ME saying that I hit HIM!
I trapped him after that so that he would think that we would still ne together enough to keep him there when they arrested him.
So the police came over to where he was hiding and my ex said "no thanks, I dont want to press charges on her anymore"
The cop said "we are for YOU"
AND TOOK HIM AWAY.
I was on the phone the whole time. It was GREAT. 🎉
"Maybe I ain't gonna leave tonight."
"Oh, you're leavin'...with us."
she was DONE.
applause.
when you've stood up to this before, watching other women liberate themselves is revealing
It's also dangerous
@@T1up I just locked myself in the room then packed my bags. He totally wanted to stab me, that was before that too -- I mean idk the situation is dangerous period. Best course of action is to get away
@@emmaccode Brave! I’m glad you got out of that situation ❤️ and you’re right, best course is to get away
@@emmaccode 😅🤣😂 This is the man that you picked!
Its sad especially seeing how much she loved him, gave him so many tries and had to give up.
I am a former deputy sheriff, and when I was brand new, I was shocked at the frequency of violent domestic runs we took. Almost every day.
One of you saved me, my mom, and my baby sister’s lives. I called 911 as an 11 year old and hid in the bathroom to do so. Because I never said what was happening, the cop just went to talk to my dad. Dude came back in with a black eye and has never set a hand to anyone ever again. You have done so much more food than people let you guys take credit for. Thank you for your service, and that’s coming from a medically retired marine❤️
@@-MaryPoppins-I'm so sorry to hear about your early trauma. I'm happy to hear that after meeting with a hero sheriff that it got better for y'all. And speaking of heroes, thank you for your service. I married a Marine (now retired) 28 yrs ago. Y'all make the best spouses! God bless you! HE already blessed the rest of us Americans the day you were made a Marine ❤️
God bless you, Sir! In my opinion, we don't always give heroes like you the gratitude & respect you all deserve. And judging by the comment left by MaryPoppins you are not just a hero, but a Superhero. It's men & women just like you that make me wonder why society looks for heroes in comic books & in movies. Superman isn't big enough to shine your shoes, sir!
She picked him.
@@HiNickCares And then there was no problem until he chose to hit her, so idk what point youre trying to make
As they were speaking with the mom and you see how much she cares about the family. The house is clean and tidy. She deserves the world. I hope they’re safe. ❤
My father was an alcoholic for the first 7 years of my life. My mother, who was sober, stayed with him because of me and even as a kid I understood that and that's an awful burden to place on a wife and child. Watching this video, God, it's like I'm 6 years old again feeling the same anxiety, fear and helplessness all over again. Even if I can't recall all the fights, I recall the feelings. If you're reading this and you're a bad drunk with kids please get help. You're traumatising your children and your partner.
Finally a cop that responds to an idiot's "are you serious" bs.. "Yes, I even said it with a straight face!" 😂 Love this officer!!!!
Why. did. you. rip. the. door. off? His sarcasm was epic.
I had to think
About that comment for a bit…. 😂
As opposed to saying it while laughing? Lol
He didn't tolerate her fake crying either
And the other officer that was trying to get his shoes and the drunk pos start babbling on a confused rant …
Officer 2 - simple question “where. are .your .shoes ?“ (accompanied with the hand gesture while asking )
@@cantstanddogs4776 her fake crying?
You can tell he's always like this. The child immediately got out his arms when he started cursing cause he knew his dad was about to go off!!😢😢
Which means this whole situation is 100% the trashy moms fault. Shes a drunk as much as the man is and happily lets her kids live with an abuser, because she needs someone to buy her beer for her. And then she waits til he harms the baby to do anything.
An even bigger tell is how quiet the baby was. Especially when the cop pulls out the flashlight, the child observes and learns rather than react, let alone "WHAT IS THAT" curiosity. Kid knows to stay quiet, or else.
the girl freaking out in the beginning and the cop telling her to quiet down is exactly why we should have more female cops or atleast give them more training on dealing emotional distress
Coward is holding baby, acting like he loves children AND using them as a shield 😡😡😡
Consequences. He ripped her hair out and a door off the hinges, terrorized his children and can’t believe it’s domestic violence. Mind blown.
