i moved across the country (and i’m being brave about it)

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  • čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
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    moving is always something that pushes you to limits you didn't even know you had... but i'm proud of us for doing something so scary and life-changing :") i hope you all enjoyed this video (and my bf's fear of folklore creatures)
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    time stamps
    0:00-2:44 intro
    2:44-5:40 let's get moving!!!!!
    5:40-6:06 farewell tour
    6:06-8:28 parade sponsor
    8:28-8:52 arctic monkeys!!!
    8:52-13:42 let's hit the road
    13:42-14:28 we finally made it...
    14:28-15:02 i changed my hair color again hehe
    15:02-17:47 lets chat
    17:47-20:03 apartment tour
    20:03-20:57 outro
    #moving #vlogging
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Komentáře • 94

  • @bella-tt9hk
    @bella-tt9hk Před 9 měsíci +57

    living for the east coast jessica era

  • @darkrose1618
    @darkrose1618 Před 9 měsíci +47

    As someone who lives in Pennsylvania, I agree the scenery is so beautiful. Especially in the fall.

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 8 měsíci +9

      i'm super excited to see the fall colors in Pennsylvania!!

    • @darkrose1618
      @darkrose1618 Před 8 měsíci

      @@lovejessicablair Yesss they're so prettyyyy

    • @richardhutchinson6425
      @richardhutchinson6425 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@lovejessicablair ur gorgeous. U must get alot of guys attention? ❤❤

  • @maybelilybelly
    @maybelilybelly Před 9 měsíci +52

    You are such a beautiful and relatable individual. Your videos are so lovely and make me feel cozy. I’m super close with my mom too so i understand how scary it is to leave her.

  • @VieriTheArtist
    @VieriTheArtist Před 9 měsíci +28

    …I never knew you were from Central Illinois! I’m just stunned to know that the person that inspired me to finally start wearing stomach revealing crop tops used to live in the same general area as me! I do wish you the best, because that is honestly a huge change. ✌🏻

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 9 měsíci +10

      i was born and raised in miami but i’ve lived in central il for the past 6 years! also thank you sm!! 🥺 you’re an absolute angel 💞💕💞💕💗

  • @LWatDVM
    @LWatDVM Před 9 měsíci +25

    Now you can collab in person with Maddie Dragsbaek

    • @holo-star7097
      @holo-star7097 Před 8 měsíci +2

      YESSS both of their fans are the same. #girlboss

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 8 měsíci +6

      i love maddie!! she’s a literal angel!

  • @kassiuh6119
    @kassiuh6119 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Moving sucks so baaad. I’ve lived in my apartment now for almost a whole year now and I’m still not totally unpacked .. my depression be kicking my ass .. so like wow seeing you unpacked and decorated at two weeks moved in completely blows my mind !!! You are a superstar human being ! Wow 😢😮😅😊😊😊❤ enjoy ur new digs ! Can’t wait to see what this chapter brings for you ❤💞❤️💞💝💝💘💘💘💗💗💗🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🧡

  • @samanthagwynne
    @samanthagwynne Před 8 měsíci +7

    Moving out of state can be scary but it's also so exciting and freeing! I find that relationships with parents aren't bad because you can still talk on the phone all the time. I also use Allegiant, Frontier, Spirit etc to get super cheap 2 hour flights to visit on long weekends (I'm from OH and moved to FL so I am not driving lol). Also, you can always host guests. I love knowing someone in a different city so I can stay for free 😂 I found tons of Facebook groups in my area to meet new people and find activities. It took time but I've finally found some great friends. Best of luck on your new adventure!

  • @walterdrinker
    @walterdrinker Před 9 měsíci +2

    Good luck with the move! Your bravery is inspiring and I enjoy your fashion content as well, keep up the good work =)

  • @Valerie9113
    @Valerie9113 Před 8 měsíci +7

    I moved to Oregon from the Midwest when I was 18. Remember what you moved for and explore and learn as much as you can! I love Oregon and I do often miss my parents, but I am getting the experience I always knew I needed. Much love and good luck sis

  • @brlxnnx
    @brlxnnx Před 8 měsíci +3

    Idk how you got all that unpacked in 2 weeks!!! Kudos to you. My bf and I moved in together almost 3 years ago in November and we still have stuff in boxes in the garage 🤣

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 8 měsíci

      i think part of it is desperation for your apartment to feel like a home so you don’t worry abt whether or not you made a mistake moving 😭

  • @Lucy-nj9vx
    @Lucy-nj9vx Před 8 měsíci +2

    I wish you the best in your journey!!!

