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  • čas přidán 3. 03. 2023
  • chill with me while i do my makeup & talk about the worst date i've ever been on :-)
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    hope ur all having a lovely day! ❣
    #grwm #dating #worstdateever
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Komentáře • 124

  • @lovejessicablair
    @lovejessicablair  Před rokem +87

    CW for sexual harassment/creepy guy behavior!! starts at about 3:44 and ends at 12:45!

  • @dumbvampire8530
    @dumbvampire8530 Před rokem +68

    THE COMFORT THAT THIS VIDEO RADIATES you have no idea how much i love your vids, like you keep me going and motivate me to love myself😭

  • @siya4986
    @siya4986 Před rokem +116

    she is so pretty and motivating luv her

  • @abbeybuchman8927
    @abbeybuchman8927 Před rokem +42

    That story of you and your boyfriends first date is so cute. Love a healthy relationship

  • @samanthah481
    @samanthah481 Před rokem +21

    omg my current bf didn’t kiss me on our first date either but i swear it made me fall in love w him because he was so sweet n respectful and he ASKED TO GIVE ME A HUG 😭😭😭 GOD BLESS SWEET BOYS

  • @boxxess7605
    @boxxess7605 Před rokem +13

    Just found your account and I wanted to say you are so real and I’ve never felt more seen. I’m 21 and have been fat my whole life. I’ve always felt like there’s “a skinny girl inside of me waiting to come out.” I remember imagining a thin version of myself appearing when I turned 16 but obviously it never did. I feel so at peace now a days cause I’ve come to the same conclusion that we are beautiful, there are no rules, and we should be ourselves. These beauty standards are just stupid and there’s no wrong way to exist in your body. I’m so grateful that you’re making content and just being a gorgeous gorgeous girl ❤

  • @rachaelrosely
    @rachaelrosely Před rokem +5

    my comfort youtuber

  • @ashanderson5284
    @ashanderson5284 Před rokem +21

    please please please post more content like this! love seeing you showing off your beauty trends and just telling us about life ☺️ also your cat is a princess and she deserves the world

  • @LilMemm
    @LilMemm Před rokem +32

    You're the only motivation in my life to appreciate myself for who I am- thank you and luv u always Jess

  • @whydoyoucaretoreadmyhandle

    you and your bf sound like the cutest couple oml haha, also, you’re so much fun to listen to, like catching up with an old friend, this was super relaxing

  • @venusfavorite
    @venusfavorite Před rokem +6

    this video is just so comforting and chill, plus you're so inspiring-

  • @rabbitsrefuse
    @rabbitsrefuse Před rokem +14

    Btw, that FAB moisturizer saved my hands and arms working food service (constantly washing my hands) during the worst part of the pandemic in the winter. My hands usually dry to the point of my knuckles splitting even with strong salves and moisturizers. One tub lasts me from fall through spring.
    Also, I need more long form content like this in my life. It’s like listening to a friend tell me stories while I play video games. 💜

    • @courtneyjames5495
      @courtneyjames5495 Před rokem +3

      Same. I’ve been using it for a couple years now. Love it. I used to switch moisturizers a lot, and then I started using the dear klaris one. But it’s more expensive because it comes in a smaller tube and at the time they didn’t really have a lot of sizes for it. Also I had to order it on the Internet since it’s Korean. So by chance I decided to try this one, because it had similar ingredients and I was like… I love it I change other things about my skin care periodically, but always use FAB moisturizer. And I recommend it to everyone I know. lol

  • @MIssLiviaRoberts
    @MIssLiviaRoberts Před rokem +2

    I’m half Italian and have been to Italy several times. It is AMAZING-the food, the architecture, the history, the people. I hope you guys have the best time there!!! My biggest tip is don’t be afraid to explore non-touristy areas in addition to the places you are planning to visit! Not that more touristy areas aren’t beautiful (they are!) but it’s also really cool to see the more authentic local lifestyle. I know you probably won’t see this but I love your channel and again hope you have an amazing time ❤️

  • @nessa6445
    @nessa6445 Před rokem +6

    The fact that your bf went back to find your glasses with you. You both are amazing 💓

  • @angelas8644
    @angelas8644 Před rokem +3

    Thank God you’re ok ❤❤
    Always trust your instincts. A tip for any of you beautiful ladies out there--if you do decide to get in a guy’s car in this situation, always take a photo of his car and license plate. If he’s a good guy, he won’t get mad. Although that being said he should not expect you to get in his car to begin with if you just met.

