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  • @hitmonkey2984
    @hitmonkey2984 Pƙed 3 lety +1838

    Just want to say. Don't let ANYONE treat you like that, male or female.
    Abuse is abuse.
    Get out and get help.
    Period

    • @gryphenicedancer8796
      @gryphenicedancer8796 Pƙed 3 lety +45

      Nope, I won't be the one to leave.
      Then again, anyone that knows me would know better than to raise a hand to me or even HINT at threatening me.
      My momma taught me long ago - no matter how big, strong or fast he is, everyone has to sleep
      Sometime
      Be ready.

    • @teslagasoline5629
      @teslagasoline5629 Pƙed 3 lety +28

      Gryphen Icedancer might be murder but you do you

    • @hitmonkey2984
      @hitmonkey2984 Pƙed 3 lety +36

      @@gryphenicedancer8796 right, because you're still staying in a bad situation.
      Smart.
      I applaud that.
      Now, sans sarcasm.
      Why would you wish to stay in that situation to get revenge?

    • @mikkixo2242
      @mikkixo2242 Pƙed 3 lety +55

      Thank you. People forget that women have killed men as well

    • @hitmonkey2984
      @hitmonkey2984 Pƙed 3 lety +52

      @@mikkixo2242 it's not even just that, it's that abuse is abuse, period.
      The perpetrator of the abuse, male or female, is still an abuser.
      This isn't even mentioning the same sex couples that fit in the same abusive category.
      I know people that have been in abusive relationships, some physical, some emotional.
      It's just a statement to get out, make yourself safe.

  • @mafuyutism
    @mafuyutism Pƙed 3 lety +661

    "he bought a gun"
    me: oh no.
    "he said if he can't have me, no one can"
    me: *OH NO.*

    • @jamesnorman9160
      @jamesnorman9160 Pƙed 3 lety +34

      That was messed up enough, but then she had to move state and it took 8 years for the divorce to be finalized. Like, how could it drag on for that long especially after he said shit like that?

    • @RowanAvery1375
      @RowanAvery1375 Pƙed 3 lety +16

      @@jamesnorman9160 If she lives in the United States both parties have to sign the divorce papers, and divorce lawyers can be expensive.

    • @jamesnorman9160
      @jamesnorman9160 Pƙed 3 lety +8

      @@RowanAvery1375 I figured as much, but it's still shit she lived in fear for those 8 years, and what's the chances her ex did it on purpose too?

    • @starwarriorterra8373
      @starwarriorterra8373 Pƙed 3 lety +13

      @@jamesnorman9160 I'll answer that obviously rhetorical question for you: the chances are excruciatingly high that he did that on purpose to try to scare her back to his side. Fear is a powerful persuasive tool, and an act like that is also easy to hide with "I was just so devastated that I lost her, boo hoo feel bad for me" if questions of intent *are* brought up. Never mind the fact that acting like that is so cartoonishly ridiculous to the point of it being a literal caricature of romantic comedy characters.
      The remaining chance is mostly for the possibility of severe mental illness. He was in the military, and even if it was for a short period of time, sometimes that can really mess someone up. Not everyone is made for it. However, if I were a betting man...

    • @stingraykitten1796
      @stingraykitten1796 Pƙed 3 lety +3

      Oh no

  • @journey4641
    @journey4641 Pƙed 3 lety +595

    I dont think people understand that if someone is willing to cheat on someone for you, they are willing to do it again for someone else.

    • @darksaber2628
      @darksaber2628 Pƙed 3 lety +33

      Ikr? If someone cheats on their Wife/Husband with you then you'll probably be cheated on too.

    • @Lapis.hnk.1984
      @Lapis.hnk.1984 Pƙed 3 lety +23

      @@darksaber2628 just cheat on them with the person they cheated on you problem solved

    • @punu3675
      @punu3675 Pƙed 3 lety +4

      Well I mean my dad cheated on my mom and he's still with the same woman 10 years later

    • @pollypockets508
      @pollypockets508 Pƙed 3 lety

      Right. Exactly

    • @pollypockets508
      @pollypockets508 Pƙed 3 lety +5

      @@punu3675 My step-dad cheated on my mom. He married the woman he cheated with. She treated him horribly. She treated my brother horribly too. Crazy tirades. Violent tendencies. My step-dad died in his fifties, way too early. I've always suspected that there was foul play because she got everything after he died and my brother didn't get anything. He didn't even want money. Just one of his father's sculptures or paintings. She's an evil woman.

  • @jamieodonnell8344
    @jamieodonnell8344 Pƙed 3 lety +234

    To quote Steve Irwin "Crocodiles are easy. They try to kill and eat you. People are harder. Sometimes, they pretend to be your friend at first."

    • @Nikita_Akashya
      @Nikita_Akashya Pƙed 3 lety +14

      This is exactly why I hate people. Humans are fleeting, Cats are eternal.

    • @Sonen10
      @Sonen10 Pƙed 3 lety +4

      Great to be 69th like.

  • @sasuke5088
    @sasuke5088 Pƙed 3 lety +109

    Spreading an STI without telling someone else (when you know you have it) falls under "Willful Negligence".

