HOW TO HAVE CALM CONFIDENCE.

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  • čas přidán 30. 08. 2016
  • In this video, I share some insight on how you develop a calm confidence and be more comfortable in your own skin.
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Komentáře • 83

  • @malakqueen9895
    @malakqueen9895 Před 7 lety +60

    Wow I love this, I'm a Muslim girl and I feel very odd when I go out everyone just stares at me because I'm wearing a hijab and dressed very modest. Even when I talk to people they give me this vibe that I'm different. But like you said embrace it and accept that not everyone is going to like because it can be so exhausting! Thank you! Your videos help me a lot.

    • @alishaanimations3058
      @alishaanimations3058 Před 2 lety +5

      I WANT TO BE A CALM MUSLIM GIRL TOO!
      My number one phrase is “Put your trust in Allah.”

  • @ericagoehring1089
    @ericagoehring1089 Před 7 lety +27

    When I was growing up, I didn't like the dimples in my cheeks because they drew so much attention from everyone. Then I got my wisdom teeth out, and while I was numb, my dimples disappeared! I didn't look like myself! That experience made me love my dimples. I am so glad that two of my kids have them, too.

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  Před 7 lety +2

      Thank you for sharing, Erica :) It's so beautiful that you can see that trait that you love in your children ♥

    • @Lemon1705
      @Lemon1705 Před 7 lety +4

      Your comment made me smile 😊 my boyfriend has got dimples and I hope up our kids will have them later too ☺️

    • @true4585
      @true4585 Před 2 lety

      It really is that way. Appreciate yourself as you are.

  • @aiyeesia364
    @aiyeesia364 Před 6 lety +11

    I feel especially pulled to this video. I’ve always excelled at many things when I was younger and I felt absolutely threatened when this girl showed up from nowhere. Everyone’s attention turned to her because she was better than me in every aspect in school. Prettier, more interesting, more charming and charismatic. I was torn so I gave up everything that I loved doing and moved schools. I feel pathetic even now but I’m trying to get myself sorted out before university. I realise it wasn’t her that was my problem. It was my excessive self-pity and zero self-confidence that brought me down. Anyway, I feel much better watching your video. New subscriber! ☺️💖

  • @darianajimenez3081
    @darianajimenez3081 Před 7 lety +13

    A few things: -I needed to watch this video. -I like your new haircut! You look fresh. - I love your contribution to our world.
    Thanks for sharing your positivity. :)

  • @TheNicoliyah
    @TheNicoliyah Před 7 lety +7

    I can't imagine who would dislike you. One if my favourite qualities about myself is that I am really really open minded and I can really empathise with people. As a result my friends know that they can tell me anything and I won't judge them

  • @ftoommozb6386
    @ftoommozb6386 Před 2 lety +3

    Don't treat every single word you hear from others as if it does identify you. Thanks for your conference ... Great video.. 👍🌹

  • @ZoeyArielle
    @ZoeyArielle Před 7 lety +2

    Great video Melissa :) I always love hearing your thoughts! You're so refreshing!

  • @AnokinaShahbaz
    @AnokinaShahbaz Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you for this video and for breaking down the attributes of calm confidence. Can you please do a video on how to stop caring what others think so much and get past needing everyone to like you? This is something I have struggled with forever and would love your input and how you got past it. thanks so much!

  • @helendanakis3078
    @helendanakis3078 Před 7 lety

    I really enjoy your videos Melissa. It's as if you take all my inner thoughts and find a way to express them in a way i struggle to do. You are a truly inspiring person!

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  Před 7 lety

      Aww..thank you for saying that, Helen! It's great to know that the love I'm putting out there is being received :) I'm glad you enjoy the videos ♥

  • @Dariadaria
    @Dariadaria Před 7 lety

    One of the best videos I have ever seen here on CZcams. Thank you Melissa!

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  Před 7 lety

      Thank you! ♥ I'm glad you enjoyed it :) I hope you're having a great weekend! xx

  • @sunisteph
    @sunisteph Před 7 lety +1

    Such an awesome video and I really enjoy how articulate you are for presenting your ideas. I loved this video! thank you Melissa!

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  Před 7 lety

      Thank you so much! That's such a nice compliment... I appreciate it :)

  • @Youtubefoyu
    @Youtubefoyu Před 7 lety

    Love this topic! Thank you so much for sharing. It's so important to accept who we are and embrace our own flaws.

  • @slew4447
    @slew4447 Před 7 lety

    love your inspirational positivity it radiates from the inside out 😊 thank you for taking the time to make these videos have a wonderful day 🙃

  • @musiclover3493
    @musiclover3493 Před 7 lety +1

    "Part of my experience" really spoke to me. Subscribed! :)

  • @natalielabarga8605
    @natalielabarga8605 Před 7 lety +1

    Just found you on CZcams and I love your videos & your lifestyle. Thank you for making these videos, it really does show a different perspective on life that I don't have but am striving for.

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  Před 7 lety

      Thanks, Natalie :) I'm glad you enjoyed the video. xx I hope you have a great week!

