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My daughter is 6. She was being bullied by this girl who constantly tells her she's ugly. I told her to say "ok." And walk away. It worked lol. Then she started up again and I told her "next time she says you're ugly, start sniffing the air, make a cringe face, sniff towards her and say "omg, is that your breath?", cover your nose, cringe your face and walk away." It's been a year and the girl doesn't even speak to her anymore 😂
I did that when I was around 10. One of the boys that liked to bully decided it was a good idea to try to target me by calling me fat. I deadpanned with "Yes, I know. And?" The look of confusion on his face was priceless.
You are a great Mum, way to have your daughters' back like that. 😊👍👍
Yep, most of my bullies got bored with me because I agreed with them. Which was really easy when 98% of what they said was true, just said rudely. Like oh, you're mocking me for the stupid mistake I made in class? Well, it was stupid so why would I disagree? School bullies were a joke, I'd been trained by bullies with much more experience. Unfortunately that would be my parents.
I’m going to try that. I’m 14, so it might not work the same, but I am trying it.
@@waffles3629 EXZACHARY
Fun Fact: Unicorns in the Bible are actually associated with Jesus. So that grandma doesn’t even know much about that book she loves so much.
I was just thinking that.
It's a mistranslation but as the grandma probably uses the KJV you're not wrong.
My bet is the grandma would be of the opinion that Jesus is a woke liberal hippie and not worth listening to. Unlike her pastor who tells exactly who to hate.
I was about to post the same thing lol
I notice a lot of them don't. Just cover to make everyone else miserable.
In America, "zero tolerance policies" have nothing to do with protecting victims, and everything to do with protecting the school from liability. By suspending all students involved, even those involved unwillingly, the school decides that the fight is not their problem. The bullying is not their problem. Etc.
That’s the most disgusting thing I’ve ever heard, and the most disgusting part is it’s completely true!
Most disgusting school system of the whole world.
@@Robin93ksad part is it’s REALLY not.
I mean, it’s also there to stop the school from having to use resources to find out who was the problematic person.
Otherwise a bully could knock someone out in the bathroom and then hit themself, go run to the principal, and claim self defense and get the victim kicked out of school.
@@micaheiber1419funny enough, america is quite literally directly at fault for why a lot of countries (particularly south/central american countries) are poor and struggling the way they are
“Nice people made the best Nazis. My mom grew up next to them. They got along, refused to make waves, looked the other way when things got ugly and focused on happier things than “politics.” They were lovely people who turned their heads as their neighbors were dragged away. You know who weren’t nice people? Resisters.”
― Naomi Shulman
You don't owe anyone a damn thing. Not your medical info, not your ID, not your smile, heck, not even your time.
My bully was not a nice person at all…
I've been staring at your comment trying to figure out what you were trying to say. So confused.
NICE DOES NOT EQUAL KIND @@thetruechickenking9172
@@thetruechickenking9172 The 'Nice people' were the ones who didn't want to make trouble in Nazi Germany and let their neighbors be abducted and sent to concentration camps. The people who made efforts to save the people being imprisoned weren't considered nice. That's because they weren't afraid to make waves since they knew they were right.
@@thetruechickenking9172 fighting for what's right will make people say you're not nice because "kicking up a fuss" is "impolite".
When I was pregnant with my first child, my husband and I were in line at the market. I was REALLY pregnant, like unmistakably pregnant. There was a woman ahead of us who noticed me and squealed, “When are you due?” While reaching for my stomach. I looked her in the eye and said, “I’m not pregnant. It’s a tumor.” The woman was HORRIFIED. All of her groceries were already on the belt so she was stuck there. Once she was gone, my husband burst into laughter and asked me why. I said I was tired of being fondled by strangers. I’m POSITIVE she never did that again.
That was the perfect comeback. People seem to forget personal boundaries when it comes to pregnancy (and sometimes hair--can't tell you how many strangers wanted to grab/touch/stroke my hair when I was younger). It's bizarre and so inexcusable. It takes literally zero effort for a person to not put their hands on someone else.
@@gl8172 this was 25 years ago and people were more handsy back then. I was sick and tired of being touched. It felt so violating.
And I also had my hair touched constantly as a child! My hair has always been long, thick, and auburn. It was so unique that many women asked my mom for snips of it to take to their hairdresser. I mean, this was back in the 80’s when hair dye wasn’t as awesome but who the hell does that?!?! Freaking weirdos out there with zero restraint.
It’s always so weird when someone tries to touch the belly of a pregnant stranger. I can understand starting a conversation abt when someone is due. Even with that you never know if someone is pregnant or not so that question also could be bad. Someone might have a tumor or they could just look pregnant without actually being pregnant. Touching a pregnant belly without asking is so weird bc most the time they don’t want a random stranger touching their pregnant belly. If someone does want to touch the pregnant belly they should ask and respect whatever the answer is even if the answer is no
@@ArtByJUSTSAM Yikes! Reminds me of what happened to the Lassie dog with locks of hair hacked off for souvenirs.
@62 This is the odd thing for me, I had the opposite problem where preggy women would grab my hand and try to get me to touch their bellies because they could feel the kid moving about.
Then I'd be snarled at for "not being maternal enough" when I'd pull back not sharing their overwhelming joy (they were random strangers btw), that was 20 years ago and I'm SO GLAD things have changed now.
"all parties involved in a fight get punished" is way too common in schools and I assume it's just because they don't want to bother figuring out who's at fault.
Yup usually the case
Pretty much
Yep, and they'll even do it when it's obviously one parties fault. My school district was forced to change it after a 6th grader was punched unconscious by a few 12th graders. They were actually gonna suspend him and his friend who used his body as a shield until the parents threatened to sue. Like oh yeah, let's suspend the kid for being sent to the ICU.
@@waffles3629 That is insane. If they are that injured it’s very likely that they didn’t stat the fight. Even if they did start the fight they have suffered enough as it is with getting beaten up
Yeah, definitely. And there’s so much more unfair rules.
Telling people they shouldn't get a tattoo they clearly *already* have is so unhelpful. My daughter always says, if I can't fix it in 15 minutes don't tell me, ie: food in her teeth, smudge on her face or a change of clothes before we leave...telling someone they need to lose weight or get a tan or not wear that color when they can't change, just gives them something to worry about. Super crappy
That's such a good way to phrase that! I've been struggling getting that idea across to some of my family members lol
Absolutely spot on!
My family casually comments on my weight and there's always a compliment when I lose weight, but never if I gain it. I'm plump/chubby and I happen to like having more meat on my bones. I like having curves. So telling me it's great that I'm losing some pounds just pisses me off. I happen to also be Caucasian and I can't tell you the number of times my Caucasian family tell me to "get some sun". I like being white thank you very much. In fact, I'd prefer it if I were more pale. And, I'd tell them that, and they'd scoff or brush me off. Or tell me that I need clothing other than all black and dark colors. I happen to be a punk rock/goth/emo tribrid. I'm happy being different, and I wish my family would stop with trying to "convert" me. It also doesn't help that my family votes for Trump, other than my one awesome cousin. And I'm trans non-binary. I deal with a lot of bs. It's ridiculous.
@geminiwolf0077 i hope someday things get better for you. That's super shitty of your family. Proud of you for being who you want to be. Stay loving who you are, don't listen to ppl who say otherwise. I truly hope that you continue to have people around you that support you and respect you. 🙏 😁
Your daughter has a very wise quote now. That line could be on every teenage girl's Instagram it's so good.
You don't need all the background because it would take years. But my grandfather is the worst person ive ever met, he's racist, sexist, homophobic, delights in physical and mental abuse, and genuinely took pleasure in drowning kittens.
Anyway, when i was homeless due to my mum being in hospital and having no where else to be (i was 14) anyway i had recently come out as gay and he said to me
"You really are a failure aren't you?"
And i don't know where it came from but i just said in the most mock surprised tone
"Ooooooohh, so we ARE related!"
THATS EPIC DUDE
SAVAGE
@@Mari-Schimmer hehehehehe thank you
@@Black_Sheep7 ksksksksk Ty Ty
Damn I feel so proud of you and I do'nt even know you ! x) good job friend that was amazing ! I hope you have a good life
And here's my "traumatize them back" story - I was out with friends, most of whom are gay (I'm a straight cis woman). My 2 female friends (who are a couple) & I stepped outside to wait on the guys, who went to the men's room before we were to leave. A large group of frat bros walked by & preceded to catcall us, getting more disgusting in their comments & surrounding us to keep us from leaving. About this time, our male friends came out & seeing what the frat bros were doing, told them to leave us alone. They were like, "Sorry, didn't know they were yours". My male friends said "We're gay & they are not "ours", you just shouldn't speak to them that way." Frat bros yelled a few gay slurs as they ambled away. Then my friend Thomas, entered the scene. Thomas is 6'5, had played football & rugby at university & is so ripped, I'm pretty sure even his muscles have muscles. He is also very proudly gay & was wearing an "Out & Proud" t-shirt. He had overheard the entire thing & proceeded to follow the guys down the street, saying all the disgusting things to them that they had said to us. They kept walking faster & faster, with Thomas jogging behind them, catcalling & all of us following him, enjoying the show. By the time they were at the end of the block, frat bros were sprinting like they were running the 100-yard dash for Olympic gold. Thomas finally let them run away, yelling after them, "Remember this the next time you feel like harassing random women". Not all heroes wear capes, some of them wear "Out & Proud" t-shirts.
We stand Thomas 💅💅 I aspire to be like him. In vibes, cuz I am only 5' 7" and nonbinary/gender fluid 😂
This story screams "Homophobic men hate gay men because they don't want to be treated the same way they treat women"
I love this story so much! Everyone should have a friend like Thomas.
Hell yes!
Wow, A real life Thomas the Tank Engine, minus the Engine! Are you sure his name isn't Sherman or Abrams?
Either way, A true friend the world needs more of!
I've actually had people ask me what's in my pants as a Trans man
I usually just end up saying, "Uhhh. My legs?"
Same. I either go "hm.... i guess my legs" or "pockets. I think i have some change in 'em, you need some?"
gonna use this in the future if I ever need to (I hope not)
As a gay trans guy Imma just say "your dad"
I always have something really random in my pockets. I like pulling out a tiny snail figurine and saying "a snail, you want one?"
You could say “My underwear!” And if they ask what’s in your underwear, get a really contemplative look and go “Y’know, I’m not certain. I’d have to check.”