  • @amorasilverspark
    @amorasilverspark Pƙed 3 lety +274

    I am 100% convinced that Ben and Meg were both cheating on their fiances BEFORE they both went to Belgium. Too many coincidences for it to be otherwise.

    • @bazonka1
      @bazonka1 Pƙed 3 lety +16

      I want to know if OP got together with Claire!

    • @dx1450
      @dx1450 Pƙed 3 lety +7

      Yes, I guarantee it. Why else would she choose Belgium?

  • @chibitales-thebestredditst2746
    @chibitales-thebestredditst2746 Pƙed 3 lety +1170

    How someone can just betray someone's trust and faith just like that by cheating is something I'll never understand.
    And what I can't understand even more is how anyone could take said cheaters back!

    • @zealotoftheorchard9853
      @zealotoftheorchard9853 Pƙed 3 lety +71

      I never understood why too! If theyre unsatisfied with the relationship why not tell their partner instead of Stabbing them in the back 24 times (metaphorically)

    • @Heartrose7
      @Heartrose7 Pƙed 3 lety +33

      The answers to the first question are as varied and numerous as the sands of Egypt. The answer to the second is love.

    • @shyferret9924
      @shyferret9924 Pƙed 3 lety +7

      i would simply feed him to the dogs

    • @fanfictiondreamer7836
      @fanfictiondreamer7836 Pƙed 3 lety +15

      Why are relationships so ridiculously complicated?

    • @zealotoftheorchard9853
      @zealotoftheorchard9853 Pƙed 3 lety +20

      @@fanfictiondreamer7836 Because humans are so rediculously complicated

  • @batriam5921
    @batriam5921 Pƙed 3 lety +311

    What I'm most confused about is why you would date someone who is already in a relationship. Like if he/she can cheat once why do you think they won't cheat on you as well?

    • @canadianperspective3731
      @canadianperspective3731 Pƙed 3 lety +42

      Batriam “How you won him is how you will lose him.”

    • @Shadowfate93
      @Shadowfate93 Pƙed 3 lety +29

      I always say if they will cheat with you they will cheat on you

    • @Monasaurus_Rex
      @Monasaurus_Rex Pƙed 3 lety +32

      Especially people who marry someone who cheated on their spouse with them and abandoned their kids. Like how do you see that and say “yeah, that’s the person I want to spend the rest of my life with”

    • @jatwala8295
      @jatwala8295 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      “he/she”
      wow you’re really inclusive

    • @pizzariotin
      @pizzariotin Pƙed 3 lety +6

      @@jatwala8295 then what do u want them to say?

  • @madambutterfly1997
    @madambutterfly1997 Pƙed 3 lety +50

    The way he ghosted her like that that was a stroke of Genius. He managed to flee to the airport get home and pack his ship before she ever realized he had already been out of the country

  • @IsabelLee617
    @IsabelLee617 Pƙed 3 lety +564

    Thank you for putting the story about abusive boyfriends/husbands, but remember women can be abusive and killers too. Stay safe guys!

    • @Avrysatos
      @Avrysatos Pƙed 3 lety +58

      Abusive people are scum period. It is heavily skewed towards men doing that kind of abuse but it’s not exclusive.

    • @cmalin7103
      @cmalin7103 Pƙed 3 lety +51

      Men just get the bad reputation as the most likely suspects in an abusive relationship as they are less likely to report it. Apparently its not 'macho' or 'manly' to seek help when needed, which let's face it is bs.

    • @Richard_Nickerson
      @Richard_Nickerson Pƙed 3 lety +47

      There's that viral video where when the woman was abusing the man in public, people laughed or even egged her on.
      When the guy was abusing the girl in public, people immediately intervened and reprimanded him and separated them.
      That says it all.

    • @hitmonkey2984
      @hitmonkey2984 Pƙed 3 lety +7

      Hear hear.

    • @maineiac114
      @maineiac114 Pƙed 3 lety +14

      @@Richard_Nickerson It might be the WWYD video. I watched it if it's the same one, on the one where the girl is verbally and physically abusive toward the male one of the people who walked by was a off duty police officer who basically just shrugged and said he probably deserved it.

  • @NameNotNumbers
    @NameNotNumbers Pƙed 3 lety +81

    Umm, I think that advice should be extended to guys too. My ex indirectly threatened to kill me and my 1 year old niece. We were long distance but saw each other often enough. We broke up after about 3 years... She told me she was cheating on me. I tried to forgive her and even went through some hard times. She was not supportive and broke up with me. This happened almost every 3 months like clockwork throughout our time together. Finally, tired of her, I denied her crocodile tears and pleas to return as my lover. I told her that I had moved on. As we hadn't seen each other for about 4 months. She begged and called and threatened to show up at my job and make a scene. Voicemail. She threatened to kill herself (her common tactic.) Voicemail. Then, she called again and left a voicemail... It was of her firing a gun on her father's property. She said "do you hear that? Pick up the phone!" Mind you, most of these texts and VM were here fluidly flipping between sadness and anger. Ignored this as she didn't know where I lived anymore. My family frequented my job so I got worried but kinda sat on this development for about half a day when she called again. Shooting the gun calling me the n-word (i am black..) She then threatened my niece, someone she knows i love dearly and was hardly a year old. I called her back and threatened to call the cops if she bothered me or my family again bc I had saved every VM and Text. Its been over 2 years and have not heard from her.