She needs a restraining order on him too
When he says she's keeping the kids from me, like wtf, they're asleep and you terrorizing your household.
he doesn't see it that way. abusers don't see their behavior as abuse. he sees it as her provoking him. she is "his." the trailer is "his." the children are "his." and if she says, "don't do that," about anything, it sets him off.
My THINGS. These are my possessions. The things I OWN. I do what I want...."MY RIGHTS!" *sigh*
Paying bills does not give you license to abuse your family.
Pulling the door off it’s hinges is violence just in case he doesn’t understand!🙄🙄🤦♀️
This guys attitude is "I pay all the bills so Im allowed to get drunk and abusive as much as I want and oh shes abusive to me bc whenever I come drunk and abusive, she tries to defend herself."
You bet
Sounds just like my kids, dad. COWARD
@@TEXASdaughternope. Money doesn't give anybody the right to beat anyone.
@@stormangelus6638 My saying is that I am agreeing that the husband had the wrong attitude. He deserves jail.
It’s not his house it’s her father’s house.
5:03 the baby squirming out his hands is very telling
sakdjfbdfbal he does it right as mom sobs. Those poor kids. That poor woman.
Hes going to go check on his mom.
@@book_worm22Totally. And that's so sad, like this little kid shouldn't have to worry about his mom's safety. I was that little kid once, though thank god it wasn't this physical. It messes you up. (Mom and I are fine and happy and I haven't spoken to him in 5 years
@@bobaTJOh I didn’t even notice the timing of when and WHY the baby did that 😢 That is so upsetting :(
Why is he holding the child to begin with? He's just using the child as a shield.
So glad the cops took her side straight away. Thankyou for your service. Take him away.
"Oh You're leaving" I love that cop good on him!! LMAO!!
My momma was pistol whipped when I was a kid by her husband, a high ranking member of a well known biker gang. She later died from an aneurysm as a result of the assault. RIP momma. I love you.
That's heart breaking, sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry
That’s f’ked up. So sorry for your loss. Is he in prison?
I’m sorry for your experience. I watched my father stab my mother to death. I was five.
I'm sorry...proof it lasts a lifetime
I wish my mom did this, my father did end up sobering up and changing his ways, but living through that is hell, especially for the child. I know
Yea, it rly messes you up.
For several years, every single night I had to hear yelling from 2 drunk parents. It really sucks having to go to school with few hrs of sleep, but IK the struggle too.
Same
@@arekay6014I'm so sorry. Did growing up like that negatively affect you as an adult?
@RaisinBran000Who said he's doing okay?
I love this officer
It's funny how fast he changed when theirs cops but any man that hits women or children is a pure coward.....
He pays all the bills!! That’s your responsibility as a father at the least and doesn’t mean you can terrorize your wife.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
@@edithbannerman4Go away scammer.
What a scumbag! I loved when the cop said “She’s not going to jail tonight, She’s staying home with the babies”, And he doesn’t like that! He’d rather his children go into care while she’s in jail? Absolute a**ehole!! He don’t love them like he should! They are all better off without him!.
True. But what's even worse is that she'll have him back in the house.
@@goodyeoman4534 God I hope you're wrong
@@goodyeoman4534I don't think so. Once a woman decides her kids don't deserve this & she's done with this.
@@stormangelus6638 I hope so. But I definitely won't hold my breath.
@@stormangelus6638
Statistics say you’re wrong.
God bless this woman and these officers!!
Those cops have had way more patience than I would of had.
Did this clown actually say “I pay all the bills! She’s nothing!” Wow!!
I think he said, "she does nothing". HellllllOOOOOO. Looks after the children and keeps house!