  • @mirandajade3761
    @mirandajade3761 Před rokem +3

    u seem like genuinely kind person it’s so refreshing to see ur content

  • @zoes29
    @zoes29 Před rokem +4

    You and your mom are so sweet! I lowkey hope we can see your bf soon too. You sound so cute together 🥺

  • @ibei8484
    @ibei8484 Před rokem +15

    Your videos alllways make my day, I love the long form content sm!

  • @thevelveteen
    @thevelveteen Před rokem +1

    Would love to see a tour of how you store and organize your wardrobe as well as the spiritual practices or “behind the scenes belief system” that helps to show up.

  • @aracova1138
    @aracova1138 Před rokem +96

    im so glad youre trying out full length videos! love it! (♡˙︶˙♡)

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před rokem +15

      ahh thank u!! i hope y’all like it cause im gonna try to post more consistently

    • @richardhutchinson6425
      @richardhutchinson6425 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@lovejessicablair ur adorable. Subscribed ❤❤

  • @tiaslavin7402
    @tiaslavin7402 Před rokem +3

    Humana vintage shops in Rome are really good also. I’m not sure how inclusive the size range is but they’re relatively affordable.

  • @gabrielaperez5867
    @gabrielaperez5867 Před rokem +6

    Sis this was so fun to listen to and watch. I’m 22 and I’ve NEVER gone in a date or even really kissed anyone. Trust is a very real thing and if you don’t nail those green flags on the first day then sorry, but no.

  • @sydneygreenberg6480
    @sydneygreenberg6480 Před 4 měsíci

    I SO wish I had you to look up to when I was younger. Thanks for being the best! 💕

  • @pandasrock94
    @pandasrock94 Před rokem +3

    Completely relate. Sometimes it's out of desperation for attention and a need for validation

  • @Lucy-nj9vx
    @Lucy-nj9vx Před rokem +1

    I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS AND SHORTS, SIS!💖

  • @asteniaa
    @asteniaa Před rokem +1

    Love this type of videos!!! ♥️

  • @jasmoonz
    @jasmoonz Před rokem +1

    love seeing you in long form content!! hope to see more here

  • @mirrencorin
    @mirrencorin Před rokem +1

    I’m 31 f from Germany and I just love the relaxed and cozy vibes your videos send out. Thanks for your content, like your shorts as well 🍀🌈

  • @Maria.0.1
    @Maria.0.1 Před rokem

    Omg!! I screamed when I saw you posted 💕💕💕

  • @Desgrange_band
    @Desgrange_band Před 4 měsíci

    I love your content, you are so fabulous 💞💕

  • @bbuuttercupp
    @bbuuttercupp Před rokem +1

    Sick rn and feeling sad and this was something nice to have on

  • @sirena7811
    @sirena7811 Před rokem

    you're so relatable and awesome girly!

  • @briannaandrade7861
    @briannaandrade7861 Před rokem

    i love you and your style so much

  • @alienpotatosquid7850
    @alienpotatosquid7850 Před rokem +8

    loved this chill grwm. loved the look. loved the apartment (yes even your bedroom) and loved the fat cuchie talk lolol. - your first-date with ur bf is my dream. i mean i am hella introverted so 12 hours would be pretty exhausting but i just want a low-key easy relationship and i feel like dates like that are the first of many good signs. also luv a shy boy and so adorable that he was afraid to initiate. you (and invisiboy) rock and i’m so happy you have a loving relationship.
    p.s. hold a grudge forever with that creep. or don’t, but do. (:

  • @thedaily60
    @thedaily60 Před rokem +3

    Love your honesty and you are my type of friend, my type of woman! I feel like I could trust you and that you would never stab me in the back 🤗

  • @zoecraig4094
    @zoecraig4094 Před rokem +8

    When I went to Italy several years ago, I noticed on the beaches that there was a very body positive culture in my experiences. I am not sure if this is a culture of italy or just that beach on that particular day. I am not sure if you will have this experience but I hope you do!!