    • @maineiac114
      @maineiac114 Pƙed 3 lety +8

      Smart man to save the info, CYA.

    • @RenAsterion
      @RenAsterion Pƙed 3 lety +9

      ....she reminds me of my own ex-girlfriend, what with the threatening to kill herself thing. she threatened one too many times, and the last time she did that to me, she stopped responding. i knew where she lived. i was scared she'd actually gone through with harming herself. called the cops on her and got her committed for a mental health eval. she was stuck in a psych ward for two weeks. it turned out she'd just gone to bed without telling me that she was doing so, but she never threatened again after that.
      moral of the story? if someone is threatening, take it super seriously and get professionals involved right away. it's 50/50 whether or not they are serious or just using the threat to manipulate you (i'm positive she'd been doing the second one), but if you get them help and they weren't serious, they aren't gonna pull that shit again. having the cops pretty well break down your door, then getting hauled off to the psych ward for eval is not much fun, according to my ex. it's a good way to put your foot down, too. like, "I care about your stupid ass and I'mma make sure you aren't doing anything stupid." should have called on her waaaaay sooner than i did, to be honest. she needed help, though not of the 'this person is a danger to herself' variety.

    • @Manglethefox238
      @Manglethefox238 Pƙed 3 lety

      Oh my God, maybe she didn’t want to go to jail.

  • @jaspr1999
    @jaspr1999 Pƙed 3 lety +281

    That one about the girl staying with her ex's parents tells me that he's not just out of a females life, but out of his own family as well. I hope he found it worth it... Dirtbag!

    • @catsforlife92
      @catsforlife92 Pƙed 3 lety +30

      I did love the fact that they let her stay with them for bit

    • @MrWhit-mp2vn
      @MrWhit-mp2vn Pƙed 3 lety +20

      I hope she filed Domestic Violence charges for him grabbing her by the neck.

  • @MrBenTheBear
    @MrBenTheBear Pƙed 3 lety +253

    It's not only girls that need to beware if the partner making threats. Trust me, when your girlfriend insist you get life insurance and you see a bunch of new steak knives a week later it is time to bail. Thankfully some of us are light sleepers.

    • @natetheskate9948
      @natetheskate9948 Pƙed 3 lety +40

      You sound like you have a story....

    • @rglover444
      @rglover444 Pƙed 3 lety +25

      Red flag central right there.

    • @wta1518
      @wta1518 Pƙed 3 lety +10

      @iDeltaSpark understatement of the year awards goes to...

    • @SaintAlessa
      @SaintAlessa Pƙed 3 lety +10

      Bro you good??

    • @hitmonkey2984
      @hitmonkey2984 Pƙed 3 lety +11

      @@SaintAlessa it's been an hour, I'm not sure.

  • @artemisorwhatever9828
    @artemisorwhatever9828 Pƙed 3 lety +26

    I wanna tell my "caught SO cheating" story!
    We had been dating for almost a year and I thought it was going well, but one day my mother pointed out that I paid for most of our dates and my SO wouldn't ever come over on their own accord, unless of course I was paying for something. We were childhood friends and talked on Facebook a lot, and when I got suspended a week into our relationship, it turns out that they immediately started dating a man from Ohio. I found out when my relative snooped my Ex's facebook and saw all these posts denoting their "undying love" for each other. They had been cheating on me for our ENTIRE relationship. Broke it up with them the moment I knew and never talked to them again.

  • @knitwit9447
    @knitwit9447 Pƙed 3 lety +241

    Honestly? For the stalker one, to all people- don't let your significant other talk to you like that.
    I've had experiences from both genders (pansexual and I had a habit of seeking out abusive partners due to previous trauma) and both are equally terrifying. I couldn't get away from it either.
    I lived in fear for a long time when the first experience happened. I was 12. An older man groomed me, and when I finally got the courage to break it off, he threatened to find me (he'd been pressuring me to tell him where my address was), r*** me, and kill me and my family.
    It continued from there while I struggled with undiagnosed ptsd and dealt with abusive parents.
    Basically, if someone says they're going to kill you? If they stalk you? Don't give them a single damn chance. Do whatever you can to get away. Doesn't matter if they have a mental illness. Your priorities need to be your own safety. They can get help but you are *not* responsible and shouldn't excuse abusive behavior.
    Stay safe.

    • @legendaryhumper
      @legendaryhumper Pƙed 3 lety +3

      I see, that's a real sad story, hope you're doing better.

    • @potato3551
      @potato3551 Pƙed 3 lety

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    • @Avrysatos
      @Avrysatos Pƙed 3 lety +1

      @@potato3551 just report them. They're bots, not actual people.