He said I pay the bills she pays nothing...she takes care of the kids!! She does something 🙄
@@goldenchick071I'm pretty sure the ahole said said she DOES nothing not she pays nothing which I find to be even more infuriating and at the same time hilarious that he's that delusional cause she def does ALOT. The house is clean , the kid looks healthy , just over all you can tell mama does more than enough.
Imagine the amount of money she's saving him in daycare bills. Childcare is NOT FREE. Typical pig. We have a good mom here, cleaning and caring for his kids and that apparently is nothing.
Typical Narc! He demands she stay home but also complains about her not paying bills. Yet he refuses to pay daycare. Damn if you do, damn if you don't.
He’s not upset about being arrested, he’s upset that he can’t drag her down with him. What a POS.
I like this cop. Calm, to the point, not biased, a nice guy! Poor Mama. I'm proud of her !
Thanks for putting your children first mum. Now protect yourself by saying enough is enough with that marriage. Say no to domestic violence.
The poor babies are so used to this nonsense, they aren’t even crying. I really hope she means it when she said she is done.
I’d bet anything she took him back.
@@53shuzzie• I don't think so. She sounded like she was done with that pos.
@@jakemoeller7850 she has probably sounded like that many times before. At this point if she lives with him, then she is endangering her own children.
Social services will see this and won’t put up with this I reckon
I hope so too. But sometimes they stay because they’re stuck. She doesn’t work and has nothing to her name probably. That makes it harder.
"Simple question. Please answer it. Where. Are. Your. Shoes?"
I like this cop.
At least he got to take his. They took me out the house and to jail barefoot 🥲 and I was the "her" of this situation. It was sorted and dismissed later. Only time in my.life I was in trouble. Jail ain't an experience I ever wanna have again.
@@user-sl8dg8ph9vso sorry babe hope all that is never something you will experience again
Mama get you & babies far away from this MONSTER!!!!!😢
“I think I need to leave.”
“Yea! You’re gonna leave, with us!”
Love it 😂
As sad as her situation is, it's good to see a mum put her wee ones first. Seems she's taken alot of abuse from John but the moment one of her children were hurt she got a reality check & acted on it. I really hope it works out for her & her children
Good mom, she tried to work it out but she recognized point of no return, honestly it should have came way earlier but at least no one else was hurt
If she were putting her children first, she wouldn't have allowed it to get to this point. Obviously he's done this many times before because of the things that she has said.
Nah she is not a good liar. I’ve dealt with abusive woman who when you give them a taste of their own medicine. Meaning meat aggression with aggression they cry and freak out and play the victim. The kids do deserve better.
She wants him out and to pay for that house I’m sure
She's not putting the kids first by making herself homeless.. she don't work and has nothing.
“ It’s my house, I pay the f…..king bills, she pays nothing”….. she look’s after the kids and all other household things…….tells you, all you need to hear about her worth to him
Right! and he's probably the type to try to sabatoge her from going out and getting a job. He just wants control over her
He doesn't have control over her she is a human being Not his Property
Agreed. She appears to keep a clean home and the child looks clean and well cared for. From what I can see she is doing a great job!
Typical males
I firmly believe that women were God's finest creation. We as men were created to love, protect and serve them. Not beat on them. What an asshole
Maybe if he WASHED that hair and wasn’t DRUNK he might be able to comprehend what he has done🤮
Prayers for her and her children.
"I didnt domestic violence anyone"
You did words there sentence huh?
Language words put together
Speak say talk point
This thread made me chuckle
Words sentences make together
😂😂😂😂😂 dudes a complete cave man.
By the numbers, the absolute most DANGEROUS place for women and children, is in their OWN HOME.
Women like to hang around with guys who are no good.
@@HiNickCares you think abusers don’t put their best foot forward in order to attract a victim? you’re naive and just plain ignorant 😊 girls probably have rejected you for you to act like that lol
@@HiNickCareslol all of them? Really? So there's no good guys with wives or girlfriends?