  • @rebeccatomlin3916
    @rebeccatomlin3916 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Excited for your fall experience here on the east coast 💖💖💖🧡

  • @ashliopensstuff
    @ashliopensstuff Před 8 měsíci +1

    So excited for you! ❤🙌🏻

  • @elvenafae
    @elvenafae Před 9 měsíci +3

    It is really pretty out here in the Fall. I’m in Ohio and I honestly see it more as East Coast than Midwest. I moved from California with a kid so it was rough. You’ll love the change!

  • @ElRee-yg1rv
    @ElRee-yg1rv Před 9 měsíci +13

    I love your vids ❤ thank you for making body positive content ✨

  • @iceteafairy
    @iceteafairy Před 5 měsíci

    loooove your channel!

  • @mynameiskeely
    @mynameiskeely Před 6 měsíci +1

    The ginger looks good on you! I went back to red this year for the first time in over a decade and I know exactly what you mean about feeling the most “yourself” with red hair bc I feel the same ❤

  • @YoungFraggle
    @YoungFraggle Před 9 měsíci +3

    New beginnings can be sad and beautiful at the same time ❤

  • @xxxjxjsywu385
    @xxxjxjsywu385 Před 9 měsíci +3

    If you ever decide to get pierced again make sure to get it with it titanium metal! It really makes a difference in the healing process and less prone to infections :-)

  • @kennedycharfen9034
    @kennedycharfen9034 Před 9 měsíci +3

    i love your channel! you have helped me become more confident and comfortable in my body!

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 9 měsíci +1

      aw i’m so glad! you have no idea how much that means to me :”) 💗

  • @catie5939
    @catie5939 Před 6 měsíci

    I moved from Idaho to New York. It's a wild ride, I hope you have the MOST fun! 💜

  • @mahshidm7006
    @mahshidm7006 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Your aparment looks so beautiful I love the vibe 💙🥹

  • @washingmachined9755
    @washingmachined9755 Před 8 měsíci +4

    You've got such a lovely style on your furnishing! Straight from a Pinterest board❤‍🔥

  • @NECR0CLANCY
    @NECR0CLANCY Před 8 měsíci +1

    WOOO!!! new jersey gang rise up!! i hope you enjoy it here!! :D
    my long distance partner moved from TN to NJ back in March on this year and theyre still getting acclimated to much colder and snowier it is here haha
    just be sure to have lots of cozy clothing for the winter!!

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 8 měsíci +1

      i moved from illinois so i’m def prepared for cold winters, unfortunately 😭

  • @jadhysmb
    @jadhysmb Před 9 měsíci +3

    I moved to a house that was like not even 2 miles away from the old one and it was stressful as fuck, cant even imagine moving cross country!!
    I love your videos jess!! Ive always felt lonely being fat but somehow you make me feel seen

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 9 měsíci +1

      moving just really sucks in general!! also ahh thank you sm angel!! that means the world to me 🥺💕💗🫶 sending u sm love

  • @Katana75211
    @Katana75211 Před 8 měsíci +5

    I'm moving from Washington to Pennsylvania in a month or two depending on apartment leases and it has been so incredibly stressful despite moving to be closer with my partner and my friends. This video perfectly captured all the emotions that have come along with this process. Even though I don't have a lot of ties to where I currently live in terms of family and friends, it's still been bittersweet. But, I also have that feeling of just wanting to move already!! Thank you for making me feel less lonely in this stressful process

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 8 měsíci +1

      sending you so much love!! good luck with your move 🥺💗💗🫶

    • @Katana75211
      @Katana75211 Před 8 měsíci

      thank you so much!!

