how to REALLY be a high value woman | high value traits, what to avoid & femininity tips
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- čas přidán 16. 05. 2024
- THIS is what being a high value woman REALLY MEANS. In this video, I cover the true meaning of high value women, the traits and habits of high value women, the traits of 'low value women', how to adopt a high value woman routine and lifestyle and finally HVW affirmations. IT'S TIME TO BE YOUR BEST SELF... ENJOY xxx
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I really dislike gossiping and bitching about people and that's why it's difficult for me to fit in college groups. For a long period of time I thought I'm boring but now I realise it's a remarkable and high value trait. Proud of myself.🤗
I’m like this too, and not everyone likes me for it but gossiping is so lame I’m ok to disappoint people who do spread hate and drama! Keep at it girl, the right people will find you!
I feel this! Could relate well.
oh god same
same but I always follow into the trap especially because it’s so prevalent in todays society😭 I feel that there’s nothing else to talk about which is sad because it feels like gossip brings people together
oof can totally relate. Every time I spend time with a group it feels like all they want to do is talk about other people and the negativity is very uncomfortable:(
Dont mind me, just taking notes
Traits :
1. Not everybody gets you, they earn you ; its a privilege to be in your space ; treat yourself high value
2. She is kind and compassionate and mature : radiate love, be at peace, be more acceptable
3. She is addicted to her self development ; be detached from everything
4. Femininity
5. Self worth, love and care
Lifestyle
1. She wakes up early
2. She gets her workout done
3. She does her skincare
4. She eats a healthy breakfast
5. She puts effort in her appearance
6. She unwinds herself for starting the second half of the day
7. She eats or cooks a healthy dinner
8. She goes through all the task with the best attitude
9. She journals
10. She goes to bed with peace
In friendships
1. Detachment
2. Doesnt surround with people just for the sake of it
Affs in comment section
tysm imma write this in my note book
How does one copy this 😂 honestly need to learn how to be a high value woman with all my baggage and mistakes made
thanks, i have a hard time listening to her tone of voice no hate, just overstimulated
Thanks! I listen to this video while I’m in the train, so I couldn’t take any notes, so this really help me❤❤
This is literally like just a basic everyday routine.. how is this high value
21:19 "Someone else's beauty is not the absence of your own" wow.
It's okay to feel jealous. It's a natural feeling. What matters is how you react.
True!
wow
I am a man, but actually I find this video way more helpful and useful than many ''high-value man'' videos I've seen on youtube. Some of them are just focused on how to make money and get to work instead of processing your feelings, healing your traumas etc.
I just want to heal, accept myself and build a solid foundation for self-esteem and self-development.
I also want to share an important fact: I know from personal experience that men can fall into abusive relationships with narcissistic/abusive individuals as easily as women. Everyone struggles with self-esteem and everyone needs to heal, men should embrace femininity too.
You're right bro, good luck
@nivekkito Love your comment! as a girl, I also love my masculine energy ! and you are right!
“Just because I know how to be independent doesn’t mean I have to take control of everything and I can’t allow anyone to do anything to me” I loved it ❤️
1. exclusivity - be picky who you spend your time with
2. be kind and considerate but not a people pleaser
3. how will i fix my insecurities? have a mission. start with a purpose for the day, “you know where you’re going”
4. femininity - allow yourself to receive affection and people providing for you. “just because you know you can be independent, doesn’t mean you should be 24/7.”
5. balance - take care of yourself and don’t let emotions control your life. feel them, don’t suppress them.
“high value people don’t attach accomplishment to your self worth” - you become unplayable.
As a fellow South Asian Brown woman, it is so refreshing to see Tam speak of living an easy and soft life!! Especially because so often Brown women are expected to sacrifice for other people and spend their life pleasing others. Thank you for being a rolemodel, Tam!! I'm so glad to be learning so much from you and finally understanding that I too absolutely deserve to be THAT woman!! 🙏🏽💗🥰 Sending so much love towards you!!
omg I love this so much. thank you for the sweetest comment ever !! 🧡
Someone finally said it. Yes!! This! Brown women generally are all facing this. We are brainwashed into feeling "selfish" if we prioritise ourselves & our needs growing up as girls, so we all become people pleasers as Adults.
