Being a "Pick Me", Dating Interracially, Changing Your Type
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Malcolm “MJ” Harris helps you live your best life emotionally, romantically, and financially - and he makes you laugh alot! MJ is an internationally recognized lifestyle and business influencer who has been featured by Oprah, USA Today and Black Enterprise. He has a global reach of over 20 million people each month - across social media and TV. In addition to this, he is the CEO and founder of MJ Harris Financial Services, which is one of America's largest African-American owned financial services firms. MJ’s rise began when he started creating empowering and aspirational digital content about lessons learned from his path of achieving success after overcoming a childhood surrounded by abuse and addiction. Through his videos, online courses, and live events, he created a loyal global fanbase and quickly became a powerhouse in the self-improvement industry.
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MJ you need your own television show and/or a Talk show. You are fabulous, entertaining and full of good advice and stories!!
Thank you!
I agree, I love to hear him speak. UT be all facts. I love it along with a little comedy ❤❤
I love how you put things into perspective.
I'm so in agreement...l can't wait to read his book
RC Blakes said it best..."PhD women getting played by GED men" is so accurate.
Yes maam I love RC Blakes too..his teaching truly taught me myself works
@@MsJuly-ts8cj yes ma'am indeed ❣️
I start dating out my race and I have never been so at peace.
What race are you dating? I’m so glad it’s working out for you. Interested in making changes also
I've started dating white men, and they are so much sweeter and more romantic than the race I usually dated. There is good and bad in every race, so opening your options doesn't hurt.
@@Nusaiba89been telling women this since 2010. I've been married twice. Watch out for Hispanic men though. I'm married to a Native American now and I've dated everything under the sun.
Get in here, get in here, get in here 😂😂😂😂 he said it
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lord protect this man 😂
MJ!!!! You ain't NEVER LIED! I'm am currently dating someone (going on 2 yrs) who is absolutely the opposite of who I usually go for, looks, build, style, you know; "my type". Best relationship so far! It's the quality of time, attention, and care I get from this man and BONUS, he actually knows how and likes to communicate!😍 But if ever this doesn’t work out for whatever reason, Im spinning the block to 2003 to holla at my vanilla bean baes!😂
😂🎉...
Change is not easy but Pricesless!! I have a few receipts to prove it.❤❤
Dating someone who is a different ethnicity than you are gives an opportunity to grow and learn and experience things that you otherwise wouldn’t have. I’m not saying you should date someone just because they’re a different ethnicity, but it’s not a great habit to make that the only reason you don’t date someone.
Mannn. This is so true.
You’re right MJ, there was a guy at my job in the past that would stare at me and he would never say anything. But, a friend told me that he liked me. So, I made him feel more comfortable by smiling at him and he eventually approached me.
I'm dead 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 MJ you are hilarious...Ms Peaches smoking her Newport 🚬 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
And big back self!!!!
@@KrispyBrown 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 MJ takes me down!!!
I was attracted to laid back emotionally unavailable men too. Smh
as a deeply hispanic south american raised woman i finally understand why ive had issues dating across the board, assumptions about races and cultures are killer for love !
Omg I love when MJ eats on camera. He's family! It's his thing. Go with it. ❤
“This why my booty’s so big” LOL. Me every time I head to the frig…
If you ever decide to have your own show, I’ll be tuning in for every episode. 💯🔥
Thanks for the message MJ. I’ve only dated black men but I’m open to dating other races. They never approach me but I’ll start paying attention to their cues. Love in 2024. 🥰
My type is definitely not working. I now want a steady man
I so feel you
Peaches saying, "DIG DEEPER!" took me out!!😂😂😂😂
You was snatching wigs and waist trainers off with this one 😂❤❤
He just fell down. “Baby you okay” 🤣😂😆🥰
MJ, I love you. I got a story. I'd been seeing this security guard at my job in passing over the course of 3-4 months, maybe 1-2 days of the week, sometimes less. Fast forward to 11/22, he gives me his number and I call him. Initially, he seemed cool and is carrying the conversation. It's 12/06 and he's already hit a nerve, asking me to bring him lunch to the job over the past weekend and he has yet to make any plans to take me out anywhere. I'm so disappointed in this 58 yr old. 😩I'm definitely not a 'pick me' girl.
