How to ATTRACT MEN (**THIS WORKS!!**)

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  • čas přidán 25. 05. 2023
  • This is so easy, and it works!!
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  • @MJHarrisSpeaks
    @MJHarrisSpeaks  Před rokem +41

    What's your favorite way to flirt?

  • @kantik2118
    @kantik2118 Před rokem +243

    Actually, men aren't difficult to attract: slow walking, eye contact and feminine attitude, then ignoring them. Keeping a man is actually what's really challenging. And I would say, sometimes, for the feminine energy, it's better to not be around men all the Time. Draining like hell for the feminine energy.

    • @peachluck1050
      @peachluck1050 Před rokem +22

      Such a good comment. So true. Never have seen or heard “draining like hell for the feminine energy”, but it is so true in my experience. Thank you.

    • @mayusoma
      @mayusoma Před rokem +3

      When î was younger and completely oblivious to mqking myself attractive it like î AM now it brings in better candidates. When î let go of thee desire because men are thee desirers and pursuers we can keep in thee dark + fantasize + that energy works as a magnet because it's inherently unspoken...feminine ❤ thankhû for making this video

    • @iamDavidaRose
      @iamDavidaRose Před rokem +14

      A man has to want to be kept and if that’s not the case, let him loose honey. Draining YESSSSS

    • @kantik2118
      @kantik2118 Před rokem

      @@iamDavidaRose men are confused AF: they'll tell you they want you to need them but when you're there, they are gone. They are masochists in reality but like to use women Who don't know That. They like to go hard for women they want but in the meantime, they'll placeholder the 1st naive woman they meet with poor boundaries. That's why it's better to prioritize yourself. They'll go to the moon and back for you if you challenge them and decenter them and let them compete for you. But even then, you do you and keep them for pleasure. They suck the life out of women when we live with them.

    • @lmiller1413
      @lmiller1413 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Where are you working that you are around all men? Help the rest of us out, where do we find all the men?

  • @sisblk786
    @sisblk786 Před rokem +40

    "The better you make him feel when around you, the more he will want to be around you." 💯 *facts

  • @blossom3468
    @blossom3468 Před rokem +35

    I got hunted 😂 he came for me!
    He saw me and scanned me while I was organising my sh@t to enter the club. My brain registered him subconsciously....anyway as he bent down to enter the club God knows why my eyes were in that direction but my soul recognised him from outside and I was on cloud nine ( he's 7ft 3 and YUM )
    He came and stood behind me and kept pulling my hand.
    10 years later and my soul is still activated ❤

  • @TaKyraMoonlight
    @TaKyraMoonlight Před rokem +69

    I have social anxiety but I constantly have men staring at me and my body language I know screams DON’T COME OVER HERE. LMAO really I’m nervous asf. Just recently I decided to try to be a bit more open and I have 2 dates this weekend, with a personal trainer and an engineer.

    • @ministerkimberly
      @ministerkimberly Před rokem

      🎉❤❤

    • @SO-sb5sf
      @SO-sb5sf Před rokem +2

      Okkkk dennn lookatchu 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 whatever you doing keep doing it and just go with the flow and im weak at my body language screams dint come over here thats so me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @yota0209
      @yota0209 Před rokem +1

      Have fun & ENJOY!😊

    • @jasminealexia
      @jasminealexia Před rokem

      Go girl! What did you do? Inquiring minds want to know

  • @geminisun12
    @geminisun12 Před rokem +56

    “And if you’re fat - just lean your face forward”. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @trinityp8575
    @trinityp8575 Před rokem +38

    To attract is easy… how to keep a relationship that’s the difficult part. Especially nowadays.

  • @kimberlyclark4559
    @kimberlyclark4559 Před rokem +131

    One thing that I do is compliment men. I feel men don’t get it often and it’s something they need to hear. And it’s not even flirting, just giving them a compliment & making their day. It also gives them the option to converse if they wanted to initially but afraid to.