  • @sophiaallia1075
    @sophiaallia1075 Před rokem

    literally soooo fun to watch and comforting!! i need more of these kinds of videos in my lifeee also u look and kinda sound like sydney sweeney !

  • @lyna7038
    @lyna7038 Před rokem +1

    You are one of my favorite people on the intrent 💗😙 luv ya

  • @michelereynolds14
    @michelereynolds14 Před rokem

    Your outfit was so cute! Love how you are with your mom! My mom and I were the same way. Makes me miss her so much (RIP MOM ❤)

  • @caglayantilsim
    @caglayantilsim Před rokem +3

    You and your mom are adorable

  • @Rtroom
    @Rtroom Před rokem

    OMG I'm only 3 mins into the vlog but I am already obsessed!

    • @Rtroom
      @Rtroom Před rokem

      future me: just finished the vlog - you and ur mom are so cute, super psyched for next vlog

  • @britt9724
    @britt9724 Před rokem +3

    ur so gorg, i love ur hair.

  • @Saffronrays
    @Saffronrays Před rokem

    With Italy, when going south of Rome (or even in the city) you have to be very aware of pickpocketers. So a purse with a zipper is always good! Or a lanyard for your phone/wallet (and keep it under your shirt)

  • @Eleni_I
    @Eleni_I Před rokem +4

    Some men are so scary. I once went on a date where we were in a crowded room, so brightly lit, and I wasn’t feeling anything romantic. There was absolute NO VIBE when he asked if could kiss me. Shocked I said something dumb like “no it’s too bright”! Hoped he would get the hint… 10 mins later we were in a taxi to the next place, he goes “is it dark enough now?”🤢 I said NO! He shouted back at me “WHAT’S WRONG WITH YOU?!” I realised he just saw me as an object to comply to him. When we got to the venue I gave him a dressing down and then he kept saying he wished he could go to a rave, which I encouraged him to go to, alone, so I wouldn’t have to get the train home with him. After, my ‘friend’ said oh you went on a date with so and so, he BEAT UP his ex! Cheers for letting me go on a date with him! He had offered to drive us to our date (40) min on the highway. So glad I declined.

    • @dreamwishergirl
      @dreamwishergirl Před rokem +1

      That is scary ! Did you meet him on an app?

    • @Eleni_I
      @Eleni_I Před rokem

      @@dreamwishergirl we were friends as kids, hadn’t seen him in years. He was a nice kid so assumed he’d still be nice but I was wrong!

  • @DominiqueGarofalo
    @DominiqueGarofalo Před rokem

    I enjoyed the stories. Loaf is award winning.

  • @lizon7993
    @lizon7993 Před rokem

    Love you. You are very inspiring

  • @morgiana111
    @morgiana111 Před rokem +1

    Straight up my first date with my current boyfriend of three years I WENT TO HIS APARTMENT ALONE! Just not the smartest thing to do but just like your bf, it was fine bc he was an absolute sweetheart lol. Love you Jess!!! 💜

  • @PenguinGeri
    @PenguinGeri Před rokem +4

    "why do so many women watch true crime" this is not even the worst of bad date stories I've heard.

  • @arianaioanadorianamanea-il5749

    Omg im so early!!
    I just wanted to say that I love u Jess and you're content is really inspiring to me :3
    I wish u the best ❤

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před rokem +3

      aw thank u sm angel!! ur so sweet 🥺🫶 sending u so much love

  • @zequinhaslover63
    @zequinhaslover63 Před rokem +1

    i love how she got ready and everything just to order take out at the end😂

  • @tiaslavin7402
    @tiaslavin7402 Před rokem

    From Rome you can get the train to lake bracciano and it’s a really lovely day trip and the water is so clear and lovely to swim in!

  • @thatssoleyla
    @thatssoleyla Před rokem +3

    Love u Jess

  • @markoftheroses7741
    @markoftheroses7741 Před rokem

    It really is your world and we are just living in it.

