STOP Arguing With Your Man (**Do This Instead**)

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  • čas přidán 31. 08. 2023
  • Arguing can destroy your relationship...
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Komentáře • 119

  • @daijaareona
    @daijaareona Před 3 měsíci +4

    Addressing concerns softly to men when we are lowkey boiling hot is so difficult!

  • @MychaeltoddRH
    @MychaeltoddRH Před 10 měsíci +68

    We don't argue, pick your battles, all that back and forth is draining. I go shopping and decorating. I make dinner and show that I'm worth way more than raising your blood pressure. So, eventually I get my way and I give in to whatever makes him happy as long as it's not stopping me from moving forward.

    • @samyljones3871
      @samyljones3871 Před 10 měsíci +19

      Sounds like you settle

    • @habbaticchio2468
      @habbaticchio2468 Před 10 měsíci

      @@samyljones3871that’s not settling that’s compromise. Compromise in a relationship is common sense. It’s something you learn when you are actually in a loving relationship….

    • @jacquelinekenney-dq4zn
      @jacquelinekenney-dq4zn Před 10 měsíci +1

      I have no patience with snotting and crying and feeling sorry for themselves. My point is man up because I am not about to do all of that. Matter of fact that is the quickest way to make me look for the door. That shot is the absolutely a turn off to me, listen to what I say.

    • @lala5061
      @lala5061 Před 10 měsíci +3

      @@samyljones3871 facts that don't sound like something I would want to keep doing when im 40, 50, 60, 70 uh uh

    • @krissie5353
      @krissie5353 Před 10 měsíci

      @@samyljones3871💯🎯‼️👍🏾

  • @amyk3020
    @amyk3020 Před 10 měsíci +32

    You are so right and silence is the big worry spot for men. When were silent they get crazy wondering what's going to come back at them. Love you and your content

    • @KCruz7
      @KCruz7 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Dang girl - your pad is beautiful ❤❤

  • @lyrisgreenidge-adams5941
    @lyrisgreenidge-adams5941 Před 10 měsíci +10

    It's impossible to build any type of relationship with anyone who is over sensitive.

  • @hershekissed
    @hershekissed Před 9 měsíci +2

    On God I live for his come to MJ moments, snatches wigs unapologetically😂😂😂

  • @Tru2dee
    @Tru2dee Před 10 měsíci +10

    Your deeper voice is everything!! You full of life lessons

  • @christinecantey2151
    @christinecantey2151 Před 9 měsíci +3

    U be on TIME, I have no friends u are my internet family. I love u MJ FROM DC 202 LUV😘

  • @mariannedehaven6816
    @mariannedehaven6816 Před 10 měsíci +2

    bobby womac had a song and it still tings true understanding is the best thing in the world

  • @simplymarilyn5295
    @simplymarilyn5295 Před 9 měsíci +4

    When MJ speaks, I listen ......Best advice ever, even for some of us older girls! Thank-you, MJ🌹

  • @JustDoRight
    @JustDoRight Před 9 měsíci +2

    True. I've had both gender therapists. The best was a clinically and spiritually inclined pastor. He was the best.

  • @kerimanasilasila174
    @kerimanasilasila174 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Honestly some men just forget sometimes. They got so much on their minds bless them. Your not last priority it's just when they know we're good they good. And handle they business. But when they are in your presence its all eyes on you. Love men!!

  • @Melanie-my6qi
    @Melanie-my6qi Před 10 měsíci +15

    MJ, thank you for always giving sound advice to us!

  • @JadoreJMR
    @JadoreJMR Před 10 měsíci +5

    Peace, Pleasure, Pause - check! Thanks MJ

  • @stingoftheblackscorpion3494
    @stingoftheblackscorpion3494 Před 9 měsíci +5

    HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH A MAN WHO TAKES NO ACCOUNTABILITY FOR THEIR ACTIONS AND BLAME YOU FOR EVERYTHING.