    • @ministerkimberly
      @ministerkimberly Před rokem

    • @temirene
      @temirene Před rokem +5

      Yikes. This is why I stopped complimenting men. Each one would think i was trying to get with them when i was just making a casual positive observation about their appearance.

    • @BlackberryTitties
      @BlackberryTitties Před rokem +2

      Yeah I’m not complimenting anyone! Not here to stroke the male ego!

    • @kennethfaried341
      @kennethfaried341 Před rokem

      @@BlackberryTitties lol 😂😂😂

    • @beasaroze5596
      @beasaroze5596 Před rokem +2

      Men love when you flirt with them. I love it when I can get them from frown 😠to grin😊.

  • @tamikabrown1409
    @tamikabrown1409 Před rokem +43

    I said the same thing to a male friend of mine who was married about a month ago and he agreed. Men are not going to approach women who are in groups. And women have a tendency to roam in groups because they are too afraid to go at it alone

  • @London4Paris
    @London4Paris Před rokem +72

    Practice your looks in the mirror first! 😂🤣😂 Yes, this is so true yet funny!

  • @rosalindclemons4529
    @rosalindclemons4529 Před rokem +111

    I love listening to MJ, especially when I'm having a not so good day. He keeps me laughing

  • @WeLoveMeals
    @WeLoveMeals Před rokem +86

    I just want to flirt, go home and stay single in peace 😂😂 I’m listening though!

  • @alikazan24
    @alikazan24 Před rokem +77

    “Shut up and listen!” I LOVE it!❤🎉

  • @daniellecharming
    @daniellecharming Před rokem +51

    Please make a video on flirting, showing a guy interest, and how to meet a guy in public and at the gym!! Love you!

  • @goddessblack8787
    @goddessblack8787 Před rokem +7

    MJ said get away from your ball headed girlfriends 😂🤣😂if your fat just lean your face forward 😂😂🤣you got me crying honey

    • @TUEWHANNA
      @TUEWHANNA Před rokem +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Lveyrself
    @Lveyrself Před rokem +12

    Raise your cheekbones if you’re fat, go like this❤😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🎉🎉

  • @jamieolivarez9083
    @jamieolivarez9083 Před rokem +62

    Good advice MJ! Building confidence is key. I have started my self love journey a few months ago when left a guy who was a toxic person. Since I have been feeling way better and trying to be a better flirt.

  • @GlendaGray-xi9uz
    @GlendaGray-xi9uz Před rokem +5

    git away from your bald headed girl friends!!!🤣🤣🤣 I was dying... You tell the best stories and gems MJ . 💯

  • @Lveyrself
    @Lveyrself Před rokem +11

    Body shaper is just good marketing ❤❤❤❤❤ I love it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I’m taking these tips 💯

  • @mck20012
    @mck20012 Před rokem +6

    I’m a straight male and you was spot on you get it exactly. Thanks for this post.

  • @comeasyouarewithyourvision725

    I love your voice when you demonstrate what a man would say. You just make my day 😊

  • @desireck821s7
    @desireck821s7 Před rokem +5

    Hello 👋 I’m a women and I have lots of masculinity lol working on the femininity. Most men I attract are very feminine 🙏💕

  • @flowersroses4430
    @flowersroses4430 Před rokem +38

    Thank you MJ! You have re-inspired me to get physically in shape and how to attract men. You are awesome! ❤⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

  • @Kissmy.freckles
    @Kissmy.freckles Před rokem +26

    This is probably the best “relationship” video I’ve seen to date! Thank you 🙏🏽 😊

  • @Cristy_Kuchiki
    @Cristy_Kuchiki Před rokem +18

    Just watched your July 2021 vid on emotionally unavailable men (love the sweet and insightful way you described everything ☺️). LOVEE your July 2019’s 5 warning signs he’s not looking for commitment vid too!