@@jessiestarts6947 Men who have criminal convictions has 30% more children than average, and the increase is specifically coming from having children with multiple women.
@@HiNickCares huh, I wonder if any of those women are violent criminals too. Maybe guys like to hang around women that are too good for them
Good for her for standing up for the kids and being done! It’s harder than most of us realize. Proud of her💪🏼
I just hope she doesn’t take him back. Praying that’s she stays away not just for her safety but her children!
"She pays nothing. She cant come to me and swing at me."
That doesnt give you the authority or right to abuse her.
He really thinks he bought her or something.
She is the size of an NFL linebacker at 5'2.
@@trashbun2and you are behind a screen that shows no face. pls stfu internet banger 😂😂😂
I volunteered with DV victims and like 85% of them were financially abused as well. The abuser convinces them to quit working while still in the love bombing phase so they can control them and hold it over their head.
@@trashbun2 She has had at least 2 toddlers in perhaps 3 years with a guy who assaults her. She has no time to work out and look like your imaginary Playboy pin up And she doesn't have to! Heavier than your ideal female is unimportant she would still not be nearly as strong as her aggression prone husband. A guy who rips doors off hinges by accident as he put it. You need an attitude readjustment.
@@trashbun2You must be single and a big fan of podcasts.
As a past victim of domestic abuse my heart goes out to this woman. My ex husband once stomped on my stomach when I was pregnant with my daughter. Leaving saved my life and my daughter
Same here. We are the strong ones. I am so glad you and your daughter are safe and sound. It took me quite a few years to find safety. Laws are different now. Please take care.
Oh my goodness, that is terrifying. I’m so happy your daughter is ok. Good job getting out of there!
You’re so brave, you go girl! So glad that you got out of that situation, your strength is admirable!
thank you for leaving my mom never left and it was the worst and scariest. im so glad im not a kid anymore…. :(
i will also say i resent my mom a lot for staying so anyone reading this that has kids and is with someone abusive do something now do not let your kids endure this
As a kid who grew up in a home like that, I can tell you that the ramifications last FOREVER!!!! I'm 53 and still have issues with men. I also have issues with trusting my mother, I'm quick tempered and I fight like a badger when I go off. I am a overly lenient mother, it never ends. I've had years of counselling. Tons of meds, several failed relationships. Sexually acting out...... Its a lot easier to admit when you can't see sho I am, but I'm fucked up in the head
this takes me back to my childhood... super sad and angry watching this, congrats momma you did great
“Maybe I need to leave tonight. Oh you’re leaving, with us!” lol love that! What a shithead!
I did too 😁
know damn well he'd hide somewhere until the police left and then show back up 20 mins later
The fact this dude tryed to throw her under the bus and get her thrown in jail too not thinking about who will watch the kids says so much.
You guys never seize to amaze me. Wait when she was throwing him under the bus u didn't find anything wrong with that but is when he does it that it becomes a matter. Men are always to be blame in every situation. Bias minds everywhere
@@wiydumobasilberinyuy1202 the man was to blame in this situation!!
@@wiydumobasilberinyuy1202he admitted to it! Wtf are you talking about. You are apart of the problem and why so many abusers walk free. Lets hope you or your kids never end up in a situation like this. I promise you wouldn't be defending the abuser then
@@wiydumobasilberinyuy1202 throwing him under the bus?? Sir…he was beating and ripping hair out of his wives skull and ripping doors of hinges to see his kids which were SLEEPING. In the middle of the night. She wasn’t throwing him under the bus, she was protecting herself and her babies. Would YOU want your kids around someone who was drunk and belligerent in the middle of the night?