  • @felicialipscomb9624
    @felicialipscomb9624 Před 10 měsíci +6

    I was listening to you one Saturday morning. And realized that you give good advice. God bless you to keep on keeping on. I always enjoy and learn from what you say

  • @yolandascurry960
    @yolandascurry960 Před 10 měsíci +6

    You know I said he same thing! I see myself aging before my eye MJ, but it beats the alternative.❤

  • @user-pl6ou5fn3m
    @user-pl6ou5fn3m Před 2 měsíci

    I wish I will dance handles yesterday better. I fussed about his inconsistent communication and felt so bad afterwards. And he was not happy at all with me

  • @joeyj5495
    @joeyj5495 Před 10 měsíci +4

    MJ has been signing a lot lately. YOUR VOICE IS BEAUTIFUL ❤

  • @janicestephen9684
    @janicestephen9684 Před 10 měsíci +9

    I fking love and appreciate your wisdom and candor! Blessings!

  • @robynishere1758
    @robynishere1758 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Speak on it!!! I wish I knew this a long time ago. I'm learning the hard way now.

  • @mariannedehaven6816
    @mariannedehaven6816 Před 10 měsíci

    may god keep on keeping you you truly a blessing to some of us i love the fact you dont sugar coat shi

  • @faithford9143
    @faithford9143 Před 10 měsíci +8

    So true! MJ your are always on spot on!

  • @juliejuliejulie88
    @juliejuliejulie88 Před 10 měsíci +2

    You are changing my life !

  • @gwenbrownlee5854
    @gwenbrownlee5854 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Thanks for all your advice ..have an amazing day!!

  • @preciousmndaweni5157
    @preciousmndaweni5157 Před 10 měsíci +9

    Your advice is always the best ❤

  • @g2gmack
    @g2gmack Před 9 měsíci +1

    You look mf good. Dont worry about age. It's a blessing because a lot of people dont make it to be old.

  • @goldenflower1469
    @goldenflower1469 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Finally made it to a live CZcams chat ❤

  • @KindraTeamJesus
    @KindraTeamJesus Před 10 měsíci +2

    This is some good advice ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️thank you Queen 🔥🌹❤️

  • @positivevibe7684
    @positivevibe7684 Před 10 měsíci +2

    This is one of your best videos MJ. Love it ❤
    Your advice on counseling ain't nothing but the doggone truth💯. Gots to keep the mind straight, and the rest will follow 😂😊❤

  • @meli7315
    @meli7315 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Thank you beautiful soul 🌹love and light to you all 🕯️🕊️🤍

  • @lorimoore9440
    @lorimoore9440 Před 10 měsíci +11

    I love ❤ your energy, just keeping it real!!!! 😊

  • @helenarmstrong8725
    @helenarmstrong8725 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Hope you have a wonderful night

  • @lashannagriffin2146
    @lashannagriffin2146 Před 10 měsíci

    Love the concept and message nice shirts

  • @lissettecruzado1059
    @lissettecruzado1059 Před 10 měsíci +2

    God bless you. Thank you, I’m learning.

  • @carebear3692
    @carebear3692 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @enealy1515
    @enealy1515 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I cursed him out..didn't mean to..I just helded my feelings back too long

  • @user-gl5zz3bu2g
    @user-gl5zz3bu2g Před 3 měsíci

    M J ~ you are always empowering and inspiring ~ a blessing to all ~ and you have a lovly home

  • @retamcrae745
    @retamcrae745 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Hello! Reta,here from Oklahoma! ♥️

  • @marlened157
    @marlened157 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Boy I just love you, you make me laugh.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @reneamoore4687
    @reneamoore4687 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you for that answer people don’t understand ❤

  • @deidrawinfrey219
    @deidrawinfrey219 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Hey Mj 🖐🏽😁❤🙏🏽 good to see you.

  • @sexyblackcharlery
    @sexyblackcharlery Před 10 měsíci +1

    U are so good, thank you ❤

  • @deeraw4423
    @deeraw4423 Před 10 měsíci +1

    This was a very good video. Thank you for this advice ❤

  • @michelleedmonson3167
    @michelleedmonson3167 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Great advice, MJ… !