  • @savvg859
    @savvg859 Před rokem +2

    I agree with that “activating” men because I don’t have a problem with approaching anyone I have interest in at all

  • @katloirishermasuge4123
    @katloirishermasuge4123 Před rokem +3

    🤣🤣🤣🤣"I knew where i was going in life". i had to pause a couple of times to laugh🤣😅

  • @gingerjoy5836
    @gingerjoy5836 Před rokem +5

    Omgsh you are Absofreakinlutely Hilarious!! I’m married almost 30 years, but just love hearing you!😆😂🥰

  • @michellewade6274
    @michellewade6274 Před rokem +8

    Love this video. MJ is so funny and honest and entertaining. Pure joy.

  • @feliciaatwell4236
    @feliciaatwell4236 Před rokem +4

    My biggest problem is activating the ones that don’t appreciate the activation! 😟 Finally activating one whose energy finally matches mine. Fingers crossed 🤞🏾. Love me some MJ

  • @tikaroxanne7286
    @tikaroxanne7286 Před rokem +11

    Thank you because i gotta work on my flirting skills in person but with texting I got it going on lol

  • @sardiniaramos5801
    @sardiniaramos5801 Před rokem +7

    😂 On point! I love the way MJ addresses relationships with light humour❤

  • @SDC8686
    @SDC8686 Před rokem +3

    Yup! Not Thirsty, but single as hell😂. I'm not desperate, but i could use a drank 😋

  • @feliciaatwell4236
    @feliciaatwell4236 Před rokem +14

    MJ you have me hollering!! This video had me evaluating how I go out. I realize that some of the things you said I naturally do without realizing it. You just gave me more to add to the bag of knowledge! ❤you! Keep doing you!

  • @patandersen4271
    @patandersen4271 Před rokem +11

    Loving all the on- point info you share. You are the girlfriend we all want even us older ladies because we KNOW you are speaking truth. I like to compliment a man on his appearance (clothing, shoes) if he's intelligent, I'll let him know I appreciate what he's sharing with me.

  • @daniellecharming
    @daniellecharming Před rokem +6

    This is EXACTLY what I needed!!!! Thanks boo! ❤❤

  • @Afrolatinalexi
    @Afrolatinalexi Před rokem +7

    Just shut up and listen💯, MJ you are the GOAT!! AND you did it in a nice way!❤️

  • @danipandaxo
    @danipandaxo Před rokem +3

    LMAO IM DYING AT THIS VIDEOOOO. THE LOOKS TO GET THE MAN TO COME OVER, SAYING I MIGHT HAVE TO SWITCH SIDES , THE PART HE’S PRETENDING TO BE A LION AND FLICKING HIS TONGUE MADE ME SCREAM😂😂😂😂

    • @jasminealexia
      @jasminealexia Před rokem +1

      Girl! I had to pause the video on those points cuz omg 😭🤣🤣

  • @brendacunningham5070
    @brendacunningham5070 Před rokem +5

    MJ...As Always You Give The Good News💚💚💚💚Thank You...

  • @joeyj5495
    @joeyj5495 Před rokem +8

    I live for these videos MJ ❤. Plz keep them coming. Raw and Uncut.

    • @michellegray3921
      @michellegray3921 Před rokem +2

      Me too sis. I literally go through withdrawal when I haven’t seen a video.

  • @lmiller1413
    @lmiller1413 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Yep. My mom said this to me. Men are afraid of rejection, so they wont approach. So, smile.

  • @ItsIzzyandFamilyFun
    @ItsIzzyandFamilyFun Před rokem +9

    I’ve been blushing this entire video😂 You definitely activated me🥰

  • @lyndsaehunter7841
    @lyndsaehunter7841 Před rokem +1

    Yes!!! I needed this. I’ve been having the same issue as the friend you talked about in the beginning. I didn’t know, now I know. Thanks boo!

  • @tangiegamble1577
    @tangiegamble1577 Před rokem +3

    The second wink says let's leave this place 😂😂😂

  • @tanyabriggs8690
    @tanyabriggs8690 Před rokem +3

    Another golden nugget.
    Thanks MJ ❤

  • @Blackcatsaregoodluck11
    @Blackcatsaregoodluck11 Před rokem +4

    You are so entertaining and the information is amazing! 😅

  • @Queenintheblack
    @Queenintheblack Před rokem +1

    Nailed it MJ!!!