And then later come up to them in a public setting and with no context say the material composition of your underwear and leave.
When I was eleven, I was standing up on the bus waiting to get off. An older boy behind me grabbed my butt. It scared me and I panicked. Because there were people in front of me, I couldn’t run so instinctively I turned around and punched him. The bus driver saw this and sent me to the principal. I told them what happened but they said it was my word against his because no one saw him grope me. They suspended me. My mom was FURIOUS. She treated the suspension like a vacation and I got ice cream and toys and whatever I wanted. She was proud of me for standing up for myself and said I did nothing wrong. My mom’s awesome.
I wish I had your confidence, the first time I got gropped(two 'p's or one? idk) I only slapped the dude's hand away and made a disgusted face, idk how to speak up for myself lol. Also, your mom sounds rad for having your back at the time.🔥🔥
I fucking love your mom
Tf is wrong with people
Your mom is 🐐 and so are you
I just want to drop by and say, I have never been groped or even catcalled in the 30+ years of being a marginalny attractive woman on this Earth. I could probably walk through the street naked and still be safe.
It IS possible to build a society like that.
I have to take abuse awareness to volunteer with youth. An adult insisting that a child is “evil” or “satanic” is a sign of abuse we’re taught to look for. That Grandmother was emotionally abusing her grandchild & the mother was enabling it. It was vicious, cruel and the true evil in the story.
My mother still tells anyone who will listen about how "evil" and "satanic" I am. It's been going on since I was less than a year old and now I'm making eye contact with fifty.
I shut off contact with her a decade ago. I still hear about her doings from time to time, but I don't have to put up with her in my life.
@@tealkerberus748I'm so sorry you went through that! But good on you, distancing yourself from that toxicity! ❤
I'm glad to hear that helpers are being taught to be aware of that. A sure sign that humanity is getting at least a little better.
Beware the evangelical
Destruction of personal property is another a sign of abuse, whether in familial or romantic relationships. Things the person loves are targeted because they cause the most pain. If the destruction is done in front of the person, it’s also an implied threat, as in “this is what I want/will do to you.” In either case it’s essentially physical abuse by proxy, a symbolic destruction of the individual themself.
My friend posted a picture of her little boy (let's call him Joey) who loved Disney Princesses and their beautiful gowns. It was his birthday, he was with Rapunzle and in his best green dress. A stranger commented about how the mother shouldn't have dressed him like that, he's going to get teased etc etc etc. My friend said "No, he chose what to wear, he just loved princesses." Stranger went on a few more times, I finally said "Maybe your mum still dresses you but a 5 year old is perfectly capable of picking his own clothing out for his birthday party." Stranger went on about how he was destined to get beat up and high school is going to be treacherous because she is encouraging this. I'd had enough. The car crash that took several lives including Joey was very public and very violent so I replied to the stranger's comment with a link to the news articles and just said "He won't have to worry about high school. I would think the fact that the photo said "Joey's last birthday - I miss you so much." would have said it all but some people need help.
I am very sorry for your loss!
That's terrible, I'm so so sorry
Some fuckers just lose their ability to read the moment they see specific buzzwords.
I'm so, so sorry.
May that scumbag realize what a horrible person he is.
That took a turn
Ugh, fuck TSA. I'm trans and they think my chest is a suspicious foreign object. One time the agent refused to believe that the only removable thing on my chest was clothing. He kept telling me I needed to take off whatever was on my chest, and I kept trying to explain that the only thing on my chest was clothing. Eventually I was told if I continued to refuse to cooperate I would not be flying. So I replied, in a louder voice than necessary for him to hear, "Are you ordering me to remove me shirt?". Wow, it was like magic how fast a supervisor appeared. He tried to bluster and say I was just refusing to cooperate and he obviously wasn't asking me to take off my clothes, just whatever was under my clothes. So the supervisor asked me what was under my clothes and I said "Boobs", only to be told that because I refused to answer, I would be patted down. Yeah, like two inches down my chest it was like his hand was magically repelled from my body. Like yeah, boobs, I told ya.
Edit- yes, I told him I'm trans, that's not the issue, his refusal to listen was
> just whatever was under my clothes.
"So you want me to take off my bra as well?"
"Skin? You want me to remove some skin? Tell me how to detach it, I'd LOVE to have that party trick."
@@rolfs2165 he wasn't even talking about bras (I wasn't wearing one anyway, I had a binder on), he wanted me to remove the non clothing item on my chest. Which would be...my chest.
💀 some people really are dense, huh?
@@waffles3629 I'm aware of that, but … y'know, if you're already going down that route anyway … ;)
As a Christian myself, it makes me sad when parents force religion rather than make it a choice
Forgive me if I'm mistaken, but doesn't love of God have to be voluntary anyways? From what I've heard, it doesn't count if you don't accept Him "with all your heart" so forcing people to follow does about as much good as a sprinkler system in a hurricane
@@bobthegamingtaco6073 thats a good point
I personally Think that indoktrinering your children into your religion should be illegal. I dont mind like baptizing Them and stuff if you beleive they Will go to hell if they dont but anything that limits their lives experience in a Way the law wouldnt usually should be illegal
@@adrix_wastaken2196 forced religion should absolutely be illegal, it should always be a choice
@@rennoc6478forced is bad but convinving is good
My parents used to regularly perform exorcisms on me when I was only a baby. My mom's sister thought they were insane but couldn't convince them to stop. Not sure what a literal infant could do to make you think they're possessed but that's religious fundamentalism for you.
I mean my parents would jokingly call me their demon child as a baby because of the sounds I would make (probably acid reflux, I've heard my grandma make the same sounds in her sleep and it's legit terrifying lol)
"All parties involved in a fight get punished."
Kids quickly realized even if you didn't start it, you're going to get punished anyway so why not go all out?
So under this rule fights are often MORE DANGEROUS than they would have been under different circumstances.
Yeah, the kids realized pretty quickly that if their getting in trouble anyway atleast they can walk away from the fight satisfied. I remember two guys getting into a scuffle in the hallway because one said something about the other's mom. Dude realized that he was going to get suspended either way and decided to break the kids nose
Wish I realized this when I was younger. I was the one always getting suspended/ISSed because my bullies would all back each other up that they were innocent and that I started it. 🙄 Maybe if I realized the first time that if I fucked them up instead of just defending myself, the first time would have been the last time and I wouldn't have suffered 6 years of hell.
This is 100% accurate, but it's worth noting that the reason these rules get implemented in the first place is that all the other rulesets have serious flaws as well:
'No punishments for anyone' is pretty obviously flawed.
'Those who started it are punished' very quickly results in all fights having as few witnesses as possible, so each side can claim the other started it. This effectively just turns into 'the less popular kids in a fight get punished', which is a very nasty standard to set.
'The least hurt kids in a fight get punished' is probably one of the better options, as it at least creates a strong deterrence against more-excessive levels of carnage, but it also makes kids very, _very_ good at the art at inflicting maximum pain with minimum evidence. And once that happens, all fights thereafter basically get treated as 'the kids who are least good at screaming and turning on the waterworks get punished', which is obviously not ideal.
The real issues are that:
A. Trying to address conflicts _after_ they escalate to violence is always the wrong approach. It's important to take notice and take action _before_ that.
B. Proper supervision is very very important. Large class sizes and low school budgets mean there's just not enough resources for teachers to actually protect the children under their care from each other.
C. It's high time we actually recognized that schools should teach life skills of all sorts, not just 'job skills'. Most adults today have thousands of hours of training and practice at math and linguistics and such, but their skills and knowledge for deescalation, conflict resolution, and how to build healthy and lasting relationships from scratch, are all barely above toddler-level. In some cases, what they've 'learned' about relationships and conflict resolution is so wrong and bad that it's _actively worse_ than knowing nothing at all.
Wasn’t there a story of a kid throwing their bully out of a window because of such rules
My dad's mindset was always "If you get in trouble for defending yourself, we're getting ice cream and playing videogames."
As much as I tried to avoid fights to avoid punishments from the school, it was good to know I could fall back on my dad if I got into trouble for BS like that.
I'm transmasc, which makes people call me a biological woman. But by that definition, I should have a uterus, ovaries, and vagina. I was assigned female at birth, but what they missed until later in life is that I'm actually intersex... My external genitals developed, but my vagina never really did. I talk about it openly because I feel there needs to be someone who talks about this. In that situation, I would find a piece of paper and pen and draw a similar diagram to what my OBGYN drew to explain it to me.
It’s great that you’re open about it and willing to educate people. But it’s a shame that it’s ever necessary. People should be taught to mind their own damned business. The only people that need to know are your partners and your doctors.
There’s a Vagina Monologues story told by a similarly intersex woman (born w/o a vagina). It’s called the The Missing Vagina Monologue. I read it online a few months ago. What the doctors put her through as a 13 year old was awful.
I read that 6 times before realizing that you said 'transmasc' and not 'transphobic'
Well as long as you have the two important holes for your waste, the rest of it doesn't matter? I can be curious but I dare not ask for it being none of my beeswax even though I would rather know just so I'm not being ignorant in future, just forgetful.
@@Roadent1241yeah like why should anyone know/ask such personal info if they arent your doc or your partner? thats so nonsense
When I was in high school, I was SUPER short. Between the latter part of year 11 through year 12, i grew by almost 30cm. In year 10, though, i was barely breaking 120. My bully was a year older than me (same grade, though) and was the athletic type, 2 meters, muscles, all that. He always had other assholes with him, of course. One day, i had had ENOUGH and i put my fists up. He was cocky and said i could have one swing before he kicked my ass. I was too mad to stop, so i took a wild swing as high as i could reach, aiming for his jaw... And I missed... Barely...
And hit him right in the throat with all the tiny nerd rage my Chihuahua-esque body could summon. He instantly dropped to his knees, vomited, and wheezed for air. His whole posse backed up and wanted no part of the vicious little maniac that just dropped the biggest jock in school with one swing. The next day he apologized awkwardly for bullying me because apparently his mom told him that he got what he deserved. 😂 We actually ended up becoming really good friends because he was curious how i got so good at fighting (his dad was abusive, go figure) and I helped him study and get better grades. I did have to admit that it was a total accident, but he was cool with that. He took it as a wakeup call that he was being an asshole.