99% of the convo I have with my dearest family/friends is about other people & how overworked they feel doing so much for them. Even if the conversation is about the worry they have for others. Even if I want to try have a catch up with them.
I have begun to invest my time in more positive spaces & I set boundaries now. That will never be me again :) x
@@rushialeema8321 Same here girl.
As a fellow brown girl ( Indian), we are made to believe that sacrificing ourselves, especially for our in-laws, spouse and parents is something virtuous.
A lot of us end up being a pick-me and Barbara the builders who have no control over our own lives and our destiny are often controlled by others(especially the men of our family)
I heard this best, my families Italian and sometimes we also can be like this. The mammone culture. But I heard imagine your a cup, give from your overflow, not your depletion.
I think this is exclusive to religious and rural communities everywhere as well
I didn’t get five minutes into the video and was already hollering “yessss!” after every sentence. Every second was absolute gold. This vid was beyond amazing and I wish every women could watch it. The advice is one hundred percent nail on the head accurate and so vitally important. High value has nothing to do with what you look like and everything do with how you carry and take care of yourself.
exactly!!! it's basically the amount value you're giving to yourself nothing controversial there
At first I thought it's some, " Alpha men podcast " High value woman, thankfully it's not 😂😂😂😂
So happy I've grown to become a high-value woman! I'm 18 and I truly want to become the best version of myself everday.
Tam and the wizardliz are top tier podcasters!
Wow I love the part about not controlling your partner. I was in a five year relationship and he always wanted to go out without me. I never complained, I let him be an individual. The truth finally came out and wishing a year of the break up I met the most loving amazing man who cherishes me and supports me and we are now planning our wedding. What’s not for you will never be yours, but what is will come and find you
This was so hard for me to swallow because I knew something was going on with my boyfriend and his coworker years ago and I thought if I could show him I'm no idiot and confront him about every little thing that it would stop. What a silly girl lol.
@@EchoCTango yeah it’s so sad, but what’s meant for you will always be yours and what isn’t meant never will be. A lot of times what we think we want isn’t even close to what we are about to receive. Surrender, faith, and trust!
Thanks to you , I’ve began journaling, when I’m angry , sad , happy or normal and I just feel okay writing my thoughts and not having to consider how my words will affect someone . I used to ran to a friend to talk to but now my diary is my closest friend and however my day went , I write it down .
That’s wonderful.
YOU are your own best friend ❤
Affirmations mentioned by Tam Kaur in this video
Thank you!,,
"The kind of people you want, are looking for you too". This comment section is a solid proof!
omg, i no longer have to feel so alone anymore and suffer the criticism of others for not joining the crowd. THANK YOU!!!!
TAM YOU ARE GROWING SOOO FAST!!! I’m so proud of you! You’re like a big sister I’ve never had. I’m also a young Punjabi girl (16) and I PRAYYY I can become a influencer when I’m older
You definitely will young lady ❤️
@@ayushmitachakraborty3414 awww Tysm. Sending you the best engery ever, I hope you become you’re dream women in no time❤️
you got this girlie 💖💖💖
@@macygreene3622 thank you Macy❤️
I am Punjabi too!! 15btw..... Hope you achieve whatever you want in life...
POV : you took your heartbreak personally.
This!!!
i can not express how quickly a smile apeared on my face when you said that just because im watching these type of videos im already a potentional for a HVW, ilysm Tam you changed my prespective on life SO much
One of my favourite rituals is putting on a new video from you while I'm doing a mindless copying-by-hand sort of assignment; staying on top of things while also treating myself to wonderfully structured, non judgemental, nuanced pearls of wisdom. Thank you so much for all your work! 💝
Siento que eres esa amiga que te dice tú puedes y haste dueña ello, esa persona que te motiva a seguir siendo la mejor versión de tí y eso es algo que siempre agradeceré porque me motivas muchísimo cuando estoy deprimida 💗
okay, I am just in love with your content... so grateful for this videos you make for us thank you so much to help us to uplift ourselves and raise our standards THANK YOU SO MUCH TAM KAUR ! 💖
What you said at 5:21, ‘me just clicking on this video and wanting to learn more’ is so empowering! ✨ Im in my learning phase where I’m reading and writing and learning about all these different ways and tips on how to improve myself yet I feel like I’m never there! 😭 but I continue to remind myself that at least I’m taking a step to get better! God bless you for the love ❤️
stepping into a very "rebrand" era in some areas in my life and this vid was exactly what i needed rn .