  • @srm4802
    @srm4802 Před rokem

    I genuinely love this❤️

  • @sanneskar1
    @sanneskar1 Před 7 lety +3

    Love your videos so much! You seem to be such a nice person and I love your personality! xx

  • @rubyomaraholt
    @rubyomaraholt Před 5 lety

    This video helped me so much, thank you ❤️

  • @mohammadsaneen9729
    @mohammadsaneen9729 Před 5 lety

    Ty for saying these words inspired me a lot

  • @kriselvis4890
    @kriselvis4890 Před 2 lety

    This is the confidence I desire

  • @vinceandeo761
    @vinceandeo761 Před 4 lety

    I like all you said. Very useful to me. God bless you!

  • @thewellsoul8879
    @thewellsoul8879 Před 7 lety +2

    I always your sit down talks but this one especially spoke to me :)

  • @simranbafna
    @simranbafna Před 6 lety +2

    Excellent!! It feels so good to listen to you. Thanks a lot :)

  • @giladeliezer9604
    @giladeliezer9604 Před rokem

    Thank you you helped me a lot

  • @inspiredliving7410
    @inspiredliving7410 Před 7 lety +2

    great message, lets learn to embrace who we truly are not what we are trying to be.

  • @hannahsmith9611
    @hannahsmith9611 Před 7 lety

    Love you Melissa. You've changed my life.

  • @carmelomedina2386
    @carmelomedina2386 Před 6 lety +1

    Great video thanks I found it to be very helpful

  • @diverstalent
    @diverstalent Před 7 lety

    Thank you, Melissa!

  • @mariaocampo7240
    @mariaocampo7240 Před 7 lety +2

    I needed this kind of advice

  • @SenseAGHam
    @SenseAGHam Před 5 lety +2

    This helped thank you

  • @rachaelturner8946
    @rachaelturner8946 Před 7 lety +2

    Thank you for this video

  • @barbm2375
    @barbm2375 Před 7 lety

    Excellent information!! Thank you so much for sharing this 😘

  • @maciejka8675
    @maciejka8675 Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you for this video. I love you ❤

  • @carmelomedina7956
    @carmelomedina7956 Před 4 lety

    Thanks Melissa This video is great hope you have a good 1 :)

  •  Před 7 lety +1

    That was helpful thank you ! As for you last question, for me I like the fact that I can play drums and sing (I have many videos of that on my channel).

  • @venkateshsubbaramu4303

    words of wisdom

  • @katestyle22
    @katestyle22 Před 7 lety

    GREAT VIDEO!

  • @nothingserious3626
    @nothingserious3626 Před 7 lety

    What drives you to this conclusion...cause it was quite helpful to me as I am a kind of a crowd pleaser and it end up burning me back.I fear I might become a introvert if I become calm confident.thanks

  • @varinderlitt2305
    @varinderlitt2305 Před 7 lety

    awesome video! sometimes we just need a reminder

  • @dosaysun
    @dosaysun Před 7 lety

    thank you for this very helpful video! you made may day:)
    I'm japanese and I wish there were japanese version of your helpful videos.
    I'm sure this video and your other videos can help a lot of japanese people too...

  • @CetWithNobeans
    @CetWithNobeans Před 6 lety

    You just made me a Better me thanks

  • @louisesimply8756
    @louisesimply8756 Před 7 lety

    Wonderful Video! Thank You:)

  • @bellarapanaro7054
    @bellarapanaro7054 Před 7 lety

    i love your vid :)

  • @DanielofSparta
    @DanielofSparta Před 7 lety

    You are a bad ass. Thank you

  • @jadeelizaishere
    @jadeelizaishere Před 7 lety

    Do you know your Myers-Briggs personality type, Melissa?

    • @melissaalexandria01
      @melissaalexandria01  Před 7 lety

      I took the test a while ago, but I didn't write down what my type was.. I'll take it again ;)

  • @jesseenixon1692
    @jesseenixon1692 Před 4 lety +1

    unless your in Real estate. I have to prove myself and sell yourself to get a client. I am like you, where I enjoy non judgemental peaceful genuine people and I find it hard in this business. I have not found my place yet.

    • @ringotheshiba8284
      @ringotheshiba8284 Před 3 lety +1

      How are you doing now?
      I am getting into real estate but do not see myself like I could sell myself.
      I think about a calm confidence as being a trait that people would like.
      I remember meeting calm people and just wanting to be around them

  • @deathbreach3448
    @deathbreach3448 Před 4 lety

    Mind clearing 🤔

  • @axelsprangare2579
    @axelsprangare2579 Před 2 lety +2

    A narcissist makes you think your quirks are your flaws and then destroy your sense of identity.

  • @worldexplorer2024
    @worldexplorer2024 Před 7 lety +1

    Girl!. As you know I fully support you but do you have a job? It seems that you have time to make videos almost everyday!

  • @chellycat14
    @chellycat14 Před 11 měsíci

    This is great and I like the advice. But I feel like it's probably a lot easier for a woman like you who is conventionally attractive to say these things than a woman like me who is ugly and not conventionally attractive. :(