@@wiydumobasilberinyuy1202he ripped the door off the hinges when she was trying to get away, pulled her hair,choked her, punched her in the head and hit and fell on her kid. Wtf are you even talking about? He’s obviously slurring drunk. What more do you need? She wasn’t throwing him under the bus she was trying to protect herself and her kid. That’s why the only reason he even said she did anything is AFTER he was getting arrested, he was lying. He also didn’t deny anything she said while she was saying it. Are you literally ok or do you just hate women?
this is why its a good idea to get sobor... when you have children you are responsible for your actions . I have been sober for 3 years it is the absolute choice I've ever made ... get sobor when you have children!!!!!!! BREAK THE CYCLE......
Dude punched, strangled & ripped her hair out...an hit the baby in the process. Also, ripped a door off the hinges...well, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out this man needs some time to sober up & gain some knowledge about alcoholism & domestic violence! Those lil ones deserve a loving, protective father in their lives daily...hopefully he fully redeems himself for the children's sake🙏🙏🙏🙏 I pray the mother NEVER has to deal with an abusive prick in her life again!!!
As soon as he says “I pay the bills” he’s done. Never put up with that bullshit.
Never! Because people like him think they can do anything they want to you.
Yelp it's called control
@@lynnb5726Exactly!
or tell this broke baby pumper to keep her legs closed. don't have kids if you can't afford it.
He pays the bills so he lives there she doesn’t have to stay in the house her problem
I think i need to leave tonight.."oh your leaving!!.. with us"😂😂😂
Cold blooded🙌🏽
And he’s gonna be Bubbas girlfriend
😂😂 that was great
“Are you serious?” “Yes, I even said it with a straight face. I’m serious!”😂
@@abutts02 Calm down buddy lol "Jail and prison are not the same thing" - Katt Williams 2018
"I even said it with a straight face," that cop had me 😂
I dealt with this growing up and it was not a great childhood. I saw and went through some horrors as a child because my mom would leave and always go back.
She is a nervous wreck, I truly hope she got away from him and stayed away for the kids and for herself.
Abusers are always shocked when their victims finally take action
You are fineeee
Cuz they never expected them to.
Whereas I think the cops were decisive and took action quickly, they should not have allowed the two of them interact. It only exacerbates an already volatile situation.
As for him, he's a loathsome, snivelling coward. Think you can beat children and women because you pay the bills? YOU impregnated your wife, they are YOUR children. You are THEIR father. You are supposed to protect YOUR children at all costs.😡
Yeah the scene control was iffy
Another drunk success story.
You goobers are never Happy🙄
Trust me as a retired police officer. He did the right thing. You would be surprised at how many women try to stop us from arresting their husbands after abuse. This way he gathers information as they’re arguing. The cop saw she was serious. I had one woman jump on my back, swinging at me trying to stop us from arresting him. She even had a black eye.
Was thinking the same thing
So many women in this situation would have been absolutely terrified to do this, YOU GO MOMMA!! Get this guy outta there!
Growing up I had an alcoholic, violent stepfather. He made life hell every, single night. I wish people realized how terrifying this is to children.
I totally understand how you felt.. my only break from the “physical” side was when my stepfather would go back to prison for his other crimes.. then it was just emotional trauma he inflicted until he was back out then all three kinds of abuse would start again.. 😢 it’s a horrible was to grow up, living in fear and being abused..
Question (as a teacher always wanting to help my students)…how did this impact you as a student…what sort of indicators (if any) could a teacher have seen as a ‘pattern’?
Me too. My dad was an alcoholic from the time I was a toddler until I was 25 years old. You got no clue how many fights I saw between him and my mom and even my sister when she became a teenager. I even saw him strangle them a few times. That stuff stays with you the rest of your life and shapes who you become as an adult.
My step father was brutal to me also he's a H addict horrible nasty bully
Oh he pays for the house? Well, she does all the child care. So what’s your point? She isn’t entitled to stay in the house? Then by your logic you’re not entitled to the kids. What a POS
those dudes are delusional, lol they want based on Google
Chef $51.616
Nanny $27,300
Maid $29,960
Driver $40784
Therapist $30,000
P0rn $tar in the US makes $71,799
While they make 25k year lol
It’s her father’s house.
What an eloquent gentleman.