your energy is on one 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 you are literally wording everything perfectly. the videos and you are effortless!! keep shining and sharing the wisdom. i see you woman! sending love & light to you 💚✨
Love how detailed and helpful your videos always are! Thank you for all the effort you put innnn ❤
i think the term “high value woman” is misleading and can be weaponized by misogynistic men. the way i interpret this is you are already valuable. you inherently have value, but you may not treat yourself as if you have value.
I have been around here for almost an hour watching your others videos waiting for this week's video 😍 I just LOVE your energy and all of your advice , thank you from the bottom of my heart , your advice has truly helped me ❤❤
I am ECSTATIC I found your page. I've been listening to you and SheRa Seven for the past week and I already feel like a different, more improved woman.
I've been so much happier and realized there is nothing wrong with me, I was just dating low vibrational people out of fear of seeming materialistic or "spoiled". Little did I know I actually deserve to be spoiled.
Thank you both and women like you so so much. 🖤 This is the change I needed after being clinically depressed for as long as I could remember.
Thank you Tam for motivating me to be better! Love you hope you're good!😌❤
High Value Affirmations:
I am my biggest fan
The only opinion that matters is my own because I am only living to please myself
I am capable of my wildest dreams and I owe it to myself to achieve them
I will live my dream life
I will never compare myself to anyone because my journey and character is unique and something that cannot be replicated. That is something to be treasured rather than compared
I believe that everything works out in my favour and that my life is abundant in all areas
I am fulfilled and happy with the life that I have created for myself and I don’t need anyone or anything to come and save me from it
I only choose to surround myself with those who uplift me and reciprocate my energy and my value
Wow your channel have grown a lot for just a few weeks. You deserve it. Thank you so much, you’re such an inspiration. 🎉❤
all of your vids just inspire me so much to be a better version of myself
Just started on a new journey of self development and lately I've been working on my value I have to give myself. This was the very right time to watch THIS video!!
Wow!! I needed this SO much. You speak through gods words girl. You’re so powerful✨✨✨ thank you for sharing this incredible energy with all of us
Girl! This is such a wholesome video! Loved how you laid this out. 🙌
“People don’t get you, they earn you” spill me some tea Tam😍🥳. We high valuing henceforth 😀💃💃💃. Thank you 💝
I recently found this channel and I’m really loving the energy here. The HVW stuff isn’t new to me, but Tam approaches in a way that doesn’t put me on guard if that makes sense. I hate HVW being only discussed in the context of dating or ‘being worthy’ of a HVM. A HVW being a woman stepping a way from toxic social media habits or just making sure she’s good with herself (not for someone else’s approval) that’s so much more relatable to me.
Love the earlier sarcasm in the video and the passion you use to speak about the topic. LOVE you girl
i literally journal down all these affirmations tam. Love them!
I love these videos Tam!! It’s also amazing watching your channel grow and get the recognition you deserve🥹 I’m the oldest child in my family, but watching your videos makes me feel like you’re the older sister I never had with all the good advice and wisdom❤️ You’re amazing :-)
Me tooo!~ ^^, wishing you goodluck being the best version of yourself sis~💖💖
I found your channel a few days ago and I'm in love! Thank you for a lot of inspiration and positive energy 🤍
After liz, u r my fav CZcamsr ngl, I don't usually comment but girl, thanks for showing up in my feed, wish u the best ❤
Hey I'm new to your channel but I've already watched all of your videos. You've become my comfort channel. Just listening to you in the background when I'm studying gets me out of that anxious depressed desperate state... It's like you validate my feminine energy and emotions which aren't accepted generally. Coz people usually discourage others to set their boundaries but listening to you gives me that validation to keep loving and prioritizing myself. I hope you keep making more videos and especially more on feminine energy, detachment and self love and confidence. I'd love to watch more videos about accepting the bare minimum in a relationship. Maybe you can dive deep in that. Anyway much love 💗❤
I've been in an awful rut for over 2 months. I'm so grateful I found you.