  • @han1988missy
    @han1988missy Před rokem

    Love the Napoli area of Italy, Napoli pizza is the best, you can also get a super cheap train around the bay of Naples from Naples to Sorrento for like €3. That same train also goes to Pompeii. If you do go to Pompeii I'd recommend getting there for opening at 9am as it gets crazy busy. Sorrento is beautiful to wander around but very touristy, as is Capri island. I've stayed on Ischia island a few times and it's by far my favourite, it's like a tropical paradise, much less touristy, and cheaper than Capri and Sorrento, but loads of interesting historical sites and things. You can also easily island hop around the bay on the ferries. Also, highly recommend a swim off Sorrento or Capri, its probably one of my favourite things to do, crystal clear water! ♥️

  • @jessicaanthony2256
    @jessicaanthony2256 Před rokem

    Love this

  • @hannacarew3181
    @hannacarew3181 Před rokem

    in rome the best food we ate was at Cacio E Pepe in via giuseppe avezzana (all the locals go there) and also Mondo Arancina (delicious sicilian style food, arancini are their specialty).

  • @dreamwishergirl
    @dreamwishergirl Před rokem

    Love these long length videos! And also, I’ve gone on a couple app dates like this one. I got off of them and met an amazing man in person ! We are currently just really good friends but maybe one day something will happen!

  • @PopFizzPaperDani
    @PopFizzPaperDani Před 10 měsíci

    Seriously, you don’t even need the foundation. Your skin is so nice! 😊

  • @no-hz4pj
    @no-hz4pj Před rokem

    love you

  • @jett8193
    @jett8193 Před rokem

    Have a great lunch! 😉

  • @SpiderLegs666
    @SpiderLegs666 Před rokem +1

    10/10 on the intro 🤣 and you aren't alone in holding grudges forever. I am the SAME. And you are not in the wrong for being a naive 20 yr old..I trusted people too much at one point too. I ended up getting r**ed and was stuck in that person's house until he took me home the next morning. Women are trained by society from a young age to "not put up a fuss" over anything so we sit silently and put up with things that are very uncomfortable for us. Most men are raised not to have any consideration of others feelings, so they don't think about how their counterpart may be feeling. Gotta love the sexiest society we love in. Yeehaw 🤠

  • @severalgirlsgalore
    @severalgirlsgalore Před rokem

    If u made a podcast i would listen

  • @somewherethroughmyeyes

    Venice.. restaurant called La Zucka which means pumpkin

  • @carlacholera
    @carlacholera Před rokem +1

    puh, when I saw the title, I was already afraid, that you and you're boyfriend werent anymore! 💕

  • @Littlekitten_
    @Littlekitten_ Před rokem

    Omg im born and raised in Chicago 👋🏻🐸 girl im 27 and i feel so bad for people especially women who use dating apps and have bad experiences

  • @maristuginski
    @maristuginski Před rokem

    I laughed so much at the tiny tiny lips liner

  • @khills
    @khills Před rokem

    Oh dear... 😂 Yeah, I have some Savage X Fenty undies, and some of them are great and some of them are... not. I'm trying out a couple of of new brands hopefully this week. I fell in love with cotton modal boxer briefs from the Knix x Ashley Graham release last year, but they don't stock them anymore, so I'm trying MeUndies and Skims. (And heeeey if anyone has suggestions for fat friendly undies....)
    (I'd say we're twinning with our respective Mt Laundries, but I just realized you're young enough to be my daughter, excuse me while I go cry about the loss of my youth and find a walker...)

  • @mirrencorin
    @mirrencorin Před rokem

    …and have fun in Italy 🇮🇹

  • @theWightRabbit
    @theWightRabbit Před rokem

    Here's to the ladies who grudge 🍸😉

  • @gabriellefowler8097
    @gabriellefowler8097 Před rokem

    Go to the emerald pool!

  • @dallysanta
    @dallysanta Před rokem

    I went to italy visited florence bologna and Rome. Rome was over rated unless ur a history nerd like my husband then yeh visit other wise it was meh. But i wish we went to the Amalfi Coast, Sienna, Sicily. Bologna and florence seriously under rated, loved all of it.

  • @araniekawa1322
    @araniekawa1322 Před rokem +1

    OHMYGOD I KNEW YOU WERE FROM ILLINOIS LMAO AS SOON AS YOU SAID MENARDS I KNEW LOL

  • @maybelilybelly
    @maybelilybelly Před 10 měsíci

    I’ve had the real burger situation before too. My server was so apologetic I felt kinda bad lol.