  • @blankblank1737
    @blankblank1737 Před 9 měsíci +8

    Is it weird to say that your voice is kind of relaxing? 😂 Anyways, great video! I’ve been subscribed for a while but I haven’t commented yet and I just wanted to say that you’re doing great and you are an inspiration!

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 8 měsíci +1

      i’m always so surprised when people say that about my voice cause i’ve always thought it sounds the opposite 😭 thank you so much though, angel :”)) 💗

    • @blankblank1737
      @blankblank1737 Před 8 měsíci

      @@lovejessicablair You’re welcome; the first time I found you I scrolled through your shorts and I actually fell asleep at one point 😂

  • @HealthyLife4Me
    @HealthyLife4Me Před 9 měsíci +4

    I moved from Indiana to California…I drove a 16 foot Truck. It was a long expensive move!

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 9 měsíci +3

      oof that sounds stressful 😭 moving IS a seemingly never ending amount of expenses. i hope ur enjoying california though!! 💗

    • @HealthyLife4Me
      @HealthyLife4Me Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@lovejessicablair I’m happy to be back in California, but it is crazy EXPENSIVE!!!! 😳

  • @unijoulee
    @unijoulee Před 9 měsíci +4

    ginger is LITERALLY ur color Jess 🖤🖤

  • @iSharShar
    @iSharShar Před 9 měsíci +2

    I did the reverse move. I moved from NY to Chicago. I miss the East Coast so much since moving to the Midwest. Totally get why you felt the need to leave Illinois.

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 8 měsíci

      honestly chicago is where we thought we were gonna move eventually! lemme know if you want any recs

  • @SockPuppetTalksYT
    @SockPuppetTalksYT Před 5 měsíci

    omg i live in nj too! i hope you enjoy it here!!!

  • @melti9772
    @melti9772 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Welcome to NJ!

  • @robertstrubberg2803
    @robertstrubberg2803 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Im in love ❤

  • @itsss_sarahhh
    @itsss_sarahhh Před 9 měsíci +1

    8:35 I love the oc such a good show, my mom loves it too🤭

  • @Toadstewl
    @Toadstewl Před 8 měsíci +2

    I’m from Springfield! I’ve recognized some of the thrift stores you’ve done videos at.

  • @lenny7971
    @lenny7971 Před 8 měsíci +3

    I just moved to NYC, because my partner is going to grad school here. It's really hard to go somewhere that you don't know anyone and get used to a new setting. I feel you but you'll thrive and hopefully have a great time!

    • @lenny7971
      @lenny7971 Před 8 měsíci +1

      It was also from the midwest lol

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 8 měsíci

      it’s definitely scary but i believe in us!! sending u lots of love 💗💗💗

  • @savi2554
    @savi2554 Před 9 měsíci +5

    The video is so relatable and I almost started crying with you… I miss my mooom…
    Thank you for sharing all of this with us and I hope you have a good time in New Jersey 🌻

  • @pitag397
    @pitag397 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Jessica there is actually a really great place in/near Buttzville called Hot Dog Johnny's. You gotta try their birch beer it's sooo good!!! 🤤

  • @acetabulumshots
    @acetabulumshots Před 9 měsíci +1

    Sorry you had to go to Indiana. I finally just left that state to return to the West coast after 6 years trapped there.

  • @christianmhasler
    @christianmhasler Před 8 měsíci +2

    girl I’m from central illinois!! All this time and you saw the same farmland I did 😅🤠 lmao, good for you for moving!! New Jersey seems awesome

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 8 měsíci

      aww that’s so cool!! it’s so wild to me when i see cool people who also live in central IL lmao

  • @LiaGridley
    @LiaGridley Před 8 měsíci +3

    As someone who was born in Indiana and who has lived here my whole life, I can agree with you on what you had to say about Indiana in those short 10 seconds.EDIT: Although brown county in beautiful!