Fun fact: in 2000 pope John Paul II blessed the Pokemon series with Vatican saying that Pokemon have no moral side effects and it's based on strong friendship bonds
rare Pope W
@@BlooMonkiMan JPII was a huge w indeed
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10:48 the bible usually says to protect children, not _be the reason they need protection._
"Abuse is sin. It doesn't matter if it's physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, or spiritual; it is all sin. Titus 2:4 says we are to love our children. The word "love" is an adjective based on the verb phileo-to treat affectionately and kindly; to have warm regards for. As an adjective, this love is to characterize our interaction with children. And there is no place in such love for abuse."
IT’s surprising that people interpret the Bible the way at they want to and leave out out the means
I love ya bud, but I don’t think that these sort of “Christians” actually care about the religion besides using it as an excuse for hatred, you’re kinda preaching to the choir here, pun intended.
@@JoshuaKelly-hf2kxyou right a tru believer.. will not hate LGBT they will not show judgment.. Sadly there alot of mean alot of people who follow it right.. but they don't get put on the internet. So everyone only seeing the wrong people.
This go with gays trans blacks whites cops...
I haven't talked to a crazy I out there trans person who you need to use mine pronouns like the internet shows... or a gay guy who doing this over the top dancing when walking
Sadly, there are quite a few verses that talk about murdering infants or stoning children in the bible too.
In combination with this the “spare the rod spoil the child” verse makes more sense as being a guide to your children instead of letting them get away with just anything or as justification for corporal punishment.
"What's in your pants?"
"Genitals. Why? Is there something else in yours?"
Lmao okay that one's pretty good
In my pants there usually is a little money, hair ties, my keys and a guitar pick.
"Do you really want to know? I assure you it's nothing you'd expect"
underwear.
Another, smaller set of pants
Some bully in my class called me gay as an 'insult', my reply was 'If you're interested just ask me out.' and he switched classes the next day
😂😂
The only 'traumatize them back' I ever did, I didn't even have to do anything except for being stunned myself. When I was in high school, I was drinking out of a water fountain. The ones at this high school are in the wall, so you literally stick your head into a hole in the wall to drink from the fountain. I (cis male) had a shaved head. While I was drinking, I heard someone say to me "Nice ass, baby." I was so confused, I stood up, turned around and just looked at the dude. I couldn't think of what to say. Even without saying anything, his face went bright red with embarrassment as he quickly walked off. I don't recall any other interactions with him after that.
It's now one of my favorite memories and confirmation that despite my views of my own body, I cannot deny that I have an ass. lol
I think that guy was just trying to be funny lol.
Picture it. Elementary school in Montana. 1998. Me, AMAB 11 year old student, gets jumped by 3 older, larger boys. When I say I was jumped, it was multiple times, and a jungle gym was involved. Anyway, I got in trouble, because the school principal had a zero tolerance policy very similar to what was described in this video. She said I must have INSTIGATED the beating, and she apparently couldn't see from her office 15 feet away with the blinds and window wide open with essentially a ringside seat for this.
My mom gets called. I'm an absolute mess, and my principal is telling my mother that she wants to punish ME by making me be BEST FRIENDS with the boys that nearly unalived me and walk to school with them EVERY DAY for a YEAR.
My mother had had enough. She stood up to her full height, all 5 feet 0 inches of her, and without yelling or swearing, yet clearly enunciating every word, asks her how she would feel if she was r**ed, and at the trial, the judge ordered her to be BEST FRIENDS with the person who r**ed her, and walk to work with them every day. Then My mom said "Can you guarantee my child's safety in this school? Can you guarantee that they won't be harmed again or potentially unalived?" The principal waffled a bit, but finally said no. My mom said "Fine. I can." and she pulled me out of school.
I love my mom.
You are allowed to say “killed” in CZcams comments, they say “unalived” in videos to keep sensors away
Your mom should have sued.
When I was in elementary school I was SA'd by a high school boy on the school bus. I went to my school principle like I was taught and was basically told I was too young to know what really happened. My mom found out and was PISSED, apparently she caused such a scene that the principle (rightfully) lost his job. I have a lot of issues with my mom for a lot of reasons but I'll never forget that
@@godrickstockwell1505 The principal thought every parent was a conservative that didn't allow their kids to learn that these things are bad.
W
"What's in your pants?" has got to be the strangest, most inappropriate question you can ask a trans person, while still having the excuse of it just being a harmless question.
I think it's inappropriate to ask that of anyone. It's too specific 😭
Ikr?? Like I’ve never looked at someone and thought “Gee, I wonder what’s in their pants,” much less deciding to ask
I don't think any of the people asking it realise how weirded out they would be if someone walked up to them, looked them in the eyes and said "What's in your pants?"
if whats in your pants is your gender, my pronouns are under/wear
Hey! Do you have a COCK?
That's basically what that question is in blunter terms. Gross.
12:30 Congratulations Mom. You've taught your daughter to never get attached to anything because you'll just take it away and call your child a monster for liking something.
Disabled Op with the wheelchair is NOT the butthole. I've had people ask me weird af questions because I have an invisible disability like "How can you go outside? You have autism? You're supposed to hate people????" And Its RUDE. I have literally been asked how can I even wear clothes because of my autism. And YES, I have been questioned about my s*x life too. People just are wild af and have no brains left I guess.
Yep, zero tolerance fighting policies are utter bullshit. My school district was forced to change it after a 6th grader was punched unconscious by a bunch of 12th graders. They were actually gonna suspend him and his hella brave friend who literally used his body as a shield, well until the parents threatened to sue the district.
Were the 12th graders charged with assault? Beating a 10 or 11 year old kid freaking unconscious is a criminal act.
@@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose two of them ended up locked up for a year. Because they hit the 6th graders, hit the teachers who pulled them off the kids, hit the security guards who pulled them off the teachers and two of them were stupid enough to hit the cops who pulled them off the security guards. And they just so had the misfortune of being 18, so that went exactly as well as you'd expect. The rest of them got no legal punishment because all the court cared about was the cops getting hit. Because I don't count a restraining order as punishment. Like yeah, they can't go near the kids they assaulted, that's not a punishment.
@@waffles3629that escalated way too quickly, what even
I was suspended in high school because the girl my boyfriend was cheating on me with came from another school to beat me up.
@@theyoutubersfromdenmark8143 yeah, it wasn't my school (I went there for one class, long story that's not relevant to this) and I didn't know any of the students involved. But like, what the hell? One of them had a full ride to an ivy league school and instead went to prison. I have no idea how it went that wrong. It was like three weeks till graduation and they did this? Why??
"Never start a fight, but always finish it" sounds like the advice an anime parent/mentor would tell their child/student.
But it's really good irl advice.
Call me Ichigo, cause my dad always tells me that
Or Master Chief.
This is real advice in my house. The only time I ever got into trouble with my mom for "fighting" was when I didn't fight back. My principal was very shocked the first time he called her because I was fighting and she cut him off asking it I started it...
That's total BS. Most people who get bullied have no chance whatsoever "to finish it". This attitude is partly responsible that bullying is still so prevalent in the US because it puts blame on the victim for not being strong enough.
'swhat my dad told me. He expanded a little, though: "They hit you, *you punch them.* They kick you, *you stomp them."*
12:41 the most ridiculous thing about this story is that unicorns are mentioned as A FORM THAT ANGELS TAKE in medieval Christian stories.
A group of Karen's is called a harassment.
I don't know if that's an actual fact, but it should be.
Re: “Lady stop asking what’s in my pants I don’t want to have sex with you”
I used to use a similar tactic in high school. I was a queer kid going to Catholic school in a conservative town. I was deep in the closet and could “pass” most of the time, but the same was not true of some of my friends. On multiple occasions, people said things to me like “oh my goodness you’re friends with _____, right? I heard he’s gay, is that true?”. My response started being to pretend like I hadn’t understood their bitchy/ gossipy/ etc tone and to respond as if the gossiper had just admitted to having a massive crush on my friend. Eg “Ooooh why do you need to know? Are you in love with him? Aww that’s so cute that you have a crush!”
When I was in grade 8 (F presenting) a bully (who had multiple times gotten in trouble for bad comments and behaviour) told my friend, who is openly gay (I said I was lesbian then, but now I realized I’m nonbinary and have no clue about my sexuality) that if he were my friend he would kill me. He got suspended from the bus for two days. HE WAS ONLY SUSPENDED FROM THE BUS, WHICH I WASN’T EVEN ON, FOR ONLY 3 DAYS! it made me so mad, I didn’t tell my mom then, but later in grade 9 I did tell her. The only reason I told her though was because me and the kid were in the same science class and he asked my science teacher how gay people have kids, my science teacher told him that it depended on the person, and that the kid would have to ask someone personally. The kid then turned to me and said, if you and whatever wh*re you end up with want kids, i’d be happy to help. I told him that “oh, if I ever have kids i’ll just take them from homophobic a$$h*les like you, that way they’ll know what having parents who love them and each other is like.” My mom doesn’t like swearing, so o told her in a more pg way, but she got so mad on my behalf it made me so happy
Massive W you were delivering there.
I only got asked if I was gay in school once. It was from a total stranger and I was so stunned I didn't know what to say. Of course I immediately wished I had thought to say "why do you want to know? bc you like me?" But sadly I didn't. So I'm glad you got to actually say it to someone!!
Did you call the gossipers disgusting after asking if they had a crush? Cus ngl I'd probably do that.
i love to reply "i can set y'all up!! :D" it's a real winner too!
"Prove you're disabled!"
*disassembles self*
"Oh, god, stop!"
They straight up started bonitis folding.
“It’s rude of you to do something I myself asked you to prove!” The entitlement 😑
“you’re not disabled bla bla bla”
i was told this by a bunch of 12 year olds at my school bc i have a lift key, they don’t know me, why do they think i have a key in the first place?! i started listing of symptoms and more fancy names for my disability’s, they did not stop until the lift door had closed
I felt that one tho :') EDS runs in the family, which means that I too can disassemble myself.
@@Liz-yp9im Me, too. As soon as OP explained they were dislocating their joints, I had a pretty good idea of what was coming.
My dislocations are usually restricted to my ribs. I can usually get the "out" ribs back in myself, but sometimes they get stuck, and then my muscles go into spasm, and it becomes much more painful. At least I know what's going on and why! I was diagnosed at 38, after a dozen years of trying to find explanations for my chronic pain. I've been doing my best to spread awareness through all of my medical team, so that maybe the next person doesn't have to go through what I did.