  • @margo98margo
    @margo98margo Před 11 měsíci

    Wow the juxtaposition between the creepy date man vs your SWEETHEART boyfriend is so crazy. I'm glad you found each other, he sounds like a lovely guy. ❤❤❤ Adorable 🥰

    • @margo98margo
      @margo98margo Před 11 měsíci

      Also your mom is so cute ❤ I love her

  • @somewherethroughmyeyes

    It's in the Jewish quarter of Venice, interesting area.

  • @ashanderson5284
    @ashanderson5284 Před rokem

    omg was this during the polar vortex?? i’m in shaumburg

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před rokem +1

      yes!! it sucked so much 😭

    • @au_barb
      @au_barb Před rokem

      ILLINOIS!!!!

    • @ashanderson5284
      @ashanderson5284 Před rokem

      @@lovejessicablair ahhhh i can’t believe you actually responded!!! i’m fangirling so hard right now you’re my idol!

  • @emilycordero7095
    @emilycordero7095 Před rokem

    I love this video 🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛💋☝️

  • @j.s2507
    @j.s2507 Před 11 měsíci

    $40....im full grown and that's a big splurge for moisturizer. Really it is for any blue color, I work for a living, person. Keep kicking a$$ lady, love your stuff.

  • @CausaBrevitatis
    @CausaBrevitatis Před rokem +1

    feel like a doofus for asking but what does situationship mean?

    • @omomg11111
      @omomg11111 Před rokem +2

      It’s when you and someone aren’t dating but it’s like… undeniably more than a friendship in some way lol

  • @maryastutzman5654
    @maryastutzman5654 Před 9 měsíci

    i love living in the mid west....

  • @samspam1788
    @samspam1788 Před rokem +1

    Thats so horrible about that guy ☹️

  • @madisonatior4414
    @madisonatior4414 Před rokem

    Dd

  • @Gunapithesunrose
    @Gunapithesunrose Před rokem

    The fat couchie issues is real. Sometimes I forgo the undies cause it’s more comfortable

  • @eastonmartin5342
    @eastonmartin5342 Před rokem +3

    You do makeup how it should be done as far as enhancing your beauty. I love clown makeup as much as the next chick to want a good performance photo but sometimes it’s sad when you walk in the mall and see girlies wearing contour like it’s a thing to make them pretty.

  • @iSharShar
    @iSharShar Před 10 měsíci

    I hope you reported the guy on Bumble for bad behavior off the app

  • @calliehammond5110
    @calliehammond5110 Před rokem

    ya ok if he’s real then post him

    • @omomg11111
      @omomg11111 Před rokem

      Are you talking about her boyfriend? She’s posted him several times. I don’t get why you’re so hateful…

    • @calliehammond5110
      @calliehammond5110 Před rokem +1

      @@omomg11111 i’ve never seen her post him on anything. granted i don’t obsessively watch her but i scrolled through her insta and youtube and didn’t see him at all. And i don’t like her because she is always bodychecking in all of her posts. its triggering and unnecessary

    • @omomg11111
      @omomg11111 Před rokem

      @@calliehammond5110 ohh okay, I can understand the body checking part honestly, in some cases I get triggered by BCs as well by people. I can link a post of her and her boyfriend if you’d like me to :D

    • @calliehammond5110
      @calliehammond5110 Před rokem

      @@omomg11111 yes pls!! ty

  • @emmetarot2966
    @emmetarot2966 Před rokem

    I’m so excited for your Italy trip!! I really enjoyed watching @livingaskarina ‘s Italy vlogs and recommend them if you haven’t watched already!

  • @rio8529
    @rio8529 Před rokem +1

    Oof it needs a trigger warning

    • @lovejessicablair
      @lovejessicablair  Před rokem +5

      i’m so sorry i didn’t think of that, i’ll pin one now!

  • @tiggzr9744
    @tiggzr9744 Před rokem

    Right! Yitty clothing line isn't good either, made for plastic surgery bodies.

  • @soybean00
    @soybean00 Před rokem +3

    omg this video has such older sister vibess 🫶 i love ur videos - your sense of style and confidence inspires me sm!