ill clean my depression room now, i feel so much better:D
Thank you so much for this video. This is exactly what I needed to hear❤
Damn girl! You literally the ace.. I literally love how pragmatic and authentic your words and thoughts are.. and the rapport which you create with your viewers is something eccentric! Hope you know that.. Remain at the pursuit of your health and happiness..♥️🧿
Tam I freakin loved this. I love how you really go in depth and explain what is need to be done to become high value
Keep up the amazing content ❤❤❤❤❤😊😊
You came into my life when I needed you the most...sign from universe ig
Love your content girl 💖 keep growing and keep glowing 🌹
I needed this SO much today!! Thank you for the effort & heart you’ve put into this ❤
New subscriber after watching about 5 of your videos. You are probably the 1st person who has truly spoken to me. I feel like I have such a fire in my belly to change my life, become a high value waman, becoming emotionally intelligent and so much more. Wish me luck on working on all areas. I do criticise, judge, have victim mentality, why is everything against me. Basically everything you mentioned in your EI video but I'm well aware of all this and I'm determined to completely reinvent myself, work on my traumas etc x
I super love your advice, you're really helpful in my self development journey
My perspective shifts and I feel myself growing with every video I watch and implement into my life! Could you make a journaling video next?
Thank you Tam so so much for this video, listening to you whilst I journal... my best friend just got into a high ranking, prestigious university a few hours ago from which I was rejected from. I love her and I'm genuinely so happy for her, yet I hate the underlying jealousy I have because of it. But because of this video, I'm reminding myself to not let it affect me, not to obsess over it, and that we all have different timelines of success.
I love that you are so self aware and honest to yourself❤️❤️ your success is gonna arrive very soon pe proud of yourself for trying and give yourself compassion ❤️ lots of love to you darling from Germany 💕
Thank you for the great input! I feel so much better ❤
THANK YOU FOR ALL OF YOUR VIDEOS AND YOU BEING WHO YOU ARE!!! I’m starting my journey after my ex broke up with me a couple weeks ago. Your videos are already so helpful. 💕💕
YOU GOT THIS🥹✨✨✨
i love your videos. i'm from germany and there are only a few youtubers who deal with the topic. I have been dealing with feminine energy and self-healing etc. for a few months and my life has changed completely and more and more positively. your videos bring me even further. Thank you 🫶
New subscriber here :) thank you for this video Tam, I really needed to hear this as I feel that I have drifted away from my femininity journey. This is such a huge help with getting back on track ❤
You’re so amazziing Tam ! Thank you so much !!❤️
I watched 7 mins, and I love it already so so much! I love your energy ❤️!
I could relate to every line so much. Pretty well said, thank you for the assurance! 💕
My favorite CZcamsr ❤️ thank you for all that you do
Hey Tam!
I am jumping straight here after watching your YT video (HVW). I was going through a mental breakdown and your video popped up and it just felt like a therapy to me.
I just wanna appreciate you and send in all the love for being this person online who’s out there inspiring us women and enlightening us to be our best!✨
I am kinda emotional rn because it really hit me hard and reminded me of who I really was and how I was losing myself.
Can’t wait to watch all your videos and learn more about myself and level up😌🌸
Love,
Aayat
Wow. I am so impressed by the quality and effort in this video!! Not to mention the most inspiring and powerful message. Had to subscribe 😊 keep up the great work!!
Tam this video (and all your other vids obvi) are pure gold. I love how wise you are for your age. You are glowing and radiating, you present so well, and I love your passion. Keep up the amazing work queen 💖
Thank you so much!! You are absolutely glowing. Any tips on where I can find high value friendships/relationships? They seem so rare! But I feel like it's so much easier to grow as a person when you're surrounded by supportive people
I just adore you! Thank you for spreading this great message.