Sending gentle hugs and extra spoons your way! 💙🤗🥄🥄🥄
I didn't really traumatize anyone but a while back, (I'm a trans girl, MtF) I convinced someone who was being extremely nosy that I was a trans boy instead (FtM) so he was saying I'm "still a girl". Best validation ever
Infinity IQ
Here's how to "segregate" bathrooms - Standing and sitting. One has nothing but urinals, the other is stalls. Done. Decide, stalls or standing.
New bathroom update ! !
amazing idea. who will implement this?
@@krasistefanovlol not the bigots for sure
Fuck urinals, we don't need them shits. In fact, I'm pretty sure they're a scam created by the shadow government
Did... did the Click just establish that Pokémon are all emotional support demons?
ALL cute monsters are emotional support demons to me.
Nothing to calm the nerves as a cute mascot monster or two.
They always were according to unreasonable christains...
@bazilda It's weird that accurate angels are worse nightmare fuel than classical demons.
Old demons might be horrible, but at least we're more humanoid and less bio mechanical looking.
Yes.
Pokémon is short for Pocket Monsters after all
For the "what's in your pants" question, I usually just list off what's in my pockets in order of least concerning to most concerning.
Had one the other day where I answered "wallet, phone, keys, gloves, mask, knife"
being the middle of winter (in the northern hemisphere), the mask and gloves make perfect sense!
“…Duct tape, incidentally does this hankie smell like chloroform to you?”
@@corpsehandler5321 But it take a whole new meaning if used with the knife .
But Gollum did not gues that you had the ring in your pocket
"knife" is unironically a normal item on myself but then again, I just like to carry multi-tools because jfc sometimes I just need something sharp and I do not have something sharp. >:C
23:32 the TSA doesn't actually provide a necessary service and should just be abolished. It's security theater at best, and authorized harassment at worst. The only validation of the TSA's efforts comes from the TSA itself. They were audited by other agencies once to see if they'd catch various things (including weapons) they failed miserably. To my knowledge there's been no outside audit of the TSA since.
2:05 "Zero Tolerance" is a misnomer, it should read "Zero Effort", as in "we punish everyone involved in the fight so it looks like we're doing something, without actually going in and figuring out what really happened"
It's amazing how often disabled people get told that they should be more 'polite' to people asking invasive questions about their medical history and giving unwanted and unqualified advice. I'm definitely going to try asking invasive questions back next time some stranger decides to interrogate me, and i absolutely will NOT be 'polite'
It works so well! No one expects you to ask them back.
Yeah, it's honestly baffling to me, even as someone who's not disabled. It's why my only interactions are to either smile and nod at them, or simply make a small comment like "hope you're doing good". Of course... this is also how I generally react to just about anyone that I'd have a reason to interact with in such a way. Just small, positive comments. Because from personal experience, such things can really make a difference in someone's life and mental health if they actually are doing bad. (there was a time where I was feeling pretty depressed, and while out with family at a symphony, some random young girl (probably 14ish?) just randomly complemented my shirt and it seriously made my week. (I was with my grandmother at the time, and was around like 26, with a full beard, so it was really easy to take it as simply a random positive comment and nothing else.))
BTW, I do genuinely hope anyone reading this is doing well, and if you're not, that things improve for you soon.
It's the same sense of entitlement to answers people often take with transgender people as well, or neurodiverse people, or anything really not seen as "normal" by the ignorant masses.
"OMG you're not EXACTLY LIKE ME!! You must tell me everything now without complaint because I NEED TO KNOW!!"
This is why, whenever it comes to disabilities or other sensitive topics, I always make sure to include something like "just out of curiosity" and ESPECALLY something along the lines of "Only if you're comfortable answering that"
"How did your last colonoscopy go?" Should do the trick
The whole "you're not hot enough to be harassed/SA'd" is so damn stupid. I'm no beauty physically, and even I have had my share of catcalling and way, way older dudes trying to hit on me. It's alllll about power, guys...
"just tell em you're allergic to erectile dysfunction or sumn idk" -Sun Tzu, the Art of War
The kind of man who's desperate enough to start catcalling is the kind of man who would screw a brick wall if it wore a wig and lipstick. Pretty is not the issue
@@bobthegamingtaco6073 Do I dare get myself r/woooosh'd?
@@BlooMonkiMan always. Better to comment and find out than don't comment and don't find out
Funny thing is that more “attractive” you are the more likely it is to be sexually harassed (so sorry for bringing up a sensitive topic)
Guy told me "smile, it's not that bad!" When I was literally just concentrating on getting a catering order together. I'm constantly smiling, not that any customer service employees owe you a smile. I told him that my grandmother had just been diagnosed with Alzheimer's and I was scared to lose her (an unfortunate truth). He went BEET red and stammered out an apology. Maybe he won't ask anyone else to smile again
Here's hoping. It's a sad truth that when parents fail to teach manners, and kids fail to learn manners, society has to pick up the slack.
another response to being told to smile: give the widest, most unnerving, unflinching grin you can. bonus points for sustained eye contact too.
I'm also disabled (with EDS as a matter of fact, and its bestie POTS) and I've been using mobility aids since my early 20's (currently in my late 30's). A couple years ago, I FINALLY managed to a disability placard for my car, and thanks to years of mobility aid use, I just ignore nasty looks.
So the other week I had physical therapy after work and I was already in a lot of pain, so I parked in disabled parking at the hospital where I work. As I was leaving, this old Karen came up to me, and started yelling at me about how it was illegal to use the placard when I didn't have the person it was assigned to with me (this is an EXTRA level of insane assumption given that I was parked in front of an ER/A&E entrance). I waited for her to get done yelling, and then said, "Well ma'am, I've been trying to escape myself for years, so if you have any ideas, I'm dying to hear it!" While she was trying to parse that out, I just got into my car and left, lol.
Obviously not very traumatizing, but hey, I'll take baffling.
She got left thinking.
When the bully calls you gay defense:
“I thought we were keeping our relationship a secret”
“I didn’t think you’d want everyone to know about me and your mom/dad”
I looked kinda sus at my bully as a joke and i kid you not i saw him question himself for a while and later on he avoided me while blushing like a anime girl well that shiz is weird but funny i guess
@@lord_xylozdoomsday959Noooo 😂 He's really living that stereotype lol
@lord_xylozdoomsday959 it's always the biggest homophobes who are deepest in the closet.
@@lord_xylozdoomsday959
Bro is a confused tsundere,soon a confession may come 😂😂
I, your Internet Uncle-Gay🏳🌈, wholeheartedly approve of this defense! Use it with my blessing!
Just remembered my "traumatize them back" while watching this : For context I'm a trans guy (M20) who got my breasts removed, but sometimes like to dress and be called "she" because it's still a part of me i like. I once went shopping for a gorgeous prom-like dress with a friend because why not. It was a very "chic" type store with very petty staff looking at you as if they were judging if you actually had the money to buy anything. When i tried one of the one-sized dresses, she looked at me and said with a very condescending tone: "uh.. you WOULD need some adjustments on the chest for THAT dress, but we have flat dresses that'd be more fitting". Considering the fact that this was the first time i went shopping for dresses as i guy i felt very self conscious. And out of nowhere, with a very cheery voice just said "Oh no it's fine don't worry, I just got surgery because I had breast cancer :)" and she stopped talking and grabbed the same dress in a different colour for me to try, but same shape. Nice
I might not understand the sentiment at all, but this was probably the right choice.
I hope you enjoyed the dress!!
@@Avrysatos I only started to wear it in public recently but I LOVE IT and everyone thinks it looks amazing on me and so do I !
@@nirhaa8591 just remember all “feminine” things were probably masculine first. Skirts, high heels, make up, pink, ect.
@@Skullhawk13 yeah, wearing the dress made me realise how I shouldn’t have to care and just do what makes me feel good
I got verbally abused by a religious person when I was in a shopping centre. I'd just picked up the fourth Harry Potter book and was following my parents around in stores, reading it when I could. This guy comes up and starts this tyraid about witchcraft and satan and stuff. He was standing over me with this crazy look in his eye. I'm crying and when my mum notices, we leave the store immediately. Turns out he followed us somewhere else, still raving.
So my dad pulls me behind him, looks up at this man (the dude was quite tall) and said "If youre going to pick on someone smaller than you, try me instead. But I am going to warn you I will beat the **** out of you in front of everyone and it's not going to be pretty. "
The dude took one look at my dad, realised he was dead serious and left.
I remember when a bully said "Hey, are you gay" clearly planning to ask "Does your mom know your gay" or something like that. But I patted his shoulder and said "Sorry no, but you'll find someone, I know it" and walked past him as he stuttered, after leaving the room I heard a loud "HEY!" but I was already out of sight.
36:45 "you could've politely told her" No. People do this stuff all the time to disabled people, and worse! Even well meaning people like OP's friends will tell disabled people to back down, it's stupid. I'm glad they stood up for themself
It's odd that so many people think that they are intitled to being able to decide if they think someone is "disabled enough". It harms people inside of the community too, even without someone asking them directly, because it causes many people to stop themselves from using resources they need because they think they aren't struggling enough to use the resources and that tohers might have it worse. The idea that marginalized groups owe people explanations for their existence is so mind boggeling to me. We get enough invalidation for several life times from doctors alone, I just wish people would recognize that we don't owe kindest to those who don't give it to us
My response anytime someone tells me I take something "too far" is always "why is it okay for them to do it, but not for me to do it back to them? conversations ain't a one way road, don't drive in my lane and i won't crash into your car."
If someone feels "entitled" to be that invasive to complete strangers, you GOTTA be just as invasive to them to make them realize how out of pocket they were.
Just an FYI for people who think trauma needs to be violent: molestation and other forms of assault are still traumatic and cause mistrust and PTSD as a result. Violence makes it more difficult to ignore, and usually causes more aggressive coping mechanisms, but it is still traumatic. Trauma is trauma, no matter the cause.
Even more-so: Mental trauma is 100% a thing. I say this as someone who definitely 100% suffers from minor PTSD due to entirely mental reasons. It doesn't even have to be physical, or even intentional. Mine comes from my family basically just... never thinking about how I feel about anything. Been lied to my entire life about multiple things because it would be too hard on THEM to tell ME. Only reason I know about these things is from having learned to spy on them if I want to know literally anything.
Basically, my parents treat me like how most people treat their neighbors. Yet I'm forced to go along with everything. I'm told plans sometimes the day before, despite being something planned for over 6 months, that forces me to be out of the house for multiple days. And the rest of my family just accepts this and doesn't inform me of anything, despite also being informed months in advance.