  • @jackseve
    @jackseve Před 10 měsíci +7

    Dude with ED needs to get his health in order. Get checked out if it is a health issue.

    • @samxsara
      @samxsara Před 10 měsíci +1

      Also hypnotherapy helps

  • @CareBlair222
    @CareBlair222 Před 10 měsíci +2

    My man and i have been bickering non stop lately. Im over it. Im detaching honey.

  • @llgrazes
    @llgrazes Před 10 měsíci +1

    Omg. The best video🎉🎉🎉❤❤

  • @SwiftDawg
    @SwiftDawg Před 10 měsíci +2

    I had two unlike this video 22 times! Just so I could like it 23 times!! MJ 🙌🙌💞💞

  • @kaygeeRandomness
    @kaygeeRandomness Před 10 měsíci +1

    You’re so good with words! at around the 10:00 minute mark

  • @michele6624
    @michele6624 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank You😊

  • @nancyvazquez4908
    @nancyvazquez4908 Před 10 měsíci

    Love you MJ

  • @URMOM_247
    @URMOM_247 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Ya lol it’s called the O-shot for females… haven’t tried it but I’m very curious. ❤❤much love 💕

  • @fatangimaimotuliki6690
    @fatangimaimotuliki6690 Před 10 měsíci

    MALO E LELEI MJHARRIS🌺
    💜from FA in BIRKDALE from NEW ZEALAND💚💜❤️💙

  • @LiveFitWithRana
    @LiveFitWithRana Před 10 měsíci

    Love my best friend!

  • @nadinemesquito7287
    @nadinemesquito7287 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Your best🌹🙏

  • @darrylkelly1702
    @darrylkelly1702 Před 8 měsíci

    Hi MJ Love your videos Thinking about retiring to either Johannesburg or Capetown. Where are you located? I love any advice you good give hAVE A GREAT DAY

  • @cynthiaortiz6054
    @cynthiaortiz6054 Před 10 měsíci

    MJ I love your advice, you are so handsome ❤

  • @enealy1515
    @enealy1515 Před 10 měsíci

    I love you MJ

  • @jacquelynherring8936
    @jacquelynherring8936 Před 8 měsíci

    ❤ you are the real deal .😊

  • @FMF550
    @FMF550 Před 10 měsíci +2

    MJ Love ❤️ you ❤

  • @cynthiaortiz6054
    @cynthiaortiz6054 Před 10 měsíci

    MJ I love you advice, you are so handsome ❤

  • @sylviaboose793
    @sylviaboose793 Před 10 měsíci

    Hello MJ I love you ❤

  • @Veronica-pc3ir
    @Veronica-pc3ir Před 10 měsíci +1

    Good morning.

  • @dawnsmith1363
    @dawnsmith1363 Před 10 měsíci

    Hi MJ

  • @Sherl454
    @Sherl454 Před 6 měsíci

    4ever more❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jimmiereid2724
    @jimmiereid2724 Před 10 měsíci

    Hey Mj

  • @helenarmstrong8725
    @helenarmstrong8725 Před 10 měsíci +2

    He need to go to the doctor and let him give him something for it

  • @stephielightfoot
    @stephielightfoot Před 10 měsíci

    Rofl “she asked why u always talking about mean?” U asked who likes talking about men? I was like… me 🖐️ 😂😂😂

  • @URMOM_247
    @URMOM_247 Před 10 měsíci

    Lol “won’t matter when you are horizontal in the bed” my Gaga 😂😂

  • @medicalschoollife6996
    @medicalschoollife6996 Před 10 měsíci

    Please tell us about the animals and bug s in Bali and South Africa.

  • @jimmiereid2724
    @jimmiereid2724 Před 10 měsíci

    Hey Mj what,s up ?

  • @user-yh7rl7tb1l
    @user-yh7rl7tb1l Před 10 měsíci

    I love you also!