  • @louisefecentese8109
    @louisefecentese8109 Před rokem +4

    Girl, you are Beautiful in so many ways, it's just simply Awesome to watch you and listen to you. I'm a straight woman, a widow and single so far. You are such a pleasure, just found you and subscribe. Can't get enough of a good thing. Love your sense of Humor, naturally hilarious.....Thank you 🙏 for being yourself. Can't help but love your straight Honesty. Much Love ❤❤❤❤❤ from Spain 🇪🇸

  • @reneakoons4392
    @reneakoons4392 Před rokem +2

    Loved all your tips,Thank you❤

  • @cathynykolaishyn8926
    @cathynykolaishyn8926 Před rokem +2

    I’m going to try this 😊. You are funny and awesome. Glad I found you!

  • @LOVELY-hx8ll
    @LOVELY-hx8ll Před rokem +5

    Everything you say is golden 💕

  • @Candy_Tonia
    @Candy_Tonia Před rokem +1

    I love you and your advice! I laughed so much and this is good because I’ll remember what you said.

  • @deidredesiree
    @deidredesiree Před rokem +19

    So true, MJ! It's so ironic just before seeing this video tonight. I started saying all kinds of compliments to my new Boo this evening since I've been feeling a bit more comfortable with him lately, and his response was....what's happening to you??? Lol. It surprised him immensely. Thanks so much for all your excellent advice!!!

  • @bjoyful2185
    @bjoyful2185 Před rokem +1

    Excellent insight! Thank you MJ! 👏🏽🥰👏🏽💕😘

  • @L.Cumming
    @L.Cumming Před rokem +24

    Get away from your baldheaded girlfriend😂😂😂😂😂My best friend is baldheaded, this made me laugh so hard.😂😂😂

  • @feliciaatwell4236
    @feliciaatwell4236 Před rokem +1

    You got it alllll the way RIGHT! 🙌🏾

  • @IndigoWisdom1
    @IndigoWisdom1 Před rokem +3

    Here for the *masculine voice* voice over acting by Malcolm 👏🏽 love it!!!❤

  • @applepie6559
    @applepie6559 Před rokem +7

    This had me So Tickled🤗😆

  • @mavis5949
    @mavis5949 Před rokem +5

    Why am I laughing soo hard! 😂😂😂

  • @lovelymiracle
    @lovelymiracle Před rokem +3

    This video is hilarious!!! 😅 I took notes tho. Excellent advice…❤️

  • @reneejohnson3423
    @reneejohnson3423 Před rokem +3

    I must say I Love listening to you you make a lot of sense.❤😊

  • @tsanlozano9656
    @tsanlozano9656 Před rokem

    I love this! Great info!❤

  • @taylornj8582
    @taylornj8582 Před rokem +3

    You “licking the water” took my ENITRE soul! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @a.l.ingram7998
    @a.l.ingram7998 Před 7 měsíci

    Love, love, love this! Just what I needed to see and hear. Thx doll❤

  • @Pianopraiser
    @Pianopraiser Před rokem

    You did that!! Great insight. You kept it cute and funny.

  • @chariselacroix
    @chariselacroix Před rokem +6

    Hey MJ, thank you so much, definitely rusty in the “what to say” portion, the back and forth conversation is really helpful. Can you do another one on things to say? I heard to take his mind off work but I feel you should show more of an interest in what a guy do.

  • @user-cs7uu6zq2z
    @user-cs7uu6zq2z Před rokem +1

    Thank you it something that I needed to hear ,you open my eyes ❤

  • @smart22cute
    @smart22cute Před rokem

    Wow MJ you smooth with it, the convo just flowed, I ain't got no game. I'm going to watch this convo a few times. Love u ❤

  • @lenpen6330
    @lenpen6330 Před rokem

    Thank you for your advice! I love your posts! You’re awesome!