Absolutely love this 🙏🏼 powerful words ❤
I love your vibe & channel your makeup is beautiful thank you for sharing all the positivity! ❤
Claiming everything you said. Thank you my love❤️
You pretty much described what a Proverbs 31 woman is. But watching your video has made me realize that I am a high valued woman. I have areas I need to work on of course but I have more worth then I realized. Im.still healing from.so much but God has brought me to that place of love, peace, joy and enlightment. You are super inspirational. God bless you. ❤
Wow this one hit me hard- alot of tough love here that I needed
I’ve subscribed to this Channel as soon as I’ve seen the vibrational chart. I don’t like other Chanel’s who focus on toxic ways, I strongly love this Channel and takes loving compassion angle to self healing and growth. Focusing on oneself being better each day an diner work. Thank you Tam xx
"be 1% better than yesterday" is the simple trick to achieve success.
the high value women thing is so engraved in my mind after watching this ,I was genuinely searching for smtg like this and here i found you.
Ofc I m subscribing you
You're videos are really good , i really get postive wibes from them i changed myself a lot :) ❤
girl this is literal gold. u helped me acknowledge low-quality vibes that were so normalised. can you suggest podcasts/ content/ things to do to get out of this rathole of low quality environment and surround yourself with high quality energies.
It was so fun hearing you talk about subjects like that! Gonna watch all your videos right now 😅😊❤
You are so important to me !!!❤thanks for those useful advice 🎉
hey girl I know this is off topic but- PLEASE can we get a room tour? I am in awe with your setup space!
You are so well-spoken. Everything you said was explained perfectly. Thank you so much!
Best video of the year, I needed this ❤
I love your video❤❤ your doing a great job babe this is so helpful⭐️🥰👏🏻
Hello , I am watching you from Kazakhstan, and I just want to say: thank you! Thank you very much, you are helping me a lot in the way to become a person of my dream 😭❤️
Ahhh finally!!!waited the whole week thank you for all your advice appreciate you❤
Hope you enjoyed it!🥹
Tam I am so happy to have found u...u r like a big sister giving advice to all of us Thank u so much n love u❤
Girl I just found your podcast! Sooooo excited to listen! 🤩
I’ve made my vision boards and consistently been doing selfcare at night as well as in morning ,doing gym since 4 months ,I feel 10x better❤❤entering 2024 with the high value confident girl vibes>3 ❤❤Thankyou tam!may god bless you!
All what she's saying is mentioned in our relegion Islam alhamdoulilah 💗
You're so much younger than I am - you could be my daughter and yet here I am in my early 40s listening to your pearls of wisdom. You're an old soul.
Omg how are you wise 😊❤😅love that for you ❤it’s so uplifting to watch your videos! This reminds me to be grateful for the kindness towards myself and value my self worth. Seeing your Channel is a blessing because I used to read books and articles about self improvement and hearing these topics in your video spoken so assertively gives affirmation that there is meaning in good morals, because I resonate with the parts you spoke about ❤❤❤thanks for a great topic to vocalise xx
I got to learn a lot of things from this video.. Thank you so much!❤✨
Just the right timing Tam❤ thank you ☺️
You spoke so well...I loved your Myth 1..Many videos were of leveling up to become desirable....Sis it's not someone else...grow for urself... Waiting for more videos.. Much love babe ❤
TAM!!!! Your words heal a broken person💡
this is a very powerful message! thank you
Hello Tam Kaur, your videos are so inspiring and helpful for young ladies in their personal development and dating life as well. Thank you so much for your sharing as it did add lots of value to my life
Wow, I'm so grateful that I came across this video. THANK YOU!!
All of your videos ground me and helps me to see myself in an objective and clear way. You put me back on track and I appreciate you so so much. Thank you for the work you're doing in women's lives 🕊️🙏🏼💞
Amazing video ❤️
Captivated from start to finish.
I loved the affirmations at the end.
Thank you for creating such powerful content!
I just found you. And i really like your vibe and I'm living for it. Thanks 😍