    • @potato3551
      @potato3551 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      @@Avrysatos ik but screaming at them helps my anger issues

    • @slysylveon
      @slysylveon Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Knitwit, im so sorry for you, i live a sucky life but nowhere near what you and many other people dealt with. I hope you recover from a traumatising past and hope you can aim for a better future.

  • @chimpy564
    @chimpy564 Pƙed 3 lety +2441

    CZcamss getting really comfortable with these double unskipable ads

    • @irishuisman1450
      @irishuisman1450 Pƙed 3 lety +124

      The comment section’s replies are also getting really infested with bots


    • @wta1518
      @wta1518 Pƙed 3 lety +100

      I noticed they increased greatly after I left a 1 star review. Interesting

    • @Name-yv2zq
      @Name-yv2zq Pƙed 3 lety +20

      @@wta1518 same

    • @miramyth2971
      @miramyth2971 Pƙed 3 lety +33

      Idk if this is true but I've noticed that if I skip through ads that have the option, I'm less likely to get longer ads or double ads or unstippable ads. Could just be my own confirmation bias though.

    • @Mini_Moon-ip9hu
      @Mini_Moon-ip9hu Pƙed 3 lety +25

      You can report them with the “ i “ button on the bottom left

  • @mikkixo2242
    @mikkixo2242 Pƙed 3 lety +51

    NOT JUST WOMEN. MEN TOO. if anyone says if they can’t have you then no one will. Take it SERIOUSLY. and stop excluding men because they can be victims too

  • @str2010
    @str2010 Pƙed 3 lety +58

    I was kind of expecting OP and Claire to get together... I guess I've been reading too much fanfiction

    • @frostkilling
      @frostkilling Pƙed 3 lety +5

      Maybe not, I've heard stories of people that found out they had been cheated on, told the partner of the other person that was cheating and then ended up together, I can search the link from where I heard it if you want.

    • @shaniaannfernandes9599
      @shaniaannfernandes9599 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      czcams.com/video/U5gic9DbnBU/video.html here i promise this isn’t a rickroll :)

    • @frostkilling
      @frostkilling Pƙed 3 lety

      @@shaniaannfernandes9599 I can vouch that it isn't a rickroll, tho both the channel owner and editor of that channel do enjoy rickrolling the viewers.

    • @shaniaannfernandes9599
      @shaniaannfernandes9599 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@frostkilling thank you :)

  • @johan_piano
    @johan_piano Pƙed 3 lety +200

    Reddit: Why does my significant another cheat on me
    Me: Bold of you to assume I have a significant other

  • @Khellyyyyyy
    @Khellyyyyyy Pƙed 3 lety +36

    I could relate to the stalking story.
    I used to work at a restaurant a few months back. And i was the only girl there. It also didnt helped that i was assigned the evening shifts. One of the guys was being kinda creepy so I ignored him and avoided him as much as i could during our shifts. A few things that really stuck to me were the things he used to 'joke' about
    1) slashing my car tyres
    2) sneaking into my car when i go home
    3) wanting me to pick him up and drop him off at his house when he doesn't have transportation. Spoiler: he does. So idk why he even say that
    And the climax; he quit the job a month later but would still come hang at the restaurant because he's still friends with the other staffs. But he would always stare at me or side eyed me during his entire stay.
    I told the assistant manager about his behavior and he and some of the guys had been on the look out. The AM even changed my shift to mornings.
    Last week i quit the job because of health issues. He has tried to video called and texted me some about unrelated stuffs out of the blue. I blocked his number immediately. Then i saw him walking around my neighbourhood whilst on my way home from grocery shopping. Luckily my brother was the one driving. When the creep saw my car, he tried to follow us. My brother took some random turns to throw him off and we drove off back to the grocery shop. We had to wait for a long while to make sure that he's gone before going home.
    I've been super anxious and paranoid since then. Barely going out of the house
    Ladies, please take such threats seriously no matter how stupid the guy sounds. People around me didn't take it seriously at first because he's much younger than me. I'm mid 20's while he's barely 18.
    Please please please take precautions and stay safe💕

    • @maineiac114
      @maineiac114 Pƙed 3 lety +7

      Many years ago in the 90's I had a female friend who was being harassed. People who didn't live there would go to the empty room above hers and party loudly then stomp down the stairs and knock on her door repeatedly asking her to party with them. She didn't know them, didn't like them and was becoming afraid for her safety and asked if I could help. Then we hatched a plan. she would go to work that evening (She worked nights) and I would stay at her apartment to keep on eye on things, I brought a book. The friend was big into anime so to pretend it was her I put the VCR tape for Ranma 1/2 in and started reading. I don't care much for anime. Four hours everything was still quiet until about 11:30 PM when I heard multiple people going upstairs. They jimmied the door upstairs went in and started drinking and dancing (loud in an empty apartment) they did that for about a half hour then tromped down the stairs and knocked on her door. I waited for the second knock and whipped the door open looking them straight in the eye, all I said was "What." The look on their faces alone was worth it. They asked who I was. "Her boyfriend" A lie just a protective male friend. They didn't come back especially when I mentioned possibly calling the cops.