And the part that makes this all ridiculously traumatic is the fact it doesn't remotely stop there. It includes things like... who my biological father is. Imagine just one day learning that your biological father is in jail for the cause of your birth, and realizing that you've never once been told the man you thought was your father isn't actually related to you in any way. Yeah. That's what happened when I was 14. I'm now 30ish. They still haven't told me.
Yes, and trauma can be just about anything as well, especially if we're talking about early childhood stuff. I was legit terrified of sinks for months as a small child thanks to watching a whole two minute scene from the old It movie unsupervised. That's why I don't make fun of anyone for any kind of phobia, even if I think some of them are a bit silly or pointless, because I mean, I also slipped and almost got sucked away in a storm ditch not that far apart in time from that instance and I still haven't learned how to swim because I'm scared of water 2ft deep. People really shouldn't judge others on what is or isn't justified as trauma by their standards as well because different people also have different tolerance levels and while some can go through a bad situation minimally affected, that exact same scenario can have such a profound effect on the mental state of a different person that it permanently changes them. This I... Knew but never quite fully understood so I'd accepted it as something others went through but it honestly only very recently hit me that, oh wait, the stuff I personally experienced is why I don't have friends and am very asocial and have trust issues, oh wow, amazing, where's my refund ticket? Looks can often be deceiving, especially if you're hurt and trying to hide it to appear strong when you really aren't and should just accept that it's better to be ok with not always being ok, but ik, easier said then done when I for sure can say but can't act on that atm
Yup! It can also have some effects that affect the person in quite unexpected ways.
@@ChaffyExpert that's got nothing to do with the conversation. Stop trying to cause an argument, it's pathetic.
@whatisthis1958 That person won't be the first or last I've encountered on YT who think or speak badly of me for being myself. Thanks for the reminder not everyone is out to get me ❤️
The kid telling a bully he can snap him like a twig kindof reminded me of something. So back in the day, I found out a guy was bullying my twin brother for a while (i was kindof more introverted and didnt talk with people too much back in school). Now important to note, at the time, my brother (we arent identical btw) was a bit small for our age (12/13 ish I think?). Now about me, I stopped growing at 13 till about uni. Meaning not that I was small, but that at 13 I was like 185cm tall and weighed around 110kg (used to play rugby and was pretty good at some athletics stuff like shotput). So one day, I see this guy walk to my brother, spit in his hair and rub it in. And just… no one does anything, he and his friends are laughing and my brother and his friends just avoid them and leave. I walk behind the bullying kid as they leave, tap him on the shoulder and spat a mouthful of spit directly in his face and then stood there. Not one single person around him did anything and no one even said anything. He stammered around as I am just staring directly into his eyes, he cant keep my gaze and eventually I just leave. I do actually think that stopped him from ever doing that crap again, which at least was nice. A lot of those people really are cowards though.
3:42 oh my god that reminds me of my weird bully story. I was in 9th grade and I had been out for like a year as trans and like 5 years as queer. This dude wouldn’t let go of calling me my dead name, I’d always ignore it (though I couldn’t help but flinch) but one day I was having a terrible day, and I was ready to go home, we were at bus circle and ofc, he took the time out of his day to say “hey [deadname]” the exact words I replied with were “you call me that again and you won’t have kids and your balls will have to descend again, call me dylan, or call me nothing,” could have been better, but pretty good for a first try
I have no idea why, but some people feel like they have the right to know everything about you or judge your disability when you are disabled. I had a lady come up to me once at a bus stop and Tell me I don't need the wheelchair cuz I'm just fat and if I "actually exercised" and lost weight like a normal person I'd be fine. I was Not having it that day and gave her my best dagger stare and told her "Lady, I broke my spine in 2 places, want me to break yours too and see if you can fix it with a little exercise?" It was admittedly mean, but dang lady. She did have the grace to look ashamed.
This line is actually fucking badass holy shit
You had full right to say that, don't feel bad
Oh how I wish to have your level of 'in the moment' wit. Whenever I think of a clever retort, it is already tomorrow.
Admittedly some people need a reality check every once in awhile. If you never did that she would have kept doing that to people.
Good God, that line is EPIC. Boy do I wish I had your quick wits, cause I would love to make a comeback as awesome as that. Absolutely priceless!
When I was 11 I had a wart removed from the sole of my foot, in the middle of the heel, and because of that, I had a note from the doctor to sit out of my PE classes for a couple of days while the wound healed. I only used that "excuse" for the activities I really couldn't do (basically anything involving putting my heel on the ground) but I still used my scooter to get to school every morning because I only needed to use the front of my foot to propel it, so it didn't hurt.
Well, one day we were supposed to do a running activity in PE and the teacher allowed me to skip it, but a group of my classmates started complaining that I was faking it to get out of the activity, that I couldn't have any problem because obviously, I was fine enough to use my scooter every day.
With a wicked smile I just went "oh yeah, I have a hole in my foot, do you wanna see it?" and started taking off my shoe and my sock and peeled off the bandaid that was covering the wound.
The look of absolute horror on their faces when they saw the 2cm wide hole in my heel was so satisfying. They all instantly looked away and begged me to cover it. They never said a word after that.
Proper procedure, power to you.
you warned them, now gaze into the HEEL VOID
@@audiovisualcringe 🤣🤣🤣
I mean that is the most fair and reasonable one of these stories. Ignorant kids didn't know better and complained rudely, you taught them that health issues aren't always immediately apparent.
That's big
That's a big hole
It's like a bullet hole
My mother donated all my toys to The Salvation Army one year because any little thing she didn't like that i did as a kid was immediately blown out of proportion. One time she threw away all my books because she didn't like how I kept them on my desk.
My response to "I did your mom" jokes is always, "I know your lying because no one survives the ordeal", and now I' thinking of following it up to "My dad still walks crooked to this day"
That story about the unicorns is messing me up. How can you mess up so badly as to make your child not only watch but participate in the destruction of stuff that clearly means a lot to her, and then tell her she's upset because she's in satan's grasp and is therefore evil FOR LIKING UNICORNS?! I never experienced anything like this, but I'm horrified. Anyone who accepts that such a harmless interest is evil, is an idiot with no imagination. To get to a point where your child doesn't cry or accept your peace offerings - you done MESSED UP.
Same here. Makes me thankful my Christian mom loved mystical creatures.
@@kittycatmeowmeow963 Same! My mom was Christian and loved fairies, always buying books about fairies or trinkets of fairies. Funnily enough, she also adored witches, something a lot of Christians have hard stances against.
That are called narcissists, shutting down is a self defense mechanism. Those of us who survive them are tough as nails
I felt my own heart break when the kid said "It's too late."
My cousin recently banned her children from going to Starbucks because the mermaid or siren or whatever it is on the logo is "not of God." Does this make sense to anyone?
I have a pool pass for a hotel called Pegasus. Is she going to ban her children from swimming there too because of the winged horse on their logo? How does she pick and choose which fairytales are evil? Can anyone explain this, because I do not understand it.
I had a coworker try to convince me that trans women shouldn't be in the women's bathroom and was asking me if I would really be okay with my imaginary future daughter seeing a woman in there standing while using the toilet and I looked at him and told him "First of all, I don't want kids and even if I had one, I would hope that my child wouldn't be creepy or weird enough to look into someone's bathroom stall as they are using it. Second of all, my best friend is a trans man and I have never thought of him as anything but a man and I know for a fact that he nor any other trans person would ever use the restroom with the stall door open like a weirdo, so I would really appreciate it if you kept your very bad opinions to yourself, sir." Needless to say, he no longer talked to me about being against trans people again.
My mom is like that and it makes me soooo uncomfortable!! Trans people have been using the bathrooms for decades and people haven't noticed. But now people are more aware of these things and people like my mom think they can always tell. Wouldn't it be safer if a transwoman goes into the women's room if she looks like an actual woman? People who are against this says that if someone hasn't had the sex change surgery, they should go into the bathroom that matches their private parts. Who are going to crotch checks on people to see if they are in the right bathroom?
My mom even said that some men will claim they are a transgender just to go into the women's bathroom just to assaults women and girls. Also she says that it's almost never reported because "those people" don't want the public to know because it messes up their "statistics". That's only the tip of the iceberg, but then she says she has no problem with transgender people because she has a friend who is...
Just say the “why would a sigh stop someone from assaulting someone?”
I love all the insinuations in that statement calling your co-worker out.
Plus people can use the "You leave the stall door open when using the toilet?" and "You watch people using the toilet?" with a creeped out tone of voice to get people to back off.
(If that last one doesn't work and they double down or they actually do invade your privacy in the toilets, just tell them "You know there are easier ways to satisfy your kink than watching people in public toilets?")
@@GretchZ To be fair, the actual argumentation behind that one is not about the sign* stopping someone, but more about it increasing the odds of someone else noticing that somethings up. If you see some man watching the bathroom, entering it or inside of it and hes clearly not with a child, (or partner in the watching case) and its ruled he doesnt belong in there, its more likely that someone is suspicious about whats going on there. Not that thered be any numbers to prove or disprove anything about that in a relevant manner that im aware of. Especially considering the mentioned issue that most of the time theres nobody watching the entry and even then that person wouldnt be able to just magically tell whats in them pants.
Anyways, never had an issue with a cleaning lady in the mans bathroom, wouldnt care if a mom went inside with her boy and in enough public spaces its common for women to also go into the mens stalls if theirs overcrowded, so couldnt care less about who goes into mens stalls unless they clog it big time, albeit i would prefer parents to go with their children, no matter if its the bathroom matching the parent or the kid, so maybe thats not common elsewhere but i just dont see that much of an issue with going where its needed in both ways. Whoever can use the urinal is cordially invited to and if a father needs to change his kids diaper then dont act all surprised if he cares less about getting some odd looks than using the changing station
"Why are you in the women's restroom"
You: "it all started when I realized i wasn't being given 100% attention 24/7... I'm was little baby that's desperate for attention, and i haven't grown out of it..."
2:48 massive brain fart led to me imagining a trans colored M16 rifle, honestly best brain fart I’ve ever had
burst out laughing at this, made my day.
I work with a lot of people doing rideshare. When someone who is obviously covered in tattoos get in my car I would tell them. Wow you have some great art work. Usually they light up and start talking about all the meanings of each tattoo because 99% of tattoos have stories attached to them. Makes the ride so much better for both of us. I don't have any tattoos because I don't think I could go through with it because of my fear of needles but I can absolutely admire all the amazing art around me.