  • @bwalyachilombo1377
    @bwalyachilombo1377 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Go to the kitten page🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @monique287
      @monique287 Před 5 měsíci

      I know i actually spat my coffee out laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @lenebrantley221
    @lenebrantley221 Před 10 měsíci

    MJ❤❤❤❤❤😁

  • @jessicajackson1879
    @jessicajackson1879 Před 10 měsíci

    I love you

  • @antiyanna537
    @antiyanna537 Před 10 měsíci

    They’ll either weaponize their tears or their tone raising!!!

  • @VenitaStrong-kr3ed
    @VenitaStrong-kr3ed Před 10 měsíci

    MJ HELLO

  • @angelvarietypack
    @angelvarietypack Před 9 měsíci +2

    I would love to hang with you you are the friend we all need you are so cute and funny wish you were closer

  • @EBad-ko8zy
    @EBad-ko8zy Před 10 měsíci +2

    I learned something. I had never dated an America seriously. I been trying. I have never had an issue with foreigners. None at all.
    I know next time. If I try it again. The peace and pleasure part. I have masculine energy and a Virgo ♍️ and I could care less and keep it moving but he would say different things. So I would stand back process and ask later.
    Anyway I will know if I go that route again.

  • @aestill1
    @aestill1 Před 10 měsíci +1

    LMFAO @ 30:39 😂

  • @lindelwangcobo3696
    @lindelwangcobo3696 Před 10 měsíci

    Trurh❤

  • @paulineangus8429
    @paulineangus8429 Před 10 měsíci

    Good morning beautiful
    I love you

  • @goldenflower1469
    @goldenflower1469 Před 10 měsíci

    Right average 5’8 men

  • @Jessjessthemessmess
    @Jessjessthemessmess Před 10 měsíci

    ❤❤❤

  • @vianneyweekes35
    @vianneyweekes35 Před 10 měsíci

    My husband don't talk keep everything in side ,he yells when we talk

  • @paulineangus8429
    @paulineangus8429 Před 10 měsíci

    Pauline Shar

  • @lionelabrahams2550
    @lionelabrahams2550 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Kittens😅😅😅😅😅

  • @pamalicouismusic7774
    @pamalicouismusic7774 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Mj is so dramatic.😂

    • @natnel617
      @natnel617 Před 10 měsíci

      I love that about him! 😂

  • @valinc.6694
    @valinc.6694 Před 9 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @shugs2545
    @shugs2545 Před 4 měsíci

    What’s Prp?

  • @user-tp1fj9kb5y
    @user-tp1fj9kb5y Před 10 měsíci

    Up

  • @EllinIsLivid
    @EllinIsLivid Před 10 měsíci

    51mins in portrait 😭😭

  • @OrganikJewelz
    @OrganikJewelz Před 10 měsíci

    💯😎

  • @URMOM_247
    @URMOM_247 Před 10 měsíci

    Yelling. The yelling.

  • @enealy1515
    @enealy1515 Před 10 měsíci

    I made this mistake

  • @carolynharrell4115
    @carolynharrell4115 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Tell your mother hello

  • @tribejamette872
    @tribejamette872 Před 10 měsíci

    Us Tonyas' are soft. Lol

  • @mariannedehaven6816
    @mariannedehaven6816 Před 10 měsíci

    why is it ok when he dosent answer my text but it is not ok if i dont reply when he text❓❓

    • @Avh552
      @Avh552 Před 10 měsíci

      It’s not ok

  • @lpsglitterpaws8536
    @lpsglitterpaws8536 Před 2 měsíci

    Viagra doesn’t always work

  • @PeaceApril29
    @PeaceApril29 Před 10 měsíci

    MJ is you know what makes a man tick? Why come you are not married or in a committed relationship. Giving all this advice with NO MAN in 100 fee that is committed and out a ring on your finger. You moved all the way around the world 🌍. What is really going on. Give all the tea sizzling & cold 🥶. Lol 😂