    • @Khellyyyyyy
      @Khellyyyyyy Pƙed 3 lety +4

      @@maineiac114 I wish there are more people like you that steps in and help before the 'unthinkable' happens. Thanks for sharing💖

    • @joshuaharmon6684
      @joshuaharmon6684 Pƙed 3 lety +3

      My stalker wasn't nearly as hostile as Khalida's, but it took me eight months to realize I was being stalked in the first place. Made me very uncomfortable wondering how often it happened, since it was a daily occurrence after I became aware. The worst part was that the mutual friends between me and my stalker almost all supported her, not me, the victim. If the genders had been reversed, I'm sure it would have been different. Unfortunately, college students really don't care if a woman stalks a man. Even Title IX didn't care. The only reason the stalking stopped is because I graduated and stopped living on campus.

  • @potato3551
    @potato3551 Pƙed 3 lety +156

    cant get cheated on if you cant get into a relationship 👌

  • @AtotehZ
    @AtotehZ Pƙed 3 lety +16

    I have a 0-tolerance for cheating. A person who has cheated once can never be trusted again. Hold my mates to the same standard.
    Unfortunately my dad cheated on my mom, damn near cut him off completely because of it. I was an adult at the time.
    Cheaters are a lower form of human.

  • @jessymcgowan3494
    @jessymcgowan3494 Pƙed 3 lety +150

    In the story of the Navy, I thought he ex would've come out as gay and was cheating with her with another man

    • @jadenlyons5256
      @jadenlyons5256 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      Homosexual:Aight I’m a head out

    • @SailorMya
      @SailorMya Pƙed 3 lety +3

      I was kinda hoping at least ONE of these stories ended that way! lol

  • @christiantalbert7460
    @christiantalbert7460 Pƙed 3 lety +11

    Imagine calling someone a coward when you purposefully gain weight to leave the navy.

    • @medusagorgo5146
      @medusagorgo5146 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      It’s a shitty thing to do. You sign a contract to do a job, then do the job you were hired to do.

  • @hiimryan2388
    @hiimryan2388 Pƙed 3 lety +31

    R slash I feel is one of those youtubers that actually care about his viewers... ty r slash, thank you for the advices!

  • @Ronasaur
    @Ronasaur Pƙed 3 lety +65

    For the story of the guy who was threatening the girls life I feel RSlash's advice was off.
    No matter your gender don't let anyone talk to you like that.
    And whether you're a guy or girl dont ever talk to someone like that.
    Anyone is capable of violence and everyone has a right to safety regardless of gender.

  • @rontifu
    @rontifu Pƙed 3 lety +8

    Stories of cheaters getting caught just tickle my interest.
    Seriously, I wouldn't mind a part 2 of this.

  • @sovietvirus9270
    @sovietvirus9270 Pƙed 3 lety +42

    Wife: *finds out that husband was cheating on her and she leaves him*
    Husband: *surprised pikachu face*

  • @GoldenSaddle
    @GoldenSaddle Pƙed 3 lety +416

    r/AskReddit But’s Not read by a Bot
    Unless


    • @delta4900
      @delta4900 Pƙed 3 lety +7

      It's unheard of.

    • @someone_with_an_R_ProfilePic
      @someone_with_an_R_ProfilePic Pƙed 3 lety +31

      Plot twist: Rslash IS a robot

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      Unless what

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      Subs to Hitler-san?
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      Nahush Tirumala ah yes because he totally didnt say plot twist

  • @WhoRUTalkingAbout
    @WhoRUTalkingAbout Pƙed 3 lety +37

    People: *I saw them blah blah blah*
    *Other* people: *I saw him cheat on hes final's*

  • @queenofrats
    @queenofrats Pƙed 3 lety +2

    "We got married when I was 17", that's a major red flag here. It's no suprise the relationship didn't last

  • @estrellaescobar5723
    @estrellaescobar5723 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    The parents who defend the woman, instead of get in the side of his cheating son, are inlaws gold.

  • @digitalharmony26
    @digitalharmony26 Pƙed 3 lety +5

    The advice I’ve told my friends about their toxic relationships is; think about your situation from a friends perspective. If a friend was telling you your situation, would you tell them it’s okay? If not, leave. We’re always less tolerant of abusive behaviour when it’s happening to a loved one. Most abuse happens so slowly you don’t even realise and it’s difficult to leave because you don’t notice how bad it is, you have strong feelings or you’re terrified to do so. So people saying “get out” doesn’t help, because it’s rarely that easy. But please listen to people who love you when they say they’re worried and tell someone if you’re worried. You’re better than that ❀

  • @vgamesx1
    @vgamesx1 Pƙed 3 lety +29

    4:05 "malicious bio-terrorism" Ah yes opposed to that friendly/loving bio-terrorism we keep hearing about.

    • @SaintAlessa
      @SaintAlessa Pƙed 3 lety +4

      Friendly bio terrorism is when a spouse farts in bed.