I used to do rideshare and my conversation starter was "Living or dead, if you could see any 3 musicians or bands perform who would they be?" Replies ranged from Mozart to the Spice Girls!
@@brianmckennon9460okay but hear me out, the spice girls featuring mozart. Dude composed a piece called Lick my Ass, he could make a good backing track for them lol.
The "boys will be boys" one. In preschool there was a kid who'd hit me every day. Told my parents and the teacher, there was a discussion with both sets of parents and the teacher. Kid's parents said that line, my dad returned with "and girls will be girls". He came home and told me that the next time that kid hits me I have full permission to "handle my business". Next day I gave him 3 strikes. Hit 1: "don't touch me. Teacher, X hit me". Hit 2: "I told you to stop. Teacher, he did it again". Hit 3: didn't say anything, I just broke his nose.
The teacher relayed the days events to my parents, I got in no trouble. And even though the teacher did also tell him to stop he ignored her.
Dads give the most random, but amazingly functional fix-it-yourself issues. And if this happens again, show them your true power, morph into a being undescribable by anything other than "pure horror" and use your power to "vomit" metal sparks, it won't kill them, but it will hurt and burn, because girls will be girls 😊
3:34
Click not realizing that he's more than just the guy that reads reddit posts. He offers free therapy, advice, and sometimes even some effective verbal weapons.
hes a versatile king
True as hell.
And wholesome trauma and laughs
Exactly! He's like a comforting big brother/cool uncle.
Also educational content. Click academy teaches actual maths and physics.
"What's in your pants?"
"Pinworm infestation"
9:30 this part (kinda the whole story) reminds me of when my grandparents convinced my mom to perform an exorcism on me cuz i was suicidal 💀 lets just say DIDNT MAKE IT GO AWAY
Hey! That's my story!
Giraffe tattoo person here! Been a fan for a while and was so excited to share that one after hearing about the sub through your channel. I usually put these videos on for background noise while I work on sewing projects so hearing my words come out of your mouth really freaked me out for a moment there lol
I'm so sorry for your loss, my friend. Your story was one of my favorites I've seen. I always resonate more with the service industry stories due to my own personal experiences. I hope you're doing well and I hope you're handling the loss of your sister the best you can. I know that pain will never go away, but I hope that the weight of it gets lighter to carry as time goes on. Sending you love and light, my friend ❤️🩹❤️🩹
@@seesoux3070 Don't worry, I'm far better now than I've ever been before. I keep her close, and joke about wearing my heart on my sleeve. I've also turned to art to help me express the uglier emotions involved. I also have other siblings who I'm able to reach out to and talk to when things are more difficult. Things aren't perfect, but every step is towards a better place.
@willjackson3402 that sounds really great! As someone who also loved your story most, I send you all the best!
Ps: do you share your art somewhere?
I have no words, but want to send you a virtual hug 🫂
@@aymcleonidas195 I really don't post my work on social media much unfortunately. A lot of it is deeply personal and I prefer to keep it in friend and family groups.
Randomly, I had a man tell me in the middle of a conversation I would be "really pretty if I would lose ten pounds". I was shocked. I looked at him and asked "what makes you think starving myself would make you look any better to me?" True story. He said, "don't be like that, I was just trying to help you".
They get so trigger lol😂
Correct response would be "you're literally 300 pounds heavier than me"
I was always chubby in HS, and when I got cancer, my dad legit said "well at least you're thin now." I was so mad but hes always said fucked up things being sociopathic (ASPD diagnosed). I wotked out really hard to get strong and later he said "Its good the chemo stuck so now youll always be thin." Pissed off I told him "too bad your alcoholism cant be cured the same way than."
Definitely a Nice Guy™️
@@SaintShion _DAYUM._ That belongs in r/RareInsults.
Zero tolerance stuff is like punishing the woman for being sexually assaulted.
My mother was almost called due to zero tolerance until I pointed out that I could go to the phone bank and make a police report about the boob grope that occurred prior to my frightened flappy arms to the boy's face.
23:00 I'm not transgender, but I was patted down like that about 10 years ago in an airport. I was wearing a long sundress, and not wearing anything underneath. It was a 40 minute flight from Phoenix to LA. They said I had to be patted down because my dress could hide contraband. I was not prepared for this stranger to put her hands all the way up my dress and touch me there. I felt very violated.
I came in for my shift at work after literally finding my dog dead under the porch. I had been crying for most of my shift but had finally started to calm down, when this older guy came up to me and said "you'd be prettier if you smiled". I just broke down bawling again and told him that my dog had died and i found him just before my shift". His eyes went wide and he didn't look at me the rest of the transaction. People really just need to mind their own beeswax.
I hate this type of people. If you tell them the same thing when they're not in the mood they'll be mad
I always hated the stupid f-ers who said that to me! 🤬🤬 Like we OWE them a smile! BS!!!! Good for you for telling that man off!! And I’m sorry for your loss. 🙏
Good! He should have felt embarrassed about that! It’s a shitty comment to begin with, but even worse when leveled at someone who is clearly upset!
My (30F) dad died a few years ago and I had flown back to my home state to be with him in his last days and then be with my family for a couple weeks to get affairs in order and just generally grieve together. Terrible time but I am also SO glad I was able to be there. Anyway, the day after I returned home I was driving through town and was pulled over-I think my tags were expired? The officer was just being, like, way too nosey especially after I said something like “oh shoot, it must have expired while I was out of town”, and he ended up asking me why I was out of town with this weird incriminating tone. I had spent several days crying and mourning and was pretty emotionally exhausted at this point so, I looked at him straight in the face and with a deadpan tone, told him “well, my dad died”. He visibly reeled and then rushed off to his patrol car to gather his paperwork returning with just a quick, short warning. That interaction actually made me laugh and I *know* my dad would have laughed as well! 😂
I went through many years of bullying in school and often was just keeping my tears in, and since my dad as a teacher had a similar schedule he often picked me up. At some point he started complaining that I wasn't smiling and that it would suck that I'm not smiling. I'm 18 now, graduating in three months, suffering from PTSD thanks to the bullying and what does my dad do? Tell me the exact same thing. Supportive father
I'm sorry for your loss, that would have been absolutely heartbreaking. 💜💜
As a TSA officer, that officer did that pat down completely wrong!!!! We’re supposed to use the skirt or dress as a barrier NOT reach up and touch someone beneath their clothes. So unprofessional
I never took the airplane in my life. Glad to know there is rules for pating and it isn't up to the officer.
@@vcool122yeah!
TSA patdowns turning into groping is absolutely routine, moreso if you're trans and the body scanner flags you for having unexpected shapes in unexpected places.
Trust me, most tsa agents are really invasive if you're disabled or trans
I'm an invisibly disabled, cisgender woman who has gotten multiple airport pat-downs. For the record, the term "pat-down" is misleading. There's really no patting; instead, the security agents smooth their hands along the body. I'll explain the procedure I've been through in detail as a reference, in case anyone is curious or wants a comparison point. I am happy to answer questions; nothing is off limits or too personal. Seriously. If I can be useful, I'm happy to do so. _Everyone_ should be treated with the dignity and respect I've been privileged (which I _hate,_ but will ruthlessly use as an ally) to experience.
I have an implanted medical device located in my back, just above my right hip. It pumps medication into my spine (kind of like an epidural, except a teensy bit deeper) to reduce my chronic pain from unbearable to just plain terrible. One of the benefits is that I get some pain relief without the drowsiness or other unpleasant side effects of other routes of pain medication delivery. (I'm happy to answer questions about this, and the spinal cord stimulator I had beforehand.) The general safety instructions, per the pump's user manual, caution me to avoid passing through any magnetic security devices that have a ceiling.
My pat-downs have been quite consistent.
As I am female-presenting, they find a female agent for me. This can take a while. There have been times I've waited at least twenty minutes (which cut it pretty clo, and have told them that I'm fine with a male agent performing the pat-down; I have had so many medical staff handle me that I long ago stopped caring about people touching me clinically. I do not remember any male agent performing a pat-down on me, but chronic migraines have made a mess of my memory, so I can't be sure. Hubs handles putting our belongings (including my shoes) through the metal detector and collecting them. He is not allowed near me from the moment I'm taken aside for my pat down.
Once they have a security agent, this is what happens:
-I stand on a mat, with my feet about hip-width apart, as indicated on the mat.
-The screener puts on fresh gloves.
-I'm asked to raise my arms, so that they're straight out, at roughly a 90° angle from my body.
-The screener usually starts with my front. With medium pressure, they hold the front of their hands flat against my body, with their fingers parallel with the floor, and make parallel, downward passes from shoulder-height to about where my breasts start (if I'm wearing clothing that covers this area). They do this until they have checked the whole area, from one shoulder to the other.
-They repeat the same motions from below my breasts (just under where the bottom of a bra hits) to about the level of my hip bones.
-They do the same with my legs. Some screeners curve their hands to follow the contours of my legs, and some keep their hands flat. They start fairly high up on the thighs, but _do not_ touch my crotch at all.
-When finished smoothing along my legs, they go back and carefully feel the hems of my clothing, and my ankles under my socks (if I'm wearing any).
-They follow the same procedure along my arms, checking the hems of sleeves. Once that is finished, I am allowed to put my arms down.
-Then, they explain that they will briefly run the *backs of their hands* over my breasts and pelvic area. This is always done quickly and clinically, using the same, parallel, downward motions as on the rest of my body. There is no lingering, grabbing, cupping, or anything of the sort. They do *not* put their hand(s) between my legs.
-They explain that they will hold one hand bladed (like a "karate chop" position) and run the side with the pinkie around the bottom contour of my breasts. This follows the path of where an underwire would sit on a bra. Again, it is done briskly and impersonally.
-They ask me to turn and face away from them, keeping my legs hip-width apart, and leaving my arms down.
-They follow the same procedure as with my front, only avoiding my buttocks.
-They notify me that they will use the backs of their hands on my buttocks, and use the same bladed hand position to run along the bottom curves of my buttocks, where they meet my legs.
-They check under my hair and squeeze along the length of a braid or ponytail. Some run their hands over the areas of my hair that are pulled back, too.
-Sometimes, they will wipe my skin, clothes, and/or carry-on with special paper that will pick up bits of debris that they can test for certain substances.