  • @PBottomPoochies
    @PBottomPoochies Před 9 měsíci +5

    I want to leave Texas! I just need a good reason to go! Sadly mom is 82 and declining, so I won’t be able to leave. At least not for a while. I want to move about as far north as I can go. In case you didn’t know, Texas is the hottest state in the USA and I am so beyond over it. It averaged about 105 from Mid June to the first of Sept. I think it was even 100 today. Ugh. So DONE!!! 🥵🥵🥵

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 8 měsíci

      i understand! my mom and i were both born and raised in florida and we both wanted to leave for the longest time but didn’t until my grandma passed away. sending love to you and your mom, i hope you do leave Texas one day! 💗

  • @yer_grrl
    @yer_grrl Před 8 měsíci +2

    hearing you call Pennsylvania magical is soooo wild to me like babes come to Pittsburgh fjfnfjfnf

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 8 měsíci +1

      compared to central illinois 😭 all we have are highways and corn/soybean fields

  • @tangychartreuse
    @tangychartreuse Před 8 měsíci +3

    Once again u are so iconic for masking in public

  • @BarbieBioch
    @BarbieBioch Před 7 měsíci

    Wait what?!!you lived in the midwest! I live here and i want to be your friend so bad. You inspire me as a size 13 gal. Girl of you come back to visit your mom please hit me up!

  • @samspam1788
    @samspam1788 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I would love to have your fashion sense!

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 9 měsíci +1

      it comes with practice and trusting ur instincts!! i believe in you!!

  • @meowx6
    @meowx6 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Blairstown ✍✍midnight✍✍

  • @blane1814
    @blane1814 Před 6 měsíci

    Please do more videos on your decore

  • @Avigailish
    @Avigailish Před 9 měsíci +1

    💖💖💖

  • @Plainjanejj
    @Plainjanejj Před 8 měsíci +3

    I didn’t know you have to pay to get through ohio!!!?? I lived there recently but we only stayed in Cincinnati haha. We drove to Illinois from ohio. I didn’t enjoy anything past our city hahahaha.

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 8 měsíci +1

      i had no idea either until we got to the state border and had to pay $20 😭

  • @jillybeans70
    @jillybeans70 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I’m from the Midwest. Curious at to what area you moved from. I understand what a big move that is. Def cross country. Bittersweet.

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 8 měsíci +1

      i moved from Peoria!

    • @jillybeans70
      @jillybeans70 Před 8 měsíci

      @@lovejessicablair we were pretty close. I’m in the dirty D. Lol

  • @GloriaGloom
    @GloriaGloom Před 8 měsíci +2

    "I'd hit 'em with the car" 😂

  • @umudov11
    @umudov11 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Good ❤

  • @laurenbrunswick3815
    @laurenbrunswick3815 Před 7 měsíci

    You're from Illinois?? I knew I liked you 👍🏻

  • @anastasiawilen224
    @anastasiawilen224 Před 3 měsíci

    i think you may have moved to my city! if you were ever looking to get repierced there’s this woman named Christina that I always refer everyone to because she knows what she’s doing & its cheap compared to a lot of shops :-)

  • @Yogeshvlog1437
    @Yogeshvlog1437 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Hi how are you nice video my dear friend ❤❤❤😊😊😊

  • @theWightRabbit
    @theWightRabbit Před 7 měsíci

    Careful when picking a piercer (find someone with years of experience & healed portfolio), cause a poor technique can give you the dreaded brow droop.

  • @kelseychapman1174
    @kelseychapman1174 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Accusing mothman of being in Pennsylvania then claiming youd kill him with your car?? This is a war crime to me, a native West Virginian (even if I’ve lived in nyc for ten years) 😂

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 8 měsíci

      i think he was lying to seem tough and would actually worship Mothman if that makes you feel better

  • @TheMigman
    @TheMigman Před 7 měsíci

    Twitter sent me 😮

  • @amethyst4990
    @amethyst4990 Před 2 měsíci

    The ginger hair suits you

  • @music4life813
    @music4life813 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Never in my life have I heard someone complement PA’s roads 😂😂😂

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před 8 měsíci +1

      coming from the midwest where the roads suck AND everything’s flat/full of corn fields…. PA is gorg 😭

  • @qh8079
    @qh8079 Před 8 měsíci +1

    please dress up as kathleen from the last of us for halloween

  • @tamaradubeni6866
    @tamaradubeni6866 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Ginger was meant for you