    • @legenddarkrai
      @legenddarkrai Pƙed 3 lety +1

      @@SaintAlessa That's how World War 3 starts

  • @kymberlymlara
    @kymberlymlara Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Thank you for including that story. I was in an abusive relationship as my first serious relationship in high school. If someone had told me none of the abuse was normal I would have gotten 2 and a half years of my life back. In turn I was able to tell friends after that time that it was not normal to be treated like that.

  • @TraceyJeanne
    @TraceyJeanne Pƙed 3 lety +8

    I was going to ask about the cancer story, how he found out - I’m glad that was included

  • @nerouo
    @nerouo Pƙed 3 lety +43

    To everyone of every gender: don't let anyone, no matter their gender, talk to you like that. And never talk to a person like that.
    There, fixed

  • @lvrrherts
    @lvrrherts Pƙed 3 lety +4

    Why he kinda sound like a yandere "if I can't have you, no one can" Yan-chan says this when you kill senpai whenever you snap

  • @natalieleske8382
    @natalieleske8382 Pƙed 3 lety +36

    I know I can look up these posts on my own but I like when rslash reads to me.

    • @blondethunder8912
      @blondethunder8912 Pƙed 3 lety

      Natalie Leske everyone does its called “laziness” and it’s natural to like something getting handed to us for free

    • @natalieleske8382
      @natalieleske8382 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@blondethunder8912 I mean yeah but I mean the way he performs it just makes it feel like a better experience. My inner voice wouldn't do it justice.

    • @RedK5
      @RedK5 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@blondethunder8912 I usually listen while doing things around the house

    • @RedK5
      @RedK5 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@natalieleske8382 I look them up sometimes but sometimes it's not there anymore or I can't find them

  • @twiharryfan212
    @twiharryfan212 Pƙed 3 lety +9

    They stopped talking to me and asked for some space. Their grandma had just died, so I believed them mostly when they said they needed to process her death.
    They were big into GTA V roleplay at the time, and their character had a relationship with another roleplayer on the server... when they asked for some time, I knew they were only asking for time away from me. I could see when they logged onto GTA through Steam notifications.
    After a few days, they messaged to say they wanted to meet him in person and see if it went anywhere.
    I said they either had to break up with me or go chase whatever with him because I would *not* be a back-up bitch if things fell through. And that if they went with him, they would never have a chance of getting me back ever again.
    Those two were broken up within a month, and my ex messaged me every so often for almost a year begging for me back.
    Didn't happen and will never happen.

  • @autumncannon981
    @autumncannon981 Pƙed 3 lety +5

    I found out on my 30th birthday that I had an std from my ex. He got tested and he said his results were negative. in the office they gave him antibiotics for chlamydia, even though he tested negative. I was faithful to him and he claimed he wasn't sleeping with anyone else and said he didn't know how I got my std. Eventually I found out he cheated many times with different women.
    I had been sick and missed a few days of work, so I decided to try to go to work bc I needed money. I had to be at work at 6 am. I couldn't make it at work some I came home. I had been gone one hour. I came home to him makes on my sofa and another women in my house half naked. We broke up after that.

  • @DrCrab-vp2vc
    @DrCrab-vp2vc Pƙed 3 lety +12

    You can't be cheated on if you're never in a relationship. *Finger guns*

  • @RoyalRoses
    @RoyalRoses Pƙed 3 lety

    6:48 felt so real when you said it. Like you genuinely care about the person you're saying it too. Thats really awesome of you RSlash.

  • @reaperlinks8321
    @reaperlinks8321 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    R Slash every since I ran across your CZcams channel by accident and listen to your videos I have never stopped listening to them sense you have quickly become my most favorite CZcamsr that I look forward to listening to everyday keep up the hard work!

  • @emeraldqueen1994
    @emeraldqueen1994 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    First story : even ICE is warmer than that husband’s reaction... I’m so sorry OP! You didn’t deserve that... I hope you’re ok now and have found someone who can take your mind off of the pain wether they’re a platonic or romantic relationship for you

  • @ethribin4188
    @ethribin4188 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    6:48 Same goes for the reverse!
    Guys. If a girl talks to you like that, make sure your safe. No matter your pride or feelimg that you could take her on.
    And ladies, dont talk to a guy like that. It doesnt matter if hes stronger or tougher.
    Dont do it!

  • @lillyglee3354
    @lillyglee3354 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    hey I don't know how many times you get this but...
    thank you. I'm just happy I can listen to someone. Keep up the great work.
    Also you give me the choice to forget about the fire that's nearby me so thank you again!

  • @basicwhitebitch9970
    @basicwhitebitch9970 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Love u rslash please never stop posting đŸ„ș✹ watch u everyday✹

  • @imadeyougay7
    @imadeyougay7 Pƙed 3 lety +13

    When he said he "had" a mom, my heart dropped, then he said she was killed before he turned six and I choked up and my eyes watered

  • @hazemkhaled4759
    @hazemkhaled4759 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    1:30 thats colder than liquid nitrogen

  • @ankyfire
    @ankyfire Pƙed 3 lety

    Thanks for uploading these at perfect time to be goodnight stories :)

  • @coleyallred4795
    @coleyallred4795 Pƙed 3 lety

    I'd love to hear some puppybloopers. Your dynamic is so cute, it just brightens my day

  • @splitinsanity1139
    @splitinsanity1139 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    Oh god i got flashbacks listening to this.
    I was in my second long term relationship (my 6th boyfriend) and we had been going out for a little over a year and one night he was going to stay with me, he came over and i gor a weird gut feeling and he later (after a couple drinks) broke down crying saying he had kissed another girl who infact was one of my friends. He then went to the toilet and i looked through his phone because I didnt think it was the full story, he came back in the room mouth agape at me crying at flirty messages and plans to meet and shack up with another girl he's never met.
    We broke up a week later.