Dump him, he just wants a personal maid. You deserve better
Yes sir, you need to be asking me out before asking me to bring you lunch 🥴
@@kimberly0717I just got mad for you and myself 😂🤦🏾♀️. I’m reading thinking that the story was gonna get better & better just to see you said that. Ughhhh! I’m sorry for that waste of time.
I a 67 year old white woman and you crack me up.😂😂😂
MJ you are telling the truth 🎉 Every since I decided to date Interracially I have experience life changing happiness
The shape-shift at the beginning is too hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂
One minute in and MJ got me hollering FACTS!! 🗣️
I would like to add on to what ur saying about how, within our culture we have a tendency to not smile, even I can feel intimidated by that within my own culture and would also say we have a tendency to not speak unless spoken too, which can come off as very unfriendly and unapproachable as well. I always love to hear ur perspective MJ i just luvu ❤❤
..... get your wig together cuz I'm gonna snatch it again!
Omg I love you so much! 💗
I need to bring Mj on my atl dates 😅😊
Preach MJ, black need to hear this.❤️❤️❤️
As an older woman, I like the gems u drop!❤
I'm late to the party but I'm right on time. I just realized I'm a "pick me" at my big age. I need to listen to my inner Ms. Peaches and get my life together. Can't keep picking the same kind of man just to waist my time and break up with them later 🤦🏾♀️
You are HILARIOUS and I Love You!!!!😂😂😂
MJ I introduced myself to my gym crush today after seeing him at the grocery store after my workout!! So crazy I ran into him. What do you think is the best next step when I see him again?
❤❤❤ suggest that you go out for coffee!
I read somewhere about relationships that a guy who gives their date a choice on where to go out to, is a sign of a good person who wants to please his date.
I love when you eat on your channel. Snack in bed and the poke bowl was one of my favorite video's you did. I went out and picked one up myself. Love poke and sushi
Thank you for explaining the South African, Coloured so well 🙏🏽
My favorite uncle MJ, so much wisdom i agree if you had you're own talk show i would definitely watch every episode ❤
I really enjoy listening to MJ because he is bullseye with every word he speaking.
I’m a woman and definitely think like a man trust me it works, it works, it works
🎉🎉🎉2024 We can not!!!! No way will we go into 2024 w a bum
I need a friend like you!!! The 15 min and you’re ordering me a drink too got me!!!
Yes looks will eventually fade away . I do say the same MJ u need own TV show. Your so funny 😂😂 I can be having a bad 😞 day all I have is look at your video so funny 😂 a second Eaddy Muffy. Love your video.
Thank you cuz I was waiting for you to show me your plate !!!! That dance on the first bite lmao made me hungry. Love ya ❤️❤️
Preach Peaches! You is kind. You is smart. You is important! 😂
Only HIM can stop n control him!🤣
I like what comes out from what certain types of men say out of the abundance of their heart, or their natural authenticity like they don’t even have to try. They just natural at it and I did draw into that.
This my first time!! I need this message I got a man I’m dating he is handsome attractive educated and successful I know he likes me but I know he has options do I need to move on?
Stick with him unless he shows you that he is not a good fit for you
WAIT!!!! I finally caught him LIVE!!! Get This Wisdom Magazine here from Detroit, Michigan!!!
27:50 lmfao the hole laugh and everything 😂😂
Nothing but facts spoken ♥️. MJ I need you as my wing man🥰
My kryptonite is always Mr. Tall dark and handsome 🤦🏽♀️ when will I learn!
Omg I love you. You make me so happy. I just became a widow and you keep me laughing while teaching me how to do this again.