Security is not allowed to ask what my implanted medical device is for. They will ask the location, and if it is completely under my skin (it is). Sometimes they'll ask if it's a pacemaker or insulin pump, as those are most common. Since they can feel the pump through my skin when they reach that area of the pat-down, I pull my clothes aside, so they can see what it looks like, and confirm that the surgical scars are old and healed. They're not allowed to ask me to do that, but it makes the process easier for both of us if I volunteer it. I do have a card that was given to me by the device maker's representative to offer to security personnel. The card has some information on it, but TSA is not allowed to look at it, which is weird.
I live in Southern California, and have gone through these pat-down procedures at airports in San Diego, CA; Los Angeles, CA; Oakland, CA; San Jose, CA; Miami, FL; Lihue, HI; somewhere in Texas; Puerto Vallarta, Mexico; and Willemstad, Curacao. The procedure has been nearly identical at each airport, both inside and outside of the US.
I have found that the type of clothing I wear can make the process go faster and require a little less touching than I have described. This is what has worked for me, I am not advocating for or against it with regard to anyone else. I wear a form-fitting tank top, capri-length yoga pants, and either flipflops on bare feet or ankle-height socks and sneakers. I pull my hair back into a French braid or ponytail, and make sure my hair tie is not bulky and does not contain metal. The only jewelry I wear is my wedding ring and sometimes earrings. This leaves very little of my body obscured. If it's cold, I'll wear a hoodie or jacket, which I take off to put through the scanner with our other carry-on items.
"What's in your pants?"
Shit 😊
Would you like some new pants?😅
I had a coworker ask me if I'd done anything naughty with my girlfriend over the course of a few weeks. I finally said to him, "Your sex life must be pretty bad if you have to keep prying into my private business with her." He never asked me again.
For real lol. I love my friends dearly, and I would not want to know when, if, or how they go about getting down with another person. My place is NOT between their genitals
Just so you are all aware what the TSA did to you is considered sexual assault even officers of the law are not allowed to touch that area without extensive paperwork, witnesses and NEVER in public (on any gender)... IF THIS EVER HAPPENS TO YOU IMMEDIATELY GET A LAWYER!!!!!
Yeah but Trans people are more focused on the WORDS you say to them than the actions you enact on them!
So they literally enjoyed the simple human contact, because they didnt get none from dad.
But that's why they allowed the evident molestation.
The problem is that in some US states it is basically illegal to be trans, so the legal system wouldn’t give a poo.
It’s literally legal to end one of us just because the perpetrator thought the victim was creepy and upsetting in some states.
I don’t leave Minnesota.
@@GretchZ same
@@GretchZthis is a federal institution, though, so the court would be federal, not state.
Sorry for the long story, here goes:
I have metal rods in my legs to keep my knee caps in place. I was at the airport (O. R. Tambo) checking in, and because I'm disabled and slow I struggle to get all my stuff out of my bags and into the boxes to scan the stuff, I tend to get stressed about holding people up and maybe I look like I'm hiding something, Idk. I walked through the detector and immediately it started going off. this is weird, it doesn't normally do that in malls and shops with detectors. So I told the menacing looking guard about my surgery. I was wearing a long skirt and stockings so I couldn't really show him my scars. The security told me to take my stockings off and I declined saying it would take too long. What follows is absolute BS in my opinion. He proceeds to prod my legs all over with his metal rod thing. It beeps where the pin is and then he whacks it. It was so painful I collapsed on the floor crying. To my amazement the people behind me rose to my defense and started shouting at the guard. The lady behind me had already finished having her stuffed scanned while all this took place, and then coerced the guard to carry me to the boarding gate. He was a massive so it wasn't impossible but still a struggle. I hate being carried but their wasn't a wheelchair nearby and I didn't want to miss my flight in the time it took them to fetch one from the other side of the airport, so I accepted. The whole way to the departure lounge he was lectured by this woman and she bought me a coffee and asked the flight hostess to switch her seat to sit with me. I was flying back to Cape Town and my Father had just died so I was grateful for her friendship. Even if it came from a seriously negative experience. Next time I'm flying assisted passenger. Sheesh.
Can I send this person a giant stuffed Pokémon? I'm sorry for the trauma, some people honestly don't deserve children. If my future child loved unicorns I would turn their bedroom into a magical unicorn land/hideout. Complete with glow in the dark stickers. We should embrace what our children love and protect them from those that would rip away their childhood.
“With or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil; but for good people to do evil - that takes religion.” - Steven Weinberg
Hell yeah to parents who support their kids defending themselves. When I was 16, I was suspended for a week for punching a guy in the mouth who stabbed me with a sharpened pencil deep enough that I had to go to hospital and press charges against him. He almost punctured my lung through my intercostal muscles. My parents bought me a car lmaooo
It was a car from a family friend, and we never had much money, but my parents went out of their way to turn that traumatizing event into an opportunity for my independence and an incredible gift that I did not deserve. I drove that car throughout high school, into an entirely new country when I moved for university, until I graduated, to the first hospital where I worked my residency at, and I finally bought myself a new car when I saved enough from my own dream job and my beloved first car was literally run into the ground. I love my parents so much 💓
Defend your kids :)
That’s awesome but holy how much did he sharp the pencil that it almost punctured your lung
Edit: at that point that steps out of bullying into attempting murder/assault with a weapon
What happened to the bully
@@sovietunion8304 This would less be about the sharpness of the pencil and more the force applied to it, this was absolutely along the lines of attempted murder if they went for the chest. (please do not take my word as though I am a lawyer, I am just a silly cat on the internet)
@@meowkittymeowmeow2786nope. You can still die from a punctured lung. Just less likely. If you have to go for the hospital, you can push for attempted murder in court.
@@ShorkBoi I didn't say anything about survivability tho?
@@meowkittymeowmeow2786 "I am just a silly cat on the internet" *checks profile pic* It is as you say. Most excellent. Carry on.
I have a tattoo on the back of my shoulder with my Moms name, her birth and death year, and a rose petal (her favorite flower). I was hanging out at a beach with some friends when some random dude with his family yelled at me "You're gonna regret that tattoo when she leaves you." and I just respond with, "Well, she's dead. So....? -shrugs-" he shut up really quick and didn't make eye contact with me the rest of the day (it was a small lake beach). My mom passed in 08 and this happened in 2015 so I was perfectly okay with making jokes about it. Still am.
That's really cool (the tattoo, not the jerk) my stepdad has a memorial tattoo for his brother, it's neat to see the ways in which we try to remember our loved ones
@@bobthegamingtaco6073 My Grandmother got her first tatt at the age of 60 to commemorate her mother after she died - a book and a lemon.
Your whole body is an extension of your parents, in a way. I wonder how people feel when their entire appearance is similar to one of their parents. I assume it makes you feel closer to them when they're gone.
4:09 I say “harder mommy” or “oh, please” or something like that whenever someone threatens to physically harm me, despite me being asexual, and unless they know me and have to deal with this regularly then whoever’s threatening me usually backs down. 😂
12:19 Honestly I wouldn’t have touched the unicorn toys after either. They did it once, what’s to say they won’t do it again? Not gonna bother getting attached to the same thing when they showed that they were that willing to rip it away from me.
My favorite cat call is crouching down rubbing my fingers together on one hand while going "ps ps ps ps" and holding an open can of friskies tuna in the other hand. Works every time lol.
I just shake a cup most of the time when I wanna catcall, they always come running ;) cats ofc, why would I wanna call humans over to my place?
See I get cat called all the time, whenever they're hungry, or want to play, or lonely, my cat calls me constantly
@@discordiacreates6669 so they can pet your cat
@@gwblueberry which one? The one that bites or the ones that hate being petted? ^^'
@@gwblueberryNah they’re my cats
2:01 reminds me of a quote from the movie Aristocats: “Ladies dont start fights, but they can finish them” and honestly I live by that quote
Marie is iconic ❤
Marie has some real good advice
Marie is such an icon
"girls don't start fights"
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAA
Okay not to be pedantic but technically the quote is
*Ladies* don’t start fights, but they can finish them.
When I was converting to Judaism* I was talking with my rabbi
Him: “traditionally we’ve discouraged people from converting because of antisemitism.”
Me: “I’m trans, disabled and gay. What are they gonna do, k*** me four times?”
Him: “Well, you got a point there…”
*well, I was already Jewish, but my family history is such a mess it made sense to go through the process. I “tested out” of most of it.
It was part of my upbringing, but it was just all out of order and crypto because my mom didn’t know.
Sure, the people literally burning all of a kid’s belongings in a bonfire aren’t performing some sort of Satanic ritual. Uh-huh.
I’m sure God will be happy about his followers.
"I'd like a cocktail please"
"Haha such a girly drink! You want a cherry with that?"
"Yes I would like a cherry with my 50% alcohol drink with more hard liquer in it than your dad's entire drink cabinet. Enjoying your 2% alcohol beer like manly men? Or are you on the HARD stuff, 5% alcohol beer? Enjoy your vaguely alcoholic liquid bread, I'll enjoy my mostly neat vodka pink cocktail, thanks"
Also to the fear the nice quiet guys thing? Yeah. You should. I have a good friend who is the nicest guy you coild possibly meet. But on the extremely rare occasions he does get angry, it is fucking terrifying and you wanna run for the bomb shelters even if he's angry on your side.
Problem is, there are nice guys, and then there are self-proclaimed "nice guys". People who post the memes Click was referring to are usually in the latter group.
...what is a 2% alcohol beer? I never saw something like that in my life. It sounds horrific!
@@uinsel I was speaking in hyperbole. For comedic effect.
@@uinselI mean, historically speaking, kids used to be given watered down wine with their meals, that was probably 2% lol
As a German implying 5% is 'strong beer' unalived me.
I am currently writing from the grave
The best part of being autistic and ADHD is that my standard mode is to traumatize them beck because I have 0 impulse control and it takes a while for my “that’s not appropriate to say” brain center to switch online lmfao
Hahahahaha I feel you 😂
That's what makes living in modern times so exciting! There's so many horrible things on the internet and all of them come live in my brain until one day at dinner I blurt out a fact about human taxidermy and everyone is stunned
No because that's too real. 😂
I feel you 😂
I feel like there is no good parts in having ADHD, I can’t talk about autism because I’m not that dumb but ADHD is not fun tbh.
My mum always taught me as a kid, that I shouldn't ever start fights, bully, tease, etc. BUT, if anyone attacked me, tried to hit me, etc, I was allowed to fight back and defend myself. And so I did. I rarely got into fights, but I did get bulled sometimes. I dealt with them over time. One I wasn't able to, because he was much older than me, but the principle heard about it and had a talk with him, and so he stopped.