  • @Discotechque
    @Discotechque Pƙed 3 lety +3

    Ah yes, passionate hugging. The bane of existence for engaged couples.

  • @silverflight01
    @silverflight01 Pƙed 3 lety

    Honestly, seeing something like that thumbnail would be the funniest moment of my week!
    Also, I could’ve gotten the police on that stalker.

  • @jojopok7722
    @jojopok7722 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    I want more entitled people stories on....I demand you follow through or I will speak to your manager!
    Could not resist :P I just love your videos. Your commentary is on point :D I've been telling all my friend to go and check your channel out. Keep up a good work

  • @heneke4341
    @heneke4341 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    10:55 Imagine how funny of a revenge it would've been if he also took her passport.

  • @benc3825
    @benc3825 Pƙed 3 lety +5

    How’s your day rslash? I currently have a record wind speed of 100mph-ish classified as a category 2 hurricane in Utah, a power pole has been on fire for 9 hours and I haven’t had power for a day

  • @jamiestech7551
    @jamiestech7551 Pƙed 3 lety

    I love the way RSlash Uploads Every Day When I’m Having Lunch :)

  • @rykersmimi
    @rykersmimi Pƙed 3 lety

    Kudos to you RSlash for including that story about the horror of domestic violence! You chose public knowledge and safety over monetary gain. You could’ve and probably did safe someone’s life by keeping that in this video.
    ***bonus I’ve seen about 3 ads so far in this video! So yeah doing the right thing is paying off 😊

  • @kyo3991
    @kyo3991 Pƙed 3 lety +6

    My dad cheated on my mom 46 years together meant nothing

  • @crashbandicoochie987
    @crashbandicoochie987 Pƙed 3 lety +18

    I feel like the 9 people who disliked this video are people who got caught đŸ’â€â™‚ïž

  • @mohdjet
    @mohdjet Pƙed 3 lety +1

    I love rslash videos even more when I’m early

  • @graciet9882
    @graciet9882 Pƙed 3 lety

    Hi Rslash! I love your videos, I havent even watched it yet, but I know it's a good one.

  • @lxagamer3380
    @lxagamer3380 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    6:47, if you guy listeners are ever talked to like that, believe them too.

  • @natetheskate9948
    @natetheskate9948 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    6:35 You should probably mention that both men and women could be that crazy, and both men and women should be cautious about it.

  • @OldSoul_0113
    @OldSoul_0113 Pƙed 3 lety

    Im living for these

  • @samtenpenny4925
    @samtenpenny4925 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Hey I just wanted to say that I love your videos and they always brighten up my day

  • @masonbollen9829
    @masonbollen9829 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    The thumbnail he used the guy actually falls like 2 stories.

  • @thekinghimselfscourge2452
    @thekinghimselfscourge2452 Pƙed 3 lety +7

    The first story their divorce date is sadly the same day and year me and my so got back together

    • @chopin6087
      @chopin6087 Pƙed 3 lety

      Here’s some advice, idk but happened with you and your so, but if they cheated or hurt you remember they can do it again.

  • @controlezYT
    @controlezYT Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Yo i love the 1,000,000 subscribers special this man was in quarantine before corana

  • @danielacortese5242
    @danielacortese5242 Pƙed 3 lety

    your videos always keep me company at work. Tnahk you for that. Sending love from Argentina

  • @hexbox2182
    @hexbox2182 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    So basically everyone got caught. Nice

  • @Spiritwingz56
    @Spiritwingz56 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    Might I add, Ladies don't ever talk to a man like that.

  • @steamie98
    @steamie98 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Rslash when he reads a sad post:
    *oh no*
    *anyway*

  • @pocketdragon8469
    @pocketdragon8469 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    He was cold as ice, willing to sacrifice his love.

  • @3minutes374
    @3minutes374 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    Just remember! The way you get with them is probably the way you’ll lose them.

  • @simplywonderful449
    @simplywonderful449 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    My beautiful, loving wife and I have been married for over 44 years, with continuing faithfulness by both of us. I firmly believe that the cheating partner in a marriage shouldn't receive ANY financial benefits, not "half", etc., and in most circumstances should NOT be given custody of any children if they were at fault. Obviously there may be exceptions, but I'm really tired of hearing about people messing around and walking away with half the assets a couple has accumulated over time. I'm also amazed at those who actually think that they can "change" that abusive guy or girl "if they could only marry them". I'm sorry to have to tell you this, but its very rare that some girl or guy is going to change because they married you. If they cheated on THEIR spouse to marry you, they've ALREADY proven themselves to be untrustworthy, so what makes YOU think they won't do it again?
    And it makes me wonder how a couple like that could have walked down the aisle with a sparkle in their eye as they looked forward to what the future held for their life together.