❤ I love you all your advice helps me gone through a divorce and now I'm doing it myself with my five boys you have helped me get some confidence in me I have a boyfriend now sometimes I have to take a step back and think about different things got to check myself because now I'm dating an actual man and my ex was a boy like he was one of my sons it was sad 15 years wasted I love you thank you for your good advice ❤❤❤❤
And I’m a Pisces just like you, Malcolm
MJ you did the ting this time!! Thank you!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂 omg I just love you MJ!!!!!!!! I watch your videos daily, thank you for sharing!!!!!!!!!!!
Lol😂he had on corduroy pants and a pumpkin plaid shirt !!! Yes redress him babayyy
MJ, you gave such good gems in this video!!!!!!!!!
27:28 educate them baby, I'm a Cape Town girl, Them people ova there will eat you up!! We cute people baby, I tell you😂😂😂... But I fell out when you saig "Ha"? In my Capetonian accent 😂OMG🤣🤣🤣... I def meant YOU baby they don't make mistakes like that, you noticed 😉😁🤭😂😂💯💯💯
Great. Advice
MJ we need to do brunch over here in Seapoint. You have me in stitches over here.
You said a word! Words!
Whenever you eat on live you make me so very hungry😅. Love you!!❤
I love your attitude! ❤
Hey MJ
You so right Malcolm , assert our options
loving the consistency 🥹
MJ, thank you for speaking on my race and our girl Tyla. ❤
Such wise entertainment! Love u
You speak nothing but facts!!😂😂😂😂
MJ, I love you so much! Everything you speak on is so on point, and I'm a old chick 😊
MJ I love love seeing and listening to you!! You are just fabulous 🤩 superstar 👍🏼✌🏼
Yessssss I want an Mj TO HANG WID😅❤❤❤
Hi MJ, you are too funny! Yes, you are right…need to heal and get yourself together before you can shop around!
I just love you! You are hilarious, truthful, educating & loving. You're just a great person all the way around. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ms Peaches 🍑 come by Atlanta dating scene 🎬 lol it’s needed 😅
Tell the Truth Mz. Peaches
Have to take a class to learn the different ways of dating various cultures.🙂 Professor Harris is here !!!
Hi m j, how are you doing? You look very good on camera tonight.
Love you m j
Oh my God You gave her a name🤣 I have one too🤣🤣🤣🤣love you MJ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Ward 8 and Temple Hills. MJ
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The truth is not serious,..I 💕 😂 my colourd brother has great taste 😂 You are a natural. ❤not just advice, explaination and one man show for clarity.. Much appreciated.
I love your channel so glade I came across your channel. I think you should do. Video on how to compliment a man?
This is a much needed truthful sermon and I want what you're eating because it looks so good😂. I'm definitely the GYAOut now and I prefer a man who can make balanced decisions and/or suggestions too! DMV in the house😉. Your skin is radiant and beautiful. Your pose you 😂better get it💃. I for sure have NEVER had a problem dating out and that's now what I prefer because its more about my vibrational, moral, love language, emotionally intelligent match🤩. Fine is fine and decent is decent 😜. MJ❤
I love u MJ
😂😂❤ me some MJ
MJ i want to hear your opinions on the alleged situations going on with TD Jakes …. And Christian Keyes please!!!
Well MJ you are absolutely correct l prefer black men but the pickings are slim and l find that frustrating. To me interracial dating is beautiful but I'm kind of leary of it. I got the feeling that is what I'm going to end up with because most of my friends are white. I'm going to try and be more open and first of all work on me.
🤣 the corduroy 😂
Hey boo heyyyy
We are hosting a dating scavenger hunt, a sip and walk event here in Cape Town.
I love you❤
Lmao! Why say it like that? “ It’s dead in here. “ 😂
MJ why you doing us like this 😂
💯!
You definitely ain’t talkin’ to me 😂😂
😅😅 facts 💯
*Clutching my african beads (since I don't have pearls)* 🫢
Yesssssßssssssss❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
Where do I get myself an MJ gbf? 🥰
I do not see the link to your skin care line 😮
I am a pick me until i tell u pick yourself up and get your garbage out.
I dont want to date for a while. I need myself for a while.