I wouldnt be surprised if her mom is gonna spend her retirement days dumped in the worst retirement home possible.
I would be so petty as to make sure to call her every day after shes fully demented to remind her how much I hate her so she lives that heartbreak every day for the rest of her miserable existence.
yes I am the pettiest person on this planet.
Based
The real shitty part with all the trans ones is that it is some how acceptable to treat them like that and pretty much no repercussions, but if a trans person actually does turn around and knock them one it will immediately become "TRANS PEOPLE ARE SO VIOLENT" and they would one hundred percent get struck with the law in a way no other cis-person defending themselves would. Our society is absolutely repugnant sometimes.
I don’t feel much like travelling the USA because in some states it’s legal to murder us.
“They freaked me out”
“Not guilty”
I’m not joking.
Ooi787
It's always been like that, sadly. As much as I hope for a Star Trek future, it isn't very likely.
8:06 Fun fact: Sometimes unicorns are considered as symbols of Jesus cause "single horn represents the oneness of God, and who can only be tamed by a virgin, just as Jesus was born through the Virgin Mary"
I was gonna say, unicorns are literally in the King James version of the Bible.
@@rebeccasatterley1542 Ye- Idk why some christians decided it's symbol of evil
They are the national animal of Scotland
@@UrMentalHealthLiterally all Abrahambics are the tribal peer pressuring of mudhut dweller.
it is called "Fundementalism" and and the dregs of the middle ages witch hunts.
anything mystical is suspect
@@chrisinnes2128as the story goes, they were chosen because they were the only thing that hunted lions, the national animal of England.
Now if that doesn't summarise Scottish history I don't know what does.
Okay so- this might be a lil extreme on my part but bear with me.
This might sound dramatic as hell, but I've been bullied my entire school life. I understand why- seeing as I'm a socially anxious chaotic gay trans neurodivergent kid (putting it dramatically, obviously).
I never really spoke up about anything whenever it happened until at some point I burst in anger and broke something like a random rock- never really the bully or anyone.
So not so long ago, this kid keeps laying of my desk. Thing is, he did it purely to annoy me and he also looked at me and either did small remarks or gestures as if I was some kind of disease or savage.
So, one day, I was going through it and really wasn't feeling it. I go to my science class normally, sit at my desk, he lays on it like always, then I push the desk off him and he falls. I looked him dead in the eyes and told him "I hope that hurts." He asked me what my problem was, and I said "You are."
A bit after, this other guy I despise even more (he kept being really weird with his remarks and questions) comes up to me, checks what I was doing on my school laptop, and says "You can't do that." I looked him dead in the eyes, flipped him off vocally as the bell rang and walked away.
Then- one or two months later, this other guy in the same class is sitting in front of me and he laid even MORE on my desk- he took even more than half the room on the desk.
This time I asked him "Can you stop doing that?"
He laughed in my face and told me "No." while snickering and looking at his friends for backup or to show them how 'cool he was'. I stabbed him in the arm with my pencil and made him bleed. He almost punched me but said I was "lucky I am a girl" (I'm trans but didn't pass back then) and raged out of the class.
When I was sent to the counselor office, I calmly explained while stating I didn't regret it, and she let me go while allowing me a mental break from that class in a special room (best week ever).
The school never even called my parents- I told them that same night and they were okay with it, my mom was even proud I finally stood up for myself. Now, I make jokes all the time that I stabbed someone. I was also moved to the back of the class with no one sitting next or in front of me- my friend came to join later on- and I now have another thing to deal with, but I'll forever be proud of myself for it.
if i saw such lines in a book, id applaud the writer. the fact that you thought of those ON THE SPOT is even more impressive!! so good job and have a nice day since you deserve it.
@@krasistefanovlol AHH TY
There are people that say they're "religious" or are "a child of god" then proceed to do things that are said to be a sin in their religion.
I had a lovely interaction the day before yesterday. I am a caregiver for my mom, who is disabled. I park in the handicap for her, and will get out either the wheelchair or the rollater (walker but for outside and with a seat). I had parked in a grocery store parking lot and was working on getting out the rollater when a guy asked me if I needed assistance getting out my device. I told him that I didn't, but thank you. He was super willing and not judgmental at all; I am 31and am physically abled for the most part (I have a spine injury but it's mostly manageable at this point and not noticeable). He didn't see my mom in the passenger seat and thought that it was for me.
Although it wasn't for me, the lack of judgement and willingness to be helpful, but also respectful of being told help wasn't needed was an amazing thing to see. I am given a lot of dirty looks for parking in the handicap spot until people see my mom get out (who is very noticeably disabled). There are many younger people who are disabled, and a lot you cannot tell that they are because it's not something you can always see. I hope more people learn to be like him.
Yo I'm literally in the same boat I'm 30 so people automatically think my body is young and strong but I've had complications since before I was born and I'm caregiver to my mom as well and when I have to go get her a scooter when we go shopping and take it to the car so she can get in it people in the store look at me like I'm an abomination or something for taking a scooter
One thing that Jessica and Hannah said in a video about disability that really stuck with me is that the most visible disabilities can be the least disabling, and the least visible (or not visible) disabilities can actually be the ones that affect people's lives the most.
I remember one time in middle school, this guy kept bugging me, calling me names that were slightly on the edge between fine and not fine. I remembered this idea that my mom told me that boys sometimes bully girls because they're attracted to you (I'm a female aromantic, so I take an academic approach at most to this sort of thing). This gave me an idea. One time he was nagging me, as usual, and I turned around and asked, IN THE MIDDLE OF CLASS, "do you bother me because you're attracted to me?" He turned beet red and put his head on his desk. He was the class subject of ridicule for a long time after that.
Ahh the classic ,,they just like you" excuse, I love it so much😊
Well, it worked, didn't it?
Well he didn’t say no 🤔
I wouldn't care all that much if he had said yes. He would be gutsy to do so, and it was that typical environment where boys couldn't show any emotion without being called names.
The aromantic academic approach to boys trying to bully you is the best tbh.
Oh you want to bully me? Well you're my test subject for human behaviour now. I will study you like a bug.
44:45 There are three things all wise men fear: the sea in storm, a night with no moon, and the anger of a gentle man
I have a bad habit of shutting down instead of reacting when people bother me, physically/verbally, whatever. But somethings happen enough that they go too far and I snap. It only happens every once in a while, and I've gotten better since getting out of the horrible emotional trauma that is middle school, but I did throw a rock at a kid once after almost 2 years of bullying while I was trying to walk home from school. I have good aim, and hit him while he was running from me (he left me alone when he realized I wasn't afraid to do it again).
So it turns out my mom and I have similar tempers, and I found this out after I became an adult. Learned that one time when she was around the same age I was ^, she was playing field hockey for a school class and a couple guys pushed her too far. She went after them and completely forgot she was holding the hockey stick until they started screaming. No one got hurt, and she only got in a bit of trouble, but they left her alone after that.
About the catcalling thing: One time i went absolutely feral at a man that was always sitting in the outdoor space of a bar and was constantly catcalling every person who remotely looked female. I had to walk there to get to a friends house and every time he screamed very off-hand disgusting things, it was so annoying and i decided one day i'll just f with him so he hopefully stops. So i put make-up on, dressed real fancy and went on my way. Of course he was there at the bar again, harassing everyone. So as i walk by he screams at me, i look at him like "oooh you mean meee, strong man?" went right to him and as soon as i was just a few meters away i started acting like a maniac, screaming, growling, hissing, moving like gollum. You get the point. I'm pretty sure he shit his pants by the look on his face. 😂 After that i went on my merry way and never saw him again. 🤷😅
I feel like that strategy can backfire so easily. Like, in your scenario it's a bit harder because the dude wasn't expecting it, and yet if he was drunk enough he would 100% buy into it.
But if I were in the same situation as the guy in the video, I will full on capitalize on it. "I like your biceps, but I like them more without the shirt", "You're gonna love what I have without the pants then".
Do I want to do the girl? No. But gawd danmit I would love to be "that guy".
When people decide that the right answer to an issue is to try and prove a point in a very dumb way, they kinda deserve their scheme to backfire.
Don't do things just because you're angry. 9/10 times it can end up badly.
Of course she’s not gonna want the unicorns anymore - you’ve shown her with enough influence, her mum is willing to destroy the things that mean the most to you. It’s dangerous to carry on emotionally investing in things, in case someone finds them ‘satanic’ and buzzes in your mum’s ear enough.
I accidentally traumatised some girl working in the supermarket.
For reference: my dad passed away (by a sudden accident) when I was 18, and 6 days before Father’s Day.
It took me and my mom around 4 days before we went to the store, because I was graduating in a few weeks and my mom had bought me a beer pong table.
When we tried to get our package (it didn’t say what was in). The woman happily gave it to me and mom while saying “you can see that Father’s Day is around the corner, huh? 😉”. I was shocked and started crying and went out of the store (since I didn’t know how to react on the accident there happend 4 days before). The lady looked confused at my mom, who replied “her father passed away 4 days ago”…
I still feel bad for the lady in the store, she was nice, but just on a really bad day.
This reminds me on an incident When I was in 6th grade.
A bit of backstory, in fourth grade I had dealt with a really shitty and abusive teacher, so much that for the next year I had to homeschool. During the time with the teacher, the other kids always called me annoying (undiagnosed adhd) as well as thinking the teachers abusive behavior was justified (duh they were 10). In 6th grade I went into a homeschool program so I could ease my way back into the school system again. One day this kid called me annoying, and it stung as it brought back memories of what had happened a few years prior. I told him to stop and he refused. The teachers could tell that he was triggering me (as my parents had informed them of the situation I was in) and told him to stop, but he didn’t listen. He was clearly having fun rialing me up, and the teachers (all of the, being their first year of teaching as it was a new program) didn’t know what to do. I eventually got pissed of and bitch slapped him in the face. I panicked for a quick second, thinking that the teachers would get angry and hit me or something, but literally no one gave a shit, some were even smiling and holding in laughter after seeing some tiny ass 6th grader make some 7th grader twice the size of her almost fall down. Not saying it’s ok to slap someone for calling you annoying, but he never bothered me again
On a similar note to the story around 25:23, when people ask about “when are you having kids” or grand kids, I always tell them “stop pressuring people to have sex” it always shuts them up ❤
A+ Response! 😂
Lol it amazes me how many people think their business is in between mine and my partners genitals
That's a good one actually