  • @corbinfisher3246
    @corbinfisher3246 Pƙed 3 lety

    damn i haven't been subbed for long and i already think i will NEVER unsub, thanks for the amazing reddit stories rSlash

  • @dakurlzzmask8695
    @dakurlzzmask8695 Pƙed 3 lety

    I can hear the sorry in your voice while reading these. Its adds to how upsetting these stories are

  • @sheikie7960
    @sheikie7960 Pƙed 3 lety +16

    When I was in my twenties I had an ex tell me "IF I CAN'T HAVE YOU NO ONE CAN" I had a 2 year old. I snapped told my boyfriend and friends about. And let's just say he thought better about his choice of words and staying in town.

  • @strictmizu
    @strictmizu Pƙed 3 lety +4

    R/slash vs a bot reading
    Begin
    R/slash says one word:
    A bot reading: OMG HIS VOICE ITS SO SMOOTHING

  • @ashleyyoung796
    @ashleyyoung796 Pƙed 3 lety

    When I saw this video of a naked man hanging on the window edge, I thought that he needed to cover up his small shriveled raisins. No one wants to see his raisins, as well as every part of the food group.đŸ€Ł

  • @JustANoobAnimator
    @JustANoobAnimator Pƙed 3 lety

    Your voice is very calming and your laughter is awesome I just wanna tell you that also I'm a huge fan :D

  • @fbi1647
    @fbi1647 Pƙed 3 lety +17

    F for the people that got cheated on

    • @izunahosaki6133
      @izunahosaki6133 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      And f the people who cheat

    • @hegpxl
      @hegpxl Pƙed 3 lety

      @@izunahosaki6133 I do not pay respects to the people who cheat.

    • @izunahosaki6133
      @izunahosaki6133 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@hegpxl woosh?

    • @hegpxl
      @hegpxl Pƙed 3 lety

      ​@@izunahosaki6133 Imagine using woosh in 2020 and to make it seem that I committed stupid. Truly a redit moment

    • @izunahosaki6133
      @izunahosaki6133 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@hegpxl there's a difference between 'f the people' and 'F for the people' that's all. i'm sorry if i hurt u

  • @kinglod2312
    @kinglod2312 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    This is going to sound kind of evil but I guess for the cheater they're other wasn't very significant

  • @Chtis.
    @Chtis. Pƙed 3 lety

    It feels good to wake up at 8 in the morning to see a new video for me

  • @tsg6825
    @tsg6825 Pƙed 3 lety

    using these videos as podcasts has improved my productivity so much

  • @tazzyturtle8321
    @tazzyturtle8321 Pƙed 3 lety +479

    We are so early

  • @KCCAT5
    @KCCAT5 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    My ex-husband Was a Serial cheater, that sucked

    • @friskandchara3506
      @friskandchara3506 Pƙed 3 lety

      u mean serial murderer?

    • @akl2k7
      @akl2k7 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@friskandchara3506 They probably meant serial cheater. It means someone who has sex with people they're not in a relationship with one after another.

  • @LucyAdroit
    @LucyAdroit Pƙed 3 lety

    8:02 OMG, you have TOTALLY covered this story before!!

  • @americanswefish7740
    @americanswefish7740 Pƙed 3 lety

    Love listening to this when I shower when I come home from school

  • @monkeybut
    @monkeybut Pƙed 3 lety +4

    4:04 if I rmemeber correctly thos is law or something similar to this and it was in a r/facepalm video were I believe California removed that law and there was a spike in STDs

  • @prarthananirmalkumar6407
    @prarthananirmalkumar6407 Pƙed 3 lety +17

    Me: *sees 0 dislikes*
    Me: "Thats what I like to see!"

    • @ecktimusprime3812
      @ecktimusprime3812 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Just to piss you off I disliked this even though I wanted to like

  • @emisthem6562
    @emisthem6562 Pƙed 3 lety

    Hearing rSlash swear is like being given cookies by your grandmother

  • @TheOriginalGOC
    @TheOriginalGOC Pƙed 3 lety

    Your awesome for posting that and spreading awareness, even though it may have cost you monetization.

  • @sevdarastrix6413
    @sevdarastrix6413 Pƙed 3 lety +5

    This is the first time Ive disagreed with a final comment on something RSlash, Guys can be abused by women too and threatened, anyone can abuse anyone in a relationship, gender does not matter.

  • @chrometn7556
    @chrometn7556 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Who remembers when this guy was like on 200 something subs, it's absolutely insane, oh how time flies

  • @daviddeclerck7584
    @daviddeclerck7584 Pƙed 3 lety

    Been listening for a while and I do like lot how you addressed both parties about stalking, not just the women.

  • @TogeCian
    @TogeCian Pƙed 3 lety +11

    My dad cheated on my mom and they where together for 19 years, I now hate him for what he did to my mom