  • @diandramyers784
    @diandramyers784 Před rokem

    Just in time. Love you MJ 😍

  • @17thUnicorn
    @17thUnicorn Před rokem

    Excellent,fun video 😊!!

  • @reesecupinthemil
    @reesecupinthemil Před rokem

    I love you. You always give the best advice and tell it like it is. ❤

  • @user-fu6xi6mb1t
    @user-fu6xi6mb1t Před 6 měsíci

    This was so on point! I had no idea! Thank you!!!

  • @LuluDirection1m
    @LuluDirection1m Před rokem

    Ohh My, I’m loving this😌💝

  • @kembashannon
    @kembashannon Před rokem +1

    Thank you. Love this!!!!

  • @lornaturner7
    @lornaturner7 Před rokem +3

    You got it RIGHT!!!!! EXPERT!!!!

  • @tracyculver9998
    @tracyculver9998 Před rokem +2

    MJ Harris I love your messages and god bless

  • @karynhilton6220
    @karynhilton6220 Před rokem +3

    You get your points across well

  • @jacquelyndavis4993
    @jacquelyndavis4993 Před rokem

    I love it when you teach!

  • @malaikahill321
    @malaikahill321 Před rokem +2

    The names you come up with !!! Lol 😂 you are a MESS …. A good MESS …. Lol 😂 luv ya Malcolm

  • @RK-fh3ht
    @RK-fh3ht Před rokem

    I love you MJ ❤ This is the best!!!

  • @vulolaalbino
    @vulolaalbino Před 9 měsíci

    I came through your videos and i couldn't resist. Im your fan. All the love from South Africa ❤❤

  • @carolkirkland819
    @carolkirkland819 Před rokem +2

    MJ you got all the skills❤

  • @user-yh2kl3fz3x
    @user-yh2kl3fz3x Před rokem +1

    💜 MJ I LOVE YOU I LOVE IT GIVE ME ALL THE INFORMATION I LOVE IT I LOVE IT KEEP IT COME IN

  • @ginajones4729
    @ginajones4729 Před rokem

    I love this! You're the best.

  • @vivianjones5904
    @vivianjones5904 Před rokem

    THANKS SO MUCH MJ!!!❤😂

  • @idablake8649
    @idablake8649 Před rokem +2

    I rarely comment on videos. You funny🤣🤣🤣 as hell

  • @keyf6845
    @keyf6845 Před rokem +1

    😂 I love your content, I get a good laugh and wisdom 😂 you know your stuff too.

  • @amandagarcia9022
    @amandagarcia9022 Před rokem

    You are so gifted at these talks 👏🏼❤

  • @denishabrown4034
    @denishabrown4034 Před rokem

    Advice is gold!!!!

  • @jowanjahmermaid23miles29

    😂😂😂 I cried !!!! I won't gonna click but this made Dam day you sum else 😂😂😂

  • @gwenettalamback8521
    @gwenettalamback8521 Před rokem +1

    Mj I just love love love your energy 😂

  • @leeuwvanjuda
    @leeuwvanjuda Před rokem +3

    This is therapy❤🎉

  • @sabrinadebarge1926
    @sabrinadebarge1926 Před rokem

    Auntie MJ coming through, as usually 🙌

  • @marleneatencio7403
    @marleneatencio7403 Před rokem

    Hi MJ 🥰thank you for your advice 💞

  • @Experiencethehack
    @Experiencethehack Před rokem +2

    Thus worksssssss I do it alllll the timeeeee

  • @zandraalexander4879
    @zandraalexander4879 Před rokem +3

    Attraction is easy...keeping is the video we need!😂

  • @receeowens2248
    @receeowens2248 Před rokem

    You got it RIGHT!!! AJ

  • @Stephanie_bitches89
    @Stephanie_bitches89 Před rokem +2

    Anyone else wish they saw this video sooner lol

  • @essenceoflalasweetz8231
    @essenceoflalasweetz8231 Před rokem +1

    The switch in the faces is everything😅